Weekend Vlog | Solocation | Getting Vulnerable | Daniel Fast Preparations

Hey friends
Welcome to another weekend vlog. Hope you enjoy it.

[@funananitshililo8707]

Don't worry Mandy . It will all come to pass. One thing i know, that girl loves you with all her heart. We all can see it through the cameras. Being a teen is not an easy journey, especially the age 14,15,16 and 17. from social pressures, to pushing behavioral boundaries, to experimentation with alcohol, to boy-girl issues to acne... Give her time . She will come one day and thank you for being a great mom. Whether she's in KZN with or without you......Trust the process

[@leratobela5621]

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[@yolandenonhlanhladlamini1944]

Since You Tube restricted ads on this vlog,I hope this makes a difference. Thank you for always delivering the content without fail even when this employer is being ghetto ❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Yolande 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️. Thank you so much babe. You’re always so supportive 🥹🥹🥹

[@yolandenonhlanhladlamini1944]

​@@TheMillennialMom1 We've got your back girrrrl. You've got my support, I've been on your Chanel for a very long time to not mean what I say. Usuka kude Amanda, that's how I know that even now Konke kuzolunga

[@MrsGodolozi]

Sending love 🥹❤️🌹

[@ThabiNyoni]

Why r the ads restricted?

[@LessyLesegoLive]

Im a single mother of a 21 year old, lesbian child. I have been judged to the core, been told that if i was a good girlfriend, my baby daddy wouldnt have left and my daughter wouldnt have been lesbian, so many things have been said but i stay loving my seed, as she is. And im happy at how my mom, my sister and i raised her, she is an amazing human being so never take what people say to heart, they dont know what they are talking about. You are doing enough!

[@kitsontuli2713]

Ag askies babes. I may be childfree so I don't relate on the parent aspect, but I do empathize with you as a woman. Don't you worry this too shall pass. Remember Philippians 4:13.

[@NokuphiwaPopi9945]

Ohh sthandwa sam🥰 I'm a boy mom I have 3 of them 17,15 and 8yrs old. I'm a single mom too from 2 different baby daddies my 1 ex is no more and the other one a dead beat of note. I am going through it mntase. Apart from them being teenagers kukho the financial responsibility ehleli entanyeni. My 17 year old is going to varsity this year and ziyakhala mntase, kumuncu endlini mntase tension is on another level and the worst part is that he's not expressive, we tried therapy wathi he's fine akaydingi now he wants it cos he says he's not coping and andinayo kengok imali😭 then there's the other 2 nabo banezabo iingxaki that I must cater to. It's my birthday this coming Saterday rhe 13 but kubonakala ngathi ndizozivalela endlini ndilale. Lilonke Mandy abantwana abafani, weather boys or girls struggles are struggles I believe and if you're not experiencing such you're blessed, tank the Lord for that

[@luthandomayiwe6388]

From the perspective of the child: I stayed with my grandmother while my mom looked for a job, she was 19 at the time. My mom found work, started supporting the family financially and would visit frequently. Years later when my mom was in a better place, she made the decision to fetch me. We stayed together for a year but things weren’t going well. Mentally, I had deteriorated to a point where my grades slipped and I failed for the first time. No ill treatment, I simply couldn’t adjust to my new life. Ma asked why I was so unhappy, and I told her I wanted to go home (granny). She took me back to my grandmother. 1/2

[@luthandomayiwe6388]

I was happy instantly, passed and maintained my grades well until I finished school. Things were back to normal. Although Alwande’s situation could be completely different from mine, I just want to 1. commend you for giving her the room to choose where she wants to be. It’s the best thing, the most selfless thing to do as a mother. 2. To assure you that both of you will be okay. You will form a relationship, and that this is not a rejection, although it may feel like one. Grandmother is now late, but mom and I are tight as thieves. Things will come together, trust the process. I will be praying for all of you, may God give you a peace that surpasses all understanding. 2/2

[@TheMillennialMom1]

@@luthandomayiwe6388Luthando thank you so much. You don’t understand what this comment does for me. Your situation and mines is a bit similar so I’m finding so much hope in this ❤❤

[@NoNameChannel677]

