@TJ chun 如果您说女性没有去争蓝领的位置。其实是有但马来西亚所有的雇主都不请女性。如果您去看各大华文报纸及各大网站招聘都写着:送货员,男性。园艺工人,男性。像我们是个女性,想要当园艺工人时就看到招聘广告只请男性,也是很😡。当您去看Rapid巴士其实有很多女性司机,当您去看Grab,Lalamove的Rider其实也有很多女性啊!。
For the topic of FIFA, is not that the world tell us that the World Cup is for men, very disappointed on Kah Mun answered on this.. there was a video where BBK recently interview the two champion from Women Global Esports Games, the champion said that the women are biologically not competitive or even interested to competitive sport. There is more factor to support this, firstly men is realistically biologically stronger to women.. We did not build the gender inequality from beginning, it is in our hormones. Take for example, Women athletes are known to be less strong and powerful than equally trained men. What this means? Does it means that women's sport are more less attractive or boring to people? Technically yes but not really, see the cases of Battle of the Sexes where Serena Williams Lost to 203rd-Ranked Man in Tennis... but why Serena Williams has more viewership compare to men tennis? Because in this age, we have taken gender to priority instead of factually admiring and recognizing the skill of a person. But still is women's sport that bad compare to men? No... look at Gymnastics, dancing, ballet or more... why women are dominated in these sports rather than men? Factually looking at the fact that these sports require flexibility, body awareness, balance or even Aesthetic Appeal which women are much more better than men! In the end, the gender inequality is more about us men more than women, don't try to compare men's sport to women's sport or the other way. It is just not fair plus people might take my comment as sexism but seriously I'm the entirely of opposite of that, as my background I have a single mom who take care of the family financially, and the keeping the house stable independently, she like the definition of true feminism. On the other hand, i have my useless dad where he never contribute to the family and gamble all the money away. But let's get the fact right, go to a construction site and u know what i mean, not all women is like my mom, independent, strong, hardworking and smart. And not all men is like my father where pretty much not doing anything for the family, irresponsible. But the number is always right no matter what in the future or past, the number will always be more strong men than strong women, vice versa, there will be more irresponsible men than irresponsible women. So gender has always been equal, it's more depend on a person, no matter what gender. This is a man's world, But it will be nothing without a woman or a girl.
@chenhan295 ай бұрын
Well said. Another strong point, which is sad to hear but that’s reality. For example, like football or basketball tournaments, men always get paid more, more views, more sponsor. Becoz they’re really just better. They get that much pay becoz they got many supports, many eyeballs. NBA is an example. Besides, WNBA always got support from NBA SUPERSTARS, but WNBA still didn’t get as much eyeballs from others, no views mean not much money earn, which also means that they couldn’t get the salary like the NBA players. The amount of female and male are more or less equal what, women could have just support WNBA and boycott NBA so the gender equality can be achieved. But sadly, the reality isn’t work that way. That’s just cruel, sad and real factual. The world is not fair since it exist, if not there wouldn’t be thousands or millions of men in past thousands years died for helping the emperor of the era to build the China Great Wall or the Pyramid in Egypt. Humans body isn’t equal as well, we designed to be unequal, left lung is just smaller than right lung. Many and many, there is also many inequality to men. I agree smth should be fight by them to get a better circumstances for them, but definitely not asking too much equality.
@ievonntey37005 ай бұрын
I think you still didn't get the point she wish to brings out. What she meant is, the world always focus on the men. So whenever you mention about World Cup, you will only think about the man's world cup and didn't relate on the female ones. Other example is when we mention about police we will relate to man and nurse to woman. This is call stereotype. And this is the message she tries to brings out has nothing to do with how your personal family experience.
@YZZ5055 ай бұрын
@@ievonntey3700always focus on men? This person literally just make a point about the Serena Williams situation and what you just gonna past through that? Are you sure you’re understand his statement as well?
@ievonntey37005 ай бұрын
@@YZZ505 bro. The example is not about sports. Nor is it about strength blablabla. It's about stereotypes. We should never relate any sports/career/role to any gender. Eg. Man can be nurses, female can be police, man can be full time househusband and woman can be the provider. Her question was simple, did USA won World Cup. The host answered it wrong and hence showed that the first thing host relates the World Cup to is the male World Cup. So what US male team was stronger than their female team? Does that make it lesser for the female team as a football player? That's the whole point. Some male has better flexibility than some females and some females are stronger than some male. And this is why we don't want to have any stereotypes so that everyone won't be judged in doing everything they like.
