How To Know They Are The ONE

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Vlad Savchuk

Vlad Savchuk

Күн бұрын

How To Know They Are The ONE
In this week's live stream, my wife and I discuss in detail issues found in the dating world. We go through 13 red flags that you should look out for and avoid while cultivating a relationship. We share the difference between real love and obsessive love and answer your questions at the end.
Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
Four Principles to Dating
0:50 - The Bible focuses more on purity than who one should date
2:58 - Be the right person rather than finding the right person
6:07 - The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with
20:22 - Find the right person by following God's Word, common sense, and listening to godly counsel
13 Red Flags in Dating:
22:28 - 1. Having a relationship with God is not a priority
23:52 - 2. Their actions and words don't match
24:38 - 3. If they have close friends who are not committed to the Lord
25:16 - 4. Has a wandering eye
27:24 - 5. Recently got out of a relationship without healing properly
30:42 - 6. A person shows signs of controlling or abusive behavior
32:18 - Six characteristics of obsessive love
33:19 - 7. They have sinful habits, addictions, and struggles
35:59 - 8. They don't respect purity and have no desire to wait till marriage to have sex
38:03 - 9. You don't want kids to become like them
38:53 - 10. You don't have peace about marrying this person
29:29 - 11. Your mentors and family feel iffy about this person
40:11 - 12. This person has distracted you from God, the church, and close friends
42:19 - 13. You are already praying for God to change that person
42:48 - Final thoughts about red flags in dating
47:45 - How did you know I was the one for you?
53:22 - Overcome the fear of the past
59:36 - How did you know the person before was not the one?
Taking Questions:
1:05:36 - Should people marry a person with the same spiritual gifts
1:06:45 - Kissing before marriage?
1:08:09 - How to deal with your man if he is tempted to watch porn
1:11:30 - Do consequences follow you?
1:13:10 - Do you have to go to church to meet a man who loves God?
1:16:44 - How do you balance waiting on the Lord to bring a spouse vs dating apps?
1:19:52 - If my BF/GF is against deliverance?
1:21:12 - Is it okay to be married to my husband who is not a believer?
1:22:04 - Will God make me marry a girl I don't like?
1:24:53 - How do I start working on my marriage?
1:25:57 - Is there an age difference that should be avoided?
1:27:57 - Should I marry within my ethnicity?
1:36:00 - Shop our merch!
TAKEAWAY NOTES FROM TONIGHT’S STREAM:
1. The Bible focuses on walking in purity more than on how one should date.
Purity is being without mixture.
It’s an issue of the heart, not the body. Ps.24v4; Mt. 5v8
It’s not a point you reach but a pursuit after God.
2. The Bible focuses more on being the right person than on finding the right person.
3. The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with. (2 Corinthians 6v14)
4. The Bible doesn’t teach that God plays a lottery with relationships, He gives liberty to marry whom we wish. (1 Corinthians 7v39)
• It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person than to wait for God to fix the wrong person you bring to God.
• Don’t be blind to what you see during dating: a spoonful in dating will be tons in marriage.
• Before we get married, we tend to focus on what we want; but when we are married, we will be focused on what we need.
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@vladhungrygen
@vladhungrygen Жыл бұрын
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@jeremycompton3010
@jeremycompton3010 Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Vlad, many happy returns. Have a great time with Lana and your family. 😊👍
@marylinelai8073
@marylinelai8073 Жыл бұрын
Blessed Birthday Pastor, more in love with Jesus & enjoy with Lana & family 😊 very good teaching as usual !
@bryan0710
@bryan0710 Жыл бұрын
the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻‍♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
@Dynastyproductions94
@Dynastyproductions94 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Vlad! This is the clarity I need. This video + Sacred Search by Gary Thomas has been super helpful. "Lord, will you please give me a woman who loves the Lord more than me" WOW.
