we can all have it all

how we can all live our dream lives
Growing up, we're taught that only a few people can live their dream lives - those who work hard and do all that they can to get there. We've all been lied to. There's an abundance of resources, wealth, and opportunities for us all to have it all and live our dream lives, and we shouldn't have to slave away to get there. In this video, I share my rules for breaking through the lies we've been taught about access, hustle culture, and work.
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[@kayleenwhite2489]

i JUST cried to my mom this morning over stress from college and wanting more time to focus on my design job i already have and getting my beadwork jewelry business going. it’s so weird how normalized our stress and anxiety is to upkeep things that don’t satisfy us. i so badly want to beat the system. i was definitely meant to hear this message today.

[@rain-wj6vv]

It makes me happy to hear you got some things going on like design and bead work. Keep fostering your creativity when you can

[@LynetteAdkins]

Wishing you the best love, you deserve happiness!

[@kekemorgan]

Omg ! I understand so well. It’s ridiculous how we sit here and ppl tell us to normalize stress and i finally see it’s all bull. I get it. The whole part when she says it’s just all a game. That is real.

[@naomidipotaroeno6356]

@kayleen White what is your Instagram handle (bead business)?

[@kayleenwhite2489]

@@naomidipotaroeno6356 @ beadworkbykayleen on ig love!

[@EGYPTinSAC]

The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, he said: “Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”

[@JATM509]

Also anyone else think it’s crazy how this is our life in 2021... like it sounds futuristic but ... we still in the past.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yeah time is weirddd I get tripped out thinking about it too long lol

[@pablitopera]

¨They changed everything so nothing changes…¨

[@itsjamilahassan]

It's very refreshing to see someone your age think and express the same things you've been thinking for years. These videos are so impactful, keep it up!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you so much!

[@tayter_chip]

You literally took the words out of my mouth. My boyfriend and I were talking yesterday about how neither of us ever want to go back to a 9-5 and would rather do something that will benefit ourselves and our community. I think my only problem is I don’t know what I want to do. Like I’m 24 and I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I spent 7 years working 2 jobs, 10 hrs per day, 6 days a week and I feel like I’m so burnt out now and don’t have any idea what my actual passion or dream is

[@crtvcncr1]

I feel this. I turn 24 this year and I too trying to figure out what I'm passionate about and what I should do. All I know is, a 9 to 5 is not for me

[@yafavegirljas]

oh my goodness this is literally me! I'm 23 and I've been working since I was 14 and oh my goodness am I burnt out! I literally have NO desire to work at all but that doesn't cut it in a capitalist society. Also doesn't help that I'm the oldest daughter and family is looking at me to have my shit together 🥲

[@toosweet0303]

What do you like? What do you like doing? Focus on that or just explore different things. Try something new and see if you like it and go from there. I'm 30 and I had a 9-5 I've been a mua. I taught English in spain for 8 months. and now I have a journal business. Sometimes you just have to try different things. Be brave don't be afraid of failure. You never fail only learn

[@soulkineticswithkikikonque6698]

same AND I'VE BEEN OFF WORK FOR A YEAR

[@Bmvn88]

Well you may not know what you want, but you do know what you don't want. Start there.

[@VerenaSatriani]

When success is not selfish, that's the real success.

[@tasneemelassadi8421]

absolutely

[@zavgod]

the chipmunk is actually a really good analogy. funny enough, they collect all those nuts and I shit you not, they forget where they put them. like 80%. we're similar, we hoard resources and it doesn't even benefit anyone, even ourselves.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Omggg we really are chipmunks lol! We hoard without even realizing why or if we want what we gain. So crazy

[@goddessreverierosehawthorn3724]

Actually....squirrels do this and they are one of the main drivers in planting tree populations lol 😂

[@alexrobinson3385]

Yes! I couldn't agree more!

[@NateshasAmbience]

I had this mentality when I was a child. I never wanted to work a job just to retire at 65. I didn’t see the point of waiting until you’re almost 70 to really start living. (Yeah, I was a kid who was way beyond her years.) I never wanted to do what I saw everyone else doing. And yet, when I became an adult, I fell right in step with the very way of life I so despised. You’ve awakened this childhood dream of mine. I am officially woke and I am never going back to sleep. Time to turn this dream into a reality!!!!! Time for all of us to leave this decrepit archaic system behind and forge into new territory. I think you are starting a movement for this generation! And I am totally on board!

[@Sevpha_]

yes we can break this old society

[@kendalbrenneman]

Yes! My father would come home and complain about work and I remember thinking to myself “well, I don’t want to be like that!” I had a handful of very short-term part-time jobs and worked hard in Los Angeles as a background actor and stand-in (super long days but you can somewhat choose what days you want to work and take a vacation whenever you want, if you can afford it) before finally working online (and working in film when I could) and although the stress is still there about rent and bills, the freedom is great! I keep trying to help my friends and boyfriend(s) find their own way but so many people even after seeing what’s possible still say “well, that’s not normal, not everybody can do that, if I want money I need to get a full-time job.” People can be very brainwashed! I’m so grateful for the internet, I don’t know what I would be doing without it. 🤣

[@NateshasAmbience]

@@Sevpha_ Yes, we can!

