watching tiktoks until I find the world’s worst MIL - REACTION

[@eph_bomb]

That first video is my highschool sweethearts brother. Their mom is incredibly nosy and she absolutely knew that wasn't her phone, I've experienced it firsthand.

[@jamieemeagi7377]

Hmm, small world! At least you don't have to deal with that nonsense anymore

[@carolineben-ari2798]

So maybe his wife sent it deliberately piss her off (possibly with his assistance) and in the hopes of stopping her snooping.

[@megthe_misunderstood_rebel9779]

By her face alone, she looks like a “peach” 😂 and you dodged a bullet

[@eph_bomb]

Yeah I had to do a double take when they popped up on the screen haha ​@@jamieemeagi7377

[@eph_bomb]

Yeah I had to do a double take when they popped up on the screen haha ​@@jamieemeagi7377

[@michaelg2529]

Old-old guy here. Old people etiquette (from back in ye oldee daysee) is to contact everybody about everything and then double check that everybody is clear on all the details. In addition. old people crap-memory is "where are my car keys?" not "which city am I flying into?" The airport thing was deliberate and I would buy that wife a new car for the care and persistence she showed. I want her as my travel buddy, she's better than Liam Neeson.

[@Trammiliin_nr2]

Having a mother who fails to update on changed plans, I'd say even if it's not deliberate, it's inconsiderate. My mother has not updated me on the change of plans countless times because she just does not care that I'm adjusting my plans to accommodate her. She tells me she's coming over in an hour. I'm postponing my plans and waiting for her at home. After 2 hours had passed, I called her. Turns out she decided to go straight home. This has been a common behaviour throughout her life. Every time I get mad and ask why the hell she didn't call me that she's not coming, I've been unnecessarily waiting for her for 2 hours. She usually responds with, "But you told me you are home", or some other nonsense. Or I once told her I was going out, and she couldn't come. When I was ready to go, I heard someone trying to unlock my door. My sister was with me, and we ran around panicking and looking for weapons to attack the intruder. It turned out that, although I told her not to come, she still came using my emergency spare key. I asked what the hell she was doing there, and she responded with a perfect excuse, "I thought you were not home." I took away the key. Or I told her I'd have guests over, and she'd arrive with a homemade pie. I was around 25 and wanted to get wasted with my friends. And she was sitting there with the pie, and friends were asking later why I always invite my mother to parties. I started hiding that I had a plan to have a party as she just could not comprehend that she was NOT invited when I did not invite her. Or, I had a boyfriend who would go working abroad for half a year. We planned a romantic evening before he had to leave. I prepared wine, cheese, snacks, and stuff. It ended with my mother dropping by, sitting on the edge of my bed, drinking wine, eating snacks, and chatting with my boyfriend. He soon made an excuse to go home, as he had some stuff to pack. My mother said, oh, I have to go too; let's go together. They live in the same district and had to take the same bus anyway. (We live in a European country with decent public transportation). I was livid, as I did not know how to tell a grown woman that her 25-year-old daughter wanted to have sex with her boyfriend and that she must leave. Some people just live their lives not giving a shit about their family members because they just do not care to think about what they might want or what their perspective is.

[@TheBaumcm]

@@Trammiliin_nr2that’s straight p up narcissistic behavior. She knew she wasn’t planning on coming but since she couldn’t go anywhere because she was driving she wanted you to be stuck too. That or she just didn’t care. Either way don’t bother making plans with narcs.

[@katewebber1131]

NEVER tell me to get over IT EVER EVER.

[@katewebber1131]

Never tell me to GET OVER IT NEVER.

[@Trammiliin_nr2]

@@TheBaumcm I don’t think she’s a narcissist, but she definitely is not mentally okay. She’s totally dissociated from reality, and that’s why she fails to see what a proper behaviour in a social situation is. I haven’t talked to her for years now, because I just can’t cope with her delulu mindset and she refuses to seek help.

[@jessicalinares101]

The baby shower one, this lady has some crazy EX MIL stories. The gas-lighting husband is now her EX husband, HALLELUJAH!

[@allanturmaine5496]

Good for her. That was crazy.

[@mayasturgeon7354]

Thank GODDDD I was looking for this comment I’m so glad he’s out

[@KittenChristy]

Seriously! "Get over it", Oh okay. I'm about to be bff's with my ex, get over it. =)

[@melissalutz9003]

She knew that wasn’t her phone, and her only reaction should have been “oh crap I’m sorry” not to look pissed off like she just caught her man texting another woman Second video, mil didn’t want to include the baby’s mom because she enjoys parading the grandchildren around like she’s the mother or she’s so much better than the mother that she had to be the one to “allow” the child to see the family.

[@23Animegod]

Literally though, like why she was mad, shouldn't have touched it in the first place

[@palithaolden8214]

100% knew that wasn't her damn phone. That's why she picked up so fast being nosey! That's what she gets! I hope she was genuinely truly offended, because again that's what she gets!

[@Kimberly-lp4nh]

Exactly with both. Mother picking up the phone was probably known for being nosey like that and wife did it while watching to upset and catch her in the act. I've never had anyone else's phone near me and picked it up by accident thinking it was mine. Mainly because, like most normal people, my brain registers where I put it last. That aside, phones usually have a different profile at a glance because we all have different phone cases and lock screens, etc. That's before getting to a different model.

[@palithaolden8214]

@@Kimberly-lp4nh I was thinking that too. Because if she saw the message she saw the wife's name or probably even a nickname he has for her and the screensaver.

[@coki3_crumle670]

Ngl, I literally thought that was his wife based on her pissed off reaction and then it finally clicked when I read the comments 💀

[@teri2466]

Husband who failed to rescue his wife from the babyshower is worse than mil! Grrrr

[@yvonneburns2786]

I get the feeling the hubby wants back with his ex and is gaslighting OP as well as his parents..

[@raimeyewens7518]

I would have faked some nausea if that happened to me. Let the MIL/sisters and ex gf think maybe I’m pregnant. If they are going to play petty games then so can I 😏

[@dunyazade]

Divorce a few years from now, I bet. That guy can't be trusted.

[@teri2466]

@@raimeyewens7518 I like that 😈

[@obscurityistheaim3685]

​@@raimeyewens7518 You are evil, A evil genius i would say

[@Dreamingtothestars89]

If hubby left me in an awkward situation after making a rescue plan, I would call an Uber, head to the theater for a double feature and turn my phone off. And if they get upset I would respond in kind. Get over it.

[@Girlwithnoname528]

Yes. This is the way

[@misodinamosa]

Exactly! Except grab your gift on the way out! Wahoo!

[@junecleaver8868]

The first one: she knew it wasn’t her phone. Her body language says it all.

[@Kayla-Butterfly]

Especially how fast she snatched that phone up! 😂

[@ElizabethTheUnicorn829]

Exactly. She was nosey.

[@karmAnonymous]

& the wife knew her crazy axx would fuxxing pick it up too. that speaks VOLUMES to me.

[@jameslaidler2152]

Maybe she'll think twice next time.

[@junecleaver8868]

@@karmAnonymous she may have done it to prove her point

[@carolwilson1236]

As a mother-in-law...MIL deliberately didn't tell DIL about her change in flight. Unless she has been diagnosed with dementia, that behavior isn't acceptable. No excuses.

[@ambergerber5162]

Yeah but I agree with Charlotte. There are worse MILs. Lol

[@rachel.the.riveter]

Right after I married my husband, I had a hickie on my neck. My mother-in-law shrieked at me, "WHAT IS THAT?!?!?" I looked her square in the face and said, "...a sign that your son is very happy." That put a stop to that.

