Vlog | Donut Sunday

[@smscrapper]

To answer your question: Bring the kids with you wherever you go. NEVER leave them in the car alone. Also, the statement on criticism, and how it 100% reflects on the critic is not 100% accurate. Constructive criticism does exist, but if the criticized fails to acknowledge the difference among its critics, and devalues the input of their true supporters, they will end up portraying themselves as self serving, and eventually loose their audience. It’s ok to be sad, it’s ok to struggle, it’s ok to thrive, it’s ok to be happy. Just don’t forget the value of who’s watching with good intentions, if you are serious about having this be your career for the long haul. Don’t let one group ruin it all for you.

[@cathleenm9986]

Alright. In response to the Instagram poll.... I enjoy looking at comments in most of the channels I follow. As you say, it’s a community. But I’m scrolling through them in this video and I didn’t go through them all but the majority of what I read was either positive, constructive criticism, or general questions. While people who leave blatant messages like “you don’t shower” (like the screenshot you posted on Instagram) are clearly not cool and unwarranted, I’m having trouble understanding what is the problem with all the others to warrant such a question in the first place. It comes across as “I don’t like your question/feedback so that must mean it’s negative” which seems like it’s becoming off putting for many, including myself.

[@pugmom8239]

100% agree with this. Well said.

[@magsrowe3651]

👏🏻

[@oliviamarie70]

Totally agree with you! Once you put up a poll on Instagram and I answered you with a very positive and kind response only to not ever get a thank you. If you want connection with your community, turning off comments isn't a good idea. Just my opinion

[@calivibes_84]

I don’t think anything is wrong with the others. Seems she must get a lot of the ones you called unwarranted and must erase them? They’re the problem. At first I thought she didn’t like constructive criticism either but if she’s erasing stuff then I missed the real problem comments. The two examples she showed were rude af and I haven’t seen stuff like that.

[@calivibes_84]

@@oliviamarie70 To be fair she must get tons of responses and can’t get to every single one. I responded once and got a message and the next time I responded I didn’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ambersn2032]

You take your kids in with you! Even if it's a lot work, it's for their safety. I have twins. I know it's hard but you don't leave kids in a car by themselves for a multitude of reasons!! Geesh.

[@jennybastrup]

I don't believe she said she did- and she might be considering it due to the pandemic rather than convenience.

[@ambersn2032]

@@jennybastrup She questioned what she should do!! She insinuated that the only reason she wouldn't leave them in the car is because she'd be afraid someone in her area would contact CPS! As if the risk to their wellbeing isn't enough! And then she said, "what are you supposed to do?" That is why so many people are commenting on it. And a pandemic is no excuse either.

[@colz83]

@@ambersn2032 She questioned what she COULD do. She gets it delivered because she doesn't like either option.

[@CatherineShoresHMN]

For cripes sake....she didn’t say she was considering leaving them in the car. Stop looking to criticize and pick people apart.

[@CatherineShoresHMN]

@@ambersn2032 ‘insinuated’ is your perception. Get a life....

[@KatinaMartinez-01]

Maybe it might be a good idea to prioritize sleep. I remember many of your vlogs you sharing how important 8 to 9 hours of sleep was for you and how you didn’t feel good or like yourself and less you got that amount of sleep. If the kids are sleeping through the night maybe it’s time to balance some sleep with what you’re doing for working out. And I would love it if you did a video sharing why or how you need all the money time that you have. Your children are in daycare five days a week for several hours a day, you only have them 50% of the time so that also carves out a lot of time for you to have me time. Why exactly do you need so much time to yourself?? What do you do with all this time to yourself other than exercising because I understand that’s a priority for you… There seems to be a lot of hours in the day where you don’t have a lot to do and again you’ve stated in the past videos that you are the kind of person that does much better with some structure in your days! And getting up early isn’t necessarily a crown to be worn… It doesn’t make you special or important just because you’re getting up early!! Getting enough rest and not over exercising , Dealing with real emotions, all should be just as important as your nutritional balance. I think it’s really important to focus on talents and not getting caught up in what the Internet says you should or shouldn’t do!

[@llnw5600]

Yes! She seems so lost now. She should at the very least stop showing her children. They are going to be heartbroken when they, or even worse, their friends Google their Mom and Dad. That Tosh Disney princess thing was on national TV and they will also see their Dad's Tinder pictures.For their sake I pray they never finds these things!! That will be horrific for those kids. Why would she set them up for such heartbreak? She needs to seek privacy!

[@kristenangela1632]

@@llnw5600 he has a tinder?!? I used to look up to them as a couple, I was completely heartbroken when they divorced!!!! That’s crazy to think. Maybe they are both going through a midlife crisis?!?

[@SingingFashionDiva]

......you bring the kids in with you. That’s literally the only option.

[@CatherineShoresHMN]

Or call DoorDash. 😆😆😆 Seriously though....I live in the Twin Cities & there were 3.....THREE...separate instances of car thefts with children in them in the last few days. So damn scary!

[@radlikewhoaxo]

Re: Instagram I sure wish I could tell my boss that I'm turning off his comments on my performance at my job. Is this your "job" or not?

[@pugmom8239]

@@lasinatl We are her customers. We can comment to the business owner about the product.

[@radlikewhoaxo]

@@lasinatl Good for you. I will continue to say what I feel is right.

[@radlikewhoaxo]

@@pugmom8239 You're right!

[@lilactreehouse]

Wow, that a great point, you can't shut the boss's comments off..

[@lbet7521]

Jen: I'm in a great place, I'm happy, life is great Also Jen: I've been a sad sack, I've been in the doldrums, life has been so hard this past year Jen: I'm not trying to lost weight, I'm very happy with my body, I don't have an eating disorder Also Jen: exercises like a maniac, buys "More Than A Body" book, invests in an eating program, admits to alternately binging and starving Jen: I can't do cardio Also Jen: I got certified as a Werq instructor! Jen: I don't let the negative comments bother me Also Jen: I can't take the negative comments, I might have to turn comments off or go to a paid platform Jen: Making friends is so hard Also Jen: ignores offer from someone with a shared interest, offering to get together to walk dogs Jen: Don and I are great, we're best friends, we're doing great co-parenting Also Jen: can't be in the same room with Don for an hour for a kid's birthday, throws shade often Jen: I don't need much sleep Also Jen: I need 8-9 hours of sleep to function properly Jen: I miss my kids terribly when they are not with me, my heart aches for them Also Jen: The kids are with Don half the nights, and in school every M-F but she still needs more ME time. Can't manage to take kids ANYWHERE Jen: I'm not going to show my kids much anymore on social media, they need privacy Also Jen: Continues to show the kids constantly on KZbin and IG stories Jen: people think they know me but they don't know everything, they don't really know the whole story Also Jen: Doesn't even know herself. Proof? See exhibit A, all of the above conflicting narratives

[@pugmom8239]

Jen, Please poll your KZbin followers here on this platform and not on Instagram. They are NOT all the exact same followers.

[@SM-qh2mz]

Jen as a follower and fan for years I say with love and respect that you need to take a lengthy break from social media and focus on your family and yourself. Praying for you Jen.

[@lizziebeefree]

As to the question of turning of your comments...I think that would be a real bummer. You say you want to form connections with your viewers. If you turn off your comments, you won’t be able to connect. You don’t interact very much as it is. I see many positive comments, questions, etc on your videos, and hardly any discussion or response from you. Why not spend more time focusing on those comments, and less on the negatives? You have a lot of people who support you. Show them the love and attention. And also it’s good to realize that just because someone doesn’t agree with you, doesn’t mean they’re being mean to you.

