VLOG: PA LIFE, YOUR TIME IS COMING, INFLUENCER EVENT PREP, WANT A BBL? HOME DECOR |THE DESSY RAY WAY

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Happy Saturday gang 🥰 please just remember, all of my rants are just thoughts! I don’t want anybody to internalize anything I say too deeply 🤍 haha if you’ve been here for a while, you know a lot of the time I just be talking 😭😂 anyways, what do yall have planned for the weekend??

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

I believe that KZbin offer a feature that can remove negative comments so you don’t see them. You are like me I can have a hundred sweet comments but the one negative one will play out in my mind over and over.

[@FromKanyisola]

I feel like BBLs give such a specific aesthetic. Do what you want but currently, as you are - you look so elegant and expensive 🤌🏾

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you for the kind feedback babe 🤍

[@DelhiaMarie]

Girl!! As soon as you have your first baby, you bout you have some BBL HIPS naturally! You are stacked ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂

[@TheDessyRayWay]

😂😂😂😂 I’m over here cracking uppp omg my mama says the same thing

[@JassyKayy]

I loved your segment about content creation. I’m a small KZbinr and it just makes me so happy for ppl to express the patience you have to have with content.

[@cassandracabarnes4539]

I date my journal also, I love going back and seeing how far I've come and or accomplished. I am also reading the Bible from the beginning

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Yesss

[@themultifacetedmom]

I love love love your transparency with reading the bible. I bought a bible two years ago and am still trying to get better with daily reading.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you 😊 it’s a journey for sure!

[@everythingcerwah]

when its your time its definitely going to be your time.i love and appreciate your view on life and in your field of work.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Amen 🥰🙏🏾 thank you so much for watching

[@OneGabrielle]

Love ALL your content!! And Congratulations on the brand event!! Many more to come 💕

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so much 🥰🤍

[@shanteree]

I love the energy ❤ I’m not even big on pizza but that pizza looked goodt!! I also feel the same exact way about doing content because you love it verses for money and recognition..

[@cupoftea434]

C’mon consistency 😍💕 you are beautiful, & your body is teaaaa sis! Ultimately, do what makes you happy ❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so much!!🤍

[@Princess8595]

I love your gold shelf 😩 it’s so beautiful. One thing you going to do, is come through with the decor

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I’m trying sis! 😩🤍

[@AB_The_NP]

Hi Dessy I love your channel I am a nurse practitioner and you encourage me so much to just put out the content. When you said you just wanna reach the girls that look like you I agree so much. Keep doing you girly ❤❤❤❤

[@_realsouthernbelle]

Girl I can definitely relate to your chat about enhancing things. I just turned thirty and now am interested in everything I see on Tiktok liquid lipo, fillers, all that. lol.

[@VibrantPeace]

Ok them transitions you did at the beginning ate down real bad ! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you for noticing 🥰🤍🤍

[@Shelleshelly9439]

Thank you for the positive words of encouragement. I have been feeling the same way about creating ( I have another channel) but I’m going to keep going.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

We have to keep going sis 🤍🤍

[@Johnjones45689]

Amazing video!! Really enjoyed everything about it :) If possible in the future, could you do a video revving up your car? So we can hear how it sounds!! ❤

[@queendlifestyle8756]

Oh yeah!!!! I’m here sis! #raygang in the house!!!! Let me go get my popcorn!

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Gangggg🥰🥰🥰

[@cali_love5977]

The shelf verdict, is it’s giving big ass shelf that should go to the other wall. I think the two chair would look dope together . Those chair are really big and it’s fighting with the big shelf. Those two chairs and the vase (where the shelf is) Move it around and take pics live with each arrangement for a couple days and see what you like. You’ll know! Love the chairs and consistency 🫶

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you for the feedback!! I have like 2 other arrangements I want to try once I put my items on the shelf so I can see

[@cali_love5977]

Can’t wait to see which arrangement you picked!! You killled me with the addictive personality. I swear I thought I was the only one that has that too. Once I’m hooked on something, it’s game on (until I’m sick too) lol

[@TheDessyRayWay]

@@cali_love5977 why are we like that 😂😂

[@regrich8795]

