week in my life: organizing my kitchen + being honest/ opening up

[@XoxoAnnieMarie]

gretchen: i say this because i love you, but i recently started going to therapy after putting it off for YEARS. I had every excuse in the book, it was too expensive, I didn't have time, I didn't need it, I didn't know where to start, I 'forgot', etc etc etc. But I just finished up a virtual session with my new therapist and it is such a sigh of relief to talk to someone and be heard and understood and have ANSWERS. and I just want everyone to feel that way so this is a gentle offering that you can talk to someone and cope with your dad's passing ❤️

[@briannanazarenus4289]

Girl you have to stop apologizing for living your life!!! You’re an adult, in an adult relationship, with adult responsibilities, adult feelings, and have things happen in your life!! We love you girl, you do you and feel what you feel. ❤️❤️

[@evameeks5346]

Grief, my friend is never easy. When you lose someone important to you, it feels like the world should stop. But in reality the world keeps moving and all of a sudden you are having to learn how to live life without them. Take as long as you need. Those texts were a way you connected with your dad, and losing them is like losing a part of your dad. It’s completely understandable. Grief isn’t an easy process and in someway or another you’ll be grieving for the rest of your life. Lean into your people today Gretchen. We are rooting you on. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

[@garlandcollections5094]

Going to therapy might be such an amazing space to talk about your dad and your memories with him guilt free, I feel like you deserve to have that space while you grieve 💓

[@mikaylakelhart4910]

gretchen i am sending you all the love in the world!!!! thank you for being real with us and showing the ups and the downs. your dad is always with you and watching over you - you have the best guardian angel looking down on you!! loved this vlog even though it was spread out over a week, love you!

[@frankiezeichner8909]

Gretchen, thank you so much for being real and honest because your one of the few people on youtube who aren't afraid to do so. sending so many prayers to you and your family! stay strong! btw love ur videos and channel

[@cassandrag8433]

You should get the note from your dad that you keep in your oatmeal container laminated! That way the paper doesn’t get messed up/ruined over time and you could tape or glue it onto the top, the sticky on the post it will probably let go after a while

[@maddiejarrett721]

Gretchen I've been watching your videos forever now and I just want to tell you, you share so much light and happiness and your videos honestly brighten my day. We all appreciate your openness and realness and we're all here to listen. We love you in all your forms, happy or sad, you're such a beautiful person. xoxo

[@carolineknotts5677]

grief is not linear!!! totally normal to feel like this and it also helps me to do things to connect to the person you've lost. sending you so much love xx

[@emilyn9449]

Watching you say you’re right there with us, if we might be feeling down, and that tomorrow will be better is everything I needed. Thank you Gretchen ❤️

[@martinsedillo9544]

I love how real you are and that actually helped when you opened up because I know I am not alone when having a bad day. And once again I love you and you help me so much Gretchen.

[@sierraadams9131]

I had a bad day yesterday missing my mom. She painted her nails almost everyday because she hated when they chipped. Last night I had a chipped nail so I painted mine and it made me feel close to her too. Sending love❤️

[@adriannamurphy5847]

they have acrylic organizers for your fridge on amazon! they have a whole set for around $40. I think they also have sets at the container store for a little bit more. they are so helpful!

[@raayjayyy]

I love you. My dad has als and you being so open about your grief helps me so much. Keep being you you’re such a light. 💫💕

[@jessicacossette5602]

I watched this a year ago when your dad passed and cried because I couldn’t imagine. Then I lost my boyfriend of four years 2 months ago, and seeing this really made me feel comforted even when it’s something nobody should have to feel comfortable with. Just wanted to comment and say grieving comes in waves and the fact that it’s been a year and you still have your days, makes me feel like it’s okay to have my own days when it’s hard to get out of bed. So thank you 💛

[@pugs910]

