We've Been Secretly Dating

We’re about to tell y’all something CRAZY. In today’s episode, we spill all the tea on our longest kept secret, who paid on the first date, and who has the best stroke game.
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Timecodes (Episode #142):
00:00 - Intro
00:21 - Skip Intro
01:45 - The Secret Is Revealed
06:36 - When did Esther start to like Jeremy?
18:14 - Jeremy & Esther's First Date
29:27 - A Year Into The Relationship
38:30 - Jeremy's Fashion
43:39 - How long did you wait?
56:02 - Relationship Firsts
1:02:36 - The LA Party Incident
1:04:04 - Are forehead kisses cheating?
1:07:46 - How have you made each other better?
1:17:40 - How does it feel to be public?
1:23:17 - Dollar Store Therapy
1:24:39 - Outro
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[@kathleene99]

Jeremy is the only bf material on the show. I think Jeremy was being respectful towards Esther by keeping it private. A year into dating is serious enough to mention in public.

[@barchemistry]

Me and viet are right here wtf

[@ewa..-]

​@@barchemistry😭😭

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

I completely agree with you. *tips fedora* - jeromy

[@slouchbach4784]

I think they're all good. Bf doesn't mean for marrying. Everyone is hot enough to be someone's guy to introduce in family functions. Jeremy is the shortest but the only husband material.

[@raywotthe1st22]

​@@barchemistryviet and I*

[@BellaReynaA]

Viet being smiley the whole video just goes to show how sweet he is bc you can tell how happy he is for them

[@jasminevelasquez6592]

Honestly I noticed that too! That was the cutest shit ever 😭 and also woo looked so happy and relieved that he doesn’t have to keep the secret anymore 😂

[@KibbityKabbit2]

I think he’s mentioned in previous podcasts that he likes seeing other people in happy relationships. He’s lowkey a total soft boi. ❤

[@ruysanti]

Yo random thought, Woo and Esther both have really good “voice acting” voices. Can definitely see them voice acting for anime characters

[@user-hv6yj8ce2i]

Can someone please put together a montage of Esther flirting with Jeremy on the podcast while he gets flustered 😂

[@lachaparra6660]

yess i need to see

[@rebeccaazevedo7096]

I love how wootak is taking our side and spilling ALL the tea lmao

[@AaronSamsonnn]

Damn they played it off so well, wouldn’t have believed a year of secrecy 😂

[@boredguy5805]

I cant tell if I'm missing a joke in these comments or something, I feel like esther has already made it as obvious as possible they were dating without straight up saying it lol. There's no way the constant flirting was a bit

[@amcheung10]

@@boredguy5805 I second this

[@MaeilYogurt]

Tbh I thought she made it really obvious. She used to laugh way too hard at Jeromy’s jokes. Jeromy’s funny don’t get me wrong, but some of the jokes were barely funny haha.

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

@@MaeilYogurtstop lying! All my jokes are funny - Jeromy

[@lillianbrown4750]

Not viet taking a vape break n ghosting LMFAOO

[@Odinuc98]

I've never seen Jeremy and Esther this nervous 😂😂😂❤❤❤ btw y'all thought it was a secret but we knew

[@PloopPlab]

Fr they were super notice😭

[@londonb100]

We literally all knew! I thought I was crazy bc I never seen other commenters mention it

[@TheoWentHome]

Hahaha yeah we knew 😊 you can read and feel chemistry

[@Sanah93]

Yep

[@Myhalamanz]

Those two silly goose also made it obvious. They be grinning everytime there's a Jesther moment

[@sophie1420]

I could tell the Jeremy reciprocated the feelings but i didn't think they were practically married.

[@milesallen738]

Is a year of dating really practically married lol

[@sophie1420]

@@milesallen738 they said they were going to get married and they live together. Wouldn't be surprised if they were engaged within 18 month lmao.

[@JacquiCuff]

Yeah I guess you could tell he liked it when she rizzed him on screen lol.