[@NateshasAmbience]

@@kendalbrenneman I’m glad you didn’t lose sight of your goal! It’s so easy to do when you’re swept up into adulthood. I recently had an ice breaker at work via Zoom. We all said what we saw ourselves doing 10 years from now. Everyone, and I mean everyone, said that they’d be retired, close to retirement, or still working at the job with the hope of retiring in the distant future. I was baffled at their lack of vision, drive, and goals. I felt so sad for them and angry at the same time. On the other hand, I said that I’d be freelancing so I could travel and still earn money from anywhere. I also said that I’d be living my life to enjoy my passions. Now that I’m woke, I can’t imagine life any other way. I wish you much success as you live out life on your terms!!!

[@kendalbrenneman]

@@NateshasAmbience Oh gosh, yes, I can't even relate to people who talk about retirement! My dream was to be an actress, and never retire until I couldn't work anymore. I still want to act, though I feel a bit stuck there at the moment. But there are other things I can work on until then! But the idea of putting off the things you want to do for the distant future, counting down the time... I just want to enjoy what I do, and do it for as long as I want, and have the freedom to enjoy life NOW, and not hope that I don't die before "later" arrives. Besides, not having a 'normal' job, I don't have a retirement fund or pension or anything, so to actually "retire" in that way isn't even an option. :-P

[@keranichell3]

I honestly just want to be a supermodel and I always have. The dream never dies, you just get bogged down with life

[@LynetteAdkins]

100%. You will be a supermodel, speaking it into existence❤️

[@keranichell3]

@@LynetteAdkins omg, I love your channel. Please keep going ❤️

[@seriahalexus]

Pleasee do!! I am just starting my professional career as a petite model. I always get so happy when I see girls who look like me in the media. I used to think it didn’t effect me until I seen a girl modeling with my same body type and skin tone it was such a refreshing moment for me. She inspired me by just doing what she loved. And you can do the same!

[@keranichell3]

@@seriahalexus thank you love, the support alone means so much

[@kennymac2430]

You can do it!!!

[@JATM509]

Doesn’t it feel like slavery? Like modern day slavery and it’s crazy cause artist say it all the time!

[@SunRayBabyJ]

Yes. I call it the corporate plantation or corporate slavery.

[@LynetteAdkins]

It is, slavery never ended tbh

[@JATM509]

@@LynetteAdkins agreed

[@bananabreadyum9663]

The difference is that they had very little (about none) power about their situation

[@RenaissanceRockerBoy]

@@bananabreadyum9663 okay but people now also have very little control over their situations. You either work or you DIE. Literally you have to make money to have food, water, and shelter. We have to pay for healthcare etc etc. Capitalism gives the illusion of free will when in reality most people are trapped in places they don’t want to be in.

[@kiearacelina]

I love it here!

[@LynetteAdkins]

❤️

[@kiearacelina]

@@LynetteAdkins ❤️❤️

[@CarasPlace]

Yesss, support. ♥️ I love you both.

[@chassidytv6462]

Girl... Social media and not achieving my dreams yet have made me feel so unaccomplished. I wanna travel, buy a farmhouse/cottage, be a midwife, own a farm... lol i wanna do it all

[@NateshasAmbience]

Then do it all! You can do it, just plan it out and run with it!!! 👏🏽

[@cloudyheart5148]

Sending positive vibes and prayers your way! 💕

[@lovelyflower2383]

DO IT GIRL ‼️ don’t live life with regrets 💞

[@chassidytv6462]

@@simplylillitarot We can

[@chassidytv6462]

@@lovelyflower2383 Thank you ☺️

[@Spiritmeetsbone]

You are going to go so far. Greatness is written all over you sis. Looking forward to watching you grow.

[@SunRayBabyJ]

It is! Her energy is peaceful, genuine, and powerful. Rooted. She's going to do great things🙏🏽

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you so so much, this means the world

[@LynetteAdkins]

@@SunRayBabyJ Thank you so much!

[@georgepoulos]

i love this perspective. i decided recently that being disillusioned by the system is not helpful. it's just depressing, and im still stuck in the system anyway. better to accept it and finesse the game to better your situation

[@NicoleKisa]

And the hamster wheel continues.

[@ShereseNicole]

Yess this

[@sariahlace5944]

Unfortunately most people will have to remain,in the prison system of slave work fortunate ones,will establish an alternative lifestyle.

[@sariahlace5944]

@@NicoleKisa So accurately said 💯💯💯💯✊✊✊👏👏🤝🤝👍👍

[@c.ronthemic7450]

George is that you, OMG I remember watching your videos when I bought my first skateboard years ago. Like 5 years ago I think, wow just reading comments and came across yours. Though I don't know you personally It literally feels like coming across an old friend on KZbin comments. I hope your channel is doing well as your still skating.🙂

[@bexlgem]

It is so important for us to use what we have now and our own respective privilege to better the situations of others in our lives. When one person wins, that should be a collective win. I’m glad you brought that up!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yesss!

[@anastasiabennett4854]

Yes! Adding “collective winning” to my daily vocab

[@ivypuravidacoach9370]

Generation X, Baby Boomers and earlier generations did not have internet. The choices were limited or very expensive to advertise their work or reach out to others to sell their services. Millennials have a myriad of social media opportunities to advertise and spread the word that previous generations did not have. Enjoy and make it work for you Millennials. You got this!

[@madamadam5951]

No one can fix everything, but everyone can fix something.