[@raypias8767]

An irrational and inappropriate answer to a rational question. 🤔

[@juliaforsyth8332]

None of her business and you don't make personal remarks like this. Totally appropriate answer.@@raypias8767

[@Crebeccas]

Ahhh Im torn. Maybe the mil knew exactly what it was and was being inappropriate, maybe she had no clue and was genuinely shocked at what she thought was an injury. But either way I don’t think it’s fair to imply she was the only inappropriate one. If you feel what you do in the bedroom is your business then don’t advertise it then get upset when you get the wrong reaction from the wrong person. Reminds me of when women go to the gym practically naked then complain people are looking/reacting to them 🤷🏻‍♀️. I get that mil caught you off guard but we also should be mindful of the situations we put ourselves in. I feel like I might get a lot of backlash for posting this comment but as a mother and hopefully future mother in law it makes me sad to think my daughter in law or son in law would talk to me like this because I was too clueless about something.

[@ingusch3783]

Lol don't listen to the shamers, I love your answer and will 100% add that to my treasure troves of comebacks.

[@tm502010]

Righteous!

[@katherinemcintosh7247]

As a mother who was able to breastfeed her babies, the mil stating that she and her husband were going to take a 2 month old grandchild anywhere for more than a few hours gave me an inkling of a panic attack…honestly, I would not TRUST that woman with much. For a newborn, feeding is almost a full time job. Pumping enough breastmilk to even last a weekend would be an insane amount of effort…at 2 months, a nursing mom is NOT going to agree to just letting the grandparents give the baby a bottle for days on end. That woman is insane.

[@dracarys9488]

I agree, this was the worst MIL for me

[@marilynruggeberg]

I had also chosen to breastfeed my babies. I had decided this when I was a teenager after reading articles about it being healthier for the baby. No boyfriend, much less husband on the horizon, I am just a planner of my future. Move forward several years, and I was so happy that I had made that decision because my sister-in-law had her baby 3 months before me, and EVERYONE was feeding that baby but her during family gatherings. You might say that I was selfish, but I feel that feeding time is a bonding time for mother and baby. Didn't want to share that with anyone else.

[@katherinemcintosh7247]

@@marilynruggeberg not all women have the ability to choose to breastfeed. The reason formula exists is because some women cannot breastfeed. For whatever reason, some women do not produce milk, do not produce enough milk, or have other problems which preclude them from breastfeeding. It is not as simple as making a choice. We can’t know why some women are not breastfeeding.

[@jeanams07]

Not to mention the baby's immune system is not strong enough to be around a bunch of strangers at 2 months old. The grandmother would literally be putting that baby's life in danger.

[@katherinemcintosh7247]

@@jeanams07 exactly.

[@Kimberly-lp4nh]

Husband who said get over it-He suggested a plan, made a promise to do it, then decided not to when it was more fun to hang out with his buddy AND locked her out of the house. No, sir, you need to get better.

[@TheJuliet316]

As soon as I heard that line, I literally shouted outloud 'Divorce! Divorce!' Seriously, that's what this woman needs to do.

[@karmAnonymous]

I am half angry half fighting back tears. I wish all women would just opt out & we all just remove ourselves creating our own paradise elsewhere.

[@dawnbatiste6302]

I've seen that creators videos, and that was far from the worst behavior from the husband and his family. I'm sooooo happy she left him.

[@Princessofthedrk]

@@dawnbatiste6302 Fucking good!

[@michellebadham9353]

I doubt that husband had any plan at all to pick up his wife from the shower, especially knowing how his family thought about the ex girlfriend.

[@Knottycrochetery]

Off topic, but this information was just revealed to me. My sweet, kind, beautiful 5 year old son Henry has his first ever crush. And it is on you, Charlotte

[@Ashley-y1z9h]

Awwwwwee omg ❤😍🥰❤

[@brendadickson9583]

Awww too cute ❤

[@melocoton7]

he has great taste 💝

[@The_Gabby_Glammy]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Melissa-y2u]

I love this story!

[@kaylawheeler653]

First time meeting my MIL she told me at 16 weeks pregnant, that I should give my baby up for adoption because I wasn't fit to be a mother. Long story short, I'm not a part of that family anymore and I've successfully raised my daughter by myself.

[@fairygoth-mother7341]

My mother (RIP) was the bullied daughter-in-law. When my brother got married, to a woman she wasn't fond of, she tried very hard to NOT be a bully, and did her best to make SIL feel welcome and loved. She didn't want her DIL to be treated the way she had been treated.

[@melissasheppard6674]

Bless your mom 💜

[@skybug1706]

🥺💔 sounds like a loving mama. rest in peace♡

[@xjustacatx]

That's so beautiful of her, may she rest in peace. My mum was exactly the same but unfortunately for her my SIL is a horrible human being. It took my mum 10 years to finally give up and cut SIL out of her life.

[@vanianup]

My MIL too was a bullied DIL. She is an amazing mother and treats me very well. A true parent from whom I always learn kindness and respect. She will be my role model when I have a DIL.

[@aprivera103105]

I remember after having just given birth to our second child, my husband took our oldest (18 months) out to the park giving me and the new baby some much needed time to relax. We had just fallen asleep and I wake up to my MIL standing over me in the bedroom. She had found our extra key and let herself in. This was in early 2000's so way before ring cameras. The audacity of this woman tho. Things actually got a lot worse and we no longer have contact with her.

[@amberarchbold3666]

Worst mil story i read on reddit was about one who wanted to take her dying 3yr old granddaughter, to anothet state for a holiday, without her parents. It was disgusting and the "husband" tried to push his wife to allow it so they wouldnt be mad at him. The childs doctors were basically like, no wtf shes needs around the clock care this trip could stress her and kill her. The mother was planning to divorce her husband and cut contact after their child passed as she couldnt get past it. Its been over a year, no update, but i do wonder how she is now. I hope she has peace

[@bevalexander5897]

Nah. MIL chose not to tell DIL she changed her flight. MIL’s are passsive/aggressive experts.

[@alieknitzer]

Exactly. I'm from Southern California, and the distance between Burbank airport and Palm Springs airport (with the LA traffic) is almost as bad as the Montreal and Quebec airports. And taking three days to apologize?! That was no accident!

[@Y3w3lz]

If it had been an "oopssss, I forgot to tell you" and she was expecting to be picked up she would have called asking where her ride was... This was deliberate, just to be as inconvenient as possible.

[@squarestar326]

I agree, it was so not "a boo boo", plusif she s feisty enough to get on a plane and go to palm spring, she s not that kind of elderly woman who can t remember things. No no.

[@phillyphan1225]

Who doesn’t confirm tho??

[@robinkholmes7127]

💯Why would she want her "evil" DIL to pick her up when her precious son's sick and wanted her DIL to suffer. She can get a taxi from the airport next time.

[@YM-qb6gh]

The woman trying to take the baby at 2 months without its mother. Worst MIL EVER. I don’t need to hear any more stories. This! This is it.

[@TsukiKageTora]

My bet is she’ll try to feed the baby if you know what I mean

[@WhiteOleander730]

That's exactly what I said.

[@raimeyewens7518]

That one was crazy. I don’t care whose child you’ve taken for a visit before but you are absolutely not taking mine! Especially without me. If the relatives need to meet the baby so badly then they can come and visit us. If not then I hope they like photographs.

