What God Taught Us During Engagement...

In this video we are sharing all the lessons we learned during our season of engagement!
Y O U T U B E
Kian ⇢ / kiantilton
Kyle ⇢ / @kylewolfgang
OUR LOVE STORY
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[@katejohnson5083]

🌟Kian and Kyle: before you go to bed every night, thank each other for three things the other person did that day. It will really help you focus on the positive characteristics of your spouse and not go to bed angry. God bless you and your marriage! Congrats! 🎉❤️🙌🏼

[@ericksonsails]

Married 44 years . So encouraged to hear young couple so prepared for marriage. Marriage is good when Christ is the guide. Good for you! p.s. I live in Phoenix too.

[@ThatBrazilianCouple]

we agree :)

[@annapaul4921]

Who else is watching this on their wedding day?💗💗

[@ghettomarc50]

Oh, wow! Already?

[@annapaul4921]

beaniebabie yep!!

[@lindalogan8460]

Yes me ✋ Thought about Kian today, wondering how her day is going. It's 18h30 here where I am but I can't WAIT to see the wedding. I'm sooooo happy for them both. They are such a super-duper amazing couple and they both went through so much before they were brought together by God. I just KNOW that I'm gonna cry during their wedding-live (Eastern Cape, South Africa 💕)

[@VanessaDiale]

@@lindalogan8460 ayyyeee so glad I'm not the only south african here 🔥🔥(western cape, South Africa) in the house 💃

[@lindalogan8460]

@@VanessaDiale Vanessa 🤗 Western Cape is where my heart is. Lived there for 10 years. Left under sad circumstances. Thanxxx for the greeting 💜😘

[@Strawberries017]

Btw yes I would love to see a video on you two individually what God has been doing to prepare you as a “wife” and “husband”. And I would like to see the video about your conflict steps you’ve used. I am single currently, but God is preparing me for my Kingdom spouse.

[@UniceLiu]

time went by so fast i can’t believe u guys are getting married already!

[@NapiNeRDz]

I love how you guys are soo honest about how things can get heated even before the marriage and how to learn to communicate through it. I feel like a lot of people show that journey before and during the marriage that everything is all perfect and is a fairytale and that’s not the case.

[@hopeolivia590]

This is great - the devil hates good marriage as it reflects Christ and the church - it's such a beautiful reflection of God !! Your relationship glorifies God and love the gracious love you show each other, much love xxx

[@Preethisjournals]

The time u get married will be 3.30 am in india, however i know watching ur wedding on live is worth sacrifising my sleep...excited💓

[@lindalogan8460]

I think it will be around 9pm on my side. Won't miss it for all the world. 🙏💞💌

[@joimundondo8678]

It will be about 12am where I live so excited!!

[@mishkepetrus8609]

It will be 12am in South Africa 🇿🇦, but I won’t miss it for the world! So excited! Counting every minute! 🤩🤗

[@lindalogan8460]

@@mishkepetrus8609 Hi 😊 thanks Mishke ......I wasn't sure of the time. Thanxxx for letting us Know here in South Africa 💕

[@ellaschwenk6070]

6pm here!

[@sarahmitchell8344]

"God is literally purifying us through the fire... wow, God is really working on us" so good

[@KizNic]

"To tie this all in a bow: it all comes back to Jesus." Gosh I loved that! :D And yes please to the video on your battle plan!

[@melisemartheze3553]

I can totally imagine you guys in 20 years times as fun and wise marriage counselors 😂

[@Strawberries017]

The list point was so great, so was the purification as a couple! The enemy doesn’t want people to come together in these Kingdom unions. So getting hit and things rising is just that the enemy coming to steal kill and destroy. But God! God uses everything for the good of those who love Him! 🙌🏽

[@amberlawson668]

Yes with the drumrolls lol! I am wishing you the best wedding wishes! Praying for you both! 🙏♥️

[@Daniela-alexandra]

10 MINUTES UNTILL YOU’RE MARRIED!!🎉🎉💕💕🙌🏼🙌🏼 May the Spirit move in that place and fill you with His joy and peace and may God bless the whole day! Praying for your guests also, that they would see and experience the love of Christ through you on this day💗

[@mattietichenor7727]

Have you been able to find the live stream?

