Weight Gain, Weight Loss & The Fear of Getting Older! - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 259

[@tarazanni9370]

MERCH IDEA: we’re so different - Alisha makes her version and Remi makes her version. You make them for two besties to wear that are different!!

[@IconVlog.]

I like this sooooo much

[@maggieruth]

I also like this so much

[@harperrrrrrrrrrrr]

YESSSSSS

[@harperrrrrrrrrrrr]

Like princess and the pauper vibes

[@elbabriana2678]

do jaci and chelsea style!! two different colors

[@journiepope]

I just have to say….. since PxU has aired and I have watched every episode, i have never laughed harder. They are genuinely such funny episodes and I do not blame you at all for laughing into the mic. I can’t even tell that you’re doing that since I’m laughing so hard myself 😭😭😭

[@tawnysiebert]

THIS!!!!!!

[@monique5163]

OMG LITERALLY!!! I laugh so much and their laughing doesn’t bother me. I never even noticed it 😭😂

[@kseniak8781]

not over 30 yr, but turned 22 a month ago and a few things i wrote as lessons from the past year: - inaction is action. - you don’t have to fight to be loved - don’t be afraid to be seen trying - the way you do anything is the way you do everything - we pick people that reinforce our wounds subconsciously as a way to try rewrite the ending

[@sunvavachi]

Love this ❤

[@kseniak8781]

@@sunvavachi thanks 🤍

[@mernapalanjian4678]

Wow

[@lunacarolyn]

As a 31yo, all of these are very real and I wish I took those more to heart your age! Especially the first one. So so incredibly important

[@asdfghjennifer]

we need a Just Trish collab!!!

[@CruzG210]

Yesssss!!!!!!

[@kaiya7954]

she was talking shit on her podcast 😭

[@sophiemarie7216]

YES

[@vypanchy]

​@@kaiya7954hey which episode?

[@HAppytobeHer]

9 months postpartum- feeling all the feelings listening to this ep! Yes I would never tell my baby their body isn’t perfect as long as it’s healthy. Great reminder

[@Isabellaingunn]

Cannot tell you how much I love the chat about growing up and how it feels, I’d be really interested to hear Zane and Heath talk about their perspectives in a serious (lol) way on the pod, if they’re open to being vulnerable about these things x

[@lifeof.chrystina]

Things that I've said and done for myself in my late 20's going into my 30's - people's opinions are none of my business - when someone shows you who they are, believe them - do things that feed my soul - solo travel - you accept the love you think you deserve - keep your inner circle small - always turn negativity into something positive, whether it be what you say to yourself to how you speak and approach people and situations - heal your traumas In your 30's you truly find yourself and what you will and will not tolerate. It's a really freeing time

[@gabbin5414]

I’m only 23 but remi I resonate with never being able to go back to an age. I morn my childhood and my teenage girl years so much randomly because I loved being a kid and it makes me so sad to think about

[@ElizabethThomson-mp2qr]

I really needed this episode. I am 22 and my body has changed so much and I’ve had such a hard time with excepting my body for what it is. I compare myself all the time. But hearing this episode made me cry because it’s so true we have one body we need to take care of it and be grateful. Thank you guys so much for being people that I look up to and being such great examples for us all.❤️

[@loverxo1]

Wait until 25… you REALLY SEE A CHANGE it’s wild….

[@nataliejuvera3333]

Yes JustTrish collab please!

[@e-lee-sah]

First 💕 Morning ladies! Update: Yes, we want that merch 🙂 Update: I am turning 33 this year and I also am giving out the same advice I was given growing up that I 100% DID NOT BELIEVE back then. And at this age, we do not have the energy to be putting up with someone else's drama.

[@jaceygoodman4620]

REMI! Your laugh is so contagious. Don’t feel self-conscious! I love it!!!

