Wh*rephobia (Do You Have It?) | Patrick Marano

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[@MiguelitoD770]

I’ve watched many of your videos for the very reason that we CAN discuss these topics openly so I’m not buying that we’re shunned and unable to especially in 2024? I think some just aren’t good with criticism or disagreement which is why I don’t usually share my entire life even with friends but idk who is shaming gay men for hooking up honestly.

[@Pisti846]

Hmmm .... this video left me speechless, and not in a good way. As a senior citizen who lived through 1980s, well, just let me say that perhaps you are being a tad judgmental, and perhaps naive. You are, of course, entitled to your opinions and usually enjoy your videos but that is life.

[@grossartus]

you could at least write your disagreements, right?

[@PatrickMarano]

Which part is naive? I'm just curious

[@CajunGators]

@@grossartusTo be fair those that do are usually accused of being judgmental and phobic but it is very naive to think those who aren’t freely hooking up refrain due to stigma instead of safety or health and are “phobic” of those who do. In a perfect world most men would indulge but that’s not reality. Seems the shaming is usually towards those who don’t want to take a risk.

[@grossartus]

@@CajunGators mmm i dont think the shame comes from people of the hookup culture, it is normalized yes, but ive heard many judgmental things from the "normies" against people who got HIV or other STD, they say things like " thats what you get for being a slut" i find that so wrong, i dont think patrick is implying that we all should hookup, rather than "do what you want and dont criticized there for doing what they want"

[@CajunGators]

@@grossartus I understand that and agree with the premise. I’ve never felt ashamed personally but I wouldn’t take offense to a friend or loved one saying to be careful or warning me (if I were to even share that) and it isn’t “phobic” or shaming. Someone can’t shame you for what you aren’t ashamed of imo.

[@ollylevesque3404]

This is not a thing nor is there a “community” we all feel collective strife when someone doesn’t agree with us. If you’re gonna spill your bedroom business to everyone, it’s subject to criticism. A lot of us are already hyper sexualized and over share as it is, let’s not pretend we’re victims because someone didn’t celebrate us getting laid smh

[@PatrickMarano]

I think you missed the point of the video... that's ok

[@ollylevesque3404]

@@PatrickMarano I don’t think so? I agree with most of your videos and am by no means a saint. But that’s why I keep my business to myself and if someone insulted me for what I’ve done, I wouldn’t care. I feel no shame. How did I miss the point by simply saying not to play victim if someone doesn’t agree?

[@MiguelitoD770]

I definitely agree with this. Never felt this in my life but also don’t feel the need to share everything with my friends.

[@CynthiaNotG]

Okay patriarchy is a non stop go to but wphobia is a buzzword I’ve yet to hear 💀😂 Ugh, people do whatever you want with whoever, nobody is stopping you. Man the community has become so fragile, it’s sad to see so many of us have lost all resilience or confidence.

[@PatrickMarano]

Fragile yes, but I think people are more vocal about what they like and don't like, and insults and confrontation are also more frequent

[@stuartm6069]

Coming out in the early 1980's we were stigmatized due to the AIDS crisis. Having multiple partners was really frowned upon. Now that treatments have gotten better (PREP), there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a whore.

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@MiguelitoD770]

Wasn’t that more safety/survival than stigma though? We must not forget there’s now antibiotic resistant strains of diseases we had cures for. Prep doesn’t help with that.

[@Jusell]

Thank you, dear Patrick ❤

[@JimmiAlli]

Can you do video on rimming please? It’s something I don’t understand. ❤

[@PatrickMarano]

Ok, I'll try to do that

[@dramonmaster222]

Yes to normalizing sex.

[@ollylevesque3404]

It’s never been abnormal. Some of yall just “normalize” this victim mindset.

[@dramonmaster222]

@@ollylevesque3404 Except slut shaming is a thing that happens. And please don't act like sex workers don't face discriminations because of the profession because they do.