@jeaniedascotte4351
@jeaniedascotte4351 Жыл бұрын
Only in the Lord
@hannahcharmaine8343
@hannahcharmaine8343 Жыл бұрын
"If you're addicted, you need deliverance and discipline, not dating." Come on somebody 🔥🔥🔥
@Anthony-yy3kc
@Anthony-yy3kc Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more with you. I was sexually abused and humiliated as a child and grew up incapable of dating or having a gf. Although I felt the physical desire for sex I was also scared to even try to do it. I never dated successfully so that it became a dating relationship. So I retreated inward and engaged in fantasy and self pleasuring. Now I am in recovery and the cure includes no dating and no sexual activity. I am single and celibate and abstinent. I'm finally at peace knowing this is the life I want for me now!
@kyang435
@kyang435 Жыл бұрын
Come on somebody! 🔥
@dinahduke1982
@dinahduke1982 Жыл бұрын
​@@Anthony-yy3kcGod be with you and keep you❣️
@davidwright1115
@davidwright1115 Жыл бұрын
Hard truth right here
@alexisoleo
@alexisoleo Жыл бұрын
"If you are addicted you have company "
@abbz718
@abbz718 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is not your identity, your identity is in Christ! 🔥🔥🔥
@josephtorres7869
@josephtorres7869 5 ай бұрын
May the good Lord Jesus Christ Almighty bless your heart my sister in Christ Amen 🙏 ❤️
@505kylacakes
@505kylacakes 8 ай бұрын
"The perfect love casts out fear" that's a good one!!!!
@tchissolafigueiredo5785
@tchissolafigueiredo5785 5 ай бұрын
I’m in Russia. Got saved last year and changed my life 360. And I love Pastor Vlad’s preaching ❤️❤️ bless you and your wife
@msluna202
@msluna202 Жыл бұрын
"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!
@dwilldoit
@dwilldoit 11 ай бұрын
I'm single for 3yrs. No active addictions, looking to date.?
@josephtorres7869
@josephtorres7869 6 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@borogirlinjapan2640
@borogirlinjapan2640 5 ай бұрын
​@@dwilldoit yeah😃😁😆
@chloeg.1137
@chloeg.1137 Жыл бұрын
Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!
@martinnyagah4313
@martinnyagah4313 Жыл бұрын
I am a new creation
@hearinglove
@hearinglove Жыл бұрын
So good, I agree having this experience myself!💜✝️💜🕊️🙏🕊️🫂
@ravneetkaur5367
@ravneetkaur5367 Жыл бұрын
Yes Amen!!
@garret8787
@garret8787 Жыл бұрын
I live Vlad’s messages, but it’s kind of hypocritical to say to wait months before getting into a new relationship but Lana literally started monkey branching over to Vlad while in was dating someone else.
@imari9997
@imari9997 11 ай бұрын
@@garret8787😅 I have a question, what does donkey branching even mean?
@nampiimasarah5535
@nampiimasarah5535 Жыл бұрын
Lord please bless me with a husband who loves you more than anyone or anything. Amen
@paniikhapi7543
@paniikhapi7543 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@AngelaItsme
@AngelaItsme Ай бұрын
This!
@---wu3qj
@---wu3qj 6 ай бұрын
You both are so precious! This old lady is in tears listening to you. I love you in Christ, Grandma
@melissawabacha
@melissawabacha Жыл бұрын
I was waiting for God to show me my husband 😂😂😂😂😂 but thank you for this video. It has changed my perspective
@mercynawila4440
@mercynawila4440 Жыл бұрын
I know right 😂😂😂💕
@bricklyphilomina5508
@bricklyphilomina5508 Жыл бұрын
True Sam here😅
@molife7044
@molife7044 Жыл бұрын
Me too! And I prayed for God to show me something and this popped up and boy! Did this clear this up for me🌈
@thatszheemakhanya
@thatszheemakhanya Жыл бұрын
It really did lol ❤️😂
@marcy21ish
@marcy21ish Жыл бұрын
Same here lol 😅
@loseweightwithmealplanning
@loseweightwithmealplanning Жыл бұрын
This is such rich teaching and THIS is the kind of dating, marriage and singleness advice we need more of in the Church! I’ve been single as a Pringle for a while 😂 and I’m not complaining because Christ has done soo much healing and work in this season Glory This is good teaching.
