What happened to me and why i cut my hair

What happened to me and why i cut my hair
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[@adriennehilll]

New hair on POINT 🔥🔥🔥

[@jinandhattie]

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@kaiv4910]

@@jinandhattie i am judging you for this video. What an awesome person you are. Strong af 💪

[@adriennehilll]

Stay strong my love 🤍 better days are coming and we are all here for you. I have anxiety disorder and it’s honestly 10x more difficult to deal with it while in a foreign country.. sending so much strength and good vibes for you ❤️

[@autumnnoelle9658]

It really is! I also struggle with anxiety disorder and it feels so much more difficult to deal with it here..You're a strong person to Adrienne! I love and enjoy your videos :)

[@DatsRocky]

I deal with it too! On a daily basis and it’s worse when I’m traveling anywhere. Anywhere that isn’t home.

[@souzanasuzy4944]

Go to the moskey you honna be okay be muslim sis

[@katarinasakoschek5394]

So I just watched and HERE ARE MY THOUGHTS: 1. It looks amazing - definitely feeling the Alice vibe. Think of all the cute outfits and hairstyles to come! 2. I went through something traumatic too and decided to cut my hair off as a spiritual act of cutting away my past and dead ends. And it worked. 3. I liked it at first but often missed my long hair. I never regretted cutting it though: it was something I HAD to do. 4. Certain people in my life stopped talking to me ironically after cutting my hair and I realised cutting it did more than just cutting away bad vibes (it cut away people that no longer were good for me). 5. I developed more and more confidence as the months went by as I no longer 'hid behind my hair' like you say (I did the same all my life till that point)... think of it like pruning the rose that you are - or shedding the dead leaves of your tree. You are shedding, cleaning, healing and growing. 6. I was ever since taken more seriously in business (I have my own consulting business helping creatives and entrepreneurs make money online doing what they love) and I got more sales and clients than ever before. 7. I felt more aligned in a spiritual sense to my true self and purpose: I started showing up for myself, for my team, for my clients, and for mny loved ones more than ever. 8. I stopped people-pleasing as much. And I couldn't rely on my long hair to feel a sense of self worth anymore. 9. I moved to France and travelled around Italy for a few months and met the most incredible, like-minded people. 10. My hair is growing fast and I'm keeping it natural for as long as I can (the colour I had in for so long had damaged my hair really badly) and it's finally back to its natural strength and colour. 11. I got a compliment the other day on my hair and it reminded me that beauty is a vibration, an attitude. Not a physical trait like hair. Hair is important but it means so much more than most people think. In certain traditions long hair symbolises wisdom, in others short hair symbolises power, confidence and fearlessness. 12. I'm writing all of this to remind you of your own why. You wanted to cut your hair for a reason. To remind yourself of the real you. You have done it. You will have ups and downs but remember soooo many people love you. We all love you and support you 1000% even as strangers across the internet. Also, when it comes to your friendship breakup (these are the worst), there's a french saying: "une de perdue, dix de retrouvés" - meaning you lose 1 person, you find 10 more. Meaning that by letting go, you are creating new space for new people, things, opportunities, abundance, alignment. 13. There is a reason we lose people in our lives too: we change frequencies all the time and the reason you broke up is because you were on such different wavelengths that there was no way you could still keep the bond. I don't know the situation but I want to remind you that this is all happening for your highest good and ultimate purpose. When we cut our hair we raise our frequency. 14. You are enough. You are gorgeous, inside and out. You are helping SO many people just by being you. Keep going. Keep strong, like the strong soul you are. We love you!!!! You are gorgeous. Love, Katarina Sakoschek.

[@gauravmukherjee7849]

This was not a comment, this was a thesis excerpt by a noble research scientist Katarina Sakoschek. Your findings are noble and will help everyone who faces this problem. Congratulations

[@katarinasakoschek5394]

@@gauravmukherjee7849 I appreciate this so much - just based on experience !! hope it helps anyone going through something similar

[@_winter_maryrose4684]

@@katarinasakoschek5394 thank you so much you have no idea that I needed this, thank you!💞💕✌️🙏 I am actually (getting out of quickly now!) going through a really hard time in my life and this was something I needed to hear to just give me that boost of energy and reassurance. (Even more by the fact that you on the other side of the world just so randomly! shared your experience of love with us). Im very positive rn, thank you💞💕❤️ 🙏🙏💕

[@katarinasakoschek5394]

@@_winter_maryrose4684 I'm so happy this helped. I just felt compelled to share my experience in the hopes of helping someone like YOU

[@raeanne8360]

Hey Hattie, this really hit close to home and brought me to tears. Your words of encouragement we’re powerful to me, more than you know. I will be on this journey with you, let’s keep fighting 💪🏾🇬🇧

[@judyf3090]

Same . I needed to hear this . Thank you !

