WE WENT THROUGH BATELLE SLEEP SCHOOL! 😱

[@Iflie]

In the Netherlands kids sleep especially well and the routine is essential. Of course babies are more complicated but daily routines help children of all ages to be less stressed out. Here parents will leave parties to get the kids in bed at their (early) bedtimes. Kids brains are chaos enough and adding routine makes them feel like they can predict what's going to happen and reduces their stress. So for example breakfast , lunch, dinner is at the same time every day. If you have youngish kids it's probably at 5. And parents eat with the kids, that makes them see and try all the regular foods. Then because kids are sleeping earlier and longer morning isn't spend in a hurry with waking up kids because they had enough rest. Very important for when they have to go to school.

[@donnadiamusa7574]

We were new parents 40 years ago. Our daughter never slept in her own room from day 1 to age 10. Looking back now I think what started as needing comfort & security developed into a need for total possession of our room. As working parents we felt a secure happy child was preferable to the confrontation and a crying child. Yes, we were a total pushover & perhaps should not have given in, but in hindsight the years pass so fast and if I had to, I'd do it all again

[@Idontwant1]

We made that same error with our first baby. Either she slept laying on her Daddy’s chest. And then I could just reach over to grab her and feed her. Or she would sleep in the spot between us. And when she was 5 months old I was pregnant with our second baby. And we realized that we needed to break that habit as quick as possible. She cried and whined and it tough. Until I started showing. And the bed wasn’t as roomy and comfortable to her. And she would get out of our bed and go to her room with the little trundle bed. We worked on showing her the bed during nap time. And she would sleep in it for naps, then after her climbing out of bed and going to her room we just started putting her in her own bed at night. And so when our second baby came along we knew he was going into a bassinet or a playpen. And when he came home from the hospital our daughter thought that was her cue to come back to our bed. It literally took one night of us moving around to check on her brother and me getting up to feed him and she was over it. We had 6 kids in a matter of 5 years. 4 single baby’s and a set of twins last. And I had my tubes tied in the delivery room. All 6 of our kids are in their 30’s. The oldest is 36 and the twins are 31.

[@donnadiamusa7574]

@Idontwant1 Well done to you both!! And being blessed with 6 children ❤️ the best bonus👏

[@MrSmart-fc9dp]

Bless you both.

[@vuyanisibisi495]

I love Nari’s “Static electric hair “ and Dexter themed house 😍 This whole video was too darn cute!!

[@kattheartist978]

We had similar problems with our daughter and a swaddle helped a lot. We also had a 10 hour rain sound on all night - until she was 2 because she was always a bad sleeper. 😅 At 6 months old my kids usually got a bottle if they woke up at night and went back to sleep pretty easily. Before that I also just nursed them back to sleep. Also very good: no light at night or only a little bit of red light.

[@shouldsleepbutno]

What a journey! I'm so happy Nari has improved so much, y'all were elite

[@theweeniefamily]

What was your sleep journey like with your little one 👶😴?

[@BellaLovesWaltDisneyTron]

Oh my mum said ✨I NEVER WOKE UP✨

[@carinaraymond2]

I was letting my baby eat whenever and sleep whenever without a schedule and in my bed until he was 11 months and then he started waking up 11 times a night! I was dying so I found a book and started gentle cry it out (you only let them cry 3-5 mins at a time) and you teach them a day and night schedule that regulates their body and mind. He started to wake up SINGING instead of crying and he became so independent and so much happier in the daytime. It was the best day ever when he slept 10+ hours straight. My life was never the same. 😊

[@AlexEs63]

My son slept with me, was a single mom. When it came 'time' for his own room, he'd end up back in my bed. Tried the 'cry it out' method but couldn't - lol. Babies/kids cry and need you, I say hold, comfort, sleep as long as they need. ❤ But this method seems to be very like how we weaned eventually.

[@t090233]

My son sleeps in his own crib in our room. He can sleep throughout the night for 11-13 hours when he was 2 months and a half but he needs to be swaddle in his love to dream swaddle and he needs is bunny which plays smoothing sound/music where we got it off amazon. He is 15 weeks and 3 days today.

