Wedding Planning and Life Crises | Q&A | More Hannah

[@ladyicondraco]

"To get that watch time" I love when youtubers talk about the behind the scenes, like things viewers can do to help them!

[@morehannah]

haha just being honest!

[@JudyCZ]

I just watched a super annoying 4 minute ad at the beginning of the video because I believe that Hannah deserves all that she can get. 😁 I'm so happy when I get a new info about how I can help the creators that I care about.

[@RebeccaElizabeth]

JudyCZ If they’re that long you only have go watch 30s for her to get the $$ 😉

[@JudyCZ]

@@RebeccaElizabeth Interesting, thank you! 🙂 But doesn't she get £££ instead of ££ if I watch it all?

[@TheHelican]

Watching this in 2021, having Hannah list her travel plans for 2020 being like '.... oh, friend.'

[@Victoriasm31]

Speaking as an educator myself, I think there's a big difference between being qualified and being experienced, and I think a lot of impostor syndrome goes away when you have more experience (in my experience, lol). You are very well qualified to be a sex educator, but you might lack experience of actually doing it (at least face to face - you've been doing it for years on KZbin, but that will feel a lot different to being in a classroom). At some point you have to just get out there. Accept you will make mistakes and then learn from them. ❤

[@morehannah]

I needed this little pep talk - thank you!

[@Hillary429]

I’m surprised every year that vlognukah hasn’t caught on!!! Seems like such a great alternative to the impossible task of 25 day vlogmas.

[@morehannah]

RIGHT?!

[@chloebrown1336]

"I'm not wearing a white dress." Calling it now, it's yellow.

[@hazellea7047]

My mum wore a yellow velvet dress at her wedding

[@erin-eh2sl]

Hazel Lea that sounds beautiful

[@JasmineAnahera]

If it’s not yellow, it’s definitely gold!

[@juliettehamelle1747]

Oh and how right you were :)

[@TinaMarieVlogs]

ok who needs a wedding series from her?! from a fellow youtuber!!

[@shesaysdisco]

RE: Dan’s farts - One time while we were driving out to his parents’ house, my partner had a “silent but deadly” fart and I legitimately thought that we had run over some kind of awful roadkill. He, of course, found this hilarious.

[@jrocarrot]

My idiot man pulls a fart during funsie times, if you know what I mean. It can subdue the mood a bit.

[@rodhasmana7306]

also can i just say how much i appreciate the perfect captions on your video with no sarcastic/funny comments, nothing except what you're saying (it's infuriating when people try to be funny in their captions because it's like. is that what they're saying? am i missing something? wtf?) it's so useful and very much appreciated :))

[@morehannah]

I didn't realies that people did that with their captions!??? I use a service called Rev who make the captions so it's always just exactly what I'm saying in the video

[@rodhasmana7306]

​@@morehannah yeah, examples i can think of off the top of my head are pewdiepie, dan and phil, and seth everman - their captions are written by people who watch their vids so they just add commentary and sarcastic comments D:

[@notquiteadegree3429]

time and time again it makes me smile how much I relate to your answers to these kinds of questions. Especially the "writing days off" thing and coming back more motivated the next day is something I do all the time and I'm still amazed at how well it works most of the time. Always good to know that there's other people out there thinking alike :D

[@morehannah]

it's a great thing to allow yourself to do and usually works!

[@someguy7567]

I always forget this is a different channel...

[@TheNerdyArcher]

Big up History students!! Also, second the "say yes to everything" - currently second year and on the committee for two societies that I thought I'd never get involved with at the start! Plus, I love figure skating - who knew????

[@morehannah]

WHO KNEW?!?! I love that!

[@TimWhite]

You shouldn't think about it as "falling victim" to wanting more than what you've already accomplished. That's amazing thing that you're such a driven person and you just want to keep moving up and do the most you can possible do with life! It's great to be so driven like that 😄

[@MrsMster]

How one poaches an egg: Fill a pan full of water and boil it. When boiling, crack an egg into the pan (or into a glass or plastic cup cause apparently it's easier). Leave to cook in the water for like 3-5 minutes or until the white is cooked depending on how you like the yolks. You now have a poached egg.

