What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Stronger-Christine

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Soft White Underbelly

Soft White Underbelly

Күн бұрын

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@joeadams-iv9yb
@joeadams-iv9yb Жыл бұрын
I found that what doesn't kill you can still screw you up pretty bad.
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 Жыл бұрын
Unless you can turn it around like Christine did.
@mykiea5156
@mykiea5156 Жыл бұрын
Truth
@tanyabarboza4759
@tanyabarboza4759 Жыл бұрын
Word!
@irenelakhan5331
@irenelakhan5331 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@lavernebell6274
@lavernebell6274 Жыл бұрын
That’s why I’m so sick of that saying. Even though it hasn’t killed me Im fucked up
@JulieD-t5x
@JulieD-t5x 11 ай бұрын
Christine, I have been on a healing journey for 71 years...thought I was healed, then something happens, one stumbles and you lose your confidence...i was thinking about giving up today & ending my life once and for all, believing it to be my fault...some how your story reached me & gave me the confidence to get up off of the floor & keep on keeping on....bless you...bless you...bless you! You are one amazing person, and i think that i might be too!
@selfesteem3447
@selfesteem3447 6 ай бұрын
Prayers ! Keep on keeping on🤍
@lilmamalove1623
@lilmamalove1623 6 ай бұрын
Don’t give up before the miracle happens!
@JeffMTX
@JeffMTX 5 ай бұрын
We have to stick it out. I’m in the same hole. This is our only mortal life. We might as well see it through and keep trying. God will take us when it’s time.
@margaretwebb389
@margaretwebb389 5 ай бұрын
Theses comments are very uplifting and inspiring!! We are not alone in our struggles! We are here for some reason/purpose. Blessings everyone
@traceyleeherrera5247
@traceyleeherrera5247 5 ай бұрын
wishing you hope, wellness and healing ❤️
@lanctermann7261
@lanctermann7261 Жыл бұрын
Her story was quite relatable. She is a survivor, and a very intelligent one. I love her facial expression. In her there was no trace of self-pity. I see great wisdom in her eyes. She ought to have a portrait painted of herself.
@holly0297
@holly0297 Жыл бұрын
Christine's so beautiful inside and out. I know that's said a lot, but in her case it's not hyperbole! My mom was like her - and I was the luckiest daughter who ever lived until I lost her. I should have my mother painted! 🥰
@christinemcbride9527
@christinemcbride9527 11 ай бұрын
@@holly0297 what a beautiful way to honor your mom and keep her presence with you always. Paint away! ❤️
@DS-mh5hb
@DS-mh5hb 4 ай бұрын
I like thriver even better , but yep, she's a good one ❤️
@olgabalakshina1410
@olgabalakshina1410 7 ай бұрын
Another amazing human being. It was an honour and pleasure to hear your story^ Christine!
@xavierflorence9050
@xavierflorence9050 Жыл бұрын
As a mental health counsellor and a man with a huge empathetic heart. This is without question. The greatest channel of any form of medium. I recommend it to every allied health professional to view. It will certainly teach you far more than any other text or source will ever do. To Mark Laita. You are an absolute saint and genius. Bless you man ❤️🙏
@luvyatubers
@luvyatubers 4 ай бұрын
This is what I've always wanted. Growing up only celebrities and heroes of the day got to tell their stories
@nerida1487
@nerida1487 Ай бұрын
Absolutely! Thank you Mark. I'm an avid viewer from Sydney Australia. Love your work!!
@kimhutchinson2759
@kimhutchinson2759 15 күн бұрын
Advanced psych nurse here & I concur. Just what everyone needs. Ears that hear.
@3ZN357
@3ZN357 Жыл бұрын
Her compassion and well spoken kindness was right on time. Her objectivity in retrospection ironically makes me feel so choked up right now. Thank you, Mark. Needed this one today.
@carynmartin6053
@carynmartin6053 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@christinaslate1865
@christinaslate1865 Жыл бұрын
Same also
@routinemsp2705
@routinemsp2705 Жыл бұрын
Same
@soulessvalleys8404
@soulessvalleys8404 Жыл бұрын
💯
@nikkidotts3687
@nikkidotts3687 Жыл бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY AGREE
@GoyedOUT
@GoyedOUT Жыл бұрын
I’m a 70 year old man .And found her story incredibly inspirational …Physical pain is a constant at this point of my life.( Chronic back pain )….maybe I can apply some of her suggestions to raise above these challenges.Thanks Mark for having her on today!!
@TopSecretInformations
@TopSecretInformations Жыл бұрын
Best to you, Stay inspired!
@sherryd.3425
@sherryd.3425 Жыл бұрын
Love to you! Chronic pain can make us weary and bitter. However, it can also make us kind and loving. Children come into the world and experience the pain that we, as adults, believe is so debilitating. We are just gosh darn wimpy....but if asked, I'll swear to God you are in the worst pain that I have ever seen. I will declare to it, stand by it, and challenge anyone who believes you should endure. I just can't understand why a 70-year-old man doesn't qualify for high-grade, government-paid for pain medicine. I have worked for 40 years so that you can have legitimate comfort. Love to Mark, but I really want you to be okay too.
