We were too young to understand this about love | varynix

[@roukilouis9133]

What happen when you don't feel loved and you are isolated and always have to do everything to get people around you but they never do the same for you

[@Varynix]

@@roukilouis9133 the truth is, we don't want those kinds of people in our lives. The right people will get in your life when you start to better yourself and your lifestyle. It's OKAY to not feel loved and feel Isolated. Being "Exceptional" by definition means that you are the "exception". Every man will go through this atleast once in his lifetime. You don't have to do something to get people around you, just focus on your goals and get better everyday. You'll see changes in the relationships and the type of people that enter your life then. Just learn to let go of those fake people and don't do something to get people around you if it doesn't benefit your goals in any way.

[@Tomipolus]

Are you okay?

[@DerLebendige]

‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’[a] or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” Revelation 21:4 - I found my footing in it. - Good Bless you brother.

[@e.o752]

@@Varynixpay attention to the people that pay attention to you

[@roukilouis9133]

@@e.o752 end up alone and not talking to nobody because nobody talks to stranger for no reason

[@snowball9392]

Benson is actually the boss we would all want at work. He is only tough on employees who don't do their work but even then he still shows that he cares for his employees and is willing to protect them.

[@SlackerXYZ]

Literally, after growing up and re watching it as a career man with kids, Benson is a top notch boss

[@snowball9392]

@SlackerXYZ Yeah he is. As long as you did the work he was real cool and chill. He treated them to karaoke night, hanged out with his employees, was giving advice to his employees, etc.

[@shierawesome]

He literally didn’t give af when rigby died from the eggs

[@Boulderpuncher98]

​@@shierawesome That was early on in like season one when none of the characters had character development yet. During that time Benson didn't grow to like Mordecai and Rigby yet because they blew up the park damn near every episode. But later on he grew to respect them and even consider them friends. The first couple seasons are just filled with wacky nonsense (still good episodes) but the later seasons are when the characters start to shine and there is an actual plot to follow.

[@aceofspadesguy4913]

He definitely got a bit of a makeover as the show went on, at the start he was just a jerk, but by the end he was one of the best characters.

[@jeremyearthwalker7134]

“ Through rose-colored glasses, red flags look like regular flags”. That’s awesome! And it hurts

[@gamerek9546]

Opportunities fly by fast Grab the bull by the horns while the bull is still there

[@Chad-bc9vi]

​@gamerek9546 ...yeah no chance I'd go near that bull

[@Poussyeater-w5e]

That's why falling in love (as exciting and amazing as it may be) makes one stupid

[@Snow-Bandits]

I have never known true love... so I may not ever know how this feels like

[@Luke-v2r1x]

I have only ever known true love from Christ every person I've ever met on earth is conditional but GODs love is the only true love.​@@Snow-Bandits

[@Poussyeater-w5e]

"You have no right to feel sad, you didn't have the guts to tell her how you feel" damn that hit hard.

[@chibiprussia5574]

Peter: I dont want to hurt people's feelings Also Peter: _abuses meg on a daily basis_

[@Corrupted_Quagmire2023]

Yeah but Meg Loves That Well Only In That One Episode It Was Just Temporary

[@TheBrilliantBrick]

I find it so funny people making it seem like that was genuinely a serious and inspiring moment of family. It’s literally just a plane trains and automobiles reference. Word for word lol.

[@TheBrilliantBrick]

@tjdmt297 still funny imo but it’s just kinda sad that people don’t get the reference and assume the shows actually trying to be serious.

[@heartpaid6767]

Meg isnt human so checks out

[@ApolloDegraff-pi6sg]

Man can’t anyone take just one vid seriously? I feel like I always gotta find someone trying to make a joke when it’s trying to show something and it just makes everything feel like some sort of joke

[@BlitzenSpeaks]

Peter's words at the beginning are a line from the movie "Planes, Trains and automobiles". John Candy says it to Steve Martin's Character. It's an excellent movie! Worth watching, if you haven't seen it yet.

[@Hellenkellersunglasses]

Candy he’s so dandy

[@poxpox1334]

That's what brought me here, this is a surprising crossover!