[@katieinflora9346]

That Twitter grind culture idea of life is so much like working to death honestly. I hate that way of thinking

[@manwithaplan135]

I am a 20 year old man. I recently got out of a 5 year relationship that I genuinely loved, and had a car accident which led to a multitude of health problems. I lost 200 lbs, joined the Army and managed to by a house 3 days ago and now I'm starting two businesses. I was once a 405 pre diabetic child that was homeless for half my school life. It takes alot but it is possible. Every day I feel more in control and driven its a process

[@daviewaviee6079]

I left my job a little while ago, definitely without a well-formulated plan, but certainly knowing that I was miserable there and it wasn't for me. I prepared my tiny nest egg and *flew* ✈. I just *can't* fake the happiness for 8-12 hours a day anymore. I'm so hard-working and motivated and passionate, but that just dies instantly at every job I hate. Loving what you do is the only way to sustain motivation, forever. I have this infinite reservoir of creative energy when I love something. I'm on an extended vacay in my homeland to find my purpose and passion again, and it's working. 😁🏝🇵🇷 I don't wanna be a bum forever... I just haven't felt this good about life since I was a child. I'm 28. I'm TIRED of being tired. I feel alive today. I am more inspired to create and "do" and *live* than I've ever been. The self-care (physical/mental/emotional/spiritual/allat) is WORKING, honeyyyy! I don't even know what the "something" is I'm looking for but I feel closer to it right now than ever before. I wish everyone the same joy I feel right now 🥰 life feels magical again, I missed that 🔮💞

[@LynetteAdkins]

It's crazy how just living and experiencing life to the fullest can be labeled as being a 'bum,' by society's standards. You're living, that's what we are meant to do! So glad you got out of that situation and are finding your passion in life again! Wishing you continued joy and abundance🤗💕

[@mahamshahzad8006]

This comment has made smile and gives me hope! Hopefully I can feel this way soon too

[@desireenicole3]

That makes me so happyyyyy ! I just became a flight attendant for the same reason. I’m taking a major paycut but I know that will revitalize itself and I will gain authenticity and alignment. Cheers to new beginnings 💕💕💕

[@kkgreen7946]

That’s so inspiring! I’d love to trade places right now.

[@tendaoxtails]

I needed this message! I just recently quit my job after realizing that working for myself not only helped my finances and time management, but also my mental health. Getting out of the matrix and retraining my mind on how I prioritize my life has been an eye opening experience. Thank you for this 🖤💯

[@LynetteAdkins]

That's amazing! Having control of your own schedule/finances must be so empowering. So glad this was helpful!💕

[@rain-wj6vv]

that's so true we kinda have to retrain our minds to greater potentials!

[@NateshasAmbience]

Congratulations! 🎊🎉 That is wonderful! I am glad that you decided to make yourself a priority. 👏🏽😃

[@bne9111]

thank u. whenever i try to talk about this everyone says “u can’t change this”. but i believe that i can, and u showed me that it’s possible. thank u

[@Diimondc]

They want us to think we can’t change it, this is how the higher ups keep us stuck in this rat race. We hold way more power than we realize!

[@tiffanyamrrs]

Lynette, this is the type of content we need more of in this world. We have normalized a standard of living that never truly allows us to live. And when we shirk that standard, we get punished, ie no money to have any comfort and being burdens to others. We won't even get into how we are treated at work for subpar pay. The best way I've seen out is to work in service for yourself until you can make a living, which takes out some authentic creativity, but there isn't really an alternative. Make your hobbies your livelihood.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you. And yes I agree for sureee, I'd rather get paid to do this than something I dread every day

[@jesseezekiel4240]

Girl this is sooo crazy. I’m not sure if anyone else can relate to this month, but damn have I felt emotions and feelings to just “ DO IT “ more so than ever. For many things in life the scariest part is honestly just starting because you’re unsure of the outcome, but that’s the point to enjoy the ride and experience new things you’ve never thought of. Life is full of surprises. I’m 23 , moved from LA to the Bay Area last year & the end of this month will be moving to Chicago & am laser focused on starting to brand myself and am currently working on posting my first KZbin video. In this process & reflecting on past jobs , experiences , overall this past year I can genuinely stand behind this statement and say that you really CAN DO whatever YOU WANT TO DO it just all starts with your mindset & putting faith before fear. Y’all life is crazy and moves us in many different directions, but just do what you truly want to do and let life take you. Trust the process, we all got this. Thank you so much for posting this, I love the content 🙌🏼 We all didn’t stumble across this video for no reason , nor are we all posting in the comments for no reason. ❤️

[@rain-wj6vv]

YES! Creating your own path can be scary cuz school don't really teach us these type of skills we gotta learn on our own sometimes. stay creative love!!

[@LynetteAdkins]

YESSS go you!! Wishing you the best in all you do❤️ We really can have it all it's all about mindset like you said

[@Somewherreonearth]

I’ve felt this too! Literally all blockages have been lifted and life suddenly became a lot more simple, in the aspect that we can LEGITIMATELY go after what ever we desire.

[@claireelijah]

i love this

[@pablitopera]

It’s called The Great Awakening :) it’s happening.

[@seriahalexus]

Whew love this! I’m 23 and I just got a full time job recently. I do KZbin, make content and model so I’m often working on the weekends so it can feel like an endless loop of working. I’m constantly feeling guilty for choosing my career over my friends or even my relationship sometimes. On the flip side I’m seeing success with my career but I feel like it always comes with a sacrifice and my dream is to have balance between both.

[@LynetteAdkins]

I'm struggling with that right now too, trying to ride the ebb and flow of hustling hard sometimes and giving myself room to breathe during others. Wishing you the best with your modeling and KZbin career, we got this!

