“Since you want to put on a show, I’m going to put on a bigger one!” I know that’s right! 😂😂🥰🥰
@keandraclark22107 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@shanteea1237 ай бұрын
😂😂
@stacivanwyk75437 ай бұрын
That's the line right there! 💯
@shonnymay94247 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤🫶🏾
@lilithlee737 ай бұрын
I went “PERIODDDDD”
@kikitheestallion7 ай бұрын
Arnell why you still sound sweet popping off on that lady 🤣🤣🤣
@mrod877 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 sweet voice or not, she was active tho!
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Lmao I didn’t want to lose my composure
@ShadesOfIvery7 ай бұрын
@@arnellarmon I wish, you would have said it in spanish, too. 🤭
@ITC2427 ай бұрын
PERIOD! Arnell I’m sooo proud of you for standing up for yourself as a person who struggles with confrontation you gathered her with grace.
@SupernaturalLove1007 ай бұрын
🎯
@senarusai7 ай бұрын
“When you expect more than what a person has shown you they’re able to give- you’ll constantly be disappointed” an entire sermon !
@msubiquitous64627 ай бұрын
Amen
@BeverlyAma7 ай бұрын
Her profiling you was not something little. She was flat out wrong and people like her need to be put in their place!
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
I agree! I wish I would’ve cursed her out the way I reallly wanted to
@SupernaturalLove1007 ай бұрын
@@arnellarmonlol that’s okay as that’s that’s not in everyone’s character. you put her in her place without even doing all that👏🏽
@autumncolors16737 ай бұрын
His little fake temper tantrum took me out LMAO. He couldn't even commit to it all the way. His show came on and he was like "I'm over it." 😄
@keandraclark22107 ай бұрын
THE RANT ABOUT COPARENTING HIT SO DIFFERENT !!!!!!!! 🗣️🗣️
@sheilayoyo7 ай бұрын
So relatable! 💯 keep ranting girl it makes me feel heard! And not so alone 😢
@ebonyhill92137 ай бұрын
Literally !!! Every word she said I felt and my kids are big i’m still going through this.
@ioaaaoa7 ай бұрын
The way you nurture is so aspiring 🥹 I really pray one day I am able to reach this level of nurturing. You truly were meant to be a mother!
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹🥹
@JustHere7517 ай бұрын
Yes Arnell!!! Stand on business in that damn store!!!! 🤎🤎🤎
@Islandlivinggal7 ай бұрын
Arnell been accused of shoplifting is something else 🤣🤣🤣
@darlinev7 ай бұрын
once i removed my emotions from the situation, co parenting has been so much easier. i also had to trust my daughter would be safe. luckily, she’s at the age where she can fully communicate and that also eases my mind. it will get better girl!!
@MissLondonE77 ай бұрын
BD is sooo mad at you because you're not begging and broke down, crying for him. He is trying to hurt you with the petty showing up late thing, but it's only going to hurt this innocent child. (you know he's lurking in these KZbin bushes 👀) You got this Arnell...you've got great support from family and friends ❤🙏🏽
@tanyalewis28736 ай бұрын
These KZbin bushes lol 😂 😂😂😂😂 I bet he is tho lol
@shaphanwelsh2467 ай бұрын
I have missed your vlogs. No one scratches my entertainment itch like you Arnell please bring them back even if it’s not weekly I’ll take a biweekly vlog 😂 no but seriously we are glad to be fed.
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
I’m coming back weekly!!
@lawrystoastcrunch7 ай бұрын
Hey! About your rant at the end…. Start telling him to come at the wrong time… if you want him to pick the baby up at 12:30 tell him 11:30 that way if he’s “late” he’s actually getting there on time…. People like him also do stuff like that to be petty. Play their game but don’t show your hand
@a.m.42167 ай бұрын
This is very good advice and it actually works, it just fucking sucks that you have to stoop down to their level and play these petty games with them. It's exhausting.
@rochellemoore43867 ай бұрын
Been there done that. Advice… don’t get upset. Noah will sense it more as he gets older. My ex husband use to do this with our Sons. Even today as grown men,they still remember. Gauge your responses with him. Be you & don’t tiptoe around situation. Say what you mean & mean what you say. Be kind & don’t ever speak ill of his Dad to Noah. Don’t give away your power. Regarding worry, it’s ok to be concerned, but don’t say you trust God and worry. (Listen to J Moss song- Don’t pray & worry). Things will fall into place in time. Blessings👍🏽🙏🏽💕 R
@jasmineila7 ай бұрын
This was beautiful, thank you x
@itsjusttaylor89337 ай бұрын
I love how your hair stylist came right as you finished your makeup! Perfect timing!