[@NS-wk6lm]

Im glad someone else knew del's line!

[@MrRickstopher]

It’s a much more powerful delivery from John, there was none other like him.

[@atharvakurai2805]

'A true hero is not measured by the size of his strength but size of his heart.' True words but comforting half knowledge.

[@awsome2awsome]

Everyone is just one bad day from snapping, once you know that fact you try to smile through your own bs and make those around you feel better. The saddest people usually are scene as the happiest, but they know what despair and heartbreak is all to well.

[@NeonIridescence]

If you haven't much to spare, you can always spare kindness

[@Splunkmastah]

As someone who’s on both sides of that conversation, The Bojack one hits hard.

[@borednekoguy]

"you didn't know me, you fell in love with me, and then you knew me" is the unfortunate part of my love life, it's why I won't let anyone get close to me like that anymore and it's slowly killing me

[@elturko58]

I'm in the exact same situation, and it's been ten years now. Rejected so many girls because of this. Even the ones I really had good vibes with coz I was afraid of getting hurt again. It's time to get myself out of this shit but it's easier said than done.

[@AKMotions]

Fix yourself. Become a better person so that will never happen again. If you wouldn't date you. You can enter a toxic relationship thinking "I can fix her/him" but you can't. However you can fix yourself.

[@matthewwind7419]

Peters speech at the beginning is a tribute to planes trains and automobiles john candy

[@romans5875]

Yeah we’re getting old, most youngsters wouldn’t know that

[@noscartrujillo8477]

I just want yo share with you that 1 year I couldn't pay my bills and my wife was pregnant of my second son, and now I got promoted to be chief of my engineer area, when the owner of the company said it to me my eyes got moist. I never stop studying, I did even when i was crying thinking in what else to sell for keep everything going.

[@Varynix]

@@noscartrujillo8477 🤝

[@lukestam]

You did something really great. Getting through hardships like yours gives courage to others

[@mishizama6306]

"I like me... My kids like me... My friends like me..." Holy shit.. my heart actually skipped a beat at that one. I should try to remind myself more that even if i don't value myself as much as i should, i still have a partner, a family and friends who do care deeply about me 😢

[@user-pi3hd2bt3f]

Too bad its not true. His daughter hates him because he treats her like crap, his youngest son doesn't respect him at all. Chris is the only one who actually likes him

[@gregordoherty4015]

@@user-pi3hd2bt3fthe actual quote is from a movie called planes trains and automobiles which does apply in that

[@devanshvajpeyee8440]

Practically, its not 100% true. Your family and friends will still like you if you're good to them, but you can't say this sentence to a person you genuinely treated like sh*t.

[@CaptainWwowW]

Planes Trains and Automobiles speech

[@itszia10]

1:46 True words!!

[@GutterCatMedia]

Hate to break it to you but it’s from a movie… “Planes,Trains, and Automobiles”

[@itszia10]

​@GutterCatMedia ik dat. Wt I meant was dat it's actually real, dat wt she said was true

[@GutterCatMedia]

@@itszia10 wth I didn’t reply to you lol. I replied to the family guy comment but the more I know. I didn’t know that was direct quote tho

[@itszia10]

@GutterCatMedia idgi.......but leave it, wtever

[@Chad-bc9vi]

​@@GutterCatMedia yeah sometimes that happens, weird

[@FistNoob]

'oh yes the past can hurt but the way i see it you can either run from it or learn from it' is so true man

[@terrymacd2310]

"Same thing that always happens. You didn't know me, then you fell in love with me, and now you know me." ...ouch...

[@Lacaprandroso]

Rafikhi's a gineis. The way he hit Simba the first time and knew he wouldn't fall for that again. And we were all watching like," Of course he'll dodge on the second time! That's common sense!" And that was the whole point. Mind blowing...

[@ThaKingGoatNathaniel]

That Fox spoke to my Soul.

[@brandonrogers5207]

I needed bojack at a low time of my life. The philosophies and themes included helped me better myself and evolve me where I needed to be.