[@smscrapper]

I respectfully agree with your comment 100%

[@TheFeltBunnyShop_onEtsy]

Jen, I’ve watched you for a very long time and I’ve truly enjoyed your videos for years. But it’s time for me to move on. I wish you all the best in life.

[@WannabeProv31Lady]

Jen, it's a blessing you don't have to work to support you and your children. If you depended on a job for support, how would you handle constructive criticism from your boss? Tell him (or her) that he was deflecting negative feelings about himself? What do you think would happen? I can assure you that you would not be employed very long. You are under the misguided notion that only kind comments are meritorious. Not true; you learn a lot more in life from mistakes and constructive criticism. Being "gentle" with yourself is for babies. It is time for you to grow up and be the strong woman you are capable of being. P.S. CPS was created to protect children from parents with little parental instincts and zero common sense. Please don't ever leave your children (or Winnie) in the car alone for a nano-second.

[@divadoll8701]

Exactly! Tough it out...... we are grown....One can’t shelter themselves from the world completely forever.... that’s why my daughter and woman around me are Bosses!! You develop thick skin and learn to not give a you know what.. Gotta have some grit man...just my opinion.... my opinion.

[@Nina-dp3gx]

Exactly ! Can you believe we said that to our managers during our feedback/performance review?

[@vix58]

After watching you latest instagram stories, I'm done (not a great loss I know), There is so much I don't agree with how you do, what you feel is, important, but, lets face it my life isn't interesting and if I had a channel, people would be bored and judgmental of my life, so I still watched because I feel, at times you were entertaining/interesting/informative. But today you got snarky with your followers because another social media said it was "ok" to do it. Every time you critique your followers you say "some one said, someone told me, I do it because they do it". I finally realize I come to your channel to see what crazy thing you are going to do to instigate conflict, then come back and blame others for commenting on the craziness, I'm a better person (or should be) than to come just to see someone fall into negativity on purpose. You do you, I'll do me. I just can't watch anymore

[@DragonWarriorMama]

It definitely rubbed me the wrong way as well. Like what are we 12 and in mean girls? I pray she finds her peace in life and moves forward but I am also very close to stopping giving her views as well.

[@Paula-xp7ve]

Yet here you are! And I’ll bet you will return sgain

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@Paula-xp7ve nah I'm good. I have better content creators to watch honestly but hey I knew you would get around commenting to me eventually

[@junejune1031]

Really eloquently stated. It’s a hard message to say.... but you have said it with such honestly and maturity. My hat is off to you.

[@ambersn2032]

No, it's not ALWAYS about that person if someone is critical of another. That makes zero sense. People are allowed to question what they see and point out things that are inconsistent, dangerous, unjust, unsafe, etc. That's a very unhealthy way of seeing the world if you believe anyone criticising you doesn't have valid opinions and should therefore be disregarded because they are in some way damaged themselves. It's not always about them. Maybe it really is about you (your choices, the things you say, your inconsistencies, for instance).

[@grenier70]

Lol.. live your life and allow others to live theirs as they see fit. I’m sure, with what you’ve just sent, you’d enjoy someone telling you how to live your life.

[@ambersn2032]

@@grenier70 Your response makes very little sense. That's not the point at all.

[@erinp8843]

@Amber SN Agree 100%. That comment by Jen was a head scratcher for sure...

[@kristenangela1632]

@@nicktheveganchick I have left messages that have gone unanswered and not even looked at. Some were not even about being concern but like about zevia reminding me of her. People are realizing they have very little choice or option. I mean I suppose we could unsubscribe to her, and stop following her on all social media platforms

[@Pinkoflove3]

Just because these experiences happened to you doesn’t mean they will happen to others. Supporting others in their ideas sounds a lot better then warning others of your past dangerous times.

[@alisondavis6620]

Oooo yikes gonna have to ahead and disagree with your “anyone who is critical of you is 100% deflecting” take. Sounds like a perfect mindset to have to make sure you take absolutely zero accountability ever. Criticism is a part of life. FOR EVERYONE. Maybe more so for you than some, because you choose this career in a public space. Criticism is not inherently bad as you seem to think it is. Criticism can help you grow if you choose.

[@WannabeProv31Lady]

Very well stated. The operative phrase is *"if you choose."*

[@thehauntedmansionfan]

As trivial as it may sound, because a lot of people say it, I've watched your videos and followed you since almost the beginning. From the planner planning, party planning, holidays, infertility problems, no-kids vacations, day-trips to the city, annual BBQ prep, organizing closets; to the being spoiled and talking like a repressed college cheerleader phase. I've been here for ALL OF IT. Liking it and supporting you. I'm originally from the Chicago suburbs, too. That made me feel like there was a familiarity about you and places you would go. As we'd frequent some of the same places. I've wanted to say this a few times but haven't: You need a new therapist. And also, consider taking a depression med. I have not seen many people throw themselves into a deep personal depression the way you have over broader issues that are not in our control, for the most part, as you have. Examples: BLM, POC, the Capital attack. You are not wrong in your concern or wanting to do more. But your reactions are tied into your overall depression that exists. And you do suffer from depression. It shows itself in many ways. All your life changes and your losses: your marriage relationship, your divorce, moving, starting over, split parenting, no more large family gatherings for holidays/bbqs/birthdays, etc., they all affect how you now relate to other changes around you. I don't think you're effectively dealing with your feelings and depression. Especially if you think criticism is only a reflection of the person giving it. You might not like what I'm saying, but I've been there and I know what I'm talking about. You will not get out of this repeated cycle of lows and highs until you really address your feelings with a therapist who will push you to look deep down, take responsibility for your feelings and teach you a new path of coping and living. Because you are not living.

[@nancyyyxoxo]

Oh my goodness, you can have your criticisms of Jen, but please do not give random medical advice and diagnoses. You may think you know her personally, but there's a lot more to someone's mental health and personal life behind the camera

[@thehauntedmansionfan]

@@nancyyyxoxo And if there's even more going on we do not see, and of course there is, she needs to seek better therapy and help. Because she's melting away. If I didn't like her and her content, I wouldn't have said what I did say. Sometimes we have to be told what we don't want to be told in order to realize the obvious that others see.

[@kimmykat9]

So frustrating, I have been following you since the start, mainly for the Disney stuff and then stayed for everything else. Every time when I saw something that you were or weren't doing to join in a regular, grown up world..I would point out ways to help ease into etc. Or if I thought you seemed empty and lonely, I would recommend volunteering, this was way back. Your viewers blasted me and everyone else that tried to help you see the way to a happier more fulfilling life. You even had Don make a whole video defending your lifestyle, or whatever it was. Many of us left, we wanted to help you see things that were truly important and your "fans" thought it was mean. Now, many years later I see the sad result of the years of not figuring it out..but unfortunately now you have 2 little kids to think about and so you can't be front and center anymore...except when they are shipped off to Don's. I am sorry for those children..make a nice home for them, make them feel secure..both of them !! Whatever you do now will stay with them into adulthood...the results can be hard to repair.

[@heybooklady]

The thing is as a long time viewer you know what you just said has been said over and over for 10+ years. I agree with you. But she is well aware and is not going to change at the suggestion of people on the internet. She would of done so if she wanted to. It’s not because of a lack of understanding.

