What happened to US after having KIDS….| Real Talk

This is a vlog sharing about my postpartum journey after having my 2nd daughter. Also talking about my breastfeeding journey very honestly and also about the mental breakdowns women face after birth.
Also most importantly a candid conversation aboyt what happens to couples after having kids and how me and my husband deal with it

[@vishalkripalani8859]

There is a lot of things to learn from you to be a perfect couple after marriage and after kids

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

We are also imperfect in many ways honestly but learning n growing together everyday thankyou🙏❤️

[@shethutsav]

@@shaniceshresthavlog bata do fir kaha imperfect ho... 😂

[@unfilteredWithShivani]

But the way you carry youself and the people around you, its sonething to learn. It's been one year now that I have been your follower and my god the only vlog I like to watch in my me time.. you are very authentic and genuine. You always show your ups and down where people can relate. Dont know about others but yes my journey relates with you a lot. May you and your family stay healthy.🫰

[@manntanna_]

My respect for women boosts when I see them going through so many things. You’re doing great Shanice didi!

[@DethronerX]

100% ek jaisa hona bhi boring hota hai, so having some difference in opinion and having some difference in personality is healthy and interesting

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Absolutely true

[@snehashrivastava3571]

How sweetly and graciously she has thanked all the women who has helped her during her delivery and for food stuff❤❤ by calling them angels such a sweet gesture ❤❤not everybody is so acknowledgeble these days 🎉

[@lucyplays21]

Unfortunately that's a fact that boys do not think as much as a girl do, and they never agrees that a girl thinks too much not intentionally but it just happens. But I am glad that how people have started talking about it and once it comes on social media, I feel the revolution part starts. Hopefully every couple will learn how to communicate things. I am not saying peacefully may be one day one might shout out of being so emotional but the other one Hopefully would understand from where they are coming. And instead of parting ways, it beings them more closer❤️🫠 By the way, watching after so long! Congratulations ❤️ for Ivaana! And being a mom for second time😘😍it must be a great great feeling for you, overwhelming may be😊 Take care of health, also consult becoz you are taking so many supplements, not that I am giving any advice, its just that I care for you!❤ Yours truly, Heena Shah!! (A very old subscriber)

[@sumanmeenpal7347]

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[@aakashmodi]

Keep making more vlogs ❤❤ 1 million super soon 🎉🎉

[@Happylifealways2023]

For milk supply - please read …with my first baby i did not have milk supply as the baby did jot latch and i gave up but this time touch wood its been very good , i have been working very hard .. - 1- dring lots n lots of water , keep a big sippper with you all the time 2 - pump at exact time and at a regular interval regardless for 20 min religiously, ( after every 3 hours for now 3- wirelesa pumps are not very effective , use it only whenntravelling a d upgrade to a powerful pump . I bought the hospital grade pump - symphony ( one that travelling deais wife uses - sandra) no need to take any suppliments just that eat very very well - lots of chapati and veges and eggs ( boiled potatoes) and lastly - drink water which has zeera , ajwaain and soof ( boil water and then add the three seeds and cover the pan and drink that water after 3 hours , prepare this every time the water finishes .. FyI / my second daughter does not latch so i am pumping completely ..

[@CookingBeastAyaz]

*Main 13 saal ki age se cooking kar raha hu...aur mre ko cooking bhut jyda psnd h isliye maine soch lia hu ki abb mujhe Chef hi banna hai chahe kuch bji ho jaye...but mere parents bolte hai ki Bawarchi ban ke kuch nahi kr paoge yeh sab faltu chiz hai....wo chahte the main bhi engineering karu yaa phir kuch aur accha kru...apne bade bhai ki trah... mere bade bhai ne mujhe samjhaya and usi ne mujhe suggest kia ki apni skill dikhana hai to abhi se start kr do.....To isliye maine soch lia tha ki main KZbin channel khol kar apni recipe logo ko dikhaunga and phir 9th class me maine ek cooking channel start kia tha but mmy papa mana kr die the ki abhi pdhai me dhyaan do ye sb faltu chiz mat kro 12th ke bad krna jo krna hai...but mne 10th board ke khtm hote hi maine apna new youtube channel "Cooking Beast Ayaz" start kiya... Aur uske baad se regular recipe videos upload kr raha hu ... But likes aur views naa ke barabar aate hai fir b main upload rehta hu mujhe bas logo ko apni skill dikhana hai kyuki mre ko cooking krna bhut accha lgta h..* nbs ba happens a lot of time

[@nishantkulkarni7640]

Please do this more often, we learn a lot from this

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Glad to hear this ❤️

[@Deep_Connects]

Following you guys since 2017 , can't describe enough all I want to say is thank you guys for showing genuine way of becoming better

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Thankyouu so much❤️🙏🙏

[@radhikaganjawala2353]

Shanice you are very honest. As a mother I relate to you.

[@RiyaSawant-fz8co]

Just feeling happy by seeing both of you ❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Hehe❤️🤭

[@priyankakhuje1630]

For baby milk quality is important than quantity. So calm down your baby is in safe hands. Also make baby to suck,as oxytocin release and it increases milk production.