[@HollyPurplesYouOT7]

I'm 30, I would say, to not put your energy into people who don't reciprocate. There are plenty of people who love and support you and you can put your energy into them ❤

[@lorraineinbloom2776]

love this ep!!! im 31 about to turn 32 💟 i totally second the fact that once you hit 30 you just care wayyyyyy less about sh*t that bothered you in your 20s it is the best feeling EVER

[@emma.kathleen]

i NEED alisha to bring her red hair back. i’m contemplating dying mine back to red and i feel like if she does it, it’s a sign👀👀👀

[@kaylag8687]

me too! i’m blonde now and i’m like “going red would be ever better now” when alisha says it’s time. it’s time!!

[@ThatsEliane]

Red is so her color

[@emma.kathleen]

@@kaylag8687 omg YES!! when mom says it’s time, the red heads will RISE

[@kaylag8687]

@@emma.kathleen and we will be UNSTOPPABLE

[@Vanessaar26]

Nooooo

[@nickihaylon4244]

I'm almost 34 and honestly my 30s so far have been so much better than my 20s. I just feel like I'm so much more myself now than I was 10 and even 5 years ago. Alisha is right: at some point, you just get exhausted of caring and do things for yourself, and it is life changing. If I had one piece of advice it would probably just be to do the things you love with the people that make you feel the best. It sounds simple, but once you get rid of the "excess" relationships and things that realize you were doing to please other people, and find the things and people that make you feel like your authentic self, that's when you experience real joy!

[@AsianIsMe]

1. Please we need the "We're so different" merch 2. I turn 30 this year in December, so I have been reflecting on my 20s lately but overall excited to be in my 30s! 3. I would love a Remi & Ashley episode as some one who is the eldest!

[@Bianca-ti7ns]

Noooooooo I love hearing all the laughs… that’s what gets me going and start crying, sobbing, laughing, and losing my 💩 myself!

[@znbennet]

I really want an episode with Ash and Remi, and Taryn and Alisha!

[@nbla39]

There's 2! One of each of their podcasts 😊

[@absthegabs]

as a girl who just turned 20 and is scared about this new chapter, it’s so inspiring and motivating to hear remi and alisha’s perspectives on getting older and learning to let go and live life how they want to.

[@DaisyDePina]

I’m turning 30 in June and I have the mindset remi has where I feel like I’m gonna mourn my 20s also just the comparison of myself with others in my life where I don’t feel like I was as successful in my 20s. Hearing you guys talk about Ashley and Alisha thriving in their 30s give me hope maybe 30s won’t be as bad as I thought.

[@lailakhan6007]

Love the conversation about focussing on yourself in your 30s and embracing your beauty, stop caring about what others think etc. I can't wait for that era myself!

[@jetsetter08]

Im mid 30s and still have not found my people. I love this friendship and it’s what i envision to find, nothing less!

[@ps4u678]

I’m currently a senior in college who graduates next month and the talk about your 20s has me simultaneously very excited yet also spiraling a little bit… I can’t believe I’m turning 23 this year

[@christyyang93]

From a soon-to-be 31 girlie: Slow down... Life can wait... Don't rush everything Don't rush your feelings, don't rush work, don't rush rest, don't rush fun, don't rush relationships. Don't feel the need to rush just because someone does it faster... It's never too late

[@tyara.collins]

Turned 30 in February and I have to say you really get to a point where you just don’t care. I got married right before 30 when I was 29 this January. I don’t worry as much as when I was in my 20s. Here’s my advice: Continue to work on yourself, love yourself, be kind always, forgive, definitely wear your sunscreen men & women, keep your loved ones close and don’t take each day for granted. ❤

[@betharmstrong]

MERCH IDEA: WE'RE SO DIFFERENT on the front, but PRETTY BASIC on the backkkk. its funny cuz its like "im different" but the back is like nahhhh theyre basic lmao

[@lunacarolyn]

I love that!!

[@leen34568]

REMI. i literally think about this all the time. i’m a senior in high school and i’ve been thinking so much about how i’m never going to go to school again. like what? and it passed so fast now i’m scared college is going to be the same way. i can’t believe we only get to experience these experiences once. like wdym this is my only chance at living this?