[@llnw5600]

When CC And Donny start using Google they will be so embarrassed. That Tosh.0 Disney princess video and their Dad's Tinder photos will hurt them so much in my opinion. Why doesn't she put their privacy and safety above her needs? I don't get it.

[@RPG0018]

Jen, it all comes down to your own perspective. If you consider YT or social media in general as a career or source of income in that case you do have a responsibility to your audience as an influencer in the platform you created whereas if social media is a form of a hobby or side gig then your overall health and well being should be your utmost priority no matter what. It would be best to take a long social media hiatus, quiet all the noises and focus on what matters the most and give you time to recalibrate your priorities and focus on your mental state most of all.

[@ladylouboutin08]

Turning off the comments kinda kills the community/connectivity you say you want. Maybe more engagement from you, and a more aggressive comment moderation would be better?

[@isabellacolfescu]

Sometimes we can be a sad sack, but let's not bring the house down with us. Just saying...

[@magsrowe3651]

You’ve talked a lot about how hard the pandemic is for all of us and how different our lives all look now. How are you expecting your life to change after all this? It seems identical to what you were doing before all this. And I just put a mask on my kid and take her everywhere I go. Then when we get back in the car we sanitize our hands. We have a great time running mundane errands and without as many play dates and get togethers currently, errands can be a nice way to kill some time. I also look at it as an opportunity for her to learn and observe how to act and behave in public.

[@joeytrtl]

I wonder if you need some perspective - spend some time with those who are truly struggling in life.

[@pugmom8239]

Jen, Just add some pepperoni to Charlotte’s grilled cheese sandwich. At least that way she gets something a little different and the pepperoni she asked for. Question? We’re you deflecting your own bad feelings about yourself when you publicly chastised Erin Condren for having let her child participate in a graduation celebration?

[@GirlMeetsNeverland]

👆🏼 This.

[@jennstns9]

Are you referring to the grad celebration in May of last year? Because if you are.. that was some bullshit. They were not allowed to have the celebration (under stay at home orders) so they filed it as a BLM march (which was allowed under the stay at home orders last summer) so they could prance their white asses down the beach with no masks on. You wanna tell me that was ok? 🤮🤮

[@pugmom8239]

@@jennstns9 I have no opinion on the EC matter. I just used that as an example of Jen publicly criticizing someone using her social media platform while saying today on her video all criticism of herself deflects back to the criticizer. Don’t misconstrue my statement.

[@jennstns9]

@@pugmom8239 she wasn’t the first, or the second, or the 100th person to comment on that matter. That was straight up BS. No way similar to anything Jen is possibly deflecting.

[@pugmom8239]

@@jennstns9 You seem enraged over EC’s conduct. You need to go address her directly and quit deflecting your anger at me when I was talking about Jen’s deflection comment. Leave me out of your EC issues.

[@myviewfrommycouch2721]

I don’t understand how Jen says she wants to make social media her job yet barely puts any real effort into making good or interesting content cause “she doesn’t have the time”. And she just complains abt her viewers all the time, I mean she has over 178 thousand subscribers yet her videos average around 10-15k views. That shld tell her something right there but she doesn’t listen when someone posts constructive criticism, she just gets defensive and calls that person a hater or troll. I think she has had ass kissers around her, her entire life who just praise her 24/7 and that’s what she wants from us. She wants to throw a pity party and we all build her up and talk abt how great she is 24/7. And that’s not what social media is. I also think the only reason she makes KZbin videos is cause it’s easier than trying to find a real job for the first time in her life at the age of 38. When b/c her ex pays all her bills she has the extreme luxury of being able to have a job or volunteer somewhere that is a passion of hers. Something fun. She doesn’t need it to pay the bills but it wld get her out of her house and out of her head. But again b/c of what I just said I’m a “hater” and if I don’t like it I shldnt watch her videos blah blah blah

[@myviewfrommycouch2721]

@Jeanine Brizendine I agree and w/ everything happening in her life w/ moving, COVID, co-parenting, spending an entire month w/ her ex and his family in Utah and so much more she had the ability to make interesting new mature content but she chooses to just make videos abt how sad she is and how “hard” her life is. I def think she needs to get out of her house and volunteer somewhere or get a job. She has way too much time on her hands but sadly she has enablers surrounding her who buy into her pity parties and my guess have her entire life. And it’s sad she has the ability/opportunity to do anything she wants, she doesn’t NEED a job to pay bills so she cld do something that’s solely fun for her but she has wasted it by making herself believe her life is some huge struggle and whenever someone points that out to her she gets defensive and dismissive. Which is just sad.

[@sherieburrows8871]

Why watch tv so far across the room with those two chairs blocking? Isn't there a better set-up you could have?

[@ambersn2032]

You must have deep-rooted issues with furniture. Remember, according to Jen, if there's any criticism, it's only reflecting your insecurities.

[@Christinalovespink91]

@@ambersn2032 lmao

[@smallworld511]

SIGNING OFF ALSO...I used to look forward to your videos. Now though, there is such a different feeling I’m left with, after watching. The content, your comments, your focus...they leave me feeling negative and not inspired, entertained or motivated. And NO I’m not projecting some deep feelings about myself. Lol! Seriously? Not everything is that profound. I simply don’t like your content and direction anymore. It’s that simple. You’re searching for direction and inspiration from these little -isms you post everyday, and now into tarot cards? I was like oookay... I’m out. I’m not sure where we took such hard turn from decorating, organizing, Disney, home projects? 🤔 Either way it’s time for me to move on. I hope YOU ALSO have the best day available to YOU, or the ONE YOU DESERVE.

[@Christinalovespink91]

It's depressing as hell lol

[@ElaHumanRightLawyer]

About the leaving kids in the car while mom goes shop, i just made it a rule from the start that i'd never do that. There's too much that can go wrong, not least the fact that kids can get really scared. For some things in parenting, it's better to make blanket rules. I wouldn't leave a pet in the car, let alone a child. What if something happens to mom while she's out and she doesn't get to come back til much later? Etc etc. People calling CPS is the least of my worries here btw.

[@krystaf6337]

A 4 month old in my state was just kidnapped after the mother left her in the car while she took another kid into daycare. So yeah, if you leave a kid in your car unattended you should have CPS called on you - your child’s safety should come before convenience. Come on, Jen. 🙄 One of the more ridiculous snide comments you’ve made recently.

[@honeypickle39]

I think she WAS implying that of course she knows ya can't do that! That was the point if the whole conversation! About delivery. Come on people. We focus on the wrong details. She was expressing that as a SINGLE mom, you have no choice and that at certain time of the year when ya can't bring your kids out because of the weather and you have no other significant person to leave them with at home or in the car and you can leave um in the car....its difficult and just easier to pay more zo have items delivered. No where in thus vlog did she indicate that was an idea she would remotely consider. I think some of y'all just like to pick at stuff!!!

[@bellati2006]

@@honeypickle39 How do you know what she meant or was implying???

[@2020nrg]

@@honeypickle39 she wasn't saying she knew not to do that because it is dangerous and could have a consequence of kidnapping. She said she knew not to do it because someone would call CPS on her.