@yeejingye5 ай бұрын
@@ievonntey3700 I am all for equality for opportunity. But to be fair, the example of FIFA World Cup is a very bad example imho. Because the FIFA World Cup is for the men's team, while the counterpartfor the women's team is called the FIFA Women's World Cup. I will also answer the same if she asked me the question of "Has the USA ever won the World Cup?" but if she asked me whether the USA won a FIFA Women's World Cup, then I would say yes. I am not denying that this world was built upon the patriarchy concept generally, yes it is, and we have to look for ways to tackle this issue and bring upon the equality of opportunity. I am just trying to point out the flaw of this particular example 😂.
@hongzai955 ай бұрын
malaysia 大多的女生思想很扭曲 一邊享受傳統社會的父權思想 一邊又享受男女平權 男生不以為意也要反省
As a graduate engineer, my first interview (in a SME) specially mentioned about why they have considered to hire me (female) where I will deal with people mostly is male. That is such a weird statement for them to mention where when something has become a norm people don’t usually raise it out in a proud manner. Another incident that happened before is the internship company (MNC) that I attended hired a female (me) and male (actually my course mate) at the same time. My course mate told me that during the interview they actually requested him to travel to sites from time to time where they never mention this to me (we both actually shared job scopes). I genuinely don’t know is this really a problem but it indeed made me felt uneasy. Btw, thanks wabikong for such meaningful video. I really love CIA series and this is actually my first KZbin comment on Msia originated channel. Keep on going! xx
@maxbachg94465 ай бұрын
I actually beg to differ. At least for the tech industry. Maybe its true for the case of SMEs. But for MNCs, its actually common that female resumes get pushed to the top of the stack and get interviews easily. And if it boils down to two choice (male or female) with two similar qualifications and experience, the female would definitely get it. This is probably to push diversity hires and try to balance the male-female ratios. There's actually huge incentives on being a female in tech during schooling and working days. You'll have exclusive women in tech events, special bursaries/scholarship just for women (there are actually many including govt /company/university sponsered ones) while being applicable to every other open scholarships/bursaries. You do not even need to like programming or scripting to be a working as a female in tech. Something I've personally seen, might not apply to be true with an anecdotal score of 7 females I know in school. 5 of them went on to do non technical work (Product managers, Sales manager etc in tech companies), 1 switched to UI/UX and the last is doing technical work (devops). You obviously don't see these opportunities for males in other female-dominated jobs. Males in HR, Marketing, education, healthcare don't have these special men minority opportunities that tries to balance the ratios. In fact, here's a paradox that's supported by statistics. The more gender equality a country has, the lower rate of woman in STEM fields. In oppressed countries where gender equality isnt that good (Iran/Saudi Arabia), STEM courses are actually dominated by females. I suspect its due to the perception that STEM allows them to be in a better position financially? But in a country where you give freedom of choice, expression and to be whatever you or can want, most females tend to not choose STEM.
i think not everything can be gender equlity like what jiawen said the football competition, nobody actually knows american female national team won world cup 2 times. But for this issue, jiawen should question why nobody knows instead of just directly point this is designed for man. From the aspect of physically, man is more competitive in this sport which means it more entertained to watch. When a lot of people find it is more interesting to watch man football match instead of woman, then a lot of financial players will more willing to sponsor more to man competitions or leagues because this can gain public attention and eventually bring benefits to them. Gender equality environment is not for every sport, but some surely able to do it like e-sport, chess etc. For woman only coaches, i really like this idea but should consider decrease the number of coaches because most of the time the woman only coaches wouldnt pack. I myself use mrt almost everyday, peak hour is not joke, the whole coaches is very pack except woman only coaches. This leads to a very weird scene or phenomena where all the men pack like a sardine can and when you see the woman only coaches, its not even filled up and left many empty spaces. Im not against this idea and i also feel that its necessary to have woman only coaches, but is it necessary to have that much of woman only coaches where most of time it just half empty?
@d8y82205 ай бұрын
That’s the point, why men football is more well known is because it is more entertaining to watch, why the hell everything similar to this have to link to gender equality? Is this the reason why women’s football is not well known? This is not a rational discussion, is clearly throwing bullshit
@jiawei09175 ай бұрын
@@d8y8220she’s just using 1 example of how capitalism is shaping the society. Like how sports is for men, modelling is for women, STEM is for men, nursing is for women. Though it’s true that it’s created based on strengths of genders, but the unwanted effects is the negative bias against the other gender. Like “all” men are less emotional, less caring, women are less serious and less professional.