[@barbralee7842]

I like the first one

[@romans5875]

It’s from an old hilarious movie called Planes, trains, and automobiles starring John Candy and Steve Martin

[@MortSalazar]

I'd argue that when we're younger we understand raw love much better on instinct Older we get it not only gets harder to understand but also harder to express With all the extra nuances, we convince ourselves love has

[@Mono_Autophobic]

When I was a kid I used to see characters supress their feelings or information and I was like "Just say it bruh why your hiding" Now I am in place of those characters

[@wondercatvideos3191]

Your capacity for love hasn't diminished; your accumulated memory of pain has increased. Guarded you're limited to the pain you will experience and limited to the depths of love. Safe, content, but never truly happy or free. No advice to offer; only insight born of shared experience. Hope that which lies ahead is better than what you left behind.

[@HelloThere734]

I’ve been thinking about some bad stuff that happened to me lately, had no idea how much I needed this video until I saw this. Thank you for posting this.

[@Nagakon]

This is what really irked me with the most recent Lion King adaptation. Rafiki's lesson on facing your past mistakes and learning from them is the BACKBONE of the message in the film. Simba has to learn to feel proud of who he is while also taking accountability for the wrong choices that brought him there in the first place. All of that was erased from the newer version. That's when I knew this "newer" version lacked a soul. Pointless to look more real if it doesn't feel real.

[@RickyUzumaki993]

Agreed

[@gorakamultiude9361]

Honestly thought provoking....

[@Art0r1aS-zp3wh]

Love hurts whether you want to except it or not. It's just sometimes a person is worth those sacrifices,that's all.

[@johnfarlio1830]

The first clip was based off the quote from John Candy's character in the excellent movie "Planes, Trains, and Automobiles". That version was much more impactful with John's acting, who looked like he was on the verge of crying.

[@m7trf07]

Peter scene had me in tears. Man it is an honor to be you. Even when they try to push you through to be the devil which you sure can but your self respect is too high. I am not changing. Even in the storms you throw at me.

[@Mono_Autophobic]

When I was a kid I used to see characters supress their feelings or information and I was like "Just say it bruh why your hiding" Now I am in place of those characters

[@lamanifaudelhani4286]

0:11 bro I can't stop 😂😂😂

[@tavishfinnegandegroot3513]

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[@lamanifaudelhani4286]

@tavishfinnegandegroot3513 did you watch family guy ? Peter is a bully , he is a bullying his own kids and daughter

[@tavishfinnegandegroot3513]

@ oh

[@lordblanck7923]

There is no real peter. They keep changing the character for a gag​@@lamanifaudelhani4286

[@Maverick-u5m]

​@@lamanifaudelhani4286 taking his character in consideration, the words actually fit what he said

[@mohamedalidjerroud9921]

Being a man is not na easy path. Every thing seems against you. Once you understand no one will give a fuck about you and work toward your dream and what you like, you will become unstoppable and every thing will work out itself. Some challenge will arise that you can t overcome, but we don t value a man for his worth, we value a man from where he began and where he will end...

[@winterronin4778]

1:01 I'm sorry but no, no it's far too late for that... (thunder) HAHAHA! you know it's funny... this reminds me of a joke

[@DILLPICKLEZZ23]

Two men were in a mental hospital and one day the decided they didn't like it there!

[@winterronin4778]

@DILLPICKLEZZ23 So they decided to escape so, they made it up to the roof and there just across this narrow gap they see rooftops stretching across town stretching to freedom.

[@DraidtheSpacePirate]

That family guy clip in the beginning is a quote from the amazing Thanksgiving movie called "Trains Planes and Automobiles " My partner and I watch it almost every year, and I highly, HIGHLY recommend it.

[@huypham-wy2pn]

You didn't know me but you fell in love with me. Now you know me ❤

[@abrarahmad6370]

hurts

[@patrickcarter7116]

That fox about got me 😢

[@hishamabdullah4178]

everyone: words can strike a persons heart rafiki: what if i strike the head

[@austinconnor3611]

Peter is quoting Planes Trains and Automobiles and people thinking he’s not trolling is hilarious 😂

[@jakethedog2934]

When I saw the monkey hitting simba when unless little, I was mad and thought what an a hole he is pretty much... Now that I'm older i understand. Kinda miss the ignorance of being a kid ngl

[@wade_i_think]

That first one really hit me.

