We Sold Our House 🏠 | Packing And Shifting Vlog | Simple Living Wise Thinking

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Hi everyone. Thanks for supporting me so much in the most difficult time of my life . Many of you are asking about my mom .Mom is fine as somewhere I feel we ladies are very strong . I will tell you all about everything as what we have decided and how I am going to take care of her in my next vlog so please be patience. Love you all ❤

[@gayatribhattacharjee8574]

🙏🙏

[@neetamishra3725]

Take care of yourself ❤️

[@MrGaurinw]

Love u payal

[@mousumichatterjee7116]

You are an inspiration didi bhai.. Atleast who lives in USA.Take care you too❤

[@poulamiaikat8672]

Just finished watching your video. Payel di, don't take much load in explaining us ... Every one is struggling with their own issues. We can understand she is really taken care by you. Already loss of your father will stay with you for long .. that pain .. that emptiness ..my dad too left us only in his 72. ( suddenly ) 7 months now... still in pain...can understand now what you are going through... I also keep myself busy... They moment mind is silent it is in pain...take care payel di . ❤❤.

[@barbie4978]

Am 20 year old girl ,watching your vlogs since from last few years ,you r so positive lady i really like you . ,❤💗

[@SabB12345]

Hi Payal, I lost my father at 62. It's been 6 years now and I miss him. Grief comes in waves and hits you hard. But time will heal you. The pain always remains but it's just that we gain enough strength to endure it.

[@malabikadas5747]

Payel take your time. It's not an easy to come back to normal so soon it takes time. It's very very difficult to accept the fact. My mother was only 67 when we lost first one year I was in total denail, it took me 2 years to accept the fact. Now I am much better. Sending you love 💕

[@naziaparwez2911]

Hii payal I literally cried after hearing about your loss. I hope you and your family are doing good. Keep smiling always uncle is looking at you from heaven he is always there with you

[@abantibanerjee1840]

So happy to see your smiling face.God bless you dear and your family.

[@AC-jg2dg]

Congrats on selling your home! Its a lot of work to do now finishing up packing/moving and then cleaning it up. Please use your maid service to do a move out clean and plan easier and healthier meals, once you settle, you can cook what you usually do. It will save you so much time and stress, leaving you to focus on the things that matter and not breaking your body down.

[@shynarareddy]

Yes if you think therapy will help please do. Please consult your physician and get therapy sessions. I also lost my mom last month..I tried reading geetha.. acceptance is important.. it helps and yes time is the biggest healer.. but please remember all of us are different..we can have different approaches and processes to grieve and heal..so please feel free to do whatever suits you..lots of love payal🥰👍

[@channelkalpanapandit]

Payal, along with my respectful condolences once again , I too agree with Shaumik. Counselling and Therapy will be very helpful for you in dealing with your sudden loss of your precious Dad. It is very important to be able to talk about your feelings during this crucial time. Please do that so that your heart and mind will become lighter. 🩷👍🙏

[@syedarahimahaligilani2076]

Payal, I've been watching ur vlogs for the past 5 years. I love ur simplicity. Accept my condolences. May ur father rest in Peace. Luv from Pakistan

[@RhythmDivine1-g6j]

Hi Payal, have paused the video to share a few suggestions before I forget : Please consider any of these that might help you heal emotionally , it's something that help me get through difficult times - Meditation-anytime,Pranayam(focusing on breathing in mornings specially), naam jaap of your favourite deity, listening to soothing music ,getting enough rest and hydration etc.its v true being with loved ones has therapeutic effect . Do let out the emotions if they make you feel better . Hugs and take care. Loss of a loved one is something we cope with time dear , and let me assure you,you are doing great ❤. Stay blessed

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Thanks dear very good advice

[@RhythmDivine1-g6j]

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[@kritikaganesh137]

It takes time to heal..Don't worry Payal ...u r already strong to face all this ....i am sure u will take some meditation therapy where u can share everything to a good listener. Trust me ..with this a person becomes even more stronger than before. It's very difficult to express when u lose ur loved one. When i lost my mom ...it took one year to get hold of myself. With so many responsibilities that u r going thru ..definitely it will impact ur health ...so go slow ..one at a time .Shaumik is there to support you emotionally. ❤ All will be fine with time.Just that take a deep breath & trust the process.