@elstontan35275 ай бұрын
Agreed with the points that not all sports should goes into the discussion of gender equality. In today sports, both male and female sports are competitive and entertaining. The only thing difference is the audience acceptance and response, whereby this is their rights to choose their preferences for sports. Same goes to the huge gap differences in game ticket or winning prize of different sports like badminton vs tennis. Hence, the lesser attention given to female sports are due to society preferences and lesser financial players are interested to invest to the market. This issue reflects on the pay of the male vs female players as well.
@babychloe96704 ай бұрын
来支持嘉文的👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@iarenubie785 ай бұрын
The concept of fostering equality of opportunity is undeniably commendable, as it strives to ensure that every individual, regardless of background or circumstance, has an equitable chance to pursue their aspirations and fulfill their potential. However, advocating for equality of outcome raises valid concerns, as it entails an impractical and potentially detrimental endeavor, undermining merit-based incentives that drive productivity and progress in society.
@itks-5 ай бұрын
@@Hirotara Bro, I suggest you to look up the two terms "equality of opportunity" and "equality of outcome". People can claim they support gender equality but which kind of equality? You seem to mock this bro above, but your TLDR for him fail to reflect even a cent of what he said
@ahantu5 ай бұрын
@@Hirotara Lots of people have the misconception view on feminist movement. Feminism is a spectrum that there is no single set of characteristics to define it. At one end, could be extreme (Misandry) while at the other end (traditional roles). Most women are in the middle ground but conflicted by the unconscious education and cultural influence of the current patriarchy societies. Same as men rights groups, which is a spectrum. Some can go to the extreme right (Incels, Misogyny) while the other end. Most of them are in the middle. The confusion still lies in the privilege status in the patriarchy societies, which leads to lots of blind-spots and unwilling to surrender the benefits of being privileged. If all the people have the equality mindset, the society will be different than what we experience, although we can only imagine how will be, but unable to really know how it is.
@andytai77734 ай бұрын
@@ahantu another commendable argument. I hope u are a Malaysian. It goes to show how clear-headed we are about the issue.
still waiting for Ceddy and Vicky Anime Crossover in Wabikong, it can be Wabikong's multiverse haha , also just a suggestion, what if interview Ceddy & Kah Mun together, would that spark more interesting topic :P
@onytfromyt5 ай бұрын
The sources of inequality in our nation stem from extremist politicians, the influence of "Asian" culture and traditions, and the presence of Islamic Syaria Law. A potential avenue for addressing this issue could involve reconsidering the adherence to Syaria Law and adopting a more secular approach, fostering a more inclusive and equitable society.
@petertan69825 ай бұрын
I don't have Instagram. But I drink Instant coffee. That red hong bao looks very nice. Can I have some from Wabikong?
@kimmiekimkim87014 ай бұрын
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@leonfern39065 ай бұрын
kahmun got triggered with a male sport which males supports deeply, but where is the female supporters in female sports?
@albertlew58765 ай бұрын
Tealive please sponsor wabikong 😂😂😂 #tealive
@kevtacy15 ай бұрын
Women's world cup is forgettable, even women themselves don't watch, so it is by default when you say world cup, it is men's world cup
@jiawei09175 ай бұрын
Exactly her point. It’s World Cup and women’s World Cup, NBA and WNBA. Why not MNBA, or Men’s World Cup. Like tennis, there’s no Grand slam and Women’s grand slam, it’s just grand slam. Or MMA, or even olympics.
@kevtacy15 ай бұрын
@@jiawei0917 So renaming it Men's world cup or Men's watever will solve the problem of low viewership? lololololol
@erictang26875 ай бұрын
@@jiawei0917 The sport with true gender equality is men's sport because there's no gender requirements and people is looking for the best sport person regardless of genders, that's why it's just world cup not men world cup. The truth is in reality there won't be equal between men and women. That's why people create a women category specifically only for women so that women can have opportunities to participate in the sport.