I’ve had a TOUGH year, and specifically a tough few weeks. I have barely been keeping it together. We can support each other and get through these tough times. You’re a strong lady, Gretchen. I know it never gets better but grief gets easier to deal with. Quarantine and COVID makes things tougher too. It’ll all work out b

[@erikalaszlo8239]

I love that you're opening up to us more in vlogs like this!! It makes us all seem a little closer with you ❤️ I'm so happy you have Brody to cheer you up during these random waves of being sad! Dogs really are the best

[@emily845]

just Gretchen and I sitting here chilling getting into that positive mindset before my senior pictures. you already know the vibes. I’m all for the open and honesty we got going. Love you queen

[@kristenconger]

Girl I wish I could give you a huge hug! Sending my love! It’s hard right now especially as the weather changes and just remember you’re aloud to talk to us and tell us you’re real feelings more. You’re human and crying, venting, complaining, expressing yourself in every way.. that’s okay!! You’re allowed xox love you so much girl!

[@cassie-2000]

Words cant even describe how much this meant to me! I have been struggling the past few days and having someone tell me im not alone helped me so much! Thank you! And I am sorry for your struggles. Sending hugs💕

[@brigitteflannery2040]

Haha there’s nothing like Gretchen’s vlogmas!!! I’m excited too!!

[@paigejohnson2426]

opened this when i was having a bad day and it made me feel so much better

[@andreamayotte8803]

I’m only 3 minutes into this video and just want to say; Gretchen you are strong and beautiful and loved and all your feelings are valid and you inspire people everyday to keep going and it is wonderful you show us the ups and downs of your life and that shows us how much we mean to you and how nobody is perfect and that takes some real courage💕 I hope you continue to be strong, know your loved, and nobody else matters in this moments than you and your closest family/loved ones✨

[@paigeacerra4808]

i definitely feel u in the beginning when u started crying bout ur dad. i lost my dad almost 3 years ago so i definitely know what u mean when u say u can just cry at any moment. some days it just come outta no where. love u gretchen. do not apologize for crying ever

[@Rosaleehicks]

You are so strong and even when you’re sad you’re so inspirational. Thank you for being you and your KZbin fam loves you dearly ❤️

[@rachelsmith3415]

Thank you for being so open with about missing your dad. My grandpa passed away in May and I have been missing him a lot lately and it's good to know that having days when you cry and miss them is ok! We will always have them in our hearts!

[@lsharp28]

I love the mundane things in the vlogs like organizing your pantry and kitchen. I think a lot of your viewers have grown up with you and find that relatable! I literally organized my fridge this past weekend haha

[@alexirr8]

The map is so cute above the clothing rack and with the black hangers!

[@sharron74]

It's been 9 years since I lost my husband and some days it feels like yesterday. IMO you are still so early in your grief. Still numb. I won't tell you it gets easier you just learn how to live with it. For me, it's easier to let myself feel my grief than to try and get myself out of it. I've found that to me is almost shoving it under the carpet and it will surface again. But girl, a song, a food, a smell, a sound can trigger the feeling. Grief attacks are also a thing. Google it. I read a quote once and it has stuck with me throughout my grief. Grief is just love with no place to go. That's so true! Big hugs!!

[@debrafirestone861]

I feel the same way I lost my husband back in end of 2012 and it seems like yesterday to It really has never been the same for me I was happy for the past 3 years but then I got involved with someone else who I new was sick with Cancer but I wanted to make his last years happy he passed away summer of 2019. He lost his battle with Prostate Cancer I’m alone agsin I have 2 Daughters. But I need a companion

[@debrafirestone861]

I also just lost my 96 year old Mother

[@imanhawaa8887]

You’re incredibly strong, your dad is so proud of you!! Thanks for always being so open, your videos & positivity always brighten my day!! Sending you sm love❤️❤️

[@oliviaskirvin1484]

I love you so much Gretchen! You’re so strong girl 🤍

[@lissapacker9265]

You dad is definitely in heaven so proud of you right now & every day. Thanks for being so real & for bringing a smile to our faces on the good & bad days. 💛

[@missgonzo2755]

My dad passed in 2005 & my mom in 2016 & I could still cry at the drop of a dime at times. No matter how much time passes it still hurts. I legit cried when u cried. Crying can be good! Love you girl!!!

