其实我一直觉得这句“我肥不肥,关你什么事” 或它的英文说法“My body my choice”是很幼稚的。这句话纯粹为了欺骗自己而已。 对我而言,这句话可以对或错,也可以没有对与错。对在于,那是你的身体,理应用自己的方式去对待。错在于,你家人给你一个四肢健全的身体,你应该好好地照顾你的身体。 举个例子,当一个在年轻时过度肥胖的人已经患有三高的时候还在说“my body my choice”的话,那么到时老了谁会照顾躺在病床上的他呢?他已年迈的父母吗?他的子孙吗?那岂不是让在乎你的人担忧了? 你可以说”my body my choice”,但希望你不是一味为了反驳别人而欺骗了自己,到最后后悔的是自己。一个过度肥胖/瘦的身体终究不是一个健康身体,一个均匀的身体才是健康的身体,这是一个健康的标准。 至于审美的标准,我相信在前往健康的路途中,你会觉得自己越来越好看和越来越有自信。美不美只是一种bonus,最重要是健康。
i agreedddddd although this sounds a little bit dark hahahaha
@ying.061110 ай бұрын
HAHAHA Agree
@gabrielhii199510 ай бұрын
但在你还没成功之前 你要是胖 你需要比瘦的人付出几倍的努力才能成功
@cynicfishlosopher2492 Жыл бұрын
我觉得很少人会意识到肥胖很多时候不单纯是个人问题,而是社会体系所造成的。 当你走在路上的时候,你有没有发觉,胖的人比瘦的人多。 你也许会觉得, 这些人到底是多有钱才能吃到那么胖? 但是如果你去看第三世界国家(third world countries)的人时,你会发觉怎么那里这么多人也有肥胖问题?他们不是很穷吗?反而是有钱人各个肤白貌美,完美身材,很少是人们刻板印象中的有钱胖老板。 其实在这个时代大多数人都对好的bmi指数=健康的身体没有异议,但是有些人想也得不到。 简白的说,当一个人穷的时候,他们不会有心思去照顾身体。你看看如今市场上的方便面,罐头,速炸食物等的加工食品会比鲜鱼鲜肉,新鲜蔬果来的便宜吗?穷的时候,大多数人会不会有时间和精力去健身,运动,更不要去说卖保健品了。压力和心理健康也会影响身体数值,比如说烦恼要怎么样做工赚钱。 有钱人的话,有钱卖新鲜健康的食物,还会没多余时间去健身吗? 可能有些人会觉得,那么非洲那些骨瘦如柴的小孩又是什么回事?贫穷和饥荒是两回事。 这些是我去问chat GTP的结果,for those who rather read English you can see this. "Yes, obesity is often linked with poverty. There are a few reasons for this correlation between poverty and obesity: 1. Lack of access to healthy food options: People who live in poverty may not have access to fresh fruits and vegetables, lean meats, and other healthy food options. Instead, they may rely on low-cost, high-calorie processed foods that are often high in fat, sugar, and salt. 2. Limited resources for physical activity: People living in poverty may not have access to safe outdoor spaces or gyms, and they may not have the time or resources to participate in physical activities that require equipment or fees. 3. Increased stress and mental health issues: People living in poverty may experience chronic stress due to financial insecurity, lack of access to healthcare, and other factors. This can lead to mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, which have been linked to obesity. Overall, poverty and obesity are interrelated issues that require a multifaceted approach to address. This could include improving access to healthy foods, increasing opportunities for physical activity, and addressing underlying issues related to mental health and stress." 当然我也要澄清,什么事都会有两面,也不是所有的有钱人都会那么爱健康,这种状况就是他们自己的事了。也不是所有穷的人都会是大胖子,可能那些人饿了又爱美,饮水充饥,腹空而眠?
Overweight ppl always have excuses. After 50s you’ll regret !!! I was 147 kg in 20s, at 50s, I’m 110kg, Now I am 82kg, If I’m still 120kg now, OMG, definitely lots of sickness !!!!! Wait when u are 50s, tell me then !!!!
As a taxpayer, if fat people is admitted to public hospital because of obesity related issue and he/she refuses to lose weight, you are wasting our taxpayer’s money.
Coming from someone who was obese and managed to lose almost 30 kg, I understand why a certain weight and body shape are mainly shaped by cultural context. For example: - In the Tang Dynasty, the reason thicker ladies were preferred is because they were synonymous with having access to better food, hence better fertility. In the past, with no fast food, gaining weight required consuming fresh foods and more nutrients. - These days, it's easier to gain weight due to the low quality of foods we consume. As a result, society generally relates a good body shape to self-control and perseverance (such as going to the gym), which strongly correlates with success and better survival. - Victoria's Secret models being thicker and featuring more diverse races is purely a business decision to align with the DEI narrative. It's a forced cultural acceptance, and we need to distinguish this context properly from other historical contexts. At the end of the day, I don't give a damn if you want to stay overweight or underweight. Personal responsibility is your own.