[@zakiakadri2119]

Nice to see you back smiling n being super active this will help you diverting your mind 🙏

[@Hope4ever]

YAY!! Glad you sold it quickly. Of course, great location, it will be sold like a hot potato! Now you all can move 100% and settled down. Great!! ❤ Take it easy and rest in between. Don't overwork and get exhausted.

[@reenatitus56]

Nice vlog payal. Can't wait to see your house. Just keep yourself busy so that you don't have to feel freeze out. I know it's very easy to tell but those who go through this , they can very well understand

[@yasirkamran3899]

Grief therapy is really good payal you should take some sessions you get feel better. At the end of the day, life must go on. We have to live for our live after therapy. You will fill better

[@amitashetty5956]

Payal i really like you as a person & your vlogs, i can understand how much & difficult it is to go on with such a big shock but i am sure dad is sending blessings to you &aunty &family.continue to be strong, move forward in life. You inspire me a lot. I have lost parents so i understand your feelings that void / gap will always be there that is life but we have to go on thats what our loved ones also want from us. Thank you for vlogging tc god bless

[@kusumaprakash]

Take care Payal it takes time to recover from the shock but since you are always busy it will be easy for you it has just happened so be cool let the memories flow you will become ok

[@Areyinnewyork]

Hey dear , so nice to see u back with regular vlogs , love the color of the door .. u made perfect decision to sell the house ( it’s a headache to rent a house with new newyork state tenant rights) . Waiting eagerly to see ur new house .

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Correct

[@apurva.16]

Stay strong Payal ji! I cannot imagine your grief but I feel so proud the way you are handling it. You really are an amazing person.

[@joyitadasKolkata]

Payal I also lost my father in April this year. I can understand what you are going through. Soumik is right about therapy. I am also considering therapy.

[@archanapurswani616]

Hi payal,ap ko Papa k Jane ka dukh to hamesha hi rahega,wo ap kabhi bhool nahi sakti bas ap ye socho ki itani door se ap ayi un se mil payi ,un sebaat ki wo kitani badi baat h ,is baat k liye God ko thanks kijiye .Agar ap achnak apne papa ki bed news sunte to kaisa feel hota,isliye apne man ko shant rakhne ki koshish kijiye ,ap k baccho ko ap k smiling face ki jarurat h gbu dear❤❤❤❤

[@binitakumari9964]

I can understand your pain as I suffered it twice 💔 you can vent out your feeling whenever it’s necessary,keep. busy yourself with your work and if you feel the necessary for therapy ,you can take it as there is no problem 🙏🏻we learn to live our life along with our loss 🙏🏻

[@ayinagupta]

Di, no therapy or there is any way to get over the loss. Sometimes i feel one doesnt want to get over it, coz i know , i lost my mumma and papa both. Because for getting over makes me feel guilt that i m forgetting them, just remember him feel he is alive seeing you and blessing you, and is happy, trust u will find yes if the loss is painful their presence was blessing. And at end we will meet.

[@sheena234able]

Payel even I have gone through this situation , it will take time . Onething good that atleast youncould meet him but I was not that lucy .. So dear be patients and now you have humongus work with you so try to take care of your self and your family also depending on you. Love❤

[@sandralazarus7338]

This house of yours, i liked it alot.

[@allthingshomebyarchana.5586]

Payal first few months will be difficult, whatever you are going through is very normal,grieving...give time to it. Time really doesn't heal everything,it just makes us capable of living with that vacuum. When you feel like crying..cry.....you will feel lighter. Talk about your father. Don't bottle up your emotions. Just give time.....first couple of months and then this first year will be difficult. It takes time. Just try to be regular with everything just like before. Don't over burden yourself with tasks. You also need rest. Spend time with your kids,Rex and Shoumik. Talk it out. Go for walks. That will do wonders. Wish you lots of strength. Keep your father alive in your memories. Take care.

[@kavitharajiv5399]

Do some basic chakra meditation everyday. But otherwise time can only heal the pain. My husband lost born his parents back to back in 3 months time last year. Mom was just 65 and dad 74. Keep yourself busy.