[@jennielynne87]

My son is now 13 months and we did the Ferber method at around 7 months it took 2 days he has slept through the night since.

[@Kasumistern]

Sleeping was always a bit of a struggle - especially when teething or ill. I remember many many sleepless nights. My son is 1.5 years now and his sleep got waaaay better at around 6 months and again better at the 1 year mark. And I know it sounds crazy, but I actually miss nursing him during the night. It was a special time just for the two of us. And it passes so quickly. He is growing up way to fast for me. These days there are other things keeping him up btw: tonight he was getting up again and again, because daddy is not home... Yeah that was not fun, but eventually I will miss this age too in a year or so. 😅

[@CaitlinM7]

My daughter was a comfort booby sleeper. She would wake around 7 times a night. It was so hard by about 7 months we had to change it up. My son was a toddler at the time and he was also a bad sleeper and really hard to get him to go to sleep. He has autism so no techniques helped with him but we muddled thru! My daughter we had help with our wonderful Dr (she is 16 now and where we lived there was no access to sleep schools!) she helped us (mostly me 😂) take her focus away from the breastfeeding as a comfort. It worked well and took us about a week before we saw progress but it took and we never looked back! So glad parents can have access to these type of programs without having to leave the house or stay at a facility where you go to train with your baby. There is hope and help out there Mum’s and Dad’s! 🤗💜

[@slavvalb3933]

The cutest family on social media, Weenie family 😍. Nari is the epitome of cuteness. Everything is gonna be 🆗 guys ❤️

[@theweeniefamily]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@maryg3143]

I didn't know there was such a thing as sleep school. I wish it had been around when my daughter was a baby. I am very glad this worked for you!

[@theweeniefamily]

we're glad it worked for us too😊🥳!!

[@ረቿሀዘልጎጌል]

1:31 It's in tune with music.

[@briankurangwa]

My dad pretends to go to sleep so the baby thinks that dad’s actually asleep and then the baby falls asleep within a few minutes

[@mlimrx]

Thank you so much Weenie family!! So needed there is a way out of this sleepless cycle. We have a 3.5 month old and yeah it's a bit tough.

[@theweeniefamily]

Yes!! We were pretty much only napping instead of having a full night sleep so we're very happy we found Batelle!

[@lakesiyalcofield2952]

She’s beautiful💞

[@mindysuarez1699]

She's so adorable ❤

[@MonicaNaomy]

SHES SO CUTE A!

[@aishahasan802]

4:22 Miss Mohawk hahaha😂😂

[@gsabo1000]

That baby is so cute. Looks like her dad! So,give her a passy

[@msstaypositiveallthetime7456]

Nari is a cutie and progressing through the process. You guys are good parents and she’s getting big.good luck good mom and dad. 😊😊❤❤❤ Great video. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@foreverbarbie9490]

I love her hair. ❤

[@annaolivarez2578]

Have no idea how in the world my daughter and husband, but they were extremely blessed that by the time my daughter went to work (ER nurse); their baby was almost weaned, and when I started taking care of the baby at the age of 3 months, it was a a matter of a couple of weeks of taking her off of “mommy juice”, and it was very regulated formula. It was a miracle for them! I pray that you and your husband continue to be good parents by figuring out together how to help, love and support Nari. She’s a beautiful baby, and before you know it you’ll be teaching her how to ride her first bicycle. : )

[@krlady4703]

Oh my goodness she is SO cute! Good job parents it’s amazing how good it feels to have a good nights sleep!