[@ollylevesque3404]

@@dramonmaster222 Another buzzword that just means “I was insulted” No one can make you feel ashamed for which you aren’t ashamed of. And lumping in sex workers with the same brush with gay men who want to engage in promiscuous behavior is wild. Just go meet up and do your thing. No one could shame you if you’d stop telling everyone about your private life

[@PatrickMarano]

Every single one of your comments is very confrontational. I respect different perspectives, but you have an abrasive manner that puts others immediately on the defensive. I don't disagree with some of your comments, but I would suggest finding a better way to deliver them.

[@MiguelitoD770]

@@dramonmaster222I think comparing issues workers face to a gay guy feeling offended at someone’s critique of their private life is extremely disingenuous honestly and does a disservice to said workers dealing with risks and dangers we otherwise wouldn’t.

[@stevenr5534]

The fact that these reasons for judging sexually active people negatively still exist is a sign that we need to keep educating the community at large. However, it is also important to recognize the gains that have been made. And to keep educating too.

[@miguelpaul1164]

Im a slut and proud of it!!!

[@PatrickMarano]

Awesome!

[@dubon9999]

Hi Gays 🏳️‍🌈

[@rixx46]

Sex work in various forms is EVERYWHERE - anyone watching Patrick who has an issue with sex work is already confused. So long as no one is being exploited it's NO ONE'S BUSINESS. Adult film performers (according to interviews) are FAR more likely to share a bug from someone outside of the industry. If the rest of us were as careful as sex workers (getting tested, communicating) there would be fewer STIs.

[@CynthiaNotG]

Riiiiight. They usually, like the one in Houston that was crying nonstop about his facial lesions, get it from bathhouses group activities… He said it himself, club Houston. Let’s not be disingenuous…

[@PatrickMarano]

I don't think you can take one person's internet meltdown and make assumptions about a whole community of people. In my experience, sex workers are more up to speed with education and prevention than the general population

[@thatmikestout]

I always enjoy your videos, Patrick, and love and appreciate your sex-positive messages so much. I think many of us grow up with heteronormative sexual morality so deeply ingrained that we don't even think to challenge why we believe what we do. Thank you and keep up the great work! ❤

[@aarenmackenzie1251]

Love your outlook on sex. Love it so very much. Very refreshing

[@andrewaway]

100% agree. Thanks Patrick.

[@dabeage]

The hetero-jealousy over gay sex is SO annoying.

[@ollylevesque3404]

Hetero jealousy 💀 if that were a thing, it would be from these gals who insist we can change our orientation because they “identify” 👰🏻‍♂️ Yall make up non issues instead of address real ones

[@GIJadaSmith]

Which one is it? They’re phobic or jealous? Good lord kween some of y’all can bounce on a bakers dozen eggplants but an internet comment is just too much to much to bear. Dramatic.

[@jaya.d-gauthier1644]

Jealous of what? That’s such a middle school retort wow lol. Pretty sure people are just tired of hearing about others’ business. Relax kween

[@vincentimbesi3947]

Great video….as always! ❤👍🏼👍🏼

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you 🤗

[@cafema5]

😊❤😊 Happy to see your new post

[@uncleorev3738]

You mean "envious", not "jealous". Yes I'm a pedantic twat

[@PatrickMarano]

Sure, lol, thanks!

[@jameswalsh8754]

I totally agree with you on all those counts. Some of the most intelligent and sexual free people are in the BDSM leather community. We don’t have a hangup about anything we accept it for what it is.

[@peterbenson3776]

Immatopper 😈. Insatiable

[@roundesthedgehog]

222'th like mine, so i wish 222 hot men in a year in my bed :)

[@animeprince7866]

Welp. Thank you for spilling the truth tea all over the place. 😊 I loved this video and will now be sharing this video to the Times Square Billboard where this message belongs.

[@shaunbolton4662]

Love your videos, Patrick! Totally agree!

[@PatrickMarano]

Thanks so much!

[@laurencress2013]

Thank you 😊

[@claudiogenson]

SEX WORK IN VARIOUS FORMS IS EVERYWHERE .AND LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU SEX-POSITIVE MESSAGES SO MUCH .I THINK MANY OF US GROW UP WI .SO LONG AS NO ONE IS BEING EXPLOITED IT S NO ONES S BUSINESS