What happened to this American in 7 years in the Filipino family

[@TheSunflower777]

I am from the Philippines and British passport holder. I worked abroad (UAE/Scotland/Norway) since 1978. In 2022 I returned here in the Philippines to retire. Bought a condo in Manila and just finished building my 7 bedrooms all en-suite retirement home in the province 2 hours drive by car from Manila. I adopted my eldest sister and her husband who are in their 80's and do not have children and only finished grade 5 in school. I also adopted my younger sister whose contract was terminated in Dubai because of Covid. If I will not allow them to live with me in the provinces - they will end up begging in the streets! I also built a pet area for their rescued 50 plus dogs and cats from Dubai and Manila. The Bible says we are the extension of God's helping hands. Do you think I will have a peaceful sleep thinking my sister's are begging in the streets while I am enjoying the fruits of my hardwork abroad? My conscience tells me to help them and God will pay me back - and I thank God I am blessed to be a blessing to my family who ended up poor to no fault of their own. I am Westernised in my thinking but I kept the compassion in my heart.

[@JEMADEMUSIC]

I sing my heart for you.Job well done in this life Maam/Sir❤❤🎉🎉

[@JoC-l2h]

May I ask what you did for a job when you were working? What a fascinating life.

[@JonnimartGalvez]

Yes choose to be kind... be a blessing to others especially to your family

[@elmira6672]

Your blessed by God and you share your blessings to your sibling. Your role in life fulfill. God bless you long life to enjoy yout fruit of your hardship.

[@critique7767]

God bless you sir

[@gilbysstroem]

My mum is filipina brasileira and my dad is russian-(sweddish/ norwegian)-american. When my dad died in russia, my grandmother kicked us out of the house cause she doesnt honor me and my siblings as her grandchildren. We were forced to live by the forest and freeze in the snow in winter, with the fear of getting pounced and eaten by wolves and bears. Until a filipino christian couple helped us to come home to the Philippines first in zamboanga then in lanao. By my 11th birthday, we went to cavite city in cavite province to settle for good. I worked as a young fisherman, as thats the most common and available job for the local people. Then after two years i was offered a job in bicol province to work as a farmer and house keeper to help my mother from all the bills, for food and shelter and to study highschool. Ive been verbally and emotionally abused back then so i moved back to cavite and worked as an errandboy to the priests. They sent me to medical and forensic school here and in abroad and for that i am so greatful and with deep gratitude to all of the priests who helped me reach my dream. Now im a law equipment. From a forest boy to a senior detective. I am proud to be my mother's son. I am proud to be filipino

[@TheMaiah13]

Wow! Amazing life ❤

[@gilbysstroem]

@@TheMaiah13 thank you. The Lord provides 😊

[@TheMaiah13]

@@gilbysstroem indeed He does! My whole life is a testament of that. Including how I left the Phils with just $20 in my pocket and now live comfortably in Canada.

[@gilbysstroem]

@@TheMaiah13 dreaming of the same thing, to live in canada.☺️

[@gilbysstroem]

@@TheMaiah13 may the Lord bless you more!

[@lilie9516]

I love how he explained the culture more than the "dating" aspect. He appreciates wife not because she is Filipina but because she is wonderful as a person. I love how he did not encourage people to go to Philippines just to date and get married. I know people wanna retire and find a wife here but that's not the only thing Philippines can offer. There are misconceptions about women here. Foreigners thought Filipinas are submissive like any other asian countries do. Filipinas have values different from neighboring countries cause we have mix of west and east culture. Filipinas are family oriented like asians are and ambitious and confident like westerners are. They will not bow on you because are a man. They will like you because you are worthy husband.

[@elyc.1554]

Agree😀

[@chris_2208]

Before the Spaniards came Filipino society was mainly matriarchal.

[@hcir5341]

Money.

[@belenbalageo]

Super agree. Very well said. Salute to you

[@LenieBiasura16H]

Best comment

[@dannynicart2389]

Having a Filipina wife has given me valuable insights into Filipino culture. Although my family and I reside in North America, we frequently visit the Philippines.

