I don't understand why dating relationships have become so difficult, especially in the churches. My aunt met her husband just walking down a street, and they had a beautiful marriage. We have overcomplicated things to the point where we'll have many men and women who will remain unnecessarily single. I'm in my 60s and have never had sex. Guess what? It didn't kill me. Yes I am disappointed, but I was a drug addicted and unable to connect in a marriage relationship. I have a good, supportive church family now, but when I was a new believer in my youth my former church blew off singles and only ministered to the married members. My suggestion. Go for a walk. If you meet someone anywhere and there's a spark just say hello and offer to have a cup of coffee. It's not rocket science folks!