What Happens When You LET SOMEONE GO Energetically?

[@AaronDoughty44]

Join The 21 Day Confidence Love Challenge here: ➡ bit.ly/Confidence-Love

[@MrBooYa-yd5er]

How do I apologize and heal from being obsessed and awkward/inappropriate with a girl?

[@elamandalista7897]

Aaron is this challenge is only for attracting love or for self love as well? Iam rather interested in this second one and building relationship with myslef before walking into relationship

[@lovepositivity2632]

Aaron what about letting someone go who had hurt u u keep thinking about hurting them back in someway how to forgive and let go off such people?

[@Portia620]

The best thing I ever did after narcissistic abuse is to not care and MoveOn and happiness and peace and love even my kids being estranged from me and hating me well one of them being turned against me I tried to fix the problem and got to the point where I just totally released I’m done calling I love my child and my brother was found dead at 27 years of age so I like to talk to my kids every day because I love them and care about them and thought we had a close relationship but something happened she dropped outta college so many things that were just sad not that she’s a bad person it’s just she’s dealing with a lot of stuff from the trauma and awls I can do is let go and move on because she’s mad at me let her work that out on her own and focus on moving forward in my life you can’t make people see your worth and if other people bring your worth down and paint you to be the bad guy then those people have to live with the consequences of what they miss out on because they allowed somebody else to manipulate them you can’t fix those problems all you can do is know that the truth will come out one day and let your child know you’re always here you love them and just let it go

[@Portia620]

I don’t know about that because if I see a celebrity I feel like they’re the same person as me they’re going to go to the same place when we die I don’t see anyone as being needed to be on a pedestal I’m sorry I just don’t do that maybe that’s where I’m different and I don’t run to be associated with those people either I mean they’re people they just happen to have a lock and get Rich or have a great idea but they’re no different than other people we all have our flaws and They are not gods they’re just people

[@mountainvibes3069]

You just hit home.... If you treat someone like a celebrity, they are going to treat you like a fan. Thank you for that.

[@stillMimi123]

Me either it's very TRUE

[@Stephen_Jabs]

Not only a fan sometimes, worst is to become a slave

[@evatoxu864]

Yeah don’t put others on the pedestal, particularly in a relationship. You two are always equal - whatever the age gap, the income differences or the different cultural backgrounds.

[@waterlily938]

Right, that sentence changed my day...

[@blusaura7409]

Yup

[@reneehaynes8289]

You don't let go in hopes the person will come back though. Just let go for yourself and for your own mental well being.

[@MangoPineappleGirl]

True, this is causing me way too much energy and leaving me feeling dumb. So today, I just blocked him and I’m walking away

[@crbarnes001]

Yeah this is the problem I have I want to let go just to forget. Not interested in having them back just want them out of my head.

[@julieb8668]

Great point

[@NathalieLazo]

Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️

[@salsa2264]

Bless you Nathalie

[@Chris-mb5nm]

I needed to hear that

[@Chris-mb5nm]

Thanks soooo much! C

[@chkmdb6569]

Accept my utmost respect 🙌 for those kind words that can only be channelled through a true angel 😇

[@generationalcursebreaker5397]

Thank you 😊

[@beshiny1291]

I want nothing more than to let him go completely.. I actually want to be hypnotized to forget him completely.. I pray for this..

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are you now? its been a year. i know youre in a much better place now. i wish you well ♥️

[@beshiny1291]

@@alexanderalzate8560 I was able to let go .. life is funny and full of surprises.. death effects all... especially unexpected death

[@koozkotopia]

"Stop abandoning yourself" WOW

[@THEMAN-ru8ek]

If you Rejecting and Abandoning yourself... People Will Rejecting and Abandoning you.

[@lisamorales3914]

Absolutely happened to me as well. It was shocking to me how it all came about. I would have given this man the world if I could. I finally broke the bond and he couldn’t believe it. He chased and chased and I was repelled. I found someone new. He learned a very important lesson. Value what you have before it’s gone.

[@carlauchoaknoll]

How did you broke that bond? I would appreciate your response. I've been for so long in an difficult connection with a guy who somehow keeps me feeling he is plying with my emotions/feelings. He triggered inside of me insecurity, I've be practicing all kind of technique to let dem go and it doesn't work for long. I feel scare sometimes I guess he is manipulating my energy.

[@giiannnaa]

@@carlauchoaknoll what really helped me was writing him a letter (but never sending it) as a way to say goodbye. i also realized that i had no choice other than to accept that it was over. a lot of the times your brain tricks you and remembers your relationship better than it actually was, every time i would miss him i would remind myself what i didn’t like about the relationship. just think to yourself, if someone plays with your emotions is that a person you really want to be with? if you were your own best friend, what advice would you give yourself? i know it’s easier said than done, i feel for you and it’s really difficult to let someone you love go. there’s billions of people out there, and you will find someone that will love you the way you deserve. good luck on your journey, be patient with yourself and cry when you need to. you were okay before you met this person, and you will be okay after.