[@binisutoygantha]

I completely understand your feelings, i know that pain... God bless you and your family, stay strong ❤️

[@ritamukherjee8563]

Payel I lost my mother sometime back. It's very difficult for mind to accept. Time is the only healer. With time it will become better. It took me one year to become totally normal. But you will miss your father till your dying day. It's best to keep yourself busy. It helps to listen to videos of holy men

[@akanshachhetri3373]

Wow...payal di what a beautiful house you have brought and the location is just perfect ❤️

[@thequaintus]

It is very difficult to cope with the loss of a parent. I lost my mother at the age of 14, it has been 18 years since then, and she was only 38 when she passed. I don't think I have been able to cope with the loss even now. I still think about her, talk about her all the time, and dream about her. Life has gone from a mere high school child to a Ph.D. in the US and a professor in a US university, but my life stopped that night when she breathed last. I remember everything before her passing crystal clear but from the moment she died, life became a blur and all these 18 years just went in a flash. Loss of a parent is irrecoverable.

[@all_things_home]

You can use the marker to write on boxes as you pack. ❤

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

I did

[@prathimarohan4209]

Payal you are handling everything very well - dont worry. My dad was only 66 when he passed away. Yes therapy helps, I took therapy and luckily my FIL is a psychiatrist....it helped a lot especially CBT❤

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Yes I am also considering to take it once I settle down

[@architashaw2784]

It will take plenty of time honestly even till date even though it’s 10 years I miss my dad every single day maybe because I am the only child I have no one to share my feelings with I don’t know people say you have to learn to adopt different coping mechanisms But my personal experience is I miss him every single day

[@Manjitadelaidewali]

Hi payal take theory for loss, we did it 24 years ago when I lost my mother in 2001. I was just 17 that time.

[@maryaugustine6246]

Only time can heal , engross yourself in different activities and if needed take therapy. We will keep you in our prayers.

[@newswomanshazia]

We understand Payal. I lost my dad at 72. May the Almighty provide you strength. Love you ❤

[@rituparnaghosh9488]

Ekhane local church e healing therapy grp thake who gather with ppl where everyone shares their own grief Onek time bakider shune nijer grief kom lage and with time it heals Nijeke busy rekhe spending time with kids Medical therapy na ekhane khub strong meds dei, councilors o jodi bhalo na hoi u end up with nothing only money spent Get good review if u chose counseling

[@anshuthakurrrrr]

beautiful house but red colored door looks a bit odd maybe cus of the white and black

[@shritujha372]

Muje apka vibe bahot acha lagta h, very positive thinker ❤

[@nilimamazumder553]

Payel ami tomar position bujhte parchi... Ami 2014 e maa ke hariechi.. Maa er age chilo 62.. 2016 e baba hotat i chole jan takhon tar bayes chilo 73... Ami ei vabe i kasto parchi... Nijeke kajer moddhe rakho.. R tar sathe meditation koro.. Best..ami help paechi...

[@saeedaosman3510]

So sorry for your loss payal I kno its very hard and difficult to come to terms but life is such it has to go on,I pray for you and send you best wishes,the gap which our parents leave cannot be filled will miss and remember them thru our life they cannot be forgotten,I lost my dad wen I was 19 now I am 58 but still miss and remember him so much and my mum too.❤ take care of your mum she needs you more now.

[@muktamukherjee6022]

Ki bole tomake console Korbo Janina sorry. Tumi onek strong may God give you strength I can imagine your mother’s condition because I’ve lost my husband only 3years back

[@dips82100]

Ya me too want know..howz aunty? staying alone?

[@meerasharma7827]

Payal I know it’s very hard time for you but sweetie you should thanks to god ki papa chultay firtay gauay or last time your with him just imagine ki vo thik na ho kur bed pay pauday rauhatay tou sweetheart seva kaurn or kurvana Bhout mushkil ha stay blessed stay strong 🙏🙏🙏

[@msaparab6511]

Yes definitely go for therapy. But keep in mind all therapists are not the same (similar to doctors). And if possible join some zumba class etc - music helps a lot.