[@MARAHJE]

It does seems like KZbin, Starting a Business or investing in real estate, stocks and Bitcoin are the only way out, i personally feel that its not fair. I am a singer and i have very big dreams of becoming an entertainer, but sometimes i dont know where to start, who to talk to, i live my whole life home and it just get extremely depressing some times i have those life ending thoughts and i spiral in them wanting to leave my body.. Ugh it gets so deep sometimes. I dont always want to monetize my art because it brings in this energy fear and never having enough to fulfill content. Im hoping to finally make my move in this world without these thoughts, because they aren't serving me or anyone else.

[@kimberly-qy5td]

omg I've never related more to a comment before, singing and music is what I want to do with my life but without the connections and money where do we even start? it's so hard seeing other people living your dream and having no idea how to get there but at least we will always have a passion for art and that makes things easier sometimes. I hope things get better for you.

[@LynetteAdkins]

You so got this girl. I can imagine how stressful that can feel as an artist when you just want to do what you love. My boyfriend makes music and does a good job of focusing on the art, and trusting that the money will come. He's starting to see success, and it's amazing to see. I def want to have him on the channel at some point - being a creative/artist takes so much stamina so props to you and wishing you the best❤️

[@MARAHJE]

@@kimberly-qy5td Yes girl, im glad you can relate, i was raised in a religious household so singing and things of that sort were forbidden im now 22 and feels like im just starting! We can definitely chop it up some more, via email and see how we can come up with something, if you're interested. Im always down!

[@anastasiabennett4854]

Omg yess trying to monetize my passions definitely brings a layer of fear energy and a feeling of not being all the way genuine. Also, save up to get you something to record on and sing girl!! There are plenty of platforms to post on. Just do it for the love, trust that we’ll hear you and yes the money will come!

[@MARAHJE]

@@anastasiabennett4854 aweee thank you so much, i truly appreciate your comment makes me feel less alone and that it is worth it!!!!

[@Nehway]

I took some time reading some very, very old emails & instant messages from 2009, reading old Facebook posts from when I was a kid, and my dreams have gone unchanged: write novels, write poetry books, become a singer, be an artist. I know it's possible, and it's crazy how now, at 21, I've stopped believing in myself when I used to spend literally all day as a kid writing fiction books, singing in the shower, and making up silly dances. Like JolieFilleNoire said, the dream never dies. The world just tells you it did.

[@rosetheking]

This video was needed. I actually really don't want to go to college. But like you said, to view it like a game, its honestly good advice.🥺❤

[@LynetteAdkins]

Do what you know in your heart is right! Everyone can play it differently

[@ilovestudying1003]

@@LynetteAdkins I love you for this

[@user-lu6yg3vk9z]

@@LynetteAdkins the solution is tell your kids to skip college try alternative routes.

[@CreativepreneurJourney]

I feel you. I hate the 9 to 5. I push hard on my online businesses to a better life.

[@LynetteAdkins]

You got this!

[@Dr.Aubrey]

"Knowing that you're playing a game makes playing the game less stressful" facts. I've told people for years "learn the game so you can beat it" 💛🌈 great use of your platform. The chipmunk nuts analogy works too ☺

[@sarahshhb]

Essentially you’re saying to keep a open and genuine heart that not only works for yourself, but looks back and gives a helping hand out to others behind us. This was so beautiful, truly some tips to living a happier and more fulfilling life❤️

[@LynetteAdkins]

yesss💕

[@soapTHEgamer1]

By giving you receive more than you already have. - Jim Rohn

[@aboutmindset3218]

Jim rohn is one of my favourite speakers 💯👌🏾

[@bexlgem]

Thank you for these videos. They are super thought-provoking and honestly helping my own personal reflection. We deserve to attain all of which we want. We deserve to have it all. 🤎

[@LynetteAdkins]

100%. Thank you for watching!

[@natashanaples]

Thank you so much for this. I always knew even as a child that life shouldn’t be like this. Thank you for using your voice to help us all out of this insanity.

[@maxiolivia]

100% Agree!! I too am currently working a 9-5 and recently changed my perspective on life and began to identify my gift so that I can live the life I choose. Since I was a child I loved to make Barbie clothes and play dress up. I’ve since started a blog and said if not for any other reason this allow me to be myself and live the life I’ve imagined. Thank you for sharing that there’s another way, other than how we’ve been programmed! ❤️

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yesss, there's so much for us to unlearn but the more we talk about it the easier it becomes to be aware of the power behind our mindset

[@Juvannatv]

OMG YES! I said that “we’re on a ball in space” life isn’t about being stressed out and working like a dog

[@estefj1826]

She said what needed to be said 🗣

[@justjasmin555]

The title of this video is so clickable... GIRLLL 🔥😳

[@chilex2000]

Omg thank you for this video. This is exactly what I was thinking about the past weeks. Use my privilege and all the resources to help others. Maybe be a bit selfish in my next years and work hard for my own dream, so I multiply my money and people that listen to me so after that I can share all my resources and money and ideas with others! I also think to crash the system doesn’t matter if the financial or political or educational system, you have to be as high as the people that make the rules in the system but then not be like them and sit quietly on your own ass and eat you own money and let other people work for you, but to help other people up there. Help that other voices get heard. That other people get the same access as I do. Empower them to being able to change something. And i love that. And I am so glad I have found this video. Thank you ❤️

[@avaprod.8622]