[@carlauchoaknoll]

@@giiannnaa Thank you so much dear🙏

[@AJManol]

Well said! 👍🏻

[@7Earthsky]

@@carlauchoaknoll I feel a bit like you but it's with a girl i met.

[@WahineInTN]

I’m starting to detach as Ive realized he served his purpose already. He sparked a flame in me to be a better version of myself and go after what I want. I’m now moving to the other side of the country. A new adventure awaits me.

[@meleciamegan]

I love what you wrote! I totally agree with you on this. When an ex served his purpose to spark something within us to "change" or work on "self-growth" they're done for good! The truth is, why should we invest our time, attention, and even thoughts on them if they cant even be bothered that they were also toxic and needed to become a better partner! It takes two to tango in a relationship and its good that it was us who has this realization that we want to change. While they're enjoying their freedom now, we are on our way to the path that will lead us to a better future with a more suitable relationship! ❤

[@ignazs.5816]

My lover sparked a flame in me too to finally start working on myself. I'm glad to have met him and I hope I had an impact on his life as much as he did on mine, but I had to leave his life because he served his purpose. I would love to completely detach myself from him and be his friend in the future. I couldn't stand seeing him with someone else anytime soon, so time will tell. He had anger issues, trust issues, and paranoia which became too stressful for me to deal with. I wish him the best and thank him for beautiful moments and lots of learning with him. Truly a life changing experience having met him. Now I'm moving on and continue to work towards my goals.

[@meleciamegan]

@@ignazs.5816 when did you broke up? And how long were you two together?

[@ignazs.5816]

@@meleciamegan we broke up on April 12 2023, and I went no contact on June 12. We we're together for 10 months.

[@evyjay]

This has happened to me twice now, and for some reason, it's been the hardest scenario for me to let go, even though I usually don't have a problem letting go of people who can't show up. It's like these people were so helpful in this one scenario that pushed your life forward, you really want it to be this magical thing that continues on into the future. But it just isn't meant to be that. I hope things are going great for you in your new chapter!

[@GratefulWarriorMom]

When my husband left, I devoted all my energy into self improvement and renovating a home to move into. Keeping my thoughts in that direction was extremely helpful in letting go and letting him discover what's going on in his heart, alone. If your asking yourself, "How long do I let go for" or how far do I take it, etc......then you really haven't let go at all. Focus on your own growth and let the other person handle themselves. Your not going to change anyone or me them love you. Let it go. Move on and fill your life with positive energy and personal growth. Let it go!

[@richardthomas291]

Thanks for that I really needed to hear that 😊

[@brenthongayatao1192]

thank you!

[@AlwaysSpoilt]

Thank you so much ❤😊

[@dstry_17]

I started this meditation that Aaron introduced and I feel much better since I started (2 days ago). I already feel more energetic. I'm also focusing on myself and let God (or whatever you believe in) to work things out. If it's meant to be, it'll be. I'm letting her go to explore the world and herself, she'll be back if she wants to reconnect because I'm no longer chase her. I just want peace and self improvement.

[@AlwaysSpoilt]

@@dstry_17 may I ask which of Aaron’s meditations you are using to Let Go, I’m working on myself also but think a meditation may add to it, I found a Let Go meditation by Aaron from 5 years ago but I’m not sure if that’s the one you’re referencing. Thank you and best of luck on your journey x

[@hanabeautytips]

When we're let someone go,god will send new people to coming.

[@ramparkash2318]

Prita Rasco. Ur saying absolutely right. I'm agree with your words.

[@Diamond-rl2on]

I hope so 🥺 I want new people

[@user333k]

God*🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@gregsama1985]

I'd like to state that your "repetitive videos" actually help a lot. It's like having a constant reminder, but with a deeper understanding. So, no excuses brother, we're blessed to have you sharing all that knowledge 🤙🏾💯

[@WisdomWithin999]

Agreed!

[@donnaquinlan6530]

It grounds me to just say I call my energy back to me from that person it works

[@dallasfurnish3031]

It's interesting even when you read sacred scripture texts it's always in repetition which is a good way to actualize a state of being.

[@CSG1994]

I agree 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@HBZA-MissCodykins]

@@dallasfurnish3031 repetition is the key

[@walktalk_208]

God please make me resilient, confident, calm, and determined enough to let go of dumb shit especially guys and relationships and have me have faith in you that you will bring the perfect guy for me in your timing. Thank you!

[@kaoshi_kutie]

Amen 🙏🏼 ❤️

[@JC-ck7xz]

Same 👏🏼👏🏼

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

I am a guy who didn't have a women and still waiting for the right to come. I will wait too until fate hits or I will live alone but happy.

[@kentyiluminada7676]

Amen!

[@bahadortanzif8932]

👍

[@sushihonter1708]

I have been trying so hard to manifest him with affirmations and meditation but this made me realize that the more I do that the more I send out needy energy. I’ve also realized that I was letting go of myself in the process. Thank you so much❤️❤️

[@6skull6kid6]

^^^Literally my exact route before finding this video. Now I’m just confused on how one even let’s go 😭

[@akshaylal1508]

@Asiayei Cynthia please help

[@destineevalentin5657]

I’ve been doing the same 💔😪

[@7Earthsky]

@@6skull6kid6 You let go by focusing on yourself and your own life.

