Vusi Thembekwayo Accused of Beating His Wife | GBV | Court Case | Substance Abuse

[@kholofelolebepe9637]

The Enhle Mbali/Black Coffee situation taught me to drink water and mind my own business. Look at them now😐😀

[@TulliPungo]

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[@kpt_forever]

It just seems odd to me that every year these cases pop up even more during these 16 days. Men hold the power to inflict physical harm while women hold power to have you canceled altogether.. I hope that one day we get to a place, as humanity, where we don't abuse the power we have.

[@Penuelism]

I hope that more good, strong, mature, intelligent men and women rise up and get louder than the bad people.

[@vivianokeswa488]

In my view, we don't have to look at these issues in isolation. As you have counted similar cases involving black South African men. We need to run deeper and see what are the common root causes of such crimes/ acts. We need some healing as black men. The law protects women and I can tell you now, black men you're on your own..

[@Penuelism]

It's very important that we keep talking, so that the root causes can be clearly visible. From my side, it's colonization, capitalism, miseducation, toxic television, toxic social media, absent parents & lack of spaces where strong, positive male & female rolemodels are.

[@noccym5109]

Social media is on the side of the woman. Not the law. For the law to finally takes its course it normally requires multiple victims, invasive interrogations and still have a low conviction rate cause it one's word against the other. That said, it's not only black men.

[@kaizerpursuits7086]

Lorch, MacG and Given Mkhari even MarksMaponyane had criminal cases opened against them but there wasn't backlash like the others. Life is normal, they continue to influence in Sports, Entertainment and Business. I partially agree though, it always a case of if you're so and so fave, you'll survive the scandal. Even le Julius, there was also that 'frivolous' allegation by fellow MP, Boy 'Our Perfect Wedding' Mamabolo but it didn't stick same with Cereal as he was accused by Julius. I agree, let's wait for the story to unfold with more details as there can be a 360° turn like they always do.

[@kpt_forever]

@@noccym5109 I partially agree with you except for the part of the law. These are talking points that social justice warriors use (usually the cancel culture squad) but they are not factual or accurate in reality. I am not at all saying that you are a part of them I just think they've propagated such talk that people start to believe it without fact/stat checking. There is no law that cannot be exercised or is against women and in terms of prosecution rates, each case will stand on its merits but by and large the advantage nowadays is predominantly on the woman's side. There was a time when it wasn't but we have honestly made enough progress that, in my opinion, the balance tips more on the woman's side. Any gent who gets accused is automatically presumed guilty well before due process.

[@nfmatontsi2815]

Uhm, Dr Myles would have said never trust fans. Today they love you tomorrow they crucify you.

[@spokiem8297]

You are spot on. But still doesn't address the question of whether he abused her or not.

[@acceptinglife6491]

To be fair, we cannot addresses what we don't know. Our opinions are invalid, the law must take its course here

[@championlehlohonolontulini9957]

I enjoy your take on our issues man.. keep it up!!

[@LaurenceGertse]

Ah sit down relax drink water and stay out of other peoples bussiness .....thats what i always tell myself .

[@nomsapxilongo9984]

This is a practical example of men who looks perfect and brilliant in public or to their fans, but they are something else in their homes, so no one knows whats going on behind closed doors.

[@boikanyomaboke8628]

Let's just wait for the court. Right now no one have accurate facts about what's really it's happening in Vusi's household.

[@nambyabwzw6754]

I like you because you are relatable my guy, keep up with the consistency.

[@kuselwaleona6483]

I appreciate Vusi's contribution to our society and have deep respect for him, however mentioning substance abuse in his statement was taking a dig on her character perhaps so that her credibility might be questionable... that then makes me question His integrity. He just made himself a red flag... let's watch thou

[@mpholeonard7076]

We are living in a world which you don't know who to trust....our loved ones become our rivals...system doesn't wanna see black man prosper....when you are loud with facts attacking the system you become a target....people are being paid to bring targets down....

[@bohlaleletuka]

He won't be canceled forget it, the media loves that man.

[@sifisomthethwa3775]

This is definately the most opportune time for man to come together to learn how to live under this new, evolving world. I usually say we need to come together as man, do that we can learn how to support our partners, live with different genders, learn how to tolerate and basic DOs and DON'Ts in another's perspective because there's man who are able to ride the current wave with no issues. We owe it to our future generation to start building a foundation for them to learn and take over from. We need to forget about the past and look into the future. I feel some sense of responsibility to whatever is happening to us as man because tomorrow it'll definately be me in one form or another. This happening is not a mistake however we need to sit down and talk about what we really don't want to talk about.......

[@Penuelism]

These are brilliant thoughts, Nyambose. And I agree 1000%.

