Wellcast - Ways to Stop Bullying

[@josejn2007]

Ignoring the bullying is not an option. You must face the bullier by handing out with friends, asking for help to other persons or, finally, fighting the bullier.

[@mlshelle]

Totally agree

[@josejn2007]

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[@josejn2007]

***** I don't think so. Some bulliers won't give up just by not getting a response. On the contrary , they could become crueler.

[@cadetkikoiraheta806]

Smash the bullied teeth on the curb

[@cadetkikoiraheta806]

+Cadet KIKO IRAHETA bullys *

[@TheCraftingMinersInc]

"Bully's are like grizzly bears, what do you do" Person: Play dead. Me: Get my 12 gauge and aim for the head

[@lizziecutie7032]

Don't do that that's a stupid idea

[@g_alt7679]

R/WOOOOOOSH

[@g_alt7679]

@@lizziecutie7032 r/wooooosh

[@rat4297]

Yes, do that

[@pie11402]

Why are they reuploading stuff?

[@MrTille]

Maybe because some issues (like bullying) are always relevant, and some people (like me) hasn't seen the reuploaded stuff yet?

[@hughjasses317]

sometimes you won't find help and you must fight sometimes alone like a tiger all by yourself with brute force and fearlessness. bullies bully you because they don't hate you they want to show the world who they are in the wrong way and often try and force these beliefs on other people they might be leopards but when you show them that you are a tiger, they will never mess with you.

[@ferbasmen]

Nice video. Nice tips. Im sure they'll work for anyone being bullied.

[@hopedean6424]

I'm not bullied. Why am I watching this

[@steevstev3984]

Good for you.

[@zach_melik]

hope dean WERE you?

[@lazydrawings7887]

Just incase

[@signebl906]

The responsibility for stopping bulling shouldn't be placed on the shoulders of the victims. Adults should step up for them, classmates around them should step up for them. They are allready struggling so much. Imagine if we did that with other issues like sexual harassment. We need to fix the perpetrator.

[@muneebovais1065]

Thanks a lot watchwellcast, I made a presentation out of this video for my English course and Alhamdullilah scored full marks. JazaakAllahu Khaira. ❤️

[@misslucia9947]

I think the best action is to fight them. Learn to stand up for yourself. People are not always there to help you. Well, that's what I learned for 4 years in high school. XD

[@sophietonge2376]

Really good thanks all of the videos help

[@Varulfen95]

I am a little bit sad about this video. seriously, the tip "ignore your bullies" is the worst tip you could give. I have been bullied almost my whole school life, so I know what I'm talking about. I ignored those people, I probably didn't do my best at playing it cool, but I never told them to leave me alone or that they hurt me. Please, to all people out there being bullied: tell them to stop at least once. You can go on ignoring them afterwards. But if you never tell them to stop calling you names, laughing about you or what ever they do, they can allways say "we didn't know that this hurts you". I wish I knew why they bullied me, I never did anything to them, but them pretending not to know what they were doing while you are obviously unhappy, depressed, nervous, afraid of people and allready to the point of physical health problems caused by all the psychological stress is the worst that can happen to you. Also the other tips you present in this video do not help everyone. Friends and adults to talk to aren't very usefull if they don't take you seriously. "travel in packs" doesn't help when people throw things at you during class or make fun of you while you do a presentation. "get out of there" doesn't work in those situations aswell. Seriously, the whole class is against me, my friends ignore the bullying, the teatcher "doesn't notice", how am I supposed to get out of there? Saying you feel sick doesn't work that often. (it actually makes things worse) I am glad I survived school without shedding any blood (mine or that of the bullies) and I don't have to deal with this anymore, but people pretending to know what to do even though they never had to deal with bullying allways make me a bit angry. I'm sorry if judged wrong, I don't know if anyone in the watchwellcast team has been bullied, but please, it is not as easy as you say. Pretending to know an easy way out doesn't make us victims feel better.

[@epiclemon5196]

Um, can you make a video on how to stop yourself bullying without meaning too?

[@pubcym]

STOP BULLYING!

