what happens after a miscarriage + TTC after loss / fertility testing

[@tabea1453]

I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy, I shared a lot more on my channel. I had a missed miscarriage which means that as I went in for my 9 week ultrasound thinking everything was fine.. Well there was a baby but measuring at 5 weeks. A week later had another ultrasound and there was no baby anymore. I should add I live in Europe and health care is for free. So then I was given the option of having surgery or taking medication to help my body miscarry. I did not do that because for me it was important to let my body do its thing and I trusted that it will. So at 13 weeks I was mentally able to say goodbye to our baby and that's when I started bleeding. But what I want to tell everyone is: I had SERIOUS CONTRACTIONS for about 2 hours. Worst pain, like my actual birth (spoiler my rainbow baby is now 3 months old). Nobody checked my HCG. I bled (very little at the end) for 3 weeks and I got my period back one week after that. We decided to give us some time to grieve and process and started trying 3 cycles later. Immediately got pregnant again. So Greer, if you are reading this, maybe your experience is actually similar to mine (in your other video you didn't mention that you saw an embryo that is why I thought maybe you also had a missed miscarriage). And give yourself time to grieve and focus on happy things. As you mentioned you only had 4 cycles the last 2 years and you immediately got pregnant both times so I know it sounds stupid and it's hard, but try to not stress about it. I pray though that this waiting season will be short and that God will give you another child soon!

[@naomiadelinebaker]

I watched your first video before I even knew I was pregnant, found out Dec 19, started spotting on christmas and miscarried on the 27th. I would have been 6 weeks. I am so thankful there are people like you who share your experience because it helped me to know that I wasn’t alone and to fight the thoughts of ‘why me’. It’s truly not something you can ever prepare for or understand the emotions until it happens to you. I was completely unprepared for the physical aspect of miscarriage. I had heavy contractions and bleeding, couldn’t stand up without getting dizzy and every time I went to the bathroom was traumatized. I am baffled by the percentage of women this happens to and I am so heartbroken that this is a common pain. Praying for you and others in the same situation.

[@kendraanderson7327]

We tried for 19 months to get pregnant, then I miscarried at 5 weeks. I was so heartbroken but just knowing that I *could* get pregnant made it easier to heal. For so long we just weren't sure but now we know it's possible. I've been humbled immensely, just thankful for each person who is here on earth in my life. Sending baby dust to all who need it 💖👼🏽

[@mbp_33]

I’ve been hearing about soooo many miscarriages lately, including my daughter, who lost my twin grand babies 💔😢I know this is a sensitive subject but I’m just curious, of those that have miscarried, how many have been vaccinated? I had heard a few times about women having menstrual issues or miscarriages after getting them but blew it off. Then after it happened to my daughter around Thanksgiving I really started looking into it. There are thousands of women having issues. It’s heartbreaking and I’m so angry that they’re not looking into this or taking it seriously. I’m so sorry I’d this offends or upsets anybody. And Greer, I won’t be upset if you want to delete this. I just am heartbroken over losing my twin grand babies and I am really starting to believe for many women this isn’t just a coincidence 😢💔

[@Hannahbrewer24]

Aw I am so so sorry:( my heart goes out to your daughter! It’s so extremely hard and sad! I am not but it is an interesting thing to think about! I know a lot of women who are and have had healthy pregnancies so it’s so hard to know! Praying for you family 🤍🤍

[@lindsayfoster4759]

I just had a MMC at ten weeks and I did not get the cov!d shot neither did my husband. 🤍

[@gracethatabounds]

I just found out at a sonogram on Friday that I miscarried... about 9-10 weeks along. It's so hard, but we have one beautiful boy and that gives me hope that we will go on to have more children in the future. Now I am just waiting for my body to let go... thank you for sharing your experience. It is helpful. Just a note about eating a head of broccoli - I have been told that eating a lot of broccoli raw can be hard on the thyroid. There are several veggies that are easier on your body lightly cooked or at least blanched. It might be something to look into if you are concerned about thyroid health. Thanks again for being so vulnerable and sharing this journey with others.

[@janaisanchez44]

Keeping you in my prayers 💖 stay vulnerable, stay strong,stay hopeful💞

[@marycheyenne5883]

i feel that’s so much. while everyone is different and different things can help you through. knowing you can get pregnant has helped me so much. i miscarried from 9-10 weeks. my husband has just been helping me through and repeating that this isn’t the end. & knowing this isn’t the end helps. in some way.

[@kaylalee7861]

We had a miscarriage back in July and it’s been getting harder the closer we get to the baby’s due date that would’ve been in March. We’ve been trying to focus on Gods will, but it’s been rough this cycle because I’m currently four days late but my tests have been all negative and I haven’t been this late before other than when we were pregnant. Sometimes it feels like a cruel joke, but I’m trying hard to stay strong. We had blood testing done in September when we hit a year of trying and they said everything looks normal so it’s been hard trying to be patient. Thank you for sharing your story with us and I hope things work out great for you and that you guys get your happy ending soon!! 💕

[@katrinarigdon4892]

I’m praying for you! Try not to put so much stress on it I know that sounds impossible but stress will hinder too

[@toniwadsworth7577]

My experience with miscarriage was rather traumatic. I want to share it in case it could help someone. I hemorrhaged in my 14th week of pregnancy and had to go to the emergency room and have a D & C. Afterward I was very angry that my doctor had not told me that this was a possibility even though he knew I had been spotting. This was in 1982 and information was not instantly at our fingertips as it is now but I still believe women should be told that a miscarriage may not always be like a heavy period. I was very fortunate that I was not alone at the time and that my husband got me to the ER. If you are alone and begin to bleed very heavily you should call 911. That is the main point I want to make. I recovered and became pregnant again within then same year and had a healthy pregnancy and baby and another baby 6 years later so in all I had 3 healthy pregnancies and 1 miscarriage.

[@MikiSings]

Bless you sis ❤️ It’s so beautiful that you are willing to share your heart and experience with people even in this. I’m so sure that your videos are gonna help people. You are in my prayers xx

[@debbyryan9283]

I've been trying to Conceive for 5yrs years now without a baby ,but he helped me out in getting pregnant .....now am 3 months pregnant..

[@loricooper8995]

I just found out I was pregnant my levels went down so I prob going to have a miscarriage I lost a baby a year ago to its so hard

[@heartbrokenamerican2195]

This is a dumb question but what is ttc

[@caramia4483]

Trying To Conceive 🤍