[@Cons2911]

Imagine teaching your kids the best of both culture

[@rn4395]

Detroit and Michigan very close to Canada we are neighbour...6months of snow.😂😂😂

[@rn4395]

8months of cold ...lots of ghettos.😮

[@arlynfortajada9981]

Well, you did a good decision moving to American because if you get sick in philippines you will not survive. The hospital there are very expensive.

[@cherryblossom4567]

An American and a Russian talking , in one of the friendliest place on earth. ❤

[@nikkilogan7726]

It feels very different when they are talking about loving the Philippines rather than fighting with each other politically

[@rizalitogomba6303]

We lived in a place wherein the first family were set on land...to till it to survive from their sweats of their brows of eyes...the very soil they're made of...WHAT I AM TALKING? ADAM AND HAWAH...LIVED HERE IN ONE OF THESE ISLANDS IN THE EAST...IN THEIR TIME IT WAS CALLED MOUNT SEPHAR WHERE THE ONLY GATE GOING TO THE GARDEN OF EDEN WERE LOCATED AND GUARDED BY A SERAPHIM...READ THE TAWRAH... REFERENCE, The God Culture video series and Bible.... That is the very reason that Ophir never invaded any country or land that is not ours...we claim only for what was given by our brothers in helping them (Sultanate of Sulu and North Borneo in their land given by Sultane of Brunei...about Sabah)...THIS IS THE VERY REASON THAT WE LOVE ALL THE RACE OF THE WORLD NO MATTER WHAT... BECAUSE WE BELIEVE THAT ALL HUMANKIND CAME FROM ADAM AND HAWAH...❤❤ YADAH ABBA ELOHIM YHWH ❤️❤️ YADAH ELOHIM YHWH YASHA HA MASHYACH ❤️❤️ YADAH ELOHIM RAWACH HA QADASH ❤️❤️ Please radiate LOVE ❤️❤️

[@rizalitogomba6303]

@@nikkilogan7726 very good feeling like to see the world loving each other rather than fighting and lambasting each other ❤️❤️

[@marjunmarcelocristobal2678]

We are all Breathing the same AIR..What you breathe OUT maybe the same AIR i breathe IN..and vice versa!! We need to understand and Love each other!

[@dennis.14344]

thank you so much for liking our country. hope you visit more often..

[@zzzzzsleeping]

This guy is no complainer. He is just like a Filipino enduring everything the nature throw in to him. Very rare to find in the west these days. American learning Filipino resilience.

[@augustom.cantos8967]

Opo, mababait po ang mga Pinoy

[@wynncruz1467]

@@rounder400 But are they happy people?Filipinos may have lacked with fortune, but they are pleased and joyful despite their lack of it.

[@wavemaker2077]

@@rounder400 The Philippine economy is growing fast. It is fast approaching the economy of Thailand which was already miles away from the Philippines just a decade ago.

[@SkatemeRockme]

@@rounder400 Yeah life is all about balance, Filipinos don't need to change all the way to "being a complainer" but also shouldn't be too passive as in accepting everything, nice middle ground would do wonders.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

@@wavemaker2077 hope so man people needs help

[@NadegeNormil]

Just came back from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and it stole my heart 🥰. I love the people, food and vibes. The friendliest people on earth!!!! ❤

[@MaryjeanCabatic]

Thanks that you appreciate my country❤

[@TheMaiah13]

❤❤❤

[@franklingarner3029]

Food,??? Really,??? Wow,!!!

[@MaryjeanCabatic]

@franklingarner3029 not possible ? Another racist

[@federicoeveza9656]

Filipinos are very honest and trustworthy. Most of the time.

[@samuraik-o8s]

Thank you Max for this content and showing content representing the Filipino people! Adam has great appreciation for Filipino culture and it's people and the positives of its society. I'm filipino-Canadian but always appreciate other Western cultures loving our country.

[@evelynahinton84]

The new generations now a days the majority of the Filipinos family don't live with their family. Some of them have to leave the nest to find a better job and a better life but the one thing that haven't change is helping their families when they can. I love the dynamics of a filipino family we take care of our elders no matter what and we always take care of each other.