[@notmynaam5489]

Every girl deserves a boyfriend/spouse like Jin. He is Hattie’s biggest encouragement, biggest motivator, cheerleader, supporter and the one who lifts her up more than anyone. Truly he is the best partner a girl can have, Hattie you are so so so fortunate, I wish you a lifetime of happiness together , im so happy to see that you guys are truly best friends❤it will be the best marriage !!

[@pklass8718]

Agreed! I need two like him… for my daughters, lol!

[@kellimayor4580]

I love you Hattie. You are a very strong, kind, genuine person. Stress can really impact you mentally, emotionally and physically. I'm glad you are doing your best to make yourself take control back from a negative traumatic experience. I think that is key in life is to not let a trauma drag you down and keep you down. You are amazing. You have a wide support in fans and Jin and family. Sending internet hugs.

[@yvonnegrant5298]

Hattie, after 30 years of being with my husband through major family illnesses, many happy times, and raising two boys, I've found that it is a good thing that we don't know what the future holds for us. The bad times will bring us down, but the spunky spirit inside of us will bring us better times. Your hair looks really pretty short so just listen to Jin. My hair journey also lead me to cut my hair short about a month ago......stress was not my friend and changed my hair.....so a haircut really helped. You are blessed with Jin and know that all of us here in KZbin land will not judge you, but support you and pray that tomorrow is a little brighter for you. Also, short hair is so much fun to style.....change your part, get creative with the curling iron, and headbands look really great on short hair.....have fun with it.

[@bethh5613]

Sorry to hear you’ve had a difficult time! I imagine however that lots of viewers can relate & appreciate your honesty in speaking about it. I know I’ve felt like this before, and I think as difficult as some days may be, there is always a new tomorrow. ❤️ p.s. your hair looks so good, like a boss female movie protagonist 😍

[@fishfingers8441]

Stay strong!!! I always get upset when online creators think they have this responsibility to share every detail of their up and downs with their audience so I felt relieved that you feel you can address what happened only to the extent your comfortable with. Even if it is more for legal reasons, I want you to know that you don’t need to feel inclined to share what you experienced at all unless a day comes you feel it’ll be helpful for you, we are always here regardless so don’t feel pressure to talk about that stuff!! Never knew I could feel so proud of someone I’ve never met haha, you’re one strong las, your new hair is beautiful and maybe will make you feel a lil weight off your shoulders I hope ❤️ take care of your self and well done Jin for your support, your more amazing than you realise ok xx

[@jinandhattie]

Thank you!!!!xx

[@srpluv]

@@jinandhattie awh, i love u guys!! take care of each other well and don’t let people take u down hattie!! and dw we love ur hair 🥺💘💞💞

[@brandontrammel4581]

Facts

[@oogaboogass]

I'm studying psychology,and I'm so glad you're talking about it and not hiding anymore it's the first step to healing!!all my love and support to you queen ❤️

[@spotlight2531]

I don't know you but am about to enter collage.i want to learn psychology. Is it a hard subject and is it the only subject I have to learn if I want to

[@oogaboogass]

@@spotlight2531 it is definitely harder than it seems with a minimum wage pay (in my country atleast) study is definitely harder with a salary on the low side, you can definitely take more subjects with it it depends on where you live fr. I would say go for it if you genuinely care about people and want to help not because of the money.

[@oogaboogass]

@Hana☆ yes definitely!! I have anxiety btw also therapy helps I go to therapy for it and it's working so heal yourself before you heal others,even doctors get diseases yk lol it's all good

[@shinjid3705]

@@oogaboogass wait dont u open ur own place when u finish? Cant u decide what price u charge for ur customers?

[@user-tt9uw4ip9f]

영상에서 워낙 밝으셔서 이렇게 많은 힘든 일이 있을 거라곤 생각도 못했네요ㅠㅠ 이런 말 꺼내기까지 쉽지 않으셨을텐데 용기 정말 대단하세요!!👍 감정들을 숨기고 싶지 않고, 모든 걸 저희와 공유하고 싶다는 말에 감동받았어요:) 해티님 영상에서 꼭 밝은 모습만 보여주려고 노력 안해도 돼요! 저희는 있는 그대로의 해티님을 사랑하는 거니까요💗(물론 진우님도ㅎㅎ/ 이렇게 괄호에 진우님이 쓰신 자막이 인상깊어서 저도 똑같이 해봤습니다,,ㅋㅋㅋ) 그리고 해티님 머리 너무 예뻐요ㅠㅠㅠ 얼굴이 엄청 예쁘시니 뭘 하든 최고!!! Hattie you look pretty🥰 항상 응원하겠습니닷

[@IsabelRodriguez-gb7tu]

Okay I'm always like all for the long hair, but GIRL, that hairstyle genuinely looks so pretty on you! For real! It suits your face!