[@thecookiest55]

Hello mam M gargi hu 22 years old hu m and m india se hu haryana se and Mam 6 months hogye mere papa ki death ko and i am single child to bohot hard hota h niklna ye aise emotions h jo aap kbhi nhi nikal skte and mere papa ki age sirf 53 thi so bohot early sb hogya mujhe abhi tk shock lagta h jese aapne sb kia aise he mene bhi sb apne papa ka kia vo sb rituals yad aajate h rona bhi aata h bohot hard h ye face krna😢🥺 Stay strong stay healthy Lots of love to your family ❤

[@SD-ws2tp]

Payal make empty house tour of new house Also house tour after shifting your furniture. Also empty house tour of old house after shifting

[@SheonarainRajiv]

Hi Payal ji i feel crying when i watch your blog these day,s because i know how i felt when i lost both my parents in one month ..the pain is so big .but bye the time it will heal .cry if you feel to it will heal i hope you understand what i want to say english is not my language .maa baap ka khone ka dard khabhi nahi khatam hoga.bye bye daag ❤

[@surekhasalgaonkar1928]

Yog , Meditation, Om mantra for peaceful mind

[@richakochhar8894]

Lost my father in a very shocking way. He was not even 65. I got married and he passed away soon. Parents will always be priority whatever age they are in. Try listening to healing music, spiritual discourses and self healing books.

[@sumanjuyal4386]

Payal never give milk products after watermelon as it can be very bad, vomiting or loose motions

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Thanks

[@smo2416]

Yes , they say eat melon alone .all melons should not be mixed with other food type

[@savitrigainedi7504]

When my husband passed away my elder one16, younger son 10 years old I know that pain but one thing time heels everything take care of you n god bless you

[@sandhyabeautyvlogs289]

I agree with you payal because maine bhi abhi shift Kiya h 1 week to pack karne mai laga or 1 month unpacking mai😅

[@sushmitatripathi1841]

My heartfelt condolences to you and RIP to your father ... time will heal every thing

[@ArunSingh-f1n]

Simple living repice Arun Singh House picking much special

[@taniachatterjee5]

❤❤❤ very happy to see you smiling 😊… take care of yourself ❤

[@lazyvlogs466]

Payal di time will definitely heal but no one is ready to loose their parents

[@lathikaramachandran4615]

Ok payal hope she's doing good God bless u and ur family

[@vishruta1]

Dii when r ull shifting days from 18th to 2nd are not good its called pitru paksh . If u shifted before that its good or else during dusheera days

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

Sorry dear for us it’s different as all Hindu’s don’t have the same rule right . For us good time starts from 17th Sep

[@Hasan_Meraj]

Mere Papa ki report me bhi gallstones aya hai .. please thode tips dijiye for pre & post surgery care..

[@myuniverse6320]

Your new house is fantastic...

[@dips82100]

So happy to see your smiling face again❤

[@VaibhavSharma-hr8bo]

Na yaar 9years completed still I miss my father every time

[@pratikshagevariyavlog]

Hi payal bahut maja aaya vlog me

[@user-mc8wo1xd4i]

Hi payal 😊❤ nice to see u.take care

[@Aparna_9.]

Don’t worry Payal, your father is always watching over you guys from up.

[@arijitgain9593]

God bless you and your family 🙏

[@gayatribhattacharjee8574]

Payal jano aamar maa 2021 ey maara gechen......tomar je aajge obosta ....taie obostaa aamar tokhun chilo......aamake aamar mejdir bondhu bole chilo je tumi shudhu maayer shaathe joto bhalo din bitiyecho.....taie shudhu moane koro tahale aaste aaste tomar bhetor heal hote thakbe..........aami kintu taie korechilam nd most important...YOGA.....eie yog ta aami roj korechi aar kori Tumi o babar bhalo diner kotha guno sob somaye moane korbe jokhun e moan kharab hobe aar shaate shaate yoga koro.Tomra sobaie bhalo thako nd healthy thako.❤❤.Tomar maa k🙏 janalam .

