WEB EXCLUSIVE: The Big Relationship Decision That Involves Instagram

Want more? We've got you covered with this brand new Girl Chat web exclusive! Tell us below if you’ve tagged your bae on Instagram to make it official.

[@nadinestephanie1397]

*The face Adrienne made after sneezing was the cutest thing LMAOooo*

[@MaishaOnTop]

I know 😂

[@noahobuya]

am i single? yes but will i still watch this? also yes

[@as19J01]

omg this is so me I watch all of their relationship videos for tips on what to do and what not to do :P

[@Leps_]

TRUTH 🙌

[@Alibern7]

Noah right

[@lindstheteacher1611]

Same

[@nikkidee9383]

@@as19J01 babe the only dating tip you need is to be your badass wonderful self!

[@Amorantasia1]

Tamera’s look is so beautiful and sophisticated!! 😍

[@DomCTBG]

I just find her SO corny that I can't. :(

[@TheThirtyJourney]

I think it’s good to do this when you’re married/in a relationship and you’re popular on social media. I know there are men that I’ve found attractive on social media and as soon as I see in his bio that he’s married to someone or in a relationship, I’m like ok...fantasy over 😂 I personally think it’s just another nice form of PDA and expressing your love for someone publicly. Nothing more, nothing less IMO 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@armentablessed7381]

I agree. It doesn’t prove anything. & people should be proud of their love and not feel ashamed to show it.

[@danaflamenco]

I agree 100% a lot of people in the comments seem to think it's a completely negative thing when it's not.

[@jrenee8303]

Instagram does more harm than good, in my opinion

[@beautifultaurus2973]

👏👏👏 exactly

[@Melsrdc]

Yes girllll

[@ruthsanchez7711]

I'm trying to quit it deleting it from my phone but posting picturea when I want to share then deleting it again when I'm overwhelmed which is like 30 into it.

[@Brwniee95]

Ruth Sanchez hahaha girl this is what I used to do, now I just stay logged out during the week & maybe check in on the weekends

[@NellieKAdaba]

J Renee Like most social media.

[@camillaholmberg3951]

Oh here I am thinking Jeannie was gonna say "wanna go around?" meant strutting around school holding hands to show each other off 😂 Like an old school way of tagging your boo for the world to see 😂

[@kgirl2861]

Literally had that same thought!

[@thulinkosi]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@wanderer2589]

Same!

[@labellaxia7853]

Lol me too 😂😂😂😂

[@Yrstrlyjess]

That's exactly what it is lol

[@mochijimina]

people these days just want to be in a relationship like it's an accessory or something just to post it on Instagram. it's something 'cool' or 'trendy' and i hate that. it literally makes me cringe.

[@phillipswatson3452]

mochijimina 😱 SWEETIE...DUMBER THEN DUMB SMDH

[@FitYourWayByMelD]

Not only boyfriend... some do this with their pregnancy and their kids...

[@Asad_Thomas]

It's a sickness.

[@rainbows5232]

True, but it also can make you feel lonely seeing people together online and wanting the same

[@ms.wilson6439]

Hey army

[@sarainsanelyyinsane1691]

Tagging someone in your bio proves nothing. Yea it's cute but it definitely does not define ANYTHING.

[@breadbutter4221]

Exactly. I'm married and I haven't even added my married name on fb ig nor have I added that info in my bio etc. I dont think it's a big deal I'm more about actually building our relationship.

[@sarainsanelyyinsane1691]

@@breadbutter4221 EXACTLY!!!! Preach

[@sarainsanelyyinsane1691]

@_ omg no waaaay!!!!! See there you go !

[@tianamiller6820]

@_ if her DMs are open you should send her screenshot of her husbands tinder profile. Ik some women don't take that news well but at least she will know her man is a cheaying scumbag. I at least would want to know

[@tsholok4069]

@@tianamiller6820 Hahaha!! MESSY!! 😂😂

[@chelseashamim9148]

I’m too single for this

[@Yessi-with-a-Y]

Shoz Chel right 😂

[@chanellebooysen9570]

You and me both

[@chanellebooysen9570]

You and me both

[@lindstheteacher1611]

Yesenia Rivera Same

[@victoriawilliams7750]

I'm not tagging no one "it's above me now"

[@ombstan8605]

Victoria Williams 😂😂that has been my catchphrase since I saw that video

[@robinwarmack]

🤣😂

[@Amorantasia1]

Anybody else single with nobody to tag? Lol 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@loganbriana9931]

Amor Antasia 🙋🏾‍♀️.tagging someone isn’t that serious tho😂😂

[@lindstheteacher1611]

Since birth

[@ms.wilson6439]

@@lindstheteacher1611 same

[@SSBMA1994]

I dont like nosy people so I would probably share very minimally about my relationship online and even offline with colleagues I don't wanna share much

[@fearbear1085]

No man is my other half. I am whole by myself. I don't post my relationship online, so I don't get the tag thing.