[@morehannah]

hahaha brilliant, thanks Amelia :)

[@JHYW]

Microwave method: Put about a tablespoon of water in a microwaveable bowl. Crack an egg in the bowl, cover and microwave for several seconds; literally less than ten. Let the heat disperse slightly. Microwave for a few more seconds. Check if the white is fully cooked. Repeat the last three steps until your egg is done (should take less than a minute total microwaving time). Don't just put the cracked egg in the microwave and walk away, because it will cook much faster than you expect then suddenly pop and you'll have to clean hardened egg off your microwave.

[@catherinetomlinson1807]

If you add some white vinegar and swirl the water before you crack it in it helps it cook and look all profesh :)

[@MrsMster]

@@catherinetomlinson1807 That is also a good idea if you like the taste of vinegar. I'm not a fan of vinegary stuff though

[@imalivetwentyfive]

@@MrsMster I'm not a fan of the vinegar either, but creating a vortex or whirlpool really helps the white stay together :D

[@rodhasmana7306]

20 minutes of hannah?? AMAZING. i am hyped. hope you're doing good

[@barrypate8600]

Not all of us blokes are here to perv .... I genuinely enjoy the variety of topics and listening to your advice and recommendations. Keep up the great work in 2020

[@morehannah]

thank you! very much appreciate :)

[@monicaguidi7815]

Hannah suddenly speaking Portuguese got me SHOOK

[@shaynannigans]

Yes I recommend the book Come as You Are! So freaking amazing!!!

[@majafilipovic1392]

you actually seem so happy and positive it’s contagious, it put me in a better mood just watching this💛

[@christieblackie8010]

Omg your jumper is everything!

[@morehannah]

THANKS!

[@lisa60932]

When you said that you’re going to the US in May depended on a few things you didn’t know about yet... how right you were 😭😭

[@alusiabednarczyk]

literally my thoughts hah

[@Isabella-de7kv]

lisa60932 I just commented that haha 😄

[@gdavies1997]

Love that my two favourite you tubers are getting married in the same year🥰

[@mouseluva]

An in-depth strategy game I play gives your character the option to write a book, and afterwards they get a character modifier called "uninspired" that prevents them from writing another book for a few years. Additionally, this game, Crusader Kings II is now free to play (without expansions) as a promotion for the sequel coming out soon, and you may enjoy it! It plays a bit like a more detailed version of Civ VI, but is set ~900-1400AD Europe. Great vid :) I love this channel! Make sure it stays fun for you though!

[@SadieMayB]

university of birmingham first year here!!! can confirm that saying yes is KEY!

[@justthatgamergirl1]

Yes, I'm fourth year at uob and only realised that this year 😂

[@lucialveroy]

I've heard before that thing about Dan being one of your friend's brother, I think you talked about it in the podcast Just Between Us when saying your friend wanted to get you two together some time ago but he smoked and you didn't like that! And that you actually started dating once he vaped. I remember cause smoking is also a deal breaker for me to some extent and made a lot of sense to me lol

[@EmmaAus]

"Potentially going to the US in May, but that depends on a few things I don't know about yet" - perfectly worded past Hannah :-p

[@naomi_hyde]

For your next book - how to plan/organise a wedding?? With a cut-out to-do list, budgeting tips etc.

[@withakiwiontop]

I can only imagine how much pressure you get from other people to write another book as soon as possible and how hard it must be to withstand that - but I as a viewer am so proud of you that you want to wait until you have a great idea for a new book rather than it being only a necessity to "stay relevant". I really admire your courage to make your own decisions and choose what you think is right rather than what you're pressured to do. Please feel encouraged, you're great and you definitely are relevant! :D

[@elliyo4286]

I'm on the asexual spectrum so I always have to talk about expectations of sex with partners, but I haven't talked to it to many people since I've only discovered I'm ace while dating my current partner. Are any of you also asexual? Would love to know there are others here! ☺️ Bc I know zero aces irl and there isn't any representation :/

[@victoriamather2267]

Would I be considered asexual if I would never seek out sex if my fb and I broke up but I enjoy sex with him now?