@YCWong-tc8dq5 ай бұрын
@@jiawei0917 lol i thought there is already WNBA just woman themself also don't wanna watch it that why it's not valued as the NBA? so you wan sponsor to invest a low roi league just because it's gender equality ??? so how about miss world situation with Mr world? at the end it still depend on which have the higher viewer and roi return. If you expected a mix league do you think it's a fair fight for women? this topic doesn't even should consider as a gender equality topic at all
@JOEYCHUAHYINGXIMoe-de9zn5 ай бұрын
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@jx00115 ай бұрын
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@xingnitang40885 ай бұрын
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@changchungwei5 ай бұрын
Why narrator change ppl? 😢
@KimCsdd5 ай бұрын
2:13 哇老嘉雯讲要超越,你放lucas的ig😂😂
@JeusAlprime1085 ай бұрын
恶意的男权主义打压女权的小证据?
@alohachicken5 ай бұрын
666, JW 很棒
@Nottipie2225 ай бұрын
Tealive please sponsor Wabikong!!!!! #Tealive the best
What aunty said the wage paid to men is higher than women that isn’t true. The wage is calculated based on how much profit you can bring to a firm and of course, your capabilities to work for your employer
@OdyLoveMusic4 ай бұрын
But I think the argument lies with women can bring profit/contributions to the company too, so why are they "paid lower"?
首先明白什么是gender equality vs feminism。平安年代,唱说男女平等,女性车厢,ladies day / night;不用到战争年代已经歌唱女性小孩优先逃离,男的保卫国家,天天说男要gentleman,累活苦劳扛东西男性包办,不要小气计较。Gender equality 不是buffet,只拿你喜欢的。不然是feminism priorities。
Wow, Msia’s first gender topic! Glad that we are still pretty enlightened about this matter. The west is collapsing over this unimportant matter. Nevertheless, men and women are never equal. The faster we accept this fact, the faster our society can move on PS: The Indonesian girl has fallen into the trap of feminism unfortunately, thinking that men & women are equal
@OdyLoveMusic4 ай бұрын
Hmm... calling gender equality an "unimportant matter" Have you considered how important/beneficial gender equality is to both sides? If men does not need to be the sole breadwinner of the family, women can help with the financial burden of the family while men can also help with the burden of household chores, including child rearing. This is just a very very basic thing that is asked of. I personally think gender equality is more about trying to gain a better life for all men and women, I don't think it necessarily means to get the "exact same rights". But as how there are many facets to all things, there will be those who are on "the extremes". Some just want basic fair rights, while there are also those with ideas we find it hard to agree with.
@andytai77734 ай бұрын
@@OdyLoveMusic I appreciate your argument. Totally do. Much better than what most western feminist would put forth their logic on the matter. I understand where you're coming from where both male and female help each other with their biological defined roles in a nuclear family. Totally understand that standpoint. However, men and women are never equal. And the more we expect the other gender to perform what was not primarily their biological role, the more we fall into the trap of gender equality or feminism. Males are born to be hunters and to provide for the family while females are born to nurture and take care of the family from within. To put it simply, males are suppose to earn and make a living for the family and females are to nurture and grow the family Fastforward to 2024, we are now in a position that our roles in a family have been so blurred, that we are now even arguing about stuff like "what is a man" or "what is a woman". It's just pretty sad
@esiangchin15035 ай бұрын
我想问一个问题,为什么女性车厢要放在中间? 如果我要过去对面,我要下车绕过去,还是走过去。
@jazonbae72983 ай бұрын
真的!!!!!又不可以踏进去
@JkeyKong5 ай бұрын
虽说平等,但实际一点都没有
@khoopika5 ай бұрын
突然發現嘉雯跟導演長得有點像🤣
@ysong39415 ай бұрын
tealive plz sponsor wabikong🎉🎉🎉 #tealive
@huichan59175 ай бұрын
我也是有考中国文学😅
@scotttan8815 ай бұрын
这个说到底还是在说女权.....there isn't any gender equality in discussion The main plot was discussed about how women was neglected in society Yet they seems to forget, the bleed is also on mens side I mean 还没结婚的我不知道啦,结婚的,我问一下男生到底吐了多少身家出来cover?真的能很equal ? 既然大家撕开了说,我们也不想一定要因为男生所以约会一定我们要给钱,但是真的可以做到平等?这个社会有真正意义上看到我们的苦?? 平等讲是很容易啊,但撕开来说,我们何时平等过?连教育平等都不可能为前题的我们 ....真的经得起撕开来说?
@OdyLoveMusic4 ай бұрын
I would say dowries are discussable with the partners' family, I think it's pretty much just a "意思" rather than an obligation nowadays. Hmm...maybe it's more about finding a partner who does have similar ideals with you? Like for paying meals, I think it's pretty common among English-educated Chinese to spilt the bills. Maybe it has a relation to Western exposure?