[@annavitalia]

@@mattietichenor7727 nope im so confused

[@juliachan8421]

@@mattietichenor7727 no :( but apparently it hasn't started yet- maybe they're running late

[@eunice-wg5cy]

@@juliachan8421 yeah im waiting for it from the UK hahaha its 23:29pm might have to go to bed soon

[@Lollipop-dh2mu]

eunice same I thought it was starting at 11 here but now I see people saying it’s starting at 12 😂🙈 UK time I mean

[@1280ss]

“Never make your partner your enemy”. I need to remember this. Thank y’all for being so honest with your journey together. Congratulations and I wish you a life of light and joy for many years. 💕

[@jewelblue8496]

Ooh, that's good. I agree. "Your partner is never your enemy". 🙏🏽❤

[@daisiepowers9652]

Love this and I’m only 13 minutes in. These too are things that my husband and I have struggled with and are constantly putting into practice and reminding each other of when we stray to being self-centered. “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4:1-3‬ ‭ESV‬‬ The Lord ministers this scripture to me time and time again each discussion my husband and I have had Wooop wooop for Gods Word xo

[@kennedypavlik5234]

Continuing to refresh refresh refresh to watch your wedding live but hope you guys are enjoying the night regardless!! I’d love to hear about the guide you guys made together!

[@lucyscarse1582]

Wow today's the day! Praying for your both and hope the day is beautiful 💕

[@jennifermejia8193]

I just absolutely love how genuine raw and real you guys are! Y’all do not fake your relationship! ♥️ and you bring it back to Jesus ! So blessed to know this channel

[@Hopeofmen]

Heads up folks! Phoenix doesn't observe Daylight Savings Time, so the time right now for them is a little before 4 PM. Plus weddings tend to start a little late anyway. :) It's happening soon!

[@audrey0707]

Thanks for the information

[@ruesletters]

Praying for you guys on your wedding day! I pray that God blesses you throughout your marriage and that you will continue to be a light for the Lord!

[@annavitalia]

JUST WATCHED YOUR WEDDING

[@alexsimone804]

This is so helpful. My boyfriend and I are long distance for the second time, and have just had confirmation from the Lord about marriage! This season has a lot of conflict and frustration, it is so helpful to know we are not alone, and these are normal parts of relationship- even when you are close to marriage! Thank you Jesus for refining us!

[@brookemckenzie1862]

I’d love to see the guide list for handling conflicts!!

[@jadamosley179]

I'm so happy for yall you have no idea, I pray that God continues to guide and use you two for major impact for his kingdom, both of you have been such a godly inspiration to myself and many! Keep being led by God.

[@VictoriasDAbomb]

WE 👏🏼 LOVE 👏🏼 TO 👏🏼 SEE 👏🏼 THE 👏🏼GROWTH Seriously, it’s been so awesome to see your journey Kian. It is so encouraging for me. You both are so mature and have such a bright future ahead. It’s so exciting to witness. Congratulations on your marriage! We love to see it ❤️

[@nitseybellefleur5717]

YES, I'D LOVE TO SEE THE LIST CONFLICT PLAN SO I CAN LEARN AND GROW... I JUST CAME HERE AND MY EYES FELL IN THIS VIDEO WHICH I BELIEVE THAT'S WHERE GOD WANTED ME TO BE... LOVE YOU GUYS SOO BIG AT THE BEGINNING OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL JOURNEY... YOU GUYS SHOULD START A PODCAST TOO...

