The thing i don't understand about these kind of videos: why can't you just do both? Watching porn sometimes and regardless of that working on self improvement, being a better person and gettig some real experiance.
@HolisticSelf-Improvement10 ай бұрын
thanks for your reply, criticism is also welcome. Some people can definitely do both, but a lot of guys develop addiction and cannot just watch pr*n ''sometimes'' because it constantly thwarts their attempts to improve their life. For a lot of people, going cold turkey is the only cure. I had a phase in my life when I could sometimes watch prr*n (that was pretty vanilla stuff) just for getting off and then i just went on with my life. It became worse later down the road. In this video I mentioned that not everybody suffers from this stuff equally. However, due to natural desensitization and the addictive nature of the pronzz in the first place, a lot of people do eventually go astray
@HolisticSelf-Improvement10 ай бұрын
@weltuntergangsbote BTW I also think that these videos or certain subreddits and forums are generally aimed at people who already understand they have some kind of problem with an addictive substance like pr0n, or want to change something about their lifestyle. If you're perfectly happy doing what you're doing, you don't really need the videos either. I personally really recommend to not use porn for many reasons, and that's why I like spreading the message, but ultimately people will make their own choices anyway...
@Unstoppable-es9uy6 ай бұрын
I can feel each and every single word comes out of your mouth. I'm in the worst phase of my life rn. I'm 21 years and i really wanna quit these filthy stuff and i know that it is really harmful for me but i don't know why I'm still doing it. I downloaded BlockerX for my phone which helped me quitting social media but still struggling with pron. (you should really make a video about BlockerX). Now i downloaded cold Turkey blocker for my Pc. Dude, i really am struggling with my inner demons. I started gym, i meditate, i drink plenty of water, I'm aware of the harm of social media and pron. Still i do fap. I can't figure it out now that what is there that I should do to quit this one thing. I avoid people and those friends who talk trash. I embrace the company of good people. May God give me the best result for my struggle. I have a medical test coming after 3-4 months and i really wanna be focused on that. I mean it
@HolisticSelf-Improvement6 ай бұрын
thank you for your comment, it's quite motivating to get comments like this and I can feel passion burning when I see guys with the issues that I used to have, guys that feel stuck while they could actually be living a great life. I was actually thinking of recording a part 2 real soon. I have been in the situation you describe, the best thing you can do is lockdown your phone and computer with anti-porn measures. STEP 1: If you have 5 bucks a month (or so, not sure about the current price) to spend, and if you have an Android phone, get a subscription for Detoxify, a porn-blocking VPN that will completely block you out of using porn sites and even grey-area sites like reddit if you want. If you have iOS, use Freedom instead (also a paid subscription I think) and enable the porn filters they offer. Detoxify is also available for windows and macOS (the system for apple laptops and desktops). I don't not know about BlockerX, please do a Google search to see how it can be configured to block porn instead of only social media. For Windows, download Cold Turkey Blocker, use the pre-set filter for porn websites. If you have any questions, come back to me. STEP 2: go look up EasyPeasy Method To Quitting Porn. It's a free e-book and audiobook. I have an interview on my channel with the writer of it. don't be shy to come back here and report on your progress. I cannot directly change your habits, only you can (or a licensed psychologist) but I can at least offer you some guidance