@rebeccacochrane8552
@rebeccacochrane8552 Жыл бұрын
🇦🇺
@wisdomnworship
@wisdomnworship Жыл бұрын
Amen! I totally relate, and agree. 👍🏽
@sarahmaebarroga1043
@sarahmaebarroga1043 Жыл бұрын
I am related… that’s me
@kathleenkearney1202
@kathleenkearney1202 Жыл бұрын
Excellent. Sunday school should teach this. Parent's should also be taught this. Preach this EVERWHERE. Thank you. God bless you. I love that you look for one that loves God more then you....then they know how to love. Stating flags is so perfect. And recognizing to be aware of loss of peace. You can add to your teaching to recognize confusion. Should you or shouldn't you. God is not the author of confusion but of love power and a sound mind. Not a confused mind.
@bryan0710
@bryan0710 Жыл бұрын
most 90% of these steps are wrongly guided and said for a Men or Women of God..... the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻‍♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......
@user-jx9ok5dj8p
@user-jx9ok5dj8p Жыл бұрын
Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus
@daylilopez6350
@daylilopez6350 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for ur job I had to talk to one couple years ago and I'm very happy of how sweet the lady was she saved me and so did my Lord ❤🙌🙏
@Lovelybeliever11_11
@Lovelybeliever11_11 Жыл бұрын
Amen. She is telling my story. I have a dirty past, always feared I will never been married with a good Godly man.
@cluesonliving101
@cluesonliving101 Жыл бұрын
OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me
@elizabethcreated9263
@elizabethcreated9263 Жыл бұрын
Haha that spoke to me too:)
@pennyhughes3671
@pennyhughes3671 Жыл бұрын
My bedroom is a smelly dump. And I love it its the only room I don't have to clean 😁
@kiavaxxaskew
@kiavaxxaskew 10 ай бұрын
@@pennyhughes3671 activated carbon, wax melts & a wax warmer, air purifier, and vacuum cleaner.
@jeanalanis
@jeanalanis Жыл бұрын
Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.
@PurposefulLife123
@PurposefulLife123 Жыл бұрын
I was changed my believe after I heard that very advice from him when preached series on his single ready to mingle book
@maria_grasya777
@maria_grasya777 8 ай бұрын
😂relate
@edwinnora618
@edwinnora618 4 ай бұрын
not me praying he is more romantic
@marytetreault8168
@marytetreault8168 Жыл бұрын
Very good! "Men usually fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears." Great point!
@MariAna-vu1kb
@MariAna-vu1kb 9 ай бұрын
I wish my daughters find a man like this pastor!! It is a meddle in a haystack....and he was sound enough to find a lady of the Lord like his wife! She also was wise enough and blessed enough to choose him. Thank you sooo much for allowing Father to use your talents! I am sharing this with my children. May be high-school kids, Yet is never to early to learn!
@melbacolaco7174
@melbacolaco7174 Жыл бұрын
my son is 22 yrs old holding a small job. Spend all his income on friends and girl friend. They takes loans Pastor please pray for him to get rid of all this and take up. Jobs with better prospects. And get rid of all bad habits.
@ObeyJesusOurLord
@ObeyJesusOurLord Жыл бұрын
Father, please help Melba's son to become a responsible, godly young man. In every direction he goes, may he run into You -- hear Your voice, see Scriptures, hear Your Word, follow Your leading. May He not be able to resist Your Spirit and Your love. In Jesus's Mighty Name.....
@pradeepsilas8149
@pradeepsilas8149 Жыл бұрын
In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.
@bpe9578
@bpe9578 Жыл бұрын
Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook,etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.
@imnoemit
@imnoemit Жыл бұрын
Whom one and they follow says a lot yes I have realize
@JennaProvenzale
@JennaProvenzale 9 ай бұрын
Lana's story made me cry because I can relate so much to what she said. 😢 We need to remind ourselves that we are a new creation. We are not our past.