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Right??? Lol it was so funny
@nancykerrigan7 ай бұрын
@@arnellarmon I love how you're able to do your makeup at the salon at all. Lashes and everything. 😆
@dominiqueed64327 ай бұрын
Glad you talked about co parenting. My oldest is 14 years old & his dad still never shows up on time, no shows, makes excuses. Ive stopped letting it get to me years ago and feel a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. You are right trust the process and god and everything will be okay. My son sees how his father is now since he is older. I’ve accepted the fact that that man will never change and it’s ok. My son has a step father who is amazing and he knows my family and I got him no matter what.
@judyo48697 ай бұрын
Yes! 🙌🏼 trusting God with our children is soooo important. I also coparent with dad and let God be the protector, provider, parent, etc. Bc afterall, God is the best parent. 🙏🏽🥰
@erickavirgil64567 ай бұрын
Self care is very important 😊. Great to see you and baby Noah doing well. Enjoy watching your blogs, when it comes to putting time on yourself. That is one thing I need to focus on more. Again , continue being an awesome mom to your son and living life. Be Blessed ❤😊🙏
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤
@MyBrilliantCreationtv7 ай бұрын
You know its bad when security dont even like the employee 🤣.... sucks you had to go through that though she wrong for that! She deserved whatever you said to her lol.
@nicolehall96847 ай бұрын
As someone who worked in retail, email corporate. If a worker accuses you and calls security stating that you’ve stolen from them and there isn’t anything to prove that you were you’ll more than likely be entitled to compensation. We would have to settle directly with the customer (usually a GC) to avoid a lawsuit.
@DishonKing7 ай бұрын
“since you wanna put on a show i’ll put on a bigger one” lemme show this to natalie nunn we might need you on baddies 😂😂😂
@ohdamncristle7 ай бұрын
😂😂
@SupernaturalLove1007 ай бұрын
Nooo that is below arnell 🥴
@Itsblueeeeee6 ай бұрын
@@SupernaturalLove100exactly
@SupernaturalLove1006 ай бұрын
@@Itsblueeeeee like I’m confused as to why girls like this WANT to see Blk women making fools of themselves and lowering themselves for entertainment🥴
@TheLeslieMichelle7 ай бұрын
I can't believe what happened to you at GNC. Literally, you handled it with class and maturity. And I'm glad that you didn't lose your cool either because that's what that woman wanted you to do just so she could harass you further, or worst yet, have an excuse to call the actual authorities on you. And thank you also for keeping this in the vlog too because a lot of us are now going through this in other states. It's like a trend now in these stores.
@bajanbreezy6 ай бұрын
Noah saying thank you was the cutest. Thank you for letting us into your week.
@BrinkaBreion6 ай бұрын
"Since you want to put on a show, I'll put on a bigger one... How about that?".... but in the most nicest, calmest voice! It's not a funny situation, but your little sweet voice made me chuckle.
@nayarobinson46852 ай бұрын
It is so inspiring how calm you’re when you do it but still know that you have to speak up on stuff !!
@LadyBug312597 ай бұрын
Arnell, from one mommy/believer to another; pray for Noah's dad. My daughter's father has the same issue and other issues that bother me. I simply prayed that we have a great co-parenting relationship and that he's here for his child and slowly but surely he's changing. It's not going to happen overnight, however like you said you have to trust God to do what He's going to do. You're doing great with Noah, he loved beyond measure, you're a great mom and I'm proud of you! 💜
@40sfay7 ай бұрын
I feel you on the co-parenting front. He sounds a lot like my son’s dad (son is 22 now). He was constantly late or a no show. There’s a reason why my son’s relationship with his dad is almost non-existent and me and my son are close. Happily my son turned into an amazing young man and has good male relationships through my dad and brother and his uncles on his dad’s side. This is just a long way of relaying the importance of having good male role models in his life whether via good male friends or family. 💖
@andyrosan19607 ай бұрын
"Since you want to put on a show...ill put on a bigger one" LMAO omg! WHAT A TURN🤣
@toyanmsmith52247 ай бұрын
We're here Babes!❤
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Hiii ❤️
@siphumeleledube31677 ай бұрын
This coparenting chat! I literally go through the same thing with the father of my child. A complete narcisist, who has zero regard for anyone outside of himself. Its one thing not to be able to be on time or not be able to show up, but at least communicate! My son is three so he doesnt really comprehend all that for now but I can see how this will create major issues in the future. And dare I say anything to him about his behaivour... I dont know whether me keeping quiet and just ignoring shit is me enabling it or do I call him out and just deal with the drama that follows. It's so immature and arrogant. Girrrrrrlll... I feel you!