[@freecoder522]

Peter hits different 😢

[@sora543]

Peter speech is actually from a movie plans,trains and automobiles

[@ButtersWithALoadedGun]

ALL MEN NEED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO!

[@jackdejarnatt5698]

Life is nothing but just pain and suffering. It's k I nearly hard to feel happy 😞. I'm kinda feeling depressed

[@aaronking8034]

Life is very hard. You have been proud of yourself for how far you’ve and how long you have endured the pain. Stay proud. Failure is the greatest teacher. Learn to forgive yourself and start over.

[@thetalkingpotato8046]

I HATE HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE NO IDEA WHERE THE FIRST ONE ACTUALLY COMES FROM

[@bacht4799]

Its no use to be mad about.. believe me people knows what they know.. they have a regular life to look forward at and its mostly currently mainstream media they know or if they know something from the past it either because its still very popular or nostalgia reasons.. and I get it you just gets so frustrated because you have knowledge about something and people you tell it to doesn’t care because it’s about what they likes about it and not what it is or something like that…!

[@MatthewSmith-i9y]

That show is milked trash

[@raze2012_]

IIRC this is earlier family guy and that era is full of 80's references. Despite being adult animation it appealed to a lot of teenage Millenials. Who clearly wouldn't get most of those references. 😅

[@williampittam1]

Peter quoting planes trains and automobiles is funny

[@ShadowKrueger]

That beginning quote is from Planes Trains and Automobiles

[@absolutemystery372]

it's honestly surprising for family guy of all things to have good writing for once.

[@GutterCatMedia]

@@absolutemystery372 Hate to break it to you but it’s from a movie… “Planes,Trains, and Automobiles”

[@absolutemystery372]

@@GutterCatMedia still the first clip of peter is still a family guy thing, it's like i said it's surprising that that show has any good writing at all, i'm pretty sure it use to but now a days... it's nothing but trash now a days.

[@GutterCatMedia]

@@absolutemystery372 Got you. I agree, they had more freedom the first 2 seasons then cancelled then changed a bit then changed one more time. Some of the latest stuff got better I think.

[@jellybingey2850]

@@absolutemystery372but it’s not a family guy thing. Every line of dialogue of that scene wasn’t written at all from family guy

[@breeeegs]

What are you talking about? It's literally quoting Planes Trains and Automobiles word for word. John Hughes deserves the credit here. Seth McFarlane is a plagiarist hack.

[@CarlyVendetta-k7p]

Peter said that after Lois berated him for basically not being responsible. Or competent. Also Peter stole that from a movie.

[@Scoonertuna]

Peter literally stole the whole line from John Candy from Planes, Trains and Automobiles

[@md.tanjilurrahman5949]

Thank you for making this great video ❤

[@Aven-Sharma1991]

Peter: I don’t like to hurt people’s feelings Also Peter: Shut up Meg

[@An20088]

The hardest parts of life are the best.

[@Mono_Autophobic]

One thing I learnt is you don't get more people to love you as time goes, you just learn how to live alone

[@thehopelesspragmatic6701]

The whole speech Peter is actually a quote from John Candy from "Trains, Planes, and Automobiles".

[@insertrandomvideohere]

benson was never a bad boss, he only got mad when mordecai and rigby slacked off.

[@pain17ification_Ray_Smith]

What is the animation at 2:26??

[@Julissa-j1f]

The boy, the mole, the Fox and the horse

[@jimjaspers2602]

Nice I was wondering the same thing Thanks

[@raze2012_]

​@@Julissa-j1f huh, what a literal name. Thanks!

[@Hungyball_]

We got family guy edits before gta6

[@BurningSorrows]

Man these edits hit real like fr tho

[@mochileirodasgalaxias3495]

Peter yapping, but the next ep is: "i farted on meg's homework"

[@garfieldroscharch]

The algorithm always knows what I need 😔

[@SKRTdeev0]

1:50 is something everyone should think deeply about

[@illstoptheworldandmeltthew6098]

Peter's speech is word 4 word John Candy's in Planes, Trains, and Automobiles

[@Boulderpuncher98]

Even at my lois, I'm still a family guy.