[@tedddybear]

Don’t worry college drags on and on 😭😭 I’m finally graduating and it feels like it’s taken me ten years to

[@leen34568]

@@tedddybear i think that’s good. i’m also planning on studying medicine so that makes it longer.

[@marielizperez2604]

ok so now i need you two on trisha’s pod and vice versa!

[@AlyMarie0815]

I’m actually really glad you guys went into talking about going into your 30s. I am going to be turning 34 in August but I still feel like I’m in my 20s time just goes so fast especially after you start having kids. And the first couple years of my 30s I didn’t feel so anxious but now that I’m almost halfway through my 30s I am starting to experience a lot of anxiety about getting older. But it’s nice to know I’m not alone. Love you girls ❤️

[@rebeccamcauley4549]

Brilliant

[@emmmmaaaa4444]

It’s my 26th birthday today and waking up to this felt like an actual present. Thanks girlies❤️❤️

[@oliviaemerzian5160]

happy birthday 🎉

[@AnnaMarieHoneyBee]

“We’re so different” can HONESTLY make a good best friends shirt or even for couples who are different but still soulmates and just made for each other ❤

[@nataliedennis3071]

Yes, we DO see you both as big sisters !! 🥺🫶🏼

[@Bevrina]

Great episode!!!🥰 I turn 33 this year and Alicia saying do not live in fear of anything totes pushed me to apply for the job!!! Thanks girlies🥰💕

[@savannahdugas]

We NEED the merch …. 6:30 i knew exactly what u were talking about Alisha😂😭 11:20 I’m SO happy that my 2 worlds are colliding with Y’all and Trisha 😫😫💔❤️‍🔥

[@Helenabattise]

This was the saddest episode ive watched of yal😂 i turn 30 this year, thanks for reminding me😩😩 This was the start of my day! 😢

[@eveiveneg637]

my 30's have been the best years of my life

[@dottydelrey4736]

WE NEED A CANCELLED x PB podcast episodeee

[@MirrorballAmber]

LOVE THE TRISHA SHOUT OUT THE WORLD IS HEALING

[@kathrynnenicole]

YESSS PLSSS RELEASE "WE;RE SO DIFFERENT" MERCH

[@TheeErinElizabeth_]

Tana and Trish on PB & “We’re so different” merch please

[@Demygod0030]

I turned 24 this year and the switch to not caring about people this year truly kicked into high gear. So I completely agree Alisha the concern of others is nonexistent 😂

[@PattyHerrington]

Don’t forget to prioritize friendships. It’s okay to rest.

[@IconVlog.]

My girlfriend just turned 30 she was clingy to those months in 29 like she was dying but it’s been almost a month and she’s already so much calmer as a person. She an anxious person usually but her being has been less stressed overall. Idk I think her mindset literally changed the week she turned 30

[@dreamleemah]

Think to yourself, there have been many people who didn’t live to see 30. When you are 40 you’ll wish you were 30 when you are 60 you’ll wish you were 40. I’m younger than both of you guys and the thought of being 30 is exciting. It’s so sexy to me.

[@nottilatequila]

As per Remi’s vlog we need a Cancelled crossover !

[@nottilatequila]

And appearance for the girls on Dish with Trish and they should all cosplay Lana/Sabrina Carpenter or like a Simple Life theme.

[@isabellamagnoli8969]

love the merch idea!! make it like a trendy over sized sweater, with like an aura starry look with like one sleeve with bows going down like the Lana merch, and the other stars going down. I would die

[@ShannonCoty]

Under 30 (turning 28 April 21!) Asking the 30+ crew: Im in my last 2 years of my 20s, what should I do to honor my youth and welcome in the next stage of aging?

[@amandaroberts6118]

I turn 30 next month and I am 100% with Remi. I feel like I’m starting to mourn my 20’s.

[@leen34568]

i needed this episode so much you don’t even know it.