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yesss I got to know about these things too❤️🙏

[@yashasvi1495]

Shanice a video suggestion and I want you and Nikkhil to be honest (as you always are) and these topics are very important for me as a lady who is in her 20s and wants to figure things out for life, and relationships coz I think asking you guys is much better than any other person. I have been watching you guys since I was in 1st year of college as a 19-year-old girl but now the situation has changed and I have grown up. Please consider my suggestion: Plz make a video on how you improved the communication gap between you two when you guys were boyfriend and girlfriend. I really want to know so that I understand your perspective/suggestions and improve myself as a better girlfriend. (Though I do not have a bf currently but my last relationship was end up coz of the communication gap and I don't want to repeat my mistake again) I really hope you understand what I mean. Thanks!

[@MayuriKhamkar-k4e]

Much needed parenting advice ❤ Love to skyu and Ivaana ❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Glad to hear that, thankyou❤️🙏🙏

[@SoniaTheNOMAD]

You should breathe while talking...just saying out of care bcz it sounds like you are getting short of breath...

[@Debasishhh]

Finnally 1 million soon. Congratulations 🎉

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Thanks🙏❤️

[@indranilsarkar5340]

I am older than you guys but I always respect you & Nikhil.. you guys are simply fantastic ... Always stand with you guys.. go ahead.. enjoy your life.. lots of love ❤ best wishes for you & Nikhil 👍👍

[@Aashi29]

Amazing vlog Shanice !

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Thankyou❤️

[@saiviraj]

Have grown watching ur vlogs from mn bro started vlogging. From start till nw v love u loads.

[@Pahadi_Premika]

I love this kind of vlogs 🧿🤌🏻💗

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

So happy to hear this❤️❤️☺️

[@Studyy234]

The best video ❤ thank u for sharing this 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 and yes , communication is everything

[@muneebaimran9637]

Therapy tk pohnch gai haim to adhi naya doob gai hai Hahaha hilarious nikhil😂😂..shanice love your vlogs

[@Happylifealways2023]

Your vlog is so RELATABLE.. what nickle said is so true …. Also yes sleeping in seperate rooms works and we have been following that for past 2.5 years 😢.. i have a 2 month old infant with a 2.5 years old toddler .. so i totally understand your situation .. you have been doing very good . ❤❤❤managing the baby so well all allne is commendable

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yesss thats the best way to go about this phase sadly n practically. All the best to u too mumma❤️

[@simransetia1137]

Thank you both of you for guiding us

[@hetalshrigod22.11]

❤❤❤❤ keep learning and improve ourself from the mistakes and by the mistakes...

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Absolutely

[@priyankadayal4794]

You look so so pretty! I wish you stay as awesome you are❤ And Ivaana is such a beautiful name like Skylar it’s different ❤

[@anmolasrani]

I've learn new things today thankyou to both of you ❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Happy to hear this

[@thebestpm1]

What is yours and Nikhil's hair care routine?

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Nothing lately🙈😂

[@shethutsav]

Great... Thanks for sharing ❤ Feels like doing an internship...

[@tejasshindeable]

Dear nikhil This is what I personally like and admire and respect about you from the past 7 years Your such natural raw honest talks are so influencing for the goods, and honestly speaking, they have been more inspiring than all the other things you do. Let it be moto vlogging too for instance. That is entertainment, but this is what real influence is. Kindly don't fall for the cringe crap "Jo chalta hai" thing. As u have said, u r not serious about KZbin anymore, but keep influencing in this "raw" way.

[@heenasampat2300]

You are very pure hearted ❤❤🤗

[@flavourunfoldwithnisha]

Babes if you have thought that you want to give your baby breast milk you have won the battle my friend..I was like you I was so stressed and I tried everything and anything. pumping might not give you that result try on the correct latch and babies when they are so small they will constantly come to drink milk so that point of time you should not think that you know you don't have enough milk just getting the latching sorted trust the process you have thought you will give her breast milk you will do that please don't go in that pumping zone yes till the time the latch is not sorted you have to pump right because that's how I did for my son but make sure the latching is sorted drink lots of water whenever you're feeding whenever you're pumping drink lots of lots of lots of water. God bless my friend

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Thankyou so much for adviceee❤️❤️ yes im tryingg

[@anishadsa5390]

Please upload a vlog on epidural complete exp with normal delivery amd also about using pumps and why we use it

[@lc2620]

Very true as Mothers we are so possessive of our children, we get tensed, we overthink especially when our parents are away. We need their support eapeciaĺy during and after delivery a woman needs rest, good sleep, some Me time. You will feel better once you go back to India, your parents, sista will be there to babysit your kids, cook good food so dont worry. Keep praying, listen to hymns, music 🎶

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yes thankyouu so so much❤️🙏

[@puneetchhabra2592]

Very nice very influencing vedio... A person can learn from you experience. Male and female (parents) and children need meee time..👍😍🥰🧿🌷

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yesss thankyou so much ❤️🙏

[@monamody6676]

Nice content! Since long I wanted to share a view. Why did you guys not opt for an EU golden visa or US EB-5 visa, both of which would have costed you the same amount you incurred for 2 deliveries in Canada. Here you will have to wait till your daughters turn 18 to get you both the citizenship, whereas both EU and EB-5 would have got you golden visa / Green Card respectively for the whole family ?? This thought intrigues me. Not a hater but opined out of concern. Please respond ….