@powderandpaint14
@powderandpaint14 Жыл бұрын
You may want to read "when the body says no" by Gabor Mate, and "The body keeps the score".
@froggy9191
@froggy9191 Жыл бұрын
Ditto with the chronic back pain. How you can find some relief from it soon 💐
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 Жыл бұрын
You may want to look into certain supplements like Magnesium, Boron, Tumeric and Bentofamine. Our foods are totally depleted of the minerals necessary for good health, so supplements is the way to go.
@joannemates6367
@joannemates6367 Жыл бұрын
I’ll be 50 in December and I have lots of similar stories and experiences. Minus the alcohol and marriages. I am also the product of severe childhood and generational trauma. I have spent the last 5 years working with a brilliant psychologist and have been on a healing journey too. It’s a work in progress. It’s not finite. I picked her as an artist before she even mentioned that. What a beautiful woman, she has obviously done lots of difficult soul searching and has been through so much. “Courage is being afraid and still doing the hard thing.” I wish her so much love, strength, healing and peace. Cheers, from Country Victoria. Australia 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
@sherryd.3425
@sherryd.3425 Жыл бұрын
Love to you also, Joanne. I'm 60 years old. Same effort, same story, same outcome, I hope.
@amandacurry3050
@amandacurry3050 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful, well spoken woman Christine is. Thank you for sharing you experience, strength and hope ❤
@wendymarie7151
@wendymarie7151 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't have said it any better. ❤😊
@maddieaper719
@maddieaper719 Жыл бұрын
Thank you again Mark. I am a healing arts practitioner and I have been hoping for you to interview those who have healed themselves. Beautiful
@francinegeddis7947
@francinegeddis7947 Жыл бұрын
This talk with Christine was a much needed gift in so many ways.
@wendyh3297
@wendyh3297 Жыл бұрын
The joy radiating off her is so palpable. I am so so grateful (for lack of a better word) that she not only found her own way out but is now teaching it to others. Her passion for leading the teenagers she is working with (you can see on her face how she lights up talking about them) out of the darkness and into light is going to save a lot of kids.
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 Жыл бұрын
Yes, this is what redemption looks like.
@cleansetsandbaguettes5236
@cleansetsandbaguettes5236 Жыл бұрын
I cannot explain how much I needed to see and hear this interview today. The timing is incredible, and I dont think it.s a coincidence. Thank you again Mark, and thank you Christine for enlightening me and giving me hope through your words. So incredibly inspiring. Thank you, thank you. Thank you, Mark for sharing thissory.
@moonchipper3087
@moonchipper3087 Жыл бұрын
Ditto!
@amandabiz
@amandabiz Жыл бұрын
I was just about to write this. This was beyond amazing and important to me right now
@LindaMcification
@LindaMcification Жыл бұрын
You're in sync with everything and so am I....
@micheleherrera8070
@micheleherrera8070 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@adarr23
@adarr23 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't take my eyes off of your interview Christine. You are beautiful and wise and have a fascinating take on life. Your words and story came along when I needed them most. For this I thank you.
@katiecrull77
@katiecrull77 Жыл бұрын
I'm sure I'm not the only one who identified personally with this story. Very enlightening. Her photo was brilliant! You can see the strength and confidence in her eyes. Thank you both!
@AnaFernandez-jp5uh
@AnaFernandez-jp5uh Жыл бұрын
Me too.
@cynthiakluth7748
@cynthiakluth7748 Жыл бұрын
Ditto for me ladies..
@Lilcrisy
@Lilcrisy Жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE HER!!! I can relate to her on so many levels. What a beautiful woman! God bless 🙏🏼✨
@JulieM-ff9dq
@JulieM-ff9dq Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I can relate to much of her story, minus the alcohol problem that her father had (or any substances). I am close to her age (probably older) and people didn't seek help like they do now, nor did they know as much about mental health. So now there's a lot of traumatized people and we're passing our trauma on to our kids. In my parents' case, they did the best they knew how and so did I. I just wish I knew then what I knew now.
@lisaaxe9062
@lisaaxe9062 Жыл бұрын
Yes, her story is so relatable. I’ve been thru generational trauma and also my own. I’ve never had therapy, but am not against it. At 60, I just don’t know if it’s worthwhile to “ unpack” it all, at this time in my life. I’m always saying to myself, “what’s the point.”
@christinemcbride9527
@christinemcbride9527 11 ай бұрын
@@lisaaxe9062 no matter your age, it’s Always worth the effort ❤
@alimcally279
@alimcally279 Жыл бұрын
She was so inspiring! I had to share it with my 50 yr old daughter who's going thru the same thing. Thank you!
@col.cottonhill6655
@col.cottonhill6655 Жыл бұрын
Wow your daughter is 50? You must be up there in age. I didn't know there were fans of this channel your age.
@JulieM-ff9dq
@JulieM-ff9dq Жыл бұрын
​@@col.cottonhill6655 ?
@playingwithkash2134
@playingwithkash2134 Жыл бұрын
Not that it matters , but how old are you ?
@eatwithcandy7147
@eatwithcandy7147 Жыл бұрын
@@col.cottonhill6655 wtf 🤡💀
@damienholland8103
@damienholland8103 Жыл бұрын
@@col.cottonhill6655 you gotta be trolling.