@aliciaespinoza27817 ай бұрын
Check him now because you are enabling him to constantly be late. If he isn't there at a certain time don't be available for him to pick up his child.
@parisz7 ай бұрын
Exactly, big red flag
@Blkdymnd947 ай бұрын
ARNELL!!! 🫶🏾☺️ Noah is your little twin all day 🙌🏾 also I love seeing the “rougher” side of you, I’m glad you put that rude lady on blast! Clearly she don’t know who you are! Standing on business girl!! 👏🏾👏🏾
@Toridirie6 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you Arnell for being transparent with the situation with your co-parenting. You mentioned things that I had to deal with in co-parenting. I love how you mentioned being worried because God will protect him. Thank you for that advice.
@xiomi7217 ай бұрын
def understand how you feel about coparenting! That whole chat resonated with me and what I'm going through! We got this mama! And I def agree with the "focus on what you can control" and "accept what you're being shown"
@tiffanywalker13126 ай бұрын
You’re such a good mom. You guys are lucky to have each other!!
@therealtamaraaaa7 ай бұрын
Everything that you are saying about a narcissist is so right so spot on! I've deal with a person like that. Its insane because they like to play victim in everything.
@samueladams7492 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@kol3world7 ай бұрын
I don’t have a child but my dad was extremely narcissistic as well. He was 3% present in my life and there was a time when he lived around the corner from me and still would be absent! I’m so glad I was able to recognize and move accordingly so that my feelings were protected. Noah will see when he gets older. He’s so lucky to have a parent as consistent and supportive as you! ❤
@VictoriaBush.7 ай бұрын
So sorry you’re going through that Arnell but everything you said was so extremely valid
@lethabosetshwane1077 ай бұрын
I actually love and appreciate how vulnerable you are with the whole co parenting situation. Very relatable ❤️🫶
@jaycee81817 ай бұрын
Noah is adorable!!♥️♥️He really is talking, he sounds so sweet saying “tank you”. Continue to be an excellent Mommy and continue to be fair to his father-that’s very necessary and honorable of you. It’s not going to be alright-it’s Already Alright!!! You got this….stay strong…more importantly God got you!!! ♥️♥️
@preciousguyton74907 ай бұрын
You're an awesome mom. Reminds me of my sister. She has a little boy, too. She passed away, and now I'm his mom. But her love for him was unconditional. I see that same love that you have for Noah. It's beautiful. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Donique.Retreats7 ай бұрын
11:52 you’re an amazing mother!!! I love witnessing your journey 💕
@tavianastar217 ай бұрын
You’re so right about someone doing what they say they are. Children remember that and can sometimes think it’s their fault or develop abandonment issues…🙏🏽 it’s good you’re seeing it and speaking up
@williamsreginee7 ай бұрын
You’re on point with your POV as a parent and you’re right it’s no longer about self ! It’s good that you’re recognizing who noahs dad is because it avoids tension but also you’re building positive boundaries for Noah . He won’t have abandonment issues because you’re mindful and know how to combat it 💙. You got this mama !!!
@nataliegonzales17247 ай бұрын
56:20 Dont let him get away with it NOW just because Noah's not old enough to understand! You've got to put a stop to it now so he won't be able to do damage to Noah when he does understand!
@stephaniejones687 ай бұрын
The co parent portion is so true. In my experience it has gotten better when both parties are committed to breaking generational curses. I also recognize that it doesn’t always play out that way. Sending all the patience and strength your way however it plays out!
@chailonw17 ай бұрын
The best thing is to just move on and if he shows up for his kid or not, don’t let it gets to you, live free of stress
@NicoleWhitehall7 ай бұрын
This vlog was everything. Self care with working out, taking care of that munchkin, getting that GNC lady alll the way together and the sermon at the end. 👏 Thank you for sharing the different facets of your life with us. Always cheering you on! ❤
@Goatmama907 ай бұрын
Your mom era is very much giving. I’m proud of you.