[@timbawangu3038]

So so true and valid. Can you start something, if you haven't already. With two or three of your friends, it will go a long way. 10000% support

[@thembisaodendaal]

Sifiso you are on to something start with a small group in your circle engage each other and something profound will come out of it .I feel such strong and positive energy from your words

[@internetbusiness2871]

Vusi can fall but Surly that Guy will rise again 7x better ✊

[@CorporatePantsula]

The swart pen!

[@Ndunawe53]

Somizi is still gigging mate making money yeah he lost some bags but the guy is living soft in the States . Cancel culture is problematic cause you base your judgment one sided story I say let’s hear both side of the story before people start calling sponsors to remove a person from an add or line up . It’s like what MacG said sooner or later men might have to walk around with recording devices just to prove their innocence . Sadly Vusi has made powerful enemies and they will jump on this to burn his castle down .

[@Leeworld310]

You speak very well. Just subscribed.

[@Penuelism]

Thank you very much

[@Lordfinessse]

I went through something like this, but 100 times worse, and with the worst possible outcome.. still reeling two years later

[@Penuelism]

I'm really sorry and I hope you'll heal and get stronger.

[@en1575]

The very same freedom our parents fought for is the very same freedom we use as chains to cage each other and the fore oppressers are laughing behind the scenes.

[@TheLUYC2020]

Well articulated

[@tebogomaphephe3470]

How ironic Sizwe Dhlomo once accused Vusi of abusing his wife.

[@lezzgp]

Vusi is playing badly. That woman is going after it all. We go down there.

[@rogue1rogue187]

A good forecast into the future is movies. Look closer and who the heroes and the villains are. I have been noticing a lot of black men villains lately.

[@mokwenamokwena6392]

Refreshing content my brother, and unbiase

[@bridgetkasi4414]

I don't think there is an agenda against successful black men, I do think that women are just more vocal and less tolerant of abuse than before although its still not enough women, because they fear being judged or labeled. The reality is more women are killed through intimate partner violence in SA than in any other country in the world. For now I remain an objective observer let's hope the truth comes out. Vusi the man is someone I've admired. Vusi the husband I don't know.

[@Penuelism]

Thank you for these thoughts.

[@ohlangeni]

Rubbish. The husband of Black SA women is the Government and his Gynocentrict laws & values that has destroyed the Black family and made SA Black women the biggest single-mother population in the world. Average Black men are emasculated and told being manly / masculine is toxic. Our authority has been removed from the family, turning us into a matriachal society. Yet, the effiminate men that are raised by the single mothers are Friend-zoned by the women because biologically girls want a man (not another woman with a dick).

[@bridgetkasi4414]

@@ohlangeni a real man doesn't expect some outside entity to validate his authority or manliness nor does he exert control through voilence. He inspires it in a woman through his actions, his achievements, his tenderness and his abilities to be a genuine provider not just financially but also emotionally. A real man is a protector. The issue today is actually men like you that expect to be respected but they behave like victims blaming others for what they don't have in their lives.

[@ohlangeni]

@@bridgetkasi4414Females use the term "real men" to manipulate society/men to do what only benefits them. You never hear men saying "real women" do this. What is a real women or real men...bullshit. The rest of your drivel does not hold water. Black SA men are a formerly conquered group. The ruling men from Europe used Black women to spread Christianity, their European language, to remove African values and presently to aggressively push the anti-men form of Feminism that cast Black women as eternal victims of African men, African patriachy whereas European (and Indian) families remain very patriachal and successful while we are engulf with a society of single-mothers who are taught that they "do not need no men" because they "are strong and independent Black women" and of course the Government is there as the new husband.

[@mathabatv]

Keep up the good work bru.

[@sifundo77]

If she's out of line Akamshaye...✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@sergemulapa6935]

Good content bro! Love your work!

[@buttabing8783]

You forget Given Mkhari. He was also accused of GBV.

[@kholwanincongwane6799]

This really Sad man our Black Men are easily destroyed Nxe this is really annoying

[@lalahmofokeng3916]

He's arrogant and obnoxious he tinks his wife needs help and he's the one needing help!

[@nomsapxilongo9984]

I agree with you 100%.

[@wearerunnersw.a.r5613]

Wow 🙄. Definitely not in the good sense.

[@sphesh1761]

I like your content broh

[@Bonolo_Leshoro]

I live nextdoor to vusi in dainfern and he did abuse his wife or should I say girlfriend

[@sinentokozosibeko3675]

First time viewer 👌👌👌

[@russelmtlokwa6058]

Ya Mandela & Ramaphosas case is different because back then we didn't have these laws that we have right now.

[@Cash_is_King727]

How are those cases different?