[@marte9739]

I’m ace too 😊

[@leahetzinger7128]

Also just realised that I'm ace :)

[@leahetzinger7128]

@@victoriamather2267 Could be, asexuality is only about not experiencing sexual attraction, not about if your having sex or not, that's very different from person to person. Or maybe demisexual clicks more with you, it's when you only experience sexual attraction after having formed a strong emotional bond with someone. :)

[@evag-s5177]

I'm probably demisexual/somewhere on the ace spectrum, but I haven't ever dated or been in a relationship (despite wanting to), so it's hard to say. I'm autistic and it's extremely common for autistic people to also be ace.

[@abracadabra8501]

Yes satisfied! A great song! And I love wait for it too. I got to see Hamilton as a birthday present last year which was amazing!

[@lavayuki]

London seems like a fun place to live! I'm a city girl too but live in Manchester instead, which is still quite nice and vibrant

[@morehannah]

I'm from Manchester - I love it there!

[@jacquiz.6837]

I retook the political compass recently, and I landed right on top of Noam Chomsky. Been in the green square since I started taking it in high school (I’m almost 30 now).

[@troeler]

Just when I thought I couldn't like you more.. The story of us!!!! Such an underrated Banger 😭

[@lorna_alice]

Been down in London the past couple of days and on the go all the time (6.30 train down on Tuesday and 6pm train up on Wednesday and around 4 hour journey). Came home today and planned to sort out all the things I bought for my scrapbook of my trip. Have spent today with no energy or motivation watching youtube all day. Had to cave into it when normally I would beat myself up and remind myself it is okay. Also smack bang middle of that green square in the political compass.

[@rebeccagleeson8404]

If it helps with the moving out of London thing, my Dad grew up in London and when he came up north (Yorkshire) most of his friends stayed down south. Despite them losing touch for a few years while everyone had children they're seeing more of each other now, and all of them say how cool it is to see their children interacting with each other 😊

[@ibbywilliams8478]

how to poach an egg easily!! put a bit of warm/hot water (maybe like 20-30ml? idk) in a small microwaveable bowl. crack the egg in there, cover it and stick it in the microwave for 10-30 second intervals depending on how strong your microwave is. then, use a spoon with holes in to pick it up out of the bowl and drain it and eat.

[@Narnendil]

Skagen, great Danish watch brand, I have one too (with no numbers as well, just sparkly stones on mine), named after a place in Denmark I believe.

[@anniedee3215]

I wish I could add more "likes"! Every time a loved an answer, my thumb would hover over the like button only to think "damn, liked it already". I loved this Q&A !! Xxx

[@anniedee3215]

Oh my God!! Favourite book of all time question, I said "The Book Theif comes to mind first for me" before you even said your answer 😂! Once again, I need more like buttons.. xxx

[@annavale3971]

Am I weirded out by Hannah speaking portuguese? Nope. Am I so proud and impressed by her pronunciation? YUP.

[@cary1237]

You sepeaking portuguese is the cuttest thing! Capoeira, girassol, batizado... Ownt 💜❤️

[@Noooon123]

I've literally been wishing this week away in anticipation for Sex Education series 2 tomorrow 🤣 the second I get home from work I will not be leaving my sofa!

[@erin-eh2sl]

Its a brilliant series!

[@amzyambrosia]

This video was just what I needed today 😂 I like it!

[@ellenkarlsson9490]

One way to define success is running your own company and still being able to pay your bills and not live with your parents. I think you are very successful in that aspect, Hannah.

[@HurricaneDDragon]

My Hamilton Top 5: 1) You’ll Be Back 2) What Comes Next? 3) I Know Him 4) Cabinet Battle #1 5) Ten Dual Commandments

[@ritacavalheiro7710]

Love your capeira story, I did capoeira when I was younger and I'm portuguese (from portugal, not brasil) :p

[@ZeeZeeDreaming]

I'm not a massive wedding gal, but I'm excited to see your dress! Hope it's yellow of some kind 😍😂

[@admirbarucija2018]

I’m so excited to watch after I get out of school for the day, your videos are the greatest!! 🤍

[@shayelea]

