What Colombian Women REALLY Think About Dating Foreigners

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Learn Spanish with Xiomara from the video! kzbin.info/www/bejne/r6i1k5eJd7h0qM0

[@五郎明里朱里朱莉]

allow me to save you 10 minutes YES! ofc Latinas in South America love tall, White men

[@ahmedzakikhan7639]

Ask them about Indian men because most crowd in KZbin are from India.

[@jerryoshea3116]

Those were good interviews..Normal, sensible,well considered responses👍 .And i'm speaking from the perspective of being a Londoner(born&raised into a large Irish☘️ family-8 kids&their should/could have been 11!) Who has lived in Las Vegas for 22yrs&that was down to the fact I had a Puerto Rican Gf,who spoke fluent English! .And as for the Cultural thing!it never was a issue !.But I must admit,I was raised by strict,pretty austere,Catholics,.so not a lot of Tactile behavior,hugging&kissing etc etc...And I don't mind admitting I had to learn to change my ways&be more openly affectionate,more demonstrative...So it was a learning process(fortunately for me she found it hilarious & interesting &she was Patient!)..But eventually we parted ways(minus the acrimony,she's a nice Person) So now I think I need a Brazilian Lady👍 The ones I've met are very open&friendly!

[@brennendehexe7934]

So they like western men bc they are more emotionally mature? But when it comes to her own impulses she sees no responsibility to grow up? It's just bc she's a proud Latina? Haha this is the mindset of a drama queen guys. And as you know. Bad b*tch is just another word for single mom. Eventually that white guy will be as annoyed with her as she is annoyed with Latino guys.

[@malachi-]

"The only time a woman made a man a millionaire, is when that man was a billionaire."

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

😂

[@paulpurves484]

Ha-ha funny 😂😂😂😂

[@jlj777]

There is nothing interesting about them they are Western Union international hookers.

[@timothyvaher2421]

🙄🙏😇 🎭

[@TheGodly]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AbletonLiveTechs]

Remember boys at the end of the day shes not yours its just your turn.

[@John-hp2hg]

@@thesaxon7763 He's right tho. The vast majority of Colombian girls date foreigners because of "security," which means money. No problem with that, other than the fact that the relationship is very shallow and not based on love.

[@AbletonLiveTechs]

@@John-hp2hg excactly. notice how they mentioned all their “boyfriends” from the past. wouldnt be surprised if they are getting their backs blown out while boyfriend is overseas

[@John-hp2hg]

@@thesaxon7763 These girls have had a ton of boyfriends. That in itself is a big reg flag. Bottom line, the vast majority of people want to marry someone of their own race and country, someone they can talk to in their mother tongue. Like attracts like. If you date outside your race, it's either for sex or money. I'm not calling them gold diggers, but I highly doubt they would date some poor black man from Nigeria.

[@AbletonLiveTechs]

@@John-hp2hg Well said 👏. Gotta awaken the sheeple living in the blue pill world

[@biscuiteater6888]

@@John-hp2hg idk abt Latinos, but there are tons of white women dating and marrying poor African Nigerian & south east asian men.

[@melamusicworld]

I'm Colombian american and I really appreciate this women and the interviewer, thank you!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Sí, their answers were very thorough!

[@melamusicworld]

@TOLD YA en que sentido?

[@bryant475]

Cool, there are a lot of Colombians here in NYC. Nice people! What state are you in?

[@Drymarro]

hola ;)

[@Baphomets_Kid]

In Latin America (especially South America), class is everything… everything. A high class Colombian girl would not bother with a foreigner if they aren’t upper class in their own nation.

[@Maremare680]

💯

[@byzantiumredpilled5490]

100% this. It doesn’t matter if you’re a White Latino, White American, etc. it’s all about income and to a lesser degree social status.

[@Thomson07]

@@byzantiumredpilled5490 thats very sad, would much rather stay single than date if thats the case

[@rosca_21]

That is specially true of Colombia. Lots of classism and elitism down there. Less so in Venezuela. But this is ultimately true of any country I think.

[@jakecharlessmith]

yeah but a low class person in the west is a extremely high class person there wage-wise lol

[@keithmitchell3282]

" Columbian men dont have enough money" come on ladies a little truth please

[@lahsen5184]

A Venezuelan woman said me the foreign mens have money i think there are interessted by the money and to have a stability a men who can help them in the bad moments

[@airlebron7467]

@@lahsen5184 even in the usa the girls wont even look at you if your broke. Its actually way harder here.

[@thewolfrhymesshow641]

the only sign given of the Lords return is the sign of johah the bitter angry envious racist prophet of God. and when the world flips it will be a lot of gringos in hell angry bitter wrathful envious and wanting to kill. our latin personality is envious and not cocky and boastful and we are more quiet humble and reserved and if bitches dont like that they can go to hell with satan where they will be made but ugly as they already are but satan has the filter over the eyes of the masses and they will gnash their teeth and wail because of the wrath of the Lord. AI is something people need to fear and they will flip this grid as soon as they get a chance Revelation 1:15 KJV And his feet like unto fine brass, as if they burned in a furnace; and his voice as the sound of many waters. Revelation 3:12 KJV Him that overcometh will I make a pillar in the temple of my God, and he shall go no more out: and I will write upon him the name of my God, and the name of the city of my God, which is new Jerusalem, which cometh down out of heaven from my God: and I will write upon him my new name. Matthew 11:29 KJV Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek(nice guy until you cross the line too many times) and lowly in heart(not flashy): and ye shall find rest unto your souls. Nahum 1:3 KJV The LORD is slow to anger, and great in power, and will not at all acquit the wicked: the LORD hath his way in the whirlwind and in the storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.

[@renebarcenas9491]

@@lahsen5184 that's correct

[@Vanessa-hr3yr]

For me what they have said is true because I also believe in the same thing. I haven't had a partner yet, but if I fell in love it would be with a foreigner. I don't like the flirtatious ones that some Colombian men are. Unfortunately, I see a foreigner as a more loyal or faithful person than those from my own land. I work, so I don't think about money (also, Im American). Although I have traditional Christian values, I do believe that the man should be the provider. The woman is the one who should serve, help or care for her husband and children. This is my case, I know that not all Colombian women think alike (You will not find the good woman in discos or places full of alcohol. So I understand you and be careful), and I also believe that not all foreigners will be faithful... but if there are many of you who are more faithful and secure...

[@picassob3712]

Interesting conversation. I will say from my experiences dating and talking with Colombian women from different parts of Colombia, many of them would not admit, or are subconsciously unaware, that they have an extremely classist/elitist mentality. For example, many Colombian women from low estratas will not hesitate to take advantage of a naive gringo by dating and possibly marrying him, and go overseas to improve their quality of life. Colombian women from high estratas, particularly 6, will not go overseas to marry a gringo, let alone date a gringo, because their quality of life is already good/stable at home...there is nothing beneficial for the latter to live in the U.S.

