WE'RE ENGAGED!! Ethan's Proposal Explained & Our Emotional Message To Haters... FULL POD EP.39

Well. it's finally happened... Ethan has PROPOSED! What a lovely week it's been celebrating our engagement! Big thank you to everyone who's left lovely messages, we hugely appreciate it.
Enjoy the engagement special!
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[@cfckylie]

Seeing ethan crying because faith was crying just shows how much they love each other, congratulations guys so happy for you 🥰

[@user-ue6gt7fg3e]

Timestamp?

[@itsmesarah7781]

@@user-ue6gt7fg3eit’s in the first 20 min

[@niah488]

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[@cfckylie]

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[@MGForestFan]

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[@AuttmS]

I don’t understand why people are so awful to faith, especially coming after her appearance for no reason, she’s literally stunning and I can tell she’s a great mother and gonna be a great wife. Leave her alone fr, go outside or something.

[@edgartorres9365]

Those type of people are just mad they single

[@zeen3024]

Ikr she's so pretty bless her

[@igorrychert8119]

It’s quite simple people have a parasocial relationship with KZbinrs. For instance Danny Aarons was just a kid playing fifa all day every day in a shed and let’s be honest not to be a dick but didn’t take much care of his appearance. So people related to him. Second he got his bag up, started doing other things like boxing, getting in shape, started taking care of himself and got a bird he stopped being relatable and therefore people started hating on him Bit long but to get to the point with Faith, people have that parasocial relationship with Ethan as well and think because he has money and fame that he should be with Ms world or something and base everything on looks and clips out of context (which get made by people just wanting to bait people and get views) cuz they don’t actually have any insight to the emotional side and they’re jealous of him/her with a big house, financial stability cars etc

[@sub2nova]

because she's mad annoying

[@nic4586]

@@sub2novai mean, generally, if I find someone really annoying, I tend to ignore them and not watch anything they’re in. Not sure if you’ve heard of doing that? To continue watching someone and then slating them instead of just moving on, shows your maturity more than anything else.

[@LaurenMurdoch123]

She cried. He cried. I cried. Just leave them alone man! 🥹💕

[@ayabassam466]

Hey i have an exam tomorrow and i cant watch the whole video can u write the time stamp for me please so I won’t have to watch it all now😭

[@khanyadyan2961]

​@ayabassam466 16:00

[@ayabassam466]

@@khanyadyan2961 thankkkk uuuuu If I passed I’ll remember youu

[@apoorwa466]

@ayabassam466 which exam mate

[@ayabassam466]

@@apoorwa466 internal medicine

[@AaryanPrakash]

The raw honesty from Ethan towards all the hate was quite admirable Congrats on the Wedding!!

[@georgiachannell]

I never comment on anything but the reason us ADULTS love this podcast is because it’s a real, honest relationship. They don’t hide the hardships and so many of us relate. It’s obvious how much they love eachother and how good they are for one another. Little weirdo kids hating on something they won’t understand for another 15 years….

[@Kxii77813x]

The last sentence 😅😩 I know they will remember this in time to come and think wow how I was wrong hahaha. We’ve all done it

[@sneezingmango]

Legit

[@dahlia159]

exactly !!!

[@mauracurrie5613]

The last sentence especially is so accurate

[@CheerupCherrygirl]

I’m 19 and never even dated anyone and I understand that to the fullest 🙌

[@amberrobinson3165]

I refuse to believe anyone can watch this episode and still say that Faith trapped Ethan, the amount of love these two so obviously share for one another is heart warming, and truly beautiful! Never been so happy for two strangers over the internet!!!

[@sineadjessop8847]

Literally 💯💯💯🫡

[@larastreak5764]

Nah I've already seen comments saying she has trapped him...but he was the one who got down on one knee sooooo idk why their saying she has trapped him 😭

[@amberrobinson3165]

@@larastreak5764 because unfortunately a lot of these people idolise the sidemen to an extent where they believe they should never actually grow up and have lives outside of KZbin! It’s the fear of their favourite KZbinrs stopping videos and focusing on their families, as though that’s a bad thing 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@novaclan8542]

@@larastreak5764I mean…she got pregnant at 21 with a famous rich guy because “the condom broke” haha. Just kidding.

