We Went Viral & They Hate Our Love.. Ep 5 | For Your Good Podcast

[@lexd9805]

Nobody hates your love. I think most people just felt so hurt for all the pain you endured that your husband willingly put you through. People were frustrated that you were putting up with so much during a vulnerable time in your life. I’ll keep praying for you sis that god sees you through. Blessings

[@zaehudson]

@@lexd9805 people can be upset without being disrespectful. Yes he made harmful choices that he has repented for not just to me, but also to God. People seem to skip past that because it’s better to be angry, hateful and bitter towards a couple who chose forgiveness and reconciliation. God is in our marriage and will continue to carry us. God’s plan was that my husband be saved and we begin our ministry to show others what our marriage to Christ looks like and what LOVE is. This is ministry and if what you speak will not produce the fruit of the spirit, it shouldn’t be spoken at all. God bless

[@alishabrown2126]

@@zaehudsonI’m very interested in learning what your husband has done and how he feels about being in a marriage after all that has happened. Would you be interested in having live?

[@tierratowne]

I don’t think people hate your love. It’s that so many women know the feelings in which you described and can’t imagine forgiving AND staying with a man who put you through such things. It’s your life and your man, so it’s only for you to be worried about. I just hope he treats you like the queen you are from here on out 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@viecariously]

I actually saw another KZbinr post a video judging you about your love story and what happened in your marriage. But i want you to know that for the people going through what you have gone through, your content and your testimony are so powerful. For anyone going through a season of separation and waiting, and no one else in your life has been on that journey - this content got us through some of the darkest and hardest times. Anytime God promises we something that feels impossible in your human understanding, we go looking for testimonies and people who have walked the same path. That’s how I found your channel. I’m sure it isn’t easy to open up about such a challenging season in your marriage, but I believe God wanted to use you to help others.

[@ccrandolph118]

Yes!! She has no idea how this helped me. God led me to her so that I could know it's possible.

[@TheSc1child]

A wise man once said “the people who are mad are not your target audience.” Keep on testifying! Happy Anniversary to you both! ❤🎉

[@sunflower7637]

I love the authenticity in this vid. I remember watching you years ago before youtube was the way it is now. I remember how much you prayed and interceded for your husband because God told you to. I remember how much you believed God and had faith in Him to restore your marriage. I remember you praying and believing in God and then seeing God doing it for you! I prayed for you and your spouse too. I remember seeing your husband in one of your videos. I was so happy! I praised God and this made me rejoice for you! To see how you believed and had faith and how God worked things out for you two is Amazing! I also remember seeing how loving and patient you were and still are with your husband. I could see that only God did this! I also remember seeing your journey and different testimonies about you trusting God no matter what. Now, to see the way your husband loves you, trusts God, encourages you, supports you, but also the way he trusts in you the way a husband should trust in his wife is such a Blessing from God!!!! I can't add to it, all I can say is God did this! That's the truth! God has brought the two of you so far for His Glory! I know this is the doing of God! God restored you and answered your prayers as a praying wife because you trusted in God! Also, your husband answered God and was receptive to the Holy Spirit and God is blessing you both because of this! Hallelujah! God is Faithful! 😊 Now that the internet has taken a turn, it's unfortunate to see the way people online discourage couples from praying and standing for their marriage. God hates divorce and if you can fight for it through prayer, why not? Just because others want to walk away doesn't mean you should! You have the right to pray for your marriage and let God do the rest. I'm glad you did because now you have a testimony! The people that are upset or are trying to turn your testimony into something that it's not don't understand God at all! They don't understand restoration or being obedient to God! They expect many relationships to end in separation all the time when this isn't what God wants at all! Sometimes God allows people to let go and sometimes He requires you to stay and reconcile! I wish people could understand this concept! In your case, God required you both to stay and He is proving why! You both are bringing Glory to God and helping so many other people in their own relationships and marriages. God restores human beings back to Him all the time and yes God also restores marriages! Nothing is impossible with God! You had the right to pray and intercede for your marriage and God will continue to bless you for doing this!

[@zaehudson]

@thelovelylife7451 please stop finding comments to tell us the word we already know. God wanted my husband saved and He has birthed a ministry through me. God is not upset with me forgiving my husband and not divorcing. Like I told you before, he forgave Paul, a murderer and reconciled him back to Christ and he became an apostle. My husband has repented and has been forgiven. Adultery is not the end and if a woman wants to divorce her husband because of adultery, she has every right too, however, that was not my story. Please don’t diminish what God has done in my marriage because of your own painful experience. God bless

[@sunflower7637]

@thelovelylife7451 God said because people of the hardness of peoples hearts, meaning because people don't want to forgive each other, in the case of adultery, they can get divorced if they choose to do so. This isn't mandatory. Many couples have stayed together and worked things out after adultery and different types of abuse because the people turned to God and allowed God to change them. When married couples choose to work out their marriage through prayer and fasting and doing necessary work that needs to be done, they have the right to stay together before God. It's not your place to tell women to leave their husbands or vice versa. God still hates divorce. This couple didn't give their testimony so people can judge them or tell them to separate, but this couple gave their testimony as proof that God can truly change the hearts of individuals and that God restores!

