NPD is underdiagnosed because of the nature of the disorder. The DSM requires the narcissist to feel that their narcissism is causing distress in their lives. Most will never feel this, let alone feel that they need therapy. It’s their victims who feel distressed, not the narcissist, therefore evading diagnosis. Our society rewards narcissism.
@melisentiapheiffer3034 Жыл бұрын
Insightful comment!
@staceystrukel19179 ай бұрын
Exactly. I hope the more we talk about it then the more people will see it in themselves and seek therapy. Years from now we should know alot more.
@MsKariSmith3 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power, and we all need knowledge to survive the craziness in our present world.
@melisentiapheiffer3034 Жыл бұрын
The narcissistic abuser in my life says knowledge isn't power. POWER is power.
@yusuftutstone55866 ай бұрын
@@melisentiapheiffer3034 Mastering others is in fact strength, but mastering the self is the only real power my friend.
@melisentiapheiffer30345 ай бұрын
@@yusuftutstone5586 The above are his predatory words, not mine.
@janetstahle93072 жыл бұрын
Love your great questions Tami!!!
@seehumor26473 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the video - Narcissism is so destructive! I creatively portray narcissism in the last video on my channel w/ a funny skit also. I hope we inspire/inform people to avoid manifesting narcissism in their life! Just subscribed to your channel too - Keep up the meaningful content.
@Silvertestrun2 жыл бұрын
Ty
@diannerussell48492 жыл бұрын
Some people if you give them an inch they will take a mile.
@kathyadair85522 жыл бұрын
Narcs will take 5!
@GypsyJulie3 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful conversation! I had to laugh about moving to Montana...I moved to MT in 2003.
@telemarcelo Жыл бұрын
I"m so open I would have overdosed, but I was saved by my neuroticism.
@ninarekhi4 жыл бұрын
This was so interesting. Thanks for the podcast.
@jameslees91794 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Tami, for bringing us this deep-thinking man. Without Sounds True, I and so many others would have missed out on this and so many other important voices that support what we hope is a collective journey to become better versions of ourselves.
@forensicbadassprofiling2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Excellent information. I feel the missing key to all this research in HOW to better any relationship regardless of a disorder... EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS and REGULATED EMOTIONS USING LOGIC. It takes daily discipline n education w experts.
@carrie.98333 жыл бұрын
where do we find the statistics on increase/decrease ?
@sandicadumitru77354 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this talk. Very helpful!
@TheMar011511 ай бұрын
How do you deal with a 20-year daughter with narcissistic traits (I think NPD) who lives with her dad (my boyfriend) who is trying to destroy our relationship?
@melisentiapheiffer30345 ай бұрын
Can't you document her behaviour?
@theDDude4 жыл бұрын
thank you
@RealLifeMassMultiplayerRPG2 жыл бұрын
welcome to sounds true, this is sounds true from sounds true. we make sure the sounds is true and we are true to the sounding of our intro about sounds true xD you literaly said it 20 time in 1 minute xD i think we get it.. ST , us, . lol
@jezuswizardspatula58044 жыл бұрын
Why not just See Things as They Are? Maybe i should make a Book too💲😀👳♂️💲
@jezuswizardspatula58044 жыл бұрын
Sounds a bit what I'm trying to do with my channel . Sometimes we can have, just too much fun for some and the Labels can stick👳♂️🤓
@ms_bella_tx3 жыл бұрын
What do you think about narcissist sociopaths? I believe my mother is one.
@birdlover684211 ай бұрын
Malignant narcissist. It is also called npd and AsPd mixed.
@gailadams19063 жыл бұрын
The ladys voice sounds like my friend Mary!
@sweetnipples27173 жыл бұрын
30 years in the field? Don't take his advice. Narcissist will NOT change and staying in a physically not abusive relationship can still destroy you both physically and mentally. Listen to Dr Ramani and H.G Tudor instead.
@Kiddo_X2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Ramani just mentioned him in her video, The Chocolate Cake Model of Narcissism.
@premabha82162 жыл бұрын
Sam vaknin!! Watch Sam vaknin! Study all that he states!!
@juneelle3702 жыл бұрын
It’s proven that culture and trauma can contribute to these perception (self and other)/pattern disorders… so what can be DONE, can be UNDONE. Looks like you’re into the shame based area of psychology-and that is ego, based on a sense of superiority. Yes, these behaviors are wrong and toxic and life-altering. However, shame is binding - both for the abuser and the abused. Growth mindset/spirituality needs to be included in psychology as it was based on the shame based judgment of religion. Be careful in fighting ego/evil you don’t become it--it’s a TRAP! Whether it’s the superiority side of ego or the inferiority side!
@samc2612 Жыл бұрын
Do you realise how grandiose it is to dismiss an expert in his field because you have watched a few pop-psych videos on the topic? You are the definition of narcissistic.
@birdlover684211 ай бұрын
The core feature is semi psychotic self induced grandiose sense of self.
@pinargosterisli82493 жыл бұрын
Sorry but this whole conversation sounds very immature. There is no depth or real insights in it. Does not sound true to me. The new is not wise and the wise part is not new
@kathyadair85522 жыл бұрын
It's very true. ... All 3 of my siblings are/were. Maybe, Narcissism and NPD+ to 6-12/100 are, and it's on the rise. Internationally. No longer 3:1, the last 25 years, or so; women have caught-up to Men, and "can be just as Dangerous" to your: mental, physical, emotional, economic and spiritual well being!
@Enlightened77777 Жыл бұрын
Oh narcissist much👀
@jezuswizardspatula58044 жыл бұрын
We Are a Blend, Wthell,Oh what to do, Who and what would You consider NORMAL🔥🍳👳♂️🏓
@Vuchica2012 Жыл бұрын
what's new here?
@bilalhamurabi33623 жыл бұрын
yeah I noticed that narcissists are the best teachers. thats one way to use it constructively. other than that you can entertain people.