@kimmandley9356
@kimmandley9356 Жыл бұрын
She is me. I also have the Power of Now book somewhere...sadly my education doesn't translate into a career, but, I just have to work with that. I am 56 years old & have truly been feeling useless. She is so inspiring & I needed to see this today. Thank you.
@derrick8224
@derrick8224 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@kimmandley9356
@kimmandley9356 Жыл бұрын
@@derrick8224 thank you❤️
@sandraumney5516
@sandraumney5516 Жыл бұрын
also, me. thank you, too.
@paularobinson5031
@paularobinson5031 Жыл бұрын
Sending you lots of love from melbourne Australia Kim - you are valued and ur worth is beyond any gifts you feel you lack 💞
@kimmandley9356
@kimmandley9356 Жыл бұрын
@@paularobinson5031 Thank you, Dear Paula. You touched my heart.❤️ blessings to you.
@danettecherry5003
@danettecherry5003 Жыл бұрын
Through your channel, we are gifted with all types of inspirational people coming into our lives. Normally, we would not be fortunate enough to be influenced by people and their stories, if it wasn't for you.
@tinasmith7630
@tinasmith7630 Жыл бұрын
And the willin people 2 open n share their stories n hearts. No channel!!!
@leneo1731
@leneo1731 Жыл бұрын
To be honest, a few days ago I actually felt like I needed a break from SWU. I've been watching every day for a long time, 1,5 year maybe. The addicts stories are very hard for me to watch. Some of them stick with me for days. I believe it was during the weekend when Mark released an interview with this 39 year old prostitute from Thailand. Watching that video broke my heart. I know I'll be thinking about her for a very, very long time. Maybe I'm different than you. Because to me not many of these interviews are inspirational. Yesterday's interview with Pretty who was a recovering Fentanyl addict, was inspirational! Also, I love Frenchie's interviews, she's so great. I love her mindset! And this woman's story gives me hope and I admire her. I'm not trying to be rude or argue. I ask because I find it interesting. Which interviews do you talk about? I just wonderer if I'm to pessimistic to see that there's inspiration in other interviews as well. I'm struggling with depression so that kind of are colouring everything. Or it takes away the colouring is actually more correct because most things become grey and that's sad. I'd love to see all the colours. Maybe you see more colours than me. Or it may be the definition of inspirational, maybe my interpretation is different than yours. I'm sorry for rambling on. I just find these things very interesting.
@jenniferharvey8696
@jenniferharvey8696 Жыл бұрын
I’m with you! I understand what you’re saying. I’ve watched A LOT of SWU videos. Some break my heart and others inspire me. I think the juxtaposition of them helps me to appreciate both in their own right. Mark, I tell whoever will listen about your channel. I love hearing people’s stories.
@ginny8150
@ginny8150 Жыл бұрын
@@leneo1731 I'm with you
@MC-fw5vt
@MC-fw5vt Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I have a ton of these folks everywhere in my family, lol. Too close for comfort.
@andreaponce4006
@andreaponce4006 Жыл бұрын
I cried watching this video bc I relate to her situations so much. I am 18 trying to find myself while still overcoming my trauma. It is almost like seeing an older version of myself. Thank you so much for sharing her story, I really needed to hear this.
@michaelp5518
@michaelp5518 Жыл бұрын
Go into the military. Get on your own 2 feet. learn a computer trade or something useful. learn how to exist in the real world. I became a marine, then a medical tech. then a dentist. The military was the one major life changing aspect. I had my own developing issues growing up.
@holly0297
@holly0297 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelp5518 I was soo close to joining the Army when young, then I met a few guys and got a bad vibe. Maybe should've gone Marines, eh? 😀But to your point, yes, military's often a great option! *Thanks* for your service, Michael!❤🤍💙
@mrpapakc
@mrpapakc Жыл бұрын
or the medical field!!!
@StephieGsrEvolution
@StephieGsrEvolution Жыл бұрын
Don't go into the military, pls! It will just lead yo more trauma, possibly worse.
@StephieGsrEvolution
@StephieGsrEvolution Жыл бұрын
​@@michaelp5518 why are you telling someone to go to military and eventually be a dentist? You have no clue about this person, their life, their talents, interests, etc.
@outingsforoldladieswhoaren7664
@outingsforoldladieswhoaren7664 Жыл бұрын
Oh my love... it was so helpful to hear your story. I too wasted so much potential because I did not believe in myself. At 63, I am just starting to develop boundaries and accepting myself. Sometimes I think it's part of our generational inheritance.
@Stumpybear7640
@Stumpybear7640 Жыл бұрын
We are here to learn x
@jennytaylor3324
@jennytaylor3324 8 ай бұрын
"The apple doesn't fall far from the tree" is a very accurate old adage!