First off, you have EXCELLENT taste in Hamilton songs! Now, about imposter syndrome. I agree with one commenter that sometimes what it takes is time - to gain more experience and feel more confident in what you’re doing. However, one thing that really fast tracked that feeling for me was directing a play. Now, obviously, this won’t work for lots of people because not everyone is a theater artist (and not all theater artists can/want to direct.) But what I took from that experience was familiarity with what it felt like to make a decision and see it carried through without a lot of time spent on *~discussion~*. (Talking more about the tech end, as actors gonna actor and there is often lots of discussion there, as it should be.) People would come to me with a question, I would tell them what to do and they would go do it. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GOOD THAT FELT! The play was a success and a few months later I really started to notice that I had a lot more confidence in my day job and I felt like a fraud on the inside way less often. What I think can be taken from that as a practical step is that if you’re able to take on a project in a field you have reasonable proficiency in, and in which your decisions would effectively be unquestioned, I think that can help a lot, especially after it’s successful conclusion. What that project is really will depend on the person’s interests and skills. But I think this experience can be adapted to almost anyone. Failing that, it’s okay to just sit with it. You have imposter syndrome, but you’re faking it and maybe it doesn’t feel good on the inside, but it’s okay to feel our feelings. We’re really quick to try to explain or improve or forget our negative emotions, but sometimes you have to instead forgive yourself for feeling this way. Understand that this feeling is largely held by women and girls and that it’s a product of the patriarchy. I saw a video in which MICHELLE FREAKING OBAMA talked about dealing with imposter syndrome, and man, if she feels it then maybe that will help a few folks understand that the way we see ourselves is not always accurate. And that we don’t have to beat ourselves up for not having the big picture.

[@adilfarooq3443]

11:09 The really funny thing is that the uni still uses your videos of "Days in a life of a history student" (back when the old library was still alive) or the "Personal Skills award" (which i also completed). I watched those videos before i even knew you were a content creator.

[@justthatgamergirl1]

Really? I went to a PSA meeting and hannah wasn't in the video they showed, tbh I forgot she went to UoB

[@adilfarooq3443]

@@justthatgamergirl1Its on the YT and Website, they would only show current people at meetings for promotional material. Just like for graduation videos they're not going to show promotional material from 5 years ago, it's more current. She is actually on a modern video on the previous PSA students of the year.

[@adilfarooq3443]

@@justthatgamergirl1 Plus when i was a student there those videos were only a year or two old, if that, that was all the promotional material they had back then. Especially the "day in a life" videos and how to use the library services for history students.

[@KaylaLords]

I love that you ended on Dan’s farts. 😂😂😂

[@morehannah]

it's important for you to know my struggle

[@firefly24601]

I mean, whatever is currently happening usually ends when someone farts.... :D

[@randalmillbank8766]

Love the sweater.

[@annakh6414]

Ugh, I love the book thief, I literally just finished rereading it for the... fourth time? And then watched the movie again. Have you seen it? I've also applied for a History degree in the UK for this year (I'm from Germany) and your video about your degree was what originally inspired me to even consider that, so thanks a lot! Will for sure consider your advice if I get in. And I'm three boxes lower and one further right than you but still very much left and very much libertarian haha

[@user-em3vg6ui4g]

About defining success I've learned that humans tent to think once I do this then I'll be successful. It's called the Hedonic treadmill. No matter what amazing things you do you will always find something else to aim for. Experts say it's about loving the process :)

[@marthais8603]

Great video as always! Glad to hear you’re feeling good about the wedding, I got so stressed about ours 🙈 luckily it’s was amazing so it was worth it, as yours will be! Did the political compass - left libertarian for me too. Did you get the certificate? I’m pretty much spot on Bernie Sanders 😂

[@samj3749]

“First year is the year to literally throw shit at the wall and see what sticks” hopefully not literally haha!

[@morehannah]

you never know....

[@samj3749]

More Hannah 😂

[@AnneTichelaar]

I'm actually a Roman-Catholic and a right-wing conservative, but I am a long-time viewer. I think it's important to be exposed to different kinds of views. Very happy with this second channel actually, because I've always been more drawn to your organization/lifestyle content than to the sex & relationships content anyway, although I do still watch the latter as well. I don't usually feel very inclined to engage in the comment section though, because the largely left-leaning bubble is not exactly my comfort zone haha :P

[@pile333]

Nice Hannah's Rorschach sweater

[@Crazypanda12321]

Im reading the Subtle Knife too!