[@Mariana-qo1pp]

Yes!! STOP IT

[@MelodyLovelace]

I've dealt with over ten years of "sibling rivalry" as everyone else calls it, but "sibling rivalry" isn't your sibling slamming your head into the closet door or calling you so many awful things you just want to die. I've actually considered suicide, but I was too scared to go through with it. This isn't sibling rivalry, it's bullying. And, you know, everyone has always said that if you're being bullied you should go to an adult, but neither of my parents believe me, and neither does anyone else I've told. It's especially hard when the bully lives at your house, so you basically see them 24 hours a day. I don't know what to do about this, no one else understands this type of bullying that is never mentioned.

[@MelodyLovelace]

***** Although I'm glad to know I'm not the only one, I really am sorry for your situation. No one should have to go through any kind of bullying. If you need someone to talk to, please message me, and this goes for anyone else reading this. Maybe if we all share our experiences we'll at least feel a little better.

[@siofra2221]

the same with me, i have two ,both nearly double my age who bully me 24 7 and both my parents say to ignore it, but how can i?Its been wayyy more than ten years for me though,remember there is more that 50 people who care about you,no matter how hard it is don't let it ever get you down like i did.if my brothers see this i am dead but its worth it to help people that need it.All those people with younger siblings,this is proof that older ones are worse.I hope this is a rare thing,goodbye.

[@MelodyLovelace]

siofra mcauliffe I'm really sorry you're going through this too. You know, my parents always say it'll get better once we're "grown up," and although I don't really believe that, I can't wait until she goes to college and I can finally get away from her. I sincerely hope everything works out well for you and everyone else going through any kind of bullying.

[@laradibble7119]

Im guessing you sibling is a male, so the best thing you could do in your situation is try as hard as you can to kick him or hit him somehow in the nuts. Set up hidden cameras for proof aswell, but that maybe a massive hassle.

[@PriKonPeko]

on my experience - i make the bully be my friend :) but 1st i need to beat them in their own game. one thing they good at like a computer game or something (sportsmanship) for them to respect me :D

[@FoxyBoxery]

Or just beat the Bully up. 99% of bullying happens, as a result of the bully, viewing the bullied person as weak, afraid and defenseless, basically easy prey. Show him/her that you can punch and kick too, and chances are that they will leave you. If the bully is bigger and stronger than you and you feel that you don't stand a chance against them in a 1v1 fist fight, bring a few friends as well, and gang up on the bully and beat him/her up. Many is allways better than one

[@billyjames9283]

I have some tips. 1: Siblings are like anti-bully-nukes. 2: Friends are like siblings. 3: If you wear a hood, full black, and a scarf over your mouth you'll appear threatening and anonymous from certain angles and distances, these being traits that discourage bullies from entering your turf for any longer than a grand total of nothing. 4: Stand your ground and know that a bully can't threaten you when they themselves are threatened and scared. 5: Stand up for others,no one will bully someone who will take the time to send you three feet underground for hurting someone other than yourself. This can also end their bullying career as a whole (seriously, shady guy dressed in full black just gave you a nose bleed for being a jerk to someone else and you want to keep being a jerk? Your last resort just ended in your pee and poop being indistinguishable and you want to continue?)

[@gregorysantiago5410]

mostly im bullied trough my school career and im a bully victim my school teachers does nothing

[@jasminemarley3480]

Hey wellcast, i'm being physical bullied and i done this stuff but every time i tell someone the just punch me and spread mean rumours. What do u do when the 3 bullies wont stop hurting u physically and mentally please hep me!!

[@venosoulx]

Really, the best is to just not be interested. Don't even give them the time of day, make sure if you're by yourself you're keeping yourself busy when a bully decides to drop by. If they keep pestering, just get up and walk away. If they get physical, go get help. This video is perfect, good job on this.

[@Neomi_Floof_old]

Ways to stop a bully. 1 walk away. 2 tell someone 3. Say something nice to them so they will be confused 4. Stand up to the bully. 😀😃

[@hazdeannahaizi6352]

Someone pls spread this cuz it's my experience 😉: Do not try to fight your bullies cuz I have told myself to do thatched I was 6 or 7 now I'm 8 and you just need to tell your teacher or parents and make sure to have your friends or yourself take proof if you bully hurts you just go away and it saying anything of your bully threats you just have your friends cover you up!