[@TruthSeeker30_]

Thanks for the honesty

[@daniloto9]

You are right. Brazilian women too. They look gringos just for stepping stone. I have experienced it. T

[@josephjones3525]

@@daniloto9 Yeah but that's No different than any women anywhere in the world. Women marry up, not down. A woman making $100K is Nevery Marrying the foot locker Mgr, but a guy will. Men don't care about her $, career...the 1st thing any women ask on a date is..."so, what do you do for a living?". A natural, important part of their getting process. And you know this already. So it has Nothing to do with being a foreigner as much as...Women date, marry up..to make their lives better, easier, wanting a man that does well for himself, can afford her, her lifestyle, raise young. It's their nature. Simple, basic survival. Lastly..Your an idiot if you go to the trouble of going to a foreign country to get a wife, and bring her back to the States, England, Australia or wherever you are from. Absolutely stupid. They will get homesick, so you WILL be spending $$ for visits back home. You will be sp6$ to fly family out, and sending $ home to her family. Even if Not a lot, or often, you WILL be doing it. You will effectively Lose the woman you brought with you because the your country WILL change her. Your bringing her to the very place-environment where you hate the women that you got on plane, to get away from? That's stupid. U pluck a pristine thing and transport it back to a contaminated environment and expect it to stay clean? Guys, unless you plan to relocate? Don't bother. Your quality of life will be better there, your $$ WILL go a lot further...there

[@supadave422]

This is the same in ALL countries.

[@jdoyle4811]

I agree with your statement about the different stratas and the motivation for a Colombiana from lower strata to want to improve their lot in life with marrying a gringo. I did meet a woman from Barranquilla and after 5 visits to Colombia and almost a year of Skype communications she came to US on a Fiancee visa. We got married in Hawaii 12 years ago and things still going strong. My wife was from strata 5 and educated as an Accountant which is her career in US. She is 17 years younger than me and she was attracted to my being secure, a well traveled professional, and strong body with blue eyes. I was attracted to her beauty on the inside as well as outside and her love of working out. Her love of family and generosity to others also were big factors in her attraction for me. Thanks for your interesting video

[@user-me7tr8uc2b]

I lived in Colombia for three years in fact my daughter is Colombiana. Women that love gringos usually always speak English. Usually but not always. Great video.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks!

[@wassollderscheiss33]

Haha my daughter is colombiana tambien

[@geraldarnoult]

realize these videos are selling a service

[@randalljames730]

What percentage of Columbian woman speak english?

[@jimmybob7028]

They only speak English if they've been around the block quite a bit. Avoid the English speakers.

[@AndresDCRealtor]

This is the most honest interview I have seen from Colombian women on KZbin. Thanks for taking the time to make this video!!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

sure thing!

[@jlj777]

There is nothing interesting about them they are Western Union international hookers.

[@richarddarmstadt2871]

I was married for about 20 years to a Dominican (in US). You have to consider the extended family. For many years I was OK with them until the great recession in 2008 when I struggled in my career. Since I was a white male it should have been easy for me in their shallow minds. We grew apart as she got older anyway but the family certainly contributed to our divorce.

[@LegendNinja41]

sounds like a pain in the ass and totally understandable. Interesting last name though, i think i never saw one named with Darmstadt as last name (i assume), it's a city here in germany :D

[@richarddarmstadt2871]

@@LegendNinja41 yes racist Dominicans...the white guy has no excuse to struggle. Then when I got my hack license to drive a taxi in NYC her brother would not let me stay at the mothers apt in NYC so I couldn't work as a cabbie. Yes Darmstadt is a city in Germany. My moms side is German Aryan and my dads side is German Jew they fought in the wars. I had a relative who became General later who was a bomber pilot in WWII. He refused to do bombing missions over Darmstadt for fear of killing relatives.

[@LegendNinja41]

@@richarddarmstadt2871 it's a shame that stereotypes and racism has still such an grip on the minds of many /: that story with the relative becoming a bomber pilot in WW2.. damn that's interesting.

[@ginvesto8370]

@@LegendNinja41 biological races DO NOT exist and never have, history is based on a lie

[@stefanhouston8616]

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[@chrisr8610]

These were very valid and important questions for anyone considering to date a Colombiana. I'm not sure how many people think about these things before they decided they're going to date a different culture with a different language than their own. Good interview. Hope this helps give perspective to some people.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks! Hopefully so

[@ThatCarGuy1983]

The best women are your own women..

[@mr_free_soul4]

I'm following love ❤️ colombia my old love passion latino we latina soon colombia que me espera...

[@ajdavide2910]

Racist women

[@plutoplatters]

If the said "gringo" was good looking and "rich" EVERY one of them WOULD. Next question ?

[@Norg1]

yes the easy question is yes !!! even if he was semi good lookin and middle class

[@LucaBrasi0]

I think rich and good looking man get yes in every country.

[@NJColombiano777]

@@LucaBrasi0 Exactly! The women in the U. S./U.K./AUS or elsewhere would fit the same mold. Looks and money is the same everywhere!

[@7860092]

@@LucaBrasi0 yes but americans and europeans are automatically richer in columbia so its easier to be rich there as a white guy than it is to be rich in usa and europe.. and its the same with looks u automatically becomes more attractive in columbia than u are in usa/europe

[@hey5150]

Correcto

[@preacherman85379]

I’m American and I WAS married to a French speaking woman that spoke English very well. The use of slang was always an issue. Sarcasm can also cause problems. There will always be a communication issue.

[@nukumbafrazier2722]

Stop it lol. There is communication issues between men and women period

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Slang, jokes, and sarcasm are always the most difficult to understand, I agree

[@frederic6998]

french speaking but from what country ? Dont tell me Haïti, i'm french and i dont understand them.

[@PHlophe]

@@frederic6998 slang is spoken in france and by everyone to a varying degree but you assuming Ayiti's French is slang is racist misery

[@daniell5740]

You’re just a beta

[@randomrecipes5007]

I think 2 people learning each others language out of love is one of the most romantic things in the world... 5:35 Like if she met a guy who spoke as little spanish as her, and they kept trying to improve learning out of pure love for each other would be insanely romantic. in my opinion.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

that would be

[@rodriguezelfeliz4623]

I live in Colombia. My aunt traveled to Canada when she was young and she met a dutch man. They did not know each other's language, and they could barely communicate with a bit of english. They got married a couple of years later. In the wedding, my other aunt met the brother of the dutch guy, and they also got married later on. They live in Canada now.

[@omgjustsignmeup]

I just started dating a girl who speaks no English and I speak no Spanish. We're teaching each other and it's been a lot of fun.

[@mjb007bond]

That is what my girlfriend and I are doing. When is learning English for me and I am finally learning Spanish. I had always wanted to learn and then I met her here in the U.S. and I am planning to go there soon, and for a long time.