[@sunflower7637]

@thelovelylife7451 Honestly, I think you should stop! What you are doing is seriously wrong before God. Whatever happened previously in their marriage is between them and God. You're saying someone's husband needs work when he has already done the work and is still doing the work. Stop looking at this man based on past errors. He is clearly not who he was then and God has changed him. Furthermore, he was never a 100% terrible individual. Don't treat him like that and don't say things they never said. There were times when they both messed up. That's what I heard in the testimony! Also, the wife even said she made mistakes too and her husband forgave her also. You are just being so unkind to a man you don't even know! Women really need to stop encouraging separation when its not necessary. They both made changes through the Power of God! This testimony wasn't given so you can pick and choose different things you hear them say and run with it! Listen to the whole testimony! They are human beings like everyone else. Everyone needs the help of the Holy Spirit daily, and everyone needs to do the work that comes with the help they need too! Please don't point fingers at this couple. Don't tell a woman to leave her husband when she has no need to! God has done marvelous things through this couple and He will continue to do so in the Name of Jesus. Their testimony has been a blessing in the lives of so many and regardless of how many people don't understand this, nothing can change what God has done! Divorce is so high in America! Unfortunately, people divorce instead of going to God, doing the work they need to do individually and collectively, and they just call it quits. God is Able! God created marriage, so He knows how to fix it too! This couple has a right to be together. I really hope God opens your eyes so you can see that what you are doing isn't right. You should never encourage divorce, especially when that's not what God is saying to do. This couple is restored by God and is testifying about it and some of you are just saying, but what about before. Let this couple live in the Present and in the joy that God has given them in their marriage now!

[@zaehudson]

You cannot stop people from sharing a testimony because others may not have the discernment and knowledge to seek God about their own situations. It is our duty as children of Christ to seek Him first. That is our individual responsibility and it’s unfair to push that onto others. God restored and he redeemed and He wanted me to share that. We are not Christ, but the Bible tells us to BE like Christ and have the mind of Christ.

[@sunflower7637]

@thelovelylife7451 I'm sorry that you went through a tough situation and I hope that God continues to heal your heart. What women need to try their best not to do, is to not project their hurt, their pain, and their experiences on other couples or on other women. It's good to be objective. When you meet a man that messed up in any capacity and that God has now restored, see him for who he is as an individual, but don't look at him and see the man that unfortunately didn't treat you with respect. He is not that man. He is a completely different human being. This man isn't that man. As much as people don't like to hear it and think it's an excuse women make, the truth is that men are heavily under attack by the devil and society. God placed the wives as their helpmeet. The enemy brings problems and distractions to turn men's hearts away from God and their family so that they never fulfill the purpose God has for them in life. The fact that this man turned back to God along with his wife who went to God in prayer for God to work on her too, shows that God restores and God reconciles. As I previously mentioned in another post, we have to remember that while God might tell one person to let go based on the fact that one is refusing to change and submit to God, He can also tell another to stay because He knows change is taking place in the heart and that the individual is allowing Christ to work on them. Only God can be the judge of this! Please remember that the wife also said she would act in ways she shouldn't have either. God forgave them and they also forgave each other. No one should take issue with God restoring them or with the fact that God is preserving their lives and marriages because it is all for the Glory of God! God heard this woman's prayers and He is doing great things for this couple for His Glory, the body of Christ, and for the community. God has brought her husband from such a long way. You just heard maybe one video, but I have been listening to their videos for years. I have seen what God has done in their lives. Also, the wife didn't stay only because God hates divorce but because she knew and trusted in what God could do and in His promises to her! And God has done it, and He is still doing it! This is a reason to praise God! People cannot expect them to live in fear. They know God now. They know how to turn to God, and lean on Him and pray and fast. They know how to communicate better with each other now. Change has taken place because of the Power of God and the Power of prayer! God has restored them and they have the right to stay together! The marriage they used to have is not what they have now! Things have changed for the better by the grace of God! This is a reason to praise God! I don't think this is a bad example to young women. I think that if anything, it's a great example to women because it teaches women to seek God in prayer and to do what He tells you to do! In this case, God told this woman to intercede and remain in prayer for her husband and God turned things around! Hallelujah! None of us should be pointing to any mistake either of them made previously. They are a living testimony for the Glory of God! I pray that God will help you understand that God has the final say and whatever God tells couples to do, is exactly what they should be doing, even if everyone else doesn't understand.