[@themindfulstrings]

I’m curious about this method, but at her age (and much later) waking up several times and nursing is normal…. It’s sad that it’s considered a problem. I will say my solution was cosleeping, no need to get up! And yes, cosleeping can be done safely!:)

[@SnailWhales]

I agree! My babies are all grown up and I am SO glad I coslept and gave them the closeness and attachment they needed for as long as they needed! It goes by so fast but the fruits of my labor are apparent in who they are now. Babyhood is soooo fleeting. I miss my little babies. 😊

[@janema5677]

I agree! My baby is like Nari, I donot worry about it and not a problem for me. I am strong mom too who would still be totally energetic during the day 😊. She is my second one and from what I learned from my first one this is normal and baby attached to mommy at night makes them a more confident happy secured toddlers

[@SnailWhales]

@@janema5677 Thank you for giving your babies what they need! They will be secure within themselves and make the world a better place! ❤️

[@petyrparker]

So true

[@mchhetri4993]

So true..... My baby is 2.5years old and we cosleep.. waking up is not a problem. This days goes so fast that we'll be missing this days later. I m happy that my baby sleeps with me. You know whatvit feels like when you finish all your work n come to sleep beside your baby, you feel so confident and best person in the world to see your baby sleeping so soundly

[@Beanx_xTheMcflurry]

Your daughter is so beautiful just like her mother

[@shubhamsharma9125]

In India small children sleep with their Mommy till they become five years old😅

[@kerryliam5456]

If your supply is fine and baby still wakes up every 2 hour at night to eat, you may want to see if baby has missed diagnosed tongue tie causing baby cannot drink effectively so she constantly need to wake up to feed. Sleep training won’t help if your baby is actually hungry and want to eat.

[@elizabethfusato8815]

According to a paediatrician Dr Penelope Leach Wakeful babies are actually intelligent little ones who are super aware of their surroundings. They need to be part of the action at all times

[@pacontheo]

She has daddy's hair ❤

[@lizzy2fine]

wow this was so inspiring i went to normal school

[@Brittoxo]

That’s Completely different wym 😂😂😂😂

[@lilly_akablackpinkstan9930]

NARI‘S THE CUTEST BABY EVER OMG

[@theweeniefamily]

the cutest 🥹🥰

[@aditi1005]

Who win the batlle for controlling the naughty Nari 😂😂

[@lourar.2800]

Just watching this to see Nari she is so cute ❤😊

[@randomppperson728]

I love her morning hair it looks so cute

[@theweeniefamily]

her static standing hair is so adorable 😂❤

[@randomppperson728]

@@theweeniefamily ikr 🥹

[@tammycornejo9155]

Children, they are amazing. 🎉

[@poorvachauhan]

I love you baby Nari ❤

[@michellefreedman9265]

I wish this had been around 25 years ago. I couldn’t do the cry it out thing.

[@wannabetrucker7475]

Dexter is such a good baby.

[@theweeniefamily]

hehe our first baby 🤣🐶

[@WaiferThyme]

WTG NARI!❤❤❤

[@eunicetamay6878]

I've missed you guys. 💞💞💞

[@theweeniefamily]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@xXYumeXx14]

Everything I know and have found out about babies is that babies need our security and don't need their own room until they are 1 year old. (Of course there are children who need more or less closeness to sleep.) Babies need to be close to their parents to be able to detach from them. Babies at that age cannot manipulate their parents. (They don't have the necessary brain maturity yet) So if they ask for milk or mom, even if it's an hour after feeding, it's because they need it. Teething, illness or developmental leaps can also demand closeness to the parents. I don't believe in sleep training because children learn this themselves at their own pace. For example, I couldn't let my child cry just to fit into a picture. And yes, when babies wake up so often, it's not easy and you can always find a way to optimize it. You should always think about the child's well-being. By the way, if you let babies cry for a long time and then they fall asleep, it has nothing to do with the fact that she has learned how to fall asleep, but has fallen asleep from exhaustion and thus only learns that she is on her own (basis for a disturbed attachment relationship) - just for general information PS. Yes, everyone should do it the way they see fit. I'm a mom and children's teacher and it just hits me when I see something like this and I wanted to express my emotions. Apart from that, I have nothing against the parents, I really like the channel. Love, peace and harmony :D

[@lshook9178]