[@CollosalTrollge]

thats correct, most reasons people cant leave home is because its expenisve to move out. Its not actually unique in the Philippines also, staying with mom or dad for ages also exists in many other places, even in the west. not this video completely, but too many videos always pushing the narrative of stay with family versus leave and move out, too many old things that arent old anymore, things change and evolve, and besides that its simply too expenisve. plenty people can comment and say they bought and built this and that and helped this and that, good for them.

[@arnoldbuenavacz8026]

When you visit the remote area in the provinces you will find out the correct answer.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

@@arnoldbuenavacz8026 yea buddy sad to witness and see physically however it's true.as a Filipino we are not afraid to tell the world like it is, live and learn my friend.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

@@evelynahinton84 true,in addition,one thing I would like to see in my nativeland is education access for all like here in the USA because until now 2024 still lots of them left behind struggling for financial reality situation, number 2 spread all the jobs from tawi tawi to apari.not only in metro Manila all the time over and over.

[@eduardochavacano]

but now elderly homes exist in the Philippines.

[@Budury]

The way he speaks is quite respectful...Great word choice. humble guy.

[@nikkilogan7726]

Very well said! Thanks Adam & Max. A very cool way that an American & Russian talking with each other loving the Philippines! Your all welcome here. Thanks guys 😎💖

[@brianstarfire]

I very much enjoyed this video. Max and his interviewee are both well spoken and thoughtful people. This is not your average video about living in the Philippines. Thanks!

[@victoriafediuk362]

This guy is telling the truth what he experience living in the Philippines, especially living with his in laws. That's nice to know. yup...100%. Thanks god Bless.

[@Lenilugz5406]

Living with in-laws? It's shameful in the Philippines to be like that especially if you are from the West. He should buy his wife land.

[@CollosalTrollge]

It doesnt work out the same for most people even locals in the families fortunately , just too many conflicts and complaints You find some that like to power-trip because they may own the home , etc...

[@Lenilugz5406]

@@CollosalTrollge It doesn't much affect local males. But it's disgraceful if he's a foreigner and from the West. They are expected to have come here with high valued currency and capable of buying for a local woman at least a residential lot. Dowry or dote in our language is still applicable if the guy is a foreigner. This is a poverty-stricken country and we don't like welcoming poor immigrants.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

@@Lenilugz5406I'm pretty sure knows that just let it be.I know you bought land for your wife.

[@bornonjuly7052]

Wow i like your spot there .Your guest is a real family man . He is a good kind of expats fully adjusted and integrated to the Philippine life.

[@tingangeles1454]

I find this interview so interesting even with regular topics that has been brought out to some of the same type of videos. Great job, Max for your interview, and for Adam for being so natural. Both of you made the conversation truly refreshing and interesting!

[@RR52517]

A pleasant interview. The guy looks happier indeed.

[@Yosefhan4334]

Philippines 🇵🇭 is a mix of different culture Eastern and Western combined... So often most of the Filipino population can speak English...and family bond is close and strong in asia.

[@eduardochavacano]

i guess you have never heard of Singapore.

[@Blairezz98]

@@eduardochavacano met some Singaporeans... their English is crap

[@benfrank9622]

​@@eduardochavacano He's not talking about Singapore.

[@apinezstats2237]

@@eduardochavacano Ok, and? This is not about singapore

[@obryn]

Not really. It mostly just Filipino, Spanish, and American with a hint of S. Korean. That's not to say there arent any eastern cultures there but thats not true at a large scale.

[@nellyblancaflor5559]

KANYA KANYANG KARANASAN. We live in middle to lower middle class subd in metro mla but we have internet, smart tv, 2 bathrooms, quiet neighbourhood, walking distance to church, grocery/supermarket, drugstore, clean streets, very peaceful. Will never trade this life anywhere else in this planet. Marami mga subdivisions surounding like us. 😊

[@WilliamFluery]

The big difference between where you are in Manila and Detroit is people are not trying to mug or murder you throughout the day.

[@sumotiko]

True. It's way more dangerous in Detroit.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

@@sumotiko Detroit need Bukele. El Salvador President

[@joelsantos662]

so in that vid "take him to detroit", he wasn't completely acting? lol

[@TheUnconventionalMan]

I wonder what's the difference hmmmmm....