I never hear this kind of stuff from influencers/youtubers and this perspective of giving back to your community is so important ! I think people are afraid of the word privilege maybe because they take their perks and resources for granted and barely even use them for themselves. I also think people see this idea of sharing as giving something away or being self scarifying when in reality it will benefit you too because you’re getting to feel useful and purposeful, if anything it’s a win win situation! Great video ☁️✨

[@cordeliastockwell1837]

I wish society as a whole understood the concept of abundance for all, instead of this fear and scarcity mentality we let ourselves get wrapped into. so happy I stumbled across your channel (holy algorithm). thank you for caring about humanity as a collective and reminding us that we're all in this together and there is enough for everyonnneee

[@FashAveGirl]

Yesss I feel you so much! I never get how my parents look at me crazy when I say I don’t want to go back to a 9-5 job that I hate. Or they find it strange that our generations can make money in these non traditional ways and that I would want to do that. My dads always like but what about your retirement lol but I feel you. I’m down, Thanks for making the vid!

[@LynetteAdkins]

There's been such a huge shift in recent generations on the way we view these things, it's crazy! We all deserve happiness now, no need to wait until retirement!

[@Catscratch241]

Let’s not forget the fact that you’d still be worried about retirement even in a 9-5 because companies never give pensions anymore. Everything is a 401k this and 401k that

[@trippylong8580]

@@LynetteAdkins I found that most people who say they are retired,, really were never retired at all,,they were just living off of the inheritance of another relative passed down....I always wondered how they could retire so early in their 30's...and now I figured out why

[@AshleyHernandez]

this was so well said. the goal at the end of day should be interdependence not independence

[@SunRayBabyJ]

You have so much wisdom as a young person. Thanks for this series🧡. My game strategy: I'm looking at everyone that escaped, deciding which route fits me and then executing with my personal imprint. Since I am forced to participate in this system, once one the other side, I'm committed to helping others and doing the least harm.

[@LynetteAdkins]

I love it. We all have unique talents we can bring to our own path to 'freedom,' wishing you the best!

[@worldofwonder456]

I literally quit an office temp job today. I thanked them for the opportunity, and was very professional, but the shock on their faces was palatable. One lady actually seemed to take it personally (like she was mad), which is so strange, because I only worked there for one day! I felt so free when I walked out.

[@courtnaymalcolm]

Hi Lynette, I beat this GAME! And my personal goal is to help others do the same! I want to help people break out of these limits and barriers we have set for ourselves based on the "expectations" society has of you based on your family, community, culture, or prescribed identity. Keep putting this energy out there! I would love to connect and continue these conversations. I love building a network to support this idea of moving through this world more authentically in the midst of all of this noise!

[@anastasiabennett4854]

The message in this video is everything, but what’s really getting me is how we’re all about the same age (I’m 24) and feeling the same way and all in some version of a similar situation. Lynette is so right, there are enough of us that we can make this change!! I wanna be multilingual just to be and I really want to help people develop their spiritual understanding and grow though traumas through different holistic methods, mainly yoga & meditation. It still feels weird admitting that bc I feel like that seems so wuwu and unrealistic. But I know in my heart I can figure it out and there will be a community to accept me and the same is true for you.

[@julianeserr4667]

Please do more of these kinds of videos. I truly feel so heard by you because you put all these different thoughts that I also struggle with into words and put them in perspective. So valuable!!🙏🏻

[@LynetteAdkins]

I def will!💕

[@NomadicIslanders]

I agree with every single thing you said. I left that life last year and live as a full-time traveler/nomad right now. My life is so fulfilling and rewarding now. Currently we live in Tulum while we wait on things to get better with travel. We really can have it all! Now our goal is to help other people get to this point.

[@celestiaIy]

girl i just found you recently and likewise, for the past couple months i've really been putting my foot down on myself about leveling up my mindset, lifestyle, and habits so that i can truly evolve into the person i want to be and i just want to say thank you. during my meditation's i've been asking the universe to show me towards like minded individuals that'll help me level up and grow and really manifest my dream life and i know it was no coincidence that i found your yt videos, even before discovering your tiktok (absolutely in loooove with your content and style btw🥺💜) i kid you not EVERY video i've seen of yours has deadass resonated and inspired me on entirely different soul level. know that i see you, the universe sees you and is quite literally speaking through you to me and the thousands of others that watch your videos. thank you fr. love always ❤️

[@bryanstark324]

Your videos are great! I've shared them with friends because I want them to feel understood. Most of us complain to each other a lot about how corporations are taking advantage of others, mostly managers and supervisors are really the culprit of this fear-based mentality you spoke about. Hope your channel grows faster every day!

[@CurtSummers]

This is so true. We have to understand that this world is designed to strip us of our magic. And most people are oblivious or just not savvy enough to avoid it. But whether situations are ideal or not, my mantra is that I’m gonna extract as much value as I can from EVERYTHING. The system is rigged against creatives and free thinkers. Cool, pimp this game until you can make your own rules. Much love everybody 🙏🏾❤️

[@reinaldomartinez13]

people like you give me hope, for the longest time I always thought this way and fought with people who saw me as crazy for thinking this way. I want more so I can give more, that's how we should work and give opportunities to those who don't have a such luxuries, thank you.

[@annahthegeminitalks7736]

I think the goal is to help others know that it’s possible for them to create their own form of heaven on earth. You help others see it’s possible to break free from the system and once they start to believe it themselves too they can start to create it for themselves. Thanks for showing what’s possible for me to be free

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yes, exactly! We have to be walking examples so everyone can break free. Thanks for watching!