[@muycaliente6196]

Preach it darling!👏👏👏❤

[@CamilaSaurus]

Right? That’s what I was thinking too! Not a fan of that term

[@tianamiller6820]

I don't think i would post my relationship either even if i was famous my social media is about me and for me. Not my man or other relationships.

[@Brwniee95]

Tianna Miller same here there’s no need to post what’s already understood 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@GabriellaLascano]

Amen

[@Crz4wizard]

3:41 When Adreanne sneezed!! 🤣😂 How cute!

[@rae-jp6440]

I'm from the Caribbean and even I know that term jeannie used from school "do you want to go around"😂😂😂😂

[@4knewt505]

It was "do you want to go together" where i'm from

[@amarantineevol4192]

I've heard it before.. We used to say it in high school too in TnT

[@rae-jp6440]

@@amarantineevol4192 lol yep it was definitely used in Trinidad

[@shb7669]

I don’t see a difference in posting them in a bio and posting a picture.... it’s on the same public platform.

[@rebecapressley2906]

SHB right like Unless you’re famous no one is stalking you

[@EllePlowPlow]

Posting them in your bio implies something more serious and a relationship that is steady. Posting a pic and tagging them is more casual.

[@noh3987]

“Wanna go around” is not a Bay thing...that must strictly be a 1990s San Jose thing 😂 Cause we do not say that in the rest of the Bay

[@3Pingu]

mid-1980s San Jose for sure. Back when your cousins from San Leandro had to say sumthin was "hecka bad" cuz "hella" was cussin'.

[@beautifulmind1111]

We said that in the bay back in the day. I love it!! That was awesome 👏🏾

[@hell-o-kitty1976]

Yes...".going around" was a term used in my little hood too!

[@suepersayian601]

I want someone to look at me the way Loni looks at Jeannie 1:54 😂❤️

[@girkingrightnow]

lmao

[@snegugumthiyane2778]

Thank you so much for this guys, just a few months ago i had a TV so it meant that i could watch you guys all the time and not miss a show but now that i dont have one anymore i cant keep up like i use to....thanks to these clips that yal doing for your youtube fans i can still keep up...im so appreciative...this is Sne from South Africa thank you ❤❤

[@josephustitusflavius1372]

Adrienne's sneeze is the cutest thing ever...

[@mom06mom60]

Go around??? Never heard that before.

[@CamilaSaurus]

M &M Me neither, and I live in the bay lol

[@luvpink26ify]

M &M same here and I’m from the bay too

[@CamilaSaurus]

Iluvpinkify26 someone else posted that they’re from San Jose, and they used to say it but back in the 80s. So I guess that term has since died lol

[@08shayna]

I’m from the UK, and I’ve heard it.. in American movies and shows.

[@CamilaSaurus]

Shay Oh wow that’s strange haha

[@stephaniealston625]

We never said "going around" lol but we did say "go together"

[@tashawilliams8093]

Now everybody's different, but why do people use social media as a way to show/prove their love? What happened to the old school way of showing/proving your love?

[@BriaBarrows]

facts. i have a beautiful relationship, but privacy keeps things yours...like why let the world have so much access to you.

[@jregina7784]

@Chastidee that makes sense but i think it speaks more to the ridiculous need of people trying to show off or one up each other. Because why would u care if strangers know you're in a relationship? Like u said people around you would know and to me they would be the only ones who would care. I mean to each his own i just think people are getting obsessed with thinking others care who they date and/or wanting everyone to think what they are doing personally is everyones business...can't let everybody in😊

[@juliemarrie4024]

Yes, I'm from San Jose and we did say we we're going around! Same thing as we're dating. I feel like that's an 80's phrase, so only our generation said that in the bay.

