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The Good Book states, "A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones." The absence of laughter in a relationship is the onset of demise. Destene and Brandon Sudduth bring joy to hundreds of thousands in these social media streets with their hilarious pranks. Listen to their journey as they are, "Laughing in Love."
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[@cherieward2856]

Oh my goodness this is my FAVORITE TicTok couple! (Shoulder bounce) 😂😂 They are hilarious. Can’t wait to watch this!

[@missnurseeri]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@beyondthesurfacetz]

Me tooo! I loove the shoulder bounce 🤣, get me everytime, the way Destene calls “Braaandon” when he’s in trouble! Hilarious I ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ them! Here for it!

[@MsEbonyangel]

You are interviewing all my favorites! This is incredible.

[@Ariana_R-nq2pk]

Yea😂😂 he needs to put Kristy and Desmond on here next

[@lisa196409]

I love the shoulder bounce. I love how he watches everything she does. This is a man that pays attention I love this couple

[@patricebrown777]

Gorgeous melanin couple. This was so satisfying: their story, their laughter, their love, and their shared faith! 😍🥰👑👑👩🏾👨🏿❤

[@13thdisciple]

Melanin?

[@gogoldiego]

Spirit is more important than skin color.

[@asiamonae4483]

Talk about Devine Alignment... look how God works she was with her high school sweetheart for 7 years whom she lost. And her Purpose Partner/Husband God had for her was 7 years older than her. It as if that same 7 years was the true WAIT for both of them. They were ALWAYS meant to be together... this is truly confirmation WHAT'S FOR YOU WILL NOT PASS YOU 🌻💛🙏🏾‼

[@lawill3559]

Their energy together is beautiful

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

Absolutely!!

[@annettecaitlyn1058]

For real

[@brandonsudduth3508]

Man such a good time doing this podcast. This was awesome. Truly enjoyed and thankful for the invite.

[@DearFutureWifey]

You were an awesome guest

[@cshell75]

This was refreshing. He didn’t just change his mind in one month. God opened his eyes and then his heart so he could truly “see” his wife.

[@IAmJamieAlexander]

Yes!!! This the one!

[@stephaniecollins9202]

I like that 😀

[@TheeHawaSavage]

This comment was for me. God bless you

[@imarimoneyqueen8537]

Whew! That was a mouth full!!! Talk!!❤

[@melissaglasper1772]

First of all… Celebrating the fact that Dear Future Wifey is #2 on Apple Podcast for Relationships!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 Then you have my favorite KZbin couple on today! It’s the shenanigans for me. 😂😂😂 Now, I get to see a different side of them that is truly inspiring me as I prepare for marriage. Another great episode!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@rockyjackson3172]

Who is #1???? I would love to subscribe.

[@BlkMagickGaia3]

I love that he wanted to get his life /finances in a better place before proposing! Masculine energied quality that unfortunately a lot of men don't possess.

[@Khayran]

phew, I think this is what my man is doing. He too is very masculine, thorough and cautious. Thank you for this comment it's reassuring lol

[@agray7474]

I am THOROUGHLY addicted to this channel. I’m about to go through a much needed divorce and these episodes are a huge help in my healing and growth. Thank you Laterras for being obedient

[@yomairac9718]

Listen!!! Okkkk! I am also going through a divorce and found this podcast last year and babyyyy it gives me hope that emotionally healthy Black men exist.

[@sheswhoiam]

I second that notion. Doing divorce paperwork now and this entire podcast is therapy for me and gives me hope that there is someone out there that God created just for me.

[@trinimom7686]

My divorce opened up so much blessings for myself and my children I wish you a life of better and blessings.

[@camy8176]

Totally 💯 😂❤ love the podcast to the moon and back 😂

[@kimsmith8219]

Love these two. Praying they get to have children. Internet grandkids loading!!🤣❤️

[@yoanneM]

The conversation about their faith was great and everything. Being unequally yoke will never work.

[@Tiyannabelcher]

How are they unequivocally yoked ?

[@rosalindjunious9292]

I love the way she looks at him.

[@Haychhx]

Wow when Laterras was speaking on the death of their former relationships it made me realise that they healed one another other through laughter and now their joint ministry is to bring healing to others though LAUGHTER. God is too good ❤

[@DearFutureWifey]

Exactly

[@MsMimiWN]

And it also debunks the stigma that people have to fully heal before they get in relationships. People are hurting themselves trying to be perfect for the right person, and the right person already knows you’re not perfect. Not to say that you shouldn’t work on yourself if you need healing, but there are people out here who want to see you healthy and will work with you to help you get there.