[@roni98boom]

oh the drumroll discussion again... :D

[@lindalogan8460]

I love it 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁

[@lindalogan8460]

It's so much fun 👏🥁

[@kaidesvignes445]

It’s weddddinggggg dayyyyyyyy. I literally feel so involved and a part of your wedding and growth. Thank u for sharing your love and testimonies with us. This is a great pre wedding video. I can’t believe the day is here. I’m so excited to tune in. I pray God blesses u both as u step into this new chapter. Much love to you both ❤️❤️❤️ #wolfgangwedding

[@HallelujahSunday]

You two are so young, and have so much wisdom. If it were not for y’all, I would have never found my husband. Thank you for inspiring me not to give up ❤️

[@lisar5349]

Thank you for showing the realness of the day to day choice in choosing not only God but your partner 💜

[@KizNic]

Love you guys! You conrinue saying you are not perfect, and it is true- only Jesus is. However we are all striving to be like him. And in the Word it says to encourage your brothers and sisters. That's how I take these videos (the crazy and serious ones lol). Continue to be a light in the world. Continue sharing and encouraging. Continue growing! All the best later! I already have my dress picked out hehe!

[@roselinaroro1786]

Guys the wedding starts at 5PM MST time. I think they got the timing wrong, on her instagram it’s counting down to 5PM MST time not 4PM MST time.

[@megancarlson6670]

Thank you I was so confused

[@audrey0707]

Thank you

[@LillyBrowtteworste]

I thought they said in the video and the invite video that the wedding is at 4pm MST?

[@70Harper]

It’s starting now!!

[@kailawoods2678]

Actually, it’s because Arizona doesn’t do Daylight savings. Because of that, our times were wrong lol. I was thinking the same thing until I realized that it’s because there’s no daylight savings there. I live in NM so I was confused too since AZ and NM have the same time zone lol

[@ByJamieAnn]

These are such good reminders! 😊 I'm engaged now and can relate sooo much! So excited for the wedding!💕

[@TreasureBijon]

I’m so excited for you guys! I can’t believe the wedding is here already.

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

Ive been married for a little over a year and I love what you guys said about unconditional respect from the wife’s side. It’s SO hard when you get married to give unconditional respect for your husband at all times, because not everything he does feels “respectable”! Same vice versa, not everything I do feels “loveable”. It’s all about actions and praying for The Lord to soften our hearts bc we do get offended and we do have a lot of pride. I loved hearing what y’all learned and I learned a lot too!

[@tilly.sousaantunes]

Felt convicted by this video! God is so good and is speaking through you guys! HAVE A GREAT WEDDING, MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND HAVE FUN!

[@1012345MB]

I love how you guys are so selfless and so teachable, these are incredible important aspects to have a great marriage. So excited to see you guys continue to grow together! Praying for you guys 😍💍

[@Christ2010Grad]

I would LOVE to see a video on how you deal with conflict.

[@elainasahf]

I pray that you both never forget how much of a blessing it is that you share yourselves on your channels. You both are so purpose-full and God is using you so much through KZbin which I am so grateful for. Do you have a tip-top intro? No. Do you always find the perfect words? No. Do you always act like everything is perfect in your life? No. And I love that. Thank you for not being perfect. God bless.

[@michellehamilton5157]

hello! just came across your channel. I am going through the end of a worldly relationship and God revealed what a true God fearing relationship looks like. So thank you for being such a encouraging example. Please pray for me in this lonely season

[@desiraewelk19]

I loved this video so much and it will help me so much as I come to the engagement season soon. Thank you for sharing, and y’all can go an and on for as long as you desire and people will listen and gain so much from what you say. I would love to see the video about steps you take during conflict and any other things that have helped or will help you process different situations in the future. I feel like there aren’t a lot of videos like this one, but this is something that will greatly impact the season I am coming to. Love yall❤️

[@ntsakomavunda54]

This is very helpful and appreciated guys ...thanks God of heaven continues to bless u👏

[@michaelaowens1029]

I definitely want to hear your step by step plan and how you deal with your conflicts!!! The point that really stuck out to me was that the Bible never says the women should love their husband because they show their love through respecting him!! That was so good!! ❤️

[@bequirivera8540]

Wow! The reflection of looking at them through God’s eyes brought tears to my eyes. This is so truly. We sometimes get so comfortable with our partner that we forget to look at them through God’s eyes. We forget who they are to God.