[@TrailerYardGirl]

Just a guess..but I bet these ppl didn’t make it to the wedding because the travelling was too much. Lol

[@biggirlonatreadmill1209]

It reminds me of the horrible story of the MIL who cam and took a newborn baby to her own home in the middle of the night. The baby was about a week old, she used her own key to enter their home and just took the baby. The parents woke up after five hours to feed the baby only to find baby gone. The only ‘good’ part of the story is that the MIL only lived about a block away so then found the baby fast.

[@breezythegreat2495]

Airport MIL just gave you permission to NEVER pick her up from the airport ever again. You just have to cite “no, remember that time I waited for an hour and got the police involved?”

[@Valentinathevamp]

Exactly. Every single time I’d sing that song. 🎶 nooooooo 🎵

[@SisterPerkieDot]

It's Burbank Airport...so so believe you. True story 😂 what a "%$&@!" Show. I am sorry you had to go through that.

[@pegl6576]

My mother in law slammed me into a brick wall. Promptly disowned my husband when he refused to stand up for her instead of me. We haven't seen nor spoke to her in 15 years.

[@janetcallanan7020]

Honestly sounds like you didn't dodge a bullet there more like a bazooka.😮

[@jennifera5205]

Geez! That's terrible!

[@ingridakerblom7577]

I feel like you didn't lose much there...

[@deedk]

My MIL from h*ll story. My daughter was killed by an impaired driver and my MIL and SIL didnt even call and didn't even come for the funeral. Now, know that they are well off. A week after the funeral i was in Target. And i heard a familiar voice. Yes, MIL and SIL had flown in for a visit. They didn't contact us to say they were coming, they never contacted us period. I walked up to the friend they had come to see and said "Tell Ellen her SIL and DIL say hi!" How rude is that? Don't come to the funeral but make a quickie trip to see friends. I never forgave them for that and my husband and i cut ties permantly. Didn't even go to MILs funeral. That is just one of many rude things they have done.

[@Realshugarbaby]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter 💔

[@ravenartistofficial]

Oh honey… I’m so very sorry for your loss. As a mother of a few angels I never got to meet or hold, it was devastating enough to lose them. But to raise a beautiful baby into a functioning human being, and have them taken from you so suddenly… I simply can’t fathom your pain. I hope you are doing well now, and that you have had a healthy enough amount of time to grieve. I wish you well, from one mother to another ❤️‍🩹

[@deedk]

@ravenartist2980 thank you so much! Very sweet of you to check in on me. The grief never goes away but it does change.

[@deedk]

@@Realshugarbaby thank you, so very sweet!

[@spiinniing]

I'm so sorry about your loss, you should never have to bury your baby. Sending you much love, and sorry about those rude as hell in-laws!

[@curseynursey]

For those not familiar with the size of California or anything. Burbank is a suburb on the northern edge of Los Angeles. Palm Springs is out in the desert to the southeast of Los Angeles. It's a 2 HOUR drive from Burbank to Palm Springs IF you're lucky and there's no traffic. With traffic, which is almost constant in the area, it could take 8 hours to make that trip.

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

Yes. Agreed. Therefore flight change without communication was on purpose.

[@guineawuv]

My ex-mother-in-law was horrible. I found out that my ex husband had been SA my daughter starting at age 4. Ex MIL said some monstrous things. She said that my daughter wanted it to happen, she made the excuse that my ex had "fallen in love" with my daughter because she reminded him of me, she said that he did it because I was a bad wife. At one point she was trying to find a loophole to get him early release and had the audacity to ask me if I would speak to the parole board and vouch for him. Even before I turned him in, she tried to convince me not to by bribing me with extra alimony and child support and suggested that my ex would still get visitation of my daughter. Even before this, she spent my 13 year marriage making my life hell, but this was it for me. In case y'all are wondering, he got 32 years in prison without the possibility of parole. My daughter has been in therapy and is now 19 and doing well in college. She's an awesome person.

[@LichtdesMorgens]

Jfc this takes the cake. 100/10 horrific mother in law

[@carrielawooto9933]

That's crazy!

[@kathybrem880]

OMG!!

[@d4ever649]

That is sick! Monster created a monster!

[@roberthuffer6591]

It is too bad, that his actions weren’t worthy of capital punishment.

[@alyzu4755]

I was sick over the weekend. My MIL made me multiple cups of a specialty Japanese tea with lemon and manuka honey (which isn't cheap), and I swear it was a miracle cure. I got lucky in the MIL lottery. ☺️

[@ElizabethTheUnicorn829]

You did. With these MIL in the videos you don't need enemies.

[@jessicaolson1880]

Is she looking to adopt other daughters?? Asking for a friend 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@alyzu4755]

@@jessicaolson1880 ☺️

[@ElizabethTheUnicorn829]

@@jessicaolson1880 are you the friend 😂

[@tpickett1381]

I also won in the Mother in Law lottery..She was so good. If she and I had a difference of something ..she and I managed to compromise RIP Jimmie

[@lizzyk8839]

For the second one, "do you not trust us?" No, she (and every other mom) doesn't since your judgment was to think you could just borrow a 2 month old and take her on a long distance trip to see people even the mother has not met without even asking first 😂

[@PinkieJoJo]

What! That husband with the shower thing was ridiculous. His attitude and response to me was even worse than the baby shower situation itself. I’m glad they aren’t together because she would have had to deal with that forever.

[@yumyummoany]

Ditch him!

[@downhomesunset]

Pinky-I’ll bet dollars to donuts that he’s back with the ex girl now!

[@tanithschneider3051]

My first thought was DIVORCE!

[@MandatedReporter]

I feel like he was cheating on her because immediately he's like a dick

[@lizardog]

Taking a two-month-old baby to "meet" the relatives? No, you're just showing off. That baby will not remember "meeting" anyone. A good tradition would be for the relatives to come visit the newborn and the parents for a few minutes.

[@raimeyewens7518]

You don’t take a 2 month old away from a new mother. Email some pictures. Or they can come visit. Geez 😒

[@kellynh9303]

Yeah Absolutely Not. Newborns stay with the Mother . That mil sounds like a nightmare.

[@64proudmama]

An even better tradition would be waiting for the parents to decide when they want THEIR baby presented to other family members.

[@TheBaumcm]

The real tradition? Bullying. That baby is still drinking its meals. Just for that reason alone, along with lack of general vaccinations, kiddo stays with mom and if the family wants to meet them, they come to where mom is.

[@Makeuploveculture]

That’s what I was thinking. It’s way safer for them to come into town to meet her. Not travel with her and take her to meet a bunch of strangers. That’s so selfish and gross. And obviously - the whole issue with the MOM not comfortable with it- period!

[@runutts2010]

I am so thankful that my MIL is the absolute sweetest! She Braggs about me all the time because when we visit her 5 hrs away, I do her nails and hair. I even stayed with her for 3 weeks when she had a knee replacement. I was her nurse, cook, physical therapist etc. 😊

[@NunyaNomi]

I saw my sweet MIL be treated like absolute garbage by her in laws at the first family function I went to and since that day I have made it a point to let her know she is loved by everyone else. It’s just them.

[@restezlameme]

👏👏👏👏

[@tanyastacy-haws993]

The third daughter in law is such a good person. She was genuinely scared for her health and safety. That MIL should be grateful to have such a caring DIL

[@saphiael-mansub2206]

Nope, both DIL and MIL dumb. You'd check she was on the flight, and if you can't get her first line of action, call her boyfriend

[@B.H.56]

yeah, but she got a text from MIL? So she had her phone number? Call and ask her where she is.