We are from the Midwest we put sauce, meat any toppings and then the cheese gang 😋

[@TheDessyRayWay]

You get me 😏

[@regrich8795]

@@TheDessyRayWay just messing first bite goes to you 😀

[@DesireeSacola]

Love the beauty room! And the bob bobbed this whole vlog, yes Mam!! 😍

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Ahhh thank you 🥰🤍

[@Kenshaable]

Loved the transitiond 😊

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@KasiMalula]

Ohhh the consistency ✨✨✨✨🥂🥂🥂🥂

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Ahhhh she’sss backkkk🥰🤭

[@mwilalombe24]

Love your authenticity! 🫶🏿 also I felt you when you said “it’s getting ghetto,where’s my man” 😂 I half jokingly say that all the time

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Lolllll girl it’s me and my single friends favorite thing to say 😂🤍

[@jenniferl.jonesmaom7347]

I was screaming through the screen' telling you how to get the chair out of the box. You must have heard me. The chair is adorable.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

😂😂😂 so funny. Thank you!

[@marshacampbell90]

Wow congratulations Dessy ❤️🥳

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@UpAndAtEmAddie]

The Chobani flip are my ish^. My favorite is the key lime/key lime pie.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Yesssss they are my current addiction I need to stop 😭

[@UpAndAtEmAddie]

@@TheDessyRayWay the way I see it, it’s better than having a piece of cake. It keeps my sweet tooth under control.

[@gadinagill342]

Girl, I feel you. Sometimes I want surgery, some days I dont😂😂 Okayy throughly enjoyed this vlog.. cant wait for the next 🥳🥳

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Lmao!! Exactly. Like “I’m not gon do it girl…I was just thinking about it” 🤭😏😂😂

[@neetsdomination]

Let’s get it sis!! ❤❤❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I hope you enjoy 🥰

[@sassysk]

Enjoyed the vlog & yayyy congrats to Jenny! The pizzas look🔥 def need to try & make my own. Also you have a bomb physique already!!

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you love 🤍🤍

[@MsAllyGreen]

My girl!!! ❤❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

🤍🤍🤍 I hope you enjoy :)

[@QueenEst]

Love your energy ❤. I’m subbing 😊

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Ahhh thank you 🥰

[@wayNAY87]

Love the word of the day!

[@TheDessyRayWay]

It was a good one :)

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

Congratulations babe on your brand event. Your home is such a vibe. Your body is bomb, you don’t need a bbl but I will love you no matter what. We all want to correct something.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so so much 🥰 you’re so kind

[@wayNAY87]

You’re an amazing vlogger. Thats all.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you 🥹🤍

[@Dauphne]

You always find such cute pieces

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thanks I try 🥰

[@simplisticj4082]

Love the Vlogs & Your Personality Is Dope 🔥

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@chontaepink2191]

Thee beauty room decor is nice!!!! Des you already have a bangin body !! but whatever you do. you are still loved

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so so much love 🥰 Actually shocked that it came together the way it did!

[@chontaepink2191]

@@TheDessyRayWay you're so welcome!!! Yas, cannot wait for the final look!!

[@LaShaynaMonique]

Love the beauty room setup, the only thing that might make it awkward is if you film too close to the mirror and we can see it in the background, otherwise it’s definitely beautiful decor! You go girl! xo Sidebar: I’m turning 35 in 9 days, no kids and I can honestly say my body didn’t start to gain the “grown and sexy” weight until I was about 32/33.. I’d say use another year or 2 to do BBL research before you dive into it… I’m definitely considering Lipo REAL soon myself within the next year or 2! Skinny BBLs are cute to me not overdone either… you’ll be cute either way, just research the complications girls are starting to have… xx

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so much!!🥰🥰 I’m so proud of the outcome haha. If I do choose to film with that as a back drop, I would definitely do it from an angle so you can’t see it. Regarding the grown woman weight, THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING ON THIS! I haven’t gotten this take yet and I’m so glad to hear it lol. I was thinking my body at 29 is pretty much as grown as it’s gonna get so now I have hope I’ll fill in a little more 😂

[@MelloneeKecia]

Enjoying watching love it ❤🥰👍🏾👏🏾🤗

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thanks so much🥰🤍🤍

[@myblackice3]

Susssss! The girls are out here paying for what God and Mom have blessed you with. That body is bodyingg. You're naturally beautiful Des. Love listening to your devotionals. I do mines every morning before I start my day. I pray many more brand trips/invites for you in 2024.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you so much! 🤍🥹 truly just thoughts for now lol I’m too scared at the moment to do anything

[@theanorman2721]

Can you link your bookcase please that is soooooo cute !