@bayoubabe6698
@bayoubabe6698 16 күн бұрын
Yes, you can work on this, everyday!!!! Blessings and Peace ✌️
@prettyhtemachine
@prettyhtemachine Жыл бұрын
Christine, you are my favorite guest! I, too, carried my moms trauma growing up, and I try so hard not to pass it on to my kids, but i see my daughter being fearful of men and everything around her just like me. It's a struggle. I lean on everyone, i became a stay at home mom, and my husband of 9 years wants a divorce and wants to be financially free of me because im a burden to him. Im trying so hard to find my wings, but it is not easy. Your words spoke to me today, and it makes so much sense. Thank you for that!! 💜
@mare6366
@mare6366 Жыл бұрын
it's so great to hear someone talk about the "pain body"!!! I read about it yrs ago and can recognize it in so many ppl. everyone should hear her story 🙏
@mermaidofaloha
@mermaidofaloha Жыл бұрын
Thanks 4 sharing. I'm 60, lots of childhood trauma, a near death experience in 2007 (different than yours)." The unconditional love I am made of" "go back & fill up the landscape", your story really helped me a lot. Thank you. God bless you.🙏
@KateElizabeth1013
@KateElizabeth1013 Жыл бұрын
The way she explained her family’s generational trauma is incredible. So, so relatable.
@gigiarmany4332
@gigiarmany4332 Жыл бұрын
this sweet lady is the polar opposite of a narcissist, she gives so much & takes on ALL of the responsibility ...give yourself a hug & a break my dear, having a tough childhood as yours & no support is NOT your fault,wishing you all blessings on your healing journey..🙏🏽🖤❤️🥰
@CassieBee88
@CassieBee88 Жыл бұрын
Omg, her ability to step outside of herself and her situation, and grasp the full range of her emotions and all involved is genius emotional level. If this woman is not a motivational speaker, she should be.
@rhyhunter8750
@rhyhunter8750 Жыл бұрын
I'm having a very hard day, I'm free falling with things out of my control, my heart feels tight and my breath staggered. I'm really emotionally and physically low today. I'm spiralling down deeper. So much of this resonated. Thank you, I'm 41 and I'm feeling some hope after this turnaround story. I wanted it to be over and give up today... But we have to believe and carry on.
@christinemcbride9527
@christinemcbride9527 Жыл бұрын
@donnadonato527
@donnadonato527 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing well
@stacyinfishers
@stacyinfishers Жыл бұрын
Today I felt that too and at 60 needed it, almost related too much today
@skyehannah8388
@skyehannah8388 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here and sharing! Your words helped me ❤❤❤
@ofrapeters3952
@ofrapeters3952 Жыл бұрын
Christine is such a beautiful woman inside and out … she is saying what so many of us experienced… I wish for her to continue to transform and heal and reconnect to the beautiful light that she is …
@adrianimee8665
@adrianimee8665 Жыл бұрын
I love this woman!! Sooo smart and sophisticated and inspirational and so much intelligence and inquisitive!! And she went through a lot and is humble.
@boburuncle41
@boburuncle41 Жыл бұрын
I was told, "The way out is the way through" and "You have to feel it to heal it" took a while to apply those terms, but has left me very free. very nice lady, thanks for being open.
@catgonzales9084
@catgonzales9084 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark for presenting such a “bright light” and lovely soul as Christine! 🪷☺️
@grant4176
@grant4176 Жыл бұрын
She is lovely!
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 Жыл бұрын
Yes, she is truly a light in the darkness.
@debrareeves1005
@debrareeves1005 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't get any more real then this woman right here. Thank you for that uplift I needed right now. God Bless the both of you.
@Catalinaobregon
@Catalinaobregon Жыл бұрын
She has as a wonderful ability to articulate her troubled upbringing, feelings that ensue and recognition of the reasons behind choices she made in her life. Well done, Christine. I am sure your story resonates with a lot of people including me. The one thing about this channel is you realize you are not alone in your struggles or journey on this planet. It's all about love.
@t_nels
@t_nels Жыл бұрын
My parents and grandparents were both traumatized and they left the city for northeast Michigan when I was nine. Giving up good jobs we struggled to make it every year. We did not have insurance so you didn't want to get sick. Generational trauma is important to understand. Thank you Christine. You just gave me an important nudge!
@LindaMcification
@LindaMcification Жыл бұрын
Yes indeedy...
@staceyv4186
@staceyv4186 Жыл бұрын
Pure gold!!! Christine you are a brave and capable woman. Thank you for sharing your story of hope and resiliency in spite of the trauma. Generational trauma does not have to continue if we are brave enough to face our fears and create our own story. We have agency as adults, but if we are stuck in the trauma our inner child is in charge. Our focus turns to comforting the traumatized child, loving them, and thanking them for protecting us at that time. The maladaptive coping mechanisms like dissociation and compartmentalization kept us safe, but as adults those tools are not sufficient. We need to show up as adults with appropriate tools to communicate and to love. You start by loving yourself first. Christine is a living example of this! All of the people you work with are so blessed to have your knowledge, experience, and candor. Be the change you want to see! 🎉🙏❤️‍🩹
@ssfov
@ssfov Жыл бұрын
She is so bubbly and brings a warm and welcoming feeling with her presence. Never would I have ever thought or expected seeing her and listening to her that she experienced all that in her life. Never judge a book by its cover
@jessicadavis2449
@jessicadavis2449 Жыл бұрын
Her story was so beautiful. I just want to keep listening. I can tell she’s touched so many lives and has found purpose in her work. I’ll always think of Christine now.