[@haileybeebee97]

@@B.H.56if the MIL was on the plane, she wouldn’t be able to answer a phone call or text. I’m sure she was smart enough to try to call her MIL. The more pressing issue is why her own husband didn’t even relay the message since MIL told him about the flight change.

[@argrette]

@@haileybeebee97I don’t think the husband knew of the flight change bc the MIL did it last minute the night before and I think the DIL said that MIL didn’t tell anyone. Also, her husband was really sick so probably was resting

[@B.H.56]

@@haileybeebee97 thx, I don't fly so I didn't know that.

[@PaniPunia]

The wonderful thing about polish weddings is we have no bridesmaids. One witness for bride and one for groom, and said witness can be of opposite sex (like your brother or sister), and they dress accordingly (fancy, coctail, I've seen uniforms, very casual, whatever works for the wedding), and everyone is responsible for their own clothes. No forcing anyone to wear peach sack with ruffles, no negotiations, no stress of finding one dress that will look good on 6 very different people. And then we drink.

[@amazingfire707]

Oh no. The lady with the husband's ex - that was rude, disrespectful and toxic and done on purpose. He was in on it too.

[@raimeyewens7518]

I would have faked some nausea and had the mother/sisters/ex wondering if I was pregnant. That would turn the attention away from ex gf 😂😒

[@rumakingthatup]

The fact there was only one house key means she couldn't even leave the house unless he was with her 😳

[@corrinfoss4822]

I woukd have taken the gift back before she could have opened it and walked out. They can enjoy whatever the ex gf got the bitch.

[@crazybiogeek]

The MIL who wanted to take a 2 month old baby away from their mother is 11/10 unhinged.

[@hashtagmate]

I agree. This was by far the worst one. Like ok she didn't do it, but the audacity of even thinking about it and not even ASKING but telling mom?

[@crazybiogeek]

@@hashtagmate It sounds like the MIL DID take other babies away from their mothers to "visit family", though. Or at least that's how she tried to justify her plans to the person making the video.

[@lisajean228]

Oh hell to the no

[@selenam9233]

I thought it was just my mother-in-law. Except she wanted to take my four-year-old son on an interstate flight for just grandma and grandson weekend before he started kindergarten , and then berated me about breaking tradition because her other son let her do that with his three kids. This is just one of many demands and tantrums from my in-laws. Let’s just say my husband has cut contact with his entire entitled family. Edit to add : this is a woman that was told that I was not comfortable with my son, staying overnight with her while on holiday, and then taking advantage of the fact that I had a migraine and taking him to her accommodation anyway for the night. It was not to help me, it was because I couldn’t stop her. The same woman on the same trip, also let my son wander around near an electric fence because she was on the phone and wasn’t watching him. And she wondered why I wouldn’t trust her alone with him.

[@crazybiogeek]

@@selenam9233 dayum!

[@makcal0708]

First MIL absolutely knew that wasn't her phone. No two month old baby of mine is going upstate anywhere without me. Airport MIL definitely did that on purpose. Baby shower family--ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! First impression MIL--nope, nope, nope. And she is so pretty!!!! I wanna be friends with her. 13 bridesmaids?? Not the brides responsibility to make sure the that particular bridesmaid looks perfect, not her fault. That's a them problem. Last one--nope. All of these-except the husband in the first impression MIL----ALL THE NOPES!!!!

[@tsgrandma9837]

Not MIL but SIL. My SIL lived about 1.5 hours away from us. We all lived in Tennessee. This is important to know. She had been after us about taking our oldest son for the weekend but I just couldn't imagine being without my son for that long. My husband & I just had our second, (& last), child. I was exhausted so I gave in and allowed her to take him for the weekend. The weekend came and went. We tried calling her, (cell phones weren't a thing then), no answer. We tried calling everyone she knew that we knew. We drove to her house but no one was there. I was freaky out. My husband was upset but was trying to keep me calm. MY MIL was worried about her daughter, (understandable), her children and my child. No one had heard from or seen them in days. By Tuesday morning we still haven't heard anything and I was getting ready to call the police. Both my husband and MIL backed me up on this. Just as I was headed for the phone, it rings and its my SIL. She had taken our son to Kentucky!!!!! My husband grabbed the phone from me when he heard me yell, "You took my child out of state without asking me?". My husband told his sister she had until 5:00 to have our son home or he would file kidnapping charges against her himself! My MIL didn't say a word. She was mad as hell at her daughter for doing this. Neither of our sons went to stay with her ever again.

[@makcal0708]

@@tsgrandma9837 Wow. SIL was bold. No one is taking my kids to a whole other state without me or my permission. Absolutely not.

[@sabinebruhns6632]

I can top that all. My MIL had a bad relationship from the start. And when we visited her for the last time before they would stop her breathing aid (she had lung cancer), she was cursing me and yelling at me for 15 minutes straight, calling me every name under the sun. I only came to be there for my hubby and to make my peace with her. But nope, she did not want that. And since the door to her room needed to stay open, everybody on this hospital floor could hear her - including the rest of her children. After the 15 minutes my husband snapped. He screamed at her, how he hates her for doing, what she just did. He had hoped for some last good memories and some words of comfort, but she ruined everything. We left and waited outside of the hospital for my BIL, to drive back home. Nobody was talking. Next morning we were told she died. I did not attend the funeral and my hubby was fine with my decision.

[@she-hulkSMASHES]

How horrible!

[@kristalpower292]

I know you were there for your husband but 15 mins of yelling and cursing I would have left way before then just to give the nurses and other patients some peace. You’re lucky the rest of the family didn’t try and blame you instead of the cancer.

[@teri2466]

Wow, she could yell for 15 minutes as she's dying of lung cancer?! That's gotta be a record.

[@pocohantas1972]

Oh my what an absolute horrible woman.....and she left her son/children and you as well with this being the last memory of her......thats a woman with a black heart for sure. So sorry this is what you and hubby had to endure

[@tiffanymims8691]

My ex-MIL was a cruel woman. She had the nerve to tell me that she couldn't come watch the baby so i could take a shower. He constantly needed to be held or rocked because of us being in a car accident when I was 8 months pregnant. At first they thought it was colic but then they said it was due to the trauma of the wreck, it was an extremely bad wreck. She said she would watch the 3 year old but no the newborn because he was too needy. All i wanted was a 5-10 minute shower, and my husband was gone for 2 to 3 weeks at a time due to work. She has never liked my youngest son, even now and he is 22 years old, and yes they have the same father aka same grandmother! She would also put me down constantly. I would go grocery shopping for her and she would tell me i was lazy. Nothing was ever good enough. Finally after 15 years I let her have it, i said everything i had been holding back and i can still see the look on her face when i close my eyes, that was nearly 12 years ago! I hope there is a special place in hell for her but it will probably be as Satan's mistress.

[@pocohantas1972]

I cant stop laughing at that last sentence 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SweetInSaNiTy_]

the existence of this kind of people is exactly why i'm so grateful to have the Mil that i have, i swear she's so lovely and one of the kindest people i know i love her sm

[@kayjacoby290]

"Get over it." No, buddy. She should get over YOU. She did, good for her.

[@empath9814]

My husband would never pull that crap in fact he'd shut it down before it got that bad and have a talk with family about how they treat me. His grandma tries to pull shit but he shuts her down really fast. Couldn't ask for a better man.