@karenmealy72537 ай бұрын
Noah is really growing up n so precious. Love to see you guys together.❤
@amberdb047 ай бұрын
Happy Sunday Arnell and everyone 🤗♥️ It's always good to see an Arnell Armon video ❤
@oraleejenkins64477 ай бұрын
I love how organized you are with packing Noah's lunch.
@sigthom37117 ай бұрын
45:08 THIS CONVERSATION IS EXACTLY WHAT IM GOING THRU RIGHT NOW! THANKS FOR BEING OPEN
@billiehicks65877 ай бұрын
Good Mom. Excellent job how you reach him to say thank you. I love to see him climb.❤
@sydneyboston6 ай бұрын
Noah saying 'thank you' just made my day 😊
@LissaMaeIrene7 ай бұрын
YESSSSS ARNELL MEANING BUSINESS throughout this whole episode!! Love her ❤❤
@SmellGoodTravelWell7 ай бұрын
You're such an amazing mom ❤
@arnellarmon7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤
@MyBrilliantCreationtv7 ай бұрын
The thumbnail alone is chef's kiss 💋 , so i know this vlog is going to be 🔥 😀🥰❤!!!! Noah didn't want to turn that horchata loose; he was like run that back rq😂
@LakeystyannaDashai7 ай бұрын
Everything you said in your co parenting rant was literally SPOT ON‼️ it’s a shame how much a lot of women who have had a kid(s) with a narcissist can relate to your situation including me! But continue to protect your peace and being an awesome mommy to Noah 🥰❤️ you are doing amazing! 🤗
@jasminejjjmv7 ай бұрын
Arnell I'm so proud of you. I've watched your vlogs for so long and I watched you go from this sweet girl who loves love to SETTING BOUNDARIES and I love that for you!!! I'm currently going through that phase and it's challenging but here you are doing the damn thing love you girlyyy!!!! 💞
@dandralayne6 ай бұрын
Omgsh, my child’s father is the exact same it’s actually CRAZY. When you described what you were dealing with I had to look around because literally…I’m fighting the same battle. It is SO exhausting. It’s like a lose, lose. Omgsh.
@ItsEllaEsco7 ай бұрын
You’re growing and moving with grace, I’m sure it’s hard work ❤
@artemisar87 ай бұрын
"so since you put on a show, imma put on a bigger one how's that?" UGH ATE HER ASS UP. That happens to me all the dang time, I'm happy you stood up for yourself!
@tytaneful7 ай бұрын
Hello😊 about the co-parenting situation I’m agree you can’t be late every time, and when you have a child you can’t be selfish.
@DoseofDaja1237 ай бұрын
That gym is a vibe!
@user1b2p37 ай бұрын
That venting session about coparent was soooooo relatable!
@missodessaTV7 ай бұрын
I can relate to you sooooo much when it comes to coparenting. As mothers we wake up mothers everyday and move our life around our child's. Men seem to think they can always coparent at their own convenience. Like they just wake up and choose when they feel like being a parent, at whatever time or day works best for them. lol and that aint how shit works for real parents.
@watchmeglow60957 ай бұрын
It’s sad but some of these “baby daddy’s” just don’t care. Sometimes it is personal to us but also it’s just who they are .. I’m learning how to accept it and not take it personally whether it’s meant that way or not. I can only control what i can. I’m setting boundaries and dealing with him in the best way that see’s fit for my mental health .. it’s not even worth it. Pick and choose your battles ! Continue to show up as your best self for your baby!! ❤
@watsoncori7 ай бұрын
I felt that vent session!
@thatgirl_kim__7 ай бұрын
“accept what is” Yess mam!!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@cassiejackson45597 ай бұрын
Werkly vlog ~ I’m in heaven😊. Thank you Arnell! Woman profiling you in store p’d me off. So so glad u called her out. Noah I super cute and growing. Love how you’re so open with your babes. We support u 100%! ❤❤❤
@Kaytee167 ай бұрын
So proud of you Arnell. Doing the darn thing!
@queenlbj237 ай бұрын
The gnc part had my blood boiling. AUDACITY
@christinecbmiller7376 ай бұрын
The way that you were talking to her pissed off but being polite at the same time i could neva 😩😩😩
@Dani_TheUnicorn7 ай бұрын
Yes. Don’t pray and then go and worry. That’s a word.