I can’t watch it all too painful to remember. So 38 yrs ago I nursed my son & he woke up every 2-3 hours to nurse. My husband was not helpful & refused from day 1 to have him in our room. There was a special on 60 min about this & they said let your baby cry & learn to soothe themselves. By 9 months I was ready to try it & even though I cringed through the experience it worked. He would stay asleep for more hours. By 12 months I was just nursing a little at night. My babysitter(80 yrs old never had kids) said ok time for him to go to a cup. He never would take a pacifier(spit them out) & never took a bottle so no dental problems from drinking a bottle in bed to sleep. He did potty train & speak later than usual like over 2 1/2. The little girls at preschool were chatter boxes early. I actually bribed him with chewing gum to potty train as he would just stand there & go. It worked after 2 times. I did have to lay beside him to get to sleep for quite a while. He had night terrors too. My friend Joy had to Sleep on the floor at the door with her daughter Bailey. I wish you well. It is really hard to not sleep. She is such a beautiful baby. Eventually she will sleep. :)🥰🪷🙏

[@rachelduke1580]

This is so interesting!! I've never heard of this sleep school before and I've read up on a lot of different sleep training methods! 5 or 6 feeds a night! 🤯 I would have died! How did you survive 6 months?! I did the 12 hours by 12 weeks method and cried when I couldn't get my boy to drop his last feed around 14 weeks 😅 but he's been sleeping 12 hours for a while and it's the best

[@Milamiucha]

Omg... Nari is so cute! My daughter have the same issue, hahaha. She have 10 months now, and always need mama to sleep at night. I let her stay in my room, in a mattress next to my bed. It helps her to calm down, because she awakes, look for me, spot me there and sleep again.

[@THRUST-Rlteam]

😊 I love you guys y’all are the best I could watch you all day

[@theweeniefamily]

we love and appreciate u 🥹❤!!

[@czarnaowca8920]

My baby is almost 2 years old now and still eats a bottle every 1.5 h through out the night, like she used to eat my boob. I was able to teach her to sleep in her bed and off my boob when she was 8 months old and also she is able to fall asleep fast and on her own wuthout me swinging her, which i used to do a lot. But still she needs the bottle to sleep through the night and i don't feel like being able to survive all her crying to rich the goal of not feeding her in the night...i hope one of us will grow up and take that step soon;) good luck to all parents!

[@terrimoore3358]

How's your dog doing since his back surgery

[@theweeniefamily]

Dexter is doing well! He can walk on his own now 🥰

[@PercabethYessss]

@@theweeniefamilyawesome!

[@adg00189]

It’s very normal for babies to need comfort and look for their mom. Even if the sleep school you mentioned doesn’t support CIO, the baby was crying. We are a cosleeping family and we prefer happy babies that don’t need to cry for comfort from parents because we just give the comfort as they need it. Scattered sleep is not a problem, so although I understand for work next day you need to sleep but the first couple years are a bit difficult and kids do learn sleep skill eventually.

[@laimaravillon895]

i have also fomented a cosleeping family arrangement and though it is hard on the couple's life and intimacy (and I don't speak about actual sexual relationships, we're too tired for that, at least, I am: as the breastfeeding mother that I am...) but in the perspective of snuggling together and falling asleep in each other's arms... I miss that. But yeah: I prefer giving that up, than having a tentative of bringing that back, and have it interrupted it 7 times a night by a crying baby, feeling his anguish.. No. I prefer to sleep with my baby and thus he is always happy, and always comforted. This will make a long impact on his life-long health. And for us it's just a couple of years.

[@adg00189]

@@laimaravillon895 I totally agree about the intimacy part, its something you miss but when any attempt is going to be interrupted its more annoying to be even trying it . I'd rather find time when its possible when the kids aren't around in the first place ( daycare or something) :) . Cosleeping with the baby and not being pressured into using the crib thats sitting in the corner has probably given us the best sleep we experienced as parents. With the first one we tried getting baby to sleep in the crib and had to be up to comfort and bring baby back to our bed anyway. With the second baby, we just gave in and the crib is gathering dust and its all good!

