What Are Chinese Girls Looking for in a Partner?

In this captivating street interview, we hit the vibrant streets of Shanghai to uncover what Chinese women truly desire in a partner. From the bustling city squares to cozy cafes, we asked women of all ages about their ideal type. The answers we got were as diverse as the women themselves!
When it comes to personality and character, one thing was clear-responsibility and attentiveness are top priorities. Whether it's being considerate or taking care of their partner, these traits were universally cherished. But when it comes to physical appearance, the preferences were all over the map. Some women were drawn to height, while others valued a handsome face.
This video offers a unique glimpse into the evolving standards of women across different age groups in China. If you’re curious about what modern Chinese women are looking for in a relationship, don’t miss this insightful episode. Tune in to discover the subtle nuances and shared ideals that define the concept of an "ideal type" in contemporary China!
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[@nita0102]

Emotionally stable = Money Confidence = Money

[@slcainehmierz7681]

real smart = money needs to spoil me = money motivated = money driven = money

[@DancingShiva788]

Maybe it's just me, but these women were asked an unexpected question about a hypothetical situation and gave general answers. It's not like they agonized over those answers. They just popped out the first thing which came to mind and was socially acceptable. That's a long way from actually making a decision on a specific man. The question was also for a hypothetical "perfect man" who doesn't exist, not who they actually will settle for. I thought they did a fine job.

[@user-ds7up1fi2y]

The interviewer is asking these women what their ideal (理想) type is, not necessarily what they actually expect. Not saying these womens actual expectations are realistic, but the question being asked has nothing to do with realistic expectations.

[@jaejaejaejaejaejae]

I think this is a good point to keep in mind. Half way through I was wondering if any of them are in tune with reality, then realised....the question wasn't about reality.

[@robertwang7825]

99.9% of the time it comes down to $ ( house , car , income , ) the remaining would be height , looks , location of your resident card , do parents rely on you etc. Money talks loud n clear

[@SB-jl3mf]

But they also say it in a difference sequence. Tall handsome comes first. If you have a lot of money and don't have looks, they will just use you for money. At that point it is better to go to the Chinese brothels for a quick rumble with a hooker.

[@blue-phoenix115]

Girl who said she wants personality to be like *Thanos* is wild!

[@철수김-r6r]

흥미로운 주제, 깔끔한 편집, 깨끗한 오디오 멋진 영상에 놀라고 구독자에 또 놀라네요 구독자 10만은 금방 갈 것 같은 느낌 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ + 한국어 자막 감사해요

[@frenzybuzz3703]

So many misogynists on the comment thread. Let me make it clear as a woman. A lot of us simply don't go for rich men but we simply seek compatibility and physical attraction atleast to the eye of that particular female atleast upto a certain extent to feel comfortable with the opposite gender by seeing him or for intimacy which any human being or even men seek.

[@OceanCy_7th]

4:44 Beautiful of them all, not white skin but skin looks healthy and smooth and beauty is natural 😊

[@dargardargar]

Finally, an abundance of beautiful Chinese ladies. My confidence in China has been restored. Thank you for this video.

[@slcainehmierz7681]

Have only seen 2 max 3 that matches my taste. The rest are very below. Second girl, blond one and the one with the black basecap.

[@letsgowalk]

Second one is definitely on a higher level than the rest. @@slcainehmierz7681

[@shinchan-F-urmom]

Ok Mr.Incel

[@oystershell6864]

我觉得这些采访有趣也一个很好的方法学中文。You have several people giving slightly different answers and also saying similar vocabulary. It helps train listening skills. It would be interesting to hear their answers to “what do they think men look for in an ideal women？”，” what do they personally bring to a relationship?” , “ An ideal man should have xyz, what aspects are the women willing to be flexible on in a relationship “.

[@lihaoadventurer]

it's very hard to find people accept to do interview great job

[@unvaccinatedAndPureBlood]

As soon as you realize that ALL women want the same thing, tall, rich, funny, then you know they are not special. Remember, men are the prize, not them, and make sure the like you more instead of status.

[@emarcostar]

Men were never the price and will never be 😂😂😂

[@blue-phoenix115]

All women are the same just like all men are the same

[@GREGSJH13]

Can you do more videos like these covering different topics? They’re great for learning Chinese. Thank you!

