I feel rejected, lonely and lost. It meant that I was abandoned, and I am unloved and unlovable. I believed that I had to prove myself wrong. I turn to rumination, seeking validation, attempting reconnection, and sometimes covert manipulation. This video helps sort out my thoughts and emotions, and for that, I thank you, Corri.
@CyberLifter3 күн бұрын
It's refreshing to find you. I feel like you are the most down to earth youtuber that speaks like you have actually experienced it. Maybe you are just that good. IDK! Kudos
@irinakarapetyan175218 күн бұрын
Dear Corri, thank you ever so much, this video has just replaced 10 sessions with a therapist..i experienced a wave of emotions and I came to realizations about my negative beliefs.. I’m so grateful, you are doing an incredible job!
@JustMe-ki3ce9 күн бұрын
I just want to be ok with whatever unfolds, happy in my skin. I’m 62 and am in recovery from falling deeply in love with a dismissive avoidant. Our connection was off the chain. It was such a gift in my life until it wasn’t. I wasn’t aware this dynamic even existed. There is gain in that pain. I got broken by the love of my life in my golden years. I realize now why I internalized it. I let it all go finally, I wish us both the love we found with someone that cherish that rare connection. Let it go….
@ceciliamac4283Сағат бұрын
So beautiful the way you said it ❤❤❤
@SpiritualJellyfish18 күн бұрын
Damn .. corri corriying again. U r our mentor!
@Countrygirl88-ur1fg18 күн бұрын
Wow. I realized I believed I needed to fight and convince to be seen, for my worth to be seen. That I am not worth fighting for/our relationship will not be fought for by him. But that is not true. I am worth all that and more. 9 days ago my sp broke up with me. I went no contact so I didn't chase in the 3D. But ofcourse I energetically chase, I am doing affirmations that me and our relationship is worth fighting for. I am constantly asking manifesting buddy if she believes he is coming back etc. By doing that I am still trying to convince myself of my worth and of him seeing that I am the best ever for him. And therefore I am still not truely believing and letting it unfold. I need to know that I can rest in the knowing that he sees it and that he really will be regretting his choice of not fighting for us. I hope I will embody that peace and that love soon. Because I know that we belong together, I'm just so tired of fighting myself every day
@ceciliamac428359 минут бұрын
I believe I’m not as important as they are. As in I’m smaller than what they represent. The connection feels big and important, I feel small and almost unimportant. So it has to be hard to achieve or get what I want since it’s this big and this important. 😒😑 so even if I do not like this idea of love is hard (and would say even life feels hard) and I don’t want it to be that way, part of me must still believe that. It’s so contradictory with what I want and what turns me on. I get turned off by stand offish people. The thing is that I only feel the hardship when there is rejection. When they are warm and present, I feel great and just in my place. Edit: I just remembered our last conversation. When I felt him very distant and I tried to talk about it and in the conversation I had said that it feels like I have to fight for this relationship and it doesn’t feel right to fight for love and his response was pretty toxic: well, if you don’t fight for things, you won’t get them. That was such a turn off because I actually and totally do not agree. I only fight for my dreams but not for people to love me. And him saying that, makes me now realize that I must have an inner belief from childhood that matches what my avoidant ex just told me. Bingo 🎯😅
@Curiouser-9517 күн бұрын
I'm now going to live my life unapologetically!
@SpiritualJellyfish18 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!! "I believe I have to fight to be seen"!!! Yes!! Funny because I already feel I am lovable and valuable , but this one! I definitely have this with my mother and best friend so it makes sense!! Edit: nope. Turns out at the end of the work I came to conclusion that it still is belief that I'm unworthy of love unless I work hard to get it. Still better than what I had before which was just "I'm unworthy"😂 Edit 2; I'm actually really sad lol... This is from my mother wound... I'm trying to prove my mother all my life why she should love me .
@ceciliamac4283Сағат бұрын
Oh wow I feel like I’m reading myself. Like I don’t feel unworthy but I totally feel like I have to work hard at everything 😮💨
@meowmeow1stgen66817 күн бұрын
I came to the conclusion this morning that this desperate, anxious feeling was coming from me thinking I had to SAY something right NOW or I would be forgotten or this person wouldn’t think I cared. But actually, I’m sick of trying to fight for people to love me. I deserve to be someone that is fought for, and this makes me feel sad because I don’t see how that can happen but it needs to change somehow.
@createwithcorri17 күн бұрын
100% what a great realisation! Sit with the sadness, there’s still an attachment about what you’re making it mean x
@takechancespayattention18 күн бұрын
If I give up the idea that I have more work to do, then I might find it easier to accept the idea that I am whole and complete already.
@SpiritualJellyfish18 күн бұрын
I love how this channel is not only about manifesting, like informatively, but also spiritual. God is within you Corri. I'm so thankful i found you. Are you also a therapist?
@createwithcorri18 күн бұрын
Thank you 🩷 I’m not a therapist! Maybe one day!!
@marilynlynch240817 күн бұрын
Thank you so much. This video showed up in the perfect timing I had recently been asking myself why am I having such a hard time letting go of my SP. I had been in this cycle for a while and I couldn’t figure out how to break this pattern I was in because I had been going to mediums to make me feel better. The feeling I have underneath that I’m not lovable or worthy that people are gonna leave.
@AmberRadiance16 күн бұрын
This video has given me so much clarity. Thank you. ❤
@antjestr104717 күн бұрын
Wow this video was perfect timing, yesterday this topic came to my awareness (why I couldnt let go etc), thank you! I think it was a higher power your video appeared to me on my feed at this time..anyway, thank you so much!!
@Bond100002 күн бұрын
It’s the opposite here honestly: I believe consciously that I’m good enough and the best option so how could they treat me like that?
@createwithcorri2 күн бұрын
You’ve got a blind spot. Explore with a coach or therapist xx
@Sabrinadevenish17 күн бұрын
Thank you so much
@Curiouser-9517 күн бұрын
I'm not going into details, but, I've found my answer! ❤
@createwithcorri18 күн бұрын
Tell me your light bulb 💡 moments here! ❤
@BC-yb1mq7 күн бұрын
@anitaniblock304217 күн бұрын
How do we change our bad beliefs? I think im not good enough, pretty enough, not interesting enough or i was too old for my sp so he left. I know where i get it from and unfortunately its from an ex many years ago who drummed this damage into my brain, how can we change this? I really want my last sp back. Love you x
@MrOldskool19749 күн бұрын
It has to come from rewiring our subconscious mind, because that's where those thoughts you tell yourself are based from. You're actually like a computer, playing out these subconscious behavioral patterns without even knowing it, because that's the program that got wired in. Now we have to do the work and go back to that "story" we've been believing....it's a lie, by the way, and start actually telling ourselves the truth, about ourselves, to start healing and reprogramming that "false narrative" we've been telling ourselves. It's hard work but it's absolutely possible. Best wishes to you.
@reemsaif31058 күн бұрын
I didnt chase I played small like i didnt matter and i vanished became a ghost.
@createwithcorri8 күн бұрын
The feelings you’re feeling will not be becoming from how you acted but more what you’ve attached a meaning to about what this persons behaviour means about you