[@daelu7265]

I wrote a vision for the same exact ideas you spoke abt, I decided that even tho I’m one person I created an “intention “ on a piece of paper to make people around me or everyone I come in contact with know that abundance is everyone’s birthright and not just the 1%, or people that get lucky or just have it good because they were born in a differently better environment/circumstance... I want to be wealthy but not just material wealth.. I want to be wealthy spiritually, wealthy with love and compassion (I hope that makes sense hehe😅)

[@vincyagain]

I’m down to tear things down girlie 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@LynetteAdkins]

!!!

[@OE2023]

Me too sis! 😅

[@Diimondc]

Count me in! I’ve been ready!!

[@SharlenesJourney]

I’m so happy I found this video. I am at the lowest point of my life working this 9-5 that I’m so miserable at I don’t want another one I rather travel and be a model or entrepreneur. I hate how this is a workaholic country and they make you monetize your passions

[@Miamia69292]

I think also at the root of this hustle culture is the fear of lack. Which is a man made illusion nature is abundant. But we’ve grown up with a belief tht we have to compete and there might not be enough resources but thts just not the case. We have more than enough for everyone to succeed and achieve there dream lives

[@aforashish7]

You know what... We have same thinking... And we think different than world... Nothing wrong in that... Even we are better than world...

[@shdacees]

I really love your videos 🌺🌸 I’m 23 years old and I stared my own business! We are in the Matrix. This would is waking up to Reality. I stared my KZbin Channel and I changed my life m. I would myself and it was the best things I ever did in my life. I don’t have a 9-5 I really been living by faith and God has been blessing me. 🙏🏾 I’m so grateful for my life and I know my Channel will keep growling🌻 Keep working keep teaching I love this so so much❤️🦋🧘🏽‍♀️ keep being Free #befree #shdacee

[@brittanythomas8006]

I feel this. I’m saving for rental property and funding my Roth. I’ll drive my old jeep with a dent in the door till the wheels fall off, then replace the wheels 😂 I’m not worried about being cool anymore. 31 and my body hurts from factory work. My mom still works 2 jobs and my dad can hardly move after work. No way man. Passive income is a must for me. I want to live

[@thaliahoyos6773]

you have literally inspired me to start my own youtube and take ownership of my life and creative abilities! love your channel!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yassss do it! Wishing you the best!

[@Emma-fq9pv]

You said what I’ve been thinking for years and thought I was crazy for, because no one talks about this!

[@soapTHEgamer1]

- Dont buy expensive clothes (theyre not for rich but for the poorer to look rich), - create expenses list - dont spend your money on dumb stuff (netflix, starbucks, etc) - (optional but helpful) create different bank accounts for different stuff (e.g. expenses, investments, etc.) - find your purpose and create value for others - treat your time as money (its more valuable) - spend 30mins to 1h daily on personal development (read books, watch videos etc) - get rid off all negative habits and patterns and replace them with positive ones and finally - Invest LONGTERM - thats the best way to safe money and to build wealth because just saving will kill your money, because money loses its value day by day.

[@thilacamillo535]

So glad I stumbled upon your video! I’ve recently had the same conversation with my dad. I want to break free from what is expected of me and have time to get to know myself and feed my soul. In return, I want to help people obtain wealth for themselves. I think everyone should be given an opportunity to grow their potential. The way the system is set up, doesn’t allow much freedom. I intend to break that limiting belief!!! Good luck to everyone on the same boat!

[@ricenstew575]

i live for these videos because you literally take the words out my mouth, we just need to learn the game!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Yesss, thank you!

[@elisecccccccc]

im a relatively new freelancer and working through all these ideas too!! i want to share everything im learning along the way but i dont necessarily even know how or what and dont have time yet to be able to share it all. so hype that there are other people out there doing this too

[@youtubersassemble5055]

My number 1 problem is that I dont actually know what I want to do. But I have this like, I want to try my hand in the entertainment industry. Like as a scriptwriter or screenwriter or whatever. Something. But idk if it’s what I really want either. I dont know where to start, what to start, and then my fear of rejection and impatience is making it worse. This is why I’m staying at my 9-5 cause its my comfort zone. It makes me feel tired but it doesnt make me feel scared. But Im now at the point that I dont know which one is worse.

[@LynetteAdkins]

I think it's really easy to play it safe because that's what we've been taught to do. A lot of people pursue and are successful at so many things in their lifetime, the only way to really know if it's for you is by trying! I don't think anyone knows what they're doing when they start out with anything, which is what makes learning about things so fun! You got this!

[@KorahCasey]

Yo! Working 45 - 50 hour weeks (hourly pay) here and I relate to what you're saying. Dream is to make a workshop helping people to build their dream cars. I spend my life in constant burnout because my job (vehicle inspections) is demanding and my colleagues are quitting left right and centre. I'm currently trying to learn skills on the side in order to make my dream a reality but honestly thinking the best option would be to quit my job for a couple of months to build the foundations of a business I can run on the side. I'm lucky enough to work somewhere that would take me back in a heartbeat if I did leave for the short term. Wishing everyone the best of luck!

