I was 26 years old, and my first baby was a stillbirth, at 40 weeks. No trouble throughout my pregnancy, my weight gain was perfect. Went to every appointment and there was no history in my family of proplem pregnancies. I had just been to my weekly checkup because I was due soon, and that night after that doctor visit, my baby was moving a lot, and kicking me for a while. Then the baby kicked one strong one, and relaxed. Three days later, the amniotic fluid gushed out when I got up to pee. My contractions started too, so we went to the hospital. I was hooked up to the monitors, and several nurses kept coming in and out, and then my doctor walks in, and then my second doctor. No heartbeat detected. Your story sounds just like mine. I went into the hospital expecting to have my baby, but we were told the same thing, no heartbeat. The autopsy revealed "cord compression". Sorry for your loss...
@RCP5117 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss. That’s heartbreaking.
@charlotte_stevens Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing sweet Darla with us ❤💐🌸
@cindycnd2259 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss momma...I also lost my first baby boy 2 weeks ago at 35+2 weeks. Such a traumatic experience😢😢😢
@Lively-Productions Жыл бұрын
Cindy, I’m so sorry to hear that 😢 yes it really is. Sending you love 💕
@marciajones2993 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love. 💙❤️✨✨
@nesekitty9703 Жыл бұрын
😢🙏
@suzybailey-koubti83429 ай бұрын
Sending love and prayers for your continued healing ❤️🩹
@wishingyoupeace3 ай бұрын
😢❤
@kathleencross1592 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your loss of beautiful baby daughter Darla rest in peace sweet girl xx
@marciajones2993 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss. Darla was beautiful sleep tight sweetheart. 🌸🌸🌸✨✨✨✨
@elahtinkey224 Жыл бұрын
I’m Soo sorry for your great loss🙏thank you for sharing Darla , she’s BEAUTIFUL 💖praying for you and your family 🙏you are bringing help and comfort to many others 🙏THANK YOU FOR BEING SOO BRAVE🙏GOD BLESS YOU❤️🩹
@angelagarrett6196 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like your family really stepped up and was there for you. That’s amazing! So sorry for your loss
@christinem.carter-wanner5304 Жыл бұрын
God bless this family
@O.Sea.D Жыл бұрын
Oh she is so precious and sweet. What a beautiful little angel 💖 I am so sorry for your loss 🥺
@kaya8632 Жыл бұрын
I lost my baby boy at 7 mos. Pregnant. Will always miss him and love him!!!
@pinacoloda226 Жыл бұрын
Darla is so lovely I am so very sorry 😭 fly high baby girl❤
@ur1cat Жыл бұрын
My condolences, thank you for sharing.
@kimrollins7550 Жыл бұрын
Great talk, strong women
@HopeBelieve12 Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss ❤
@user-vy3lx2jp8mPatty3 ай бұрын
❤Came across this video, didn't know if i should watch but couldn't stop once started.....Can't even express how it made me feel, soooooooooooooo deeply sorry for your loss. i had three pregnancies and 3 live births and feel so fortunate, thank you for that. Ihope you heal and always remember that baby in your heart because her life mattered💔
@cindyjones321610 ай бұрын
My daughter is named Darla Leanne. She is 39 years old now and is the baby with two older briothers. I'm sorry about your little Darla❤🙏😥
@wishingyoupeace3 ай бұрын
She is so beautiful. I’m so sorry. 😢
@stephanieann622 Жыл бұрын
The video isn’t even over yet and I’m already commenting 😂. Clairissa, you are such a doll. I know you have to be so much fun! You are even more beautiful when pregnant. I’m so, so sorry about your loss of sweet Darla Jean. It’s got to be incredibly difficult. She is absolutely gorgeous and perfect. I love her name. Your family also sounds amazing. But I still wish, so badly, that I could climb through the screen and just give you the biggest hug ever. I will be praying for you and your family. It’s not much but I wish I could do or say something, anything to ease your pain. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I cherished every moment of it. Sending hugs and prayers your way sweetheart👼💖
@dianenamciu638 Жыл бұрын
You are so brave. I remember when I was in my first trimester when I had an issue with my pregnancy and I thought i would absolutely die. Everything ended up well, but I don’t think I would have been able to cope with the outcome you have dealt with. You gave my utmost condolences and I believe you are the strongest most loving person I have ever had the privilege to know
@lyricalaska Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your beautiful Darla with us. It is our honor to know all about her and her sweet family!! Many prayers.