[@projectfear22]

​@@7Earthskythe way letting go is described here is by not caring but if you do not care it means you settled that your love would never happen while it couldve. And you may say now thst thsts exactly when it would happen, even if it does, whats the point then if you lost your feelings due to a random choice to give up.. I understand the point of the video but i dont see how you can love > let go (give up, never thinking, not caring) > love again. You cant just give up and then fall in love again. Thats fake. Either you love someone or you dont.

[@pinkypie445]

This is so true,when you let someone go you do get your energy back and it feels amazing.

[@k0k01]

I don’t want a nonchalant partner. I give love and I just want reciprocity, I don’t want to alter the way I love because I know my love is coming from a pure place. We are humans and it is perfectly normal to desire love IN ADDITION to our self love.

[@jenifernadeau]

It's fine to desire love and any other things we want. It's about not attaching to the outcome of a particular person, etc. It's the experiences we came to Earth for.. You can Envision the relationship, things you will do, & the feelings you feel while doing them, ex. Fun, exciting, curious, etc. that how I've known the Law of Attraction to work. It's about not attaching to a specific person so the universe can send you what you desire... and then the gratefulness in believing you have already received it. Think like a little kid that just says, I want to build a treehouse! And then everything they need shows up. When I was a kid I remember finding even a metal sink discarded in the woods that we used to wash our actual dishes lol. We found all the wood we needed Etc it's because we did not say, "I can't afford it, I have no time, I'm unworthy "Etc. And the more people that shared the vision, the faster it happened. That's why the Elite, Deep State Etc don't want us to connect as spiritual beings, to recognize our own power to manifest beautiful things. Re: treehouse Kids describe it the way they want it to be and what they're going to do in it, who they will invite, the fun they will have, food they'll bring in, Etc with NO resistance 😉 I've also learned that when I would get attached to a person I got nothing but disappointment, the universe was trying to bring me all kinds of wonderful things, even better than I imagined initially. Because I might not have known that they had more baggage and they were letting on, or needed more healing etc. You are always protected And your higher power always answers your questions with 1)not now, 2)yes, or 3) I have something better for you😇 With patience, I've always had the "something better" every time!!

[@k0k01]

@@jenifernadeau thank you I needed this

[@jenifernadeau]

@@k0k01 I changed my above response a bit, and gave my favorite example so it's easier to remember when you need it.

[@kresivarivkah612]

Absolutely. This is not something I practice. I did not have to do this with my husband. We live in a world that does not understand love.

[@redline350zHR]

@@jenifernadeau loveee this response!!!

[@Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande]

This is just too accurate to what I encountered last year. I was constantly chasing after this guy and the energy wasn't reciprocated but now I let go of him and he suddenly started texting me and wanting us to hang out but I was not feeling it Thank you for this energy

[@anneagena8236]

Omg this is my current situation right now.

[@Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande]

@Jojo Moa Thank you. I know that a great love is coming my way :)

[@Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande]

@@anneagena8236 how are you now?

[@MichaelSmith-uj1in]

How do you let them go?

[@Catherine_Chikondi_Namphande]

Update, now I am in a happy relationship with someone who adores me😊❤

[@senoritasombrero]

« If you treat someone like a celebrity, they’ll treat you like a fan. » whoah.

[@lynx2cross]

I’ve been energetically letting people go for the past 2 years once I realized that letting certain peoples energy into my space was draining me.

[@Flips619]

We're magnetic, control and choose wisely who gets your attention/energy; our brain is made up of light and energy be selfish with your light, share cautiously and look for reoccurring patterns to develop wisdom on impeccable timing to withdraw your power and get the desired outcome. Stay blessed brothers and sisters.

[@carlauchoaknoll]

Thank you🙏

[@Purpleiciousbabe]

Fact! Fact!

[@stellastar2083]

I definitely closed a karmic relationship that led me to learn that I needed to heal unhealthy attachment styles which were related to my childhood trauma.

[@MrTadow99]

38 days later and my energy has shifted so quickly and fluidly thanks to this channel.

[@99_problems_band]

🙏

[@Elifpoy]

Yey 😊

[@dianaramae3030]

This is so true. I experienced this a few weeks ago. My BF seems to be pulling away due to his dismissive avoidance attchment style and I really got frustrated about it. So I made an intention for a week to shift my energy and stop thinking about him but rather focus on myself. I even asked myself how would a 'single me' react in this situation or how did I manage to meet my own needs when I was single? I literally pour my energy into acting single and pretending to be secure attach for a week. Instead of sending him signals of energy by thinking a lot about him while giving him space, I shift my energy to improve myself and be present to myself. I practiced loving detachment and detaching myself to him emotionally and mentally. Days later, he started approaching me via chats and sending me good morning messages with our petname for 5 consecutive days without me asking for it! He was slowly meeting my needs. So I am going to do this again this week. Lol

[@KIKI-dz3hy]

I blocked him, i should have done this instead

[@hobhi1259]

How did you do this if I may ask? I am struggling with the same it’s been like this for years and I just seem stuck feeling unloved and rejected

[@GirlOfShips]

but isn't that exausting?