[@TheDessyRayWay]

absolutely! I just put it in the description, but here it is for you as well: amzn.to/4a073jL :) I got mine from wayfair but this is the same item a little cheaper on amazon

[@theanorman2721]

Thanks Sis I’m from Cleveland Ohio so it’s good to see you rep Ohio so tastefully! Forever praying with you and for you🤗

[@tamarakennedy7861]

When foods there r no words 😋😋

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Exactly 😂😂

[@QueenEst]

I’m all for ppl doing what they want and having a supportive community. But times have changed there’s sooo many different options out there if you don’t want to go under the knife.

[@oalatishe]

What about lipo or hip fillers? Other less risky procedures that can give the desired shape. However, since you mentioned social media having an impact, I feel you should really assess your desire for having it and pray about it. God never wants us to make a decision just because others are doing it/have influenced us too

[@fayeosseni6310]

Here early for my big sister ❤❤❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

We love when the gang shows up earlyyyy🤭🤍

[@fayeosseni6310]

I understand what you mean about the body but there are fillers you can use to see of you like the look first before getting it done. Theres a PA in Houston that does it

[@Dauphne]

Des where did you buy your large pampas? I have been looking for some of those for a long while.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I got mine from CB2 forever ago!! It’s their UVA stalks

[@Dauphne]

I looked on CB2 website many times. They always had the little ones and they high.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

@@Dauphne www.cb2.com/uva-taupe-stalk-6-8-set-of-3/s132291 These were the ones but they say no longer sold 😭

[@Dauphne]

@@TheDessyRayWay Oh ok. Thank you Des.

[@KEVADIVA1]

Where’s the tall pampas from ❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Cb2! They are called UVA stalks

[@_jasminek_]

Where did you get your black cutting board?

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Crate and barrel!

[@_jasminek_]

Thank you!!

[@wayNAY87]

Like another commenter said…BBLs give a certain….aesthetic. You give elevated vibes. Hope that’s helpful feedback.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I appreciate the feedback thank you 🤍

[@UpAndAtEmAddie]

I just started the video, but BBL? You’re stacked as is, surprised you aren’t fighting BBL allegations already.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Stop it 😂😂

[@taneishajohnson3790]

My thoughts exactly

[@MahadoYourTexasRealtor]

I was honestly feeling down. Not sure if as a new creator you have to be extremely defeated or it’s me. I love your video and you are beautiful. Thanks for the words of encouragement girl ❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

It’s a very normal feeling love!! We have all been there 🤍🤍 thank you

[@queennn__nnn]

Love LOVE your content! Would you ever consider doing more PA content? It is so hard finding black women PAs on youtube :(

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you :) I usually do PA content in short form so like reels and TikTok’s!

[@HotSixty]

👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@brittriridley381]

Are you going to see Sarah Jakes in Sugarland on 4/25?

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I didn’t even know she was gonna be here!

[@RickiThomas1]

i 100% get how you feel on the bbl but i’d say skinny lipo would be better if anything.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Hmmm good to know!!

[@tarahickman8675]

💝

[@TheDessyRayWay]

🤍🤍

[@VibrantPeace]

The BBL caught me off guard. You have a beautiful shape but it’s your body so do what you want and don’t worry about what ppl may have to say.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you!! Just thoughts for now :)

[@sheiscapri]

I thought I was the only one who likes black pepper on my pizza! 😋

[@TheDessyRayWay]

It’s so good 😩😩

[@brittneymills679]

You’re stunning and have an amazing figure! Even though they are thoughts, you’re blessed just as you are! I’m in my mid thirties and still looking for my “grown woman weight.” Lol. So you’re not alone beauty 😊

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I appreciate you for sharing 🥰🤍 I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels like this at times

[@Dauphne]

Hey Des

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Hey boo I hope you enjoyed!