@julietdumas2356
@julietdumas2356 Жыл бұрын
I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself. Thank you
@faithledbetter5664
@faithledbetter5664 9 ай бұрын
Did you divorce your husband?
@ronniehull6746
@ronniehull6746 11 ай бұрын
As a single man , open to a kingdom marriage , this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them
@suzie2729
@suzie2729 7 ай бұрын
watching this now a year after being with someone who I wasn’t really meant to be with but ignoring all the red flags it’s crazy how all of this is ringing truth into my ear after learning all of this the hard way. But it really stuck with me and this video just reminded me how vital it is to actually appreciate my identity and being single to heal from all of the things I’ve been through. I can only thank the Lord.
@shawnspeller492
@shawnspeller492 Жыл бұрын
A friend of mine married an Elder of a church. Reads and pray all the time and yet he cheated on her twice and slept with a family member of hers. Ask God for his discernment when being approached by Any man.
@mongsaishiu4416
@mongsaishiu4416 Жыл бұрын
Re-watching from India🇮🇳. Kohima, Nagaland✝️😇.
@PurposefulLife123
@PurposefulLife123 Жыл бұрын
Same here, from nagaland my most favorite man of God, I wish & praying that the world still have more man like pastor Vlad & one to be my husband after I'm ready for marriage
@johanolca2772
@johanolca2772 Жыл бұрын
Thank God I found the ONE, you just confirmed my whole walk in this. Listening to you feels like home coming😄
@chynabarnescb
@chynabarnescb Жыл бұрын
So beautiful congratulations
@Varaidzo1
@Varaidzo1 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord! God bless your relationship immensely
@ArmyScoutMom
@ArmyScoutMom Жыл бұрын
"Principles not preferences." - Love that!
@adrianallovera4439
@adrianallovera4439 9 ай бұрын
I’ve been praying for such a while for confirmation from God that my fiancé is who he ordained me to marry, and not even a couple hours ago and I asked for confirmation again and then he brings me across this video! God is good
@camilepapi
@camilepapi 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Lana, I needed that reminder to know that I am an amazing woman of God and my past does not define me, it informs and gives me wisdom. I am good enough and I will continue to work on being the wife my husband dreams of. I continue to pray for your ministry. Thank you Pastor Vlad....I have been following your series on the Holy Spirit and He has literally become my best friend. Continue to shine for God.
@ysierra1724
@ysierra1724 6 ай бұрын
I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.
@yellygirly01
@yellygirly01 10 ай бұрын
It's so ecouraging to hear that Lana had fears even though she knew he was the right and had that peace. It gives me hope. Thank you guys ❤
@peaches.4686
@peaches.4686 Жыл бұрын
This video was sent directly to me by God...as a teen christian who just started living for the Lord, this was the red light. God is amazing. All glory be to God for sending you.🙏
@paradiselivinginpurpose
@paradiselivinginpurpose Жыл бұрын
When she said: "I AM WORTHY. Jesus Christ has cleansed my past and doesn't see me like that..." Thank you so much for sharing that - it spoke to me and I know it spoke to many other females as well
@elijahbanks4369
@elijahbanks4369 5 ай бұрын
My fiancéé is Indian and i'm African american. Her family always wanted her to marry an Indian guy, but my family just desired me to marry a woman of God and the person God had for me. There is the culture barrier between us, but mainly for her family, but we're in love and we're seeing God move on our behalf, and in her family's hearts 🙏🏿
@flightforlight157
@flightforlight157 Жыл бұрын
For two days I had feelings of anxiety, worry and loneliness, and I watched Isaiah's and Vlad's videos each time, the content not being relevant. After a few minutes in the video all those bad feelings even loneliness went away, disappeared. It's incredible because that has never happened before with other videos. God is blessing me through your videos I guess🙂
@francesreneecrafttilson4587
@francesreneecrafttilson4587 Жыл бұрын
I just sent this to my daughter and the young man she is with and is now pregnant for I think you I don't know how it showed up on my phone but I think it's powerful information God bless you both her name is Kayla his name is Corey and it's been volatile and they're not married but they do have a baby on the way and she needs to take care of herself she is 33 and there needs to be Deliverance healing and I believe in God's perfect will and plan be done in both of their lives
@kimberleydidei9081
@kimberleydidei9081 Жыл бұрын
Amen! What a great teaching. I’m watching from Papua New Guinea and I’m so glad I watched this in my single season. Jesus is the only way. I’m so blessed by this Word.