[@victoriasalter1064]

That “get over it” absolutely not…time to go!

[@megthe_misunderstood_rebel9779]

I’d say that when I’d boot his ass out of the house!

[@jennifermason1106]

The gaslighting in the first one! "I thought it was my phone, that's so gross!". No ma'am the only appropriate response would be "OMG I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to read that, I thought it was my phone". She absolutely knew what she was doing.

[@rustykeating8785]

Charlotte...you are waaay too naive. Trust me...MIL #2 did NOT "forget" to tell her DIL that she changed plans.

[@maryahscott6238]

I came here to say this too! This woman did it on purpose, you can just tell lol.

[@mizelle4096]

And it’s “not a big deal” that the life worried and the police were spending all this time looking for her??? Umm…

[@yumyummoany]

So obvious the mil was a nasty piece of work!

[@christine4670]

Yup.

[@angelidia]

MIL took her three days to apologize. Three days.

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

Ill save you a search, i can 100% confirm i have one of the top 3 worst mils. To avoid any trauma, i wont go into too much detail but i will say she did try to unalive me, twice, she has also catfished my husbands ex gfs with my husbands nudes that she stole off his phone.......and purposely triggered his ex from high school with poor mental health (schizophrenia) into believing that he was still in love with her.......15 years later.......they dated for 2 weeks......and thats not even the tip of the iceberg

[@melissalutz9003]

Girl how are you not in witness protection rn My god I’d run and hide from a psycho like that

[@Kayla-Butterfly]

Oh my gawd. That's awful!

[@melissasheppard6674]

Oof

[@maddydavidsdottir9862]

Ive mostly survived out of spite and the fact that i have a narcissistic sociopath mother so this isnt my first rodeo lol But i also have an amazing husband who has stepped in at every point and constantly calls her out on her BS, after 4 years I have had to hold NC with her and he has gone LC with her as his grandma is in poor health and lives with mil and bil and there's been evidence of elder abus3 so he's had to stay in contact but not once has he forced me to put up with her or be around her, he's amazing. She has, however, for the past 11 months, been very quiet and calmed down a lot and hubby found out yesterday that she's finally off the "dr.u.gs" and stopped drinking and is finally admitting shes a narcissist. So fingers crossed but I wont hold my breath lol

[@melissasheppard6674]

@@maddydavidsdottir9862 I’m glad your husband is so supportive 💜

[@maxerica69]

Babyshower incident and unsupportive S/o? TERMINATION! If they were married or engaged, she should give the ring to the ex and tell her "you can have him back" and then call an uber back home where she can break in, pack her stuff and leave his asp.

[@vanessacundiff676]

It depends on how old the MIL was to remember flight changes. I'm 64 I don't have memory slips like that, neither do any of my friends. That was deliberate

[@somerandomviewer7803]

My mil isn’t even in her 60s she forgets so much but she has what we call chemo brain. She will repeat a question you just sat there and explained and talked about for 5-10 minutes. It’s not deliberate though most things she forgets are little things not important ones.

[@nicolaclark]

She told her son - his fault he didn't tell his wife the change of plans!

[@vanovasmith9586]

No but it sounds like she doesn't like the wife too much. Since she didn't tell the wife, and changed plans because her son wouldn't be the one picking her up. Sounds like a boy mom to me.

[@coralreefer98]

Just because you don't have memory troubles at your age doesn't mean others don't. This was a kind of an inconsiderate comment, and I'm sure you didn't mean it that way at all. Everyone's experiences can be vastly different and that's okay.

[@TheGelasiaBlythe]

Most older folks who are still traveling (I'm thinking 75+) are usually still of very sound mind, and would not forget to call/text about the change. Especially if they have the presence of mind to change flights in the middle of the night.

[@tabithaAsher2171]

She knew that wasn't her phone, she was just being nosey

[@vorpalalice82]

The first time I met my MIL the very first words out of her mouth were "Are you fucking pregnant?!" The story leading up to this moment: My husband's family is more toxic than Hiroshima. He went no contact after their abuse drove his ex-wife away. He had not spoken to any of them in almost 2 years when we met. We started dating and eventually moved in together and had a pretty good little thing going. Still a little fuzzy how his mom found out our address, but this was her showing up suddenly. This was also after our roommate was the one to answer the door to which she yelled "Who the f*ck are you?!". Great times had by all there.

[@Infantfaire]

This is a lesson for me: always have your own transportation and house keys. The husband in the baby shower story is a AH

[@Valentinathevamp]

He most definitely is. I would have walked home and waited at the door then tell him under no uncertain term that I would NEVER be present at a function that is not at our home if it has anything to do with his side of the family AND if he can’t keep up with HIS key, he’d be the one keyless until I made a copy of my key for him. Discussion done.

[@anna-kayepowell8979]

They're not together anymore... Thank God

[@stadot1427]

If that's your takeaway, then aren't you assuming you can't trust anyone? I mean, maybe you don't have close friends or family you can count on to keep their word and yours might be a rational fix for this particular situation, but isn't the real problem that you -can't trust people- don't have people you can trust to follow through?

[@subhajitdeysarkar9724]

The second mother in law is giving cult leader vibes, straight out of some horror story, where she intends to sacrifice or indoctribate her grandkid by taking them away from her mother on the pretext of meeting unknown relatives, who actually turn out to be weird cult members. 😂😂

[@kayjacoby290]

Behold, the Chosen One! Bring forth the changeling. Yeah, that was my thought, as well.

[@kanditraxel]

Reminded me of an Outer Limits (1995 version, episode called "A New Life") where the leader of a cult takes the baby when it's like a few hours old and it comes back "tagged" on the back of its neck so they can keep track of it. 😂 When I read your comment, I was like, "GEE, great minds DO indeed think alike!"

[@bryl9453]

That is what I was thinking! 😂 Except in our culture, the child would be brought to a village of shape-shifting creatures. 😬

[@whirledpeas5717]

Rosemary's Baby

[@raeronda30]

Ohhhh my MIL tops alllll of these MIL’s. I have to send in my story. In short gaslights, controlling, manipulates faith, ruined the wedding, told me to “smile and sign it”….the prenup. And so much more!!!

[@carolynjiminez1247]

I hope she’s your ex-MIL by now!! You marry your partner’s family, for better or worse!

[@missamanda2703]

I was terrified of making a bad 1st impression of my DIL. I wanted her to be comfortable for the weekend so we stayed at a hotel with them because we live in the country. Separate floors. We went to dinner, shopping and a nail day. She is adorable. I am so happy we hit it off. But how can I be surprised that the perfect person I raised wouldn't find the other perfect person. ❤ Love you, Marlene.

[@she-hulkSMASHES]

Do you have any single sons? I wish you were MY mother in law! ❤

[@user-nd3tg5zn1b]

Call a ride share, call a locksmith and keep it moving! He is an AH

[@mizelle4096]

The only house key? Strange

[@kayjacoby290]

@@mizelle4096How long ago did he "lose" the other key that there was only one? Should've asked Mil for her copy; you know she's got one.