[@hirozero146]

I agree she looks best with short hairs

[@22emme22]

So sorry to hear you've been struggling. I too have been through trauma recently and also cut my hair from almost waist length(!) to bob length and it was so freeing for me as well. My hairdresser also cut mine too short lol but at least it's healthy and alive again. And it made me feel more like me. I'm slowly feeling more myself and I hope you find yourself again soon too. I really recommend a book called "The Body Keeps the Score" by Vessel van der Kolk. It's an incredible book about mental health and healing from trauma no matter what you've been through. It has lots of research on the best ways to heal from trauma as well. If you're worried about being triggered, you could always get someone to read it for you and highlight the parts that aren't triggering. I hope this helps, stay strong and well done for being brave enough to share your story. You're not alone. Lots of love from England ❤x

[@tamaramorrison2333]

I'm glad you are seeking help, both with medication and therapy. You don't have to share with us, more than you're comfortable with. You are strong and you will get through all that you're going through. We support you and wish you great physical and mental health!! Your hair looks good at any length, so don't stress about it!

[@marlennemartinez3197]

[@TessaBetke12]

Thank you for even telling us the bare minimum Hattie. I can’t imagine what you and people who’ve felt like you have been through because I’ve never been through it myself, but whatever horrible things happened I’m so happy you’re taking small steps to go into a better era. That goes for everyone too. I’m happy that you are venturing into a new era ❤️ I’m rooting for everyone that’s going through this

[@RoseRW]

we love you hattie

[@sunduk0219]

Omg Hattie! 😍😍 You looked super cool today! I told you that you look beautiful with short hair. It’s really suitable for you! You would be fine after few days you just need to get used to it cause you let the bad memories go with it! And I wanna say I’m always there for you and cheering you girl! 💕 Also I love Jin’s reaction tho. He is so sweet and you guys are wonderful friends of us! Love you 😍 Sora

[@jinandhattie]

Omg thank you so much for being such an amazing friend!!!! 💖 love you too 💖💖💖

[@suef.8969]

Hi Hattie, I go by the saying: every stage of our life we meet someone for a reason and that person we think we will never leave, but it's not the case because people come and go (like seasons) into our life to teach us something or be there for us for sometime, some stay and some go for a reason. I understand what you're going through. I've been through the same thing I cut my hair when i was no longer friends with my only best friend 2 years ago and we were best friends for 10 years. I always remember the good memories with my friend but same time it was best for us to let go. People change but life keeps moving on, we need to keep moving too. Wishing you all the best and your new hair looks cool it's a nice change 😊

[@Jirokun1337]

Hattie looks so beautiful with new hair cut! Just remember, there's 1.6M ppl out there love what you guys do and all the positive energy you both bring in each video. We all here to support you 2!

[@Soobakguthartgi]

진짜 장난없다 너무예쁨… 나도 얼마전에 인생을 나눈 친구랑 인연을 끊어서 해티의 기분을 비슷하게나마 느낄수 있어서그런지 넘넘 안아주고 싶음.. 근데 진우 반응 ㄹㅇ임 내 눈앞에 해티가 저러고 나타나도 난리쳤을거임 진짜 너무너무 예쁨 ㅠㅠㅠ

[@nourmohmoud460]

i have never related to someone that much i even cried with you, hattie we feel you and almost everybody has passed through a low part in our lives and its happens to make us stronger I'm so proud of you for sharing this with us and for being confident enough to free yourself by cutting you hair now its a new journey new hair new hattie i love you, stay strong your hair is also very pretty

[@madz1402]

going through a really hard time right now too and needed this to be honest. hattie you look amazing with that haircut. genuinely. makes me want to cut mine that short too. not only do i use my hair as my safety’s blanket, but it plays into my OCD as i have trichotillomania. so in a way, it’d probably be good for me to take that away inspiring

[@red23412]

Stay strong Hattie, you are such a brave, strong and beautiful human being!!! ❤️ Everyone is here for you. I'm currently feeling lost because of something that has happened and I don't really like myself atm, so I'm going to follow your lead, thank you Hattie 💜 you can do this!!! (I love your new hairdo it suits you) 🥰