[@CamilaSaurus]

Julie Marrie That makes sense. I’m from the San Jose area too, but we never said that (I’m 32). We said “wanna go out?” Lol

[@miyaanderson8541]

A's sneeze is the cutest thing I've seen all day 💛💛

[@NellieKAdaba]

Miya Anderson 😆

[@ohhthatemma]

I’m just not that mushy. Maybe it takes the right kind of person but like, if I love you and you’re in my life then you already know. I don’t need that in my bio

[@ChristianMychal]

I’ve heard “GOING WITH” but not “GOING AROUND” 💀🤣

[@havingteawiththedevil]

Side note, i love your hair 😍😍😍😍

[@ChristianMychal]

Having Tea With the Devil Thank you! ☺️

[@AhchwathYashashakar]

I from San Jose so I know exactly what Jeannie is talking about!!! 😂 The phrase was, do you want to go around? Lol! That was the thing back then. Sounds funny but it brings back memories!!

[@levi___2096]

Jeanie from the bay Adrienne from the lower east side loni from Detroit and tamera from Everywhere (military brat).

[@brandyspikes]

Ok yesss!! I love the new web exclusives! Bite sized and specific. Perfect way to stay connected when I can’t catch the show everyday. Love you ladies 💕💖💕💖💕

[@daniellaalexandra5651]

Is it really that deep?? I don’t care about petty stuff like this, just be secure in your relationship and keep it pushin

[@muycaliente6196]

We get that, but clearly Instagram users are not only insecure in their looks but also relationships lol. Not saying all Instagram people are but defo majority...

[@daniellaalexandra5651]

Muy Caliente ayyeeee whats up army fancy seeing u here 😭😂

[@muycaliente6196]

@@daniellaalexandra5651 hello!😂💜

[@britbritnicole9211]

I don’t need everybody to know about my personal life I don’t need to over post and parade it around. If you feel the need to be seen all the time on social media you’re probably insecure. The bio thing to me is corny. Why do I need to show everybody who I’m with in my bio?

[@PeytonSlim]

👏👏

[@JeannideV]

where i am from, when people say "they are going around", they are thotting it up.

[@tianamiller6820]

That's what i thought 😂😂

[@lorettaknoelk3475]

Exactly

[@beautifulmind1111]

Yes!! I grew up with “wanna go around?”

[@charmaynemichele307]

In my day, the 70's, in San Francisco, at Aptos Jr. High, the boy would ask you, "Will you go with me?" And the girl would respond with, a "Yes" or a "No". Usually the answer was "Yes!" Then that meant, that you were girlfriend and boyfriend! Ooooooo! 💕

[@as19J01]

I was born in 2001 but I agree

[@havingteawiththedevil]

I was born in 91 and i feel old because i guess it’s all about tagging your S/O on social media for it to be official now. 🙄

[@lilp2350]

Lol is Adrienne the only person that sneezes on this panel??😂😂

[@chanyisme]

She must be allergic to Loni...lol

[@indigobeauty1]

Maybe the bright lights trigger her sneezing, a friend told me bright lights can do that.

[@melaniedejonge5234]

NorCal girl here. Yep, "going around" is (was? I don't know, I'm old! LOL) a real phrase here. And also just "go" or "going" - like, "Did you hear Jen is going with Mike?" or, "Do you think he's gonna ask you to go with him?" :D

[@ItsJenniBear]

idk the reason why id make my relationship public in that way is because i ADORE my boyfriend, i am SO proud to be his gf, and i’m so happy, i just want people to know idk

[@lavernchandler4014]

We used to say "go/going around" in the Caribbean too! #TrinidadAndTobago

[@NellieKAdaba]

La Vern Chandler My mother’s also Trini 🇹🇹👍. Going again there this summer for a family reunion.

[@Chaptersaudio]

You should always clarify what your status is. If I am in love, I have no problem making it public.

[@NellieKAdaba]

Belinda Joy 👍

[@precious7897]

Jeannie “I’m so proud “🤣🤣

[@MsKawaiiRAWR]

1:02 “no” LOLLL😭 love tam

[@samsoon6144]

They missed the part in how you lose your individuality. No one went into that part of the topic 🙄 They never stick to the original topic

[@tianamiller6820]

@@bsbgirl85 crying at y'all calling tam Tamaga😩😂💀

[@allyshaw]

Hahaha proud of Adrienne for not sneezing on Loni

[@Naomilove2798]

By going around I think she meant when people ask “Are y’all talking” 🤔🤔🤔🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Gilmme]

I gotta agree with the comments saying "tagging it doesn't mean anything" that's true..

[@Duhitsmekennadi]

I love y’alllll❤️talk bout relationships or how to get over him/ her

[@MM-im8su]

🤣 jennie, i remember ..."do you wanna go around with me"...🤣.....thats a Cali thang.