@jgoldy5166
@jgoldy5166 10 ай бұрын
Recently single after a 2 1/2 year relationship, I was engaged for 3 months and it just ended, I am lost and I want to be healed, after hearing this I will take my time to let god do his work on me and appreciate every aspect of my singleness and the power that comes with walking with Christ🙏🏾❤️❤️ you all do so much for us through God, with your messages
@Dan_LTL_909
@Dan_LTL_909 8 ай бұрын
I was with my ex wife for 17yrs. And married for of those. We were in church on and off but not committed. I have been back whole seeking God's will for my life for 6months now. I have meet someone that I feel like may be the 1, but Only if God truly puts her in my life. We meet in a divorce care group, but my focus is more on God and who he is, if he ever wants me to be remarriage. God has got to be #1 in your life. Yes and I know marriage should not be broken my wife had an affair and I still tried to make things work. I did what I could do in my marriage to make it work. I did not want God to be mad at me for getting divorced.
@jgoldy5166
@jgoldy5166 8 ай бұрын
@@Dan_LTL_909 dude that’s understandable for sure i hope this person you met is the one for you🙏🏾 God knows our hearts and I am sure if you put him first he will show you when the time comes who is for us my brother❤️ thank you for sharing your story man🙏🏾
@kathleenwilliams9002
@kathleenwilliams9002 7 ай бұрын
being single is so liberating I was once hurt so badly I thought I couldn’t be able to move forward, but with God he sure knows how to heal you’ll look back at it like wow
@gabbybeggs
@gabbybeggs 10 ай бұрын
That was absolutely incredible! Thank you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@aleasharowe2551
@aleasharowe2551 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! I think if it makes your mind go to a lustful or sinful place, cut it off! Ladies, if he won’t wait/wants to push the boundaries he doesn’t honor his or your bow to the Lord. I’ve learned this the hard and painful way. Praise the Lord for working despite us and using our brokenness!! 💯🙏🏻🙏🏻
@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251
@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251 Жыл бұрын
I say this with all respect. On the question of should you marry someone from different culture? If you are believers, you are citizens of the kingdom. Your marriage, decisions are Christ centred. If you are born again and the other person is born again , you solve your problems with your knees. Through prayers , fasting loving each other as Christ loved us. For me , I would marry anyone that Loves the Lord more than me. Being a citizen of the kingdom is important to me than where they come from. We will make it because our marriage will be Christ centred.
@honestfriend767
@honestfriend767 Жыл бұрын
Ok, but make sure your values line up. The culture thing isn’t as important as your values. Having different values will make your marriage bumpy
@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251
@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251 Жыл бұрын
@@honestfriend767 ❤️
@emmawells5684
@emmawells5684 Жыл бұрын
This message really blessed me!! Thank you both for your obedience!
@cynthiadiaz7275
@cynthiadiaz7275 11 ай бұрын
I respect you both so much. I have learned a lot from you both in just a month since I've found your content. It teared me up when your wife said she's a new creation. I have felt this way most of my life not feeling good enough. You both helped changed my life for the better. God is so good for bringing me to your videos.
@cassandrarodriguez5150
@cassandrarodriguez5150 Жыл бұрын
EVERYONE needs to hear this. ❤️
@mayurgaikwad6866
@mayurgaikwad6866 Жыл бұрын
Learn a lot from Your Book Single, ready to mingle.! Really this book played a huge role in my breakthrough from brokenness ❤❤
@Monalisa0622
@Monalisa0622 Жыл бұрын
I'm reading God therapy but will purchase Single ready to mingle next.
