WARNING: The Truth Behind Lasting Middle Eastern Marriages

[@88Victoria88]

I am from the US and just married an amazing Arab man and you have helped me so much to understand the culture and be able to be a good wife to him.

[@Fuadtalks]

Congratulations on your marriage, Victoria! Very glad to hear that!

[@shanaz3]

Can you talk about the culture of Middle Eastern men having multiple wives. It seems to be very common and often behind the back of their wife.

[@michelledavis400]

yes please do, lol

[@alanweber6805]

Thank-you for your common sense values keep up the good work❤

[@margaretperigois7280]

I agree with what you are saying❤

[@muhammedrinassr95]

Wow the video looks great

[@antoinettecassar4907]

Its a matter of cultures and it's unfair to judge who is happy or not. I know feminists who are happy because they believe in their ideologies and if they don't want a family its their business. Yes I agree that some of them try to impose their ideologies. Western people may sound feminists because in the west there are no dominastions. Men and women are equal and they decide things together. This cultural difference is a religious one and would not say Middle Eastern people because there are Middle Eastern people who are not Muslims and are not bound with Islamic rules. If a couple both work what's wrong with the man doing housework? The problems in the west and why many marriages are failing is more related to the loss of certain values which are still valued with Muslims.

[@simplyanalizar.n.351]

Little more to 1000 Subscribes .... I am really learning a lot from you Fuad .

[@Phoenix_7568]

Spot on 👏👏👏👏

[@fayalyunania]

You are right. But I think a person can be a slave no matter if they are married or not. For example a person who is exploited at work and is not respected, turns out to be a slave. Also, if a woman is not respected as a wife by her man, can turn out to be a slave. Alternatively, if you work on what you love, you will not be slave, and if you are appreciated as a person in the marriage you will not be a slave. It's not one or the other, both situations can be slavery depending on the behaviour someone receives. Some women choose to be wives and raise their children and they are not slaves because they love what they do and they are appreciated for their job. Also, other women choose to work on what they love and they are not slaves as long as they are appreciated for their job too.

[@Fuadtalks]

Valid points, friend. The feeling of being a 'slave' is subjective and can vary depending on a woman's emotional connection with her man. When she's in harmony with her man, what might seem like 'slavery' to others can feel like a genuine act of love to her. However, during disagreements (which are normal in a marriage), certain actions might still be perceived by others as 'slavery,' yet now, she may start questioning the accuracy of their perceptions. Ultimately, I believe the key lies in choosing the right husband, and it would be wise to involve the wisdom of the father in vetting the man before marriage. Additionally, since mismatches can still occur, it is better to take the time to know each other before having kids. This way, if a woman realizes that certain aspects are lacking in the relationship, such as respect, and it is beyond repair, she can make the decision to seek a divorce. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[@Obedient-Faith]

I think that probably the fact the Arab men will be fathers to their children is another reason. Many men in the west, most that I have met, are not interested in traditional ways and actually parenting their children. I think that is something that stuck out to me when I met the man I am talking with. It is sad how many absent fathers there are in the US 🥲 But the muslim arabs will love and cherish their wives and children 😍

[@dawnohara9398]

UAE men are the most beautiful men in the world. Mashallah ❤❤❤❤

[@Thousand-one-night]

Omanis also look very good. Always top clean, shaved. And they are real gentleman.

[@kathrinfink9662]

I actually know some of those "miserable" feminist women, and it's very sad: they make their own schedule, travel the world, make money and have young lovers. It really is a terrible life compared to those women who can't go out in public without a headscarf, have to obey their husbands, make them happy and are basically baby-machines - you see it in their faces (if you are allowed to look at their faces) how remarkably happy they are.

[@antoinettecassar4907]

Sorry but you are invading their privacy, it shouldn't be anybodies business how they live.

[@livelearnlove9086]

A lot of the Middle Eastern woman make themselves happy before they make anyone else happy. Because that is what it takes now a days. I know a few I think the middle eastern culture is beautiful. And I miss my Lebanese man so bad wish I never gave him up 23 years ago. 😢 I had to get rid of a lot of negative people and still have to work on myself before making someone else happy.

[@Fuadtalks]

100% can't pour from an empty cup! Thanks for the insight.

[@livelearnlove9086]

So true Fuad.

[@EleniPapadopoulou-t5o]

If a man wants hus wife stay home look after house and there is nothing wrong

[@michelemacinnis]

I’ve never heard of a ‘career shower’. Interesting.

[@EleniPapadopoulou-t5o]

I respect obey listen snd are communication love for him his family is very important to me but also space for him to do his things clean mind us clean heart whats ours is for his family too even if not married yet

[@incitehope99]

❤️🫶🏻❤️

[@lanacooper2086]

I dont like the idea of someone being around the dating couple while they go on a date.

[@jerry-mind-sky]

Long lasting marriages ? Women virginity.