[@mygracioushomerecipes]

❤❤❤

[@noritacantal2801]

Salute to him for his effort to learn tagalog...though he's a foreigner....better than most FilAm who doesnt even speak simple word and they are proud of it.😮😮😮

[@clauthequeen]

Strongly agree

[@kaizerkun6364]

In the Philippines no matter how old you are your family will still take care of you.

[@charlesjosephdiputado804]

Lol...the problem is the most family members within will always depend and cling on for any kind of support(especially financial support)to those who earn big and well enough without being dependent and resourceful on its own. Common Filipino family mindset....

[@vareseources]

@@charlesjosephdiputado804 Nope.. I'm 47, single, and none of y my siblings ask for money unless I give it to them voluntarily. It depends on how parents raise their children.

[@charlesjosephdiputado804]

@@vareseources No offense but i think you live in the different case and mindset of life but it's most a common tradition especially to the poor class of Filipino families, it's a tradition to always obliged to support at any means even to the distant relatives and even to close friends. It's a bit of annoying reality in the Philippines...

[@vareseources]

@@charlesjosephdiputado804 it's not a tradition. It's called proper parenting and good education. Born and raised in Silay City sorrounded by sugarcane fields. Worked here in Batangas for 25 years. If you are an expat and is married to such family, I feel sorry for you. Anyway, most of the expats, especially older people, marry uneducated Pinays so no wonder why. My family dont even know how much I am earning. It's called respect.

[@vareseources]

@@charlesjosephdiputado804 I was born and raised in Silay City, surrounded by sugarcane. I've worked here in Batangas for 25 years as a sociology professor at a premier State University. What you are saying is not a culture but failed parenting plus illiteracy. No offense to women married to foreigners, but most women married by foreigners, especially those older expats, are uneducated women. People with a sense of pride, even poor people, don't rely on their family members. This is why education is very important... One of my brothers-in-law, a farmer, refused to take money from me and my siblings and only asked us to help finance his children's education if we had extra money. Now, he has two engineers, a teacher, and a seafarer. When prioritized, education can change everything. Those who rely on their family members for everyday needs have no plan for their future. Despite having 4 working professional children, my brother-in-law still works in the sugarcane field. He will be retiring this November.

[@NoToYellowpigs]

Alright, let's subscribe. May Godbless this man.🙏🏻❤️

[@MG77740]

God bless Filipinos. They are the most friendly, open and fun people that I know. Such a good impact on people. Sweet people.

[@johnadams2409]

just to give you context, the past Filipinos are mostly nomads. Thats why we have "bayanihan", where houses can be carried anytime theres a need to move. aside from that, the Philippine land is pretty rich, early people were originally farmers, they make a lot of kids to help with the farm, thats basically why the Philippines have extreme family ties... not to mention, in the past, wealth can be measured by the number of kids you have or how big your clan is.

[@jonapatil3733]

I'm an OFW. since I was a girl. until I got married. from dubai, malaysia, qatar. now I'm in Europe. I saw how much and how important we Filipinos are in other countries. not because of racial pride but I saw that I'm Filipino only those who know how to help. because most people still fear God. I hope that the Lord will always bless us, my countrymen who are of another race. God knows. We are here on the surface of the world. We are just visitors.

[@richardsmith7783]

Hello everyone? If you want to know ANYTHING about how the Philippines really is, Keep watching this guy video! I been here in the Philippines for 12 1/2 year now and this guy is telling the truth!!!!

[@krisb-travel]

ah i love this spot, i drink coffee on those benches behind almost everyday at 5am. Great interview guys!

[@MaxChernov]

am?! Wow

[@beestek.94]

I like this guy's attitude towards the language. A lot of foreigners, and even some Filipinos, refuse to learn Tagalog just because majority of the people can speak English. He is right about making an effort to at least learn the language since he chose to live here, might as well make the most out of it.

[@pinoysgradio2654]

Max great of you promoting living in the Philippines. Thanks a lot !

[@alexbonyt6363]

Great! you have a good conversation. You still have plenty places to explore in the Philippines. Am a filipino, I love exploring places like bukidnon and DAvao specially from January to March. Am residing in Dipolog City, it is also a good place to stay.