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

Yeah I immediately thought Uber! Break a Damn window when you get home. And yeah 1 house key? He allegedly lost a key?? I don't like being trapped or stuck ever. I walked 11 miles once due to this. No $ for Uber at the time. My ex got my mom, yes my own mom, to steal my truck in middle of a class. My home was over an hour away. A classmate and her husband took me home. Refused gas money. Ex looked like he $hit his pants when I showed up. Kids had concerts and after I tried taking my truck back. Both our names were on title. Never ever do that. Cops were called. My ex was desperately trying to control me. He learned I had more fight in me than he realized. He's a prick, his whole family are pricks. His family hated me from the get go. I should have ran but I didn't. Ex and I lived very seperate lives for awhile til he started pulling some weird crap. Threatened to take my phone away after I had medical emergency where he found me on bathroom floor. Wouldn't let me call 911 for help. Constantly trying to get into my phone when asleep. Spying and listening to my phone convos. Hired my son to be a spy. Spreading lies at work when we worked together. He was a fat, creepy mother f*cker Atleast I have a son and daughter from it that I live close to while they attend college. Having divorced his entire family was a bonus. There was only 1 person I loved but it's worth losing for the greater good having zero ties. I was far too desperate for acceptance. Don't do that. It'll save you a world of hurt and a boat load of lawyer fees🎉

[@andrewvan9075]

facts ............... if true he is a AH but the story seems off. doesnt make sense they dont have/didnt get a spare key made right away. if just the 1 key she shouldve had it. even if she couldnt drive/doesnt have a car she should have money for a cab to go some place and hang out for an hour or so ...... eg. the mall.

[@daisy9910]

Pretty sure I remember from the original post that he was allowing his family to be abusive to her, and he was gaslighting her. They divorced thankfully@@andrewvan9075

[@alliewashburn5582]

Unrelated but that bad batch reference made me indescribably happy 😂

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

10:22 the way I was just cheering on this husband! 10:36 WHAT?! 10:44 OMFG! He went from, “awwww, look at him! Has his wife’s back” to “toss this whole man and his whole ass weirdo family away!” Does he even actually like her?!

[@Sunshineattacks3]

I tried to give the first Mom the benefit of the doubt, but she didn’t even look confused when she read the message. If she thought it was her phone, she would’ve immediately been confused.

[@brendateague9111]

Telling a woman to calm down, is like trying to baptize a cat. You’re gonna lose. Period.

[@CCsCorner0212]

My MIL is so freaking hateful! I’m allergic to green peppers 🫑 I’m a nurse, she’s a nurse and she’s been trying to poison me for decades saying I’m sorry, I forgot! The Thanksgiving she put green peppers in the stuffing and stuffed the turkey… needless to say, my husband could no longer deny it! She’s done so much more but I’d have to create a video! So, I’ve been no contact for seven years now and life is better! My husband also limits contact due to her toxicity! Thanks Charlotte for another great video 🥰😂

[@kelleywyskiel3478]

Just wow. That’s criminal. Especially stuffing a turkey with green peppers 🫑. My actual mother is like this and a nurse. I went zero contact after she nearly killed me twice during my cancer treatments by nursing my stitched in drains( pulling them out and leaving me bleeding out until I called my husband to break in and take me to the er) second time she tried to stay in my hospital room, would order herself food trays from dietary, change mine, so I couldn’t eat because I have pretty strict dietary restrictions. It got worse. Bad enough my surgeon would show up each evening to kick my mother out. Then worse when I again called my husband to drive 10 hours to save me from where the hotel manager was actually hiding me from her. Life has been so much better now. It’s like I knew she was dangerously cruel but just kept trying to excuse it until total strangers stepped in. Good on you ❤️

[@elizabethpena1608]

Reminds me of the Hans Christian Andersen stories of the evil step Mom's

[@kathybrem880]

Wow!

[@al-ub2yl]

I hate that when people say they forgot. I guess there is a slim chance they did, but I don't buy it 99.99% of the time. I have ADHD, chronically forgetful, and have trouble planning ahead etc. But, I know one of my friends doesn't like tomatoes, so I remember not to add that to the salad and instead put it as a side when we have BBQ's, I remember that another friend likes one sauce over another more common sauce, so I make sure I have that available. I know one friend is mildly allergic to capsicum, so I don't add that to recipes I usually make. I know another gets a sore tummy after eating pork, even though they really like it so don't have that as an option. I know one friend loves garlic, and another hates it, so I make two types of some dishes so they can both have some. I know who is celiac, so make food they can eat, and keep it away from the other food so it can't be cross contaminated, make sure I prepare that first with clean equipment and make sure it's cooked first. I don't put out a thing that I know people have allergies to that are harmful, and make sure I have antihistamines for people just in case. I know which friends have food that reacts with their medications, I make sure there is nothing dangerous to a foetus if someone is pregnant, and make sure people know if there is if they could possibly be pregnant. I know who is vegan, and if they are the type who can't eat figs, or honey. I know how all my friends and family take their coffee and their tea. If it's been a while I will ask in case they have changed their preferences. I am the same person who all the staff at my local grocery store know because I frequently have to rush home because I forgot my wallet again, and didn't realise until it was time to pay. If she truely can't remember who is allergic to what, she should ask everyone she invited over and cooks for.

[@elizabethpena1608]

@@al-ub2yl I wish there were more people like you most people feel that every one should follow the same diet that is why I divorced both husbands

[@Augustine__in]

Watching Charlotte while procrastinating has become my daily routine

[@Karleigh-lw9vn]

ERRDAY!!!!

[@sirialexa9982]

It's what I am doing right now! Lol

[@Augustine__in]

@@sirialexa9982 haha me too!

[@heather_smallwood]

Watching while folding laundry! She's always good fun!

[@nancyrussell4708]

I thought I was the only one 😂!

[@leetalley1963]

I have the worst mil. She tried to hook my husband up with another woman while we were dating. She tried to buy him off to leave me, and she offered to pay for the rest of his college, pay for his apartment, under the conditions if he'd leave me. After we married, she told him a lie to cause an argument between us, hoping we'd split up. She compared me to Delilah in the Bible. She has called me names, made fun of my mental health (I'm in therapy), and told the rest of the family lies about me to make them not like me. I could go on and on. Hold your seats. She's never met me in person, nor have I met any of his family. I'm just not good enough because I don't have a college degree, and I work from home (I'm a writer). I'm just not good enough in her eyes for her little boy. I could seriously tell so much more! This is just the tip of the iceberg.

[@sw7833]

#2 was a a completely narcissistic control move! Never leave your children with her!!!!

[@lillyconkright4766]

Ugh! My MIL wanted to watch my daughter over night when she was like 2 months old. I was like um no. She’s still waking up in the night to feed and needing to be changed. This is also the MIL that held her own small photoshoot with my oldest when she was a month old and did the same poses I did with my daughter when I did our newborn pictures. 🙄🤨🤣🤣

[@Kayla-Butterfly]

That's creepy AF 😂

[@allykim2014]

Ew, why WHY are people creeps like this?

[@laurenrobinson9072]

My mil never asked but I could tell she was annoyed that we didn't let her babysit overnight. I understood as she had had her other grandchild overnights from 2 weeks old but it wasn't the same: we lived an hour away not 5 minutes; I breastfed whilst sil bottlefed and I'm not an alcoholic that leaves my baby any chance I get! She's 5 now and still hasn't had solo alone nights anywhere except our best friends who have a child the same age and are responsible.

[@lillyconkright4766]

@@Kayla-Butterfly I thought so too! 🤣🤣🥴

[@kathybrem880]

Eww creepy

[@MandaPVlogs]

These videos make me so happy my MIL is an absolute rockstar. I'm so sorry to those people who have terrible ones who hinder instead of help them. Be strong y'all.

[@terrafletcher1930]

"Get over it." ...DUDE! It was YOUR plan, to HELP me and then you DITCHED me!