[@xeno3499]

We should be able to enjoy life and be financially comfortable. It seems like it’s either or. My dream life definitely isn’t to work myself to the bone just to be financially stable and I don’t want it to be. It’s about balance and like you said we should use our privileges to help others and educate eachother

[@Tosha407]

True value in exchange for true value 🙌🧡

[@sharpieRulestheWorld]

I agree that using capitalism to fight capitalism is the best solution for now, but unfortunately it will never fully solve the issue long term. Once happiness is just at bay (people aren’t dreadfully overworked but they aren’t happy, or happiness is accessible to some but not all), then people will cease to see it as a dire issue and won’t care enough to make opportunities for others

[@ukgprod]

100%

[@iamnohere]

I: That´s why we need to support and cherish the people who see the capitalism for the mess it is, and dedicate their lives to fighting for change. You´re correct that long-term, we´ll need to push further, to achieve a truly post-capitalist world.

[@thatcosmicsynchronisity1309]

THIS is the most important perspective of all of this! Also I've never seen your videos before but this one just popped up and let me tell you I have the Same dream of getting into real estate: not to become stupid rich but so I can give all my friends/anyone honestly free housing. Literally landlords and paying rent is a huge issue as to why people have to stay in jobs that don't really serve them.

[@Adrene]

Wow thank you for this video, I was literally having this conversation with my sister today and sometimes it feels like you’re trapped but I am optimistic and willing to fight capitalism with capitalism just like you are 💕 I want to be a content creator so I make Tik Toks everyday twice a day and I’ve already seen growth! I really liked what you said about knowing your privilege and finding away to give despite what level you’re at, if you don’t have the money you always have time. And getting into that giving mindset will subsequently shift your reality and perspective of the world! Again, thank you for this video it’s so nice to see the collective is waking up🧡🧡🧡

[@LynetteAdkins]

This is amazing, so happy for you doing your thing!! There's so much for us to learn from each other, so I love that so many of us are having these conversations. Thanks for watching love💕

[@brianchuc226]

Yes! Yes! Yes!!!! She fucking gets it!!!!! The same kind of thinking 💭 I was going through in life before stumbling 🥴 on this vid!!! Aka counterintuitive approach!! (If you take time to think about it) Subscribed!!!

[@RosaDaniello]

I loved this video. I think one of the main problems is also more practical: taxes. Once you're financially considered rich, in order to stay that way you have to meet a standard, the richer you are the fewer taxes you pay. Rich people mostly do donations to avoid taxes and I think this is also one of the reasons why they don't like to invest in something that it's no profitable for them (let's say not big associations etc.). It's a system that sucks and I hate that the world has normalized this so I really believe that knowledge and this awareness newer generations have can make society do small but steady steps towards a better world. It's a long process but I think that keeping a positive mindset and believing that there is a way out is still better than giving up and gives you enough strength to keep going. It also really helps seeing people making it and being open to talking about their experience without keeping some kind of secret to themselves but encouraging others to do the same. It's important that people who have a platform talk about this so I really appreciate you for doing that.

[@LynetteAdkins]

It's so crazy to me the things rich people do to avoid taxes, like it's pure greed. But then I also feel like we need a government we can actually trust to do things with tax payer money that is actually serving communities instead of funding the police, etc. You're right the system just sucks overall

[@emmarose7491]

@@LynetteAdkins True.. Don’t forget that the super rich also benefits from tax money through huge government subsidies.

[@donnasdaysfamily6721]

Empower and encourage eachother yeah thats how it should be. Also i heard Dwayne dyer say dont die with your music still in you,i felt that...

[@ReynnaIyo]

Yoooo you’re so dope! You’re speaking on so many things that I think and feel on the daily, love you so much!!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you yay I'm so glad!

[@sarahthevirgo2777]

It's true. As you share you receive. When you help the collective, the collective helps you!!

[@mikaylajeel]

I was literally JUST thinking about playing the game to beat the game

[@yazminlomeli]

A girl on tik tok mentioned your channel as one of her favorites channels and I can see whyy. I love your videos🧡 you have a new subscriber🤗

[@jadetrail4484]

I'm here thinking it's too much of a coincidence that us 23-year-olds are going throughhhhh it!

[@theresalives]

Historically humans have always had to work. Work is part of life. Even before colonialism humans had to hunt and cook and raise livestock & work on the field to raise crops (unless you were rich/royalty) the truth is a lot of people who come from lower incomes DO have to put in insane amounts of work in order to get out of where they are, not only career wise but mentally and spiritually. Where are the successful people who didn’t put in work? The game idea is on point and that’s how I get through my job as well. Life is a big game! We don’t have to take it so seriously. Gotta look at the positives & be grateful for where we are everyday🙏🏼

[@MyaJoelle]

wooow I love this so much! you really inspire me 🤍

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you🥺❤️

[@AriaEleutheriaAurora]

I dropped out of varsity last year and I decided to pursue my dreams full force, I love how your last couple of vids read my mind and made me feel not alone ❤️

[@2wishywashy]

I’ve never wanted to grow up because I’ve seen how messed up the system is, and now I’m older and living this nightmare, and have been asking myself the same question- how can I change this? And yes, I think playing the game for now is the only way I could think of, play the game but work on making money from other things I enjoy in the side, and just pray they lead to my main income source, and then just be ready for when someone with power is ready to speak up for the masses and create a new system, and then give them my support, whether that is protesting or whatever. I really wonder too how many of us spend our 9-5 day jobs not being productive. I really don’t think we need 8 hour work days when we have so many technologies in today’s world. I’ve told myself that if I ever become an entrepreneur and have to hire employees, they will get treated fairly, work less hours, get paid more, and get more vacation days. I hope this system changes soon, so many people I know are miserable and have loads of college debt, and we have to pay it off at our dumb jobs that don’t make us feel purposeful and powerful. Thinking of everyone is this situation ♥️

[@kkgreen7946]

In your exact situation now.. I’m old and want out and have no idea how or where to start. Or what to tell my boys. Over thinking it is getting very depressing though. Lol

[@SpiritualSupply]

Thank you for this video. I love your point of view. The way the world is pushed me into depression. After graduating uni I never find job in what I studied (for 3 years!) I changed careers. I Got control of my depression and I started living this year. I invested a little bit here and there and work on my businesses. I was always scared to invest, I invested in crypto after loong time looking at it. I am planning to start KZbin channel too. There's no time to loose. We all need to help each other that's true.