[@juviedon9302]

@@novaclan8542 fun fact faith is rich

[@mais6630]

when faith started tearing up that got me🥹 you can tell how much she loves being a mum. idk how people can say they aren’t in love there’s clearly so much love there. so cute 🫶🏼

[@Becf19]

So many people have an issue with Ethan and faith’s relationship because for so long ‘internet couples’ have only shared the happiest and glamorous sides of their relationship and nobody has ever been let in to see the real stuff. Ethan and faith talk about real relationship issues and accurately show the dynamic of a real life relationship. They aren’t all happiness and rainbows at times, they have banter, disagreements, the hump because the dishes haven’t been washed or the bins haven’t been taken out etc. which is absolutely normal! People are so used to seeing glamourised relationships online that it’s blinded them into an unrealistic expectation of the dynamic of real life. Don’t let online opinions ruin your engagement bubble, there’s no better feeling than the person you love asking you to be with them for the rest of your lives. You’re amazing for sharing the honesty and accuracy of a real life relationship and it’s so refreshing to see and is absolutely relatable. Congrats to you guys 🫶🏼

[@faithlouisak]

Thank you so much 🥹🥹❤️

[@DansGeekTake]

People who criticise have clearly never been in an actual relationship

[@peekabooicancu]

Couldn't say it better!

[@novaclan8542]

Ppl make fun of them for bants lad. It’s not that deep

[@Becf19]

@@novaclan8542it’s not banter when both of them are visibly upset and crying on the internet to leave them alone.

[@nic4586]

Love how this is a big ‘F**k you’ to all the people who said you wouldn’t last beyond a year! Massive congratulations 🥳 you both deserve all the happiness 🥂💗

[@Yummynova]

Honestly, so happy for them! It was so funny when a few of my friends who are bandwagon Sidemen fans said "oh he cheated on her, he doesn't deserve it", and I was like, "wtf you don't know anything"

[@user-rtsv81-5a]

​@@Yummynovathey probably saw dillon danis tweet about faith with her DAD, like imagine getting your information from him😂

[@nic4586]

@@Yummynovaso am I! They’re the most relatable/realistic to me personally. My relationship is similar, constantly taking the p*ss out of each other, laughing more than anything, having teething problems when learning how to bring up a child but overcoming it together etc. People just don’t like the fact that they do show all of this and are authentic rather than hiding it all behind closed doors. They’ve supported each other through sickness and health already, they’ve proven their commitment already through having Olive… I think this naturally was the right timing for them. They both deserve happiness, Faith gets far too much hate and for what? She’s the youngest partner of the Sidemen guys, yet she receives the most hate and disgusting comments. I don’t know how Ethan has never ‘lost it’ due to how some treat one of his most loved people. I’m happy for them either way 💍🥂

[@Certid]

@@Yummynova If u talk about the sidemen's relationships with your friends for fun then u need to grow up. That is so cringe.

[@Yummynova]

@@Certid well, some of us have been following them for the whole 10 years, some even before that. We don't talk about them as if it is a deep topic, it just gets mentioned in conversation and people can have their opinions. My friends and I don't always talk about serious topics even if we are older now. But you have a right to an opinion too, so thanks for the advice! I think you misunderstood what I am saying, it was just funny to hear since some of my friends do not really follow them but only know them via social media 😂 especially for someone who grew up watching Sidemen like me.

[@tdsm99]

Just leave them alone honestly, your mother raised you to not say anything if you've got nothing nice to say. They're clearly happy, what's it to you randomer on Twitter?

[@ovs4744]

If they think they’re important enough to share their life online they should be able to take criticism 🤣🤣

[@Yummynova]

​@@ovs4744 honestly, I think they take it pretty well, at least better than most. But that's just my opinion

[@TomArbuthnot28A]

@@ovs4744 shut up

[@aRecount]

That’s terrible advice if your mother raised you like that 😭

[@Milleruser]

@ovs4744 receive criticism on them getting engaged? You man are lost fr

[@Meg2297]

I cried when Faith cried. Just want to say, that for all the people that spew hate at you, there are so many more that love and see how happy y’all are. Sweetest most real! 💜

[@rosietanner8409]

Watching Ethan publicly praise his fiancé for all of her hard work for him & their family, is honestly a breath of fresh air & so beautiful to hear. We need more men like Ethan & beautiful strong women like Faith 💖

[@katherinerodz]

I love the fact that he asked all of her brothers and her father for their approval 🥹 what a gentleman. And they were so happy. I’m just so happy for y’all.