[@colecerys123]

It gives me a massive Friends dynamic that Bethan will be part of your family by marriage :)

[@Cakingit213]

Omg... your favourite book is my favourite book also! My copy I saw in my highschool library on my last days there and I wanted to read it but I knew they wouldn’t let me take it out so I kinda stole it... but my sister was the year below so I had the intention to give it to her to give it back after summer.... that never happened. And while I didn’t realise it at the time, I AM THE BOOK THIEF.

[@Harrison_J_T]

I remember all your cooking videos! I can't remember how I found you but I think it was shortly after you started posting videos.

[@catsandstrawberries]

Love a good Q&A!

[@asliyase]

Awww I’m very excited 4 you to see Istanbul/Turkey

[@efoy_ivyhund6172]

I took the compass, incredibly similar to yours....hehe

[@Kimberly-hm5xj]

not an important comment nor anything like that, but loved haring you say "girassol" LOL i love encountering pieces of portuguese on channels that aren't from Brasil!!! and, obviously: loved the video, as i always do.

[@MissCamiMuller]

Your watch is a Skagen Ur, and is danish design 😊 Skagen is the most northern part of Denmark 🇩🇰

[@Brishti8]

Hannah! It's funny that you're re-reading The Subtle Knife currently because I just finished re-reading The Golden Compass and started The Amber Spyglass haha

[@Crazypanda12321]

Did you skip the Subtle Knife?

[@Brishti8]

@@Crazypanda12321 Yeah I had re-read it before the golden compass - weird order, I know hahaha

[@nevertheonexo]

I'm in the same quadrant as you but further down on the libertarian scale and about 2 squares to the right of you. That is an interesting test, I'd never heard of before. Definitely had a UK-ness about it, noticeable to me since I'm Canadian. Questions like porn and some education questions seemed odd to me. But I'm guessing are more relevant to someone in the UK. Anyway great video Hannah!

[@DoorSCARF]

Thanks for sharing, that's so Interesting! If you don't mind : Which questions about porn and education? And why? Was there anythung missing from it that you might have expected to be asked?

[@nevertheonexo]

@@DoorSCARF The question about whether porn should be banned/restricted or free was weird to me since that's not an issue or topic of conversation in Canada or in North America really. I don't know if it's a UK thing or Europe thing but definitely stuck out as odd. As well as the question of whether attendance in school should be compulsory to graduate, again not a topic in Canadian news or politics. I don't think it is a rule or law here in Canada but it really confused me when I thought about it and I made me think a long time. more Questions about healthcare might have been nice, assisted suicides, involvement of the government in personal health. But I also found the questions themselves to be showing a clear bias making it clear to me it seemed about the creator/author's own political leanings.

[@DoorSCARF]

@@nevertheonexo Thank you for sharing! The UK tried to ban porn recently and failed miserable. A certain level of attendance seems to be mandatory to graduate here. That also makes me want to think about it. Yeah those heath topics don't come up so much here but I feel like they should. :)

[@CatherineAuld]

Great video Hannah. I really like your earrings - where are they from?

[@FlipFlop2729]

How did I not know that you studied in Birmingham?? I'm currently spending my term abroad here and I love it very much!

[@morehannah]

aw amazing! well it was a long time ago...

[@anakarenr.5871]

I'm thinking of spending a semester abroad too and Birmingham is among my options! I was so surprised with this info/coincidence too lol

[@FlipFlop2729]

@@anakarenr.5871 I think it is a good city to live in, but a bit strange if you just want to visit :)

[@justthatgamergirl1]

@@anakarenr.5871 Uob has a very pretty and active campus, that's all I'm gunna say

[@johnnymissesme7464]

I think we already need a third channel. A more more Hannah maybe? Two don't seem to be enough for me! :)

[@DopamineDiscoveries]

I’m in the same quadrant on the political compass as you but about a few notches to the right and a couple notches upwards 😊 Yessss will be binge watching sex education tomorrow

[@danielleferguson2332]

I'm going to Disney Feb 3-6! I would probably pass out if I met you there

[@morehannah]

ah we will just miss each other...

[@danielleferguson2332]

@@morehannah darn! I hope you have a great time! I'm nervous cause this is my first time ever!