[@laimaravillon895]

@@adg00189 beautiful! oh my god i love having a "friend" that's a mom. I hardly get anyone to speak about these issues that are not "issues", they're just the forms and extensions my life is taking (like the lava in a lamp?), and for one, in society there are not enough converstions about how mothering is hard (and boring!), as much as sometimes it is glorious, and grandiose. Thank you so much for answering. Yes. I just wonder: how did you get your older baby to sleep in his/her own bed in time? If you have a second baby, and the crib is gathering dust, the older one must be sleeping on his own? Lately, I had an injury (and before hand, I start coming ill with breast fatigue: my baby had stomatitis and thus he ate nothing, and passed from breastfeeding 3 or 4 times a day to: spending 10 hours clutched at my breasts, and he is big - almost 2 years old!-, so... i start having immense pain and discomfort, almost like postpartum breastfeeding pain, so we decided, with my husband, that I would sleep away from the baby, to stop the pressure of making more milk, to my lactatory glands.) So: I had an injury and I decided to sleep away from him and only breastfeed at night... It was useful to follow my intuition in doing that (REST), because thanks to that the illness receded, the discomfort and pain disappeared, and I am able to go on breastfeeding, whereas If I had pushed myself, maybe I would've gotten mastitis and had had to stop altogether, in something that is an incredible bond for us. What i was going to say (all of this is a prelude), is that my baby has been sleeping with my husband in another room and he is EXTRA cuddly to his father, extra dependant; wakes up if he hears him open the door or leave the bed: he really is a little teddy bear with his dad bear. So: even if it is not me giving him the comfort of co-sleeping, it is either of the two ! And as he is so keen in having our presence, I am curious about how will we (if ever!) convince him to sleep on his own! Or maybe when he's older he will crave an independent bed, but as from what I've heard, that only happens when you're like 5... And my husband is also exhausted, because even if he did not breastfeed (obviously) these past 2 years, he was woken up by our baby most of the nights... I know all of this is normal but couples don't talk about it, ever; never talk about the transformation the relation undergoes at the moment of becoming a parent and from then on. Big hugs

[@ladybugs20]

My baby is 2 weeks younger than Nari. And i fight with similar sleeping problem recently which is she wake up every 2-3hours and wants boobies. Day and night being more clingy than before. I got sleepless and so tired doing anything while carrying her. Husband won't help, instead he blame me when i put her down when i have to do household chores. He asked why do i let my baby whine a lot and noisy for over an hour without knowing the fact that i tried to find out why she was like that. Give this and that, do this and that but still couldn't comfort her. My wrist and arms hurts a lot.

[@monika-1315]

I really wish my 4mo baby would sleep 2-3h... I sleep in 45min chunks😢

[@alemayehukassgen644]

Girl ur husband is mean😢😢

[@ktslight1225]

I have anLG tv to the fireworks on it is so cool 📺🎇🎆

[@Swiftyforlife-gx7zh]

I feel like Nari and Zadie (Rebecca’s daughter) would be good friends when they grow up

[@poodlegirl56]

A heart beat teddy bear made all the difference for us. If the battery died he was wide awake. Eventually we found lulliby tape with heart beat in the back ground. The final step was james taylor greatest hits. We wore out 3 CDs. His wife says he still wakes up 2xs a night. Good luck. His brother thankfully could sleep through a marching band walking through his room. Still does.

[@chrisssanders1231]

I think you're on the right track, for sure, but if/when Nari wakes, I notice that your energy, voice volume, and intonation are peppy and stimulating. That signals "time to engage" rather than "time to sleep." If you must go in, don't talk at all. Soft, monotonous hum or soft shhh shhh shhh is enough. Give Nari enough time to re-self-settle before you even think about going in at all. If you want a nightlight, it should be away from the bed. White noise machine is good too. Also, use the same techniques for daytime sleeps as well. Good luck to you.

[@Chanuli-b5p]

nari is so x1000 darm cuteeee i cant foucus

[@Odiekins]

Give her a bottle instead so 1. Johnny can help and 2. You “train” her instead of her training you 😂

[@themindfulstrings]

That’s not how lactation works. If you don’t nurse or pump, the milk supply will go down.

[@Mishka7653]

Y’all are such amazing parents to Nari y’all’s videos are so much fun to watch ❤❤❤

[@romamorwall]

Look at Nari i just wanna give her a little kiss and a huggie❤

[@Strawberry_eater]

Early i love you jeenie❤

[@theweeniefamily]

love u🥰!!