[@lisamarieanthony8116]

Your testimony helped me personally. I would binge your. Videos for hope while me and my husband were separated. It was mutual infidelity in our situation. But God. People forgot that we all need forgiveness from God. So I just want to thank you for sharing your. It encouraged me to hang in there when it seemed impossible. Not everyone will understand your story or agree, but to God be the glory because you helped a lot of people. Donnie is a new creation and like Paul said” He has wronged no man” walk out that forgiveness, cause God sees the heart. Pray for the nay sayers.

[@labellegene7971]

There is no need to explain anything to us. You made your choice to stay That is your right. What matters is if there are genuine changes from the both of you and does he truly understand the pain that he put you through, but that’s honestly between y’all. God bless and good luck.

[@lashawnbailey2717]

God Bless your Union Happy anniversary To you Both Love love your Testimonies May God continue to Bless you with Many more Years Keep God First in the middle and the End💙🤗🙌

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

I thank God i found you guys for me and my wife

[@TheeFireOfGod]

Y’all have a beautiful story and I’m grateful for all that God has, is and will do in you both, for you, through you and surrounding you! It’s easy to see why God put y’all together and why no one else was qualified ! 💝

[@tameekasmith321]

Zae, I know that I posted already but I have to say this. We live in a fallen world and situations happen in marriage. God already knew when He gave us His Word on marriage. He always wants us to reconcile with our spouse. People always push about divorce when God hates it. Once you do what God hates then what??? They fall right into adultery. If our covenant spouse is alive we are to remain alone or reconcile. Separation is a time for God to do His Work on people. Cover your marriage and your husband with the blood of Jesus from every word curse. Your marriage is proof that God's Word is true! Resist the devil and he must flee! Enjoy your husband and your anniversary. God bless you and your husband in Jesus Name!

[@zaehudson]

@@tameekasmith321 thank you so much sis, you are so right. God bless you!

[@glintgirl4545]

This is biblical truth but God gave us free will to choose and that’s the issue with her message she’s making it seem lil she didn’t make the choose to stay of her own free will. We as women of God have to start taking accountability for the choices we make. God already laid out 2 options she choose to willingly stay and deal with this type of abuse and mistreatment, her testimony should have reflected her own personal choices which God has given all of us.

[@tameekasmith321]

@@glintgirl4545 Yes. God has given us free will and we choose to follow what His Word says instead of following the flesh. God says for us to be alone or reconcile. He hates divorce. God is not a man He is the creator. In His Word He says we are to love what He loves and hate what He hates. What confuses me is why are people caring about her and her husband's covenant that they are responsible for. While we live we have free will but when we die it's a different deal. Everything that we did in our body on earth we must account for. It's heaven or hell I don't know about you but I am choosing eternal life. It's Zae's choice. God has blessed her marriage and her husband is saved .

[@iiceeglam]

God bless y’all. Truly. Most of all God bless you Zae cause yea.

[@hardy1995]

Happy 8th Anniversary, Mr. & Mrs. Hudson. May God continue to bless your marriage and family.

[@Johannenoel-ku3gn]

Going to it right those conversations really help me

[@sunflower7637]

Happy Anniversary!!! 🎉 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 May God continue to Bless you both!!!!

[@winnieowens1688]

Congrats on the 8 yr anniversary to this beautiful couple. It takes a special kind of person/or special kind of couple to be raw and vulnerable for the world to see; with the end goal resulting in helping married couples. To God be the glory.

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

My eyes run of water because i miss my marriage this way

[@tameekasmith321]

Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Haaappy Anniversary Pour a cheerful toast and fill it Happy Anniversary But be careful you don't spill it Happy Anniversary Ooooo Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Haaappy Anniversary Happy she and happy he They're both as happy as can be Celebrating merrily their happy anniversary Ooooo Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Haaappy Anniversary We now state emphatically its happy anniversary Not another day could be a happy anniversary Ooooo Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Happy Anniversary Happy (slow) Happy (slow) Happy, happy, happy, happy, happy, happy, happy, happy (fast) Anniversary!!! Flintstones style! God bless!

[@ThereIsHopeWithGod]

Congratulations! Yeshua continue to be with you both 🤍🕊️

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

Happy Anniversary!!!!

[@FeeButterfly1]

Most don’t fall on the Lords word as true, when He says vengeance is His…that is exactly what He means. The world teaches us to take matters into our own hands and ‘match energy’, and that leads to the projected hurt that you’re receiving in the comments. Any seed that is planted breeds itself, so as long as those individuals continue to bite into that same rotten fruit they will continue to be rotten (figure of speech). I will pray for your strength and for those who are here being inspired to fight for their marriage. It’s not an easy task but we all are called in different ways and being obedient is yours, it’s ours. 🤍🤍