@bryan0710
@bryan0710 Жыл бұрын
🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂😞😞
@bryan0710
@bryan0710 Жыл бұрын
Noo my Brothers Dont fall in the Enemies trap.... All you have to do is WAIT for Gods perfect timing, God will Bring to you your Women or Men of God he has already DESTINED just for you Since the creation of the World that will Glorify his name in both of yalls Purpose....
@Samara077
@Samara077 8 ай бұрын
This brought so much clarity ; thank you and God bless you guys !! ❤
@irinanikole3181
@irinanikole3181 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely revelatory word. Thank you both!
@fatimagaro3804
@fatimagaro3804 Жыл бұрын
Rewatching from Vegas and this is an on time message💕
@Alex_Valero
@Alex_Valero Жыл бұрын
Rewatching from DFW. Recently dove into the word, and thankful for the confirmation. Have been in a season of solitude, focusing on self improvement relationship with God, health and wellness.
@realty8551
@realty8551 Жыл бұрын
Ugh! This is liberating. Sharing testimony is rare and takes courage. God richly bless you
@kellymorrell3508
@kellymorrell3508 10 ай бұрын
There was sooo much goodness in this. I started writing a comment and lost it, but I'm just going to say, all of this touched me over and over again. Thank you sooo much!!!! I needed every bit.
@fruitof.thespirit
@fruitof.thespirit Жыл бұрын
The timing of this video! Hallelujah!
@kevingoodwin1951
@kevingoodwin1951 Жыл бұрын
I'm watching from Albany, Georgia! I've followed Pastor Vlad for a bit on IG, and I really appreciate the fact that you always dig deep into the Word and do your best to present it without any bias!! Thanks a ton for the wisdom y'all have bestowed upon me, as I've basically been waiting on an angel or a sign from God to show me who to date and eventually marry! May the good Lord continue to bless both y'all immensely!!! 🙌
@baileygracehinzo
@baileygracehinzo Жыл бұрын
You guys! This is hands down the most wisdom filled marriage video iv ever heard. Thank you SO much.
@andrewdepaiva991
@andrewdepaiva991 9 ай бұрын
This was a blessing! God bless you both tremendously!
@davidrodda5466
@davidrodda5466 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your honesty and openness Vlad and Lana in explaining how you came together and explaining the red flags that show that a relationship should not happen. Yes the Lord has to be number one in your marriage to have his blessing.
@kedosity3223
@kedosity3223 Жыл бұрын
I love vlad and Isaiah so much they help me a lot ,ever since I started going to church I’ve been watching them and they helped me understand things so vividly the main thing I wanna focus on now is to stop getting overwhelmingly nervous before doing anything thank u vlad and Isaiah love from the Bahamas ❤️
@charmariah4766
@charmariah4766 Жыл бұрын
Me too!
@pattidugo9583
@pattidugo9583 10 ай бұрын
Love that you both were honest & came from this biblically. Love you both ❤
@jumssmonta4939
@jumssmonta4939 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful message Pastor Vlad and sis. Lana. God bless you more!
@tracyloveofficial6701
@tracyloveofficial6701 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to listen to,,,, may the lord bless you
@KeelinBonillaRodriguez
@KeelinBonillaRodriguez Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your transparency! I don’t have mentors or spiritual leaders other than my parents but you both are like my mentors.
@samuelobiorah
@samuelobiorah 11 ай бұрын
This is a full Masterclass! Thank you Pastors Vlad and Lana. Everything you've shared is nothing but what we need. God bless you both!
@redchucks4
@redchucks4 Жыл бұрын
I listen to your streams while driving, good stuff!!