[@elenahg]

@@milesallen738😂

[@cxxipm]

next future video be like: “we’ve been secretly married”

[@xyz.sophi510]

No he’s gonna propose next episode 😜

[@Mindsetolympics]

Low key yaaaa

[@Lily-dd5is]

Esther has the biggest smile on omg I’m so happy for yall

[@aprilg3834]

Jeremy’s fashion is getting better because of Esther’s girlfriend effect 😂😂

[@SRHisntSilent]

Oml maybe

[@xo.flacaa]

I’m waiting for the next episode of: “we’ve been secretly dating, Viet and Wootak”. 💀

[@saskiaskye_]

It's coming im still hopeful

[@saozinh9]

I swear if Esther had not been publicly flirting with Jeremy, I would not have noticed anything going on between them😭

[@vkxxw]

While I did expect them to be dating or at least talking to each other in a romantic way, I did not expect it to have been over a year and living together

[@sydnijames-zd3ng]

wootak’s hair looks especially exquisite this ep

[@pinkstrwberry8]

leo king fr

[@ImBaegeopa]

Alright guys time to keep buying Nectar for Esther, so we can be invited to the wedding too lmao.

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

i'll hold a sweepstakes. two lucky winners gets to be my best man and her best woman

[@ImBaegeopa]

Do a willy wonka golden ticket in the Nectar boxes. Thoughts? @@UnderTheInfluenceShow

[@Jaywin228]

@@UnderTheInfluenceShowbest woman 😂😂 maid of honor!

[@SamIsInHereSomewhere]

This ep is going down in UTI history 😭 shoutout to fourthwall cuties who may or may not have allegedly probably perhaps knew 👀

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

🤭🤭

[@Offlineee_]

I KNEW ITTTTT ever since that Johnny Chang episode

[@luluala0628]

@@Offlineee_ which episode?

[@Offlineee_]

@@luluala0628 Ep. 80 At the end, Esther asked a relationship question and they all started laughing As well as a Lot of other little things the rest of the brain cells have commented on Example #1. 1:12:21 I kneewww ittt

[@rioaccount7446]

@@Offlineee_tell me por favor

[@robertvang1003]

The fact that they’re there for each other in the areas they might not be so strong in is the definition of love

[@MrAnnfrid]

I love how Viet is all dreamy about you guys he's such a romantic guy even though you wouldn't think he is. Sweet guy so happy for you ❤

[@Blueberrybaby09]

I could already guess it. If they were not in a serious relationship, it would have been weird for Esther to comfortably publicly and confidenly flirt and tease Jeremy on the podcast for that long. The girl knows her worth and value. He is for sure her man that's why she is always that comfortable

[@user-hv6yj8ce2i]

I need to see the videos where she flirts with Jeremy one more time. They’re so cute. When she said he’s the only one in her close friends list I was like boy she wants you 😂😂

[@vielian]

OKAY SO NOW WE NEED A PART 2 WHERE YOU GUYS ASK QUESTIONS ACTUALLY SUBMITTED BY THE AUDIENCE

[@eunminwootang]

I can tell Viet and Wootak were doing fake damage control whenever Esther flirted with Jeremy on the past podcasts. You guys are supportive friends!

[@rohanphillips2558]

Now I need to rewatch every episode to watch the real love story my hearts so happy for you guys

[@ambercaitlyn715]

not me going back on all the eps to try to spot Esther and Jeremy slipping 😂 this was such a funny and cute episode and happy for you two! Wishing you all the happiness going forward

[@thewonkysauces2002]

let me know which one it is, im trying to find it too lool

[@Sainte-adresse]

Lmao Viet slipped up like 4-5 episodes ago whichever episode Eddie is talking about moving back to New York. Esther asks Viet if he will live with Wootak and Viet said something like if his living situation doesn't work out "I'll just live in you guys' back house" lmao I'm like what would provoke him to say that? Jeremy and Esther must be living together for him to make that comment. So I'm not surprised they live together but I only came to that conclusion like less than 3 months ago

[@erinfennessy5332]

Wow… the fact that such a large chunk of a fan base kept this a secret from the internet is genuinely insane…. That’s gotta go down in internet history for sure

[@dafneandbanana]

No wonder Jeremy didn’t have a reaction to Esther’s baby cry… he’s already heard a million times!!!!!

[@user-pm6hm6qw7q]

Jeremy tryna not get in trouble with Esther is the cutest fr n Esther laughing in reaction 😂

[@jadengalloway6003]

Time ?