[@roxanamalkawi7264]

That's amazing. I will take your example too!

[@updates1134]

@@hobhi1259 just focus on yourself, if he/she ignored you mirror what he/shes doing in a positive way like start giving yourself a treat, stop thinking about him/her, make your mind and heart relax without thinking he/she will approach you again.. Just love yourself..keep your energy within you and you will start attract them.. Don't give away your energy.. If you love someone love them in a way that you love yourself too.. That's it..

[@abrahamo9897]

Day 2 of letting go.. this stuff seriously works and is crazy.. I let everyone go stopped being needy and clingy.. one of the woman I was seeking comfort with reached out to me.. came by my job on my lunch. I've literally been on this channel for 2 days! Although I felt nothing and it was amazing!!

[@karishort1891]

I am working on letting go off a toxic person that I recently realized was toxic... Perfect timing 🙏

[@umair111]

It's better to see the relationship as toxic rather than the human

[@follow.the.dragonfly]

About 10 years ago, I had some brief encounters with a guy in a shop I worked, before I moved to another city. No name or contact info. I was obsessing over him, and went looking for him everytime I came back home to visit family. Looked everywhere. Tried to get information about him, showing up where he'd might be, etc. Finally, I let it go and forgot about him after maybe a year. And short time after, I received a message, and it was from him! He had gone to my old work and gotten my number from former colleagues of mine. And so we met. All after I let it go. Will never forget!

[@joannedomingo2398]

I built a fantasy of my relationship of what was that never came to fruition. This guy kept me in limbo for a year.

[@ailala-m4h]

I let him go and detached my feelings not because of the hopes that someday he realized how much i cared and love him, i let him go because i know and we both know that it won't go deep, i let him go because he decided to fix his life the way he wanted. He made the right decision for his self and the people around him. No hopes for him to come back. All i can do is to move on and let things be. Its hard and the pain is unbearable. But who knows that somewhere out there, there is someone who reciprocates their feelings the same level of us. Decide for yourself and let the universe deal with it. Let things be and face the reality, life is too long. We got this✨

[@lipslearn8798]

So true! I needed to hear this. It’s been a couple years but I finally let go of someone energetically. And YES I feel more empowered and stopped believing he was my life and my future. I was living an illusion and a lie. And too probably trying to mend an old childhood wound. Wow heavy vital stuff you’re talking about. Who cares how many times. Sometimes we need to hear it over and over again before it sinks in! Good job, you are helping the world with those who suffer in it to become whole again. Don’t ever apologize for your content. It’s excellent and heartfelt by those who really receive it. 👍❤️

[@Richie131hun]

For years, I've been wanting someone to come back. I know I'm not supposed to do that but I couldn't resist checking her socials... And thank god I did, because now I realized that she's totally insane :D Now I hope she won't come back.

[@carole3445]

I have let go months ago! I got tired of being rejected. This video could have not come at a better time. Great video ❤

[@nathalialuz1758]

Yes I feel it

[@nicolet6131]

The hardest part for me was trying to manifest, but stay detached. I'm getting better.

[@yarukaribana2652]

It’s astounding how this video shows up in my recommended yesterday when I’ve been easing my way into energetically let someone I care about go. It’s been a weight on my chest that I wish could be different yet I’ve accepted what is and what isn’t. 🙏🏽 Our time is coming

[@Portia620]

Try doing it with a kid it’s difficult

[@brenagade]

Love this ^

[@nathalialuz1758]

🙏🙏🙏

[@99_problems_band]

🥰

[@99_problems_band]

😍

[@Samuraistar92]

Dude I wish I could give you a hug because I feel you finally explained why I am struggling so much with the people in my life and it’s been causing me so much pain.

[@GratefulWarriorMom]

This is so true! 3 months ago, my husband literally ran away from home. ( I believe it's associated with some kind of midlife crisis) at first I sent text messages telling him how much I loved him, etc. He wouldn't call and talk to me to tell me what happened or what his plan was. He got on a bus to Texas from Mississippi to take a "good job" and abandoned me. After a month or so, I decided to let go and focus on myself and this new awakening that has been occurring. I had to move because of his leaving me, so I had to focus on moving 100% by myself. I actually did it! I know many would say, "big deal", but it's big to me. I always thought I needed a man to take care of me. I always tried to become the person that they wanted. I completely lost myself. Now, I notice what you were talking about when you let someone go, the dynamics of the relationship change. He actually called and admitted that he hated the new job and ita not what he thought and he doesn't sound happy. He won't confess that, but I can tell. He notices that I have let him go in my heart and I've moved on. I even surprised myself at the ease of the transition this time. Thanks for reinforcing what I've been seeing on my own.

[@luckygirl-ue1jx]

Been through a similar situation, except I'm the one that decided to leave a marriage after many years being treated as a roommate,etc. it's true you don't realize how strong you are or can become when life is at its most difficult . So proud of you..

[@Caolan-b6r]

​@@luckygirl-ue1jxyou probably should have spoke to him about it rather than just living that's part of the problem

[@KtyWolf]

Smh…. Keep Staying strong lady!