[@LynxyPie]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@jo-annbastings]

The first story is like a mother entering in her adult son’s room, without knocking!!, and being offended to see him in action with his fiancee/wife/girlfriend or whatever… it wasn’t her phone, she perfectly knew it, but couldn’t stop herself to look who sent the message. That’s what happened when you are too nosy!

[@LynetteTheRogue]

That baby shower story where the husband told his wife to "get over it" is a perfect example of why spouses try to murder each other

[@sierram9573]

The fact that the last MIL left silently when they said the police are on their way is definitely also telling

[@Kayenne54]

That's right. She's not crazy, she's just "acting" crazy. If someone has any instinct of self preservation left, they're not crazy. Those little "peer out" eyeholes; I'd stick a little mirror over that, one you can flick aside to look outside yourself, but otherwise when they peer in, they're seeing their own idiocy.

[@chainer1969]

If you look closely. She was walking down the driveway when the police showed up. You can see the cop car pull across the end of the driveway.

[@chibipeach1981]

My first mil told me with a smile I was bound for ..that place...and that I should try to be what my husband wanted instead of being myself......my new mil is amazing though....I adore her and she treats all my kids as her grandbabies

[@DiZoSoMom]

After the first MIL you def deserve the second!! Congrats! My first MIL wasn’t horrible, but we had moments… second for me is also friggin amazing though. Second husbands are better too hahaha.

[@cdub]

The one wanting to take the infant was the worst one. Nope, no way. 2mo, 6mo, 6 YEARS... that child isn't going anywhere *I'm* not. If they want to meet the baby that badly, they can come down here and meet.

[@I_Am_SciCurious]

As a MiL, I promise she didn’t just forget unless she’s suffering from extreme early onset dementia, and if it was dementia she’d be mortified and questioning her basic capabilities of living independently. She just didn’t care enough to give the DiL a call and assumed her son would ensure mama was cared for.

[@nwoehdj]

PERIOD💯

[@CallMeNains]

MIL flying into Palm Springs without telling her was totally on purpose!! She was mad and was making you "pay". Charlotte hasn't had experiences with women like this yet! hahahaha And yes it was bad! lol💜 Love you Charlotte!!!

[@haelz1367]

But did DIL call MIL? Seems unclear, she doesn’t say she called her.

[@Kayenne54]

I sincerely hope Charlotte never has a MIL like that.

[@rybreadasmr1654]

10:48 and in that moment , im over the ✨entire ✨relationship. thank u, next

[@reut0094]

Don't reach for your son's phone. You deserve that discomfort!

[@restezlameme]

TRUTH

[@annamcfarlane4675]

My mother in law is so amazing. So loving and kind and giving. My wedding was even on her birthday and she was so happy and said I was her birthday gift. We even hangout a lot ❤️😊 I wish everyone can have a mother in law like her

[@joelmelissam]

I want so much to be that kind of mother in law. I don't have a good relationship with mine. I have 2 sons. I want to be a lovely mother in law.

[@annamcfarlane4675]

Yes, me too. I like to look at it as gaining a daughter, not losing a son. I think that’s where boy moms go wrong. I sont want to cause strife In my life or other peoples lives. You are growing your family and should show them the same love as your own. There is problems between my mom and my sister In law, yes my mom isn’t perfect but also my sister in law comes from a family that seems to always drive a wedge between them and their mother in laws. I rather not have to go to family dinners and event ands deal with the stress of not getting along with my daughter in law or mother in law.

[@anaphylaxis2548]

I had a great MIL, I miss her.

[@kayleeciccarello8668]

11:55 this husband is even worse the the mil and Sil. Kick them to the curb! He would probably just end back up with his ex right away anyway, if he not already seeing her behind your back.

[@Peaceful_Zen_Life]

I find it amazing that I still get shocked by how badly people treat each other.

[@BreezybriefswithBrooke]

Me too , and I’ve had some pretty crappy things did to me , that I would never even THINK of doing to others. I suppose the fact that it still Bothers someone could mean , you have a soul 🫶🏻💁🏼‍♀️😂 Double edged sword ⚔️

[@savannahvicenti3068]

Charlotte having all this benefit of the doubt proves she doesn’t have a MIL🤣🤣

[@suehancey8355]

😂😂

[@exxtrasweettreats94]

Lmao 😂

[@romanahoch6288]

She does though

[@lindadonaldson7568]

My first thought!

[@savannahvicenti3068]

@@romanahoch6288 she doesn’t. She’s not married

[@Rowancat11]

Telling anyone to calm down works about as well as trying to baptise a cat.

[@sarai1519rios]

Hell No!!!! They want to see the baby come and visit, the baby isn't going anywhere.

[@lilfizz1619]

"A good time to take the baby upstate? Yeah, the twelfth of Never would be a perfect time."

[@LisaRent]

“Second Tuesday of next week or February 30th, whichever comes first.”

[@jilliansherrard2152]

MORE MIL CONTENT.....I FEEL HEARD, SEEN, VALIDATED AND NOT ALONE

[@natasha-anne2957]

My now MIL moved in with myself and my husband when we'd only been living together for 6months ourselves. I didn't mind as her partner had just passed away, however whilst with us, she proceeded to insult me to my husband, complain about the food I cooked from scratch every day for 7 of us as I also had my 4 kids there aswell, she almost ruined Christmas by telling my youngest at the time who was only 2 1/2yrs old that santa wasn't real along with his 6yr old brother and the worst insult (where I told her she could leave my house), was when she told my husband that I was just like his ex. That was the final nail in the coffin. I confronted her and told her if she doesn't like me, not to let the door hit her fat backside on the way out! She soon shut up and has actually been nice to me ever since. Me and my husband will be celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary in July this year. 💕

[@jguenther3049]

Pain is the only motivation for change.

[@MonkeyBrainMcGee]

My mother in law told my husband to not take time off of work to watch our then 2 year old daughter when I was mourning the loss of my best friend of 15+ years. My mother in law literally told him “I didn’t have help with the kids when my grandmother died. What are you going to do if someone else dies? You won’t have any time off then.” There are so many stories I have about this woman. I had a therapist tell me once that my MIL sounded like a sitcom character, and I couldn’t agree more.

[@melissasheppard6674]

People need to get a clue. Just bc they didn’t/wouldn’t have that support, doesn’t mean others shouldn’t. Oy vey. In Charlotte’s words, “ABSOLUTELY NOT!”

[@MonkeyBrainMcGee]

@@melissasheppard6674 Agreed! It amazes me how many people are incapable of compassion and simply *thinking*!

[@kayeb7809]

Actually she sounds like the wicked witch of the west

[@GhostDrummer]

Yah, so both our children were preemies. My wife had preeclampsia both pregnancies. The kids are now 22 & 18, but it was rocky in the beginning. Son was 8 weeks early, spent 6 weeks in NICU, and came home on a heart monitor and oxygen. Daughter was 12 weeks early, had heart surgery after three days to close the 5th valve, spent 3 months in NICU, and came home on oxygen. Both times, after the babies came home, we had to get forcefully with family, friends, and strangers who thought they could just pick up the babies and do whatever they felt like with them. It was the bizarrest behavior we’ve ever seen. Like, obviously G-ma got to hold them, but even she was extremely careful and always asked. She also realized she couldn’t stray far because of the oxygen tubing and monitor wires, but other family members seemed to simply ignore these factors and would try walking away without taking the machines with them. My wife and I were treated like crap by a lot of people because we got tired of stopping people nicely and had to become a bit stern when pointing out repeatedly that the babies were attached to medical life saving items.