[@n.i.g.h.t.i.n_g.a.l.e]

@@MsMimiWN thanks 🥺🥺

[@MsMimiWN]

@@n.i.g.h.t.i.n_g.a.l.e blessings to you on your journey 🙏🏽

[@alyssatorianna]

@@MsMimiWN well said! 👏🏾👏🏾💯

[@annagrace1159]

A man who has a walk with God is EVERYTHING game changing 🙏 🙌

[@bdraytod5748]

Beautiful story! As someone married for 17 years, I hope that they keep laughing together when the challenges do come. I pray they experience many more blissful years together.

[@shywonderful81]

Laughter is soul food. It’s awesome to see another black couple showing that healthy relationships can exist. Blessings 💜🙌🏾

[@lashawngardner283]

It is the smiles for me. The way they look at each other is sweet. I love this couple. They are too funny.

[@theresanelson2305]

Destene And Brandon Proposal, for me its they Matching outfits the way Brandon open doors for his destene , her smiling she never stop smiling it also made Brandon smile non stop , and destene hair was laid it All matters this list I just name I never seen a warm smiling the whole time it was being filmed so loving the charm Brandon bring to his women is the best, and destene receives his charm with so much Grace that's how that video became viral

[@kieshame888]

I swear they are hilarious! It's a breathe of fresh air to see love in action. Blessings to them both

[@lenadaniels7234]

I can relate to her when she said she was discouraged being single. As a 58 single woman, no kids, never married, I find myself asking those same questions, after awhile you don't wanna hear the cliché, its in God's timing, he's right around the corner, trust God, He has you in a bubble, etc. I'm at the point if it happens okay and if it doesn't okay.

[@rlight7666]

Sister I am right there with you!! The only difference is I have been married before.

[@Machenziethemodel]

Your life just took a different path and it’s okay.

[@lenadaniels7234]

@@Keandra_9 I have but most wanted benefits without the commitment or just not sure if they wanted to be in a relationship.

[@justlynn3734]

I feel you! I'm 50 no children and I've never been married! I can relate with Destene because I lost the man that I was going to marry and after him I refused to settle or have children with just anyone! I always desired someone that I could build with and evolve together! I've learned to be content and not miss something I've never had!

[@lcjones4682]

@@Keandra_9 not everyone had several options in their prime. People always assume that’s the case after you reach a certain age. There are many women in 50’s and 60’s that never married because they didn’t meet the right one and chose not to settle. While there are also many married women who settled for the sake of getting married. It’s obviously not easy because 50% of marriages end in divorce.

[@deniseglover4753]

I'm married to a Libra and 22 years later he still keeps me laughing. He is also the life of the party.

[@lawill3559]

Libras…….we are some amazing kind hearted nurturing beings. We are definitely lovers of all people. We enjoy helping folks too. Once my guy finds me…..it’s on and popping! #libra.

[@desij.7487]

@@lawill3559 i totally agree with you !! 9/25 here libra

[@hasannasir215]

Are you a Gemini?

[@Angela-qs4cz]

Why do you think the stars and astrology control your life? As a believers Yehovah, the Creator tells us not to do these things.

[@lawill3559]

@@Angela-qs4cz, it seems that no one in the comments nor I mentioned anything about being controlled by astrological signs. I’m well aware of my Creator ~Shalom.

[@fambam6709]

I have a different level of respect and admiration for this couple now. They have a beautiful love story and may God continue to bless their union!❤️

[@chloelageaux769]

It's so great to hear their story! Destene's dating experience is so much like mine! I just work, rest, church, repeat! Occasionally, I go out to the bookstore, movies, or the mall but that's it. Dating sites are a bust so God is definitely going to have to bring us together because nothing else is working!

[@TimeWithCJ]

Me too. I just don't pay attention 🤷🏾‍♀️....I always say "God is going to take that man and hit me upside my head with him."

[@lawill3559]

Lol. This is me minus the rest. I’m believing and trusting through Faith in what I know my God will do that my résumé is being read. It’s time for a change. I’ve changed my mindset… Now it’s time for me to change my surroundings

[@jakimathews4115]

I wish you much success.

[@gracebe1474]

Please watch Janice Hilton testimony about meeting her husband. It will add another dimension to your waiting.

[@marywilliams3520]

I feel ya ladies me as well but God is in control

[@Nathanaelle10]

"i've met a lot of wives but i don't think i've met MY wife." Deep.

[@ladyindaroom]

They are just a beautiful,loving couple Period! Two human beings, brought together by God’s divine hands and timing. It’s so good the Destiny was able to speak up in asking Brandon “What are we doing”? Usually when women are able to speak up in their relationship this way, it keeps them from wasting time with a man who may not be for them.

