Vlog | Going Back Home, Being a Village Girl, Cousin's Lobola Negotiations & Lots More

Hey Lovelies...
Over the holidays, I was lucky enough to get some time to spend with my family. I went back home to my childhood home and spent some time with the cousins that I grew up with and ofcourse, one of my cousins is a soon to be Mrs and we were there to support her during her Lobola Negotiations and just love on and serve her in-laws....
This Vlog is really special to me so I hope you really enjoy it...
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Love, Zizi

[@zizi_moloko]

Hey Lovelies... Over the holidays, I was lucky enough to get some time to spend with my family. I went back home to my childhood home and spent some time with the cousins that I grew up with and ofcourse, one of my cousins is a soon to be Mrs and we were there to support her during her Lobola Negotiations and just love on and serve her in-laws.... This Vlog is really special to me so I hope you really enjoy it...

[@Tee-pj6cd]

Hey.. hayibo! I went to the same high school as uMakoti(Sthe) at some point in my life.

[@kuenamonaheng]

Enjoyed it alot thank you for sharing😍. Going back to my mothers village where she grew up and when I used to visit on holidays also gave me ho much joy and sadness at the same time seeing how things have change but yet stayed yet same... everything looks smaller than I remembered🤣

[@skylarblue8875]

I loved the vlog sis wami❤️❤️

[@nomakhaya24]

Zizi you need to stop being afraid an automatic 😂😂 your dream Merc is waiting for you in automatic mode

[@tshego7442]

I can already tell you’re gonna become a cautious mom, you’re so sweet. 🥹

[@oyamamgojo3844]

Absolutely loved this vlog so so soooo much!!!!! I'm obviously going to number my favourite moments as usual... 1. Zizi has this habit of saying the funniest things with a straight face. What's "Kaloku ndine mpundu ezinkulu so ndihleli phezulu"🤣🤣🤣everyone was in stitches besides her. 2. Love how quick you nipped the "weight gain" comments in the bud. I struggle with this when I'm home. 3. Cinematic views zase Marhambeni were so beautiful. Loved how you involved us in the details. Every home has a porcelain dog as an ornament sana🤣🤣🤣 Your family reunion made me so mushy. What a special privilege it is to have family that loves and gets together for good times🥺❤️

[@noriemngqibisa3]

🤣🤣🤣

[@12Nomzamo]

Thanks for explaining the Xhosa speaking cause I always get confused when u mention KZN as your home . Your vlogs never disappoint shem siyabonga Zizi for your authenticity in a very Instagram curated Era ❤

[@simplysinovlogs]

It's how cautious you were of the baby boy climbing up the stairs... You are going to be such an amazing mom one day Zizi❤️.... Also, I love how you so respectfully reprimanded umamncane from talking about your weight, I wish elders and people in general would understand that commenting on people's weight is not nice at all.

[@Power2Black]

Dudu Busani Dube mentions eNtsikeni in Iqunga, her fourth novel in the Hlomu series. So beautiful with all those hills and valleys.

[@KhanyiSibande]

That’s what I crossed my mind when she mentioned eNtsikeni

[@cikizwamatrose45]

I don't know why am crying, but this is beautiful Zizi.

[@silindokuhlekhubone]

Thank you for a therapeutic session 😢😢😢..I just had to cry because you took me back into my childhood…everything came back ..Growing up poor and moving into a better place but for some reason I miss that place wheee we used to eat food in one plate or dish ..A place I wanted to leave so badly when I was young but now I miss it 😢

[@faithmsipha2416]

I have'nt seen my family for live 3 years . I got so emotional watching this vlog with so much love in it . Family makes us complete. Thank you for sharing your family with us Zizi

[@ayandamtyebi6825]

It's me waving goodbye to your cousins ezilalini😂. This vlog is the most realistic and intriguing I've seen. The moment you had reminiscing about your grandparents and their home, had me in tears. Life really moves on, we will always appreciate those who loved/love you deeply ❤. The music was perfect for each scene.

