that is how today's chinese women are, because they think westerner are like that, and yet they are so wrong, I remember my mother has told me during the early 1900's when China are like that too, most of the Chinese people think that is how Western are like, so men will left their wife of arrange married and children to find their so call true love, and so are women at that time, than slowly they find out their behaver are wrong, and than things turn back to a much normal way, but since the communist open the door to the free world, and chines people who has been close door since 1949 up to mid 1980'a when doors open, no one know what is right or wrong, and most of them did not learn the right way of how modern day people's live are, they had a picture of how modern day western are like, so they think they are only following the westerner , and they are so wrong , they don't see how western has moral , has rules to do thing, I just feel so sorry for today's young Chinese generation, hope God will help them to changed