[@cynkruse26]

Girl, that hairstyle is absolutely gorgeous on you!!!!! Jin was speaking literal facts. Keep feeling strong, and we’re all here to support! ❤️

[@user-ue3jz7ks3l]

해티 언니는 뭘 해도 다 아름다워요💜 짱짱 강하니까 다 이겨낼 수 있을 거에용 그리고 말하기 싫으면 앞으로도 굳이 힘들게 설명하지 안 해도 돼요🫠💛 해티 언니 화이팅🌸🌸🌸

[@adritasinha7039]

just speaking about this to a community you have no idea how they will react to is the most courageous thing a person can do. Hang in there we all are here for you take caree

[@zedx6674]

Hey Hattie. I can't say that I know exactly what you're going through but I have had PTSD anxiety and depression from a young age and I know how difficult it is to cope with these things. So glad you shared this with us. Never been able to relate to a person more. I'm just a drop in this ocean of people who love and care about you. Stay strong. You can overcome this, like you said - life is too short. Love you. Internet hugs x ❤️

[@justalittleiris823]

We’re all here for you❤️ I’ve dealt with severe anxiety my whole life, it does get easier it just takes time. I went through a very traumatic event in 2020 and I’m still dealing with it. We all love you Hattie and wish you the best❤️❤️💗❤️💗💗❤️

[@Itsmanila]

Hattie. Thank you for this video. I've been going through a long and tiring journey of getting my happiness and confidence back and to know I am not alone makes me feel so much stronger than I felt an hour ago. I like the idea of all of us going through this journey in obtaining our true selves back. And your hair looks amazing!!!!! You could shave your head and still rock it, girl! Much love!

[@louisebutler3390]

I’m sorry you’ve been feeling this way. Well done for reclaiming your mojo. You look gorgeous as usual. You’ve got this! Go Hattie! xx 🥰

[@lilybethbibby2]

I've been struggling with PTSD, depression and anxiety since I was 14, thankyou for being brave and showing me im not alone that it's OK to struggle and that I need to get my spark back and not let this control me anymore😇 love you guys, and damn you look hot with that hair

[@korean__world]

Hattie we love you so much!!!! We want the best for you, don't feel alone we are all here for you!!!

[@switzerland5550]

해티 언니ㅠㅠㅠㅠ🥺🥺 밝은 영상 뒤에는 힘드셨다니.. 넘모 슬퍼요 끄흑ㅜㅜㅜㅠㅠㅠㅠ 그래도 다시 기운 차리고!! 스스로 다시 이겨내려고 하는 모습이 멋져요 ⭐️⭐️ AND HATTIE, REALLY REAALY YOU LOOK PRETTY 😭🤍🤎 진짜로 숏컷 너무 이쁜데요..? 언니 보고 현타왓잖아요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 앞으로도 응원할게요💕 행운이 가득하기를🍀🍀 LUCKY

[@switzerland5550]

Wow 우왕!!! 하트 곰아워요😽☺️

[@savannahalexandre4198]

I actually discovered your channel a couple years ago when I was very depressed, not knowing how to be myself anymore. And your channel, the pureness of you both, and honest and joyful community you foster actually helped me feel better. It has taken a long time to get back to myself, and I’m not all the way there yet, but thank you for being you. I wish you the best on you’re journey to recover your fantastic self. 🥰

[@nian__2859]

Hattie I really appreciate your honesty ❤️ I just wanted to let you know that you're loved and I'm really really proud of you. Glad to see Jin's support and your decision for a change (I know that it's not easy). Don't rush yourself and take your time, it's okay! There's no need to overdo yourself. Take care ❤️

[@abigailquirk8138]

I frickin love your hair ngl - I think it makes you look confident and glowing! I have suffered through things that left me feeling empty and not myself, but I am starting to take my life back and learn it only makes us stronger in the end. Whatever you have been through and continue to fight through, you've got this! We all love you

[@_alpha_n_the_witch]

You look so pretty with this hairstyle, Hattie💕 I'm also going through some hard times rn, so your intro made me feel a lot better, thank you for that and thank for opening up to us🤗 Sending you the biggest hugs, we love you sm💜

[@girlwith4cats]

Thank you for trusting us enough to be vulnerable and share what you’re feeling 💜 I haven’t felt myself since the start of the pandemic. It’s been two years and each day I feel less hopeful that’ll I’ll feel like me again. So thank you for your encouraging words, it uplifted my spirits a bit 🥲💕 Sending lots of love your way!