[@Valentinathevamp]

Jesus Christ. You are a good man because I don’t repeat myself. I have been known to just TELL, not ask, people to leave.

[@Antsaboy94]

13:57 _"They also have to make a good impression on you."_ *Preach* it, sister!

[@NissaMaezHartman]

Husbands usually catch on pretty quick. They learn that ' calm down', 'get over it, 'you sound crazy' actually means ' I really don't mind not having sex, or you cooking meals, or doing any housework whatsoever. I like being miserable because you're going to punish me for a long time'

[@fourlittlebirds6166]

Yeah only the stupid ones say crap like that and think there’s no repercussions. 😂

[@cullinanel2]

Sorry but what was really even more wild was the MIL planning a trip with a baby that isn't even born yet!!!

[@kayleighandhercat1351]

Yup, I had the same thought

[@jguenther3049]

MIL is barmy in the crumpet.

[@jinglejacs]

I had a lovely relationship with my mother-in-law for several years, then I didn't lol. I called her out on her bullshit many many times (as did my husband AND father-in-law) but I always tried until, she told me she'd sold all her gold because she had no one to leave it to! She has two sons and three grandsons, all of whom could have had sentimental pieces made, but what she obviously meant was 'you're not getting it'. Lady, I have my own gold plus my deceased mother and grandmothers gold, she hoped for a reaction, I just agreed that 'yes, you really have no one, who cares enough to want it'. She's not silly, she got the point lol

[@kelleywyskiel3478]

God on you!! That was a beautiful queen slay ❤️I love it.

[@she-hulkSMASHES]

Awesome clap back!

[@sandrawhitmore6810]

I had a similar experience to 2nd lasses story. Sitting with one of my husband’s sisters and her husband. Sisters-in-law didn’t like me, parents ambiguous and I never was welcomed. I was totally ignored by sister-in-law, pointedly so. Got sick of it so said to my husband just going over to see your Mum & Dad, they lived across the road. I was so upset I had forgotten they had recently passed on but nobody, including husband reacted. I didn’t go there I set out to walk home, 23 kms away. Best walk of my life. I am elderly now but back then I walked about 18 easily before a neighbour, we lived in the country, gave me a lift. That walk gave me time to sort out a lot of things in my head. I went on to have a better relationship with my husband who also had time to reflect, after he thought I had left him ( & possibly lost my mind). From Oz.

[@Kayenne54]

Nah. You got your mind back, you didn't lose it. I'm glad it seemed to work out better though.

[@Dani-nb4dg]

The husband who said get over it, needs to go not just because he didn't stand up for you. But he's giving controlling Vibes, because who doesn't have their own house key for their own house?

[@bitterbloodeddemon]

One of my first birthdays with my now-husband, my now-MIL offered to take me out to dinner. She set up a time and a place, I told my mom not to make my standard birthday dinner (she usually makes me a mexican food casserole as my cake) and at like 7pm or so we head to town. We get to the meeting place, we're waiting and waiting, and my now-MIL texts us that she has to cancel on us. I was in TEARS with no real backup plan. At the time we couldn't exactly afford to go out to eat, and at that point it would have been a hassle for my mom to run out, gather the ingredients and then make my usual dish, let alone anything else. It's been like 8 years and I've never let her handle my birthday again. Last year we had the misfortune of being at her house. There was some event or gathering that we came down for, mothers day, and my birthday. I told my husband, since we were staying at his mothers house and had to travel back home halfway through the day anyway, to just SKIP my birthday. Just ignore it. It's just Sunday, don't try to make it a thing because I didn't want it to be ruined. I had ZERO expectations. Early in the morning my MIL asked if I wanted to do anything for my birthday, I said no. She said "At least let me get you a cake" and kind of begged and pleaded. I was like OK. A small cheese cake shouldn't be hard to get a hold of. The Safeway up the street should have them, or my husband can toddle down to Walmart. W/E it's an easy thing she can't possibly fuck it up. We sit around for an hour or so, my husband and I are talking about when we need to leave, and my MIL goes "Oh! I couldn't find any cheese cake. :/ I was on the app and I couldn't find any. Sorry." I just brushed it off and went about getting us packed up and ready to go. Again ZERO expectations. But it really solidified my earlier decision to NEVER give her those reigns again since I know damn good and well how easy a small cheesecake would have been to get in that town.

[@kayeb7809]

She’s a real piece of work. I would have told her, that’s ok I didn’t expect anything from you anyway. Bye!

[@daisy9910]

I hope your husband sees what she's up to.

[@TotalFreakZoid]

I have to admit, the fact that Charlottes first reaction to one of stories before it even started was "She's so pretty~!" made me super giddy~ Like awwww~

[@tisha4lives]

God ALWAYS sends us signs on warnings. Her (OP) warning was when the MIL first met her. 17:00 I don't understand marrying into a family like that. Run for the hills.

[@h.stryker5519]

"The baby deserves to meet her relatives." The baby is 2 months old. She doesn't know what relatives are.

[@Kayenne54]

Baby would sure as heck never know who that particular grandmother was. Lol.

[@georgenkansah659]

She prolly doesn't even know who her father is

[@eliothutchins501]

As an old person, we aren’t THAT loopy. Some of us pretend to forget. And there is obviously a lot of history 8/10

[@sarahtaavetti]

Yeah. That MIl just didn‘t care enough to tell her….

[@amandasylvester8624]

Airport lady is giving me big time William Shatner vibes with her storytelling. I love it

[@ajjamsen694]

The 1st clip - my brother, being the only boy, has *loudly* done the devils tango with his gf's, loud enough to hear in the basement while they were on the 2nd floor 😑 we all acknowledged it while it was happening and my MA had to go tell them to stfu. Meanwhile, in my 20's, 30's I still cant sleep on the same *FLOOR* with the boyfriend I had for almost a decade. 😑

[@d4ever649]

The devils tango! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheBaumcm]

Stop staying with them then. Get a hotel room. My dogs weren’t welcome at my mother’s house. So we’d either stay at a hotel half an hour away (good excuse to bail as needed) or not come. She said she wished we could visit more often and I explained that we would if we didn’t have to drive extra to drop the dogs with my wonderful in laws every time. All of a sudden, our animals were invited.

[@SaidiLouise]

I am thanking God that my MIL is amazing!! Loving, accepting, caring, supportive, etc. I'm blessed i guess...these MILs are horrible!

[@queenchaeyeon]

"get over it?!?" With DIVORCE

[@TwinCitiesFancy]

Top tier editing. I'm scream laughing at all the graphics and cuts. Also, could have gone another 30 mins with these stories from hell.

[@rowdybliss]

Man, I really lucked out in the MIL department. My husbands were less-than-exceptional, but I loved my MILs!

[@infin8ee]

It's a lottery . A bad mil makes it so much harder to make a marriage work .

[@phillyphan1225]

Numerous mil’s and husbands..maybe it’s the choices 😮

[@TheBaumcm]

@@phillyphan1225not necessarily numerous only plural.

[@rowdybliss]

@@phillyphan1225 bless your heart. I’ll give you a pass because you’re from Philly and so am I. 😘

[@mattmills8658]

If they're so worried about the baby meeting relatives I'm sure the grown ass relatives can travel to the baby

[@THEMamaVicky]

I had her. My ex MIL told my ex to call the police & tell them I had a knife and was threatening him, so they would lock me up and he could have the house. 😐 Even he wasn't that awful.