[@russelmtlokwa6058]

@@Cash_is_King727 Because GBV laws that we currently have were not implemented back then.

[@Cash_is_King727]

@@russelmtlokwa6058 If I am understanding you correctly, abuse before GBV laws is not the same as abuse abuse after those laws? Is that what you mean?

[@sibusisodlamini7598]

I am a radical black feminist and I am proud.

[@phililemosia6956]

Both sides has to come out so we cn see who is wrong, as for Vusi u would understand that as Powerful and intelligent and hardworking as he is ,he cn lose tamper if he has to come home and find a partner using substance and that makes him aggressive tht is why he packed her bags and may be he was taking her to her home or family bcz tht is a big turn off for someone like him. Let his wife come out so we cn understand both sides

[@thevillagegist]

Iyoo😱😭

[@cyliamotsoenengzengele]

I really don't believe the other men you call favourite have been protected as such. That time was the time when women had little to none rights and the time before social media. If it was now, they would have seen flames.

[@ohlangeni]

Can you explain a time in human history where women had no rights as compared to average men?

[@bdsounds873]

His network is literally half a billion

[@dopecityempire2469]

Why you start by saying it's very sad,He's a great Business man but he has demons like the rest of us.......

[@nelzg5819]

As if wealth and material success exempts ome from having such issues. Geez

[@m......7984]

This will offend a lot of people but fuck it Women are quick to group together and say yes we believe her that In turn leads to men on the other hand protecting their own because they’ve seen too many false accusations It’s innocent until proven guilty but somehow when it involves a man he’s instantly guilty If a woman hits her husband because he’s a drunk is she wrong? Absolutely not fights happen. Majority of people who are married have probably thrown hands with each other at least once😹 can’t be calling everything abuse

[@VendGeo]

gents be careful

[@chrisjohnson4039]

There was no need to mention his wife's alleged substance abuse. It looks like he conveniently threw her to the wolves. We don't know all the details, but Vusi hasn't done himself any favors by putting his wife's challenges on front street. If it's a private matter, don't make your wife a sacrificial lamb.

[@leonardkagiso6014]

Let's push #Blackmanneedtoberespected

[@mazwideamahle4091]

How ? Have you earned that respect?....how about black men need to earn their respect.....PROTECT THE VULNERABLE AND WALK IN DIGNITY!

[@leonardkagiso6014]

@@mazwideamahle4091 we make burners

[@mimiaskew6114]

I'm one of those woman who believe that, there is an agenda against our black brothers! Some women are brave enough to curse men like dogs, beat them and or smack them like abused kids. Acting like, life in the movies. Forgetting that men feel pain too, feel humiliation and will retaliate. When they eventually fight back we cry GBV. Or what's supposed to be. (VAW). It seems to me this GBV is one sided. How many men were killed by women? Are there no men who are physically and emotionally abused by their wives or girlfriends? Fathers denied access to their children. Fucked up! Having said that, I don't dispute the fact that there are abusive and evil men out there and that women are beginning to be more vocal and less tolerant of abuse than before. We all need thorough introspection! We as women must stop this shit of painting all men with one brush. We need to watch our behavior towards men, so that we can be able to determine why they "behave the way we think they do"! Every case is different! Our brothers are suffocating 🤞 Penuel my King🙌

[@mphocrerani3539]

This is true, i think men suffer more of emotional abuse from women than physical abuse.

[@Penuelism]

Thank you so much, Mimi ❤

[@seeeluasmr6672]

@@Penuelism why are u thanking mimi when she gave gbv an excuse? Her comment should be taken down.

[@ReasonAng]

RSA seems to be under attack

[@zimasajam]

This is sad for Vusi

[@martinmahlatse9021]

What is happenning now reminds me of Emmet Till. A 14 year old black boy from Mississippi who was Lynched by a white mob cause he apparently harassed a white woman. This is one of manny cases of black men that were Lynched due to false accusations by white women. It is sad that the battone has been passed to the black woman to carry on the legacy of persecution of black men. It is time we get togehter as black men cause this is enough.

[@Penuelism]

Many black men are falsely accused, and thus, destroyed, by foul black women. But, in the same breath, many many women are victims of violence & other forms of abuse by foul men. Both groups need to be attended to and helped, without bashing collective groups.

[@KB-jx1xx]

YT deleted my comment...

[@KB-jx1xx]

They don't want the black family to know the truth...

[@Penuelism]

Try post it again, but find intelligent ways to say the trigger words so the algorithms don't pick them up.

[@luthulimadlanduna4753]

Um um um... I hate "um, ums".

[@4-give-nest176]

His accent alone mkes him sus for me. I dont believe hes authentic at all!