[@isha1006]

Maybe try hip filler instead of full on BBL?

[@cee.me.style.]

Chile, the body is already giving! I do understand looking at yourself and not being 100% pleased, that's the reality for lots of women. Ive had hips all my life, but soon as a lose a little weight, these cheeks wanna run away too. When i gain it back and start feeling thick again, this muffin top wanna appear also. Can't win! Lol

[@Wintersno]

the outfit is going to eaaaaaaaaaaaat

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Right?!??😍😍 I can’t wait till it gets here!!

[@CheckinwithJaliyah]

They have non surgical bbls now lol (they come up with everything😂) look into that

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Lmao no seriously there’s a procedure for everything nowadays 😂

[@taneishajohnson3790]

Non surgical bbl? I got to reach that even though it's stomach lipo is what I want after having 2 children and sugar 😊

[@DesireeSacola]

But Des, sis, who putting that chair back in the box to unbox for the reel 😮‍💨 because No Mam 😅😂 I’m also 1 baby in and I gained 25 pounds but still no hips 😭 I’m right with you girl

[@TheDessyRayWay]

LMAO no foreal! That’s why I only took 1 chair out 😂 And omggg don’t tell me that bc I’ll cry right now 😭😭 Lord I can’t wait to see what the baby does to me

[@Wintersno]

Period! Covergirl!!!!

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I’m so excited 😭

[@shaylajfields]

girl! try some hot honey on your pizza! trader joes has some that is really good.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Girl I LOVE hot honey! I was out lol that’s why I put the chili oil and regular honey - same effect! Haha

[@andorrabastien]

Now girl, how can you be that stacked and still want a bbl? That’s just greedy 😭🤣 jk do you girl ❤❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

😂😂😂 THE HIPS ONLY!!

[@domdom27939]

They better not be shadow banning you. Jackie Aina was talking about this for dark skin women on KZbin. It’s sick

[@TheDessyRayWay]

They are 😒 smhhh

[@wayNAY87]

Fage is superior to Chobani, please, no one respond trying to argue with me! Lol

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Wait I’ve never heard of that one! I’ll have to try

[@wayNAY87]

@@TheDessyRayWay fage 5%. Plain yogurt. Bring it home and drizzle a smidge of honey on it. Then stir well because Fage is THICK. You have to whip it. I’m eating it right now. You must try!

[@waterfalls314]

Please don’t you look beautiful

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I appreciate the compliment 🤍🤍

[@Shelleshelly9439]

You look great but I completely understand wanting to enhance your body. However, YOU ARE GOING TO GET LOTTTTTTTS OF ATTENTION. You just have to be ready for everything that comes with it. You are beautiful ❤

[@TheDessyRayWay]

This is what I’ve heard a ton and I’m not ready for that lmao another reason it’s a no as of right now! Thank you babe 🤍🤍

[@domdom27939]

You can gain a butt in a gym you gotta weight train.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Sister I already have the butt I want the hips 😩😭

[@taneishajohnson3790]

You have a great body.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you 🤍

[@Dauphne]

Des you have hips and butt already. You have a cute shape. Girl you trippin. You dont need to have anything done.

[@TheDessyRayWay]

I swear these are just thoughts 😂😂 don’t eat me up too much now lmao

[@Dauphne]

​@@TheDessyRayWaykick them thoughts out. Have a beautiful day. Beautuful Des. God bless you.

[@dottieh.8189]

Those child bearing hips will come if/when/after you have kids. Then they will NOT go away, even if you want them to 😏 Edit: Mama is right!!!

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Hahaha mama always knows right!!

[@KasiMalula]

I think we as people are never satisfied, you are extremely gorgeous, and made in the image of Jesus, for many women they are still insecure even after a BBL, I think there is beauty in having your unique natural shape and not conforming to societal beauty standards 🩷🩷🩷

[@TheDessyRayWay]

Thank you for the compliment love 🤍 I do hear often that many women aren’t satisfied postop so that’s interesting