[@brynndougherty9882]

Max building the clothing rack for you....he really is a keeper! Love you guys!!

[@hannahjones643]

everyone needs a Max. Love you!!

[@anissaashraf9089]

Aww Gretchen!! I lost my grandmother this year and have found grief to be such a hard thing to handle. Please don't ever feel bad for feeling the way you feel because we all go through it

[@lisseld4141]

I lost both my grandparents this year due to covid which was the saddest thing for me, but I can only imagine her pain knowing she lost her dad, i know it was very devastating

[@xprettypinkpolishx]

I love this week in my life and your my favourite youtuber Gretchen! 💛 we are here for you and love you!

[@ariakhateri]

It’s rlly refreshing to see youtubers be so open and vulnerable :)

[@Ashley-zo4nd]

omg you literally just made me cry i’m so sorry love 🥺❤️ some days it hurts worse than others & today was just one of those days.

[@asmasyed3640]

The song "fix you" by Coldplay has gotten me through some tough times in my life. I would blast it on repeat till I felt better. I can relate with the beginning of your video, you are so strong to share. Sending love from Texas :)

[@fionamarren9677]

I love the way you and max talk about Brody!! You're always so proud of him and obsessed with him!!! Also, although I haven't lost my father, I lost my grandpa two years ago. I know how hard grief is and I know exactly what you mean by "it stings". Whenever I have to talk ab my grandpa, I feel it in my chest and the tears just come. I love you so much and I know it'll get better and easier (for the both of us). Love you (also I dm you a lot about random stuff and I'd love if you took a look)

[@brandilynn7509]

Leaving another Gretchen & Max video just to see a new one!!!

[@littlemeg8562]

You are so positive and inspirational. I love watching your videos 😘

[@blossomingprincess9266]

I just wanted to remind you that we love you so much and adore you! You’re so incredibly strong and can push through everything 💕

[@jalyassin]

Aww Gretchen ❤️ I can understand how hard it is going through life without your Dad by your side. It definitely sounds like he was a wonderful person god bless his soul. I miss my grandfather every moment of my life. I’m closer to my grandparents than my parents. Sometimes I dream of my grandfather and I get to hug him and smell and feel safe being hugged by him and I wake up so happy. I wish dreams of your Dad for you 🤗

[@izziesmalkais6337]

3 minutes in to your video and im crying!! love you Gretchen, thank you for being you

[@GGGIANA]

We love you Gretchen!! We will always be here for you!

[@bdbflute]

Your fridge organization was so helpful because my boyfriend and I just moved into a house and were trying to figure out how to organize it lol

[@julianamurray3576]

you're so strong and beautiful!

[@Erika-ym8vc]

You can change how long you keep your messages! I still have messages from 2015--you can keep them forever if you change it in settings!

[@MadiPaige]

I’ve been feeling the exact same girly! Just remember to breathe and take it a day at a time 🥰

[@ashleylinn5809]

I just think she’s so sweet & pure & genuine. Honestly I am usually annoyed with girls who are too cute & sweet but she’s so authentic & I just love her & want to be her friend lol.

[@anquanettehouston5179]

Oh babygirl , I just wanted to squeeze you . You and your family are sooo strong & just know we’re all here with you . We all love you so much 💛

[@hannafolkenroth4549]

Wow. I needed this video so badly. Today I’ve had an extremely rough day and wanted to watch your video bc it always makes me happy & it helped a lot seeing that I’m not going through this alone. Thank you 💗🥰

[@lovecara8]

You are such an inspiration, Gretchen! Just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you and hope you’re doing well! Thank you for your optimism! Please know it’s okay to be sad too sometimes! Love you and am so grateful for how genuine you are with us! Love from my channel. ❤️

[@kerstinjoy7045]

What you were saying about the text messages deleting, I had the same exact thing happen to me with my best friend that passed away a couple of years ago. I assumed they would always be there and then they randomly deleted. Super painful & hard to have them just taken away. Thanks for being real!