[@lillyroehr3457]

First of all It looks amazing Hattie! You look absolutely beautiful! I went trough a lot myself as well and felt way better after getting a new hair cut. Many people don’t understand that, but it just gives more confidence and makes you feel strong and independent again. It really helps overcome the trauma. I really hope you feel better soon and I’m extremely proud of you for making this video!

[@shannonheartsuu]

I’m so glad you shared this with us. I hope you can find your way back to your full self again and take time to process it all and leave it behind. I’m so excited for your hair btw, now I really want to see the Alice styled hair. ❤️

[@inesouehbi2611]

We love you Hattie, you’re really strong and powerful. I can’t imagine how difficult it’s for you to talk about your situation, so 👏👏. And we’re all here to support you. We’re your friends/family/subscribers so we love you and are proud of you. Idk what happened but I’m sorry

[@joeyyyff9642]

We're here for you girl! You do what you Gotta do! I'll be praying for you...you're so strong I know you'll bounce back stronger than ever before

[@TheClionaJ]

Stay positive 🥰. I know what it feels like coming out the other side of traumatic incidents and how getting a transforming hair cut represents a new start! Keep being you and keep being strong! This too shall pass 🥰

[@stelakehayova774]

Hattieeee omgg you're soo incredibly beautiful and strong and just the most amazing thing on tjis planet!!! I swear when i saw the new haircut i was in awe...... You're so precious to everyone here, and we all love you soo so much you have no idea ❤️❤️❤️

[@khloecalvert9809]

Stay strong Hattie! I love you, and if I could give you a massive hug, I would. I'm so proud of how strong you have bee. You truly deserve the world. I love how genuine and kind you are, you honestly seeem like a great person to be friends with and to be around with. If you feel that you ever need to focus on yourself and your mental health and you feel like you need to take a break, go for it! You absolutely deserve it! Thank you so much for being honest with us, your fans. We love you! Continue being strong, you've got this! I love you!

[@oakpkdude]

After watching how sweet and supportive Jin is I would think you would be a very happy girl because he clearly loves you very much.

[@Prxncessvaleria]

Hattie, I’m so happy that you’re doing what feels best for you. That’s what matters most. 💕 I agree with Jin, it is pretty. I’m sorry it’s not what you wanted. Jin is soo incredibly supportive. short hair is easier to manage esp. if you’re depressed or having a hard time taking care of it, it will grow back stronger and healthier. Healthy hair is worth it. believe me. I’m struggling to get my youthful hair back. I regret how horribly I’ve treated it in the past. so bad hair isn’t forever, it will grow out and it will grow out beautifully.

[@katarinasakoschek5394]

keeping this vid as an open tab to watch now. here for you x

[@queenVivi1]

Hi Hattie. Thank you for being open with us. I’ve experienced trauma in my childhood and never went to therapy. Your video encourages me to get help. I’ve always struggled in silence and I think it’s time to end that cycle. Thank you for sharing your story. 😊

[@abbeyberning]

Hattie I genuinely love your hair! I’ve always been amazed at how great you and Jin are are stopping the stigma behind mental health. I’m just sorry you’re having to deal with such a majorly stressful situation. I’m wishing you the best ♥️

[@TiffARMY]

your hair is gorgeous! And if you feel it is too sort, it won't take long for it to grow more. I love you Hattie! Whatever you are going through, please know we are with you and love you! Jin, please continue to be the amazing support system you have been for her.

[@SilverStormPax1996]

Hattie you are a beautiful, inspiring woman! The short hair looks beautiful! ♥ As hard as I know this was for you, thank you for speaking on the subject of mental health. As someone who struggles with anxiety, depression, and ptsd, youve been a massive, massive inspiration to me. ✨ As cliché as it is to say, I support you. I hope to encourage you. I know in the reality of things, I'm just someone from the internet typing out words on a comment section. But I do understand some of what you are going through. Breaking it off with a best friend, is extremely hard. Especially, when they are the ones to betray you. One of the sayings I have about depression that really seems to stick with people who don't struggle with it, is this. I tell them. "Do not pretend to understand. Do not pretend to know what we, who struggle, are going through. Until you have held a knife in your hands, only to have the courage to put it back, walk away, and rebuild your life, you wont understand. You will never understand what it is like to be so low, to be so down, to be so completely broken that you feel there is only one way out, only to have the strength, by no one else but your own strength, to get back up and fight like hell." This usually causes people who take mental health to lightly to take a step back and think for second. Struggling with mental health isn't a choice either, to many people think we choose it. We don't choose it. We don't want to feel that way. Telling someone who struggles with mental health to "think happy thoughts" "it could be worse" "its not that bad" "youre just dramatic" when you tell someone who struggles these things, you are breaking them down further. You aren't helping them. Sorry I know this is a long comment. Very passionate about this subject. Just know Hattie, that even though I am just an internet username on YT 😊, I support you, my heart understands, and Your light shines bright. You are and will accomplish such great things in this world. ♥