[@mercyedith1383]

"We are here to serve each other" service,service,service this is deep and I love this couple its amazing to get to know them better.

[@chillycity8885]

Blessings to this marriage, I can feel the love they have for one another.

[@AndreaSylve]

Their vibe is EVERYTHING!!! So natural and fun. Laughter is key as is making a decision.

[@BartandHalima]

It’s the way you always understand EVERY GUEST “for me”.

[@LaRennEstherTV1985]

Please, get Fantasia, Monica, Tabitha and Chance Brown on here please!!

[@mnorwo2]

Those would be GREAT!!

[@mnorwo2]

Add Pastor John F. Hannah & Anna Hannah too

[@kingdomaffairs2373]

It’s the gender Role for me that’s so good. And I love what he said she said her shoulder hurts and he says massage time as it should be and no questions asked I just love that

[@nickalton]

This was a beautiful interview!! A true testimony for what God can do when you include Him in your decision! Brandon leaned on God to choose his wIfe and brought her to the church house! I love it!! May you two be blessed for eternity!

[@samgtabu]

I looooooove this couple ♥️ Aha aha aha... (Shoulder laugh).

[@asiamonae4483]

🤣🤣🤣‼‼‼🌻 only the real ones KNOW 💯

[@juliapirrat3026]

😂😂😂😂

[@faith6575]

That shoulder laugh is everything 😂😂😂

[@__nopicturesplz]

This was too cute 😂 the fact that she said “well it felt like 3 months” and they let her have it 😂😂😂😂

[@hasannasir215]

This is one of the realest & deep conversations about marriage/relationships. Geminis & Libras are very compatible! And your interview skills are impeccable.

[@Angela-qs4cz]

Please stop this…Our lives are not controlled by the stars. As believers our compatibility is not dependent on a Babylonian practice, astrology. Furthermore the position of the stars have changed greatly..Gemini is now Sagittarius !!l😅

[@whitney7063]

I haven’t finished the ep, but I’m glad I’m watching. I’ve seen their videos before and felt like they had staged videos for clout, but since watching this I really like the husband more. He’s really honest & I see why he didn’t commit to her so early, they were only dating for a month. It’s not his fault she was playing Wifey without a title, but that’s what a lot of us women do..I loved his answer about what he saw when he first met her and why he pursued her. I think a lot of men say the cute answer of I knew I could build with her, I knew she was the one. Dudes cut the crap you ain’t seen that in a first meeting. You saw lust or a person to meet your agenda of marriage. This guy said she looked fun and was laughing and that attracted him so he pursued her👏🏽. His honesty is great. I believe this is a good episode

[@rachelr.n.3563]

Love Destene and Brandon! My favorite KZbin shoulder bouncing power couple!!!🤣

[@Leah__Ro]

I too love hearing how people have met. It's so encouraging hearing the diversity of the way or vehicle God uses to bring two people together. Like Latteras said, I love hearing how people meet-with the same level of intentionality. 🙌🏾❣️ AND also encouraging to hear his change of heart and mind. So many times we feel it takes years for someone to decide and change but truly in a moments time God can change the trajectory of ones life. ❣️🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@Dimpl3z.]

💕My Husbae and I absolutely LOVE Brandon and Destene!! They are our favorite couple on KZbin & They definitely bring us a lot of laughter 😂

[@notthatfunny743]

I like how he always gives love and uplifts his guests.

[@Itisaboutangeltoday]

Except when he had on Derrick Jax

[@asiamonae4483]

Literally all the people I already follow or watch or need to watch... They end up on MY podcast that I watch FAITHFULLY... 💪🏾‼🌻🙏🏾 Love them God be knowing😌

[@lakeisha8847]

i love them on til tok and its so good too see black couples loving laughing being silly and living life.

[@lf3554]

This is a great love story. I like how Brandon is very Emotionally available, personable and intune to his wife. His level is rare and a plus!. And he lucked out on her too. Fantastico!

[@christinebrown6051]

As my mother would say, "God had to touch his heart." That's what sold him.

[@tanyaarmstead1065]

Wow I also thought she was the more silly one and made made him this way. Love the relationship! ❤️

[@designzbyjulez9838]

God is awesome. I was listening to their Love Story and has also been inspired by their story. A minister hit me up in my DM'. The coincidence I watching this broadcast.. I have a date with him minister. God is good!