​@@luthandomayiwe6388 its like Mandy knew I was going through something similar and spoke about this and thank you Luthando for this comment. After struggling with mental issues for years and finally getting my ish together, fetched my 2 kids last year to stay with me cz that's always been my dream, I thought things were okay but my daughter (14) asked to go back to stay with mom, I was and still am very shattered, I feel rejected by her, worse for me ke, mom and I don't really have a relationship ( a lot happened) I threatened my baby girl, manipulated, tried to talk openly and honestly with her to make her understand why I want her with me but she still wants to go.. I have been angry and pretending to be happy when talking to her but after reading you comment, I sent her a message telling her it's okay if she's happy with her gran, she can't stay then visit me when she wants to.. it still hurts so so bad but, I feel like I did something wrong though she says I didn't but thank you, yo message helped me see a different perspective 😢😢😢😢 U gonna be okay Amanda ❤❤❤❤❤

[@NoNameChannel677]

​@@TheMillennialMom1 you will definitely be okay Mandy, we'll be okay ❤❤❤ you've done so well taking care of your babies and I've learnt so much from this video especially on people's comments ❤ 🫂🫂

[@YolandaOMG]

Mandy, i dont drink alcohol.....when life throws lemons i deal with them head on, no crutches just a clear mind to make the best decisions. I think the fast will be good for you, remember to give yourself grace as well. You are doing the best you can and you are a damn good mom. Hold your head high Amanda, sending lots of love and hugs❤

[@JoziMom]

After watching this vlog, there's so much I wanna say to you but all in all, I really pray for your healing. You are so strong and thank you for also showing us vulnerable Mandy, shows us that we are not alone in our struggles. Virtual hug mama, you've got this. Wishing you and your family a very prosperous 2024 ❤

[@ayandanicole2720]

You can’t pour from an empty jug , pour into yourself mommy so you can pour in to their vessels ❤

[@ntombifuthiblose1535]

Syabonga cc for always being real on this channel. Just remember, akukho okungadluli with time :) I am a single mother of two, and I really understand what you're going through esp wrt the lack of support from the paternal families. Sending LOVE to you and your babies.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you so much mommy 🥹🥹🥹

[@bathabilepoppy6585]

Last week I posted on Facebook that "I am a single Mom of two boys and I'm trying all my best raising them with the strength that God gives but to be honest a father is needed my first boy is a teenager and zyakhala" you are not alone siyagowisha Cc

[@wholesomelynyasha9413]

May God grant you all the strength you need . Mama, you are doing your best, and I believe you will get through it.God bless you and yours🙏🏼

[@NwabisaK]

And the fathers dont know that ...when we are telling them have a relationship with your child. They think you want them back ...but mommy we must pray and push God is on our side ❤

[@phaladimagongoa8370]

🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂❤❤ Sending lots of love and ukukhanya

[@Ziphozonke98]

Thanks sis for being vulnerable with us....❤

[@bynandimu]

Awwww Mandy, this vlog really touched my heart, I wish I could reach out and give you a big hug. Praying for you and all mommies going through a tough time.❤🫂

[@sparrow62210]

This will pass my sister.I am also a single mother of two girls, a teenager and a toddler. You are doing an amazing job, never doubt yourself.

[@noziphokhumalo2963]

Looks like there’s a lot of us in this situation. Teens and toddlers which is an extreme sport, actually we need a support group cause it’s wild out here😂

[@Katlego-Mootho]

Let’s increase our SOLO experiences this year. Come December count things you did on your own n enjoyed it💖💕.I have enjoyed this vlog Mandy keep going❤.

[@mphochokwe7867]

Big hug Mandy. Thank you for being vulnerable and opening yourself up to us strangers. We will hold you up in prayer. God loves you and your girls❤️. All shall be well.

[@rapholomampie]

Hi Mandy You are not alone...those of us going through our own struggles commend you for being able to share, I cried so much while watching this video...thank you I needed that cry...Sending virtual hugs to you.

[@Swaz310]

Everything you're sharing Mandy is soo realistic and believe me most of us single mothers or just mothers are going through a lot, parenting is not easy...but you are doing well mama.. We are a community and we are behind you and are rooting for you and cheering you all the way. Thank you for being vulnerable with us.. You have no idea how your struggles are our struggles and seeing you being so really about them is so healing to us. ❤❤

[@Carolynexm]

Mandy, I want you to know that you are an incredible mother, even on the toughest days. Your strength and love for your children shine through, even when times are challenging. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times, but never doubt the amazing job you're doing as a mom. Your dedication and care are truly admirable, and your children are lucky to have you. As you navigate the ups and downs of motherhood, always remember that you are doing a fantastic job, and your efforts do not go unnoticed. Keep shining bright, Mandy, and know that you are appreciated and loved.