[@ambarista5064]

Hattie, thank you! What you said in this video has helped me immensely. My mental health has been on the rocks, most especially for the past couple of years, and I had begun to feel pretty alone. Thank you so much for helping me to feel I’m not alone in this! You can and will get through this, love you tons Hattie! 💕

[@kylahknowles7460]

Thank you for opening up about your struggles!!! Praying for you!!

[@valeriemellman6485]

Im so proud of you hattie it genuinely looks amazing on you, it would also look good with some thin curtain bangs. Were all here to support you!

[@ElizabethOB1998]

Hattie, you are so strong and amazing. I know you were using a bit of comedy as a coping mechanism but you are such an amazing person and your guys' videos put a smile on my face whether I am having a bad day or good day. I know the feeling of cutting your hair as an attempt to find yourself again and it doesn't go exactly how you had planned. However, Hattie, your hair looks great x

[@moomooflower123]

I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through a lot, but I'm glad to know you have multiple pillars of support to help you during this rough time. Thank you for trusting us enough to share it with us🥺 I know how tough it can be with mental health... so I wish you the best during this healing journey of yours, you have my support!!! ❤❤❤ Also, that haircut is the absolute CUTEST!!! Short haircuts like those are great for rocking so many elegant/chic, cute, fierce, girl crush, etc looks 😁😁 Even though it wasn't what you were going for... I think you pull off this haircut amazingly~ IT LOOKS SO GOOD!!❤

[@charlottedelautre6433]

It's sooooooooo lovely !!! Don't worry, take your confidence back 'cause you look sooooooo pretty with this hair ! Stay strong and believe in yourself ! You are a beautiful person and don't forget that. When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show her that you have a thousand reasons to smile. All I want for you guys, it's happiness and love ! I sincerely hope that my comment will help you Hattie...

[@meth_vi12.17]

Omg Hattie!!! How can you be so pretty to every hair cut, hair style!!! My queen is always stunning

[@rikhmjustsomeguywithmousta4971]

Stay Strong Hattie, we are with you. I’m glad you have someone like Jin who can share your emotions and make you feel more comfortable in this phase The Hair Looks Good

[@csk88]

You look gorgeous with your new hair style Hattie!!

[@M1LKYH43CH4NS]

This genuinely made me cry out tears ive been holding in for about a year now. Ive been struggling to figure out why my mental health has been deteriorating. Ive had very hard struggles and issues the past year also i cant legally talk about. But seeing that someone i watch and has been cheering me up has simlar issues. Its made me feel better knowing im not technically alone. I haven't been to school for a week bc i cant even get out of bed. Seeing this made me smile. Im gonna get up and go to school tomorrow. Im sure my friends miss me. Thank you Hattie. (Jin too ofc)

[@ngozichukwukaawanyai3043]

You look Gorgeous Hattie 🔥🔥🔥 just know the fam is here for you😘

[@Enyde59]

Oh my dear Hattie, you look beautiful! For us you're really pretty, and that's the energy you are transmitting! I completely understand how you feel, I'm on that journey too! Let's keep moving forward with all the struggle, happy moments, and learning! Let's live! Jin is so cool and so kind for supporting you like this! Love both of you! Sending light! ❤️💞🕯️🕯️

[@TheJoycee112]

Thank you for sharing. That must've been really difficult to actually say out loud. I've also been having mental health problems and I'm too scared to actually get help so all I do is texting my friends about it. Its good to hear/see that you want ti feel better and I'm happy that Jin is there for you. Your hairstyle looks good on you! Maybe get a few cute/cool hairclips to make it more fun?

[@lilumartini]

I love this! Jin is so right! Love your humor together! And love jin's support of hattie so much!

[@joanna980]

You look stunning 🤍 We love you Hattie, stay strong!

[@alainadacosta1222]

It looks so cute Hattie! It accentuates your piercings and suits you. Also, thank you for sharing about your struggles, sending support!