[@GratefulWarriorMom]

Wow, I posted that comment almost 2 years ago about when my husband abandoned me. I've grown so much since then. I'm still living on family property, but trying to finish the repairs on my rv is going slow. It won't be long, though, before I get it ready and I'm going to start another new adventure or chapter in my life. Good and positive energy flows and I'm catching a ride!

[@iamgoddessoflove]

When you realize that holding onto pain is so much greater than the pain of removing a toxic person out of your life, then you know that it is time to let go. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@ĐạtNguyễn-u5m7y]

If you are suffering, let it beat you down, let it tear u apart, then u letting go, not bc u no longer love them, I’ve witnessed that in my situation, it actually works, just don’t control your emotions, let it be

[@Westindiangyal1111]

It's always the ego. The ego always seeks validation. Great and accurate insight ❤ Thank you.

[@InterstellarDreams]

I got myself back! It is the BEST darn feeling! I literally have NO longing to get back with him anymore! I've noticed a MASSIVE shift happening during these last few weeks! And I also have WAY more energy! To the point that I feel almost kind of manic! (I'm not bipolar, to my knowledge. But still a good word, regardless.) I've been dancing by myself for hours during the last few nights, going for long, fast paced walks, and soaking up energy and empowerment from everything around me. And just.. I am SO fucking excited about finally getting to know myself again! I can tell I'm a different person now, on the other side of this! Not who I was while I was with him. But also not who I was, before I met him. I've grown a TON! Plus I love myself, and I am ENOUGH! And I have things I'm PASSIONATE about again! I see people and think they're cute / consider what it would be like to get with them! I have fantasies, and yummy, vibrant dreams, and a metric FUCK-TON of empowerment! I feel this kind of witchy, primal energy, that I thought I had lost! And I seem to be stepping into some kind of state I did not even realize was available! I was in HELL, and now the light shines forever brighter.. It's always darkest right before the dawn, they say. And what a dawn it is!! (Only negative side effect of this..? Is, I haven't been getting enough sleep. I need to catch up, but I'm just not tired!) ..Just felt like sharing that. Letting go is AMAZING!! Do recommend.

[@alexanderalzate8560]

im so happy for you.. ❤

[@mailmdivya]

Sometimes they just go forever. Good anyways, the right one will come in..

[@ilovetosingx3]

😇🙏♥️🦋💯

[@welcomehomeoracles]

I resonate with this so much, having those thoughts and wishes towards someone else of "please just let me go." Because I know what my soul wants and what feels best. I can feel that projected energy.

[@watchme7076]

I let go and didn’t take action every time I miss 2 times it doesn’t come back even tho hen I let go how do I do it? It’s because of my communication and confidence it’s making people upset thinking that I don’t want to talk when I do. Please 🙏 help me

[@99_problems_band]

😍

[@rachelwalz5965]

@@watchme7076 I feel your pain, but I also feel that you answered your own question. Inner work and healing comes first. Then once you are in a positive healthy consistent happy state, then you’ll be on the right road of your own journey in life and is what is destined for your. Meaning, things will fall into place as they should. Have faith. You’re mind is stronger than you know

[@kellibullock5930]

This has helped me so much! I'm dealing with a daughter who is an addict. While I realize it's a significantly different relationship, detaching energy is affective fie ME! I'm chasing her energetically and I've let go. I've got to heal my inner- enabler spirit. Letting go is the only way. Thank you so much!

[@larac0]

Yesssss!! Me likey!! Letting go of everyone! Whatever they want is their problem, not mine

[@martaszczygiel5722]

It’s true, happened to me many times, when you let go and move on, focus on yourself and your life they always come back

[@Lola-Yo]

This is great, you’ve put a feeling into words. I’m in my 60’s and I’m sure my bestie is avoiding me. So instead of chasing her, I’ve let her off the hook. It’s okay, she has her own reasons, I’ve been journaling, meditating, doing shadow work, I’ve learned acceptance. No one wants to feel like another is hovering over them.

[@timsim1631]

My best friend left me 2 years ago for a small thing and she never came back till date sometimes it hurt but nothing of these videos work if people wants to go they never come bAck

[@dianneciresi6290]

Yeah we were just a passing fling like all the others from our past, only a very few may stay & bond with us & remain a permanent fixture in our lives. I was told people come & go in our life. I want the one I love to stay for the long haul

[@dianneciresi6290]

But he has a dismissive avoidant attachment style & has serious health issues..prolly doesn't have many people he knows anymore other than his relatives. Has no family or wants no family values other than his own older bro & cuzzos..

[@crunchybunbun]

This is really sad. When they come back, our feelings have already changed.