@chiramcbeth7 ай бұрын
I feel like since having your baby, your channel has felt more realistic for most women. It definitely up’d another reason for me to watch you, as a mom myself. ❤
@ytl77507 ай бұрын
She’s always been relatable for me. You don’t need to be a mom to be relatable to young women
@chiramcbeth6 ай бұрын
@@ytl7750I never said that babes. 😇
@judithleavell-parker67827 ай бұрын
👋🏽 Arnell❤ This was a great vlog. Becoming Noah’s mom has matured you sooo much!!! Motherhood definitely brings out the BEST of you! ✌🏽
@breonnacannon7 ай бұрын
Omg😂 that part where she thought you were stealing has me crying lol your response was everything lol people are so annoying
@nardawilliams69777 ай бұрын
Not me being this early lol. Love you girl. Ok let me watch the vlog
@c0rsi886 ай бұрын
Man, you habdled that lady so well! I honestly dont know what I would've done. I get flustered in situations like that & probably would've cursed that lady out lmao
@nadiagavin19917 ай бұрын
Love seeing you in mother mode ❤❤
@johneisha187 ай бұрын
I really love arrell it was the part since you want to put in a show I'll put on a show I'll put on bigger one yasssss ! This happen to me last week in ulta !! I'm never about to steal some lip gloss not worth the my time or the crime !! I love the fact I shop at ulta so much the manger know me and she check her employee quick I even dump everything out my bag to show proof I don't okay !
@BrinkaBreion6 ай бұрын
Your vent session 💯 spot on!
@bittenbybeautyy7 ай бұрын
Omg my son is obsessed with Ms Monica and Ms Houston too.. here I am at 3-4 am doing chores watching mommy vlogs lol
@julianakakembo557 ай бұрын
Yes! The less you worry, it means you are trusting God more. And that’s what he wants🥹
@sydneyboston6 ай бұрын
I'm loving the workout content!
@TyVonNorth7 ай бұрын
The starting date of this vlog being on my bday makes me smile 😊 the whole vlog was a mood, but that last segment mannnn … preach and then get on your stool and say it louder because that was some real 💩💯 fr so glad you posted girlie 🤍
@christinelopez97277 ай бұрын
Girl, I appreciate you so much! You are an awesome Mom, and I'm so sorry you have to deal with such an immature person. I have 3 adult boys and was married 21 years. I had a bad divorce, and my ex was resentful, childish, and manipulative. I had to pray for God to give me strength and patience to deal with someone like this. You keep doing what you're doing. God will give you the strength and courage you need as a single mom. Noah is adorable. He will be so proud of his Mom. Hopefully, his Dad will learn the life lessons he needs to learn and be a mature parent. God bless you and your family, Arnell. 😁😏🙏
@marshereedixon99647 ай бұрын
You said it best.woman go thru this way to often smh..K Michelle said it best you can't raise a man... You're a self-awareness is amazing
@varietiesbyshamyra7 ай бұрын
Hey Arnell, thanks for the long vlog 😊❤
@gabz5307 ай бұрын
I think you're doing a great job Arnell. Keep growing. 👏🏽👏🏽
@ryanegoe75795 ай бұрын
You’re right mama stand on the shi. I have server abandonment anxiety from my father doing the thing he was on drugs so he would spend days telling me he was “on his way” “left the job sight late” “heading into town” “up the road” after days of this I would end of physically ill. Like puking crying couldn’t have no peace. I couldn’t eat or drink until the second my dad finally showed up. That was 15 years ago, I’m 23 and struggle daily because of this.
@charlseyhawkins73707 ай бұрын
Hello! Enjoying the vlog. Baby boy is getting so big.
@bittenbybeautyy7 ай бұрын
I needed that, trust in God part when it comes to my baby. I’ve been speaking to myself about that. I keep telling myself if you trust God you will know he is in good hands and will be ok
@bond007jinxie67 ай бұрын
Awwwww nephew getting so big handsome got A entire face 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
@loiskyeiii7 ай бұрын
The babes are hereeeee
@officialwatchamber7 ай бұрын
I was just thinking about you yesterday!! Searched your name and everything 🤪 Yassss BAWDY! Loved the vlog girl 🤌🏼🩷