@TexasGigix3 Жыл бұрын
She’s definitely a Darla Jean ❤❤❤❤ I don’t know why I started watching these videos. I had two miscarriages in my past like 25+ years ago but have 4 adult children and three grandchildren. I think God brought me here to show me while I have struggles with 2 of my adult children, like tormented struggles, and am raising one grandchild and went through the heart-breaking decisions to adopt out the other two at birth I am blessed to never have experienced the loss of a baby and I was able to bless two sister-in-laws with fertility issues and baby losses complete their families. Thank you all for sharing your heartache and stories so openly and the strength I find in each takes some of my pain in my situation away!
@cherylware783 Жыл бұрын
PRAYERS FOR YOUR FAMILY
@nesekitty9703 Жыл бұрын
what a beautiful name Darla Jean and babygirl...I do see a resemblance of you as a child of looking like Darla from The Little Rascals.ty for sharing your story and so sorry 😢🙏
@valerienelson32969 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful baby girl. For whatever reason that beautiful little soul decided to head back to where she had come from. One day you may have a much bigger understanding of why she came into your life when she did, and hopefully when you leave this earth. Why she couldn't stay at that time😢 I am going through cannet samples myself and my hubby was going to have a fit if I brought home 1 more 8 dollar sample. I actually got a white paint and made the color myself by adding cheap little walmart craft paints and got exactly what I had imagined the color to be. Wishing you and your family everything you wish for in life and thank you for sharing such an incredibly painful private moment in your lives.❤
@MylifeMyway7283 Жыл бұрын
I know the feelings 😢😢
@raye5071 Жыл бұрын
RIP sweet Darla❤
@MHolla-f1j8 ай бұрын
Perfect precious baby
@joannedibben2352 Жыл бұрын
So sorry about dear dear Darla my baby boy passed thirty years ago I still think of him they are only a thought away❤❤
@janegott24729 ай бұрын
God bless this family rip beautiful baby gone to be with the angels and the Lord amen beautiful baby girl rip sweet heart
@vernasmith539425 күн бұрын
My prayer for you is PEACE. You will be with her again in heaven
@Emy538 ай бұрын
The most difficult time was that I was kepted in my hospital room for 5 days. No baby, but in the maternity ward. I could hear other infants crying from adjoining room. My inlaws made decisions to plan a funeral that I was not allowed to attend. My husband and i decided to bury our baby instead of letting the hospital to take care of her. We knew that our baby would not get a proper funeral, so we had a monument for her and a small service.
@crystaljackson9148 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@jesseccadockery53829 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss mama and yes patocin contractions are worse then normal, I experienced the difference between my first son who was a Patocin Induction VS my second son who was a natural occuring Labor the difference was like night and day
@Valentina-Steinway6 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@lameas66 Жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭
@pammerle1691 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like Endometreosis. I suffered it from 18yrs old tell 30 yrs old and at 30 they had to do a Radical Hysterectomy...I could NEVER have a baby...every month I would end up in ER...I had 12 surgeries in 11yrs for Endometreosis. Pain beyond imagination...
@wishingyoupeace3 ай бұрын
😢💔
@madelenewhite15769 ай бұрын
I've had pitocin and it's one build up of contractions with no breaks. It is worse than natural contractions
@Emy538 ай бұрын
I had a vaginal delivery under the circumstances. I had to go through the labor but i was sedated. I don't remember any physical pain. My baby was also breach. My other two children I had to deliver by C-section. I had my 2nd child in 1982, and my 3rd child in 1989. My first baby is never forgotten. Both my children were told that they had a sister that was a stillbirth. We visit her grave from time to time.