[@ReenaSharma-mj5qr]

Koi baat nhi beta dekho bhot badi baat😔 hai beti Or papa ka rishta bhot najdiki Or piyara hota hai par ab jada nhi socho onki atma ki santi ke liye parathna karo or Apne ko bhi thik karo kyun ki apke pass bache hai parivaar hai or maa ko bhi phone karna tasalli dena God sab thik karein ge👍🇮🇳

[@shaistaimran6463]

Hi didi nice to see you in back routine life and offcourc it was very hard time of anyone'life bt still you hv to b move on and take care of all ❤👍🇵🇰

[@shirinhirji7473]

U pl take care I miss my mom 2 year ago I still in stock an when I alone sitting I started crying pl pray for him my son birthday is also 29 September

[@sabiahamid2072]

This is tough how i personally dealt with my father's death lots of prayers

[@JaythriKiwiLankan]

Take care Payal.❤

[@rinibhowmik2017]

Hii di.kamon acho tomra.tomake dekhe amar maa r katha mone porche.amar maa o hothat durga pujo r samay chole jaan.tomar ja feel hocche amar o same feelings hoe chilo.ekhono maa r abhab hoi.bhalo thako sabai

[@tarang9203]

❤

[@ratnaroy5440]

Payal ..baba maa amon akjon hoy tader chara jibon vaba jay na.Tomar kosto bhujte parchi go ...ami baba hariyechi when I was 13 years...and mom also at an early age.Anath word ta ami harey harey bhujhi.Somay lagbe go bhulte tobey session nite paro .

[@ParulPatel-do6ty]

Really My house also has red 🚪 door I don’t know that… Thanx for information

[@savitamatharu8620]

I'm first

[@das25]

Hi payal.. when I am in my 20 years my baba passed away he was just 47 year.. hum aae hai toh hume Jana bhi hai bhagwan ne jab Jo lekha hai woh hoga ryt .. baba humesha apke saath hai .

[@supriyasuresh5390]

Go for therapy Dear… speaking to a therapist about ur Father and ur feelings abt his not being there, frankly will help U. Sometimes we can speak to outsiders better than our own family. A professional will also have simple methods to cope with ur grief. Don’t expect miracles. Such sorrow takes its time to subdue. Also don’t expect it to vanish… u just learn to accept it. Also do prayers especially chanting .. if u have 108 bead chain use it. Krishna be with u..

[@abhasharma3388]

Beautiful picnic spot m yummy recipe

[@jayshreechorera5713]

Take care Di❤ Love you lovely family❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@needa142]

Payal aapki situation hum understand kar saktey hen aap ke inside kya chal rha he ye aap hi feel kar sakti ho bohat duayen aapke liye

[@aparnaSingh-fh3zt]

Payel aap ko khush dekh kar achha laga ...Bhagwan aapko khub Tarki de 🏕sel dishigan 💯💞Good Samye ke sath chal na chahiye Badlaw hi jivan mai New asha ki kiran Lata hai ... ❤❤🎉🎉😊😊

[@Piyumoon]

Thora therapy session lo payel..it will help!

[@KarTor786]

My dad passed way , when he was only 62 years old 😢

[@JaythriKiwiLankan]

Love ur new home, can I ask how big is the land ?🎉

[@SimpleLivingWiseThinking]

1.05 acre

[@JaythriKiwiLankan]

@@SimpleLivingWiseThinking amazing, 👌 take care Payal.

[@Youand551]

Why did you sell the house Payal you could have leased it I’m sure you must have got for very less price and interest rate……..you have too kids in future it could hv been useful for them

[@rishitasharma4853]

Please give a tour of your new house in one video after you move .

[@Maninadam1946]

Payal take care dear, all will be fine soon ❤

[@vibinaselvan8169]

Take care ❤give urself some time to heal

[@Priyankadas2870-s7z]

Ami tomar sathe related korte parchi go..amio recently baba k hariyechi..r amio 1matro sontan...amio babar kj korechi..r babar ager din 65 th er birthday chilo..sob kichu ok chilo..pordin sondhe tei sb ses

[@stellakispotta4245]

Hi Payal be strong.... whenever u feel low just remember the good time spent with your dad ...u will feel good, very soon u will overcome this situation. I have experienced this when I lost my husband in 2017. It is no doubt very difficult but as time passes u will overcome it.

[@mylenevictor8321]

Time will help u heal Payal

[@nityalata4226]

Payal nice to see u take care..

[@sindhujoshi404]

How much the cost for your new house

[@atula.mpandit3792]

Time lgega payal,vo bolte hain na time heals everything ❤

[@tonayadityanath3924]

Initially for 2 to 3 months esa hi lagta hahega badme aadat ho jayega