[@jenniferann6628]

It seems to be time for you to consider getting off social media. It doesn’t seem to be serving you at all and it certainly is creating a lot of toxicity. So much of what you post is so heady and cryptic it seems people tune in just to give you a hard time. With all due respect you are inviting it. I too enjoyed videos you used to post but not anymore. Unfortunately I am done as well. There is enough disappointment out in the world people need an escape from. Your content isn’t it. All the best

[@Poipy09]

I completely agree with you. I’ve followed Jen for years, starting with her Disney vlogs. She was my favorite KZbinr for years and it’s been hard for me to completely stop following her on both IG as well as KZbin after so many years. The attitude and anger doesn’t feel good and it’s time to stop. She likes to justify the negative comments by saying it’s everyone making theses comments that have a problem and not her talking at a camera. I hope everyone will do her a favor and stop following her. It really is sad how her channel has gone downhill. There are other people on KZbin who respond to comments and have a real community.

[@trishfish5]

I did an eating disorder program too recently and it has made a huge difference in my life and mental health! Good for you for taking that step!

[@pattym767]

I am not making a negative comment, I am making an observation of why you get so many negative comments. Their are too many mixed messages. You say you are not going to have your kids on screen anymore and they are on every single video. People have told you that it’s very distracting and noisy and you choose not to listen. You need to look at the amount of people saying the same things to you and gain some wisdom from that. You deflect it back on them that they are the ones with the problem… You are not viewing this correctly. I have been a long time viewer and your channel has totally changed. Most people don’t care about your yoga poses and your workout plans. I’m not saying not to mention them, but what you eating a day and what exercises you do in a day are really not interesting. People will now say to move … Most of your followers do not want to move on. They follow you for the channel you had designed… Planners, organizing, holidays, decorating, vacations. If you notice, all those things are happy. Your channel contains no happy at all anymore. I really believe you should get a mirror and speak in front of it with all the things you were saying to us. I think you are using this channel as therapy and that’s not a bad thing but I think you should do it in front of a mirror and have a session with yourself. She’s in your family well and I will continue to be a viewer but you need to take some responsibility if you consider this your job. You are not doing a good job. If you worked in a regular office, would you want to walk in every day and sit next to a sad sack that complains about every single thing, talks about her feelings about herself, talks about how she needs to be gentle with herself, on and on and on. Hoping to shed some light for you

[@gabrielablackwell5102]

The kids are her life and you dare criticize them for being noisy in their own home? Wow, turn down the volume or leave if you can not handle it. I really enjoyed the content, keep going Jen!

[@pattym767]

@@gabrielablackwell5102 my kids are my life too... BUT... I can’t go to my “JOB” and make a presentation and have them next to me yelling and screaming. It’s called manners. If she was on a call with someone or had a zoom meeting with her boss would this be allowed. She says this is her job, treat it as such. Not to mention but , there have been multiple people complaining about the same thing and she said she was not going to have her kids on Camera for privacy reasons. Which end is up? People can’t put themselves in the public eye and expect everything to be roses. If you took the time to read my post, I was complementing her saying that people like myself do not want to move on. They have followed her for a long time and they have a vested interest. However, it’s the same as anything else. If you want to watch a comedy on TV and it suddenly turns dark you are going to stop watching. My post was intended for her to hopefully see things in a different way, that’s all. It seems like people are not allowed to say anything on this channel that is not praise or they get bashed by everyone. She then comes on and scolds everyone as well. What she should be doing is telling her followers to let people speak their mind. She should be open to constructive criticism that will only make her better

[@calivibes_84]

Exercise and food isn’t happy? There’s plenty of people who incorporate those things into their channels. She’s allowed to evolve her channel. If we don’t like it we don’t have to watch.

[@pattym767]

@@calivibes_84 you missed the whole point… Her followers do not want to move on. They were trying to tell her something to help her. Watching someone exercise and watching what they eat in a day is far different from what this channel started out as. She is allowed to do whatever she wants on her channel, no one is questioning that. However, you can’t say anything that is not praise without getting people getting defensive, including her. If you count the number of positive remarks and compared to the amount of negative, it will shed some light on what I am saying. I’m not going to go back-and-forth about something that was just an opinion

[@calivibes_84]

@@pattym767 No you missed the point. You don’t have to watch if you don’t like the new content. She can put up what she wants and followers can decide if it works for them. As I said, her channel is allowed to evolve. Typically they have to or get redundant. You basically are saying she can’t put up what she wants because her followers don’t want to move on and are trying to help her go back to what she did before. I didn’t comment on what you said outside of the exercise and food content so I don’t know why you said all the rest as if I did? I wasn’t speaking on feedback etc. I agree with much of what you said just not the content thing. Changing content is different than the thing about therapy, for instance. I think it’s all muddling together for people. I get not wanting to hear the womp womp bits constantly (shoot, I don’t either...I’ve got my own stuff and can’t handle someone else’s ad nauseam) but that’s different than new content. She could quit talking about her struggles and talk about exercise and food and people would complain it’s changed...that’s not allowing someone to do whatever they want.

[@llnw5600]

We don't leave children in vehicles alone for many many reasons. It's not because "someone may report you to CPS"? Are you crazy ? Why would you make such a statement?

[@naruto04]

In some countries, it’s actually normal. You can even leave a sleeping baby and it’s acceptable there. 🤷‍♀️

[@DragonWarriorMama]

I came here to say my peace and then I'm afraid I'm gonna be done watching idk. But snarking back at people on Instagram because someone else said it was OK just doesn't set well with me honestly. Why not just delete it and move on? Why stir it up more? Your viewers are telling you what they want but it seems like you don't want to hear that, honestly. Its sad really, I've watched a long time, way before you ever had kids, etc. But this snarky, constantly sad, depressed content just isn't fun anymore. Its one thing to be honest and express feelings , it's entirely another to wallow in it and never get past it and move on . I've seen others saying the same. I hope you find your joy and peace in life I truly do. Maybe I will watch again one day , but idk.

[@erinp8843]

Agree completely. That Instagram story today was in such poor taste. It was gross.

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@erinp8843 I agree. I'm all for defending yourself but snarking back in a gross way simply because someone said to? Nah. Im good.

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@Summysun624 yeah...fun between friends i guess. Not snarking meanly to subscribers.

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@RR-gi4qf I just dont know what she's thinking honestly.

[@Paula-xp7ve]

Stop watching if it’s not fun for you anymore

[@sritikadhar8128]

Jen, hon, I watched you awhile back and stumbled upon this video, discovered you are divorced now with two kiddos .. then got intrigued with the comments and watched some more. As someone completely unbiased as I’m new to your current situation, here is what I see- there are two lanes: Lane1: You are a STRONG, powerful woman who woke up one day and did not like her submissive 1930’s housewife life with a doting husband who won’t even let you learn how to cut your fruits. You decided to make some life changes and came out of your marriage. Got a new home, moved in with your kiddos, decided to show them their mamma has got this.. she is THE MAN of the house. Lane2: You were a meek submissive housewife who never learned life tricks. Your husband cheated/abused you and dumped you. You are traumatized, alone, depressed.. you are like deers in headlight. Lane1 will earn you respect. Lane2 will earn you sympathy, heartfelt kindness, outstretched hands to build you up. The issue is, you keep changing your lanes. You keep changing narratives. You say this was your decision to leave the marriage, something you were pondering long time. That makes people think you are strong. They then have expectation that you would behave strong and rational. Then you are breaking down and sobbing ON CAMERA on riot situation after couple weeks of it happening and forever mentioning socio political things that did not impact you personally a bit!!??? Hon, I’m black. I did not break down sobbing on that incident even in my shower, let alone on camera and then post it to public. You need to dig deep what caused that mental break down and admit it. You are kidding yourself but you can’t kid your viewers with minimum IQ that it was the political situation causing your melt down. You pretend to be strong and spin your narrative towards that and then you appear as this emotionally unstable, WEAK, clueless, wreck of a woman constantly having to be gentle with herself. I really watched 4-5 vids and lost count how many times you said ‘it was that kind of a day when you need to be gentle’. You need to pick a lane what your online image should be. Now you can avoid this entire thing, if you don’t constantly show your life on Vlogs. Like, if you review O.P.I spring releases or new red lipstick from Estée Lauder or the current night cream you are using, there can only be so much that people can criticize. But you are putting your life, your kid’s life, every single details on your house, every single details of your rock bottom emotional state ON CAMERA. And it is BORRRREINGGGGGG. I was out of my mind BORED and completely pissed off after watching 3-4 videos. I don’t know you. I only stumbled upon your channel after a decade. This should not piss me off. But somehow it did. It is the constant nagging, whining, sad, negative energy that was eating at my soul. People will judge your content. If they sit down with a cup of coffee for a relaxing 15 mins of KZbin, and then stumble upon your video and click on it only to find you blabber blabber blabber in sad mundane voice, they will want their 15 minutes back!