[@mokobakiwendy9706]

I waved goodbye too😂😭oh gosh such a beautiful video mahnii.❤️

[@deemashabela9982]

This was probably one of my favourite vlogs to watch, so wholesome, made me feel so emotional because I feel the same way whenever I go to my late grandparents home, a mix of sadness, guilt and happiness. Thanks for sharing this with us Zizi ❤️❤️

[@khunindlovu3310]

It felt like home

[@lincavanessa9954]

Africa is just sooo beautiful, our culture, our people, our food, our countries😭😭😭…. Thank you for this beautiful video Zizi! Love from Rwanda💋

[@dintlebogatsu4743]

This was so refreshing, as an African it gave me nostalgia… made me miss my mom and grandma May thier souls continue to Rest In Peace ❤🙏🏾

[@BuhleN20]

The b-roll when you were eMarhambeni 🥺🥺🥺 aaaw man, sooo much nostalgia. We also got to see a glimpse of mommy Zizi, and you’re gonna be such a great mom to your soccer team! The music selection was top tier too 😍Congratulations to your cuzzy!

[@khunindlovu3310]

I was holding the tears In when Zizi was speaking about her childhood home,her grandparents then they just went flowing when she was playing change in time ahgg thank you allowing us to see such intimate moments

[@dudumalapane4880]

This was so emotional for me. Our family has separated, I miss my cousins and my grandparents home filled with love and laughter. You’re so lucky that you’re able to still maintain healthy relationships with cousins thina we’ve tried many times and failed.

[@khulekaninyuswa721]

Changing drivers was a great idea,you shouldn't drive if you not confident about it... Especially on the Freeway! Checking in🙋

[@juicynaile8723]

This vlog was so wholesome, it made me so emotional and got me thinking how important family is and how life just moves and we loose sight of certain things, thank you

[@aphiwebongo2183]

Oh thank you Zizi ntombi for sharing this with us 😥. It has made me miss my cousins from my dad's side and we haven't spent time together in forever. Thank you so much Zizi ❤️

[@nornomzizi5843]

Zizi Moloko is just on another level 💞

[@nondumisodlamini1560]

Oh Zizipho. I shed a tear when u were reminiscing on your childhood, you being raised by your grandparents, and them being no more(same with me). But ke indeed life goes on❤

[@thandekandlovu5135]

This was the most emotional vlog😭😭😭 It left a lump on my throat. Just thinking about how family structure/ dynamics changes over years as we loose loved ones 💔 Beautiful vlog ke my dhiye ❤️

[@BYTHEBRUSH]

I love how you take cognizance of the finer details Zizi.. It's 100 percent for effort doll!!!

[@dipuomanaka2841]

WOW WOW WOW WOW!!!!! What a vlog. I went through the entire hour like it was 15 minutes. You are the girl you think you are and more shem. Your content is loved and appreciated ❤️

[@babuirapoo]

What a wholesome vlog❤ Family reunions are the best

[@nqobiile]

my fav youtuber! thank you for the video, you've given us another part of who you are. loved from the beginning to the very end. you are so relatable.

[@mavissibanda2959]

Loved this so much Zizi. The part where you were looking over your granny’s home was so emotional❤

[@MsKay287]

I really enjoyed watching. It felt like a 30minute vlog I really didn't want it to end. Zizipho I love, love how authentic you are. You are just the ultimate wholesome hun, your content is top tier. 💯❤️❤️❤️

[@luyandamiya853]

Such an emotional, wholesome and relatable vlog. I think this is my favorite vlog by far❤

[@anastasimankesemokgobu1724]

This was the most emotional vlog I have ever watched on your channel, seeing where you grew up for a few years of your life,to the life that you have created for yourself reminded me that it does get better. I also come from the rural areas in Limpopo, but we are not so separated. I know how it feels to grow up in such an environment, one really has to do well in school to get a better life. Yoooh what a beautiful yet emotional vlog ♥️♥️

[@maitemashangoane4758]

I can never fully explain in words how wholesome Zizi's vlogs make me feel shem. Like after a long day at work I come back sit back and just enjoy pure beautiful content. Rea leboga Mrs Moloko 🥰

[@sinolwethuhlebo6511]

I just shared a tear when you were feeling sad. I felt that I go home quite often but I am trying to build my own family and I also want to rebuild my home as well akukho lula but kuzokwenzeka one day. I really felt that moment Zizi thank you so much being you. I love your content mntase. ❤️❤️

[@tatekambeu4724]

One of my favourite vlogs to date. Thank you for sharing with us the moments that bring you happiness and the people close to your heart. I pray you get to have more heartwarming experiences like this one ❤

[@bridgetditshego3506]

Hi Zizi thanks for the wonderful vlog ntombi.Love how close you are with the family because as we grow old we tend to drift apart.Love it for you since a family that prays together stays together.