[@oliviadent]

The smile and glow Faith has, whilst Ethan is talking about planning of the proposal is giving me life 🎉❤

[@tea_m16]

Watching Faith dedicate her life to her family the past few years has been extremely inspiring. Being pregnant at 22 years old, when most people are partying, travelling and doing crazy stuff is so incredible. And it takes the most amazing woman to do everything for her daughter, her animals and Ethan, without complaining. People hating have definitely never had a close relationship with their partners. Arguments are normal, tough times are normal, but in the end, family is so important. I love Ethan, but Faith you're genuinely so amazing. So authentic, real and honest, even though you get so much hate without any legitimate reason. I wish you guys loads of happiness in your new chapter ❤ this truly made me cry 🍀

[@brentg80]

Adorable how Faith is smiling the whole time Ethan talks about getting ready for the proposal

[@juliapalillo3772]

The most awaited episoide!!! CONGRATS ETHAN AND FAITH!! WISHING YOU ALL THE LOVE AND HAPINESS!!!!

[@aleenafits]

Congratulations Mr. Payne and MRS. Kelly payne💓💓💓

[@bellebeth-ol8gh]

you mean Mr and Mrs FizzleK

[@spambotpt2141]

I've followed Ethan for years now , and seeing him find his happiness with someone as great as Faith , is beyond amazing. I literally had the biggest smile on my face listening to the proposal . Love them both individually and as a couple . Many congratulations ❤

[@beta_sturniolo]

Absolutely obsessed with these two. Faith is genuinely so strong for being able to move while so many people unnecessarily hate on you. And she shouldn't have to do that, not everyone is even able to do that. I've been waiting for your guys engagement bc I can tell you guys actually work so well together. Seeing you both cry while Ethan defending Faith is literally prime example that you guy's love each other so much. Faith deserves to be defended the same way she defends her family. Wishing you guys the best engagement and wedding. ❤❤

[@yassinakl2705]

Faith reposted on insta

[@beta_sturniolo]

I JUST SAW I'M SO HAPPYY ❤

[@Madinakhassan]

Awwww she reposted this comment on her ig story! ❤

[@anthonydoyle72]

Ethan getting emotional while saying all of what faith does for him and their family was so sweet

[@zayaandollie6941]

Also, the ring is GORGEOUS Well done Bez👏👏👏

[@j-obe7820]

Ethan talked like a king there ngl

[@sammieritchie3908]

Honestly I don’t know how you get so much hate you have one of the most normal relationships I’ve ever known of, people who hate are too use to these fake celebrity relationships that only post a certain narrative online. So happy for you both you can tell how happy you both are.

[@cjpwolf5957]

a lot of people are clueless and think relationships should be love dovey all the time its not about that its about staying with the one through the good and bad and i think most people can see how much you both mean to each other.

[@HalfNHalf.]

Exactly. REAL relationships are like this. I’m very happy for them. Couldn’t imagine Ethan with anyone else. They are very sweet together and I love their relationship. Reminds me of my own

[@HalfNHalf.]

Faith is such a lovely woman. You can tell when she teared up how much it hurts when people say mean things but she holds it in. Ethan is a real man to stand up for his wife. I love these two together and anyone else can FCK OFF

[@karlar7336]

I was surprised when faith said she wasn’t articulate, because whenever i listen to her i think she’s super smart and gets her points across very well

[@exploridori]

Not to get too deep on this, but it's the autism! Autistic people tend to communicate without double speak or (intentional) hidden meaning, but people are still determined to read into it. (She goes into this on this pod actually, says she cant articulate her points NICELY. Doesn't mean she's not saying what she thinks, it just means it's sometimes unpalatable to people.) I've definitely had periods in my life when i felt unintelligent or like I'm bad at articulating my points because of this. But I'm actually saying all the correct words, people just don't think i mean what i say!