[@tkerr]

This is the most astute observation I have seen and I agree with you. I would be so proud and happy for Jen if she really portrayed the strength she talks about. And if things aren't going well, tell us so we can commiserate and be here for her. But the mixed messages are confusing and ultimately depressing.

[@arielsky58]

“Keep showing up.” - an admirable quality and inspiring words. It is such sentiments and commitment that endeared me to you and your channel many years ago. Showing up for life is the most important thing one can do in their day and trumps everything. If you made mistakes, said the wrong thing, messed up, failed - it’s ok, because you showed up! And that is admirable. The rest can be forgiven and forgotten because you showed you cared and were committed. When we don’t “show up” When we don’t follow through on commitments When we cancel last minute with no explanation When we are late When we break promises When we take no responsibility for our actions When we don’t apologize for letting others down We disappoint others We inconvenience others We fail others We are being selfish We are showing disrespect We are showing we care more about ourselves more than others We lose credibility We lose the respect of others We hurt others Our behavior is unprofessional Our behavior is immature We are undependble We are irresponsible If one can’t show up (which happens! and is ok!) we must - Give advance notice Offer explanation Express remorse Apologize Be realistic about promises and commitment we make in the future Recognize limitations Don’t blame others for our own failures or wrong doings Take repsonsibility Don’t make excuses Do better next time

[@WannabeProv31Lady]

Really, really good advice about showing up. I agree 100%. 💕

[@TheGlitzygal28]

Instead of hocking $30,000 of your jewelry at consignment shops, why wouldnt you keep any of your jewelry for Charlotte? She would have loved your butterfly or snowflake necklace..... I guess you need to get some “extra” money to recreate Utah in your backyard.

[@TheGlitzygal28]

Megan Amos yes Don has provided everything she needs.

[@DragonWarriorMama]

Ok...the kids in the car comment...i am flabbergasted. You should never ever leave kids in the car alone in this day and age. You take them with you. Does it take more time? Yes. But their safety is top priority. I really don't even understand this comment . Its not even a thought or question. You have the kids, you take them with you. And next, not everyone who comments or questions is deflecting, honestly. Sometimes we. Ant see things that others do, even about ourselves. Constructive criticism, and whatnot. Doesn't mean it's hate honestly. I will genuinely say that I do hope you are doing well and going in an upward direction, thats a good thing for sure. But I will say you need to stop and think before lashing out about comments and questions all the time. Yes, do what works for you , absolutely. But maybe stop and think, could any of these comments be right and I just don't see it or don't want to admit it? Also this question? Why make a whole plan and design for the outside when you have barely much furniture, rugs, window treatments on the inside? I really hope this year is better for you , I really do , but some of your comments really rub people the wrong way, and I am hoping that you will take the time to think it through before lashing out at your viewers who have watched you for years. They're telling you what content they would like, and are very confused on the direction of this channel, myself included. In my own opinion I think it would be good to sit down and address this stuff honestly. Clear everything up, life update with some deep honesty, real goals and saying what they are, and a plan for your content. Decorating the inside would be great content. Planner stuff. Memory keeping. Going to the lake with the kids, since you like the lake. Or to the mountains somewhere. You can travel safely. Divorce stuff and navigating that . Theres so much. And I hope you won't go on ig and scold everyone again.

[@grenier70]

Omg... she wasn’t asking, she was just stating.. what to do. People are sooo literal. Hence why she orders or goes through drive through. Btw people can dream about what they’d like to see for their future. Soo judgemental! Wow 🙄

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@grenier70 sure but what about the inside? No mention of dreams there. And why would a statement need to be made? As parents we know what to do. You don't leave kids in the car. Why even say it? Just say hey I didn't feel like getting out. Bam, done. I'm not the only one asking and I'm not judging at all. This baffles me

[@JJ-hw7cr]

@@grenier70 100% agree, I have just started redoing my kitchen, and already planning on what i want for the garden when the weather picks up. Im always too many steps ahead of my self in my mind

[@grenier70]

@@DragonWarriorMama maybe because she hasn’t shared it yet. Really it’s none of your business what she’s doing on the inside. I’ve learnt a long time ago... don’t put your own assumptions onto others. It’s hard enough to walk in your own shoes, never mind trying to walk in others. Why not just enjoy what she does share and be supportive? Cheers.

[@DragonWarriorMama]

@@grenier70 um...we see the inside on videos of very empty, echoing rooms. With our own eyes. I've been supportive I've been through divorce with kids myself. But this stuff baffles me, as a person and as a mother.

[@GotTutus2011]

ALL👏🏻THE EGGSHELLS👏🏻HAVE ALREADY👏🏻CRACKED! 👏🏻 NO MORE TIP TOEING!!! ✨❤️🥂

[@debyrah]

LOTS of excuses in this vlog........

[@tracywilliams606]

You put way too much energy into your "me time". You need to get out of your head. No disrespect, but geez. Put some of that energy into your daughter. This is sad. Also, make your house cozy inside for your children. Before you fantasize on the exterior. You seem very selfish.

[@sarahchetty3309]

Jen, do you really never take any criticism at all? I understand it's hard with the internet to know who is real and who are trolls, but like, you cannot say if someone is critical of you it's "100%" about them? That's a nonsensical argument. It's a weird blanket statement to make. You don't get to immediately judge someone else just because they made a statement about you that you don't want to hear.

[@JJ-hw7cr]

Jens statement says more about her, than those who commenton her vlogs

[@rebeccayoung7348]

If she didn’t want to be judged she should have never started, and continue, to post her entire life on the internet. It is honestly the most absurd thing I have ever seen.

[@grenier70]

Absolutely it’s 100% about them. It’s her life and she can do or eat whatever she wants. Not everyone fits into a certain diet. So allow her to see what fits for her. Bodies respond differently to different things.

[@mslinny144]

I am disappointed that she rarely does engage. I wonder what it really means to her. She does not get tons of comments and only posts videos once or twice a week. Blindly liking a comment is not interaction. If this is your career you schedule a time to read and respond to your viewers. I get that everyone's individual ability to handle and do things vary but I have been a viewer before kids and she has never made much effort to interact. Also the comment regarding people's judgements. While I tend to agree people's judgments or criticisms can stem from their own issues that doesn't mean the actual criticism is not still valid and if someone comments triggers you back the same thing applies -it is touching something in you.