[@megroge1554]

You are doing your best mama. That is all that matters. In a couple of years, you will look back and know you did well.

[@tumibaloyi2915]

Generally the parent who "stayed" (usually the mother) gets the short end of the stick, from both society and the kids for whom you stayed. Sorry Mandy wethu. You are a damn good mother and Wawa knows this too. We thank God for the parents who are there to walk the parenting journey with their own grown kids. May God carry this load for you or give you strength to carry it yourself. You are loved ntombazana ❤❤❤

[@mulalonemasetoni8924]

Those people that tell you to start a healing journey don’t tell you how lonely it is. When you heal yourself you always get resistance. You were brave enough to speak out and now you have to so the work of walk on unfamiliar territory. You are a warrior Mandy. You are doing amazing

[@nomali7090]

❤❤I’ve always heard speak on mum guilt I felt it dec when my kids visited they grandma dec first week I felt so bad but then I learnt that being away from them is needed cause u focus on healing you and u get better and happier I enjoyed not being on constant go mode and not feeling things that happen to you ❤❤❤

[@syathokozahlophe9011]

Aww Mandy, please allow yourself to cry .. im soo sorry dear.. You actually need to let it all out and being on survival mode is always the worse cos when it comes it becomes a lot. I'm not a mother , but you are doing a great job..

[@taysteevibes]

One thing I've learnt from watchung your vlogs is how to be vulnerable. I've learnt that crying is okay. Not having anything figured out is okay. I am a single mom to a 6 year old and its super hard. I cry daily. But some way some how you always seem to make my week. ❤ everything will be okay Mandy. Alwande knows how much you love her and how much your doing for her and Milani. I love you Mandy❤

[@lesibamashaba3898]

Been watching you for a while and you are an amazing mother, you literally break every single boundry for your kids, it will get better ❤

[@nachimwilz]

You have brought me to tears...i am a teen mum to a girl but honestly she makes it so much easier to raise her. I call him my donor because he donated my child to me. He has never been present but i thank God for the strength he gives me to raise my child. It is okay to cry...i do that sometimes.

[@siphesihledlamini9992]

Hey Mandy. I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through hope 2024 ibabetter for you and your family ❤️🫂

[@nokwazishezi7580]

You doing so good Mandy with your kids,nothing is permanent this too shall pass Alwande will be fine ❤

[@KagiMoropa]

For me you represent normalcy. Ive had a hectic December with work deadlines and everyone at home. No leave futhi😂. Promised myself a solocation this month so thank you for the inspiration. Also Amanda, raising another human being is not easy, let alone a teen who has been through so much and is still figuring this life thing out. I'm a boy mom by the way and agree with you 100%. This vlog was just everything❤

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

Mandy,the most beautiful woman❤. You are amazing dear. I pray you find peace dear❤. You are one woman that kept me strong when I WAS WEAK. I FOUND SO MUCH STRENGTH,PEACE, COURAGE AND LOVE FROM YOU. I PRAY GOD GIVES YOU ALL THAT YOU DESIRE according to his will.❤❤❤❤WE LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL MANDY

[@lesedimello1441]

Askies sis Mandy🥺 it will be better ❤️ and I’m sure every decision you’ll take will be what’s best for you and your kids and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise because at the end of the day it’s just you and your family ❤️.This vacation was indeed needed 🫶🏽

[@nyashamatangi-lx4ns]

For some reason watching your vlogs brings me so much joy and l get to learn new things from you that l would like to implement in my life.l appreciate you 😊

[@nolu_mqina]

The vulnerability! You are doing so well for these babies ❤️

[@boikhutso_baboledi]

Lesedi Cultural Village 😍 I was there for 4 nights, celebrating my birthday alone sthandwa. It was a phenomenal experience, the staff is top tier. I felt at home 🙌 It’s the best place to reset 💯 I wanna bring my family this year.

[@karaboprisca1155]

Thanks!

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you my love 🥺🥺

[@lavonya_dlamini]

Umuhle Mami... You are Gorgeous Mandy, don't ever forget that. ❤️❤️❤️

[@bethusilemakohliso8860]

Hey Mandy thank you for the vlog, glad you took some time off to yourself ...sorry for all the struggles you currently going through kodwa just know everything happens for a reason,maybe Alwande leaving to be your parents kukhona something God ambalekisa kuyo in JHB ...What do they say about God Plans and Our Plans mmmh yah that..happy new year have a lovely 2024

[@morongwa100]

Love and Light❤❤❤❤❤Your an awesome mom,you are doing way better that us who have support from baby daddies.