@gloriadaughterofthemosthig8441
@gloriadaughterofthemosthig8441 Жыл бұрын
I just love this couple! To God be the glory
@maryberry4295
@maryberry4295 Жыл бұрын
This was a very blessing to me. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@dinahduke1982
@dinahduke1982 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this info. This is much needed. God be with you both for being such blessings💌
@michaelaozuka5179
@michaelaozuka5179 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lana and Vlad for your honesty and vulnerability 🙏🕊 this was a great podcast. May God continue to bless you both 🙏🙏🙏🙌
@solomontabhari4473
@solomontabhari4473 Жыл бұрын
The whole message is awesome but what got me the most is your honesty and vulnerability, thank you very much.
@Eileen-nv6dd
@Eileen-nv6dd Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for being so candid. Bless you. I really needed to hear this as I feel ready to start dating after leaving domestic abusive marriage 14 years ago.
@Paulfactor
@Paulfactor 9 ай бұрын
That was amazing! Both set free from fears to walk in the freedom of love. Thank you for sharing such beautiful wisdom. :)
@tinaingram8343
@tinaingram8343 Жыл бұрын
I am so thankful for this teaching. I have listened to this about 5 times . It’s such amazing teaching. Thank you for your obedience to the lord
@bisernavrtnica
@bisernavrtnica Жыл бұрын
Happy birthday Vlad!😊 I wish you and your wife all the best with your ministry and I am happy to be accepted in. ☺ And also thank you for your present! 😀🥂🎁🎂 😀
@betseydavis6511
@betseydavis6511 Жыл бұрын
Powerful teaching ! Please do more of these types of teaching!
@katenelson2476
@katenelson2476 Жыл бұрын
Watching the replay at the gym tonight ❤ thank you pastor Vlad and Lana for this video. Your marriage is inspiring
@joanajayi-majebi638
@joanajayi-majebi638 Жыл бұрын
Watching the replay.... blessed by the nuggets you have shared
@conniegeronaberja2455
@conniegeronaberja2455 Жыл бұрын
watching from Bahrain. woow this is so powerful message.
@rickyvasquez2133
@rickyvasquez2133 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lana and Vlad This was a blessing especially being reminder the importance of not rushing into things when you are single and dating . I’m turning 38 on Sunday and I’ve been through one marriage and other relationships that have failed multiple times . However , I’m grateful for content like this that reminds me it’s ok to be single and serving the Lord until that special time for the right person by first becoming the right person through the word of God . And praying to finish my bachelors degree in seminary and to share the gospel !
@debsalle5189
@debsalle5189 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lana for sharing your fears. Watching from Papua New Guinea. 🙏🏽
@darrylwalkerjr.4169
@darrylwalkerjr.4169 Жыл бұрын
Great teaching! So powerful! Thank you'll!
@fatmataturay5418
@fatmataturay5418 Жыл бұрын
Am Thankful for this teaching today, I pray God see me overcome what am going through
@sibesonangalelwa5228
@sibesonangalelwa5228 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this life-changing message. I love learning from you. May God bless you both and Happy Birthday Pastor Vlad
@theantoniosilva
@theantoniosilva Жыл бұрын
Love always gives freedom, trust, a choice 👏🏼! So very true 32:58
@tatyanaanisa
@tatyanaanisa Жыл бұрын
This video slapped me in the face in a good way!!!! Love the advice
@jimmymerveil9899
@jimmymerveil9899 Жыл бұрын
That's totally true that we are not perfect! Glory to God! Thank you so much! This message deeply touches my heart!
@jeremyvrecko2853
@jeremyvrecko2853 Жыл бұрын
This whole video answer a question I posed, to a fellowship group last night. God certainly works in wonderful ways! 😄 Praise the Lord 🙏
@Kavy-kay
@Kavy-kay 8 ай бұрын
🥺🥺🥺!! I wish i saw this video much earlier! I went on and dated someone that is not in the Lord, got into fornication and later got a daughter...my daughter is only 5 months old, i decided to leave her father (who was at the time my fiancee)not because his a bad person but because we were unequally yoked and he is not in the Lord i lacked the peace of God and never knew it...i was so sure God would change him along the way..i forced him to come to the lord and love him but i learnt the hard way that am not the convictor of the hearts of men!!😂😂! Next time god willing,i will be on guard and instead of looking for certain qualities,God should help me work on my character and qualities! Thank you so much for sharing this pastor vlad and lady Lana!