[@minecrafter85057]

FOR CRYING OUT LOUD STOP RE-UPLOADING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@christophercorgi9873]

huh they only up=loaded this once

[@CottonHeartCandy]

If you have been a subscriber before how to move on and find closure and watch all their videos you know they just reupload stuff that have been taken down

[@minecrafter85057]

No, I've seen videos from December 2013 in March 2014-and I can still see the one from december

[@dallasjacob99]

My dad was bullied as a kid and he said it makes a man a man I find that ideal barbaric a bully can do whatever he wants with me it's when he picks on my friends when I get mad and usually not one person it's a group of people who deliver small punches that cannot be tracked

[@ysabellazureta1724]

On my opinion, the best way to stop a bully is to tell an adult or even your parent. They can tell a teacher about it so the bully can be reprimanded. Don't fight back or don't cry. It will only make the situation worse. Again this is only my opinion

[@aleeketch]

What if the reaction they want to see is you doing nothing for them to boder you more?

[@MrDiosMetalero]

a few years late but awesome advice!

[@Dents6679]

Thanks this helped me a lot

[@jojosiwaii8054]

Can u make a vid idk how to explain like if u get blamed on something u didnt do and your teacher says if u do it again u can get suspended please make a video if u haven't

[@willthereptilevlogger6090]

I need guts. I always think about the consequences from doing stuff I need to do to get my self out of a situation. Next year I ain't taking no shit. Also I wish my town had a junior gym so I could look less weak and vulnerable.

[@sophietonge2376]

Thank you all of your videos help I love them perhaps do one you first period at school kit or some thing

[@alexandriaandrade9500]

What if I cant think of anything good about myself.

[@marcog606]

guys if you really want to stop a bully bullying you just fight them they wont mess with you again so kick their ass

[@GovaGaming]

Thanks this is useful

[@comicwing5331]

Marco Gomez yeah i could agree i do it all the time

[@marcog606]

Gova Gaming hell yeah

[@GovaGaming]

Oh yeah boiiiiiii

[@joycewong1797]

there is a close friends that actually bullies me. say mean stuff about me and my family and hit me all the time. when I told her to stop she said she is just playing but a few days ago she hurt my eye and it is extremely painful... but all my friends are her friends as well.. She said we are good friends but I wonder would a true friend even do this....

[@WiggaMachiavelli]

So-called "bullying" can help to promote social cohesion, as well as foster the development of positive character traits such as resilience and independence. Bullying is a normal and helpful part of human society and the treatment of it as disastrous for the individual acts as a self-fulfilling prophecy. Further, the coddling of individuals subjected to bullying retards the development of the aforementioned character traits.

[@EatShitCh]

great channel

[@kenzicorbynwilding804]

I tried to tell one of my teachers today at high school she said she would talk to me about it and then did nothing all day giving the big grizzlies a good aim on me and it's all because I like doctor who Pokemon my little pony (yes I'm a bronie) and also today my girl friend broke up with me and starts giving me rubbish and I I ... JUST HATE MY LIFE!!!!! please wellcast what do I do?? :-(

[@dioncaldwell3357]

Bullying need to stop and school needs to do something with it

[@jeremylee5990]

School enable bullies and protect their dysfunctional parents.

[@HammPiggy]

When I got bullied, I beat the bully or bullies up. I'm amazing, right?

[@frankkilbourn9987]

Sometimes im being bullyed

[@randommemesweekly4417]

"what do you do?" me: beat them senseless

[@chelalangat8607]

What if your friend is the one bullying you, who will you talk to at school beside the teachers?

[@ivanjelavich7276]

Bullying has to stop

[@Chuntachennel]

Wellcast u gotta get this issue fixed, the people are unhappy with your new reupload policy and if u don't build a colosseum or remove that policy they're going to spawn barbarians when unhappiness reaches 10.

[@cloakedlion13]

That has to be the best analogy yet

[@cherryblossom7310]

#clashofclans XD

[@cloakedlion13]

cherryblossom Uh, what?

[@Chuntachennel]

cherryblossom #civilization5

[@drrobotnikmeanbeanma]

Get a pin a notebook and write down these tips and strategies.Write down all your friends phone number addresses email address and zip codes on a sheet of paper so you can contact them if you need help.Take a picture of it then you can text the pitcher to your other friends cause it's a emergency.Then always watch and be around the innocent kid.