[@siscaliciousentertainment]

Gosh, did I not want this vlog to end. This vlog displayed a side of you which we've been aware you've had in you but been waiting for you to unleash sorta vibes and I loved it a million. Family dynamics and seeing how unfiltered you have been with your family is the best part of this video and really leaves me feeling emotional. 🥺🥺💗💗

[@phumlamyataza8527]

I like your cousins for being so understanding about your vlogging. You're so blessed. 😇 They are so sweet 😍

[@busisiwepakade3924]

Beautiful, wholesome vlog as usual. Nibahle kini, Ntombi. When you were talking about your childhood, chile, I became emotional. That road trip from Mariannhill Toll Plaza, BP Garage (Refreshment stop) outside Hammersdale, Thornville turnoff brought so many memories of us visiting both my maternal and paternal families in Kokstad.😍

[@SipheleleWeAreEnough]

This vlog was what I needed today ❤ warm and comfort it felt like a hug

[@sandisiwemahlamvu6448]

Someone: i-rain iyeza Uncle: ngena Noah 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wholesome vlog❣️

[@dimphohadebe250]

My fav notification !!! Zizi, this vlog was so wholesome and really enjoyed every moment.

[@sikelelwa_]

Looked forward to watching this the whole day. It was worth it. Thank you Zizi ❤

[@nikib2870]

Best vlog this year! Off to a great start

[@Prism446]

Automatic is the best Zizi I cant even drive manual now voz been buying auto all the way

[@lifewithlethu]

Oh really enjoyed this vlog so wholesome so real so authentic, Its an hour vlog yet I still didn't want it to end ❤

[@sibahlekhumalo]

Thoroughly enjoy this one Zizi, thank you.

[@Heather-vq8hj]

This vlog was so wholesome and fulfilling. Thanks Zizi ❤️

[@Miss_kaytt]

I can’t believe I watched right up until the end yet I have an early morning tomorrow . Beautiful Vlog Hun❤

[@BonoloPalesaNorris]

Oh man Zizi this vlog made me want to visit my hometown, it’s been so long and I understand what you mean by feeling guilty; ever since my grandparents passed on, no one goes home anymore. Replayed from 41:52 and got more and more emotional with each replay ❤ Thank you for this video 🥹

[@fezimathumbu5753]

Zizi!!this is one of my favourite vlog,I became emotional either,just brought up my memories too for my family too,as we all scattered, thanks I enjoyed to watch 😍😍.

[@ladye1253]

This was an interesting side of you Zizi- I enjoyed this vlog 100%. The authenticity was on another level.

[@andileh843]

What a wholesome vlog🥰❤️🔥thank you so much Zizi❤️

[@potsomosoma9897]

I've just the most beautiful movie ever , u lol , u cry, it remind u of home, where u come from, the importance of family yho , thanks Mrs Moloko

[@nandisameela5050]

So much nostalgia, such a wholesome vlog. My favourite vlog yet

[@Katlego_Mmekwa]

Such a wonderful vlog I really enjoyed 🥹❤️ The weight topic is always a topic when going back home I even got to a point where I hate going home during holidays 😢

[@yethugamedze7317]

I hate it so much...I also stopped visiting relatives. 😒 it's so inconsiderate and growing up it affected my self esteem.

[@misspurplerain]

What a wholesome vlog🥰🥰 Love the relationship you have with your cousins This was beautiful to watch 🤞🥺

[@TegaOnniH]

Thank you Zizi, this was really nice 🙏🏽

[@franscinasemakalengmedupe2890]

Oh this was a beautiful vlog. The way I love you Zizi. ❤️. You are such a lover, the warm hugs you give. The way you were so careful with that baby. Like everything wethu was just 👌🏽. Seeing your background and how far you have come, its really encouraging.

[@lilykok7357]

This was beautiful Mrs Moloko, your very supportive my dhiye may God continue to bless you.

[@kgomotsomoloto3962]

What a wholesome vlog, had to re-watch it even ❤️

[@ckroyal_]

Aaaaw I was thinking about you last night, your videos bring me so much joy. Happy New year Mrs Moloko

[@Bozalabozu]

This was beautiful ❤and they can always look back at this. ❤stunning.