[@SelaDela-g4q]

Filipino here fellows my wife is slavic gorgeous lady I felt Mark is an slavic man,and the other man is good old boy fellow American.I listened to y'all conversation and very educational young people am pretty sure their absorbing all the pros and cons.lastly thanks for letting us joining your wago n like the tbe classic song the title theme from imaginary Western by Leslie West.One thing I'm jealous with y'all you can enjoy walking in Makati BGC its fun an very safe.

[@CarmencitaCristales]

I was dual citizenship Phl.N. British. l am glad that both of U!! like our beloved country!!thanks N. God Bless...

[@lifeisgood2542]

yuck. fake. reboubce mo na ang ph passport mo. obviously gusto mo lang iexploit ang ph kaya mo niretain yan. magreretire kung kelan wala ng ambag sa pagfile ng income tax s pilipinas. just stay there

[@donwebb6776]

They do not have the same sense of humor at all. I've been married to 2 Filipinas. (37+ years). Go to where they grew up and diug deep into their way of life, then you truly understand their culture. Big cities are plastic and about $$$. They are the most hospitable culture in the world. I have been around the world.

[@robocop581]

Big cities are plastic and all about $$ - load of crap

[@LizaGalvez-rx4to]

Come on don't generalize .. it's like saying all Americans are tightwads

[@djperryboy]

Well where do the poor people live? It's not on the countryside. They live in Manila. There is the real truth. Not the Utopian dream life of owning a house and cropping your own food. Most of western people cannot have a calm lifestyle like that. They are working and getting totally stressed out to take care of their family. There is not enough farming jobs to pay the salaries for so many western people. Industrialization have taken the jobs and calmness away. It's dangerous, it's pollution, it's stressful society and processed food. But city is where most jobs are. So don't ever talk about the city as a plastic place to be. Plastic is laying on the beach vlogging to have a high income. It doesn't make the world better. Living isolated in your house on your countryside doesn't make the world better either. It is dream jobs. Some of them are people not used to money who don't understand that money is needed for the people in the big cities when they need a hospital, a bank loan, education, police, internet cafés or other services mostly located in the big cities. People working in these sectors are the people that is making the society progress. Living in the city and interacting with people will also make you understand people more. I have nothing against people on the countryside but I wish that you had a greater understanding than saying that city people is only thinking about money. About Philippines especially is the wrong country to say like that.

[@guruprasadf07]

Filipinos are some of the best people in the world.

[@ardeemaq2114]

Amazing interview, he has a lot of inputs

[@Ajr8171]

I just got back from the Philippines. My third trip there. My wife was born and raised in Manila and came to the states when she was 13. We took our 11 year old daughter there (she's been the two prior trips as well). We stayed with my wifes family in Tagaytay. I love everytime we are there and can see us eventually retiring there. The people are so friendly and it very much feels comfortable for me when we visit.

[@jangee8919]

I really appreciate foreigners living here who are trying to learn the Filipino language even if they know for a fact that we understand and speak English. I see at as a desire for them to connect more to the people and immerse in our culture.

[@arnola6662]

‘the right amount of different, but the same’ I LIKE THAT❤❤❤

[@roselyngacosta1257]

I am delighted that you have a broad understanding of the differences in American Culture against here in the Phils or in other Asian countries. I think having that kind of attitude makes you happier than the other foreigners here. Enjoy your stay here with your wife

[@Cons2911]

Learning the language helps, it instantly breaks the ice and people appreciate it even in other countries. And making mistakes is perfectly ok

[@fruitloops3718]

After spending 20 years in Chicago, I don't miss the snow and cold living here in Florida.

[@johnchrysostom330]

Amazing how you can spot a place to conduct an interview with almost no noise despite you were outside.