[@Strawberry_eater]

@@theweeniefamily aa cant belive you replied!!

[@janeho4148]

Yay!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@paulabarnes3351]

Perhaps sleeping in a sleep sack or warmer pijamas would help. I always sleep better at a cozy temperature. Of course summer is a lighter blankets.

[@MotuzkoIP]

It is time to put her bed lower, she can pull up any time. It is better to be safe :)

[@pierh7685]

Did you do naps at the same time?

[@annatassi4035]

Please enjoy sleeping with her💚🙏💜😢

[@pamdavis8869]

DO THE TEMPLE TO NOSE FIBGER RUB SOFTLY

[@theweeniefamily]

haven't heard of this one before 😲!

[@yingyang1032]

My 6 month old woke up at 1:20 and didn’t go back to sleep until 3:40 last night 😢…..

[@mindysuarez1699]

My daughter had trouble sleeping and still does at 23 but she would fall asleep if you rubbed her belly button or her forehead

[@jonathanbradt57]

What night light do you have?

[@Brittoxo]

You can’t give up even tho she cries she will be fine she shouldn’t be eating in the night still

[@alikasaranghae]

They said when the baby hands are open they are Hungary if close hands they are full

[@leenam.4578]

Please look into infant massage/baby massage classes. The International Association of Infant Massage has certified instructors throughout the United States.

[@wenhanma4860]

i need sleep school because me scard at night

[@user-lg7es5gr3w]

This too shall pass....

[@111sconeful]

She's got you folks trained well.

[@jow.2450]

I went to ask about techniques and then I remembered: 1). Might not be right to share considering you paid for the course and there could be rules and 2). My kids are almost in college! 😂. Enjoy!

[@BellaLovesWaltDisneyTron]

Nari cutenes 💯✔️

[@laura897001]

What is dream feeding?

[@shawnahare4299]

Good luck

[@theweeniefamily]

thank you!!

[@TheSiehara]

I think the program has changed… I don’t see the camera option anymore

[@pavizhamantony7303]

Whose the one in the background other than Jennie, she sounds like Jessii!!

[@mgnapolis92]

How old is she now? Anyone know?

[@theweeniefamily]

Nari is 7 months old now 🥹🥰

[@mgnapolis92]

​@@theweeniefamilyAwwhh! Three months older than my daughter 😚😊

[@SathyaRajagopal-rb9ol]

someone except family being able to zoom in and check when baby's sleeping is creepy

[@wannabetrucker7475]

🎉🎉🎉 Nari

[@theweeniefamily]

😊❤🙌

[@vivalice8940]

How old was Nari when this was filmed? Man, I need all the help I can have to help my little one sleep! He's too young to sleep train right now but I can't wait for him to sleep through the night!

[@gigibrett622]

Batelle has programs for younger babies too ❤

[@theweeniefamily]

This was filmed recently, Nari is 7 months old!

[@alwayshopeful7587]

my baby started sleeping through the night at 2 months .i think it depends on how full the baby is and what he is taking.like babies taking formula sleep longer as mine did .i would feed him 30 ml extra before night started and i could get a solid 7 hr sleep sharp.his weight gain was going normal infact a bit over normal so the doc gave a positive for this routine.but i would feed him every 2 hrs during the day .😂

[@lilyrose5345]

Try giving her water with her bottle

[@aswathythayil6346]

😍😍🥰😍😍🥰✨✨🥰🥰✨

[@notthesame8991]

Jeanie Weaning ☺️😁

[@theweeniefamily]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@wenhanma4860]

and me 8

[@babyalivegamefidget5039]

Hi

[@perrydisecabin5947]

Do you think your 100% “ON” energy affects her trying to be “calm”

[@Islabrielle-ph4ol]

Omg.why little kid sleep alone

[@wannabetrucker7475]

interesting

[@pamdavis8869]

Finger

[@joyjeffcoat8711]

I nursed on demand

[@Mooncoffee07]

Fist

[@THRUST-Rlteam]

Nahhh

[@EveryThingIsFake-m7]

Leave nari alone. She didnt asked to be born.

[@Booker-ig6phT]

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