[@Kimmiieeee1]

Omg lol I remember when we would say go around 😭 that took me waaaaay back ❤️ it’s funny how dumb it sounds now but the kids in my school would say it all the time hahah

[@christaarneaud-baker4826]

We also used that phrase in Trinidad in the 90's "do you wanna go around"😁

[@waxyinc_6787]

“But they wanna go around the Bay” 😂😂😂

[@Awillii]

I’m from southern Cali we said “going with” haven’t heard of “going around” lol

[@Mechum22]

I’m from the Bay and I’ve never heard “going around” used in my life, LOL. Maybe it’s the small age gap? 🤷🏾‍♂️😄

[@SnowWhiteSabol]

Adrienne, always being so rude. Just because you don’t know something doesn’t mean it’s not real. I love how Tamara is so nice. And loves to learn something new.

[@moniquewilson1703]

Hi Loni, Tam, Jeannie & Adrienne!! Love you all 😘😘💜💜

[@brenvargas6031]

Yup!!!that’s what we say in the Bay!!! do you want to go around😝

[@bhauvana]

Love how Adrienne said she wouldn’t put her boyfriend in her bio.. but she happily got robs name tattooed on her ass 😂🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ like okay hun?? I Think it’s easier to remove a bio over a tattoo lol

[@suesoto3794]

Yep I'm from Southern California and when i was in elementary school we said "go around" too

[@monicamedina3059]

we always used to say are you going around with him? hahha Jeannie Is right we used that term too lol

[@MajesticMyronn]

Oh yeah millennials & generation Z babies actually do it all the time... trust me I know I have friends that do this with hearts and a lock while tagging their partner ! I feel like it’s ok but it comes off cheesy... but I appreciate other people doing it if that’s what makes them / their relationship feel validated!

[@yvonnedavis9650]

Myronn Coleman I’m 18 in my generation we do that. I don’t now since I’m single but my friends would do it

[@MajesticMyronn]

Yvonne Davis I’m 17... I would do it but if I want to tag them I’ll do it in a picture

[@muycaliente6196]

I just feel like if it was a healthy relationship nobody would need to validate it. It's really kind of like a social accessory at this point imo

[@muycaliente6196]

@@MajesticMyronn I'm 20 and only a few of my friends do it. Tagging in photos sure. I do that for family and friends too, but that's where it ends

[@sugarmcdoodles8462]

What if you don’t have social media? Oh well I guess I’ll be forever single 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@iMolikaMenThlang]

We just don’t do social media except for KZbin if that’s social media, I guess that’s an exception.

[@selennaaaa7256]

“Where you goin around too” 😭 ade kills me

[@crystalnavarro5440]

As a teenager myself I will be the first to admit that's it's mostly us (aka teens) that do it. I have some friends in relationship that have tagged their significant other in their bio but I never really see grown folks do it

[@user-jb9fq2yx8f]

I liked this immediatly because i love web exclusive videos! Love you, keep it up! 😁

[@PhoeniciaJ]

The Instagram bio thing nahhhh, BUT I would do it on Facebook because it has the actual option where it asks you are you in a relationship or gives you the option to put it.

[@shaynanichelle8621]

Oh I’m like Tam I can’t wait to change my status on Facebook but I’m proud of who my new guy is! I’d do a bf and my husband when I get married one day! My guy said he wants to ask me in person to make it official and I think that’s so romantic 🥰💕

[@PrettieMandy92]

Loni you should wear a peach colored blouse with peach Blush I think that would complement you so well

[@armentablessed7381]

Thats weird. You wouldn’t put your boyfriend? Boyfriends become husbands. How do you think you get married? I remember when Adrienne announced that Israel was her new boyfriend. If you can announce it on National TV, you can surely put it on social media. For me, I’ve been going out with my man for 2 years and counting. Becauss I have my own identity, I put “In a Relationship” on Facebook, to have a since of privacy his name is not there. (It used to be but I changed it) Everyone knows my man when they see me they see him, but I don’t think you should feel ashamed to put your boyfriend there if thats what you want to do 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@bananehanna]

I felt really weird about them saying that putting your boyfriend in your bio isn't right. Some people don't even get married and instead stay "boyfriend and girlfriend" all life, is their relationship worth less than a married couple's?

[@muppet08609]

Yes, I’m loving all these web exclusive vids!!