[@CarlosLinares-wn1vn]

I love how this vid just randomly pops up and i can't help but just laugh. I thought the US was bad but this one takes the cake.

[@KinLee919]

trust me, china is way worse, ever heard about 'caili'? when marriage, the guy should give bride's family a huge amount of money, usually started from 10,000 usd, and what's fuck up about this is, most feminists in China think this is right.

[@FLAREZ2010]

Rich,loaded with money , a condominium, landed property, bonus with a luxurious car, always getting new gold necklace or bracelet during birthdays and lastly a lot a lot of credit cards. This is what mostly an ideal man for Chinese women to be searching.

[@liyexiang666]

u could just bundle all that under the hood of "sense of responsibility " like those girls did(most)

[@StanleyJohnson-b4v]

Did you even watch the video?

[@autodigitvlogs]

​@@StanleyJohnson-b4v a load of lies.

[@codelessunlimited7701]

As a man, that's my ideal type. 😅

[@fastdeliveryl708]

Jezzzz i feel srry for men there then. thats why nobody is having kids now days.

[@user-jj4co3uy5q]

many demands while they are young, when they are over 30, anyone hahahaha!😅

[@eslnoob191]

Actually their demands increase when they're over 30... It's why there are now countless single (and delusional) 30+ year old women in China.

[@charlie18815]

Once they reach 30, and still single most of them will become feminists 😂😂

[@omniultima4747]

Rich and handsome are the top 2 priorities of all the women around the world.

[@Adi_leo98]

2nd girl was so beautiful

[@TheMinchio]

It usually comes down to tall and handsome with money (高富帅） or to have a car and a house (有车有房). Maybe some after a certain age, will also consider a good passport.

[@morheimtv5666]

They may all just say "solve my problems!" and save all those grocery lists.

[@bresilien2895]

Thank god somebody said "Funny", i'm still in the game xD

[@LilyZhang12]

I love this channel!! Please update soon!!!!!

[@williamvonbaskerville3805]

jeppp ....... i found my favourite girl on 5:33 ...... open minded, friendly, long black hair, not to young, very good loooking and realistic - an experienced woman,not a dreaming girl ! With this kind of woman i could learn chinese hours over hours for a long time, visit many cultural place all over china, would have humorous tasting of streetfood and romantic evenings in luxury places or even in nature ... until we know eatch other without speaking, sitting side by side and feeling complete. Then we could share our wealth and do as much good deeds as possible all around the places for humans and animals in a christian and buddhistic way ..... and of course also enjoy enough for ourselves ;-)

[@touayaaj84]

We need more of these types of video!

[@JohnSmith-hv6ks]

10. He must have 0 standards and must accept me when we meet.

[@ahf5471]

1) very attractive 2) very attractive 3) wealthy 4) tall 5) very attractive

[@ddslayer6]

Didn't think the delulu idea's of the west would be similar to that of chinese girls, although most of these girls in shanghai are typically richer so they have these 'higher delulu standards' i think the majority of chinese girls are not like this.

[@barbaralanders6049]

Judging from my online dating experience (in 2016): money, money, money...

[@oodo2908]

How high are dowry prices in Shanghai?

[@siewkonsum7291]

The girls can state what they want to want & conditions of male partner to marry her; But hold on girls, to be fair to both sides, then you got to tell, *_What can you offer?_* (to the man you love to be your hubby!) (☝️this happened, during SK Sum's & wife recent 8 Days trip to Jiang Xi, China; When the young lady tour guide spoke out all her required conditions to marry any an eligible single man; Then SK Sum asked her, *_"What can you offer?"_* - to that man, she was stunned - unable to answer! the whole bus of others burst in a loud laughter! 😂🙏🙇‍♂️🌷)

[@autodigitvlogs]

She should have said "a little" or not much.

[@siewkonsum7291]

​@@autodigitvlogs​​ She shld say, she can offer - stop working, live in his condo/apartment, housekeeping it clean & build up a happy family with him, use his car to send our kids, or parents, or buy groceries & essentials when needed, use his washing machine to wash, iron his clothes, so on & so forth.... with his sufficient monthly money given to her, save some of it..... and shall remain faithful & stay with him till death do us apart. 😁

[@emarcostar]

The video "as long as he's responsable and good to me it's fine" the comments "women ask for too much, what can you offer? They will never find a real men. You men are the delulu ones if you think they asking for a clean, responsable men who treats his gf well is asking for too much 😂

[@toondemaere3080]

And only money the rest doesn’t mean anything. You can literally treat them as shot as long as you have money.