[@traceydumase]

I found these guys from YT Shorts and was subbed after coming across them several times. As a fan, I'm happy to hear this conversation 🥰❤️

[@theorama5711]

DESTENE AND BRANDON have my full attention! They are my persons. They living my love life for me😛

[@Rashaadthegr8]

One thing I realize though is just because someone is a Christian doesn't mean they believe what you believe about the bible.

[@PREACHYPREI]

I just like seeing couples being kind to one another. It’s almost like it’s non existent sometimes . So much toxicity out there

[@fredao2436]

Brandon: Why are you not mad? You need to be mad like me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ladylovebug007]

These two bring it when it comes to having fun. I love that they are sharing their journey with us. I love and support them. Much love to you Brandon & Destene

[@rosejames9986]

Des & Brandon on point... excellent!!! couples who prays together stays together... meeting up the first time invitation to Church.

[@victoriamirembe719]

lovely couple, loved the illustration of them having to talk about the deaths they experienced so that they could experience the resurrection of their relationship. Brandon kudos on being a shoulder she could lean on in her vulnerability, and choosing not to be jealous. Taking notes✍

[@kjack3211]

Absolutely Loved this interview. The backstory of how they met was so amazing and just soo encouraging...Almost like medicine to my soul 💖

[@brentandmir]

You guys did sooo good. 💕🥰

[@mary14892]

And he kisses her hair how sweet...He can't help himself and it's all cute!

[@hidden__8]

The way they look at each other and speak about another is so beautiful! My heart is open to the love they cultivate in their union.

[@mrsscott0616]

They represent a fresh breath of air! That’s exactly how I see them. Love this!

[@giftedtodance]

Loved this!!🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜 Thanks for presenting and airing!💞🤗 Truly Inspirational, Powerful, Positive, Fulfilling and Uplifting!

[@HK80sbabii]

Mr. Whitfield that’s two back to back hot sit downs! I’m not shacking up anymore 😭😭 # subscribed

[@sfreeman417]

Love Brandon and Destene! Love how they truly enjoy one another and how attentive Brandon is to Destene.

[@divinecyn]

Such important questions that interviewers typically don’t ask! Much appreciated ❤

[@sylvietapos807]

Good morning Laterras, and DFW Family 👋🏾 Thank you for having this couple on your podcast. I enjoy their videos as well. Thank you Laterras for keeping the “Are you still shaking with us” phrase. I feel that it is one of your podcast’s trademark. I love your podcast because like me, you glean from other couples, and see things you would like in your next marriage, and you want to talk more about it, so you invite them to discuss it. I learn a lot, and I get confirmation (a lot), through your podcast. Thank you for doing that. I have to go to work. I look forward to listening to this episode later. Have a great day, everyone 🥰

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you

[@wonderwoman66dp]

*shacking

[@WWEENETWORK]

What are WE..?..?.with your duffle bag over my house....lol

[@englishactingteacher5125]

As a first wife, Idlove to hear the first hand stir-fried past guests first wives.

[@whitneymwangi]

They are a beautiful couple for sure! I actually thought they had been married for many years & hiding their beautiful kids from us, only to come across their engagement video! You guys talked about trust, and I think more to it is respect for each other. Some things Brandon was saying about Destene are words of a man that watches her a lot and holds a strong sense of respect for who she is as a person. One of the things that God has been talking to me about is that many will experience a delay in marriage so they can build enough desire/character to stay committed once they're married because, today, this union is taken for granted by many. Maybe for them, the unions they lost led them to value what they have as much. Well happy for them!!! As usual - lovely guests, thanks, Laterras for bringing them on!

[@danyellmariewhitford2392]

It was the energy and you guys smiles!!!! Was the vibe of your viral video and well dressed couple vibes!!! So excited for D & B so nice to see them here!!!! I definitely get daily doses of this authentic love-ING (actively loving) couple!!!

[@angiew9608]

I kept seeing their videos pop up and I recently became a follower. Beautiful, funny, and loving couple. They make me smile! Thank you for sharing your story.

[@colleenyourcousin]

Why is the into making me tear up.. Man, you have an awesome ministry ❤

[@thequeenscorner6794]

I love it! Let's normalize church as a first date. Amazing! Glory be to God.

[@Mz.MoShow]

The reason some men don’t see the no coming when asking a woman to marry him is because, often time the man is asking after doing something damaging to the relationship and before he did that damaging thing, all she wanted was to be married to him. So he asks to try and fix it and keep her from leaving. Now, some still say yes, but it’s only for the idea of marriage not at all for the right reasons. My friends did this and their marriage didn’t make it but I so hoped it would. There was just to much pain.