[@xojanessa5320]

THE MOMENT HAS FINALLY COME this episode needs to go in a museum 🙏🏼

[@Vondakay]

Something about seeing Viet and Wootak be the main interviewers is so funny to me I love them being on the main desk

[@rosiehg__]

37:06 @ Esther, don’t expect people to have the same exact morals as you because it will always end up hurting you. What you can do instead is ensure that you uphold your own morals, by doing this you’ll bring yourself the love/ joy etc that you think others aren’t providing for you! It will also help you to understand that people are unconsciously selfish in a non malicious way! By talking about it like this and setting boundaries/ expectations you will also have a deeper appreciation when someone follows through. Because being listened to is far more important and really shows how much someone cares about you, in my opinion.

[@909DGS]

I love how Viet is excited for them! He is smiling throughout the whole podcast 😊

[@rainecare]

Esther and Jeremy are so cute together!! Mommy Esther is so funny 😂 by far one of the best and sweetest episodes

[@luluala0628]

I appreciate them letting us know and giving us details about their relationship. Even tho some were very very exclusive and really nosy, I still appreciate them. I really want a relationship like theres

[@saraponce610]

i did notice jeremy starting to get more affectionate towards esther but i definitely didn't know they were dating 😭

[@kassideycheyenne]

I’ve been waiting on this episode since you guys told us on the bonus platform! Congrats guys so happy for you both ❤

[@Izeaha]

How long ago did they come out??

[@kassideycheyenne]

Just after new years!

[@IDCWNSSRCITBCE]

Once Jeremy said “drink that drink if you need to” in the hot seat episode that was all the clue I needed 😂

[@amari6675]

Fr he got real nervous🤣 plus they’re all whispering on the side what yall talking about please share with the group

[@suukyig5168]

FACTS!!!

[@bressannymontenegro9326]

Omg I was going to comment this same thing!!! I knew from that episode! They were so obvious lol

[@just_a_lil_lady]

EP ?? Pls

[@suukyig5168]

@@just_a_lil_lady it’s the Tahoe episode I think it’s titled “revealing everyone’s secrets”

[@aleytheog1720]

This video made me giggle like crazy, so happy for them. I´m happy that Esthers flirting rizzzz and confidence made this even happen. Ngl I replayed some parts of the video because it was so cute. I wish each person love like that. Let´s go 2024 🐉

[@anaismontoya7]

Esther was on fire on this episode 😂 she really read wootak for filth🙂‍↕️🙂‍↔️🤣

[@nuve9190]

😂

[@lunes5tar]

i knew they were dating! body language speaks volumes 💁🏻‍♀️ i’m so happy for you both!

[@appaleki]

the chemistry was always there, i’m here for it!!!!

[@bbma951]

Esther is such a professional 👏 she’s right the show must go on

[@alanromero7598]

literally i save episodes for the morning drive to work but had to watch rn. new favorite couple

[@nadiat777]

we definitely all knew lol we were just waiting patiently for the announcement. and i knew jeromy was gonna be the type to wanna wait some time before letting the fans know/confirming. i love them together

[@pockymonster613]

THIS EPISODE IS GOLD not even at 12th minute but already cracking up😭the passionate anger is FIRE dkfjjdjdjd

[@NatashasWonderland]

Viet is looking at them with so much love ❤😅

[@sydnaps1995]

This is so exciting bc we all KNEW we just been waiting for the tea to SPILL! ❤❤❤

[@_tiyan]

Been waiting for this since I started watching the pod, congratulations guys, so happy for y'all🎉❤

[@becca22]

I feel like I should’ve expected this but I’m still shocked it’s so cute 🫶

[@choisunpark5518]

Im so happy to see them together. They look perfect for each other and it’s so wholesome to see.

[@Drezelle]

Excited that you guys finally said it I think we've known for a while congratulations🎉❤

[@crystalevans2602]

I love this episode so much! It’s great the show respects the privacy of their relationship. Thank you for sharing!!

[@andreamurillo1309]

soooo happy for you two i could see the chemistry all along wishing you guys the best

[@AliyahSky3]

Definitely respect the boundaries,love that for the both of you, All the best guys.