[@nomalungelomqhwayo9506]

Mandy, You got this mama 🤍

[@leratomotaung9848]

You made me cry Mandy. It is just a phase it will pass ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Nevertoolate6169]

`thank you Mandy for the wholesome vlog, your vulnerability is like a therapy some of us. As they say things might look worse before they get better. I am a believer of everything happens for a reason maybe this is the way God want to restore peace, love and tranquility to ur life (family). love and light to you babe gal, i love you loads😍. Ooh that call from Aunty made my day that was so sweet of her, i had no idea how i missed her voice!😂

[@kaysongo6785]

Ow Mandy sending you a virtual hug 🫂 mommy,cry it out doll 😢❤sorry you are going through this hardships again

[@mmapulahlompho92]

I've cried so much watching this vlog and I just don't know what to say... ❤️❤️❤️

[@nothandomdleko3696]

Mandy I saw the video you posted on your Instagram story about single mothers. And I just want to thank you for being our voice, those who haven't find the strength within ourselves.

[@louiscanthyshakela88]

Crying 😭 is FINE. You will heal AMANDA. YOU WILL BE FINE MY DEAR..

[@ChristlovingMom]

The Daniel fast could not have come at a better time for you. I'm not sure if you have a set programme but often Daniel fast programmes are accompanied by daily scripture readings and prayers I hope that you have access to that in order to also help you go through this tough time/transition. The Lord is close to those who are broken hearted may he hear your cries and may you cast your worries and anxieties to him. We really love you Amanda and sikufisela okuhle, I for one am eternally grateful for your channel and vulnerability ,all that you shared came at a time where I didn't know how I would live my life because of a deadbeat. God bless

[@kaysongo6785]

That call from our bestie😊😊AuntyT ow marn Mandy you are really going to be fine mommy 🫂

[@kendifra]

You are doing the best you could possibly do Mandy and we can all see it. Teenage years are difficult years for both the parents and the kids and for your baby, she had a lot of changes with the move and that is understandable. You have made a very selfless decision and that in itself is a testament to how good a mother you are. Everything will be alright. sending you and your girls all the love and hugs.

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

You our hero Mommy! It's a lot. Going through it is the path to go over the mountains. Seems insurmountable sometimes. But if you don't give up, you definitely overcome. I can definitely relate cc. Would love to connect with you! Love your channel. Honestly, you should write a book and narrate the audio version. These experiences would make great case studies for life orientation in schools. Keep at it! Your children have a wonderful parent in you. Godspeed!

[@innocentthlathla5464]

It's how your face changes when you say the car is ugly😂😂. I love you Mandy, you gonna be just fine. We never experience breakthroughs or triumph without hardships❤❤❤

[@ce_1]

Mandy you were not alone last year I struggled with my teenage boy last year, yoh! I went through it as a single mom and I pray things change and are better this year concerning him. ❤

[@lombusodlamini849]

You've never been a bad mom and the fact that you're not hoarding her is testament. I'm truly sorry that the separation is painful. My sister went through the same with her daughter who chose to stay with her dad. The separation troubled my sister a bit but she got a hang of it eventually. Personally, I like this generation of mothers and I'm truly sorry that you make some tough decisions.

[@estherselala2280]

My sister she's raising a teen gal the child was forced to take a gap year in 2023 only to find that she was struggling with depression and anxiety since 2022 then 2023 she was in and out hospital for counseling and admission but now she's fine and ready for school in 2024 but the psychologist recommends recommends online school because of her anxiety through the process my sister was weak and forced to be strong 💪 they both fine n perfect ,I can understand your pain and struggle as I'm not in your shoes but if you feel like what you chose for your gal works for then perfect because only you knows better.will put both you and your family in prayers dear Your are a good mom🫂

[@gracesenwelo2535]

What a emotional vlog, Mandy 😢but one day God is going to turn those tears into showers of blessings. Keep well my dear 😊

[@nosiphiwodwatyana9003]

You are an amazing mother. Never ever doubt that. Baby girl will grow and things will get better. Much love sisi

[@Chef_BuhleKea]