[@helengreen6724]

Brendon and Destene are both really good people. Godly people Destene talking about fashion, I love the garbage bag dress. Cool!

[@williemaeward1564]

Brandon and Destene were made for each other. Such a beautiful couple. One question you asked stuck with me and that was the age difference. I had a problem with that once upon a time, but now, I think differently. I use to say that I would not date or marry anyone younger than me. But after what I have gone through and/or experienced, I soon changed my way of thinking. Some of the younger men act more mature and more like a gentleman than some of the older men. No disrespect toward anyone.....ijs.

[@Sandra-ly1ss]

Yay!!! I love them. Thanks for having them on your podcast!! ❤️

[@londonallie2006]

You can see the love In both ...am loving how Brandon just give her a little embracing kiss on the neck make she smile am ❤ it

[@nicholetaimi5331]

I love the way Destene looks at Brandon.

[@MzzTPC]

What are these meals Sis??? Lol If this was a drinking game. "Cook" Love this!! Congratulations Laterras on your one of many more milestones!!

[@serenityp2872]

Love these two! The way God was truly intentional about aligning them is so beautiful! Just a glimpse of the way they support each other is reflective of purpose partnership👏🏽 Wishing them an abundance of love and blessings in all that they do!🙏🏽💕

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

Before this I loved them- after this I love…..Love … love.. love… D And B!! S.N.--So glad she stuck with her STANDARDS.. and was willing to end it as opposed to settle. #imawife #stayorgo ❤️

[@happilydivorcedtherapistnosi]

I love this couple but the best part was when you talked about the RP guy😂😂😂. As I wait for my Brandon💚💚💚

[@lynnbenjamin8224]

Oh Wow!!!i really enjoyed this...man you loved all the way from SA💃💃💃💃💃

[@shenaypretty]

So glad you brought them on! Love watching this couple's Instagram ❤️❤️❤️ I love watching couples who can laugh together and have fun!

[@blazebrown9102]

They are one of my favorite couples! 💕🕺🏾💃🏾💕 - Intentional Couple!🌟💍💞 Brandon w/the shoulder bounce, and Destene w/acting skills!

[@virtuous_committed]

I love this couple. I have been following them on KZbin for a while, and what I love about Brandon is, I don't care what she does he is always laughing. And I love that.

[@myloyaltyrunsdeep7607]

This was beautiful. I absolutely love them but the fact that they are so genuine and real with themselves. Amazing I love them

[@twelch0215]

Another AH-MAZING episode for the books, an authentic, beautiful, melanin display of what Kingdom love looks like! I had never heard of this couple but it’s refreshing and encouraging to see! It doesn’t take long for a brother to know so thanks for that 6 mo timeline, I happen to wholeheartedly agree with u Laterras! When a brotha knows, he knows!! Keep being the great kingdom “influencer” u are Laterras! You give us life every week!❤️

[@DearFutureWifey]

Thank you so much!

[@denielladickenson1276]

I loved watching this! Thank you Destine for that final bit on "getting up, keep going and progress", that truly ministered to me. God bless y'all!

[@DesignsASR]

Thank you for this amazing show!!!! The authenticity found in this couple is just 🤯🤯🤯❤

[@tinasmith7238]

Love this so much!! Here by way of Destene and Brandon. Love love your letter to your future wife. Definitely a new subscriber.❤

[@shanialeann1248]

I love this couple. I've been watching them for so long and they have always been genuine. Great episode guys !

[@gscullark]

This was really refreshing to watch, I really enjoyed it, I have gained knowledge from this, teard up, and laughed with them. Great interview 😇

[@dorothymatthews6690]

I just love Destane and Brandon! This marriage was God ordained! God wrote their love story. Let him write ours. It just flow are doing a great work for the kingdom.

[@deehall4563]

Congratulations on your 100K ! I've enjoyed ALL of your podcasts. Another great podcast.

[@DrTanika]

You are right about trust. The bible says that about the virtuous woman. “The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:11‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

[@joycelockett7032]

This was a Phenomenal interview! I absolutely love this awesome couple!

[@CutAfrikAfro]

From 45:38 Brandon. Another reason why u never got jealous is because u trusted her ... u were in a safe place and so wanted to support each other

[@gracemimo]

Brandon and Destene keep on !!! We love you and thank you for sharing your life with us !!! Great interview, beautiful couple !!!

[@kaledaruck]

Learned so much about you guys in this video. Love your relationship and how you interact with each other. Seems like every couple I got introduced to through KZbin end up on the show, love it.

[@missadug]

Great episode! This couple seems loving and grounded. Wishing all the best for them! 🧡