[@ArtistOfMyLife]

I don't think it's bad to make someone feel needed. But there is also a boundary you should pay attention to. If your efforts are not being valued and you are still clinging onto that person, you will most likely continue to suffer and if you don't want to suffer... it's better to pull away and start concentrating on yourself. I needed this kind of video because of a difficult phase in my and my husband's relationship. If he is emotionally cold or does not invest much into me and our relationship as he used to, I decided to shift my attention to myself, enjoying life, making myself feel beautiful, taking care of myself, etc., and stop holding onto him and all the nice memories. It does not mean playing games, ignoring him completely or leaving immediately. But it also doesn't mean staying in an unsatisfying relationship forever. I will just observe things, but stop feeding him with emotional attachment and have fun alone, with myself. This phase cost me enough tears but I feel better when I stopped shedding them for him. He even showed some jealousy when I started texting with other guys (nothing provoking, just in a friendly way)

[@astrospirit]

The issue is when we let go we get what we want that we don’t want anymore. So their has to be a way to get what u want before u loose interest

[@jiyashrivastava9230]

thats the hardest part how to let go of someone who is in your mind no matter how hard u try he comes back again n again even if u go out on date with someone else u compare them.

[@brandonnykyforak]

You have all the free will to do what you choose but I’ll say this. If your ex is still in ur mind constantly even when ur on new dates with new guys then either 1. You aren’t over him fully or 2. There’s still trauma from him/that relationship and so either give it more time or get the help to resolve that trauma. I say that in the best way possible. If you’re still comparing ur ex to new people then it’s not going to be healthy.

[@awdman6214]

Having to let go of my ex was hard but having to let go of my child still haunts me. I just woke up at 3 am from a reoccurring nightmare of my child being ripped from my soul. All I can do is work on myself and gain resources so if or when my daughter comes looking for me I can provide the time and energy for us to heal.

[@ixiiixciv3300]

You’ve made it so simple I wish I could have found this video when I was going threw it. I thought he was my twin flame. Turns out it was my trauma messing with me and I had a feeling the whole time so I chose to let it go

[@TravelBug189]

It’s been almost 4 months and I’m having trouble letting go. I work with a therapist, I try to go out, I started working out but nothing. I’m in the same place I was 4 months ago - just completely heartbroken and devastated even though I’m the one who ended things. But I seem to always choose people who don’t choose me. And I wanted to be chosen by him so badly! I keep obsessing, crying, replaying all these scenarios in my head. I wish it was easier I feel so stuck

[@trollzynisaacjohan1793]

You need to stop giving a fuck basically. literally telling yourself will aide in letting go.

[@MrMind-lr1hb]

@@iamauroraborealis unfortunately you are right, she can't get that feeling on her own. It has to be healed and should be only possible from within a relationship. I too tried to be happy on my own and accept that there is no one for me giving me a chance and I can sadly approve that you can feel the void by doing stuff but feel empty emotionally because no one loves you as the person you are or wants to meet you.

[@ashleykathryn9038]

@@iamauroraborealis Thank you, that really helped me. I'm in a similar spot

[@SenyoritaStoic]

Hope you get healed in God's perfect time! You can do it! You deserve yo be happy!

[@TravelBug189]

@@iamauroraborealis Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate it I do miss him. I’ve known him for 10 years so he’s not someone new. We lived separate lives until he recently moved about 30 minutes from where I live. Within those 10 years he would text me out of the blue, ask how I’m doing, ask if I want to meet for dinner but it never happened. He would disappear for months and months then pop back in. Six months ago I went to see him and I was very happy seeing his face again. But he recently got out of a bad relationship and had other stuff going on in his life. I kind of felt like an intruder, like a distraction or someone he’d vent to. I didn’t want to listen to him talk about his ex and ask me about my past relationships, that’s in the past I wanted to move forward and see if we can start something. I told him I care about him but it sounds like he needed to heal and work on his issues. I told him it hurt when he’d just vanish and reappear again. I want someone who will stay, not come and go. I haven’t heard from him since But I miss his sense of humor. We could talk for hours and just laugh. He’s very intelligent and he inspired me to want to grow as a person, to expand my skills and knowledge. I admired his work ethic. He was a great dad to his son (from a previous marriage) It hasn’t gotten better. In some sense it’s gotten worse because time is passing but my feelings are the same

[@endi7886]

We broke up, I want to die, watching this hoping I will survive 😢

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are you now friend? i hope you are in a much better place now. i wish you well ❤

[@endi7886]

@alexanderalzate8560 hey, much better. I am new person, already forgot about that. Time heels everyone. My advice to all broken hearts, never brake no contact, you will heal faster... Thank you for carrying ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DarkKnight-yz2wg]

I am so glad to come across life and relationship coaches. I have no issue attracting women, initially, but my energy inherently repels them because I don’t know myself. My emotional instability has reeked havoc in all of my interpersonal relationships.

[@jgill1234567]

You let them go and they jump at you like a magnet! love the videos! you inspired me to make a channel as well so thank you! 🙏

[@RathwulvenBushcraft]

This comment is for all my fellow PTSDers: I know that most of us have a lot of trouble truly loving ourselves, but understand that this is not your personal "fault". Other people/experiences have shaped you and created your coping mechanisms, your need for true connection and hence also most of your attachment out there. Maybe you are trying really hard to let go but - like me in the past - have trouble doing so. Please don't beat yourself up for that - because that just makes things worse. I wish you all the happiness you deserve and that you will continue on your path towards a better life, cause you deserve it no matter what people/circumstance did to you in the past.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

❤️❤️❤️

[@OsirisNin]

What if my actions betrayed my partner? I feel sick to my stomach over what I’ve done.