I think this is what makes you so relatable,you are very real with us. I promise I am now on KZbin for you,I have stopped watching other vloggers because they faked it a lot for me. Mama trust you me we have never met but the impact you've had in my life is amazing. I've learnt that its okay to cry,its okay to restart its okay to say i cannot. I am not yet a teen mom but I am a teen sis and WHAAAT THE HEEELL. So being the first born automatically makes me her mom and iyoh haii its very hard,my mom no longer has strength and every mistake she makes I get the call,it hurts seeing them CHANGE so fast and all just to impress social media friends but mama i am sending Love and Light,you are def gonna overcome this

[@babhekwadlamini]

😢❤ Man ive been watching my older sister raise a pre teen and she's already seeing flames its such a delicate yet scary phase . Ill be praying for you I know I may not understand but I do know that prayer works so ill be joining you in prayer and i hope this season gets better for you ❤and your daughter . Thank you for being vulnerable

[@PriscillaGaanakgomo-xj6ei]

You and your kids are going to be Ohk Mandy one thing about you , you are a strong woman it’s Ohk to cry ❤

[@lindiwemasango573]

Mandy I'm also a mom to both a boy and girl I do understand the blame we carry as young moms out here but it will come to pass they will grow

[@NokulungaShumi]

Hi Mands❤ Mtase I'm a mom of a 19year old, at 15 she started being on a bad behavior yhoooo ndandiqeqa va, I decided to send her to her father's parents in EC. Ndazibona after emkile Uba I have lost weight and people where bashing me like no Buddy's business bengakhathalelanga my own well being yhoo mtase siphila kwilizwe where woman shame other females. With God everything will workout❤❤❤ love you sthandwa with your pure ❤️

[@vickynhlengethwa3242]

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[@Reflo12]

Hey Mandy, I just wanna say we all understand it's challenging, but please know that you're doing your best and great job sesi, it's okay to feel overwhelmed and allow yourself to go through every feelings Kuya dlula. It will work out well eventually. Lean on your support network, take small steps, and give yourself credit for the progress you make. You and your daughter will navigate this journey together, and there's strength in resilience. Lots of love mommy ❤❤❤

[@ThozamaNgcakani]

Hi Mandy hang in there being a teenage parent is not easy, people can say what they want because they are not in our shoes. One thing for sure it will pass my daughter is now 20yrs this year and it's much better❤❤❤

[@BusiKunene-i1c]

I really really understand you,I'm married and turning 45,I went through that but I now live with all my children,it will get better and you didn't fail dear,no matter what Alwande will always be your chil❤

[@zamamthembu3586]

Thank you Mandy for your vulnerability. I wish I could hug you, you are the best mom. Without a doubt.🤗🤗

[@khomotsom1280]

Sending somuch love, grace & light. You are doing incredibly well raising these beautiful kids❤

[@beehive26.5]

Sending all the love to you Mandy ❤

[@nicolletnyoni4371]

Oh Mandy, parenting has no formula and from watching your vlogs for a while now. It is clear that you are doing your best sis and that's all you can do, I have learnt a lot from your parenting. This is a season that will soon pass. Sending hugs to you 😍😍

[@NazeemaJohnson-j2z]

Hi Mandy hope and pray all is well. Mandy this KZbin video did make me cry I was really feeling your pain. You are a amazing mom to your children. This year God going to bless you more in life. I believe in you Mandy . God will never give you something hard that you can handle. Mandy you must write a book about your life. I really love your KZbin videos. Take care and you and your family will always be in.my prayers

[@PuseletsoTsotetsi]

I have so much to say as a mom to a teenage girl but all I say is thank you for the encouraging words. Angazi kodwa ja it’s not easy at all

[@GuguNhloniphoNgubane]

Dats how we want to start our Mondays...happy new year Manday I hardly comment but I won't miss any of ur videos honestly ur vlogs helped me in the most challenging tyms really May it b a beautiful year,n amsorry abt ur car which u were so happy wen u paid it off

[@mfundisozuma5810]

Sending love and light your way Mama❤️. You’re a precious jewel to us!

[@maxobengu7044]

Wish you nothing but the best dear God bless you ❤

[@Batsithegreat]

Trust yourself, my twin. I remember how it cut me to return my babies to my parents because I was crumbling under the pressure of being a single mommy. It’s painful. My mom likes saying, “For as long as God has given me life, let me help you.” You’d carry Alwande with the same warmth that your parents are carrying you with if it ever came down to it. You’re going to be okay. It might not feel like it now but you are. P.S. I don’t drink alcohol so when life is throwing hands, I stay in bed. I’ll sleep all day, wake up and cry and sleep again😂😂😂 You’re an incredible mom, the fact that you’re prioritising her wellbeing over what you would have liked speaks volumes. Sending you hugs.