[@1212myali]

This is my favortie episode so far. Its about time they defended themselves properly against the hate. And seeing faith shed tears while ethan was defending her was wholesome as hell. Made me cry too. 🥺🥺

[@klarabarunovic9841]

I teared up when I saw you two tear up, bless you two and your little family!❤🥹

[@brandimaina]

I loved hearing Ethan defend Faith. I never thought she needed it but it was so nice to see. I love them both! Big congrats to you both and your sweet little family!

[@poppy._]

i find it wild that someone can be THAT effected by someone else’s relationship. it’s obviously just their humour and it’s always the people who clearly don’t know how a real life relationship works. they both seem lovely i’ve never understood how someone can think a 1 hour podcast automatically means you know everything about someone’s life??

[@DiyaCake]

16:00 Aw and people will still continue to hate regardless just because they have nothing better to do. Congrats on the engagement guys!!

[@katherinerodz]

I’m so happy Ethan still here and his life turned out better. Faith is an incredible woman, the best mom & fiancé, the best homemaker, she’s so mature I forget she’s only 24. Congratulations you guys. I’m so happy for y’all. May God continue to bless and protect you both & Olive.

[@asheriheme]

16:21 sitting here crying, clapping & smiling ❤❤

[@zainabsheraz381]

The love they have for each other is mental. Then crying cause of the hate they get is crazy. Leave them alone. Congratulations to u both 🎉🎉🫶🏽

[@faithlouisak]

❤❤❤

[@snehastudios4046]

Ethan really did go above and beyond to work out what faith liked. Dude had a notes page. If that isn’t commitment idk what is. I wish you both the best!

[@jtthurman3401]

I proposed to my wife and gave her the box too brother 😂 it’s super nerve racking, she looked at me and said, “Well are you gonna put it on me”. The price tag was still on and everything 😂

[@MandasBricks]

16:27 I’m crying! They’re so in love and we should be an extension of their happy bubble- if you’re not here to be supportive than just leave.

[@laylalinnen9650]

Aww seeing Ethan get emotional protecting faith was so nice ❤

[@clogs2211]

Who els cried , love these 2 congratulations to you both your such a beautiful family olive is lucky to have you both

[@sarotaro]

faith is such an angel she doesn’t deserve the hate she gets. people are mad that she’s successful and has a beautiful family! congrats on the engagement and i hope everything goes well ❤

[@nahidauddin.18xx]

OMGGG I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOUS BOTH, WAS SO EXCITED FOR THIS PODCAST, I KNEW YOUS WERE GONNA BE NEXT TO BE ENGAGED, FAITH AND ETHAN WILL FOREVER BE MY FAVOURITE COUPLE, OLIVE OFFICIALLY GON HAVE MARRIED PARENTS 😮‍💨😍 FAITH HONESTLY IS AN ABSOLUTE QUEEN, SHE DOESN'T DESERVE ANY OF THE HATE 🤍🥺

[@mgirjvnrguivnrgivu]

Smiling so hard during this whole episode!🥹🥹🥹🥹

[@rebekka-jadeosullivan6589]

If you’ve followed Ethan for more than 3 years you can see how happy he is with Faith. He’s clearly loves her and people should just leave them alone. If you’ve got nothing nice to say keep your opinions to yourself

[@Furney4President24]

So happy for the 2 of you. You seem to be good parents and good for each other. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

[@karmenpowell401]

The passion in Ethan defending faith is so pure, congratulations ❤🎉

[@madisonburton689]

Watching this video you can just see their love and you can see how they are each other's rocks. I hope one day that I am LUCKY enough to experience a love with a partner like this and to have a family as beautiful as theirs

[@Pippasparky123]

Why am I bawling at an episode of growing paynes 😭 wow, I am soo happy for faith and Ethan ❣️I’m very much so a silent fan but I HAD to show my love on this episode because of how incredible this family is and how much support and love they deserve to see when they look at comments 🥰

[@cedricgarcia1354]

Congratulations. Y'all deserve all the blessings and happiness that come your way.

[@duqial]

I am so happy for you guys! I literally jumped a few times out of excitement when you were telling how the engagement happened. You guys are an amazing family unit and it's wonderful to see.

