What Happened To Black Housewives / Homemakers?

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Womanhood is a beautiful design created for all women by God. It will leave a significant impact on generations to come in the long term. If you'd love to learn more about marriage and homemaking I highly suggest reading scripture from God's Word (The Bible). May God Bless your journey! 🏡❤

[@almostheavenhomestead1680]

those steam cleaners are awesome :) great video

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

@@almostheavenhomestead1680 Oh you mean the pet vacuum hose I used? 😄 It's like a mini vacuum attached. I wish it could steam! Aw thanks for watching! ❤

[@almostheavenhomestead1680]

@@LifeWithBerylanne oh! lol... the triangular shaped floor thingy? I thought that was one of those Shark sweeper steamy things. my bad lol. I like your videos... it'd be nice to see more young ladies taking good care of their homes and husbands and souls. God Bless you!

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Oh yes! It's a steam mop by Bissell. Sorry, I got confused! 😄 Thanks so much! Blessings to you too! ❤

[@mwal.1234]

@The Helpmeet Journey Hi! This is my first time seeing your channel, and I really like your message about women being designed by God to serve their husbands at home. 💜 I was wondering if you had obeyed the gospel of Jesus Christ?: “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost” ‭‭(Acts‬ ‭2:38‬ ‭KJV‬‬). This KZbin channel from my brother Clinton also has some good videos about the Bible: m.kzbin.info

[@kristenmoonrise]

I think Black women want this deep down - we just have been playing every role out of being in survival mode. Taking care of the home is still a priority, but unfortunately so is also being the breadwinner while taking care of children. We just need to expand our options to men (outside of our community) that share those same values we deeply crave. Great video! 💖

[@almostheavenhomestead1680]

liberalism destroyed black families. trading in husbands to be married to the government is never a good idea.

[@almostheavenhomestead1680]

@@Noone73902 the women that fought for the vote were property owners who wanted a say n where their property taxes were going. they weren't being social justice warriors. They were far too busy. Most women didn't even care about the vote. And they all voted republican because that is who passed the women's vote and got us that right. But I should actually say privilege because we never had to sign up for the draft as a trade off like the men who didn't own property had to. we were gifted the vote. LATER in the 70s the welfare dept. made it so that if there was a father n the home they would not help. Even if he was working and just not bringing enough money to pay for everything he had to go so that the children would get help. democrat policy at work . SO daddy's out and now money has to go toward 2 homes or mama moves onto the ghetto high rise with the babies and daddy is couch surfn or in the street and still trying to pay for his wife and children. and that's how all this mess started. And destroyed the black community not to mention all the drug flooding etc. and now women choose bad mates instead of good men. and blame the system that they continually vote for. Liberalism ruins communities. the proof of it is everywhere.

[@almostheavenhomestead1680]

@@Noone73902 fully agree. help should be there but it should be reasonable and not with a destructive agenda behind it and women need to learn to make better choices with a mate. a good mate always has 2 things.. competence and integrity.

[@MelanatedHomesteadher]

I concur

[@michelletackett9489]

Being a housewife/homemaker is the most important job any woman can have. Great job on the video.

[@theparttimehomemaker]

After about 16 months of marriage I realised I no longer wanted to work in a stressful job, pursuing promotions and salary increases. The pressure to provide was stripping me of my femininity. Now my husband and I are praying and working towards him becoming the sole earner of our home to allow me to be at home. I don't know how many years it'll take but I have faith. I think we as black women first need to believe it's possible for us.

[@iknitb4itwaship33]

I have cried many tears over the state of womanhood in our country. Your video speaks truth to all races regarding our God ordained roles. Thank you.

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Aw I feel you! Modern womanhood along with manhood is heading towards destruction...it's very unfortunate. I'm happy to have been Born Again to see God's truth. God Bless! 🙏 Thanks for watching. ❤

[@raya9283]

I think many women would like to be housewives. It's not fun having to work and doing all household and childcare by themselves. However, without a reliable husband you don't have the freedom to be a housewife!

[@MorenitaBonita19]

Love this so much! Definitely not as encouraged in our community so we need to make this more normal 🤍🌸🙏🏽

[@Nzinga_Xquisite]

Greetings Everyone. There are more black homemakers/housewives out here than one may think. I've been in this role for 20 years, with a Black husband. He was even the one to suggest that I stay home. That thought wasn't even on my radar. In my community, there are many stay at home mothers. Women working outside the home is still the majority because black children on average aren't taught to strive for this traditional lifestyle. I wasn't taught it but I was blessed to meet a man who wanted that for his family. It really comes down to priorities. Blessings!

[@memymo1310]

Good morning! I've been a housewife, mother and homeschooling for 11 years. And I am Black. Honestly, black women aren't taught that this is a good place to be. But let's be honest, most black women aren't seeing this (little to no examples) and marriage isn't an option because 1. Black men marry the least...especially marrying Black women. Black men date out the most and marry the least statistically. 2. Black women are the least likely to date outside their race to find a man who wants this kind of lifestyle. Number 2 is changing tho. 3. When Black women do marry within the race normally her quality of life (read income leve herel) goes down and she is the high earner in the family. You have to have a provider to be a housewife. 4. We are taught that we have to hold the family and the community down, which is a very masculine role. You have to have communities of strong men to support this shift. The Black community is lacking in this area. 5. Black women are taught to be very success-driven and that we can do it all. 6. The shade of Christianity in the black community doesn't promote this lifestyle in positive God-honoring ways collectively. Black churches tend to lean very 'social gospel' and usually the foot soldiers of social change are Black women who are doing the marching in streets. You rarely see Black men on the Frontline which, again is putting Black women in a very masculine role. There are more reasons, but these are the major ones I think. Black women have very few outlets or paths out of the hard places of their life. It is sad. And if you do find a way out there can be a lot of hate there. But I am glad that you are a voice for Black femininity and traditional gender roles. ❤ be blessed.