[@clairetrestrail7876]

Yay I am so excited for this podcast episode today 🩷

[@CamrieRaeann]

Y'all I think the merch is SOOO great, plz do it

[@corpsegirl]

27:23 all my coworkers tell me I’m so lucky to be “skinny” and I have to remind them that I had to starve myself to get to this point :/

[@daixyray]

Remiii I feel the same way, I just turned 29 April 15th, legit Monday lol. I am a pretty sentimental and nostalgic person so for me I am not scared of actual aging, but I feel like I am mourning the youth in my life and its hard to explain. Even though 30 is Not old. But you are not alone.

[@smellthelemons]

As someone who has been 31 for 3 months...I continue to forget that I am indeed NOT 30 anymore. I have forgotten to the point that I one day said I'm 29. I'm not sure if it is the result of the pandemic, maybe my brain thinks I'm aging backwards? So I definitely understand the Alisha saying-- "I recently turned 30" and realizing she is almost 31.

[@itsscaeleycx]

i’m only 23 and probably the past couple years, i’ve learned to just laugh at the hate because 99.9% of people don’t know me so whatever your opinion or thought is about me, who cares and if anything it shows me who you are.

[@mollyreid4844]

I'll be 30 in June. Exhaustion is definitely the key😬😭

[@rebeccamcauley4549]

amazing to have all the tea from you and Remi about turning thirty the reality of where both your lives are going into this new chapter. Alisha you are more relatable to me as I am single and dating, I am looking forward to Cal and Remi's wedding though. Great having two different perspectives and you two laughing at the irony of the situation. Anyway I have to agree sunscreen helps skin complexion, trusting your intuition a brilliant one. Doing what makes you happy. The genuine, true friends stay. So thanks ladies this guidance was much needed. Hope you're both well! xoxo Rebecca 🌺💐

[@DE0BIZONE]

this one hit hard as i'm about to turn 29 and already stressing out about turning 30 next year!

[@mirandawood9055]

I'm 22 and in my last year of college. I would LOVE some advice on how to be patient for the right person. I've always imagined myself in a relationship by now that would end in marriage. I'm trying to accept that it's not the end of the world if I don't meet someone in college, but I'm also worried about how I'll meet new people once I've graduated. btw, i've been listening since the first year of the pod and i love you both so so much! ♥♥

[@xtractionmoon5160]

Remi make be silly,be you be yourself!! It would be so iconic

[@MariaSanchez-ni2fj]

This is my first podcast that I hear and I love it 🥰 it really made me feel good about where I am in life ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@Vanessa___kelman]

I was so sad when this episode ended it was so good ❤

[@CaylinPayne]

I’d love to hear friendship advice as someone just going into their 20s!!

[@prettybasicpodcast]

This is a great idea!! 💗

[@stephaniem5188]

“Don’t wear your shoes in the house” Clip that PLS so I can share it with all of my friends who need to hear this PSA 😂❤

[@daixyray]

OMG I love that you brought up Trisha, just finished the new Just Trish Episode before this hahaha

[@vypanchy]

Hey which episode were they mentioned?

[@kiraward]

LESSGOOOOO LADIES!!! Love you girls and this pod so much 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@lylaeyoutube]

the shoe conversation is sooo REAL

[@adrianewilliams5319]

Oh I am way over 30 My advice go one. Be patient too. Don't worry and be yourself

[@Jennxkimm]

Remi i feel the exact same way about not being able to be 22 or a kid again. I feel sad about it too! I think I almost wish I could be my self now but be able to do those ages again

[@emb15]

The PxU episodes are hilarious and you guys laughing into the mic makes me laugh more!! Don’t stop doing that completely please!!!

[@kaylag8687]

GET TRISHA ON THE POD!!!!