[@minenhlemaphanga9548]

Yoh Mandy kodwa phephisa mama. UNkulunkulu akukhumbule right now in your time of need. You are a phenomenal mother - you are considering altering your life because the thought of not being there for you daughter is not an ideal life for you, I command you. Please know that teenagers rebellions are sometimes also a cry for help, in this case I think we know what Alwande needs, her dad kodwa that is something even she knows is not reachable, so she probably blames everyone, you, her dad even herself. You tried all you could but unfortunately your job is not to make sure your kids have a dad, your job is to make sure they have a mom. Uzame konke nathi we are witness. Just some light I want to shed as a first daughter to my mom, nami I cannot speak on behalf of boys. I felt my mom treasured my younger siblings more, although repeatedly and countlessly she would show she loves me. If Alwande moves to Durban and you stay in joburg with Milani, she will always have that thing yokuthi ukhethe uMilani phez'kwakhe, regardless of whether this decision was made by Alwande herself. I think for now her safe place is where she grew up, before living with a mother who tapped into her vulnerability and opened up channels of communication which is appreciated however, I think she wants to get back in her little box. PS!!! I know to some extent you feel liable, you shouldn't. You did what you could even though you were NOT the one who failed this little girl. You tried picking up the pieces of her shattered heart but they were not for you to pick up. ❤ Praying for you and Alwande always. Love you.

[@thisismickeey]

Girls always come back Mandy. I have mental health issues and also disorders and i'm also going to therapy and taking medication. I use to almost basically hate my mom as a teenager a couple of years ago, we never seem to get along. Her and my father divorced when i was in grade 8 and i had blamed her for years, even when i started varsity and moved away from home i never wanted to go home for holidays. I'm 25 years now and guess what? I go home every chance i get 😂 Fam i video call my mom every day because she is just so funny and every little daily achievement she is the first person i want to tell!

[@anelezimba6515]

Oh Mandy i wish I can give you a hug 🫂 ,I don't know what was with 2023 yhoo it was dribbling yhoo my daughter showed me flames found myself outside a bottle store last year after a long time of being sober and I swear I was ready to tell strangers umgowo wam lucky for me hubby was the sane one all I'm saying absent father's do not know how women face rasing kids alone ubuhlungu umgowo wabantwana like physical and mentally so baby you not alone and pls be kind to yourself you are a great mom and remember its ok to cry❤❤ baby girl will be fine trust God😘

[@maiphepimbatha477]

This shall pass. Light and love ❤️

[@siluluthomankayi2637]

Hello Mandy…such a wonderful vlog…I’m lost for words…thumbs up for me…❤❤❤

[@vhahangwelenekhavhambe8088]

Hey Sis Mandy.. I'm really interest in your Journey with the Daniel fast and I'm kindly requesting that you do a "what I eat in a day"sharing recipes of what you are eating during the fast. Pretty please 😊

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Shooting one today babe ❤❤❤. Will post ok Wednesday neh

[@Ziphozonke98]

Everything is going to be okay Mama❤ sending love and light

[@QueenMzimkhulu]

Hey Mandy kuzadlula sisi hang in there God is a loving & caring God. Honestly we all struggle with a lot of things but we don't say it out loud. Thank you for being the voice of the voiceless. Many of us we are struggling and some are even pretending all is well. Never mind the judgement from some who "think" their lives are perfect its unfortunately you won't see the day into zibajikela or mhla kuzamthola laye. Be strong, personally l have learnt a lot from you am a better mum now ngezinto engizifunde kuwe. May God give you strength ame laye noma kunzima njani kuzadlula.

[@sinenhlanhlabuthelezi6834]

yoh Mandy, i pray for you sis . m a perent of a 15 year old daighter and i knw how difficult it is to raise a teen ,bt ngomusa ka GOD NGIBONA KWENZEKA nawe u will make it sisi, one day u will look back nihleke nobabili no ALWANDE. I KNOW U will make it i knw yo will. love you lots

[@ntebohelengralehlolo4235]

Oh Mandy…My heart goes out to you..Being a mom is just not easy..Growing up nje is a scam..hugs and kisses to you

[@rochelledebeer21]

Happy New Year 🥳 may we leave all the bad behind and focus on the success and happiness that will come with this year. May we all get what we deserve this year. Wishing you and your girls a prosperous and healthy, successful year ahead❤❤❤❤

[@wholesomelynyasha9413]

❤❤❤❤❤Happy new year ,breathe everything will work out, Dont worry mama you got this .