@brittany7662
@brittany7662 Жыл бұрын
This video is one of my top favorite episodes, so inspiring and genuine. I ordered the book she mentioned and I can’t wait to read it. I’m in my early 30s and I want to experience enlightenment sooner than later and I am on the right track ♥️
@kaytsmudge4359
@kaytsmudge4359 Жыл бұрын
I loved this book, also read A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle as-well if it resonates with you 💕
@Ernest-vh1zm
@Ernest-vh1zm Жыл бұрын
I'm gonna order it now, too!!!
@RetireandGo
@RetireandGo Жыл бұрын
The challenges , the struggles, these things make us strong. Resilient. I wish her peace and good fortune in life.
@Stumpybear7640
@Stumpybear7640 Жыл бұрын
Resilience is a much over used word.
@karenpappin4017
@karenpappin4017 Жыл бұрын
I honestly can't begin to tell you how important and impactful this conversation was to me, thank you Mark and thanks you Christine for sharing your story... the difference this will make to so many is unquantifiable ... I'm so grateful
@danielhiddleston1100
@danielhiddleston1100 Жыл бұрын
I'm a 54 year old woman and this is absolutely eye opening thank you Mark ❣️
@jacobwiggers1973
@jacobwiggers1973 Жыл бұрын
Great message. Finding the causes and solutions to the problems rather than drugs/bandaids.
@tinam761
@tinam761 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for you story !!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I am almost 55 and I’ve been in therapy for about a year. I’m FINALLY working through the trauma of childhood and adulthood. I have had counseling before, but most of it was just trying to manage the current chaos vs being able to actually make changes in myself. I sometimes feel shame when I realize how old I am and that I am just acknowledging so much… I also have several autoimmune diseases and had breast cancer. Physical pain management is what I do all day … every day within my limitations. It can be overwhelming at times if I’m unable to get small respites where it’s not dominating my thoughts. Recently it has improved a bit and I’m so grateful. Anyone else out there in our second half working to be healthier… You’re not alone. ❤
@tinasmith7630
@tinasmith7630 Жыл бұрын
Courageous u r!!! Never 2 late 2 heal. 🙏
@christinaslate1865
@christinaslate1865 Жыл бұрын
I’m 49 and have been in therapy for 2 years . Feeling very bitter and resentful it took me all this time to figure it out . Was dxed with MS last Oct …have had auto immune diseases since I was a teen . Raised in a Pentecostal home with a controlling narcissistic father and mother who was a child herself So glad I’m not the only one figuring things out at almost 50
@col.cottonhill6655
@col.cottonhill6655 Жыл бұрын
I'm not autoimmune but I do have chronic pain diagnosis because of my spine. I have some issues with my family members for mistreating me growing up too (still mistreat me) but I'm sure many of you experience the same. I'm glad to hear you got the help you needed. Don't feel ashamed that you waited so long.
@JulieM-ff9dq
@JulieM-ff9dq Жыл бұрын
Yes, me. I am a triple negative breast cancer survivor. Thankfully, I was otherwise very healthy, other than emotional trauma. I am so happy she got through the cancer and figured out her trauma. I hope you are doing well too, Tina. Good luck to you.
@DebbyBuchman
@DebbyBuchman 11 күн бұрын
Wow. Just as I was thinking Christine needs to be a speaker and share this with the world, she says she’s a teacher. I would love to learn from her. How inspirational! Thank you Christine and Mark.
@KarmicPatina
@KarmicPatina Жыл бұрын
The insight gained from the open ended format, allows you to really step inside these people, even if only on a phone screen..doesn’t matter..it’s a special channel. This woman is so full of wisdom. Thank you.
@BratLisa
@BratLisa Жыл бұрын
I just ordered the book The Power of Now. As I am also in my 50's and need a new way of life. I pray you are healing and are enjoying life today. Thank you for your honesty.
@ronniemead805
@ronniemead805 Жыл бұрын
WOW! You knocked it out of the ballpark with this one Mark. Spellbinding and inspiring lady. WOW, just WOW!
@whitefangflyer
@whitefangflyer 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Mark for these stories of recovery. They are so uplifting and encouraging. So powerful Christine… Amazing story! Love it!
@KatieDeluxe
@KatieDeluxe Жыл бұрын
She will help so many people including myself with her story. Thank you for telling the near death experience too!
@mamaw9634
@mamaw9634 Жыл бұрын
One of the best phrases I have come across- but you have to work to understand it- your experiences shape you, but don’t have to define you. Blessings to Christine! Thank you Mark for letting her talk- ❤
@kdm313
@kdm313 Жыл бұрын
What I took away was. There’s always hope. Thank You Christine.
@creolelady3930
@creolelady3930 Жыл бұрын
Always ❤️
@tinasmith7630
@tinasmith7630 Жыл бұрын
Hpe comes frm God.
@modocroughstock5700
@modocroughstock5700 13 күн бұрын
Picked my cherries out of her experience.. amazing how (imo) have similar "bits & pieces" of childhood trauma that effect us in and at different times and degrees.. 67 M twice married, one long term 22yr. helped raise the severely traumatized m f children to the point of school exit.. thank for sharing your story.. may you always be loved.. we do!