[@aliviafunchion8529]

This is great! Congrats. As long as you guys are happy that’s all that matters. I love how you all provide and prioritize your little one. 💜💓

[@Rose.Archer]

Cried 😭😭 I love them as a couple because they’re so honest. People give them have because they compare it to others who are fake.

[@user-vu4py4rs1i]

I cried when you two did. Really beautiful moment man. Heres to you two and your family. Congratulations 👏✨️

[@jenniferamp12]

Seeing them cry made me cry, you can see the love and appreciation they have for each other, they do not deserve any of the hate they get. Y’all need to leave this amazing and cute family alone!!!

[@abiyt45678]

Oh faith we can see the ring, it’s a rock! So beautiful and you both are glowing. So happy for yous

[@fatz608]

Congratulations 🎊 So happy for you two ❤

[@u3ix_ii]

the way they both teared up as ethan was defending faith 🥹 thats pure love right there

[@ashleybyers7080]

Congratulations 🥂 🎉 Happy for your amazing family ❤ Keep being open and honest. Faith you’re beautiful and will make the most stunning bride. Enjoy every second of this engagement bubble xx

[@badatgamesluke4949]

Me a fellow greggs employee glad we added to your engagement faith and ethan happy for you both congratulations ❤❤❤

[@dbdetailingandautocare]

That’s a real man he stood up for his misses and putting a statement out there to leave her alone the emotional side is just showing how much he cares for her to sit and say faith does a lot for him and appreciates it 👏🏽👏🏽

[@mackbuildsthings]

I love the comments being filled with so much love. You two deserve it, you're literally perfect for eachother and we're all so happy for you taking this next step for your little family! Congrats ❤❤

[@jazzmine65]

Congrats Ethan and Faith ! Wish you a lifetime of happiness!!

[@bella_6292]

CONGRATULATIONS!! 🥳 so so sooooo happy for you guys!! you both deserve all the happiness in the world ❤

[@shannanlindibanana]

Congratulations to you both, was hoping one of the holidays were gonna be special , was probably ethan with the "iv spoken to your family and its all sorted" 😂❤🖤

[@b3rrysweet467]

Good on Ethan for standing up for Faith and showing her appreciation. people assume because you’ve let them see GLIMPSES of your relationship that they know everything. you can see just how much you both love each other, Olive is lucky to have parents who love her so much. Congratulations to you both ❤️

[@bananasplit2741]

so happy for you guys!!!! congrats ☺ sending love to you and your beautiful family 💗

[@sallyrobinson2285]

Congratulations 🎉🎉 Faith's going to be a stunning bride.

[@heyimrahat]

SOBBING, CRYING, THROWING UP I LOVE YOU BOTH SO MUCH MY HEART IS SO HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH, I WISH NOTHING BUT HAPPINESS IN THE FUTURE FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

[@tjay4664]

This makes me so happy! Congratulations, you two! 🎉🎉 Thank you for sharing your relationship with us and for being so candid all the time. Don't listen to those who give hate, half of its jealousy anyway.

[@johnathanwalsh7082]

Pisses me off that people go at yous for what they see on a screen when it’s an hour of you chatting and don’t know what happens behind doors. Yous are amazing don’t let those people get you down keep smashing it both of you

[@capri468]

I’m so excited for this episode. I just started watching you all this week and you guys got engaged!! I knew Ethan with time would be a grow to be a grounded person. And Faith is AMAZING! Happy for this family

[@kyliev4507]

I genuinely love how much he defends her. Every chance he gets, he stands up for his love and his family. Amazing family. Love the both of you, congratulations❤

[@JamesFarenden2024]

Congratulations ❤ … love you faith and Ethan and kiddo as well. Your my favourite couple of sidemen 🎉🎉

[@LameezBallim]

I absolutely loved how highly Ethan spoke about Faith❤. These are two people that don't have to be honest in their approach on letting the internet in on their lives, yet they do so anyways and honestly it's a rare thing to see nowadays. They're so relatable in this raw form and it would be a shame if they got pushed too far and decided to share less of themselves with us.