[@KPB1998]

The hourly planners are life savers it allows you to make realistic to do lists and actually feel accomplished instead of defeated for not getting an unrealistic list done! It will make you feel so much better!❤️

[@GretchenGeraghty7]

it really does!!

[@sportstyler50]

Gretchens always so honest and real.

[@graceelaine21]

gretchen your realness in this made me feel way less alone, thank you x a million

[@sunnykhatri8530]

i love you max and brody so much!! my favorite youtuber 💗💗💗

[@fearlesspotatoes]

I tried the choc marshmallows oreos from a vlog a few weeks ago and wow... so yum!! Thanks for the rec G!

[@courtneyquinn3747]

Aw Gretchen, you're such a strong girl, ily!! I just turned to my boyfriend, paused the vlog, and said you know why I love Gretchen and her vlogs so much, because of how pure and humble you are!!! Needed this video!

[@YoutubeAccountx]

Hey Gretchen, I'm 24 and lost my dad this summer. I just want you to know that you are not alone and when you share your story and feelings it makes me feel less alone. We are strong but our feelings are valid and real. I sobbed today from missing him and want to scream because it feels so unfair. My dad was my best friend and I told him everything and adored him. I know your hurt. Sending all of the love.

[@laurenpreston8618]

Gretchen! I would love if you share/show the new commands and tricks that Brody learns throughout his class. I actually have a border collie poodle mix and I am always looking for new tricks to teach her!

[@itsmehaley2]

Much love to you Gretchen 💖

[@philippaalbrecht8397]

im from australia and boot of the car is the same as trunk!

[@xxJessica14Nicolexx]

Oh Gretchen! You have me crying at 8 am! My dad passed away 6 years ago this month and it still can make me cry at the drop of a hat and it becomes overwhelming at the most random times. And I totally relate to you being upset about the texts bc a couple months after my dad passed I dropped my phone in a mall parking lot and never found it again and I lost all the voicemails he left me and I was devastated. So it’s completely normal to want to go back and read those texts!! keep your chin up and snuggle Brody extra 🥰🥰🥰

[@kennedymalone4157]

i remember when you got your puppy i found you because i was so exited to get mine and omg he has gotten so big!!my puppy is almost the same size and when i found you i was so happy!

[@brooklynwilson_]

I don’t know if you’re religious but Gretchen.. you’re in my prayers!! I love you and we’re here for you!! Loved the vlog, everything turned out so perfectly and I hope you keep in mind that it’s ok to not be ok sometimes! Much love! 🤍

[@katiethornton7462]

Yes! Boot is trunk in English!

[@laurenmateria2518]

Gretchen, you always foster such a safe space for us and I appreciate your vulnerability💛 we love you!

[@xprettypinkpolishx]

I’d love to see a haul or fave products!

[@daniheartsmakeupp1]

go to documents search a key word or a number and they show in ichat docs

[@bonniemae1397]

Love you❤️ I’m so excited for Vlogmas too!!! I’ve been watching old vlogmas videos!!