[@Katcom111]

Girl want a guy to have Japanese anime character personality. Ok where can I sign up 😂

[@toondemaere3080]

It’s money 💰

[@HeartBreakJ13]

That chick really said a “womanizer”. That’s hilarious.

[@odin9782]

2:26 no way china has got them trans people now too hahahahha

[@slcainehmierz7681]

Why not look a the whole ladyboy thing and other stuff.

[@jasonsmith1143]

does these women bring any value to the relationship??

[@chrisskiingpowpow]

😂😂😂

[@gabrielgadze1208]

no.

[@autodigitvlogs]

Buuuuu.....

[@codelessunlimited7701]

I'm pretty sure they can produce babies for ultra rich men. 😅

[@roymoxley2587]

No just a p trap

[@dtsh4451]

6 foot tall; 6 inch manhood and 6 figure income🥱

[@theaperelaxspotlight8267]

баярлалаа

[@cranky1812]

Congratulations ladies you can have cats and dogs. Enjoy being single for rest of your life.

[@roymoxley2587]

You damn Right

[@acebeariously9856]

4:47 哇哇！这个女孩真可爱。当然，我永远都会服从她。

[@gabrielgadze1208]

be smart

[@acebeariously9856]

@@gabrielgadze1208 what do you mean?

[@gabrielgadze1208]

@@acebeariously9856 obey her ? really.whatever she says?

[@acebeariously9856]

@@gabrielgadze1208 ye id like that.

[@acebeariously9856]

@@gabrielgadze1208 if you know such a woman tell me her name lol.

[@Hanmoon850]

😍😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@doodlemecrzy8075]

说的大多官腔，到都来还是💰或颜值。当然两样都有是最好不过。 说些什么聪明，责任心，忠心都是屁话。

[@davidcadman4468]

I know where the 2:16 Pushing 70 year old woman can find a man in her age range... In Canada... 😁🙃😉😍🥰😇

[@roto6500]

I feel sorry for Chinese men living in China

[@shinrinyokumusic1808]

Its not any better in other western countries

[@roto6500]

​@shinrinyokumusic1808 it is a little bit better but China is closer to Thailand than America😅

[@p.a.ch.3861]

Mad

[@yvanbarbeau2999]

these girls are not realistic

[@codelessunlimited7701]

Because the question is stupid, instead of "practical" than "ideal."

[@ChristopherTrower]

No chance

[@ajosralastname7823]

They would date kim jung un for the right price

[@lovetai9401]

lol

[@slcainehmierz7681]

Als Europäer find ich asiatische Frauen wenn das hier eine Art Querschnitt bildet doch arg unattraktiv und das im Vergleich zu dem was heutzutage im Westen so rumläuft.

[@charlie18815]

所以国内有过亿的90后还单着。太会幻想了。

[@xOmniCloudx]

A rich simp. That's the video.

[@autodigitvlogs]

Dowry or Credit Ka? 😂

[@jancarius101]

This is silly. No women know what they want.

[@generalnguyenngocloan1700]

Woman said “taller than 6’ 1”. So she just left out 96% of men as suitable. Good luck

[@MarbleCat.]

thats why i became hypergamy for a man i wont settle for less believing in love is naive only leads to disaster.

[@Hali88]

give me 99% of your money and I'll like you, okay how about no, lol

[@easonlee6615]

All gold diggers

[@mehdan2]

Garbage

[@marleocjsdjostcte7289]

Bullshit.

[@drbanana4993]

would a rich tall handsome funny intelligent guy pick any of these females as a wife ?????????

[@roymoxley2587]

No men with money are not tied down to the p trap

[@toniomz1205]

Really is just me or this video sounds like chin chon chin chan chin, chun chin chan, pam pum chin pin?

[@user-kq4xv2ei5x]

哇，上海的转移支付美女这么多，咋采访的这么难看。。。

[@liyexiang666]

好看的还没起床，人要上夜班的

[@doodlemecrzy8075]

说的大多官腔，到都来还是💰或颜值。当然两样都有是最好不过。 说些什么聪明，责任心，忠心都是屁话。