[@thato_trinity7642]

Definitely a fave🥺🎉😭wow wow wow wow... So wholesome❤️ loved it loved it loved it

[@neilwek4231]

This was such a beautiful vlog, my goodness. Zizi you are so soft😍 I really enjoyed it❤️❤️

[@boitumeloramosa1456]

This was beautiful to watch. Thank you. Im so fulfilled, like honestly!

[@SibuleleTafeni]

That was beautiful sisi. Really enjoyed that was so wholesome... family vibes🥰 Thank you for sharing Zizi

[@roselineuiras8603]

Wholesome on all levels. Love it here 💕💕🌹🌹💖💖

[@mercymafuta8702]

Notification gaaaang!! 🔔 Been looking forward to some Zizi content in my life 💃💃

[@bex_saku]

Yoh Zizi🥹what a wholesome vlog mahn🥰reminded me of your Lobola vlog running errands with Namhla💕this is beautiful

[@AneleNdoda]

Thank you for such beautiful and wholesome content Zizi ❤️

[@shandrydavids1112]

Zizi you half a wonderfull family,there's alot of love when you'll together. Stay close to each other cause family is important

[@bongib2793]

This vlog made me so emotional gosh. So relatable! Your content is great Zizi

[@lilithasondaba431]

Love love the music in your vlogs so wholesome🥺😻

[@preciousmazibuko8097]

Loved and enjoyed this vlog sooo much hey - a very wholesome vlog❤️

[@llt4726]

Love how all of you work well together🥰🥰🥰

[@ziphelelemadonsela2486]

Ngaze ngaHappy💃. Ohh the love I have for you❤

[@keneilwemarwane]

Such a beautiful and relatable vlog! i enjoy your content so much Zizi.

[@nontobekotau9773]

This was such a wholesome vlog I really enjoyed it. Thank you. Also emotional when you showed us your grand parents house. After spending last week crying, Im home sick again.

[@ayapharalasi278]

Your vlogs are literally SO GOOD ntombi!! I am always soo hooked! I loved the lali content!

[@sisandamasika2061]

Ohh wow what a nice vlog May God Bless your family Zizi nibambane zinqabile family ezinje cc🥰

[@sehlodirachel3220]

Family is everything maaan ….what a vlog I did really enjoy from the beginning till the end❤

[@JohannaM7696]

Really enjoyed every minute of this vlog zizi...so refreshing and lovely...blessed

[@Mosolodi_ii]

I just love your videos so so much sis Zizi🥺❤️. I enjoy your content so much my sister even says I'm always watching you😂. Be it sit downs, hair videos vlogs.. Everything

[@Browneyes_]

What a beautiful vlog ntombi I go so emotional when you were showing where you grew up I related so much ❤

[@thulzmadiba]

Spending my lunch on this channel,, a whole hour, thanks for such a beautiful vlog 💖💖💖💖💕💕💕🎊🎊

[@aminamoloto8611]

What a beautiful vlog, really enjoyed watching it ♥️

[@anelisaluke]

you made me miss ezlalini sana.......not me wanting to cry while you are talking about the guilt of your grandma's house.

[@mampaimaserampai7588]

This was so lovely, I loved it so much.

[@leratogracenabiyane5415]

Beautiful Content ❤ we appreciate it Zizi

[@ruthmoya8586]

Beautiful vlog Zizi...l enjoyed every moment of it sana💞💞

[@lebohangmeya9755]

The excitement I get when I see a notification for your channel Zizi 🥺♥️ I love you my dhiye ♥️

[@tshego7442]

What a refreshing vlog 🥹

[@carolbongekanduku2341]

Great vlog….it was beautiful to see my village through KZbin ❤❤❤❤❤

[@triciamagagula9749]

I couldn't wait to knock off when I saw the notification of this vlog, really enjoyed every part of it♥ ♥

[@thusotshepo158]

Love this vlog it’s really realistic I relate a lot beautiful family sending love to all of you.🫶❤️🥺

[@mrs.m5847]

I really enjoyed this vlog🤗 you such a pleasure to watch 🥰

[@seraphinecharlesyoram8943]

So wholesome , thanks for sharing .❤❤

[@thatomasimole3440]

I enjoyed😍 this Vlog so much it reminded me of my grans house in lesotho so thank you Zizi i enjoyed it.

[@SiyaGrowthWisdom]

This is going to be wholesome.. Let me watch

[@ntombizondi350]

So much love and wholesomeness in this blog Zizi…loved it ke sana ❤