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Very well said! 👏👏 Especially about the branch of Christianity in most Black Communities. It's very social-leaning which perpetuates more ideological mindsets. A true church should be Biblical-centered, not politically or man-centered. Thank you for sharing! ❤

[@sikethiaw]

Yasss to all of this!!! I too am a housewife and homeschool mom! It’s THE best thing ever! I found my purpose in this life! God is amazing!

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Wonderful! God is good! ❤🙏

[@Parfumchloe]

I completely agree, you have made very valid points in which I was about to type it out myself too. For black women to become Housewives we have to have a strong Provider husbands first. Personally I am choosing to date out and marry out because the quality of black men these days is a disgrace.

[@christenford3864]

I agree that Black women need more examples of femininity or womanhood/home keeping. But let's not vilify those that are called by God to work outside of the home. We can do both. Especially if our spouses believe this is something worth pursuing.

[@imanicecelia]

Amen girl! Well said! Great video!! I am a full-time grad student but nothing brings me more joy than caring for my home, my husband, and making it a beautiful place to be every day. God bless you! 💖

[@shellieirwin4561]

This is true for all skin color & race! Being a housewife and mom are the best!

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Yes for all women! God is good. ❤

[@shellieirwin4561]

@@LifeWithBerylanne AMEN! Your channel is refreshing! Not many young women believe being a housewife is worthy enough. I am glad I stumbled upon your channel. I've been a housewife for 34 years now and have always felt like an outcast bc I haven't followed society's norm. Friends and family pursued careers outside the home while I've chosen this path. Then they wonder why I'm so calm and house and kids are organized and put together🙂.

[@KishaLray]

this was a really good video, so true. good job putting it together, GOD continue to Bless you:)

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

I appreciate it! 🙏 I hope womanhood becomes wholesome again. Thank you! ❤

[@nerlandeshirk9526]

Thank you! For speaking on this I did not really know about homemaking just learning I have the desire to become a someday if God leads me to be one

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Aw blessings on your journey to marriage and homemaking! 🙏❤ Thanks for watching. 😊

[@jacquelinejackson4500]

I was blessed to grow up around godly and beautiful home makers black and white in a small rural area in Texas. I am in my fifties now and i was a home maker myself for a while. I loved taking care of my husband and home. I am now working out of necessity to care for myself. However God has blessed me to remain feminine and soft in my journey. He has protected me from becoming a stereotypical 'Boss Lady' stripped of all feminine traits. It is a blessing to my soul to see beautiful young women of this new generation who see that 'The Emperor Has No Clothes On' as the fairy tale goes. May God shield and protect you and your husband and family. I had planned on home schooling my children as well. However, my husband and I miscarried our baby. I pray that you and your husband pray about homeschooling any children you might have. Blessings and protection around you snd your family in Jesus Holy Name! Contine to go forth in Jesus Name and be His Light❤❤❤

[@ms.delicateflower938]

I love this video. Unfortunately our community is doing everything backwards. Not all of us are but most of us are. We have to throw out the trash first and that starts with the music. It's filled with anti marriage messages.

[@thegoodwife144]

what happened to the black family in general

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

The absence of God and His ways. 😔

[@thegoodwife144]

@@LifeWithBerylanne isn’t ur husband caucasian

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

@karmasobiech9143 Yes.

[@thegoodwife144]

@@LifeWithBerylanne that is ironic

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

​@@thegoodwife144 How so..?

[@googleuser8143]

This was a fantastic video. Thank you for sharing!

[@superkitten7560]

Such a lovely, well-put message. Thank you for being so inspiring ❤️

[@gabrielleperez6548]

beautiful video!💖

[@naturallyjas25]

Amen, thank you for this video! I've been a stay at home mom for 3 years now. I love it, it's definitely a blessing to be with my children. Impact generations long term that's powerful. I'm so thankful for my husband ❤🙏🏾 You have a new subscriber! I like your content!

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Aw thanks so much! Happy to have you here! 😘

[@SomeHippieDietitian]

You are precious! thanks for speaking on this topic.

[@LifeWithBerylanne]

Aw thanks for the sweet words! ❤

[@Timetravel1819]

Amen! I love your videos! 😇😊

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Black women statistically ( not all the time) cant depend on black men to lead in the basics like providing so we step into that role unfortunately.

[@ClothedInFaith]

Love it !❤

[@savtelly3817]

We’re here but a lot of us can’t handle the toxic waste dump that is social media and don’t want our business on it. And my husband is black since that apparently matters a lot smhlol.

[@vintagebeliever5023]

Beautiful 🥰

[@JosmieNzembaLokuli]

Just wanted to say that the Messiah's real name is Yahusha. The letter J did not exist until the year 1600s. Therefore JC is not the actual name of the Messiah. Also the Most High's name is Yahuah. The pope hid the name of The Most High. Read Jeremiah 23:27. The Most High says so Himself that they will forget His name and change His name for Baal. Baal means master or lord. You can search on it yourself. Please don't harden your heart. I know it might be hard to hear or accept as you have known the Messiah's name to be JC but the truth will set you free (John 8:32). Pray and search about it. Love the video.

[@doll.ov.poetrii4682]

❤️🙏🏿

[@newcreationstudios]

Thanks for sharing this 😊