[@eunjioppa4803]

Hattie, first of all, you look absolutely incredible with that new hair. You're genuinely one of the prettiest people I've seen in my entire life. Even if you put a trash bag on your head you will still look like a goddess to me. And secondly, you opening up and your words about mental health are what I really needed to hear right now. I'm also going through a lot. This is the most I've ever had to deal with in my life. I have a loving boyfriend who is very very far from me and I feel very alone most of the time, I'm also very depressed and anxious, to the point where even my boyfriend sometimes gives me anxiety without any reason. But I'm trying not to give up and fight every day. It's hard. very hard to be fighting to feel happy and peaceful and it's so easy to get down the negative spiral. And It makes me feel very heard and seen, listening to you. You gave me the comfort I've been needing for a very long time. So, thank you for that. I hope and I believe that we can get through this and we can gain ourselves back sooner or later. I love you both a lot and I wish nothing but the best. Sending all of my love to you

[@ks8630]

OK BUT THE HAIR LITERALLY WAS LIKE WOWWW THAT LOOKS SO PRETTY, I’ve been going through so much and recently have been going out of my comfort zone and trying to be happier but I’ve realized I’ve also hid behind my hair, by keeping it black and long, and ofc my hair is different from ur perspective of hair, my long hair signifies strength and every lesson I’ve learned it just signifies my growth even tho I have thought of a cut but instead of black hair I’m thinking of dying it lighter to feel more free !!! You got this Hattie and ur not alone, I can promise you that! Ik u said not to comment on it but for the thing that happened, many other people probably have been through that, and you can be the strength you wished to see in other ppl that might have happened to !!!! I love you ! We all love you hattie ! Just work on elevating ur soul more and being positive !! You got thisss beautiful !!!!!🖤🖤🖤🖤 I’m on ur journey with you .. I’m trying to get way better myself and over come my past.. it’s time to forgive ourselves and live our life to the fullest instead of living with a mindset that sets us back and makes u scared or frigid to live to the best of our abilities .. it’s time to break free! I hope everything goes well Hattie, and Jin as well🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🖤🖤 사랑에 🖤 Ps. This video just gave me a lot of hope and I don’t feel so alone anymore

[@Bohemknit]

you're adorable and I am proud of you for speaking out so bravely about your struggles. we all need to be more open about this issue and face ourselves with honesty and sincerity. don't forget to be gentle w/ yourself as you move forward.

[@mattiehill2796]

You are amazing! I have loved watching all of you all’s videos! I just have to say, Hattie, I am going through something very similar as you in this moment of life. I have been feeling very low, depressed and somewhat numb and you have given me so much joy in your videos. I will support you all no matter what! And Thank you Hattie for giving great advice and helping me get my confidence and control of my life back! Sending so much love! 💜💜 Love the new hair cut! Very beautiful!

[@theafourie2747]

Hattie you look so beautiful with the short hair! Thank you for sharing with us. I had gone through a really stressful and depressing time some time back. I was reminded that I was able to work through that and become the person I am now even though it was hard. I support you and I hope you can find your full self again! 💜💜

[@1ovesyou]

Thank you, Hattie! I've also been struggling recently more so with health issues that then triggered my anxiety & depression and the first thing I wanna do when I'm feeling better is CUT MY HAIR 😂 It really is symbolic, isn't it? A transformation into better days ✨️

[@JayleeEnn]

Seeing this late, but just wanted to say you still look lovely with short hair, Hattie. You have the face to pull it off! Happy healing ❤️

[@marusatopa5670]

we are really proud of you hattie

[@elizabethblueful]

Hello Hattie! I want to say that you are strong, courages, and beautiful! 💪 Thank you so much for this video, and I’m sending virtual hugs to you. By the way, your new hair cut is amazing! You are rocking it, and we love you!!!!! 💜💜💜

[@librakels3844]

Your new hair is giving 90's celeb/model vibes and I'm so here for it! I really love it; it looks so good on you!

[@cloudiaryeo]

The hairstyle looks amazing on you!! With sincerity and love ❤

[@elizainesse5521]

I smiled through the whole video, because of how proud I am, it's like you said we're all like a big family and seeing MY big sister go through something tough and being able to share it shows how brave you are. Anxiety and depression as a combination is shitty really and people don't understand the daily struggles of not doing what you loved or constantly worrying and questioning yourself. So proud of you Hattie. You will get through this with the help of Jin and also this family as well. We all believe you can. I also cut my hair a few years back because like you I felt like it was holding me back. I did a HUGE chop, it felt as if a lot of weight had been lifted from my shoulders. You do what you think and know is best. No judgement because we all love you cause if not why would we be sitting here watching your videos you know. I've followed you for some time and you're an incredible person. You will get through this, there's light at the end of the tunnel love. I love you and hope for the best. PS the hair is beautiful like Jin said your face goes well with the face you're pretty already. It really do match your face shape. Just beautiful. You got this mamas.