[@victoriafediuk362]

Nice interview. thanks for sharing. keep it up.❤❤

[@ericmjrs798]

What a change. For the good

[@mayg.931]

Thank you guys 🙏

[@n.lacson]

grandma says GOD will bless you more for being kind to your sisters & families & their pets So nice to hear that even you are rich now you still have a heart of a Filipino caring & helping your family & their pets NICE COMMENT THANK YOU GOD BLESS

[@nhojleahcim47]

It was my first time to travel overseas (I went to Taiwan btw) last May and I am finally getting why foreigners say we are warm or welcoming. The knowledge of English certainly helps a lot but I think we smile more often and are easier to get closer to? You can see this reflected even in the service business. I have a very small sample size but in the hotel we stayed at and restaurants we went to, the service people were polite but very curt in their interactions with customers. I am not sure if we Filipinos smile way too much or the Taiwanese smile very little. It made me appreciate our people more.

[@isabellasmith8377]

Great guest!

[@tesssmith8444]

Very positive comments and I really admire that. I listened to the whole thing that was said...Thanks to the both of you. Take care and God bless.

[@maretcaplan6462]

Not moving out of your parents house until you're married is an Asian culture, not just a Philippine culture. Plus, we love being with our family so much we don't mind being with them until it's time to go and move out and when that happens, we look forward to all get togethers because as I've said, we love being with our families.

[@Lenilugz5406]

The most shameful for a Filipino guy is living in his in-laws' house or wife's inherited house. It is more shameful if the guy is a foreigner.

[@artjazzworld6534]

@lenilugs probably you are not filipino

[@Lenilugz5406]

@@artjazzworld6534 TARANTADO! Ano pinagsasabi mo diyan ?

[@Lenilugz5406]

@@artjazzworld6534 AFAMs are expected to buy his Filipina wife and her family a farm. Not to live with them in their house like a poor husband and freeloader. That is the basic role of AFAMs here.

[@10joules57]

I miss my old country, we lived in the present, and overcame limitations with the spirit of bayanihan, helping each other resolve immediate problems. Abroad, you learn to anticipate road blocks as you have no back-up, and friends disappear when you need help. However, I have no regrets moving to America 🇺🇸 where I actually matured as an individual and responsible citizen. I am grateful for the life I made here, with many American angels along the way!

[@mariam-de4nv]

Well said. Appreciate your honesty and opinion and respect to the filipino culture and people. Mabuhay kayo. Please continue to spread positivity about the Philippines. God bless you and your wife and family.

[@SmilingBoxer-cp2ue]

I like the conversation between these two guys ! It is good for the man who is married to a Filipina because he has accumulated Filipino culture.Godbbless you two andabuhay !

[@rachel3685]

It is not really about being able to afford housing. It is about the close-knit and family-oriented traits and beliefs of Filipinos.

[@jackwill3578]

I HAVE A MOUNTAIN HOME IN CEBU, BUT LIVING IN THE US NOW FOR A WHILE !

[@melquiadespabillare5437]

Sad to know that many Americans don't know that the Philippines was a direct former colony of USA for four decades.

[@dcadventures2394]

My wife and I live part of the year in BGC and part of the year in the US. There is a big difference between Detroit and BGC. For example, if you want to each at Japanese restaurant in Detroit, they are scattered all over the place. You need to drive to different suburbs to go to one. In BGC, where we live, if you google for Japanese restaurant, there are over two dozen that are within a 15 minute walking distance. That is not possible in Detroit or any major city in the US. Most people don’t realize this. That is why living in BGC is so different.

[@elle-z8358]

Hi Max . You're such intelligent sensible conversionalist vlogger. Kudos

[@SelaDela-g4q]

Adam still lots of distitute in the Philippines, government leaders must provide good education to all .

[@RjThermo]

Nice interview Max, I love it. Thank you so much for making this interview often. I think it would be more insightful for your Kababayans, if you could also make the subtitle in Russian language.

[@sekiriaasagiri1513]

I want to find my soulmate too! A friend and a partner just like yours! May you have more blessings!

[@juliusaupyrian3046]

You got that right, my friend , almost there for retirement. I have to fill the gap that I missed ,definitely I'm going back.

[@rowcast5295]

The best explanation and guide for expats. There is no template. If you keep comparing your country and complain about the differences, it won't work for you. Not in the Philippines or anywhere else in the world.

[@steveswell1]

Try Philippinesfacts for some truth bombs about life in Phils, no sugar added. :)

[@rosequiling9666]

Thank you for appreciating our Archipelagic little country.