@patriciamunro3060
@patriciamunro3060 Жыл бұрын
She's experienced a lot throughout her life. She's very well spoken, knowledgeable and intelligent. Wish her all the best! ❤
@lauralaithwaite5539
@lauralaithwaite5539 Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite soft white underbelly video. I resonated so much with what she said. I to an on my upward journey after 16 year battle within myself. Dmt was my “near death expierence” which brought me back to who I truly am and made me realize my part in my own suffering. She is a beautiful soul and I absolutely loved this episode. Would love to see more near death experience videos!!
@JennyLynn-x9o
@JennyLynn-x9o Жыл бұрын
I'm really hoping for a dmt or ayawaaka opening
@Aelin21
@Aelin21 Жыл бұрын
What a lovely self-aware and wise lady ❤️
@quizpubbob
@quizpubbob 17 күн бұрын
She’s really helped me piece a few things together in life with this video. Such a treasure trove of wisdom. Great interview.
@heatherpaulson8590
@heatherpaulson8590 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Mark & Christine for doing this video, so inspiring. This is the second time I’ve heard someone reference the book “The Power of Now” on this channel. We’ve been listening to Eckhart Tolle for years and it has really made a positive difference in our lives. Christine, thanks for also sharing your NDE, these experiences can have a positive impact on the experiencer as well as others who hear about them. ❤
@franki81001
@franki81001 Ай бұрын
Wow this interview…her words, knowledge, testimonial…is everything I needed at the exact moment in my life that I am needing it. So profound. I’m so, so, so glad I decided to watch. I choose to receive the message …of reminding myself I’m not too broken or too old to positively change my future.
@carlaburgos12
@carlaburgos12 Жыл бұрын
Holy, thank you!! I am speechless and lost for words for the impact this interview had in my life. She has reassured me what my purpose in life is. ❤
@zhara9741
@zhara9741 9 ай бұрын
This was my favorite SWU video to date. I have been watching these for years. Simply amazing and inspiring. It soothed my soul and was exactly what I needed to hear.
@nhlibra
@nhlibra Жыл бұрын
Christine, You hit on soooo many topics that I'd be surprised if just one person could not relate to a portion of what you covered. There were several for me but the big one I related to is your mother and the "scaredy-cat" personality. My mother was like that and still is to this day. She wasn't there for me at really important times of my life, but fortunately my father was and taught me valuable lessons on taking care of myself. He did go through a period of drinking after my mother left him and took his kids with her...thankfully he backed off drinking when he developed painful gout 15 years later. Thank you so much for your interview. I have listened twice so far but this is one of Mark's videos that I will listen to a few more times. You have made so much progress in your life towards self-actualization. Congrats! Your interview is EVERGREEN and will teach a lot of people at a young age how to avoid some pitfalls. 🥰💗💜
@BeeKay4444
@BeeKay4444 Жыл бұрын
I am literally crying watching this. Christine is a true gem. Offers so much to others. I wish she had a YT channel or some way of contacting her.
@patriciawilson6978
@patriciawilson6978 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story, Christine
@justagirlfromdownunder8362
@justagirlfromdownunder8362 Жыл бұрын
Can we please get more of her, she is just so healing to watch in this interview xx such a beautiful soul
@austinjrb
@austinjrb Жыл бұрын
I'm in awe at her ability to express herself and tell such an engaging story. Her level of introspection and self-awareness is crazy. Anyone know if she has a podcast or is online? I'd love to keep up with this woman (I'm halfway through the video so forgive me for asking if it's mentioned toward the end)
@christinemcbride9527
@christinemcbride9527 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@austinjrb
@austinjrb Жыл бұрын
@@christinemcbride9527 well that answers that question lol. Thank YOU for sharing your insights and your story. I'm wishing you the best 🙏🏾
@princesstakaloo
@princesstakaloo Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul this lady has. She has such a powerfully positive perspective on the curse of generational trauma. Much love 😍
@brendalancour9573
@brendalancour9573 Жыл бұрын
She is a very Classy intelligent Lady...very well spoken...Very Lovely Lady..I pray she finds the Happiness and Healing she deserves. Its very difficult to open up about our TRAUMA that we may be going thru some people NEVER open up and thats why so many People turn to Drugs Alcohol Gambling ETC...whatever makes us feel better in the moment they cant look beyond " IN THE MOMENT" so to speak...there are the chosen few who do find solice in Therapy and they do heal its a long peocess but it can happen and go on to live Long happy Productive lives but so many cant get past NOT FEELING ANYTHING NOW!! so i pray whoever cannot see beyond THE MOMENT! and want to NOT FEEL anything i pray you find the inner Strength that you can FEEL AGAIN with Therapy and medicine if necessary i pray you find that and Heal inside and Out..Im sending Prayers and Healing Vibes To all who would like to receive them..GREAT INTERVIEW MARK!!..?❤❤❤🥰🤗
@sandraalegria3439
@sandraalegria3439 9 ай бұрын
O.M.G. I love you lady. This interview is like therapy I can so relate to being so scared of EVERYTHING. I've been in isolation voluntarily just to avoid anxiety and fear.
@Jameskenomis3
@Jameskenomis3 Жыл бұрын
I needed this. She is awesome.
@xXisubscriberXx
@xXisubscriberXx Жыл бұрын
@jimbofischa What does that matter?