[@souhaibhouari5627]

wooooooooow

[@Lifeislimited-m6o]

What’s the backround music at the start

[@Kiudster]

you know what is the worst ? i am smart... too smart... my knowledge and self concousnes crushes me... i haven't been happy since i was idk 11 ? it doesn't matter... knowledge is more of a curse... the more you know the more you realise how evrything is mesed up and the more you realize how much you can acualy do... and by "how much" i ment nothing at all... all i can do is wach... sit, and wach... there is no purpouse of my existance... i am just a number consuming goods... only to grew up an produce the same goods... just to make cycle go forward... right now i have no energy, no motivation, no love, no satisfaction... i just wanted to say to all of you: knowledge is a trap, a curse that you once fall for, you can't escape anymore...

[@slothguy5946]

0:15 yes you do 0:23 nope, especially poor Meg

[@DDRhappiness17]

3:10 Sora learned that from Herc too...

[@shanespence3084]

I really thought this was ai Peter Griffin and Batman sorting through some marital disagreement lmao

[@godofevil9468]

… you ever realise how utterly pathetic it is that we can’t be truly happy forever if we’re alone? That we are biologically miserable if we don’t have someone to leach from? It’s utterly mortifying to me that we can’t just live our lives and feel fulfilled and happy unless we have someone to share it with.

[@Varynix]

@@godofevil9468 yeah but it varies from person to person, some guys don't have anyone (family, friends, relationships, etc) but they are not depressed at all,instead they are happily living their life at all times. It all depends on our perspective on how to view those situations. These guys are just true to themselves, focusing on self improvement and never bothers to prove anything to anyone, as they are constantly focusing on bettering themselves. This gives them a fulfillment and happiness that they are better than most of the people nowadays and having some loser as their friend doesn't matter to them at all. They can be happy and feel fulfilled by themselves . So, yeah it does depend on the perspective on how to view these things.

[@heroes-of-balkan]

Bold of you putting Peter Griffin in this video, but the rest are good choices

[@Varynix]

@@heroes-of-balkan 😄

[@unwise_TW]

Bruh the family guy clip is just a quote from planes trains and automobiles

[@gilbertotabares8196]

This compilation lost all poignancy the second you used Peter Griffin. That wasn't even his quote, he got that from John Candy in Planes Trains and Automobiles.

[@Black_Ridden_Angel]

I’m pretty sure he used it not because of the context but of the meaning.

[@TwinBladeGlacier]

Id rather the peter one referencing Planes Trains And Automobiles to actually have been the Planes Trains And Automobiles clip instead of the family guy reference

[@philjenius]

RIP John Candy the origin of that first line. Please give credit to the deceased.

[@special2747]

what is name of this music ?? BTW this video is very good

[@Varynix]

@@special2747 ace savage - scheming...for your ease, its mentioned in the description bro

[@cicatrene99]

@@VarynixWhat film is the one at 2:25?

[@MegaSpideyman]

​@@cicatrene99 The Boy, The Mole, The Fox and The Horse.

[@catsndogs98]

Peter griffin being real.

[@JackieDaytona1]

That's not even something written for family guy. It's from a movie called Planes, Trains, And Automobiles.

[@CaptainKotetsu]

Should’ve just used the John Candy clip they were referencing for the first one.

[@JohanusMaximus]

😂fking Peter griffin giving me the chills.