[@bettywhite3039]

Back at ya! Thank you!

[@bettywhite3039]

@@OsirisNin Unbetray to get rid of those feelings!

[@OsirisNin]

@@bettywhite3039 what if that’s not possible?

[@lesablunt6298]

This is Sooo True!! When I talk about my past. It’s mostly Negative!! I’m working thru this!! I’ve learned from my past!! And take full accountability for my share in it!!!! It’s making me stronger each day!!! Thanks for the Advice!!!

[@nathalialuz1758]

💕💕

[@carmynsegura]

❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahmaxwell9236]

Just let someone go. And it feels lighter. Took me awhile. Thank you for the reminder

[@knowitintobeing]

It's the most satisfying (and best) thing to do. Get off of that energy and your whole life is gonna change to the better. 😊 Especially if there was a lot of drama. If it's an SP, that SP is way more likely to come back then. Or a new one will show up that is way better in all ways. 😊 Always remember, YOU are amazing and they are just the cherry on the top. 💖

[@minalpuntambekar1239]

There was a lot of drama created in my life Because of SP, but not his which he isn't aware of, does that mean he would still be back।

[@df7698]

I had a video game addiction and couldn't stop. She told me to leave and as i got help for my addiction my heartache only grows. I never stopped loving her it was just my addiction that masked it.

[@Jbellz28]

Yes you repeat things all the time but we need the constant reminder ✨ Thank you! 🙏🏾

[@Skymaaan]

Since i broke up with my girlfriend i have gained some few kg of muscle and become more ripped at the same time, i feel better, sleep better, look better work twice as much and still not feeling tired etc. all the energy i gave to her should be enough not only for a tesla but for a nuclear power plant. Both physically and emotionally i lived for two people. But now i have two peoples energy for myself 💪💪

[@justaskjess8572]

Aaron, you are truly an amazing soul. You changed my life in so many ways. You’ve opened my eyes, and listening to your videos just automatically raises my vibration & makes me feel good. You are a genuine soul. Namaste 🙏🏼

[@shriyachamakura4244]

Aaron, I’ve been having a very anxious day due to personal and academic stress. Just one minute into the video, I feel so relaxed and in tune with my actual vibe. Your energy is bright and neat and certainly infectious

[@nathalialuz1758]

Same feelings

[@krystlegregory3130]

Yes

[@AubrieRicheson]

“Safe within yourself” that is so powerful 🙏🏻 Thank you for this video!

[@CJ-mt6zd]

Spot on, if you treat people like a celebrity they treat you like a fan!

[@moongoddess88888]

Wow I really needed this today. In process of releasing a connection that has been draining me. Thank you divine. 🙏💚

[@dolphinka]

Wow! It’s like KZbin reads your mind before adding videos to your feed 😅 it hit home so hard!

[@krystleavs]

Letting go to get back to myself

[@phyllissmith3574]

After living decades with my ex, we did split. Throughout afterwards, he would pop up in my dreams. It did stop finally when I refused him. This man went into another room and cried as though someone had died. Then I woke up feeling heartbroken again. Thank God all of that had passed.

[@TianaLadySteel]

I am learning so much about the magnetic. My healing from ptsd, anxiety and health issue depression clouds my mind sometimes to where i forget the importance of this. Thank you and subscribed

[@SA-px3ln]

How did you heal ptsd anxiety depression?

[@82powpow]

aaron i watch a lot of self help videos. i went through a break up and your videos started to pop up. heaven sent my guy. you are really helping me to detach and i’m really just focusing on me. it’s a work on process but i’m getting stronger everyday!

[@lthom286]

This guy is so easy to listen too. Thank you for getting through a difficult time in my life. I really appreciate it. Thank you

[@emanhassan8219]

"Feeling safe within yourself" , that's an amazing ending to a great video, Thanks Aaron !

[@Bearerofwater18]

I just accidentally found your channel this morning. And where my life is right now your words are so relevant in my ears. Thank you for giving your energy to the world so that other people like me can find it and move on. I like how you said if you treat someone like a celebrity they'll treat you like a fan. Keep doing what you're doing. You're spreading goodness into the world we need more of that

[@nandhunandhu2603]

@Lukas how

[@nandhunandhu2603]

I too need to restore my partners energy towards me

[@Peacemt]

When a person took back his energy, I felt soo calm, relaxed and wanted to sleeep

[@mishapriyanka]

This is beautiful. Especially if your are empath.. We got to learn to protect our energy. We must create a protective shield

[@nathalialuz1758]

Always Time in solitude to recover

[@mishapriyanka]

@@nathalialuz1758 this is right

[@ViWiHH]

This is so difficult for me as an empath

[@luluyancy5271]

Wow you hit the head on the nail with this talk. I just recently let go of someone whom I once considered to be one of my best friends and I’ve come to realize not only was the attachment I had with her toxic and one sided but it was also bc of an abandonment wound I’ve inhibited from childhood trauma. Our friendship served its purpose but I still feel her pulling on me energetically even though she swore she was fine without. She calls me. She texts me first. She misses me. Now I miss her too but I don’t act on these things bc I know our relationship to each other has run it’s course. There’s still love there I just finally understood the purpose of what our relationship served and in doing so I’ve learned and been able to overcome so many obstacles within myself. I’m healing and I’m grateful that we did come together when we did

[@Tshifaro_WarriorPrincess]

Grieving a relationship and struggle let go. This is video is really the medicine I wanted. ❤

[@donnavorbach215]

hope it is going well! put your faith in Christ! He will lead you to the right one!