@a_grayce
@a_grayce Жыл бұрын
​@jimbofischaboisays the guy who's leaving negative comments on every positive comment they come across on EVERY. Single. upload this channel produces. What makes a troll so miserable? Ah, positivity!
@No-cj9zx
@No-cj9zx Жыл бұрын
@@a_grayce They're bored with their lives
@karenfryberger4260
@karenfryberger4260 Жыл бұрын
@@a_grayce And what makes a troll happy? Responses. I recommend EVERYONE stop responding to this person. Don't give him what he's looking for: attention. It is truly pointless to engage with his relentlessly toxic comments.
@donikatod460
@donikatod460 Жыл бұрын
I love how she talks about the lessons and healing and conclusions rather than details about the traumatic experiences. Overcoming victimhood is such a major blessing and effort.
@ToolFan68
@ToolFan68 Жыл бұрын
The reason she doesn’t talk about the details is because then we would find out the truth about her. She’s had how many marriages now? ALL the men are baddies. LOL! Typical modern American woman. Totally selfish, blames everybody for their problems (especially men) ends up living with a cat and taking in strangers to pretend they now can help others. Notice that she never is the victimizer in any of her stories. Women are just as, if not more, emotionally abusive than men, yet most of them have no clue that it’s even possible as they have been raised in a matriarchal western society and that they themselves are doing the very thing that they are accusing others of. Men are waking up, hopefully women will eventually do the same so we can improve society. It takes two to tango ladies.
@donikatod460
@donikatod460 Жыл бұрын
@@ToolFan68 well, growing up in a family where a 6-year old is sipping cocktails, it's not surprising she'd have a series of bad relationships. It's not that all men are bad and she doesn't say that. But it's likely she attracts a certain type of men and she says that too. It happens all the time people go from one bad relationship to the next bad one. Seems she has discovered she is better off on her own because she is not able to be in a stable relationship. She can still help others. Many people who are in toxic relationships are not wise enough to leave them and perhaps consider no relationship is a better option.
@quinnhayes3046
@quinnhayes3046 Жыл бұрын
@@ToolFan68she never said she wasn’t the problem…she indirectly says she’s apart of the problem. that’s the point of her half her story. 💀
@williammatlock1087
@williammatlock1087 Жыл бұрын
She has an elegant way of speaking and great at captivating your attention! Seems like a beautiful old soul with a great heart. Thank you for this
@bestkksser
@bestkksser Жыл бұрын
If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸
@m_a_lissa
@m_a_lissa Жыл бұрын
What a relatable story. It takes so much courage to put your story on a platform, but it’s so healing for you and for all your watchers as many of us can relate. While I listened and I self reflected on my childhood and the personalities that influenced my life and my ego. What I love about Christine’s journey was she understood the domino effect of generational trauma and how it only continues on untill a generation becomes aware of it. I think she did a beautiful job drawing out how one develops a personality- which is no more than a coping mechanism from our childhood upbringing, experiences, and traumas we have endured. Once we understand that we are able to look at our selves objectively and help heal our selves. Christine thank you for inspiring us all!
@sethmonroe
@sethmonroe Жыл бұрын
Tim Fletchers videos on KZbin can help teach a lot of her knowledge about trauma if the therapist option isn't available. Awesome job Christine!!
@timmywitty1432
@timmywitty1432 Жыл бұрын
I love Tim Fletcher’s work on trauma, he is an excellent resource for healing.
@sethmonroe
@sethmonroe Жыл бұрын
@@timmywitty1432 definitely , i hope Mark checks him out and hopefully passes on Tim Fletchers to people he interviews. Trauma isn't rocket science , just need to learn the characteristics of it so one can recognize when triggered and how to handle life situations
@sethmonroe
@sethmonroe Жыл бұрын
Addiction isn't the epidemic , trauma ( CPTSD) is
@timmywitty1432
@timmywitty1432 Жыл бұрын
@@sethmonroe exactly.
@shirleygomez6257
@shirleygomez6257 Жыл бұрын
You left me with a smile Christine 🌬️ My story is very similar to yours, thank you a lot for bringing a lot of direction to the younger generations, namaste 🪷
@tinamarie393
@tinamarie393 11 ай бұрын
I could listen to her calming voice all day long. She has an enormous sense of self now that she’s entered her healing journey! I loved this one, a very different side of the spectrum! Thank you Christine! God Bless🙏🏾
@dav220
@dav220 Жыл бұрын
I relate so much to Christine. Gorgeous honesty and depth here, very inspirational! Thank u thank u thank u. LOVE
@luisangelismylove
@luisangelismylove Жыл бұрын
Through your channel I am learning to be more empathic towards all sorts of people, not only those that are “normal” We are all imperfect but we have the power to make changes. I cried when she was talking about the empty landscape. Thank you Mark ❤
@annasnow.
@annasnow. Жыл бұрын
Dear Miss Christine: I r resonated so much with the way in which you describe our stories and us as human beings. The way in which you speak is so deeply truthful and makes so much sense to me. You are a beautiful being of light and soul, and your light shines so bright it warmed my soul. I just wanted you to know that your words have touched me today very much so. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable today for the sake of you most of all but to help other people in knowing that everyone has their own slice of pie on this earth and you can decorate any way you want. Thank You - Sincerely Anna
@toddbennett5734
@toddbennett5734 Жыл бұрын
Christine I am so happy for you that you were able to find the answers that you were looking for to make your life whole . Sometimes the bad things that we go through are life's lessons that we learn from to better ourselves. It's never too late ! It's heartwarming to hear life's stories that turn out to way yours has ! Outstanding!