[@sesuthefox5436]

0:00 family guy used this reference from an old movie, idk if you knew that

[@Aflay1]

Peter took that line from Planes, Trains, and Automobiles. I still haven't seen that movie. I think about that scene a lot, though. I think about how I was exposed to that amazing moment through Family Guy, but I also think about how Family Guy pretty much ripped off this scene. It's a great homage, sure, and many found out about Planes, Trains, and Automobiles from it, but how many didn't? How many think Family Guy came up with this quote because they never explain it? And what does that say about me? I'm not cultured. I get all of my culture from Family Guy references? What kind of pathetic person does that? But that's what I am. I didn't ask to be exposed to more Family Guy growing up, but that's what happened. This is my culture. I can feel sorry for myself about it, or I can take a lesson from John Candy and just not care what people think for once in my life. Just be happy. Be happy and proud, by God. Your video is flawed. But that's okay man. I was gonna make this comment to correct you, but the world has too many comments like that. Too many people trying to fix every little issue. And for what? Let people call this a Family Guy reference. Who cares?

[@Treasure_Tshabalala]

Which batman movie is that?

[@Varynix]

@@Treasure_Tshabalala batman: the killing joke

[@VanxxMindset]

Hi Varynix, I absolutely love your content and the way you present motivational ideas! I had a quick question about the cartoon clips used in your videos. Are they created by you, or do you use specific tools or platforms to get them? I’m trying to make similar self-improvement videos and would really appreciate your guidance. Thanks a lot for inspiring us!

[@Varynix]

@@VanxxMindset I donot own any of those clips, and there's no specific platforms to get them, just search a lot on the internet, you'll find these everywhere. I'm glad that you found my ideas entertaining and inspiring. Good luck on your journey too.🤝

[@VanxxMindset]

​​@@Varynix Thank you so much for replying and for the valuable insight! I'll definitely search extensively as you suggested. Your ideas are truly inspiring, and I hope to create content as impactful as yours. I’d love to learn from your experience. Thanks again, and best wishes for your amazing channel! which country are you from?

[@denny8727]

Peters just quoting a film. In the context of that scene he did something really stupid

[@Captain_Samerica]

First monologue is from Planes, Trains, and Automobiles, not Family Guy lmao

[@jiyarunwal3463]

Is that Lisa kudrow’s voice?

[@AnthonyThomás-q9p]

Does anyone know what movie or show does the fox, horse and little boy come from?

[@Varynix]

@@AnthonyThomás-q9pit's an animated series ,named "the boy,the mole,the fox and the horse"

[@harleyquince3774]

2:25…first, I take ur stick 🦯😼

[@thehurdle3602]

What’s this music called?

[@Varynix]

@@thehurdle3602 ace savage - scheming... its mentioned in the description.

[@sarthakjain1255]

don't let Peter fool you at the start of video !! probably kicked/punched Meg 5 mins after saying that 😂

[@erlendkaarb2038]

Peter gave us a good monologue, but if you know the context you know he was completely wrong here.

[@davidwelborn1655]

wheres the fox from

[@Varynix]

@davidwelborn1655 it's an animated series called "the boy, the mole, the fox and the horse"

[@Redf_3888gaming]

I miss my ex

[@MarcusJunior-i1n]

Awwn😂

[@Plz.LEAVE.ME.ALONE.PrivacyPLZ]

Aww 😟

[@taylorburkhead1060]

Adjust yer aim, you'll get em next time!

[@joeybanana839]

Me too man. But she‘ll not come back. Accept it

[@Redf_3888gaming]

@@joeybanana839 thank you man

[@Badmunky64]

Family guy hasn't been qualified to treat it's characters as characters in a loooong time.

[@cicatrene99]

What film is 2:25?

[@travismaggofour4286]

The boy the mole the fox and the horse

[@ForestX77]

Yeah no Peter is the last person to talk about love or anything. “My kids love me” despite there being multiple times throughout the show’s history of all 3 of his kids telling him they hate him. Seriously look at Meg.

[@nathanieldarkundeath]

A wealthy benefactor favors you.

[@nathanieldarkundeath]

R.I.P UNK

[@peterevans2854]

2:23 this is the sole reason, for me, the lion king remake was absolute failure. No Rafiki.

[@lomxv]

what trick is my mind playing on me, its true i am no good period

[@MegaSpideyman]

Are you sure that's the truth?

[@crusadeuswolf]

That scene from family guy is copy and paste scene from "Planes, Trains, & Automobiles". I wish you had that scene rather than Family guys parody scene