[@mourneris]

The issue for Gringos (speaking as a Cuban man) is that they need to first and foremost assume that any Latina in a developing country is probably, with a high degree of certainty, looking for a way to "move up" financially and help herself and her loved ones. The majority of Latinas, even ones with below average looks, know they have much to offer a foreign man (in the way of good food, good home making, good sex, and the like which a woman from their own culture can't provide). As a result, they leverage these benefits. A woman who is already financially stable within her country has ZERO need for a foreign man (as some people have mentioned in the comments here). Another issue is that Gringos tend to stereotype all Latinas into the same box. They may think that all Latinas are submissive or all Latinas are dominant. This is a bad generalization to make since you'll find either woman within a given population. Not all Latinas "have a strong will" or "have a raging fire inside them". Should you, as a Gringo, go looking for love or marriage in a developing country? No. You're more likely to get burned than you are to find that person you're looking for. Though you may just get lucky and find a good woman who will cherish you and be your partner for life, you're more likely to find a Maneater looking for money and a Green Card. A lot of these women know US and UK Family Law better than an American or British lawyer. As soon as they get what they need from you, they'll find a man of their culture or a similar culture where you live or they'll move somewhere in the country where they can find such a person. Do not take my comment as a push for you not to travel to Latin America and have a little fun, maybe even engage in a casual relationship with a Latina. Just be cautious and know what might be happening. Don't spoil her using your money and see how she treats you. If her interest wanes the less money you spend on her, then she's gold digging. Though this strategy is known by Gold Diggers so they'll feign interest just long enough to see the stream of $$$ start flowing. Bendiciones.

[@LegendNinja41]

this comment is literally gold. very underrated comment, everyone who has little to no knowledge about the outside world and Latin America should read this.

[@mourneris]

@@LegendNinja41 Thank you for the kind words. Just trying to help my gringo brothers not get shafted.

[@camels9654]

I really think if you are looking for love in a developing country you have to be honest with yourself as to why are you doing this? A good looking guy can easily get women at home. Whereas, an unattractive guy will have trouble. So are they looking to exploit the economic advantage of being from a developed country? If that is the case, and the woman doesn't have genuine burning desire for him, just wants $$$, the relationship will fail. Perhaps I'm naive, but if the woman genuinely desires a good looking guy, the relationship will last. Money becomes the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. Am I wrong to assume that if a woman is genuinely attracted to a good looking guy it is still doomed to fail? I have several friends who moved to Mexico for work, and got married and had kids and stayed in Mexico, very happy. It just seems to me that western losers are the ones who will get screwed.

[@ziadkhalaf198]

in other words they're Gold diggers

[@OzHunter]

@@ziadkhalaf198 well tbf gringos who go to dev countries are looks diggers, so fair game as far as I see it.

[@RebuildingScotland]

I have a Colombian wife and have spent 3 years there, so feel qualified to add some comment. I agree with everything these chicas say about foreign boyfriends. If you want to date a Colombian, you need to learn some Spanish because it makes everything so much easier. Also, cultural differences will cause arguements at times. Remember - these women are Latinas, with fire in their bellies, and sometimes that errupts with spectacular results. Sure, fireworks are loud, noisy and dangerous, but don't we just love them!

[@JohnDoe-vc7bw]

Nah. Any woman that yells at me gets the boot.

[@Bobbydigtail17]

@@JohnDoe-vc7bw and that’s why you’re single

[@JohnDoe-vc7bw]

@@Bobbydigtail17 I'm a lucky guy, don't you worry.

[@Gizziiusa]

@@JohnDoe-vc7bw for me, it depends. if I rightly deserved it...then yell away. but if its over some trivial BS, then yeah...boot it out.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

No not if it gets violent

[@mrtennessee1o1]

Man....this video was very eye OPENING....!! Good interview with the ladies regarding their foreign boyfriends and some awesome drone shots mixed in. Nice!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks! Do you have have a drone?

[@mrtennessee1o1]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL Yes Sir I sure do! Currently I'm using the DJI Mavic Air 2. It's totally awesome! I need to put some of my footage on my channel. I'm slacking. LoL

[@BeerBikes]

I'm learning more Spanish by watching your videos w/ the subtitles. enjoying the interviews and your spanish. Keep up the awesome videos.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I've gotten a few comments like this. I think it's a good way to learn Spanish. I'll keep making videos interviewing locals.

[@ioda006]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL yes please!

[@occif2023]

I had a Hispanic gf in college for 2 years. We lived together and my Spanish became very good. Her English improved a lot as well. She had lived in the US for 4 years before we got together. I also had a German and Turkish girlfriend as well. They both spoke English really well so there was no need to learn their language and we did not live together. I would say the biggest obstacles were the culture. The Turkish gal took full advantage of her new freedoms and the German was too reserved , not willing to try new things. I dont think she like living abroad. The Turk drank like a fish and didn't know how to drive but was down for anything that I liked to do. I met her in a bar and left her in a bar unfortunately. She had no off switch when drinking . She would drink until black out every time we went out. I was cool with it for a while but she got to be handful and I couldn't put up with it after a while. Her Turkish friends were not like that most of the time. They were way more reserved . I would probably have never met them if it wasn't for her. All is good now and I am still friends with all of them online.

[@timurtheking]

Absolute player

[@frederic6998]

germans are usually very boring people.

[@marqc9829]

Cool story bro!

[@LegendNinja41]

@@frederic6998 true, am german xd.

[@elettramia6380]

Hispanics are Spaniards. Not indigenous Americans and mestizo Americans who were colonized by Spain. HISPANIC AND LATIN MEAN COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS, HENCE WHY THEY ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WORDS! AMERICANS MOSTLY NORTH AMERICANS NEED TO LEARN ACTUAL LATIN HISTORY AND NEED TO LEARN AND RESPECT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE ACTUALLY HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CULTURA LATINA THE LATIN CULTURE. BEING LATIN IS ETHNICITY! AND US REAL ETHNICALLY LATIN PEOPLE ARE OF THE MEDITERRANEAN RACE! LATINS ARE THE MEDITERRANEAN DESCENDANTS OF ITALY! AND LATIN COUNTRIES ARE IN LATIN EUROPE! 🙄THE CULTURA LATINA, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATIN TRIBES, THE LATIN ETHNICITY AND THE LATIN LANGUAGE ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA WHOS ETHNICITY AND CULTURE COMES FROM THE TRUE LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. Latin europe was Latinized by ROME ITALY hence how Latina italy got the name Latina. & Hispanic (Hispania) is literally the Latin language MEANING SPAIN NOT the NATIVE AMERICANS they Colonized. Latin America got its name SOLELY and ONLY to mean the part of the Americas CONQUERED by LATIN EUROPE and that is all it will EVER MEAN. Latin ORIGIN, HISTORY& people are NON INTERCHANGEABLE. STOP THE CULTURAL THEFT OF MY PEOPLE& OUR ANCESTRY. BRAINWASHED AMERICAN/ MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL APPROPRIATION & CULTURAL THEFT FOR "PROFIT AND GAIN" WILL NEVER BE LATINO. CULTURAL APPROPRIATION EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATIN PEOPLE AND OUR HISTORICAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS! AND US TRUE LATINS ARE & HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR GENETIC CONTRIBUTORS FROM OUR MIDDLE EASTERN (ASIAN), NORTHERN AFRICAN, AND BALKAN GYPSIE DNA. THERE ARE NO "WHITE" LATINS. JUST MORE ASSIMILATION . SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICANS AND MEXICANS ARE NATIVE AMERICANS, MESTIZOS, CASTIZOS, PARDOS, ZAMBOS, AND PURE SUB SAHARAN AFRICANS. NOT LATINS, NOT LATIN BLOOD, THEREFORE NOT LATINO. IN SOUTH CENTRAL AMERICA AND MÉXICO THE ONLY PEOPLE CALLED LATINO AND HISPANIC ARE US SOUTHERN EUROPEANS OF LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN. OBVIOUSLY THE SAME IN LATIN EUROPE. PUSHING AND CONTRIBUTING TO BRAINWASHED NORTH AMERICAN MISAPPROPRIATION OF FOREIGN TERMS SUCH AS LATIN/LATINO AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR SOCIAL STATUS TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE CONTINUING CONTRIBUTIONS OF CULTURAL THEFT. THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE TERM LATINI, THE LATINI WHERE THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE TO EXIST FROM ITALY! LATINI IS PLURAL MEANING MORE THAN ONE LATINO! AND LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI MEANING ONE LATINO. THE SAME WITH LATINA AND LATINE. ALL TERMS CREATED BY THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY. PUSHING BRAINWASHED AMERICAN MOSTLY NORTH AMERICAN CULTURAL RAPE AS A FASHION TREND FOR “PROFIT & GAIN” NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR

[@centeguahan3760]

bro....PLEASE tell us you smashed one of them i wont tell nobody! & speaking of "helping the algorithm", thats how i stumbled in here unexpectedly ...well...your thumbnail matched perfectly with the title so yea...great stuff! LIKED & SUBBED!!!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks for the sub and like!

[@5ivestring]

I've been married to my Colombian wife for 13 years now, living in Turbaco near Cartagena. My spanish is so so, her English is so so. We are as happy as a couple can be. We got lucky meeting each other on line with AFA. My only regret is not having met her earlier, but it wasn't possible then. It's a whole new world for meeting people anywhere in the world now, and Colombia has the best to offer.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I'm glad to hear you're happy together!

[@amiwho3464]

Whats AFA? Thx

[@5ivestring]

@@amiwho3464 AFA is short for "A foreign Affair", a online dating company that does what they say, they get people together.. They offer excellent advise and are top notch, professional. I don't know how Covid has affected their business, but if you're interested, send them an email, or a phone call. Check them out on line.

[@amiwho3464]

@@5ivestring hey thx alot man. I will definitely check it out. Good luck to you!

[@amiwho3464]

@@markymark6928 He answered that above

[@BjornMoren]

I think intercultural relationships are hard to make work. You are so imprinted by the culture where you grew up. Even if you think it might be exciting to date someone from a different culture, in the end it usually results in a lot of friction. You often hear the local women complain about the shortcomings of men in Medellín. They are cheating dogs, they flirt too much, they don't take responsibility, etc. But the same women expect to be treated like princesses, they create drama around minor things, and they think it is natural to be possessive and jealous. So the local men and women are actually a good fit for each other. When they date an expat, they think they will get all the benefits without offering anything in return. Like they say in the video, they are glad to stop having to be jealous, but at the same time they miss the constant courting. Some local women say they are frustrated with the traditional gender roles, and welcome a "European" style relationship, where men and women see each other as equals. Until they experience it themselves, and realize they are more comfortable with man who is leading, assertive and dominating.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

That is true, the novelty and excitement for dating a foreigner does eventually wane and you're left with the inherent difficulties in the relationship.

[@compytv8636]

Based, feminism is a cancer

[@kippsguitar6539]

Right, it's just a question of social advancement or regression, most Latinas just want a gringo to raise her social/economic status or emigration

[@felrobelv]

Well that's why they like to date people from Spain, as they are more similar to them but still foreigners. I know, I am married to a Colombian woman.

[@rodrigoduran7481]

Could not have said it better! Totally agree!

[@veonnoel8887]

I am a US citizen and my wife lives in Brasil with our daughter She speaks English enough to communicate The problem we have most is the internet and telecommunications problems that Brasil has But hopefully the money will come to allow us to be together

[@santiagomurillo7551]

bro is getting cucked

[@ivy8483]

@@SiiNTi bruh how

[@SharkDaddy514]

@@ivy8483 lol

[@JohnR-vj7lk]

youre screwed bro

[@davegarmendia1717]

Enjoyed listening to the Colombian women’s opinion about dating foreigners . Currently I’m engaged to a Colombiana and am very happy

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Glad to hear it! Several of my friends are in good relationships with Colombians.

[@kippsguitar6539]

If you"take care of them" they are always happy

[@lidiagizaw3828]

look at what u look like smh

[@lazyperfectionist1]

5:06 "Would you have a foreign boyfriend?" "Yes." "What do you think would be the problems with having a foreign boyfriend?" "That many girls like them." 😳 "You don't think that it would be a cultural problem?" "No." "Do you speak English?" "No." "You don't think that it would be a problem that you don't speak English?" "No." "So would you have a boyfriend that doesn't speak Spanish?" "No, he would have to speak some Spanish." You see that, fellas? You learn Spanish and the _whole_ singles scene in Latin America opens up.

[@delvine13]

Unfortunately my brains no good with language🙄

[@lazyperfectionist1]

@@delvine13 I once had that attitude myself. It's very prevalent in the US. All too often, we tend to look at the act of learning a second language as an exercise in rote memorization which is a better way to teach oneself that the act of learning another language (whatever it is) is boring drudgery that we're _never_ going to get through. But the fact is, every language that has ever existed has been accepted on the basis of human beings as _tools_ users. Whatever the language, it's a big, intangible _tool_ kit. Whether we're talking about a principle of grammar or a term, it's a _tool._ The way you learn it is by spending time _using_ it, by which I mean building contexts around it with which _other_ terms and principles of grammar would not _work._ Also, consider, there are a _lot_ of things that count as _tools_ that we tend not to _think_ of that way. Pens are tools. Doorknobs are tools. Your hands are tools. These are each things that you can use quite well now, that you once struggled with. So what language do you most want to learn?

[@vommir.]

@@delvine13 I swear it's worth it.

[@exnihilo415]

This the single best sales pitch for learning a second language that I've ever heard.

[@Keboomrang]

There is a proverb in Quebec ... ''Qui prend femme, prend pays'' That's why you see Quebecers everywhere in the world mainly in South America and Caribbean . It's 99% because of the women. We move and learn everything about the country but the Quebec accent will always be there. The swear word is still in Quebecois but nobody knows it : )))) .

[@DrTomMD]

My wife is from Bogotá and this was very helpful!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

glad you thought so!

[@YoramAizenberg]

La comunicación es lo más importante en una relación. Cuando no entendía español y era inglés, fue maravilloso. Cuando empecé a entender un poco de español empezaron los problemas.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

sii, es muy importante. Hablo espanol pero es mucho mas facil tener una relacion con alguin que habla ingles

[@adana4670]

🤣🤣

[@Joe-pb3bm]

Aka: T.M.I. (too much information). Often, the less said, the better. Actions speak louder than words.

[@YoramAizenberg]

@@Joe-pb3bm אנחנו מכירים?