[@savergirl123]

My favourite part of the video was when you talked to the camera and gave your thoughts. If you were to cut all the parts with your kids this video would be just as good. You said that you want to show less of your kids which is totally understandable. Are there people that are asking for kids to be in your videos and you are trying to make them happy? I know that it breaks your heart that you don't get to be with your kids all the time. I think that most people agree with me and would be fine if you only filmed on days when you don't have the kids. That way you can spend all your time with your kids when you have them. I think that most viewers don't watch your channel because of your kids we watch because of you and don't need your kids to be shown. So please don't feel like you ever have to show your kids.

[@junejune1031]

Did I miss the town hall she said she’d do?

[@JJ-hw7cr]

No, she didn't do it.

[@junejune1031]

@@JJ-hw7cr haha shocking

[@TheGlitzygal28]

J J what....she didn’t follow through, that’s so unlike her...😂

[@junejune1031]

It’s kind of odd and disappointing... she’s said many times this is her “career” or job and most people in careers don’t commit to something and just not deliver it. Odddddd 🧐

[@FM-ix8xc]

It's not the comments here or on insta. She probably reads the threads on gossip bakery and for those you need a good portion of self confidence. Though most of them are funny, too, if you can laugh about yourself.

[@FM-ix8xc]

@@Tea4me10 sure, but I can imagine it's hard not to read them once you discovered them. I would probably check onthem daily, too. 😂 Though she could see them a free advice. Instead she brings the negativity here to her faithful subscribers.

[@ashleywhitmore2717]

Holy crap this video was about exciting as watching paint dry.

[@Barribam]

Why are you watching? You've commented something snarky on her last 3 videos.

[@ashleywhitmore2717]

@@Barribam because I can 😜

[@Barribam]

Guess so. 🤷‍♀️

[@isabellacolfescu]

Regarding your pizza stone, if your oven has a cleaning cycle and when you clean it leave the pizza stone in . I've been cleaning mine this way for a long time and it seems to not affect the integrity of the stone. I hope this is helpful

[@ohwowitspau]

Can you please do more organization videos?

[@AtaliaChan]

lol good to know that "you're not going to complain" even if you won't change a thing in this huge house that your ex bought for you 🙄 You say in each video that these are "tough times", but you don't know the half of it. Talking about renovating your free mansion when other people are struggling for having food on their table right now.. tough times for you indeed.

[@JJ-hw7cr]

These are tough times, but, i am still buying new things and fixing up my home. I make no apologies for doing so either. Buying things for the home is exactly what Jen should be doing. it looks cold and empty.

[@AtaliaChan]

@@JJ-hw7cr You are totally right JJ, what I meant is that Jen didn't have to work for this house and for all of those renovations she did even before moving. She got it all for free, and still keeps getting more and more. And that's why to hear "I won't gonna complain if this dream outdoor fireplace won't happen" is so annoying. If she's going to actually work for all her dreams it will be awesome, but I reallyyyy doubt it.

[@JJ-hw7cr]

@@AtaliaChan I get what you're saying, I never understood buying a completely refurbished home, only to refurbish it again, but i would sooner look at pottery barn images than yoga poses, and sooner listen to pipe dreams than, I dont have the bandwidth to cook dinner. Jen wont get an outside job, she has never wanted one. I dont even think patreon will work long term. The content would need to be more professional than just yapping at the camera.

[@conscioushomestead]

Sleeping is my "me" time! LOL!

[@lb4lov]

My son had problems with bladder control at night. Having been a “bed wetter” growing up, (hate that term), my mom put a pad on my bed that would sent off an alarm when it got wet. Such a horrible thing for a child to have to go through each night. Anyway, I decided not to worry about my son’s bladder issue, as long as it cleared up by the time he left for college. And of course it cleared up way before that, but having a relaxed attitude sure helps both yourself, but especially your child. Love your attitude around your children’s development. It’s so healthy.

[@sritikadhar8128]

I used to watch you and quit watching you after 2013...and got this video on my feed today. Whew!!!!!!!! You have two kids now!!! And you are divorced???? Is that right? How!!!???😨😨😨😨😨😨😨OMG gal, your hubby ADORED you!! So many changes!!! This twewwwww much, tweewwww much to digest! Also I’m black. I see you love yourself some black now.. HUGS!!!! Gal I want allllllllll the scoop! What happened!! Did your hubby cheat on you? I always suspect he would or he does and that’s why he overcompensates with such lost puppy vibe... like he used to slice your damn fruits for your eating like you a toddler... and gifts like drop of a hat! them are the cheating kind. I want allllllllllll the scoop. Please, next video tell us all about what he did and how you kicked him to the curb!! Or like did you cheat on him and lost it all? Ouch!!! That too bad! You not gonna get another rich purse string with lost puppy vibe like him... shoulda hold onto that sucker! Gal how you surviving?? You never even sliced your own damn fruit!! Whewwww twewwww much! I want allllll the scooop. Next video pls!! This one is boring.

[@sritikadhar8128]

@C H who is Paula? Is not this the organizedjen? Back in the days like these reallly long videos on how to put bins under bins under bins and then her hubby would cook and feed her and gal friend never even sliced her own damn fruits ... just toddled around putting bins under bins?

[@roxy72]

You're the best part of this entire video and comment section, Kimberly.

[@sritikadhar8128]

@@roxy72 lol... yea it’s a damn boring video!! I like REALLY want the scoop why, or rather HOW, she got divorced!!! Like, they seemed to be the last couple to get divorced. If not for anything, out of pity that hubby would not leave her, I always thought to myself. I mean it’s like abandoning a pet lap dog out in the wild to fend for themselves who never learned even how to play fetch. Omg she is now guardian of TWO kids!!! Like, how!! She can’t even cut her own damn fruits for Christ’s sake!!

[@RachelClareable]

This whole ‘slicing her own fruits’ thing is hilarious 🤣 is this slang for something or are we literally saying Don used to slice fruit for her?! I’m from the UK so maybe I’m missing something 😂😳

[@sritikadhar8128]

@@RachelClareable noooo, lady, literal!! That too, she was housewife and her hubby used to come back from work at lunch hours to slice her apples. Like I’m not kidding, there was video showing that. Imagine, I’m housewife, my husband works and he comes back at lunch hours ONLY to slice my apples because I can’t do it myself and I might cut my fingers!!!! Like, father of a toddler. I don’t think any husband does that. It was damn weird.

[@oraliawheeler-spahn9268]

When my kids were little I went to the post office on a navy base and my kids fell asleep in the car so I could see them from the window of the post office. I surely thought they would be okay. The car caught on fire( it was a Lincoln and the fire started under the drivers seat, there was a lawsuit over it because it happened to other people) and someone took my boys out of the car and then the fire department came and put out the rest of the car fire. They then posted a 24 guard because they thought it was a bomb thing/terrorism. I was so thankful and ashamed and never did it again but it happened in just minutes. It’s something I regret every day and my face burns with shame. God is good.

[@heybooklady]

So sorry you went and are going through all of the anguish and regret that situation comes with.

[@oraliawheeler-spahn9268]

Thanks. That was many years ago and my kids are grown up and have kids of their own. It taught me an important lesson and I never did it again.

[@tamimills9405]

Thank you for your honesty. This video really resonated with me. First, I love that you share daily life when you do have to stay at home. Secondly, it is ok to feel your feelings and then slowly move out of that space. I hope you have a great week!