[@marissad7455]

Soooooo much wisdom in this video! Thank you for your transparency and allowing God to use your relationship in such a mighty and real way!!! You truly help me while I am single 🥰

[@augustahay6253]

Would love to see a video about what each of you wish you would have known before getting married/ways you wish you would have prepared your heart before hand! I'm getting married this October and have been trying to prepare myself & my heart for this new stage in life 💕

[@1012345MB]

Such great wisdom!!!! Thanks for sharing your process in your engagement season!!

[@carolinenicole1997]

This video spoke straight to my heart I needed to hear this, I pretty much know all of what you said... my husband needs my respect and I need to stop dwelling on his flaws and work on MYSELF But I really needed to be reminded. Everything you guys said was such wonderful And god is speaking through you. Praise Jesus! Thank y our for such great content!

[@naphtalimcintosh4189]

I SOOOO EXCITED FOR TODAYYYYYY OMLLLLL GOD BLESS YALL ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ayah316]

So many good relationship lessons ! May our father in heaven bless you and your marriage and I wish this advice was around for me to hear years ago. 💐🙏🕊😇🕯🙌🥳

[@evelinecleide8056]

I'll be at church at the time of the wedding. But I hope to watch it afterwards ♥️

[@averywatson4538]

Not him saying “dear PAPA” 🙈😅

[@shanaalisab2691]

I am so happy for you guys and so excited to witness y’all’s wedding on live later! It’s so amazing to see a reflection of Jesus through you guy lives. My fiancé and I watched this together and it gave us so much insight. We still have 10 more months of engagement and personally it encouraged me so much to study Gods word in being a wife. I am praying over you guys union today, praying for favor in you guys union as you guys continue to seek Him and His kingdom. Like many others I’m sure who follow you guys, allowing God to use y’all on this platform has truly helped me as a soon to be wife in my relationship with my s/o and my relationship with God. May God continue to bless and keep you all! 🤎

[@sarahvanrooyen1385]

IT'S WEDDING DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mariprep]

Yess! Make a video about your game plan. That would bring me so much wisdom. I am no where near close to marriage or relationship but it always good to prepare ahead 😂😅

[@hannahross1031]

I would love a “conflict steps” video!

[@bequirivera8540]

Yessss please!!!! Make more bloopers!!! I enjoyed it! I loved it!!! I watched it until the end

[@Janicesaheed]

That was funny. Kian was so annoyed😂😂

[@cm-yu6gu]

Yes to game plan video! ✨

[@ndzaloM]

I don't know why but yay😅. Wishing you nothing but the greatest. May God bless you two. Lots of love ❤

[@peculiarlawrence5545]

Praying that God blesses your union! Excited to watch the wedding tonight💃🏽

[@taliapopz9649]

I like the drum roll and his energy of excitement

[@jailinemanonoficial]

I just love how they can take constructive criticism from each other

[@Setapart4hisglory2016]

Thank you for the amazing advice! So blessed to hear it. Would love to hear the game plan when conflict arises. Congratulations on becoming Mr. and Mrs. Wolfgang!

[@JayJay-ef5eh]

In my season of singleness this is soooo helpful to how I should come to God when I am confessing sin. Hope that makes sense :) This was very helpful.

[@allisonlucas018]

I would love to see that video on how you handle conflict!

[@ThatBrazilianCouple]

Great video guys! You two are great together. Congratulations!

[@mariprep]

A couple of hours out from your wedding. I’m so excited to tune in and watch!!! God bless you guys! I’d love to talk about Christian relationships in my channel when I find myself a husband 😂😊

[@audrey0707]

You can always give Christian advice to single girls and woman if you aren't already.