[@heidibedoya]

Lol 😆 😂

[@mandodeleon668]

Most Latin American women are looking for long term meaningful relationships with people. They see foreigners as always looking for quick hook up. Most seem curious to the difference in culture. My opinion.

[@JerseyDevil187]

Of course she wants a green card

[@orlandoalessandrini2505]

They just want $ and a come up.

[@bluegtturbo]

They want financial support above all else. Not saying she'd necessarily be unfaithful but her priority is food on the table. Your social status is far more important than how you look. You could look like Quasimodo's uglier twin and you'd still get laid. I know... I spent 9 months there just constantly doing day game

[@jimthomas856]

@@bluegtturbo 100% true

[@rdu239]

@@bluegtturbo its very hard, if the girl is a bread winner of her family it will be very hard for the couples to have a degree of distance from her family needed for the couple's growth

[@Ebub1]

wow i just found this channel and it's an instant subscribe for me. this is the exact type of video that helps with my own spanish. it feels very real. please continue to post more content!!!!!!!!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Awesome! I'm glad to hear it helps with your Spanish practice! Here's another interview in Spanish I just posted today. I have several more already recorded as well, just have to edit! kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmSoqHx3jrqKa5Y

[@StevenBertuglia]

My wife is Colombian and from Medellín. Been together almost 10 years. We have two kids. Couldn’t be happier.

[@3-methylindole730]

But you are Sicilian, so it’s not too big of a difference as if you were Norwegian or German.🤣

[@deboramaria3733]

@@3-methylindole730 hell, sicilian and italians worse than any south American women

[@zoniabernardo4474]

What's fun about you is that you are in lined to interact with anyone in the country. Your openness gets an equal response because we all love to be talked to and have fun trying to do extraordinary things....befriending anyone who is different from you externally and speaking a strange language. Trying provides moments of wonder and draws out the spontaneous best of us! Laughter is a blessing and easy in a simple atmosphere! Bless you and thank you heartfully.🎉😊🙏🏻🎶

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Hey Zonia! Thank you for watching! Yes, I think we should immerse ourselves in other cultures and interact with new people often! I think it helps change our perspectives in many ways

[@casilatino]

That was a nice informative video which confirms everything I have learned from traveling in colombia for several years. Those two young ladies were very mature and they have a good idea what they like and don’t like. It was nice hearing their opinions.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

yep!

[@justadjimmi6613]

I'm married to a Ecuadorian who had been living in Venezuela when we met 25 years ago. My closest friend is married to a Colombian for 23 years now. There are challenges but it has worked out well for both of us. The thing that sucks the most is that it has gotten too dangerous for us to visit the wives families and not everyone can make it here to visit on a regular basis. Both of us had planned on our kids getting to spend more time in Latin America when they were growing up but not a single one of them speaks Spanish as well as my friend and I do.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

It is a very unfortunate situation in Venezuela right now. Hopefully things begin to turn around for them.

[@HeLIEl]

@Guts She better be! You're her knight in shining armor. Keep her spoiled

[@MyWifesSon69]

Why don’t they speak Spanish? Does the mom not talk to them in Spanish? It seems like you didn’t allow her to. Your fault

[@jungi001]

Why didn't you raise your kids bilingual? What a missed chance!

[@justadjimmi6613]

@@MyWifesSon69 Where did you get the idea that I allow or don't allow my wife to do anything? Are you an angry leftist? I grew up only knowing words from my families native language and to this day cannot communicate in it except in basic ways. I would have learned my family language better but we only speak a dialect and it isn't really useful like Spanish is. My kids can speak Spanish but they live in an English speaking world and haven't dedicated themselves to Spanish like I did.

[@AJ_real]

I think it comes down to personality at the end of the day. Doesn't matter where the person is from. You can get past cultural differences if you've got basic respect for each other.

[@mojorider8067]

you hit the nail on the head. if two people want a relationship to work, they will find a way to make it work.

[@Fairykitcat]

Not all Latinas or Colombianas are the same though... I prefer to have a boyfriend that speaks English because I can't express my feelings in Spanish easily, even though it is my first language. I prefer old rock music and movies in English. I just want real love and someone that likes similar things~🤓

[@michaelwilliams409]

You sound like a lot of fun!

[@radrook2153]

That depends on the culture that you are supposed a member of. Island Puerto Rican women and Puerto Rican men, raised in the states, are not exactly of the same culture. I personally found women of Irish, or German descent, raised in the USA, far more culturally compatible. They were not as vindictive and were far less argumentative.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

Interesting

[@stephenmontgomery5807]

I was lucky with the girl I met years ago. We are getting married in January. Good family , down to earth people. Not everyone is like some of these gals

[@lovetravelshan9109]

Todo es posible! Mi esposa es Dominica yo soy americano pero yo aprende sus idioma porque es necesario pero nuestro relación es bueno comunicación es importante! Yo no cambio mi esposa o mi vida por nadaaaaa mi encanta dos gente puedes construir un real relación con diferente culturas amor es amor 👸🏾🤴🏾

[@tommyny2920]

What keeps you so sure though I mean girls be divorcing like crazy I mean you don’t think she gon leave you when see meets another rich Dominican cat like a rapper I mean you can’t even be sure it’s a risk just like every other marriage

[@iTrashpandaofficial]

I'm from Australia & found it hard to communicate with couple girls from Colombia cause of the 16 hour time difference. Like when I'm about to sleep they are waking up & vice versa. The only time I did talk was for 30mins before I go work or sleep

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

yeah, the time difference is of course an issue

[@johnwilbanks6665]

Ummm.. you cant date a girl online. Go meet girls...

[@user-sh2mk8ew4c]

Good. The Asian countries should be your focus. Forget about South America.

[@gu3sswh075]

@@johnwilbanks6665 he lives in the other side of the world. He doesn’t have many options

[@londoncali6437]

Xiomara's English is fantastic and she seems very confident in herself. My Spanish is pretty good.too

[@greyfreeman5537]

Wow! Awesome listening practice!! Thank you so much! I'm a cook in the USA tryna learn spanish. Muchas gracias perro

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

That's what I was thinking after reading a few similar comments. I'm making other videos like this to help subscribers with their Spanish.

[@greyfreeman5537]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL one thing that helped me learn Japanese was reading official JP captions on videos. And if they had translations, it was perfect. Of course, I started out with translations though

[@victorgonzalez5639]

Colombian women are beautiful

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Sí!

[@scottgeen3062]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL pretty girls from Scott nueva zealanda

[@kippsguitar6539]

Not when I was there

[@christopherhouse7937]

Even if they take half your lifetime earnings!? 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@salimsopari]

thanks for taking the time to make this video

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

No problem! Thanks for watching!

[@Ralphie_Boy]

*As an expat from the U.S. living now 15 years in Colombia, putting aside these three excellent interviews, never forget that when you marry a Colombian woman as I have, you feel much more financially responsible for her immediate family in some cases...*

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

This is something to take into consideration. I haven't personally been in that situation, , but I can imagine what it would be like if someone in the family needed something but didn't have the money for it. There would be pressure on you to help out, especially if it's a medical issue.