[@nopeynopeynope]

Jen (and anyone else who wants to share) What are you looking forward to doing when life gets back to a new normal? Personally for me its seeing family and friends, going out to dinner for drinks.

[@ElaHumanRightLawyer]

Travelling

[@WithWonder]

Taking the kids to WDW °o°

[@kristymarie6065]

I totally get it! I gained 20pounds from the pandemic. My eating was up and down too mainly bingeing to cover emotions. I’m trying to focus on doing other things when I’m feeling the urge.

[@Arazhul12]

I will say this: check your numbers and statistics and see what kind of videos gets you more subscribers. Create more of those. Leave the kids out, and I mean really out. Do you really need to get explained why? Don't think so. If you continue to show them on youtube it's clearly a sign that you don't care for their wellbeing. That's a fact and not me having issues with myself. There is no excuse in the world to ever show them again. Please consider their future, people will laugh at them when reading the things about you on go.ba. Since you consider KZbin your "work", then work: you don't go to work and show your boss that you are a sad sack. I am sure that not the whyning videos get you the more likes. KZbin can not replace therapy for you. Wish you well!

[@Ashleylou703]

Ummm you take the children out of the car and bring them in with you. Is that even a real question? I’m not trying to leave a snarky comment, but come on let’s use some critical thinking skills here. Absolutely ,CPS should be called if a child is left alone, if only for a second.

[@catherinebrown5476]

The plastic on the sushi takeaway is horrifying.

[@Pinkoflove3]

The plastic police are out.

[@chelseae.7063]

I’m glad you’re feeling better and getting more structure in your days with planning etc.! It was nice to see you doing Valentine’s Day crafts with the kids although the glass sliding around on the table seemed like it would be annoying! I also appreciate that you asked for feedback from Insta followers. I do have a question about your comment in the laundry closet about your kids adapting to whatever makes you most comfortable... regarding potty training? Or in general? That seemed like a strange thing to say but maybe I’m misunderstanding what you meant.

[@soulakina1]

I’ve always been curious what temperature you have in the house with that weather outside, because I live in warm country and I don’t know are you Cold inside ? How does it go’s ?you are dressed light though .thank you for the answer !

[@lgv5991]

I’ve followed you for a long time, but all this woe is me is tiring. Seems like you have TOO much time on your hands. I’m really curious what you do all day since you only have your children half of the month? I was at my lowest when I had too much free time.

[@grenier70]

I’ve also followed for years. I have no idea how you don’t see how much stronger she’s become since her divorce. I see no woe is me, in this video. Let’s try to uplift each other as a follower rather than sending negativity.

[@SingingFashionDiva]

@@grenier70 I can see exactly what she’s saying. Most of her videos now are cold and have zero joy. I don’t see a stronger woman, I see a woman who is deflecting her issues onto others and is mindlessly going about her day with no direction anymore. She does not seem happy at all anymore. I keep watching because I hope she gets back to being happy but I do not see a happy, strong woman right now.

[@grenier70]

@@SingingFashionDiva I guess you see what you want to see. 😐

[@SingingFashionDiva]

@@grenier70 yeah, it’s called an opinion. You know, something we are all allowed to have. I could say the same to you.

[@nicktheveganchick]

@@grenier70 I completely agree. I don't see it! She is such a strong woman. And like you said, you can see the change over the years. And I'm thankful for people who share their down times. Being 100% happy all the time just isn't reality.

[@lilactreehouse]

Most Introverts love Winter. I am also an Introvert and I love inside time and Winter.

[@courtneysidbury-moore4437]

I have sort of a intimate question. Where are those bras from you grabbed for the closet. They look so comfortable. I am trying to break away from underwire.

[@purplegrape9186]

Maidenform and Victoria’s Secret have non wired bras. That’s where I got mine from in the past. If you don’t know your size, they’ll measure you in store. I hate the wire too.

[@karebear8013]

A lot of my leggings have that white string where the tag was attached, I took a seam ripper and was able to remove it. Also, very curious about the program that you are using as I have struggled with my eating for most of my adult life, but really struggling in the last 2-3 years.

[@barbaraking3114]

If you have a self cleaning oven put your pizza stone in when you clean your oven it comes out completely clean.

[@alisonstover8802]

I'd love to see a morning clean with me as part of a vlog or stand alone video. I need to get into a better routine and I'd love to see your daily morning cleaning routines. Especially the kitchen. I need to get our counters de-cluttered. Also we watched Snoopy after you showed it on IG Sunday. I loved it. So loyal to the old shows without being derivative.

[@WithWonder]

Ooh I love watching speed cleans too, so inspiring!

[@chaank1069]

Yes. Would love all of the routines. I have established some of my habits or changes influenced by Jen. She uses that beautiful China with florals, that encouraged me to take out my wedding China and use that as everyday dishes. I love it.

[@aliciaolsen1231]

I'm going to change the vibe here by saying that I really have appreciated you sharing openly and honestly these past few years when you have been going through these transitions in your life. I started watching when you were pregnant with CC (sorry I'm not sure of the spelling) and was hopelessly wishing for a baby of my own. I loved you organization videos, favorites, and hauls. I"m now the mom of a two year old daughter and I really identify with a lot of the thoughts and feeling you express in your reflections. I never miss a video and I really love your channel. Thank you for sharing! I've also been seeking more nutritional balance and less-chaotic eating habits. I HIGHLY recommend the podcast Balance365. It is hosted by two moms who also have background in the health and wellness industries. They offer research-based information on building healthy habits and denounce diet culture. It has really helped shape the way I think about my own body and my relationship with food as well as provided guidance on building healthy habits that are sustainable. They also have several episodes related to raising body neutral kids who engage in balanced eating habits. Overall, Jen and Annie (the hosts) are so relatable and I think you would really appreciate their vibe and what they have to offer!

[@JuletJulet]

I like your house. I wish I could have my house. It's been a dream of mine. You're not alone. My Grandaughter and I stay home all the time. It's just safer. I cook alot during the week because it's cheaper. Easy meals usually. I always enjoy our time together ♡

[@fortheloveof4]

Fun Sunday at home, loved the craft time. We stuffed goodie bags for my students for Valentine’s and enjoyed a little cake. The sweat pants are apart of my fav rotation of lounge clothes this winter. I found I had to wash them two or three times to just get the extra “lent” or “fluff” out of them. But they are super comfty for sure.

[@MsAnna4040]

You wake up between 4-5am on the weekends!?!? 😳 Wowza!

[@bellati2006]

I personally don't care what you do. I just wish you would stop with the foul language. It is not you. You are trying to fit in and it just doesn't work for you. For all of the years of watching you...you have never used profanity...on any social media, until Don left you. Now you throw f-bombs around like it's nothing.....quit trying to be someone you aren't. It's so not cute. Thx.

[@1955BLB]

She is probably upset that the good salmon wasn’t available OR she got off her bike, didn’t wash her lady bits and went to see about her health insurance or taxes or whatever adult thing she felt forced to do and found out she was a day late and a dollar short! So now everyone in a mo**erf**ker because she isn’t getting headpats about how great she is. Jen- shower, acknowledge you are an adult now and do better.

[@bellati2006]

@@1955BLB Lol!

[@llnw5600]

Oh this IS EXACTLY who she is .

[@llnw5600]

@@bellati2006 oh I agree the m-fer word is horrible.

[@ladylouboutin08]

Not grown women pretending to be offended by curse words 🤣

[@ANH711]

Where did you get the bowls you put on top of your children's plates as well as the little white bowls you usually put their syrup in?