[@Cancerarod]

Adrienne is so concerned what the term means. I’m.. lmfao

[@Megan_P0221]

Nooooo Loni got distracted, u make James do what?? 😩

[@missphindi1325]

You made James do what???? Adrienne sneezed and we didn't get the story 😭😭

[@joccelynortiz527]

Adrienne's sneeze 🤣 love her

[@swaroopakhandekar]

3:40 , what was Loni saying? 😢

[@shivairas6717]

Swaroopa Khandekar ikr

[@JohnneseP]

I would tag him on pictures I post of us together, but he wouldn't be in my bio unless we were engaged or just got married. I personally think it's cute but it isn't the end of the world if you don't do it, it literally means nothing. Personally for me I think it's cute when your men does it first because it's like he wants the world to know who you are.

[@okiedokie1817]

loni looks so good with this hair

[@MegsIsBeyondBeauty]

Yay exclusive KZbin content😁😁😁😁😁

[@ajemroberts3903]

Jeanie we used that in the Caribbean!! ‘You want to go around’ / ‘you want to deal’ = gf/bf 🇹🇹

[@kape6188]

That's so interesting. In Jamaica it's the equivalent to like "Did you hear James and Annette going around together? His wife doesn't know. A shame. Man nuh good again" It just signifies some wrong or shameful doing. I wonder if it has a different meaning elsewhere in the Caribbean. Time to ask some friends lol. Anyways big up 2 the Caribbean!

[@randomeverything817]

i've never been in a relationship but my fav girl chats are the relationship ones

[@jazmineledesma4644]

Adrienne ALWAYS wears those earrings!!save to say they are her favorite. I want them they're so cute :)

[@Ladyjaedy]

She’s advertising they’re from her jewelry line.

[@lisacruz6590]

You guy's are awesome!!! 💖😘😘😘😘😘

[@huda9445]

It depends on the person, because in general it doesn’t matter but if you want it then do it and if you don’t it’s fine , because it wouldn’t and it shouldn’t affect the relationship.

[@LaDimplez91]

I used to do that in high school. That was the thing to lol But when I met my now- husband, i didn't have an Instagram until much later and i honestly never even thought about him tagging me on his bio once we became official. Even now, after we got married and have 2 kids, I never thought of that. I don't have him tagged either lol I guess I like to feel like an individual and that I don't have to be telling ppl my business. I don't add people that I don't know so whoever is my "friend" on Instagram, they know I'm married.

[@nickiejones1329]

Adrienne so shady, I wouldn't tag a boyfriend, and the bay comment. It really seem like her and jeannie cant stand each other

[@nickiejones1329]

@LankyAlpaca lol no, I'm not I have just observed the interaction between A and Jeannie, it's different now

[@natotakaonga6686]

I have equally learnt a new term "go around"

[@Nan01040]

1:33 AWWWWWWWW IN LOVE with their relationship, so GOALS !!!!!!!

[@joankgillette]

Never ever heard of “going around”. It’s going out or going steady. My fiancé insinuated he wanted to be with me after our first date and I said well you haven’t asked me anything yet. Then he asked if I would be his girlfriend.

[@claireemond3541]

Where I live, « going around » is having a « thing » with someone: you get to know each other better, go on a few dates, etc. « going out » is when people start dating exclusively and actually dating is, well, the international term lol!

[@hopewatson298]

They all look really professional and are giving me lawyer vibes

[@hexir8359]

This HAS been around for a while. We used to do this on MySpace haha.

[@nobleojoe247]

Ade sneezed...😬

[@tonicemona933]

Jeanie is so hood lol

[@CupcAk47]

It's the same thing as wearing matching outfits or wearing your partner's jacket during the 90's and early 2000's. I wouldn't do it for a boyfriend unless we had been together for years but I would do it for my husbae 😍 (if I had one).

[@Rebecca23434]

Jeannie lyin...I'm from the bay...We do NOT say do you wanna go around? LMAO! My husband is from SJ like her and even he said...naw we never said that.

[@marglinbeathea6653]

I love the segment, ladies! It’s cool 😎 because I don’t use social media only watch you tube

[@mvryouss4084]

You let me think about thinks I never thought of. Love you guys so much

[@gilberthpavon6725]

Why does Jeanie always have to say that she is dating like she always has to remind us lol

[@SiRobinson]

I think tagging each other is so cute!💜

[@alyngomez5369]

IM 20 years old and I LOVEEEEE THE REALLLL!!!!! Honestly♥️♥️♥️♥️ they inspire me

[@mathapelo4781]

We 22 now

[@mollyroseiacobucci1361]

i understand the going around phrase. In the 70's or 80's in Australia (way before i was born) they would 'do you want to go around with me " basically it means do you want to offically date me or do you want to makeout with me. something along those lines