[@thechosenone009]

Why are you reuploading stuff?

[@charlottetoffee8798]

It's also free! Hope is no one is feeling like their nothing because their not that's the way I felt but I found my true self keep going strong! 😊I luv u all just the way you are 💛💙💜💚❤

[@heystobit4483]

I gotta be pretty honest, I bully people as well. I'm a cyberbully and school bully as well. I know it's wrong and I shouldn't be doing it, but I still do. I've lately been trying to stop and start being nicer to people, but I still bully some people. I only do this because I'm very insecure about myself and I just take it out on others

[@randomtalk9526]

HEY STOB IT Listen that’s not cool I have an idea do something when you are about to bully someone walk away have a glass of of water eat something etc It makes people really sad and I’m glad you understand that but try to stop doing it

[@akirab]

💀.

[@sleepy-sheepy6517]

But my issue is that I don't know if I'm being a bully because people don't don't say anything so I question everything I do and ask whether or not I'm being that one really dickish person and it's very stressful to constantly be triple checking every move I make and then I realize I did something stupid and then I'm cringing for the rest of the day and I'm constantly reminded of how stupid I was and then to stop making stupid mistakes I watch my moves and the cycle continues

[@hopedean6424]

The Fox Laboratory if you think you're a bully, you're probably a bully

[@sleepy-sheepy6517]

I don't think I am I'm just paranoid, I easily could be but there's no instance in recent memory that I would classify as bullying

[@hopedean6424]

The Fox Laboratory What do you do that makes you paranoid?

[@sleepy-sheepy6517]

I'm just a paranoid person in general

[@hopedean6424]

The Fox Laboratory Do people around you get hurt easily? Do they feel jumpy or in danger around you?

[@ellairvine1430]

Can u do a bid on how to stop prbloms like bahaver prob thanks

[@christinevitale1243]

The title and content are contradicting. This is not ways to stop bullying; it is more about ways to stop being bullied.

[@NotVivianASMR]

Bullies get bullied or they have personel issues outside of school (if you go to school)

[@Mellowzz0]

step 2 actually works and it is all that you need...

[@chloewaters3895]

What if it is physical bullying

[@jakelyon914]

same thing

[@lizziecutie7032]

It's basically bullying by:hitting, tripping, slapping, shoving, ext. so it means bullying with the body not just the words.

[@tranquil31]

Fight back

[@laradibble7119]

Kick their nuts (if a boy), poke their eyes, when they fall, stand on them and call out for help, if there is no one around just run.

[@wgs5030]

Some guys try bulliying me at school but I am to fab so it just makes them look dumb. But somethimes they can make me sad even if iy dosent look like it. Thanks for great video

[@purplefirekitty1]

I am being bullied and have been in the past and a one school i got slapped and hade racially incentive things sead to me and i told the principal and nuthing haped i hade to get the school board involved and he got a week of in school suspension so this is super helpful

[@brittneyarmada1861]

Hey watchwellcast can you please do a video on lonliness and how to deal with it.

[@hopedean6424]

How to stop bullying? PUT YOURSELF DOWN BEFORE THEY CAN. Then they can't really say anything new or make fun of you because they know that you already know it and don't care about it.

[@comicwing5331]

hope dean nah just ignore them if the bully is just insulting you by words but if its physically dont be afraid yo fight back just as long as the bully wasthe first one to hurt you

[@robmik83]

guys, sorry to say that, but the only way to put down a bully is to beat him up. ignoring won't help. so if you have this problem learn some basic boxing.

[@bradykrause652]

Yeah, teacher principal does not help. Because then they talk to the kids. And they keep on bullying you and it gets worse and worse.

[@VoidsNarrator]

=I To bad that I have close to no friends. One that is, and even he doesn't talk to me much. And if he's not in school, I'm all alone. Nobody really cares about me in school, so if someone comes and bullies me, I ignore them, but I still feel really awful and they do come back every time they can.... Well, it's still nice to see a few "simple" ways to avoid bullying ^-^

[@lacucaracha111111]

;-; there, have a hug **hugs**

[@VoidsNarrator]

Thank you! *hugs back*

[@danphil9]

Il b your friend ♥

[@bubblepopper1234]

I'll be your friend! I know how horrible it can be. Have a cupcake!!