[@judyarsenaullt1875]

Great conversation, Subs & thumbs up from Massachusetts

[@Ajr8171]

They are filming this in BGC which is a very select area of the Philippines and by far the most modern area of the country. Of course it has the full look and feel of any modern city in the U.S., but that will get old quick if you're staying for any length of time. Once you venture out 10 miles (even less), it becomes much different. You are quickly reminded that you are in a different country, but not in a bad way. Yes, some very poor areas, but the look and feel quickly changes. Amazing experiences to have. If anything, do not get used to BGC area and embrace the Philippines for what it is.

[@graceweber2822]

Exactly.

[@supingpilario3783]

thank you so so much for appreciating our country the Philippines

[@FlipGuitarist80]

This guy has the right attitude as a foreigner that most could learn a thing or two from.

[@jeffraymondanexpatslifesty2384]

I really liked this interview. Well done. Good questions, with just as good of answers. I feel the same way he does. I could relate to a lot of what he was saying. None gugmental too. More of being respectful. Well done.

[@abirdieremembers8783]

Families in the Philippines want to remain as a unit. Everybody work but share always even in activities like going to church together, outings, parties or celebrations.Religion play a prt in boosting trust and enforcing faith that when troubles come, they will get assistance and help from the Lord; They live by wht they have and act each day according to what they have. There is so much resiliency and resignation. Acceptance is not a problem either.

[@anneb3170]

Not true there’s a lot of broken families in the Philippines.Lots of kids are raise by one parent or grandparents.And there’s a lot of elders living alone because their children did not take care of them for financial reason

[@halohalo227]

He is a wholesome man! good conversation with Max Chernov! awesome vid!

[@ecdevera2455]

Thank you for this vlogpost -- listening to openminded, broadminded, positive, very reasonable, adventurous people like Max and Adam, both blessed with an incredibly inclusive mindset, is like getting educated, profoundly, in how to be a generous human being who's open to the richness of all forms of human connectedness, embracing all those big and little teachable moments stemming from daily social encounters and various learning experiences that can deepen one's humanity, and, yes, basic decency and sensitivity, let alone respect for diverse cultures and mores. Suddenly the sad and corrosive stereotype of "ugly expats" who blatantly go out of their way to condescend or insult the locals just vanished and melted away, thank heavens, during this rewarding conversation.

[@sspetnazz]

well ph is like a bridge for cultures... heres an american guy talking to a russian guy. no problem..no hate..

[@federicoeveza9656]

Welcome to the Phililippines, I’m from there too but lives here in the USA

[@Badger345]

Great interview 👍

[@cheriestree]

Philippines is beautiful country in the Whole World, You know Christmas here is very early! Pilipino’s very friendly and hospitable…❤

[@Pongpagong-]

where ever you are you in the world can find a Filipino working and thriving

[@stopcorruptioncampaign]

#7.9 Nice topic. I gave you my full support.

[@irmapeneyra5214]

Nice interview...

[@ScarletRoberts-y1s]

I enjoy watching your videos. Very informative & interesting😊Kudos!!!

[@TomTheCopywriter]

I lived with my Fillipina wife in Cebu city for 8 years, i LOVE the Philippines! 🙂

[@vinedee9428]

Thank you ❤

[@joyeleazar8893]

Mr. USA is very matured and open. And you're right, we are not mentioned in your school. It's more us who study your part in pur history.

[@88Kidlat]

Common mistake of some foreigners: when you decide to live in another country, make an effort to learn the local language, evennif you know how to speak English

[@88Kidlat]

@@rounder400 Tagalog is the national language , the rest you mentioned are regional DIALECTS, get it?

[@barkingcatswow]

It is very confusing for some but Filipino is the National Language.Tagalog is just the foundation from which it was built upon. Bisaya is a language too largely spoken in Visayas and Mindanao. It's just that Filipino was declared the National Language earlier times. One good thing about Filipino (language) is you can use it anywhere in the Philippines. But learning Bisaya would 100% be helpful too.

[@88Kidlat]

@@barkingcatswow Correction: Filipino is the nationality of the citizens of the country. Tagalog is the language. Big difference.