@Ru-shedi
@Ru-shedi 8 ай бұрын
Sending you love and God’s Grace and knowledge as you walk this road. Be strong and seek God more at this point. It’s done already and nothing can change, instead you can make things better by seeking the Lord more than ever before. Do not let your mind make you feel you are the worst person.
@jonathanholmes6272
@jonathanholmes6272 Жыл бұрын
Im honestly blessed hearing these. It changes my perception in certain areas of Life and knowing Gods Grace is always enough to lead us to repentance and lean towards his Love for us making us worthy and forever captivated. God bless you both
@josieloredo
@josieloredo Жыл бұрын
El campo Tx I appreciate this very much! You guys did well providing wisdom, knowledge and understanding. 🎉
@njerimwaura
@njerimwaura Жыл бұрын
I love Lana, super truthful and honest… you two compliment each other so well.. God bless you mighty for this discussion. It’s helping me out greatly. Thanks again
@mercynawila4440
@mercynawila4440 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting topic and wonderful teaching. Love you guys 😘💗
@TheMiniWhiteHouse_
@TheMiniWhiteHouse_ 11 ай бұрын
This is so practical! I keep rewinding to make sure I catch every word.
@Irina-nv8lf
@Irina-nv8lf 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! It is a blessing for me! God bless you all!
@yeshuaowen1186
@yeshuaowen1186 Жыл бұрын
Watching from Zambia, this is powerful 🔥🔥🔥
@jen.h907
@jen.h907 Жыл бұрын
RIGHT ON SPOT FOR ALL SINGLES ABOUT TO MAKE A WRONG CHOICE,may God guide those to this video and intervene them not to make a mistake🔥🔥cmmon pastor vlad 👏👏
@redlfox6360
@redlfox6360 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe it I was just asking God about this topic and here is this video. Thank you for this message Vlad and Lana. Thank you for all of your works In Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤️
@Amani1.M
@Amani1.M Жыл бұрын
Me too I feel that GOD might be leading me to a relationship I need this
@msluna202
@msluna202 Жыл бұрын
@@Amani1.M me too! I've been dating someone for 4 years who has been leading me down a destructive path. Drinking smoking, you name it. Praise the Lord Almighty for taking the mask off my eyes (which comes from the enemy!) so that we can see clearly and walk with the Lord while he holds us and sustains us with His Right Arm! Praise God.
@gracegama4360
@gracegama4360 5 ай бұрын
This had me in tears. Such a powerful message…. Truly what I needed to hear…
@mariepillai6157
@mariepillai6157 Жыл бұрын
Wow! I am so glad you are having this discussion publicly. If only I heard this amazing advice. Everyone needs to hear this, to make this important decision..
@davienadams9446
@davienadams9446 Жыл бұрын
Pure thought pure action. Pursue God 🙏✝️ endure until the end. Having an intimate relationship with Jesus is better than any human being!
@eturcios1984
@eturcios1984 Жыл бұрын
This was really revealing to me thank you so much.. my Ex dumped me and crazy enough she is the reason why I honestly came to the feet of God and have giving myself even more to him about 2 years ago we went to the same church and I started to get more into touch to the Lord and guess what a lot of negativity started to happen to myself and then we grew apart. She was and is very knowledgeable about the Bible but I found out she is dating someone who is part of the Yoruba religion or the man she is dating now practices Santeria just like her ex who she had a son with prior to me. This makes a lot of sense to me now so glad I came across this video things are just making a lot of sense to me now that I am single I want to establish a relationship with God not with a woman. Amen 🙏🏻
@sandraalmonte4929
@sandraalmonte4929 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Some great points were made. And I enjoyed seeing the communication (verbal and non-verbal) between you guys. May the Lord continue to bless you.
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