[@TheMillennialMom1]

❤❤❤. Thank you babe ❤

[@les_mot]

I saw you for the first time a few weeks ago & I've never found a KZbinr that i connect with so much, even thought our situations are not the same, i feel like we go through the same situations, especially the teen girl thing.

[@tshepi2606]

Take care of you first ❤ You will be fine, God and your ancestors have your back

[@NormaJileka]

Okusalayo sizobaright ✊🏾 akukho lula BUT kuzolunga yazi

[@victoriamalaka3767]

Hi! Mandy i wish i could have seen u in person, you were around my area, on your solocation, just know you are loved, and it will get better.

[@tatsohrams]

We love you bbes … ur kids will be fine and everything is going to be just fine my love❤ you doing great ❤

[@silindokuhlekhubone]

I am not seeing Ads Sana 😪, Happy new year my love and Dont worry starting a Year on a bad note does not mean anything. You WILL BE FINE TRUST ME Mkhaya kuzolungaa ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@boipelommileng]

Oh aus'Mandy, I lost my dad at a young age and when I tell you I resented my mom throughout my teens. I didnt live with her and I was fine with it. I know you prolly thinking you cant be away from Alwande coz you're her only parent, the abandonment issues you're trying not to perpetuate. Please consider that she may just need space. I remember how annoyed i was by my mom's efforts. I honestly dont that there's anything she could've done to "fix things". Your presence highlights the absence of the other parent, sadly. Right now I have 3 daughters, karma better miss me with all that drama😅 Love and light mama. ❤

[@TheMillennialMom1]

You don’t know how much I needed to read this Biopelo 🥺🥺. Thank you for sharing this. And lol I hope your daughters don’t show you flames 😂😂

[@thembiradebe6655]

Hi Mandy You are good mother you doing the best that you can let no one tell you otherwise. I'm inspired by you stay strong and may the good Lord give you strength and wisdom to face every challenge that comes your way

[@LethoHali]

Oh sis big hugs 🤗 😭🤩❤. You are doing the best momma! Don’t be too hard on yourself. Is there an option to move to Durban but have your own place? If you wanna live with your kids and not move back home that is. They could be at your parents’ alternating weeks or something like that. Or live with you since you have help nearby should you need it. I hope you come to a decision you are happy with. You are well settled there in Jo’burg and if you can make peace with it and Aluwande is okay with the new arrangement, leave it as is. Honestly I get wanting to cry and can’t because kids are here. I am fortunate that my deadbeat lives with the kids alternating weeks. Still on trial but helps a lot. Doesn’t pay school fees nor child support and he’s a doctor and I’m not working. Grateful to have those alone weeks where I can just cry! I don’t know how you do it sis! Most of us look up to you. Love you girl! ❤

[@Joy_Shelembe]

May God guide you through this new season Mandy, it will end well. Praying for you and your children 🙏

[@mrsspringbok]

😂😂😂😂 the car !!I’m sorry I’m not laughing, I’ve got something in my eye for all who drive this kind of car. 😅😂😂😂

[@Fisokuhle_99]

I'm so sorry sisi Mandy, kuzolunga sisi❤God is with you sisi. Sending my love and prayers...❤and thank you for the consistency noma kunjan you show up...❤❤❤❤

[@thobilemqoco2028]

Thina abanye asiyi ndawo 😍😍😍 we are here to stay forever and we still gonna ask our friends /Families to subscribe to Mandy we can’t be stopped by just “somebody “who wanted to be relevant here … akaye le ekdeni thina we love your parenting and we love u 😘 And your kids are so wonderful ♥️♥️♥️ keep praying And ask God to guide u all the time ❤❤❤❤✌️

[@angelvilakazi7970]

Watching your vlog brought tears to my eyes, am raising a teenage girl she’s 17 and showing me flames, I have tried talking to her but hey ai shame , kuk manje am not in speaking terms with her ngoba ai I feel like I don’t know what to say anymore, am hurt am just heart broken and raising a teenager with a dead beat is the most difficult thing ever 💔💔ai kunzima Mandy bathi kuzondlula kodwa ngicela kungandluli nami, May God give us strength