[@josepeejoestar]

I'm so glad I started listening in time for this. Hearing the story reminded me of proposing myself. I really love this podcast. Faith is incredible! Ethan, you're a lucky man. I wish yous all the best and many, many happy years together!

[@nabeeharahman2588]

I’m so happy for these two, I’ve watched this relationship grow and it’s been a privilege for them to allow us to watch it. Faith is one of the nicest people I’ve ever seen and they both help each other grow. Congratulations to both and I hope everyone can mind their business and let them be happy ✨🤍

[@Bella_ameena_]

Congratulations guys 🥹❤️

[@birchgrove820]

OMG Faith 5:24 in & I have to say this IS PERFECT, when we say we need details as girls this is exactly what we mean 😅. Never too many details when you tell a story, we need to know it all 🤗. Congrats to you both, so happy for you!!

[@kaseysanders1500]

Literally watching this with a massive smile on my face. I’m so happy for two strangers ❤️❤️

[@kenzienoelle124]

Fully teared up. Love these two!!

[@sianxl]

Was not expecting to cry but amen to what you say Ethan. As long as you, Faith and Olive are happy, that’s the main thing ❤ fuck what everyone else says, they don’t know what your relationship is like apart from the people who actually know you. Congratulations on your engagement!! Beautiful ring!!! 🎉

[@katiedrury6240]

Congrats

[@thebeaux]

Congratulations! Ethan and Faith, so happy for you both. Such awesome news. All the best with everything.

[@Cloudyconfusion]

How he came up with the ring and the description of it sounds soooo cool! I adore that he asked her mom too & I loved hearing the process of how he went about it! Cutest proposal ever great job Ethan and congrats you 2!

[@tyronebarr9471]

Faith is honestly has the most underrated humour and natural a great vibe

[@aliamello7878]

Congratulations Ethan and Faith!!! So happy for you and Olive, gorgeous family. Ignore the haters ❤

[@246chic246]

Love this!! Congrats ❤🎉 just know there’s just so many more wishing you guys the best than those negative people! So happy for you guys and your little family 🥹

[@J355IC45M1TH]

Faith beaming the whole time they’re talking about the proposal is so wholesome man, congratulations 🤍

[@fezza__]

We fucking love you two. You carry each other so well and you love each side to one another, so willing to give and take for each other and for your little family is just beautiful. You’re smashing it, both of you, inspiring to young parents like myself🫶🏼

[@kieronholcombe7726]

Behz and faith are just so sound and real been with my wife 11 years now 2 kids and there just real and no bullshit its how real couples are! Wish them the best no doubt you will have thebhaooy memorries you both deserve!!

[@Hecticlilb]

Congrats Ethan & Faith I’m so happy for the both of you! I wish to have a relationship like yours one day in the future 💯 wishing you and your family all the best❤️

[@jboy2771]

I appreciate you guys being who you are. Character like yours is slim to none and I love tuning in to listen to your conversations. Y’all had me in tears with this episode! Congratulations on the engagement! Wish you guys a life full of love and prosperity.

[@charliejones7558]

Congrats ethan and faith so happy for you both

[@kerryann9000]

So beautiful, you two make the best couple ! Congratulations 💜 I wish you very many happy years ahead xxx

[@niccij87]

Congratulations both 💍🥂🍾🫶🏼 I love how real you both keep it!

[@matthewhayes3142]

this is the best news! congratulations to you both. many years of joy and happiness to you❤

[@kerryann9000]

FAITH CAN I JUST SAY YOU ARE THE MOST GORGEOUS WOMAN I HAVE EVER SEEN 🤍 your personality shines so bright and you have the prettiest features I have ever seen xx stay true to yourself, I love watching your videos. You two are very genuine and deserve happiness xoxo

[@TIAGO-M75]

Will never understand the hate Faith gets, lovely woman who works hard and despite all the clips out of the context and the narrative some people try to run, she clearly loves Ethan a lot, whises of a great marriage and congratulations to you both❤️

[@vannajaxon]

So happy for you both!! to see the love that you have for each other is so beautiful. I cried with you both. I can't wait to see your love grow ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kaseysanders1500]

Congratulations Ethan Faith and Olive for this next chapter! I am so happy for you guys xxx