[@VoidsNarrator]

lolly v Thank you! ;w; But, friends only on the internet are just that, friends on the internet...

[@splashftw268]

So, on august 29 2016, I was CRUSHED. How? My used-to-be friend punched me in the stomach and MEANT it. Man, that was difficult for me because we were BEST friends, but after a year, It went toxic. Now he kicks me and makes fun of me. :(

[@hopedean6424]

Daniel Stebbing leave that guy

[@splashftw268]

hope dean Believe me, I want to. I REALLY want to.

[@hopedean6424]

Daniel Stebbing so?? Why don't you?

[@splashftw268]

this is Dan's sister. what the heck is going on. I will be checking with him,

[@hopedean6424]

Daniel Stebbing What...

[@anniec8462]

What if my bully is becoming friends with my friend?

[@anniec8462]

She stole my best friend...

[@alexforman7967]

+Annie Chen that happens to me I feel you, it sucks

[@krystaloceanavlogs785]

Your friend sucks. If she knows you get bullied by them they are most likely the worst friend possible. SHOW them, you don't need them. Make new friends, talk to a lot of people. But whatever you do, try no to make them jealous. If she did that, she doesn't DESERVE to be your friend anymore

[@menmamenma9700]

hate this one kid he calls me bad luck and tells me to shutup when I'm talking and I tried to speak up to him but he won't stop

[@adreak9868]

Beat him up. Always worked for me.

[@everydaygeek8715]

I'm my own worst bully how do I deal with it?

[@angel-gx7zy]

This is just like another WikiHow, just in moving form and stuff :P

[@c4vetown_244]

Hello

[@leestewart2512]

I get bulled at primary school and my friend is all ways there and my big sister which next year I will only have my friend because my big sister is going to high school 😞😞 and me and my friend is best friends forever

[@banjokabooie]

Unsubscribed for reuploading.

[@christophercorgi9873]

really, there video was taken down and they said the they could re-uploaded it

[@drednaught608]

If you unsubscribed, then why are you bothering to make a comment on one of their videos they reuploaded?

[@Andrei-mi1pm]

I have just 2 close friends that are my dog and my cousin, the remaining are bullying me and when I tell what is happening to me I am not taken seriously and if I ignore the bullies I'll be beaten and they hate me like I'm Hitler... I hate my life...

[@Andrei-mi1pm]

*remaining of people

[@Andrei-mi1pm]

I should split it in more sentences....

[@Andrei-mi1pm]

and=.

[@abbistreet9426]

+Jakey same with me :(

[@JordanStuffGamer]

I only have 2 friends and I will never see them again cuz I'm getting homeschooled

[@naomirosev]

Robin Williams was also bullied as a kid.

[@cookiesvideos9009]

I try staying close to my Friends. But that "bully" Bullies my Friend too

[@op34ful]

ignoring doesn't work, they will stick pick on you

[@Hi-ig9jw]

This is true in my experience.

[@sophiayamagughi]

Everyone says I'm mean, rude even. I know they're joking but sometimes i just bully them for that.

[@splashftw268]

Fair enough.

[@waanibanani6497]

But they still bully me i have trided this all and i now these are only some tips but stop feeling bad and getting bullyied isnt this simple i ignore the people ho bully me but they are still doing it over and over again i always try new ways to get home so i dont have to sie them that works best to just saying.

[@DarkDanielFF]

This did not help me at all. To be honnest i dont think anything can help me at this point. I am a 15 years old gothic guy and in my school i am offended by prety much the hole school some times even beaten. I recently started to have a knife on me to scare away those who try to beat me. This one day some litle kids where making fun of me, they where just kids so I didnt really care. I had my knife in my hand the hole time even before they apeared, I was just looking at it. So one of the kids saw the knife and spreaded the rumor that I pointed the knife at him. Now I'm known as a coward asshole that "bullies" chilldren by the hole school including teachers. Now I'm just hopping that next grade they all forget this, so that at least I can be bullied by something I did do. Being my self.