[@WithWonder]

The small purple and blue plastic bowls were from target a few years back. They have kids which is convenient. Those white ceramic dishes were Martha Stewart for Macy’s way back. Love those

[@docpadma]

for me, what has worked it... just don't buy it. If Ihave a box of cookies, most likely I will not stop with one. So I stopped stocking chocolates or treats in my house. If I really want one,I wlll buy a tiny one during grocery shopping. We used to do crispy creme donots with the kids too and it was once a month. I realized that once a week, was too frequent.Grocery shopping with a full tummy and purposely not keeping those treats at home was my trick. good luck. you are right, no need to walk on egg shells. love ya

[@LM53180]

I think people miss the original "Organized Like Jen" series. When I first saw it I loved it. I got to see her beautiful home and also got tips on organization-not to mention her lifestyle. Jen has a talent for decorating and organization that I just envied! Over the years as she changed the video content changed. I'm not saying it's good or bad, it just different. So the original viewers may be not used to this type of content showing that her life isn't perfect, that even with money there are still things she struggles with everyday. For people looking to escape they prefer the old content, but for the new content Jen has received a lot of criticism. While I like the old content better it doesn't mean Jen is making bad videos- she's just showing that she is human going through tough times. She's not perfect and neither are we. Maybe Jen could work as a professional designer or organizer part-time, use her talent. Either way, Jen has her sad days and wants to share it, so even if I don't like watching those types of videos doesn't mean I'm going to criticize or judge her videos. Let her feel what she needs to feel and share what she wants to share. Life is short, tomorrow is a new day, and always be kind.

[@LM53180]

@@RAH1124 I do notice something in the videos isn't right for a couple of years, and the fact she is going off on IG is not like her. I couldn't find any snarky comments on IG, is this something she does and then removes? Is she filtering out the comments? i don't really follow her on IG so not sure what's going on with that. I sense sadness and awkwardness in her videos for a couple of years now-probably depression. I believe Jen mentioned she changed therapists in one of her videos and left one she was seeing for years. I think we are in agreement there any sort of help is beneficial. Would love to see her happy again.

[@lovejoypeacepatience]

I would love a more detailed weekly cleaning video. How do you keep your home clean with distractions and toys. I'm struggling here.

[@krystal37276]

Were you referring to being nervous about bringing them inside because of covid? I personally don’t care what you do with your kids because it’s not my life- just was wondering your thought process.

[@rachelbraswell4017]

Yes to all the mental wellness things! Same over here!

[@naruto04]

Use a seam ripper for the stitching you can’t get out in those pants. I have the same issue with French Toast and they stick it right on the adjustable elastics.

[@elainelane7130]

What time is nap time?

[@JavaFirst]

My granddaughter is ready for spring by as well. She is envious of my 60 degree weather. Could you possibly link the fur rug Winnie was laying on? I think my furbaby would love it.

[@WithWonder]

It’s faux - from Etsy awhile back but I can’t find the shop. I’d like to figure it out too because I want another one! I’ll share once I do

[@julieerin115]

Me : Drugs? No Smoking? No Alcohol? I can take it or leave it. Coffee: Sometimes I'll crave it Sugar? I will go through a hurricane to get some! lol!

[@nicolesaraceno680]

I ate so unhealthy in 2020 because of stress. I need to do something different. I am going to the gym right now and I stopped drinking soda. But if you have any suggestions I would love any and all suggestions. I love watching your content . I feel the same way about if I eat one donut then I will eat more sweets. I need to be healthier as I have a heart condition and need to lose weight for that reason. 💙

[@heybooklady]

You can do it! Many years ago I had a terrible Coca-Cola addiction. My sugar was spiking at dangerous levels. I was able to give it up and wouldn’t trade how I feel now for that drink.

[@MrsRebW]

Week 1 of February was just off for me - but I’m back now - getting dressed every day helped :) - can you do a DITL without kiddos? ❤️

[@chaank1069]

I have been doing Noom and LOVE it. Nothing has ever worked except this program. Enjoyed watching the vlog. Have a good day !

[@TessieDobey]

What exactly is Noom?

[@chaank1069]

@@TessieDobey it’s an online app that “teaches” the psychology behind our eating habits. Creates awareness about healthier food choices. It tracks what you eat, drink. Nothing is off limits in terms of foods except it encourages one to eat more of green vegetables and fruits in a day.

[@naturesmistake955]

Hi Jen I really enjoyed the Pizza stone cleaning and the fire logs in the oven! Really good tips and tricks. I never knew about those things. I agree with you they may seem small to some, but being in the house all day, in winter they can be distracting methods that all can enjoy. Also a win for pj's all day and SUSHI SUNDAYS! We are up here in Canada (Rocky Mountains) where we are going through a polar vortex as they call it. -44c at night! -17 today We still get out once a day even if its just a quick jaunt around the block, but fresh air is good for the sole xoxo

[@myview6852]

If building a fire place like the picture won’t work, consider one that is positioning so you are facing your yard at the same time as the fire so you can enjoy both the fire and some scenery. It can be a stand alone built fireplace or a simple store bought fire pit. More to dream about and consider. 🥰

[@MsKimko32]

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE the stars above brand! So darn soft!!!

[@kathleensauer3394]

My kids were obsessed w Kraft Mac m cheese for lunch... I swear I could make it in my sleep even today years later!

[@marythomas6543]

The spring refresh!

[@fleurmp3820]

I like to place extra firewood beside the hot fire to dry, for the next day x

[@okbookgirl]

I HATE that big eye thing. It would have totally have creeped me out as a kid.

[@roxyjinks9643]

My son didn’t potty train till 3 1/2 but when he did he did, no asking him all the time if he had to go the bathroom, my daughter broke at 3.same with her I didn’t have to keep asking her if she had to go to the bathroom!

[@gretchenburton7184]

Jen's life has been ripped apart. Her family dissected by lawyers and dissolution. Yes, she has a new home and has financial advantages but as her life was now isn't. Very sorry for her as I went through a divorce and know all of the feelings but was never cared for financially or in any other way. She has no idea how blessed she is. ❤

[@rosier1135]

Are you thinking about getting married again? Like you, I also divorced my husband when my kids were little, I found a wonderful men he was was divorced with two kids just like me, we got married and it's a perfect balance! I recommend it whenever you feel ready.

[@SillyMando2008]

I’m glad your mood is lifting.

[@katet7240]

Maybe I have an unpopular opinion here... I’ve kept up with you since your old channel and I lost interest for a while, only recently (November 2020) did I rediscover your channel and I’ve been living for your content. Your life has clearly changed in the last year, therefore your content has changed as well. I personally really enjoy the peloton, cooking, kids, Grocery hauls, etc. I’m always seeing people calling out creators saying “you’ve changed” well yes she has changed her life doesn’t revolve around thanksgiving dinner and Disney world trips anymore and that’s okay. I’m here for the personal growth. I enjoy scrolling through comments while I watch. While you may lose some old subs who aren’t into the new content, you’ll gain new subscribers who are. Keep up with the vlogs and please don’t remove comments :)

[@hopemanafi324]

I am the same way with food . If I eat bad from the start of the day , I just keep eating worse and worse . Then for a week or so I punish myself by restricting 🙈 I have been like this since my teens so 20ish years . I need to figure out a healthy balance .

[@CatherineShoresHMN]

I’m impressed that your kids will eat, and like sushi. I fight my adult friends to try stuff and they flat out refuse. 😆