[@d.casanova]

JESTHER CONFIRMED

[@janisma2638]

I remember seeing Jeremy hugging Esther from the back in one of Jason's (949 podcast) vlogs, and thinking if I saw that right or if Jason just outed them. Congrats to Jeremy and Esther for having the courage to share your relationship with us fans!

[@bellalee4206]

Do you know the video?

[@janisma2638]

@@bellalee4206 the vlog was for Jimmy's bday surprise on Jason's solo channel

[@missashleylon]

Okay there’s so many good things ab this podcast 🥺 I love that Esther takes accountability and isn’t afraid to admit to her mistakes. Jeromy is open to learning and changing as a man. Just continue to choose each other and you guys will get through anything. Jeromy is a good god fearing man and Esther is a queen 🥹🥹🥹

[@M00nChi1d91]

AAAAAAAHHH! so absolutely elated for you two!!!! Everyone just looks so happy I've never seen Viet smile so much in an episode lol I must join 4thwall because I would have known sooner! 😮😂 🖤

[@hvseok411]

I had an extremely strong feeling about this when I watched one of my first videos of you guys, I thought it was just me shipping too much but now it's real and I'm so happy for you guys ❤

[@slumptydumpty3058]

Usually save you guys for work days so i got something to listen to. Clicked so quick lmao

[@Kaizendriven21]

Jeremy and Esther together is a flex , keep that up !!! Single for 30 years is insane

[@alexandra-hf2zk]

oh honey we been knew but its cute how excited yall were to tell us!! i hope u guys are super happy together❤

[@zhoubenson5154]

Omg! I love this episode! Crazy, love this! 🫶🏻

[@sabb5829]

Omg I’m so happy for them and happy first anniversary 🎉

[@rebekawinston-ls7fw]

Bro 😮😮😮😮😮 I’m so happy for Esther and Jeremy 😊😊

[@Sarai888]

I love them together! So happy for them! ❤ I just pray ppl keep their unsolicited advice and comments to themselves lol I know ppl love to insert themselves they decided to share which is amazing but remember y’all don’t actually know them personally

[@Lily-dd5is]

Aww I’m so happy for you guys 😭

[@VikingPandawan]

This has been my favorite fake Stockholms syndrome plot twist, I was rooting for this outcome. Overall a wholesome episode, everyone was laughing, and smiling. Loved it. All the best, guys! Also, don't let Jeremy eat Toblerone unsupervised 😅

[@brandonle7225]

I'm really loving the structure of your podcasts! It flows so natrually. must be really fun making these :)

[@moriahwhite7312]

LITERALLY I HAVE BEEN WAITINGGG FOR THEM TO COME OUT AND SAY ITTT

[@chloegriffith6777]

Best episodeeee, I can’t say I knew but Esther helping with all Nectar stuff was a green flag to me. So happy for you guys 🥹🥹🩷

[@shanicethompson3196]

I definitely knew that there was something between them because there was this one ep where Jermey gives Esther gum.. but he looks at her with so much love and admiration I was like holy shit this man is whipped 🙏❤️

[@JeniferSanchez-hf1ft]

OMGGG THIS IS GREAT NEWS ❤ I’m so happy that they’re together. You guys are a beautiful couple

[@zoepark3163]

Omgggg i'm so happy for y'all🥺🥺🥺 now we're waiting for viet an woo to come out as well hahaha

[@teabeteabe3133]

THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE EP EVERRRRRR , THERE SO CUTEEEEEE OMG I CANT BELIVE THISSSS

[@KaylynRamones]

So happy for y’all! On the other hand, is it just me but Wootak looking good with the wild wavy hair 👀 it’s so volumptuous

[@maddythesimp7077]

OMG IM SO HAPPY IVE BEEN WAITING FOREVER FOE THISSSSS

[@jaylopez745]

I already knew these two had a thing, but I hope you guys will be happy!! 🥰💘

[@jleigh404]

Who is also not surprised 😂 a super cute couple! as someone who has dated people i worked with and to include business partners - it all depends on your maturity level. Circumstances beyond your control that change or shape relationships especially when you work together are inevitable, and breakups are also a possibility. I have no regrets ever having dated anyone i worked with, and we have either since went our separate ways or have had mutual professional agreements on how we worked together or behaved in each others presence.