[@tiaramarie1356]

The braids look great on you!

[@LynetteAdkins]

Thank you!🤗

[@yxlim8981]

I first discovered you thru your dream job video and I relate to everything you said. I feel like you are the only KZbinr who discusses these issues. I really took a long time to change my mindset. I started building a small business last year. My parents all doubted me. They were skeptical of me. I was bummed. But I kept going, so far it is still growing and can’t really sustain me. My parents still say things such as ‘you still can’t make a living out of it’ ngl it is demoralising. But I choose to believe in abundance. I wanna trust the process and realise that life happens for me, not to me. I will keep doing it and I believe someday I can start making a living out of it but for now, I gotta learn to enjoy the journey. I gotta trust the process, that means still in my 9-5, still working hard. But someday I will get there. Because I’m gonna break the system. I wanna do this for myself. And to everyone out there who says I gotta do 9-5 till I’m old, I wanna stop this thinking. I believe in abundance. We all can be successful. And we can get what we want.

[@WantaFania]

I have been saying it’s all a game FOR YEARSSSSSSSSS. Me going to college and then grad school are all just stepping stones because you have to play the game of life to make it where you want to be before making a significant change.

[@trippylong8580]

Not necessarily,,it depends on your major...I like interior design/architecture/engineering-city planning...all I need is a laptop that I can do those programs on,,take a test to get certified without going to college.....you just gotta have alot of money,, because software is expensive...passions cost.

[@geeneon]

It's so important to recognize the privileges we have and to use that privilege to help others so that eventually the privilege is no longer a privilege but a basic right to all! This is a mindset that needs to be adopted by current generations and taught to the younger generations. Would love if these ideas of working for and towards community growth as opposed to the individual's were incorporated into classrooms. Thank you for sharing!

[@kekemorgan]

My whole life my family instilled in me that I had to know what I want to do in life. They say, what’s your dream job and what do you want to major in and I would say I don’t know. All I know is that I love helping people and I like to vacation. Still, years later I feel the same way. I’m just now realizing that it’s ok to not want to have a dream job because my dream job is to not to work at all and that’s ok. 😂 Eventually I maybe will find out what I want to do. I have a inkling that it may be writing. If I do ever write I want to write to help people while vacationing on my villa. That in itself is ok. I don’t want to stress about life all day. Jobs, cars, all that will still be there. Family doesn’t last forever. Being next to my son and vacationing with him and knowing that I helped some people that week is my happy place.

[@2ndworldcountryusa583]

I know this is really bad but I literally cried when my unemployment for COVID ended. I had a whole year and 4 months of freedom. Many people aren’t going back to work because why would they work for something that should be free which is living your life. It’s hard to hold down a job because I get super depressed because I think about this literally all day and all night I hate doing what I don’t want to do 8 hours a day 5 days a week!

[@doloreshaze10]

But if the definition of work is something you wouldn't do unless you were paid, how can you expect to be fulfilled by doing it? Plus remember people have to work as things such as cleaners. "Follow your passion" is dangerous advice that leads to chronic job hopping under the illusion you're supposed to be loving life at work.

[@Chronorust]

I would give more of the advice of "following your vocations". A lot of people are just unhappy with life and in danger of getting lost without purpose, which damages their overall health, mentally and physically. The ones that really want this are people who aren't glamoured by what their "dream" feels like, more than they are with knowing that they'll be able to handle the stress a lot more if their allowed the chance to grow it because it works for THEM.

[@ewingloren2766]

Girl can we please just be friends??? You have literally said everything I’ve been thinking that NO ONE else has said

[@Shawtynameisdestani]

you are so awesome love ♥️ I had a breakdown today because i’m so fucking tired dude every week I feel like I got hit by a bus and i’m so over working these petty little jobs.

[@LynetteAdkins]

Give yourself a break today! You deserve to rest

[@Shawtynameisdestani]

@@LynetteAdkins i’m trying ♥️

[@TubysBasement]

I really like the idea of making it to the point where I can provide housing below market value just by cutting profits but overall it still being profitable and financially sustainable. It's still competition/capitalism but at a higher level and for a higher purpose.

[@kaijaful]

OMG I JUSSTT SAID THIS!! It's ALL a game, and once I actually realized that, life became so much easier. There are so many versions of this life. Versions that some people can't even fathom, yet it's normal to someone else. Understanding that and believing that you have the power to create the life you desire will shift your world. Take things for what they are - a means to something better, a segway. These jobs aren't forever. This life isn't forever, so make it worthwhile. At 23, I now have a mission for my life and for everything I do. It may not seem fun or be pretty at the moment, but it'll get me to where I need to go, which will then lead me to the next version of life I'd like to experience. It's all a game love. Play it or get played, but choose wisely, cause you only get one turn. 💖🏁

[@madamadam5951]

You are the personification of what I’ve had in the back of my mind forever but lacked the vocabulary, skill and eloquence to convey. Thank you

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