[@gentilewarrior]

You marry a Latina you marry her family-friends homie, facts. If you're the type of guy that wants distance or be left alone (majority of most American white guys)with you and just your wife don't marry a Latina. In any case she wouldn't introduce you to her family if she doesn't love you or have any future with you and treat you only as a 💲 facts.

[@toomflussiggrillanzunderfu8828]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL Isnt it the same in the USA? We hear in Europe always that their healthcare system is very bad, people go bankrupt due to a medical issue and that there are these fundraisings for medical events.

[@904_glizzy9]

@@toomflussiggrillanzunderfu8828 no because in america kids leave their familys behind and get married. theres not strong family values

[@HaitiansdoitBest]

Awesome little video. Great insight. And your Spanish is really good. Thanks

[@ajw_3153]

If I could earn my money (in USD) online, I would hop around Latin America. Fell in love with the culture, the girls, the landscapes, nature, and food when i went to Ecuador 🇪🇨 when you grow up in America you think that you’re doing something wrong because you can’t find a girlfriend but it’s actually not your fault, it’s just your location. You will find you jibe A LOT better with a Latina. It’s incredible some of the girls I met in Ecuador & Guatemala.. hardest thing in my life was to leave them to return home.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Why did you return home?

[@ajw_3153]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL because i dont have a remote job

[@ariaslamb7789]

Do most Latin American women worship money and foreigners like this?

[@zhangyuandyou]

Great video! I've always wanted to visit Colombia. Such a beautiful country and a lot of beautiful girls. Keep up the good work!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks! Hopefully you get the chance to visit!

[@kippsguitar6539]

Not when I went there

[@BearInThePhillipines]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL is there age gap relationship common in columbia like phillipines?

[@markholland6657]

great video dude... you just opened up a whole new world.. I never considered visiting South America let alone living there.. its way more friendly than been lead to believe...

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks man! South America has a lot to offer

[@TonyAielloRTW]

Who has led you to believe otherwise?

[@markholland6657]

@@TonyAielloRTW I guess news, media, movies over the yrs, here in UK anyway, has always kinda implied that South America isn't very safe... guess ya never know till ya go though.

[@markoraimius4339]

Its safer than it used to be but my friend in Medillin said two Americans were. Just killed. Be careful do your homework

[@Mr_Fairdale]

I don't put much faith into what women say but I did like hearing them speak. I took Spanish in High School but I'm in my 30's now and have mostly forgotten what I learned lol. So trying to re-learn it now. The speed they're speaking doesn't scare me much. I think I can pick up okay.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I learned a lot of Spanish from watching youtube videos

[@heavymetalroadtrip6665]

“I don’t put much faith into what women say”. You, sir, are enlightened.

[@joeblack3878]

’ve been married to a first generation Kurdish/Turkish woman for 16 years now. She’s an interesting mix because she’s American, but her family instilled a lot of their culture in her. She’s a great mother, a great housewife, trustworthy, loyal. We’re different people for sure, but we’re always on the same page about parental responsibilities and husband and wife “duties.”

[@totoro1972]

It is interesting that they describe their words as harsh from the perspective of their boyfriends. The majority of my partners have been Spanish. It is hard to explain, but personality wise, it has always been the best match for me. I have never seen Spanish women as harsh or angry. Quite the opposite. I greatly appreciate someone that expresses themselves openly and honestly. And the few times I dated women of the same race, it always went quite horribly.

[@Gibberish1983]

I’m a Colombian male who has been living in the Netherlands for many years (so I also have the Dutch nationality) and have dated women from many many many countries. I prefer women from Eastern Europe and the Baltic states to Colombian women. I find them more independent when it comes to relationships. My girlfriend is Dutch though and she’s perfect for me (we have been together for almost 6 years) and she understands and accept my silly Colombian/Latin flaws (like being late, etc)

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

😂 ohhh Colombian time... Colombians will literally tell you they are "almost there" when they haven't even left their house yet, haha... I've caught them doing this more than once

[@ozo4494]

hello , I always been atract by colombian women , and curently dating eastern europe girl ... lol

[@thetruth3325]

If you work on yourself, fitness, career, mind and health, become fluent in Spanish, they would never think twice about leaving you. If a guy can't speak the language, it's a huge barrier that prevents them from being comfortable to go out with you in first place, staying romantically connected. I'm from Canada, now in Costa... Started learning Spanish hardcore back in Canada... One of the best decisions I've ever made .. it's YOU who will start to do the choosing..

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I agree; improving on all of these things are extremely important

[@AbsolutePwnage]

I'll leave my opinion before watching the totality of the video. My opinion: many will like that foreign boyfriends won't have the machista chauvinistic attitude that's common in Latin America. Not just that, but there's more possible economic upside if the relationship goes well. I'm not saying they are gold diggers (although some are), but everywhere ladies want guys that can protect and provide. It's easier for gringos to get girlfriends there than in their home countries.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I see what you’re saying. People look for stability in a relationship. Knowing their husband/boyfriend would have a stable career and be able to provide a comfortable life is appealing.

[@josephcastillo1104]

@@respectdatruth7160 n0

[@tmajec]

@@respectdatruth7160 That’s an easy question to answer.

[@jordananthony5882]

@@josephcastillo1104 must be a American Latino?

[@ezscootrr]

My country, the Philippines, is actually normalizing the women marrying the so called AFAM. I'm ok with it.

[@saulalexis1814]

Great interview broke it down for us we’ll definitely going learn Spanish.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks for watching!

[@danjsilve]

Am from England, currently in Paraguay, and will be arriving in Bogota this Saturday before going to Medellin. I can't wait.

[@Gentlemen_london_]

Wow what lovely women. They came across really well. 🙏👍

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I agree!

[@spiegel3269]

It doesn't matter where they're from. The women are always going to come with a problem or problems. And if here are none they'll create them. If there's no drama for them to complain to their friends about they get bored and take the guy for granted.

[@lubricatedgoat]

Nailed it, brother!

[@jordananthony5882]

Very true but it's level to it. American women are overly entitled

[@altsam9]

Yeah I don't understand why women all over the world make such a big deal when I cheat on them.

[@richmorg1243]

A Colobiana yes is very beautiful. But careful. I married one Brought her to the USA After 2 years and her permanent resident card arrived. Her love for me stopped and within a month she wanted to divorce. I know this could happen to anyone who marries a beautiful girl from any country . But be careful and beware . May God bless you with a right one!😁

[@markoraimius4339]

Sorry to hear . Best wishes

[@Maremare680]

Did it surprise you ?

[@horacecomegna335]

In the US military we say these women want to come to the land of the BIG PX! 🤣🤣🤣

[@lamabryant9758]

This video is a hit! Which means you have to do a part 2 with more Columbian women.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Hahah.. I eventually did

[@lamabryant9758]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL thank you

[@jfdewoluwe]

Been to Colombia and I absolutely loved the country and the people there...

[@fredcollins8919]

Colombians, Peruvians, Ecuadoreans, Bolivians, Argentines, Uruguayans & Brazilians in general love western men, esp US, UK French Dutch & Germans & Canadians. Those countries esp those in Carobbean region are very friendly & super fun to be around in more ways than one.