[@kichiii_]

Best episode in a while! Lots of love from the uk!

[@meemeelipota]

I HAD A FEEELINGGGG, in the video with Sahar and Emely, Esther said something about some guy rejecting her, and Viet and Jeremy were talking on their side, and Jeremy was like "it's not me, I don't go to clubs" at like 52:00 mins. BUT WOW, keeping it lowkey for a year is impressive, nice job you two!

[@kinageez]

I just want to say as an OG loyal fan of JKNews I can totally see you guys carrying the next generation of content creators and also Jeremy+Esther being the next Bart+Geo haha UTI is the only other show I’ll listen to you guys are so raw and authentic and it’s refreshing to see I’m totally fangirling over Jesther rn 😭

[@elisamazzoni6622]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS

[@laurenbingbong8327]

Just wanna say thanks for sharing! I can imagine it’s scary to share this info with the internet. Y’all are cute as hell! I wish you both the best in your relationship ❤

[@AMBIKAKAMBANG]

So Happy for them 🧡🧡🧡🧡 This episode made me smile. Best wishes. 😊

[@samlah2319]

I don't remember when I watched it but that episode where Esther didn't want the other girl to date Jeremy for the game show or whatever. She was being dead serious and I could tell loool

[@Swantekk]

This makes soooo much sense now 😂

[@user-mf8js3gf2d]

I KNEW IT🎉🎉🎉🎉congrats though. Honestly happy for you guys

[@olyviachac6817]

Wootak and Viet couldn't WAIT to just tell the world. ESTHER and JEROMYYY FINALLY!!

[@dookypants]

ive been watching this ep for breakfast, lunch and dinner ever since it came out

[@restinkiss]

We all knew of course, but todays Wootak’s hair was perfect!

[@Nicolecediillo]

I knew it and I just love it 🌟🩷 I love to see my favs happy

[@notryanding]

Jeremy is SO flustered this episode lol

[@itsmalusinha]

I’M SO HAPPY FOR U GUYS 😭❤️‍🩹

[@angelx966]

so so so happy for you Esther and Jeremy y'all are meant for each other

[@JacquiCuff]

Careful with the 'gtfo of my house' stuff. My ex did that to me and eventually - you won't want to come back. It's hard stuff to be told constantly. But I can see she knows it's bad so all the best you two ❤ fun episode to watch 😊

[@KayKrazie]

I'm a new subber, and i already knew they were dating just by feels. Congratulations!!

[@oscarperalta9830]

OMGGG THE WAY I was like “they’re dating or they’re something” when he talked to you a certain way a few podcast ago maybe recent 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂proud of you two period 😍😍

[@RjSlash1990]

So came from a rabbit hole starting from a clip on insta with the JKNews collab to watching all of those videos and now this being my first UTI video, its giving hella whiplash with the whole jeremy/esther thing lol honestly though love y'all's and JKNews vibe. Now I'm locked in as fan of both, Wish y'all could do a monthly pod together too.

[@Mizzlezzlee]

Coming from JKNews and because I knew they were together before watching this episode as the first UTI episode, that’s so awesome!

[@gisselleforty8164]

I noticed certain things during the podcast but wasn’t for sure cuz I knew if it was for real,this day was gonna come,it was gonna come out eventually. But like when it was someone’s bday on the podcast and they were buying gifts together. That raised a flag. Also Esther would say things like “I told HIM this random fact about me” and I was like 🤔 why only him. And then also some of her “joke flirting” actually looked like it affected Jeremy. Like you could see it on his face and his body language. And rightfully so lol. But yeah just like Jeremy said had a good hunch but never truly knew. So happy for you guys. ❤️

[@KayKrazie]

Esther is such a sweet heart. I understand that Jeremy is super busy, but you can't neglect a woman and their food. PSA to all guys: give us food and we are a happy camper. That's all. It's the thought that matters. Use this and you'll probably never argue in your relationship.

[@Mindsetolympics]

I saw little “spirts” of their connection FOR SURE. Im happy they are together that makes me REALLY REALLY happy for them so cute 🥰 I’m obsessed with them being together and the cats finally out the bag! Jeremy is blessed ❤