[@mariprep]

Audrey Audrey your right. I’ve done a bible study video and a worship playlist video. Gonna start posting advice videos soon! ❤️

[@sidneyallen8870]

Yessss the Love and Respect book is SO good and truly eye opening!! (They also have videos that go with it which help a lot too)

[@brielleblood7176]

i also learned awhile ago, from Ephesians 5, that we (woman who will be wives) have to be worth dying for!! it was such a powerful discovery :)

[@alyssam702]

My current boyfriend I do believe is the man God wants me to marry and I told him he feels like a mirror on my life, and it has made me grow so much in a month and a half. I feel like that was further confirmation I love it

[@veeelisabeth]

“intense fellowship” great way to put it!

[@melisemartheze3553]

This video is so informative even though I am completely single I will definitely be referring back to this in the future ❤️

[@jennamartin1208]

loved this! please if kian could speak more on respect and what you have learned from the book and from your relationship about how important it is would appreciate it thank youuu ❤️

[@anthonycox2374]

Your wedding was beautiful! Thank you for sharing it, and God bless you both!

[@beyou9350]

YES please make the video about your battle plan!! I love that idea. And a massive congratulations and blessings on your beautiful marriage

[@abigailbetts3421]

Would definitely love to hear your game plan!! Congratulations on your Marriage!!!

[@flinryder7119]

You’re relationship is awesome 👏🏻 you blow me away with your insight and wisdom xx congratulations 🥳 and God bless you both xx

[@marissaguajardo6451]

Yes I definitely want to know about this plan when y’all argue !!!♥️

[@amandabolden2077]

I thought Kyle was going to do a drum roll during the wedding nuptials yesterday! 😂 🎊 Congratulations to you both and God bless! ❤️

[@gennazachrich5257]

I am so excited to watch your wedding 🤍 you two have inspired me so much!

[@renaerufus8707]

"Okay. We're different. And this is fine." -- Kian 2020

[@tiffanyleonardfit1946]

Oh my gosh so good. Please please make more videos like this. Y’all are amazing talking about this.

[@pilviwilde3624]

Thank you guys for being so real and raw. I'd love to hear more about the lists you were talking about in the video!!

[@1012345MB]

Just watched the live stream! Congrats on being married!!!! 🥳😍😍

[@shelley2he844]

Good luck today x its already nearly 6pm where I am but I am gonna be keeping an eye out for the life stream.

[@Khlo_xo]

God definitely led me to this channel

[@Miaxxx]

So excited for today! I wish you guys a lifetime of happiness and love! I won't be able to watch cause I'll be at church when it happens but I'll definitely pray about it the entire time. God bless you two ❤

[@katieebers3547]

at the beginning of the video (around 9:25), you both talk about humility in relationships and I recently learned the concept: Own. Apologize. Repair. It's something I read in the book Turn This World Inside Out by Nora Samaran. I recommend it to anyone who happens to come across my comment- it will hit home and completely change the way you show up in all relationships in your life! God bless💗

[@milar792]

Praise God!! So happy for you both! God bless this marriage in Jesus' name!!! This marriage is going to glorify God, praying that your wedding itself would even lead people closer to Jesus!

[@VanessaDiale]

Oh my gosh South Africa is literally 8hrs ahead but I'm definitely staying up for this wedding 💃💃 3 more hrs to gooooo🙈ahhhh I'm soooo excited😂😂

[@lullu860]

U made it guys!!! God bless enjoy the marital bliss

[@TheDachshundDen]

Really enjoyed this video💜 So much raw honesty and wisdom. Thank you for sharing your personal experiences. This really helps me put into perspective what I want for me and my relationship.💕

[@eachandeverything4022]

I found you guys just a day ago and have already subbed. I'm not sure why this has popped up in my recommendations, but God knows that it is a desire to be married someday, so maybe there is a reason. Do you sense that the Lord has some one special in store for me soon? ☺️☺️

[@martumadrazo1450]

Saving this for when I have a boyfriend haha

[@w.k777]

1 Peter 1: 6-7 🔥🔥 Godly WISDOM ✝️. Be blessed guys.

[@sarahschulz1671]

Yes pleaseee! Wanna see the battle plan

[@joonoski5208]

love it so much!! :)