[@lauraberner1575]

Girly, I understand what you're going through and I'm so glad that you're making an effort to build yourself back up again. I've also had to make some changes in my life recently due to my deteriorating mental health, and I've already begun to feel so much better! Stay strong and we can get through this together! This includes anyone who is feeling this way 😊 Also, your hair looks stunning! 😍💇‍♀

[@user-cm5tv3qg8o]

thank you so much for sharing hattie, you are beautiful and will always be such an amazing positive light in all our lives and those you surround yourself with. Not to compare in the slightest, but I have been having a really tough time recently especially last night was not good at all, and waking up hearing this video really helped in some way that we can all become stronger together a little bit everyday. thank you hattie, so much 💛

[@lmg633]

BIG VIRTUAL HUGS! My heart feels you. I know the devastation of trauma. I did the same thing at the end of last year - got a haircut and it was the same style! (But I went prematurely grey & owning it, stress & trauma turned me grey) It looks better on you than me! It'll grow alongside the journey of your healing spirit & getting your joy back. Lots of love!!

[@Nekochan093]

Honestly Hattie you’re so pretty you suit any hair style! I know what you mean about using hair as a comfort blanket. I didn’t cut my hair for about three years because I felt like I was holding onto it because of a traumatic relationship I had. It took me a while to be able to cut it off but I finally did it! In time we will work our trauma out. You should be so proud of yourself x

[@ContoseFadas.]

Sweet Hattie! You’re so loved! 💓 just know that. And also I’ve always thought you look stunning in short hair! Sending you energies of healing and love. Also just to add: I did the same thing last year! My hair as it is in my profile picture is right when I was in my lowest and wanted to do something radical. I’ve kept it that way ever since. It did help me!

[@nkdounia3034]

Thank you so much for sharing your story , it's actually motivating hearing all your positivity despite all what happened to you , the " you don't feel as you anymore" I am in that phase , I just told a friend " feels like there is a voice inside of me screaming help me !!" I wish you best of luck thank you again 🙏

[@btsarmyhere4359]

You're an amazing inspiration Hattie we all love you.

[@Shubham-mt9ur]

Don't be disappointed we all are with you Hattie . We love you both Hattie and Jin . Stay safe and healthy 💝

[@shaylaanne1621]

My heart goes out to you, Hattie. You're not entitled to tell us anything and even letting us in on your more emotional state is heartwarming. all we need to know is that you're well, and so beyond happy you're taking back your control, love

[@parisbastable1785]

I lost my mum late January this year a few days after her 62nd birthday, the way I dealt with it was piercing my tongue and dying the front of my hair pink, sometimes a change in things helps to feel slightly better. You’re hair looks super gorgeous. I hope things get better for you Hattie. 💗

[@nathalie73109]

Thank you Hattie💜 I'm currently working on self-love, and recently someone did something that really took a toll on my mental health. Today your words gave me comfort, confidence and encouragement. It reminded me that we are never alone❤ Thank you once again!! Ps. Your hair looks absolutely stunning! You look beautiful (as you always do) in this hairstyle- which on a scale from 1 to 10 is an 11 becuse you rock it!!!!

[@teahyungisafurry5857]

Hattie I'm here for you stay strong you got this

[@jadefornini]

Fighting Hattie we love you 💗💗

[@vantae0613]

i love the new look! take care of yourself hattie 💗

[@MissAshleyCakes]

You genuinely look so beautiful. The style suits you so much! And don't worry, you will get through this difficult time. He perfectly said it. He is there for you, we are there for you. Stay strong! ♡

[@constance4869]

This hair is really cute, you have a beautiful face. It will grow back in no time anyways. 🥰 Do more of what makes you happy and leave everyone else's opinions at the door. You deserve to live your best life.

[@myahridurdynazarova2406]

Hattie, don’t worry about hair, You look gorgeous with anything on you, any type of haircut, with/without make up. We love you because of YOU, not your look. Just stay strong!

[@CL-di3te]

Hattie you look amazing!! I'm sending my heart to you

[@DigSamSam613]

You are precious Hattie and YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Mental Health is important. Thank you for sharing YOUR story. Impactful. Your words connected with me. Brave woman. Also, Short hair is very becoming on you. Jin is so supportive and equally precious! 💜