[@eduardochavacano]

Not all foreigners come to Philippines to mingle with the locals. They come here because they money has more value in the third world. Westerners like privacy. They not interested in having gay locals hit on them every 4 minutes. The female travelers are find it very creepy when every 4 minutes someone tells them they are so beautiful and that they should join the Miss Universe.

[@eduardochavacano]

​@@88KidlatYou are so wrong. Filipino refers to the language, if you are speaking or writing in English. Tagalog is not the English term. That is why the subject in your school is called Filipino. 😂😂😂

[@embitious630]

I’m Filipina and living here in the US. I’m going to retire in 4 years.. yes im only in my 30s and i miss my country so much… i have rentals there from Manila all the way to panglao bohol..

[@toriahmyworld]

Sometimes, it's a matter of how you manage your salary. I've worked as a call centre representative but I was able to travel in or out of the country while I share my salary with my parents.

[@jeffreydeduyo378]

God bless the family that helps u man

[@Isabela2024-yr]

My family lives in the far North of the Philippines but no problem about internet connection. I can talk to them in a weekly basis, but no problem talking with them, even lengthy phone conversations. I thought it's the same all over the Philippines. In my house in Isabela province, we installed unlimited internet, and you can do the same with your cellphones. I hope you guys can do the same thing. 😊

[@thegoodtransformationTV]

if you want to go to a city in the Philippines wherein you will have a good english conversation with the locals is CEBU CITY

[@jamestopeka2236]

10 years for me and the Philippines will change you that's for sure .

[@Marie-pw8dl]

Exposure is not the problem of learning about other cultures in ds high tech generation, but d most important is that " the Filipinos are good at being flexible and willing to accommodate others".They are open at others.

[@KimNamjoon-c9r]

We live to chill and be posotive at all things.. We see no pressure at things.

[@dys5410]

Those area that are not in high level, we call it residential areas and like BGC, Makati, Ortigas is Business Centre

[@ray.b.75]

Wow, Maine and San Francisco, that’s polar opposites lol. Maine is North East and SF is Southwest. Inflation is crazy now, feels like USA is unaffordable for the masses. Rent in Maine is $3k just for a single room during the summer, unbelievable!

[@vinaddreamer9647]

Starlink best internet connection in Philippines especially in rural areas ❤

[@TORTLESSS]

One thing id say about the philippines, for expats from any country, is that when it comes to judicial acts that concern visa/residency/owning condominium/part ownership of corporations/business is that it is very easy. There's tons of successful koreans/chinese/indians/americans here who came from nothing and built themselves up and have fully assimilated. That's the kind of freedom you get because after all, our constitution and laws are patterned after the US. You don't get that kind of opportunity in other places in asia, nor the worse antagonism that exists in other asian countries.

[@plm8830]

This guy wants to be a part of the culture and thats a good sign.

[@charlesjosephdiputado804]

Family traditions in most countries in Asia has its extensive relationship common between the family and relative members but the family tradition in the Philippines is the most stressful one, why???Even distant members will always depend and cling on for any kinds of support at all times and seasons especially to those who earn big and well enough...

[@janetmoger6757]

What it is being a Filipino, we learn to respect from day 1. We were taught that way. Because of that all humbleness, caring and loving anyone makes us very strong individuals and proud of all accomplishments we possibly do. We love to feel welcomed. So thus we welcome others as well. For foreigners we welcome them the same as we welcome anyone else. Because in my own opinion it’s an obligation to make anyone accepted and not ignored. We have that satisfaction of helping others is a good feeling. And helping our own family is the best heart felt feelings ever. Maybe because as someone having nothing like me. Our neighbors and family friends gather and share whatever we have even just one day to be together. It’s in-bided in our culture so strongly this way. And there’s no stopping it. We are only humans being planted on earth 🌍. We nourish ourselves and neighbors, friends and family. Like plants 🪴 do. God Bless every one! Thank you for sharing your vlogs about my Country and my culture. Stay safe and 💜💜💜🌺☀️

[@beergin64]

Enjoy and learn about the Philippines specially the cultural differences between regions. You will be surprised. It will be a good idea to visit other places to know about the people.