[@cassandraleamont7121]

32 ❤ do the things you want to now. Don’t wait because if you do, you might not have another chance 💜

[@courtneyc4]

We absolutely need “…we’re so different” merch

[@maddierivers485]

The “we’re so different” crewneck will be an INSTANT purchase

[@rickelspickles]

Also I LOVE LOVE LOVE pxu so much!!! It’s honestly my favorite podcast right now

[@ceilihigh]

I feel like you two gave me all the advice that I needed to hear💜

[@paigealanna975]

My comfort duo 🥰🥰

[@rachaellaine91]

30+ over here: advice would be that therapy is for everyone! Wish I would have started it so much sooner ❤

[@kjsediting98]

under 30, and I need help managing my friendships and the changes that come with friends getting married!

[@To0vA]

It’s not just an Asian thing with the shoes in the house! I live in Norway in Europe and we never use shoes in the house. We also have indoor gym shoes and outdoor training shoes 😊

[@ryanhaefs5421]

I feel like Remi and Alisha both look the most like themselves right now than they ever have

[@kevingamon9659]

Do the merch !!

[@Nsurgent]

Remi hiding her protein bar behind the table 😂

[@andrianacalaraa]

just came from the coachella vlog! your looks were iconic love yall💗

[@Yasmineee_a]

Im turning 30 in September and even though Im under 30 Im married and been through a lot so I’ll give adivice😅 1. dont lower your standards for anyone 2. Be yourself so you meet someone who likes the real you 3. Jealousy is a real thing so dont tell everyone your secrets 4. Enjoy being single, you won’t be forever and you will miss when you were 5. If your man doesnt like your friends then he isn’t the one because your man should like your friends if he likes you, now if he senses a bad vibe or energy from one then maybe you also need to look back on that friend lol because some people dont see mistakes from people they care about 6. Do what you want to do, Ive always wanted to start a youtube channel but I always thought I was too old and now I have family telling me I should but I still think im old to start now lol and speaking of that… 7. We ALL have insecurities so don’t think that theres something wrong with you because you’re insecure about something 8. Have fun, live your life how you want to, and enjoy every single moment and if you’re having a bad moment think of it as a bad moment and not a bad day, don’t ruin your day because of a little moment. Life is short and we need to live it the best we can! ❤

[@mkanand9381]

Would love to see a PB x Just Trish collab!

[@gabyyyfelix]

We’re so different is self explanatory even if an outsider reads it! but more special for us because we reallllly know 😝

[@beelyrae]

Was a bad morning until I realized it’s Wednesday and there’s a new PB podcast episode

[@Crysco_55]

Please do we’re so different merch! Literally me and my sister say this EVERY SINGLE DAY 😂

[@jordanjulian8197]

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee do “we’re so different” merch

[@Flygyrl09]

Srill Rooting and wishing for zane and alisha to go on a date together, haha.

[@Averyrosiess]

them saying Aspyn is so much younger than them even tho she's legit only a year younger then Remi and 3 younger that Alisha LOL idk what y'all think so much is 😭😭

[@fifimarieee]

I’m wondering if they meant she was so much younger when she said that than they are now lol cause you’re so right

[@Ydnew51]

🤣🤣

[@StopandPickaPlumeria]

FYI the x is read as by. Ie 4x4 4 by 4. So Unfiltered x Pretty Basic. Read as Unfiltered by Pretty Basic.

[@marisolquiles5293]

Something I heard: my older sister didn’t have an older sister and that made me sad 😢

[@natisanz-qz6jt]

Wait but remi, u have such a good laugh! Especially with the PU episodes, hearing u and Alisha crack up makes me laugh even harder 😂😂

[@Dreicx]

PLEASE yes I want We’re so different merch

[@jennalonghenry7287]

i actually didn’t notice the laughing into the mic at all because i was right there with you hahahah

[@nbla39]

I dont miss my 20s. I was so scared to be 30. Im 30 with 3 kids and a single mom. The judgemnet theough everyrbing has been real, but idgaf antmore. And not even in a way that's like cocky. I just am so focused on myself that I have tunnel vision.

[@isabellam2611]

I saw ur fashion video and i wanted to say that some people rlly dislike when the outfit looks to color matchy if that makes sense!