[@DeannaPandolfo]

sending so much love & prayers!! love this vlog 😍

[@MunroCutiee9]

Every time I watch one of your videos I think to myself “okay this is my favourite one yet” 💕

[@valleriecoward7703]

Gretchen grieve comes in waves my granny passed a year ago and I could just think of her randomly and start crying I love you and you never have to feel bad for crying

[@mackenzierae7731]

When you’re about to go to bed but Gretchen uploads a video 😍😍😍

[@alexandermauritius3072]

Me too

[@tarynsimon8678]

My family is South African and we say boot haha. You were right it means trunk, like the back of your car. Btw love you Gretchen!! Your videos always brighten my days when im sad

[@annikachapman4779]

You're so strong! You should laminate that cute little note from your dad so that it will never get ruined from food/liquid! You can even put a little Velcro piece on it so it can stay in the oatmeal container. Sending all my love

[@confabulatethat]

Sending you lots of love from Cambridge, MA Gretchen

[@immabemusicfreak19]

you guys, it also was her parents' anniversary recently too. G, it's normal to be sad and things like the messages, only get better with the time spent as years go on. we love you! Btw, border collies can learn over 1,000 words there's a psychologist who studied it

[@aaliyahgreene7162]

Love you Gretchen from the Bahamas 🇧🇸

[@nava2626]

gretchen, if you had an old backup, you could restore from it and get those messages back and change the settings so they don't delete!

[@jessicawalsh6091]

i want to be as empathetic as possible in saying this, but i have no idea how you feel and i can’t even begin to fathom it. just know it’s it’s okay to show your emotions. i’m sure it’s really scary to be super vulnerable, especially because of how ruthless people are online. so many people love and support you, including myself, and we’re ready to listen to what you have to say and even though we’re on the other side of a screen, sometimes it can almost feel like we’re having a one on one conversation and eating cinnamon rolls together 🤪! love you gretchen, you’re the best 🥺🤍

[@KatieSev]

Sending love and strength your way 💓💓

[@jalyassin]

The pantry looks great 👍🏼

[@annamack6526]

Thank you for being so real and raw, just a suggestion I recommend you laminate your sticky note inside the jar of oats and then put it back in there just to make sure it lasts forever!

[@daniheartsmakeupp1]

your messages save to your computer gretchen! you just have to search in finder like a key word or even his number i think and they show up!!!

[@bellanicole4550]

I'm from Britain and we say "the boot" when you guys would say "the trunk". The only thing we refer to as a "trunk" is an elephant's nose or a tree trunk but yah, same thing ha x

[@emilyspengler3106]

Love u boo!!!!!!

[@michaellamichaud-hunter9097]

it’s perfectly okay to have bad days! If you can’t bring yourself to upload or film sometimes- that’s okay! We want to see you happy and healthy and really, that’s all that matters. Take care of yourself first, everything else can come after.💛

[@Lodewey.21]

Wow, clicked on this video as I got to my room which I was escaping to because I didn’t want to cry in front of people. Overwhelmed by sadness, seemed like it all piled on top of each other today😔 Thanks for sharing, you are not alone❤️ wishing I had my own Max☺️also, organizing always makes me feel better too!!🤪

[@hilaryfraser5779]

restore your phone to last week and get the messages back! Then text his number so they don't disappear

[@cassie-2000]

Such a good idea!

[@abbybrown3370]

try contacting your service provider for your phone to see if they can give you your messages back in someway

[@CT-xw3ct]

YES

[@CT-xw3ct]

Try that!

[@lizklepp14]

I love you, thank you for always being real and telling us what is up! If you ever need a friend in Allentown, let me know!

[@trinaclarkdilworth4822]

Love you Gretchen!

[@Thealvarez0722]

Hi Gretchen, it’s ok to cry sometimes we need to let it out to heal our wounds. God Is the best person to talk to in those hard moments your dad is still there with you in your heart ❤️ you are an amazing person that a lot of us admire. May God give you piece and we all love you 😘 May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏼♥️🌻

[@emilycharlottebrooks]

In England a ‘trunk’ is called a ‘boot’. We have ‘car boot’ sales where people drive to a field and sell their things!❤️ sending love and prayers x

[@alyssa_runfit7598]

show us how you make your acorn squash looks delish!

[@caitlinmoore8874]

i’m from Australia and we say boot, it’s the same thing as a trunk on your car but just a different word for it!