If women can give enough capabilities focus in political mind rational working in physics practical subjects in long-term, they can take over the handle to make decisions for citizens and families.. If You're emotion biased person, tend to attractive on emotion subjects... don't ruined the world with Your narrative.. Responsibilities not a funniest games things, don't kill people with Your blind eye..
@@dango529 这位男士你好,虽然你这整篇回复充满了各种语病和逻辑错误,看得我很不爽(不好意思职业病发作),但我还是认真读完了,以下是我分三次给你的回复。:) 你说女权的目的从名字中就预示了它的终点,虽然不知道你是怎么看得到它的“终点”的,但我觉得你对女权主义好像有很多的误解。女权主义不仅仅是为了女性,而是为了所有性别的平等。虽然名字中包含“女”,但它的核心是反对任何形式的性别歧视,无论针对男性还是女性。其终极目标是消除性别不公,建立一个更加平等和公正的社会。将女权主义视为仅仅是为女性争取权利而忽略其对整体性别平等的贡献,是对其本质的片面理解。 关于历史和社会因素的讨论,你认为这些因素不应被列入考量,因为男性在历史上通过战争等方式争取到了当前的社会地位。但你好像不知道这种观点直接忽略了历史和社会结构对性别角色的影响。历史上的性别角色分工并不是自然而然的结果,而是受各种社会、经济和文化因素的影响。现代社会应该反思和纠正这些历史不公,而不是继续沿用这些偏见来合理化当前的性别不平等。历史上,女性被排除在许多领域之外,正是因为这些排除,才导致了今天的性别不平等。承认和修正这些历史因素是实现真正平等的重要一步,这才是我们说的女权和性别平权。 你提到两性在职场、体育等领域有本质区别,我也不否认,但前提是我们需要明确女权运动的核心目标是什么。女权并不是要求男女在每个方面都做到完全一样,而是要在各自的特点和优势的基础上,争取平等的机会和资源。体能上的差异并不是女权的关注点,请你搞清楚一点,两性平权强调的是机会的平等,而不是能力的同等.比如在工作场所中,女权倡导的是女性应当在招聘、晋升、薪酬等方面享有与男性同等的机会,而不是要求女性必须在体力劳动上与男性竞争, This is so basic bro但显然你并不清楚。同样在体育领域,女权倡导的是对女性运动员的支持和宣传,应当与男性运动员相当,而不是因为观赏性不同就给予不同的资源分配。
If Kah Mun is really a feminist then why is she so silent about the women in Gaza???
@nat94345 ай бұрын
一直以为之前Tealive就sponsor了才放奶茶在那边😂
@Hi-yb6du2 ай бұрын
Zus open Liao AHAHAHAHAHA
@qq-ec2sk5 ай бұрын
嘉文的point 完全和女性没关系。可悲 1,没人知道女生world cup 是market 的问题,不是女性的问题。(打个比喻吧,你们知道的男onlyfans 赚会比女生onlyfans 多吗) 2,piano key 发明家是 Cristofori, 男生,当然他自己设计的东西 是适合他自己(男生)。 3,在职场上,没有女上司吗?没有女老板吗?为什么当女性在上班遇上问题就觉得是女性问题呢?而真的不是能力上的问题? 4,男生遇到的 性侵犯,家暴 少 的原因是男生多数默默承受,是statistically 少,而不是真的比女性少,告上女生家暴成功有几个?可悲是当男生遇到 性侵犯或者家暴都默默承受原因是因为人们多数会取笑而不是 支持。 5,你真的不可以吧你自己的遭遇 就以为是每个人都是这样,你家人有问题,不并代表每个家庭是那么有问题。我妈妈做家庭主妇很开心,爸爸也很负责任,各有各的责任都做得很好,而没有分你我该做什么。 6,你的知识认知的确 不般配做主播的,多数男生也是来看你的腿,你应该也知道,比如你开始会打扮你也知道这个是advantage,毕竟如果你今天再丑一点应该是没有观众的,说以平等一路来不在于男女,而这世界几乎不存在 完美相待的公平。 7. 我不是觉得对女生公平不重要,but dont put individual problams as world wide matters. the world was never fair and never will be. please look at the worst and poor country , try to explain to them you want to have equality in all spectrum. 有什么想要fight back 的观点欢迎comment。我不介意帮你摆回现实。