@conniehanses
@conniehanses Жыл бұрын
The most insightful interview I've ever heard. You are inspiring and so thought provoking for myself reflection. The brain is powerful. Just gotta be open, honest with urself and do the work. Can be very uncomfortable but worth it for my wellbeing. Thankyou
@chyannehainstock7842
@chyannehainstock7842 10 ай бұрын
Thank you showing these older women who went through trauma without support. ❤
@LindaMcification
@LindaMcification Жыл бұрын
What an amazing story teller. Gorgeous lady❤ I can really listen to her forever. She has taught me so much.
@carlygonnelli344
@carlygonnelli344 Ай бұрын
I love your story. I associate the title, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger," with my own pain body and hurtful coping mechanisms. I appreciate the positive spin on the phrase. I have read "The Power of Now", a few times now. I learned a lot about living in your pain body, its a difficult journey. Thank you for the work you do with troubled youth and congratulations on your recognition, even though I'm a year late.
@CaliGirl11-11
@CaliGirl11-11 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story, Christine. Sounds Just like mine and I'm Mexican American from California. You just confirmed everything. As soon as we all find "the Divine" in us, we can stop self sabotaging ourselves. Very well articulated. You are a very beautiful educated women. So glad you had a daughter. Sounds like she helped save your life?
@houndherder6982
@houndherder6982 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful soul. Thank you Christine for sharing your story which parallels my life in many ways. Very difficult things to talk about but incredible healing from doing so.
@msr305
@msr305 Жыл бұрын
Christine - Holy Shit! In all the years I've watched Mark's interviews, I have found them facinating, but your story - in SO many ways- is my own. Thank you Christine for your bravery and ability to bring to words the experiences and mindset I know so well deep down. Love to you Christine. ((Thank YOU too Mark))
@drenaejohnson2091
@drenaejohnson2091 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 38 year old woman and can relate to some parts of her story. You can see the passion when she speaks I loved this interview so much and will definitely look up the information she shared. Thank you Mark I love your channel I’ve been a viewer for years and have learned so much about myself and a better understanding of others you’ve been a blessing to me and many others
@caelesarcanum_
@caelesarcanum_ Жыл бұрын
I am elated to hear other people talk about the negativity of pharma and chronic illness. I have dealt with something similar. Root cause approach is elite compared to bandaging symptoms. Happy you have found modalities that keep your symptoms at bay! Your story is inspiring and you can tell that all "bad" in your life was a catalyst for growth.
@dfadeley
@dfadeley 23 күн бұрын
"Believing there is another story out tuere for us, but its up to you.if its a better story." Thats so incredibly powerful.
@mrsbiggs2848
@mrsbiggs2848 Жыл бұрын
Refreshing to see a person who has found healing and her purpose. She found it and now she’s giving it away ❤️
@jenniferharvey8696
@jenniferharvey8696 Жыл бұрын
Very inspiring! At 55, after a year of retirement, I am “leaning into” a new teaching position in the fall. And you’re so right!! It really does fill up that void! Much love ❤️
@faustinreeder1075
@faustinreeder1075 Жыл бұрын
Retiring at 55 is awesome. “Lean” into seeing the world or ? Working is overrated. I’m retiring in 1498 days and I’m never lifting a finger for any corporate stooge ever again. It’s five o’clock somewhere. Cheers
@lisamurphy5663
@lisamurphy5663 Жыл бұрын
What an amazing and strong woman! Thank you for sharing this story.💜
@BeeTimesTwo
@BeeTimesTwo Жыл бұрын
Appreciate her story so much. She’s been through a lot but is so willing to share ❤️
@tanyabonnette1796
@tanyabonnette1796 Жыл бұрын
I loved the nde she told about how she felt loved and everything was beautiful. And the words that she has a beautiful life.
@japatiinus55
@japatiinus55 Жыл бұрын
She has lived many lives. Thank you for sharing Christine!
@gtaylordesign
@gtaylordesign Жыл бұрын
The most uplifting tale of self empowerment. Truly inspirational , God Bless You !
@cutley427
@cutley427 Жыл бұрын
This is the best talk I’ve ever listened to including Ted talks, therapy, and books I’ve I’ve read on depression and bipolar disorder. Thank you to Christine and Mark for this eye opener.
@melissasue3328
@melissasue3328 Жыл бұрын
I am 40 minutes in and I have stopped myself from commenting multiple times bc I wanted to hear the whole story first but I can't hold back. Your story is so incredibly similar to mine. The underlying generational trauma, the subconscious beliefs, the passing down of the "story" to my children unintentionally, the accidents , autoimmune disease, even "the power of now" unread on the shelf in my home for a decade. God I hope this story has a happy ending for us both! 🙏
@juliaadams8167
@juliaadams8167 Жыл бұрын
Inspiration at it’s best..what a beautiful lady inside and out, so enjoyed listening to her triumph over adversity 😊
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