[@pancakes6119]

💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵

[@Tgogators]

It's the romanticism of white men, many of them (not all of course) dream of it dating one. I do argue that in comparison to Asian & Indian women, Latinas are more much more likely to marry outside their race.

[@gafinney05]

I always tell my friends that the ladies aren’t trying to run to the US! Great interview

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Right! A common misconception. Most people love their countries down here and want to stay with their families and friends. The people who want to come into the US usually have to leave their homes because of very difficult situations.

[@Nyufly]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL good to know.

[@NotiFawkes]

Times have changed for the better !!

[@longbeach225]

Facts. My Filipina I'm she visited America and when I brought her to San Francisco she saw all the drugs, feces and mentally ill people she was like I want to remain at home. America is not perfect as many Americans try to portray. I got people first judging her that she only want a green card. Now that we live the Philippines people say I'm surpressing her rights. Lol. Feminists are nuts.

[@Maharodgi]

The better question is whether a gringo would date you. Pretty doesn’t cut it. You have to bring something else with it to the table like a genuinely sweet personality, your own money, a great sense of humor and humility just to get in the door.

[@kenvandeburgt1232]

I like listening to the interviews in Spanish. It confirms that I am making progress in the learning.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

It’s a great way to learn! And all three of these girls speak well and weren’t using slang because they knew they were talking to a foreigner.

[@Tom242-b9s]

people from the Netherlands are also very direct and straight to the point I think that's a beautiful thing

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

are you Dutch?

[@willsparks1806]

Awwwww, k bueno verte chicos! Mi respuesta, specificamente sobre el comentario de hablar fuerte y directo, es k en mis experiencias, las colombianas no aguantan críticas. Se provoca dramas y inseguridades. En realidad no las gustan escuchar la verdad en un tono directo. Y, px somos conversando en español, nuestros idioma segunda, es muy común k si usaría unas palabras imperfectas se puede provocar una reacción muy dramática. Damas, Te pido mis disculpas, jaja. Esta difícil comunicarme perfectamente bien como alguien nativo😉. Abrazote fuerte chicos.

[@kippsguitar6539]

Yes they are insecure and aggressive

[@user-sh2mk8ew4c]

Si. Exactamente!!!

[@anamarcelaestradaberrio9984]

Will… saludos, un abrazo 🤗

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

hola parce!

[@BoydJones]

Really great video production value! What cameras and equipment do you use?

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks! iphone 11 for the interviews, DJI Mavic Pro 2 Drone for those drone shots

[@jimmypittsburgh2914]

I lived in Panama for a year. The women were beautiful. I had alot of fun with the ladies.

[@texasrebel7754]

I'll be visiting Panama next November. Might even live there someday. Looking forward to it!

[@ariaslamb7789]

Do most of them love the white man and money, as the comments say?

[@SteveAaroe]

Superb interview, excellent content !! Beautiful lady's!!

[@alexanderchenf1]

I got lucky yesterday morning. My not understanding Spanish and her lack of sophistication in English definitely contributed in me getting lucky.

[@Champwsox05]

Lucky! I haven't met too many Colombian chicks in the United States.

[@P1mpMyBr1de]

I'm from England and recently went on holiday to Cartagena. There were a group of Colombian women in their 40's all wearing bikinis on a tour boat i was on. I had a rock hard 🐓 for the whole tour

[@dangercat9188]

Tmi

[@stevebiggavel2720]

😂😂😂😂wowwwwww

[@FellDownTheCornHole]

Touch grass

[@Champwsox05]

Did you stand up?

[@ariaslamb7789]

Do most of them love the white man and money, as the comments say? Were those Colombian women all into you?

[@tinnytintin77]

Very interesting. Well thought out and honest responses. 👍👍

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I agree! I thought they gave great responses

[@twicon87]

Im swedish/greek and my wife is nicaraguan. It works 1000x better then it ever worked with swedish girls. Growing up i took the scandinavian behaviour of being modest and have my ego in check and the family/hospitality values from greece. I feel like that is very compatible with how educated latinos are.(by educated i dont necessarily mean academicaly)

[@pablogats4627]

Dude I'm Greek and live in the UK I can relate, English girls just don't get me lol, it never works out or my family doesn't like them. I'm seriously thinking about going back to Greece but maybe I give Latin America a try first

[@xmoreno3366]

I'm latina from Panamá and My boyfriend is Greek too he is my favorite

[@Jessica-rj9ur]

I don’t usually comment but just had to jump in. I’m from the US but I live in Colombia with my boyfriend. We speak only Spanish together (he doesn’t speak English) and while it’s definitely challenging, I think intercultural relationships can wind up being some of the most rich and rewarding. You really get to know your partner in a deep way and the two of you are constantly learning together. I have a much deeper connection with him than I’ve had with American partners and our bond is a lot stronger because we have to work through unique challenges.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Hi, Jessica! I'm happy to hear you've been able to have a positive experience dating someone from Colombia! Personally, I need to improve my Spanish a bit more, otherwise I'm not able to say certain things exactly as I would want to say them, which is a problem in a relationship. It's definitely doable as long as you speak the language well enough.

[@Jessica-rj9ur]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL Wow thanks for responding! Yes, I totally agree, the language barrier can be frustrating. Sometimes we struggle, but we make use of Google Translate when need be and we do our best. :)

[@Jessica-rj9ur]

@@travelescapesOFFICIAL I toooootally get that. I've learned so much Spanish here already but in the beginning, especially it could get tough. We use a lot of synonyms, talk around words, and long discussions haha.

[@TheTerryMarsh1]

Congrats @Jessica !

[@randalljames730]

What percentage of columbians in big cities speak english?

[@Sannypowa]

I stopped giving women a choice to do whatever they want with my life. Men are kings, guys.

[@robertwoods3873]

Ludicrous. Throughout history women have had men wrapped around their fingers, from kings to janitors and everything in between.

[@Sannypowa]

@@robertwoods3873 And they are still trying to do so. But not with me

[@ashl9835]

Good video sir, you got a subscriber. I love latin women, plan on moving to Medellin soon. And yes I speak Spanish fluently.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Nice! Thanks for the support! You'll love Medellin! Unfortunately my visa is about to expire, so I'll be leaving for a few months, but I've got more than enough footage to keep making videos on Colombia even while I'm gone. I plan on returning in January.

[@bluegtturbo]

Me too... Returning in January. I've got tons of contacts if you'd like to hang out and shoot the breeze

[@shah9394]

I know 3 guys , very well to do over 50 who are pulling in over $200k, who gave up on dating in the US and found amazing women in Colombia

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Definitely.. I've been out of the US for seven years, no plans to go back

[@Noah-rc3ip]

I want to do this man. Did you have to save a lot first?