[@MultiIcecrusher]

Daniel Figueiras I'm sorry I don't really know how to help you but there are ways to be helped. It's not impossible just really hard. Just think of the space mission to the moon, everybody thought it was impossible just a year after Neal Armstrong stepped on that dusty planet. It's not impossible

[@pflubber]

+Daniel Figueiras Yeah, this stuff works against one or two people, not a whole groupthink affecting a school. At that point, I'm sure it gets to the point where you anticipate offense at every turn, and that makes things that are neutral or accidental appear aggressive. Try to filter. Also, I find that being on the defensive just makes you a better target. Try to drop your guard if possible.

[@hannahrice5678]

Do a video on rumors! Plz?

[@pikaboomarshmallowparty9231]

Wow this is really helpful aww thnx

[@LinkEX]

What do Steven Spielberg, Christian Bale, Taylor Swift and Bill Clinton all have in common? Hmm. I think they DIDN'T UPLOAD EVERY VIDEO ON THEIR CHANNEL TWICE.

[@avat727]

Wellllll what if you have to sit next to the bully in school?

[@FPotato.]

The fact my friends are friends with the girl who spreaded rumours about me...

[@Nebnot]

I get mad wen people bother me and today I was talking to my dad I was crying 😭 then I was calm down

[@TheEdricTing]

When will there every be something that is actually new

[@carloslozano9546]

I get called worthless 😔😔

[@hopedean6424]

Carlos Lozano are you bullied?

[@TOPAZ.o]

The prob is my father and mom keep on saying its my fault am getting bullied because of the way i act i could never find someone who understands bullying has been a prob for me from since k4-gr7 And i have no real friends and if i laugh they will take me for a joke soo i just cry and fight and get in trouble all the time theres no way out for me what shold do one time i almost stabbed my self and sliced my neck untill my parnets caught me bullying is not cool and not fair bullying can choose suicide which i almosted commited

[@abbistreet9426]

+Takeda this kid named Arick does the same *cries eyeballs out* he won't leave me alone 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😰😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😓😓😓😓😓😓😓🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕😖😖😖😖😖😖😖😩😫😫😫😩😫😩😣😣😣😣😣☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😔😔😔😔😔😔😞😞😞😞😞

[@TOPAZ.o]

McDoggy 95 thanks

[@Lilly_Drago]

Um for step 3 what if the bully bully's you and your friends and even when your with the friends they will pick you out of them to bully.and thanks for the tips:p :)

[@sevenuniquegirls8943]

That army horse doh xD

[@garnetportal4784]

U r such a awesome drawer.

[@너구리오리-n1g]

Cool art style right?

[@maureenokang9030]

The only reasin they are not re upload ing is because they don't want u to be bored because they are nit making anymore videos until FALL,

[@Y0_Yuk1]

7 years ago :o

[@Anonymous-uf5pm]

Do a video about how to avoid girl drama! Please!

[@blakeansell2582]

step 1 look for that bully step 2 fight back to he knows he fucked up

[@renelozoya8360]

please do not use bears as a negative thing. People will associate bears with bullies. I like bears. Thank you. by the way I love the advice and videos on this.

[@Barfey101902]

I love bears too!!!

[@abbistreet9426]

I'm bullied everyday by this kid named Arick.He hates me because I'm a girl.He beats me up.He Cyberbullies me.He calls me names and threatens me.He once said that he is going to keep bullying me until I kill myself.He always follows me home and at school.My parents won't do anything about it neither the adults at my school.PLEASE HALP ME 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@СрбаСтевановић-ю7с]

its the same with me exept im a boy, have gone to school principal and told him everything, for about 2 days they were calling me a pussy and then they stoped if you want to talk about it, if you have problems just contact me via Facebook

[@bunnytwinklecake8312]

At school people be mean to me and the boys in my class as well as a few other peeps talk behind my back because I love My Little Pony

[@abbistreet9426]

+BunnyTwinklecake same with me :( but I hate mlp

[@itismehimani5566]

Everyone in my class bullies me

[@Y0_Yuk1]

I am sorry to hear that

[@haas1049]

God just grow a backbone

[@moonlightwolfie670]

it never worked

[@SamuelHernandez-vk2or]

What if no one like you and have no friends or family to turn to... ;(

[@logant2750]

How to beat the blues?

[@Raythefae]

My use to be best friend makes fun of me and try's to cut me with scissors and I just don't want to go to school anymore she calls me a 4 eye ever day but this help a lot

[@splashftw268]

I can relate. I think that's harder to go through, if i'm honest.