[@alphabetsnoop]

More Hannah Could you post about going to Disney/Universal as an ostomate? I have an ileostomy and I’m going in early June. I’ve only seen videos that are many years old or dudes. Would love your perspective including things like how rides were, bathroom access, travel tips/what’s in your ostomy kit and how the DAS (disability) passes were for you as we can get those at Disney and Universal as people with ostomies!

[@Isabella-de7kv]

„But that depends on a few things that I don’t know about yet so we shall see“ Yeah, well... 2020 had a few surprises there didn’t it? 😂

[@EmmaAus]

Hahaha I was literally just about to comment this, was just checking if someone else already had... Yeah, Hannah pretty much made a perfectly worded quote without realising :-p

[@marianneshepherd6286]

Great video! I wondered do you listen to The Emma Guns Show? She recently had Dominic Masters on talking about BDSM, sex and sexuality. Its a very interesting conversation x

[@francescoleman-williams911]

The book Come As You Are also has a workbook, just wondering if anyone’s got that or has used it? Any review of it? Thanks?

[@joaquinfernandez6534]

Who's Dan's sister??? I'm curious help

[@katem9718]

Bethan Leadley, also known as musicalbethan or just Leadley. This is now public knowledge so I don't feel bad for sharing!

[@katybechnikova2821]

Everyone is getting married!!!!!!!!! I don't wanna be married but the pressure is real.

[@janablom3443]

My political views are very similair to yours. I'm just al little more Liberterian and a little more central left. But that might be a language bariere thing or the fact that I live in the Netherlands instead of the UK. That might also be the reason I was suprised by some off the Questions that where asked.

[@niamhkelly6859]

I'm in the same quadrant as you for the political compass, but I'm one square to the right, and only one square away from the bottom which is really interesting for me, I assumed I was super left but I guess I'm actually super libertarian and quite left

[@NoraMandelkern]

do you have a goodreads? I would love to see what you read more

[@morehannah]

Yes I do! Just search Hannah Witton and you should find me!

[@poorainbowshit2570]

Left Libertarian here too

[@zeyneptuna4446]

I am from Istanbul! Is it gonna be a public event?

[@Sunshine34891]

very much appreciate you not writing a book just because you 'need to write another book'! just do it when you have another great idea!

[@isabelnecessary5915]

21:50 Umm I think you must’ve told the story before, I definitely knew it already, I think it was on Banging Book Club?

[@daniiellajessica4375]

When I was looking at Geckos I was told that boy gecko and lady gecko living together permanently is a bad idea because the boy gecko will just constantly want to mate and the lady gecko won't and it will make her unwell... Just a thought :)

[@gracetaylor6309]

You talking about your grandparents and Dan’s gran watching your videos 🤣

[@NiamhAlicexxx]

where did you get these earrings? they are v cute

[@morehannah]

they're just from H Samuel - christmas present from Dan! I haven't taken them off since Christmas Day! 😂

[@ZombieInvader]

I would love to see a book from you entirely about sex/ relationships and disability.

[@nora4932]

Did the political compass just now. Also a left libertarian. But I like your little left libertarian bubble :) It's nice here! :)

[@morehannah]

it is very nice!

[@westpennineswanderer5920]

Wonderful:)

[@loz_nz]

I haven't done the political compass since I was in high school (and I'm now 24), but yup still a left-libertarian

[@TJ-ke3zt]

Hi 👋

[@bam111965]

Lefty Libertarian here too

[@erinshay2108]

Left libertarian! 😊 That quiz was enjoyable as well

[@JAvantGartist]

"I don't know if my degree on a sex subject makes me qualified to talk about sex" HANNAH

[@morehannah]

But it’s a HISTORY degree

[@JAvantGartist]

@@morehannah Nah I'm not having it 😝😂

[@livefreediepretty]

Travel plans in 2020 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SnowFamilyVacations]

Will Dan see your dress before the wedding?

[@morehannah]

yeah probably!

[@SnowFamilyVacations]

@@morehannah That's fun! I want to show my fiance mine so bad because I am excited about it but I also want it to be a surprise!

[@raphaelleyokota4755]

"hashtag not all me" mouahahaha

[@pyrrhogaster]

Political compass, pretty close to the center of the green, -4.88, -5.54. Is that an echo I hear???

[@asquaredofficial4676]

I’m pretty sure that if you contact KZbin they may be able to recover your first YT videos