[@paki6277]

Yes but most times its not genuine love. He probably wouldnt have the same girlfriend if he had a average salary

[@shah9394]

@@Noah-rc3ip to move down or pull one out? To marry a woman in Colombia and to bring here here is absolutely possible. But it's $10k in legal work. But also know she's not going to be able to work in the field she studied for in Colombia. Seen women with masters degrees in Colombia working tables in the US. So you will have to provide her a car and cover her expenses and put aside money into the prenuptial account, $10k a year for 10 years. Long story short yes it can be done. Yes these women are awesome and amazing and honest and beautiful. But you should 1. Have little to no debt and 2. Be liquid

[@martymar74]

@@Noah-rc3ip I wouldn't marry a foreign chick. You will be too much at risk financially

[@laura53ize]

I’m going to be honest I’m Colombian and I married and American because he offered more financial stability. At the beginning was hard because I came to live to USA with him the cultural thing was crazy and the communication was terrible now we are doing better .

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

thanks for sharing your personal experience! Your English seems to be great now!

[@Maremare680]

Cuánto tiempo hace que estás acá? Piensas regresarte a Colombia algún día?

[@adebolabloke6962]

Pesetera

[@ariaslamb7789]

Just for the money!!! I feel sad for Latin American men

[@Genotopia]

Great video. Looking forward to moving out there for good soon. Just trying to decide on my final destination!

[@lorenzolongo4376]

I dated a Colombian girl from Monteria, and she was totally fine being with me, but her whole family was against me, even tho I didn’t do anything to disappoint or disrespect them, turns out they wanted a Colombian man for her since they thought Italy was dangerous (I’m from Italy). Such hypocritical people..

[@PHlophe]

Lorenzo, ( your last name sound african) its not unusual for fam to not want a gringo ( any at all ). my dad is white and my mother black. my white family disowned me . Its not my fault that they don't like my genetic material. it really hurts when you want some people to love you and you can feel racial animosity, i'd be having those random dreams of me having sunday roast with them lol! , you know pass the gravy and bread type of thing .Not going to lie, white people are very methodic and calculated with racism. I started school knowing good and well that its because i look mostly white this is the reason why i am escaping hostility..and me looking the way i do made it easier for my dad to not have to confront racism that would have come my way. so he had the time to mature and understand what racism truly is , by the time my brother was born 9 years later with a slightly different skin color. he was ready .

[@ElyPowell]

You are generalizing all white people and that is rayyycisdd

[@sonnelandino7697]

I'm sorry but you failed to ask more women, didn't even dare to ask real questions about their motives, how/where they meet foreigners, or future expectations with these men. And so much more...

[@carolinaruiz9337]

wowwww muy interesante , sobre todo por el tema cultura, creo que es importante que ambos hagan el esfuerzo máximo de hablar el idioma del otro, con esto, las distancias se acortan y los mal entendidos disminuyen... super interesante parejas de distintas culturas .. estupendo !!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

siiii

[@paulpiasano9251]

I know this video is a couple of years old now, but I find Marcela so attractive. I wish my Spanish was much better, but it doesn't appear she speaks English. Interesting interviews.

[@sterlingforbes3872]

these ladies are so much better than most of the american girls nowadays

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

jaja si

[@dewjr]

They love gringos plain and simple . If you are in Colombia then you are the exotic one .

[@ariaslamb7789]

Or do you mean that they like white, blonde, and rich people?

[@mikeabob]

I love the drone footage, did you have any problems flying drones over some of these places? I think Jardin, areas around guatape, looks like some other small towns as well!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks! Yeah, I tried to fly the drone around the rock at Guatape, and they immediately stopped me because there is a helicopter landing pad nearby. You'll see old drone footage of the rock on youtube, but you can't do it anymore. For Jardin, I didn't take off or land near any people. I took off outside of town, kept the drone super high as I flew near the church, then brought it back to land quickly. The other colonial town is Santa Fe de Antioquia, and I did the same as I did in Jardin; I never take off or land near people. If it's high enough they'll never even notice it.

[@tommytremble3910]

Good footage. I agree with everything they’re saying except the part about us being more sensitive. It’s literally the opposite with all the Colombian women I’ve dated. They get easily offended and see all my honest thoughts as “grosero” (rude). I also don’t know the language well enough to soften the blow of less pleasant ideas but they’re way more sensitive than us lol. Guess they’re dating more gentle foreigners

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks for the response! Yeah, that's true; it's not possible to put all foreigners into one box, but I did think their answers were very honest from their personal experiences and opinions.

[@YoramAizenberg]

from my experience you are right.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

@@LouieManza absolutely. This is one of the reasons why I don't live in the US; I don't want the drama and politics.

[@ssach7]

They are comparing foreign men with latin men, not latin women

[@compilationrex124]

@@kem1233 my thoughts exactly

[@EastsideLegend1]

Awesome interview!!!! Beautiful women also!!

[@YRNUT]

Great Video! Something different and very informative. Thanks.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thank you!

[@deboramaria3733]

Tbh most of us wouldn't date outside of our culture. They just say that because you are filming them, or because no latino want them. (I'm latina)

[@lidiagizaw3828]

no they just dont wanna be rude to this man's face

[@ariaslamb7789]

Some videos and even comments here show that many Latin American women love white and blond men very much She is very interested in money and traveling abroad Is this real? Is this common or are they just a few?

[@OfficiallyOrca]

Very informative Thank you for your work!!!

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

sure thing!

[@gimmijovinelli1021]

Marcela: tu sei la migliore.! U are the best !

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

She may see your message. I think she checks in on the video.

[@octaviano1296]

6:27 Wow. I like the little islands.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Guatape!

[@nomaddestinations5127]

very interesting ! thanks ! soon i am flying to Medellin !

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Great city for a vacation!

[@gearjamin6839]

I like the video. It's very upfront and shows the Colombian women speaking the opinions about dating forginers. I love Medellín and Colombian women... I've been visiting Medellín Colombia off and on since 2017 and am addicted to Colombian women, but haven't been back since covid started. What's it like in Medellín now and what should I expect now when I decide to return their again? Thanks 👍

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Thanks! Everything feels normal in Medellin right now. There is a mask mandate unless you're eating or drinking. I actually just made this short video yesterday showing you what bars are like right now. They're packed. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnyofWqGa6mYbLc

[@footieloose5109]

Go to Habanos cafe Panama city bro its full of Colombian baddies at $150-$200 a pop.

[@modisarakar5391]

In my class I have one girl from Colombia she is really cute.she don't need make up for look good.she is my Best friend

[@17Watman]

Lucky

[@boxinchito]

Oh! You're in the friend zone nigga! Lmfao!!!

[@ObiJuanChez]

@@boxinchito 😂🤣😂🤣

[@Izakokomarixyz]

best friend? ouch,

[@lubricatedgoat]

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe when she's 40 she'll come to you, as long as you have money.

[@tma78]

colombia looks really pretty, one day i will make it to south america for travels. still got a bit to finish up in europe first.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

It is beautiful!

[@INDIGENOUS_Tiktok__yeha_noha]

Im a native from colombia,and you are welcome to my beautiful country my friend. Do you see my picture thats me😉have a nice day,send you blessings🦅👋

[@Bryanctree]

This doesn’t surprise me at all. As someone who wants to move to Guatemala someday. They are similar. They love the foreigners but still want to live in their country.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

I think many do want to stay in their country

[@ne1sail]

Very interesting and informative. Thank you.

[@travelescapesOFFICIAL]

Glad you liked it!