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

I anyways dont have a tourist visa for canada👀

[@mayak2676]

Both are you are lucky to have found each other.. Not just after childbirth, once you cross 50s, again you will feel the need to sleep separately once perimenopause kicks in😊.

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Thankyou. Ohh is that true tahnks for sharing

[@mayak2676]

@@shaniceshresthavlog Yes...hormones go haywire from the time perimenopause sets in & thereafter. Though, if you eat clean & workout regularly, it's much better...but even then. The men are always feeling super hot & women feel suddenly hot, suddenly cold...plus little things like one is snoring & the other having lighter sleep...your sleep goes for a toss😁. Then the big one...mood swings. If you thought your hormones are haywire during pregnancy, you haven't seen it all...that's just the trailer😁 Processed sugar will be your WORST enemy by the time you reach that stage...the earlier we stop eating it, the better for our overall health

[@nehameena1187]

Thankyou so much shaince for sharing this all little thing and thought with the couple things ....koi bhi is topic pr real me baat nhi krna chahta h but really only parents can understand this❤❤❤...ek ek baat jo apne boli h wo same humne bhi feell kri thi 1st tym but apke vlog dekhkr 2nd baby plan krne me dar nhi lg rh😂

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Hehhee im glad u guys can relate. I know nobody talks about this, so I wanted to. Hahah karlo 2nd wala plan agar ready ho toh❤️🤭

[@nehameena1187]

@@shaniceshresthavlog thankyou for reply

[@raghunathsinghrajpurohith4894]

I think Comeback was near.

[@Anita-r3p]

Shanice mam aap ki baat real talk samjh rhi hu

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

☺️☺️

[@vighneshsankaran6321]

❤❤❤❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

❤️❤️❤️

[@syedjabbarsyed4558]

I love u couples and God bless you najar Na Lage aap donon Ko

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

❤️🙏🙏

[@ankitamittal9266]

Hi Shanice, why do you think your milk supply is not enough

[@seematupurani5450]

Ur hair looks like a bush..u also need a hair spa with nail spa…..❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Dude yes i do, talk about maddening hormones n no hair wash days🙈😂

[@seematupurani5450]

@@shaniceshresthavlog have started doing hair spa sfter watching your vlogs… soo just mentioned…

[@DigamberBisht-v9n]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@manishshinde5944]

Nice 👍

[@divyamathur3567]

Try Jeera and ajwain water for breast milk and yea it happens 😊

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yes drinking everyday ☺️

[@shethutsav]

Aadhi naiya doob gai hai... 😂😂😂

[@apurvaphatakjoglekar4078]

Drink 1 glass of ajvain,methidana , badishop water before every breastfeed and after every Breastfeed… water intake accha ho to milk supply will also bhi accha !!

[@apurvaphatakjoglekar4078]

Just boil all ingredients thoda thoda lena sab in 1 or 2 litres of water for 10 to 15 minutes and thanda karke bottle me bhar dena … or garam garam bhi pee sakte ho … jese apko sahi lage …

[@Dream-se2or]

Really liked the part with nikhil. As a couple, honest talks in front of social media. U have guts. Its vry eye opening fr modern day couples ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Yess had to share this. Everyone goes through it at some point cuz

[@anushka8873]

🧿❤

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

❤️❤️

[@saachirana]

Why was your diet so unhealthy all throughout your pregnancy? Suddenly you're realizing to eat everything for milk production. Trust me healthy eating habits from the start can only help

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Lol. When was my diet unhealthy during pregnancy. I did not know eating ghar ka khaana was unhealthy😂

[@Mohit-vu4sb]

2nd

[@alkasingh1354]

Don't make such vlogs ? You cant teach anyone. Just make casual vlogs

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

I will make vlogs about things I want to share.

[@alkasingh1354]

@@shaniceshresthavlog you can definitely share your life,but preaching n teaching part why ???

[@vishalkripalani8859]

Did you guys miss Bombay ?

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

Ofcourse especially abhi jab festivities chal rahe hain

[@mofahan6559]

When are you leaving btw, will you be there before Diwali?

[@vishalkripalani8859]

How are you all ?

[@shaniceshresthavlog]

We are good hope ur good too❤️

[@lucifergzonkzr]

Just people praised for her vlogs better then nikhil, now she started to give BHASAN'S same as Nikhil .... Oyee nikhil tu kya kar raha hai is vlog mein 😊?

[@anshusinha8248]

Koi nahi, mat dekho !! Isne tumhe link bheja tha video ka dekhne ko? Skip kar do agar BHASAN lag raha hai toh!!!

[@suyashsinha1]

Like literally, she is sharing her state in life through her own channel through a well documented vlog, kindly don’t spread hate if you don’t want to see. no one invited you here 🙃

[@NanditRamani2]

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