[@bananarae9207]

I was praying and asking God to show me how to let go of someone emotionally (as I felt I was becoming a different person) and a video of yours came up and it showed me how my intense energy was obviously projecting the needy woman within me. I equated it to the fact of always trying to save people and needing to be needed, which is a situation I removed myself from 1 year ago (I have myself 6 months to do it), and I guess with not having that avenue to express my need to help, created another situation to latch onto. So I'm now trying to let go of a man who I see daily, which will be hard but necessary. Its a situation I've never been in before because I was too busy being needed elsewhere that I ignored myself and put myself on the back burner. But knowing how to say no was the best thing in the world for me - now, it's time to say no to the negative associations I have regarding myself and the attachment I (strongly) desire, but inadvertently repel. Thank you for your video 💯 learning immensely from your videos 👍🏾

[@JasMineSnow1]

👍😎💞

[@nathalialuz1758]

Is so powerful learn self love that anything external is a plus

[@katherinesalazar4198]

Amen, i love this man. This video came to me while being very high and it’s just exactly what I needed to hear.

[@gerardo8027]

totally agree, we can shift positive and negative energy when it is nonsense to concentrate on it.

[@Alaska_Gal]

Years ago, Jared Leto was standing in front of me in line. I calmly asked if it was him, he said yes and I said “it’s nice to meet you”. That was it. Shortly after, I saw my friend talking with him outside. We all just had a chill conversation. & he ended to inviting us to his show that night. Nice guy.

[@tarotgoddess99]

You're video came today when I decided to let someone go.

[@sarahtonin8144]

The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance - either on your own or with the help of a Financial Advisor. If you can get the facts about savings and investing with a well detailed plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your income.

[@mav3420]

I think the pandemic have really taught people the importance of multiple streams of income, unfortunately having a job doesn't mean security.

[@cryptocasey1083]

Successful people don't become wealthy overnight. What most people see as a lance wealth, a great career and luxury is a result of smart work.

[@kathyfrugalsen3047]

@Chris john Alright, so you know anyone?

[@frankdouglas1562]

@@kathyfrugalsen3047 I know someone, I invest with an investment advisor assigned by an investment firm that trades for me

[@frankdouglas1562]

He's Paul gustave schoffelen from Pennsylvania

[@speaktruthpeace1612]

It’s true. It’s hard but it’s true. Let them go.

[@robertoieva9809]

It’s so difficult after a breakup, especially if they monkeybranched 😞

[@rosiemckinney1061]

Your voice comes across so much softer and better when you sit down.

[@nedamalovic8981]

Very true! The relationship had served its purpose. Amen

[@jasminecoppage711]

I realized several months ago that I had a couple of childhood abandonment wounds from both parents and it was affecting every relationship I had. I have been working on self love and recognizing my triggers and working on boundaries and am slowly healing.

[@ericjackson1873]

Really liking the way you explain how energy really does work. I'm about 3 weeks off of a relationship. I now feel that I can understand why she was pulling away. I've been watching a few of your videos, now every time I watch one it makes me feel better about myself.

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are u now friend? its been a year since your comment. im sure you are in a much better place now. i wish you nothing but the best in life ❤

[@jaysee7283]

This is one of the most important videos on KZbin

[@elainecheetham2312]

I'm not fed up of your past story but I think you would benefit from just letting that stay in the past. You are credible in your own right and your words and opinions are very valuable without the back story. I feel your pain when you speak of your past and feel your happiness and freedom when you stay in the present. If it helps you to keep telling the story of how you got to where you are today then ignore me, what I think is irrelevant anyway. I wouldn't give your stepmum the power to stay present in your story. You are who you are because you are strong and fabulous. I believe your mean stepmum should have been removed from your life, you didn't have the power to leave then, you can now. Take care of yourself and be very proud of who you are, I'm sure you are!

[@amyyoung6535]

I've experienced this letting go and surprised when I did that he came chasing me. But, What I realized is, is that we sometimes become attracted to a similar type of person that hurt us in the past to resolve it. Unconsciously picking a person like that to concur and prove I have worth in their eyes by fighting to get their approval. When we experience trauma we will unconsciously keep recreating setarious to relive it and overcome it this time.

[@orionsbelt3631]

This must be devine timing !!

[@christina8418]

This was extremely well explained and I feel somehow more empowered.

[@SenyoritaStoic]

Thanks, man! I've been emotionally exhausted for three months now since he left. Your videos are helpful!

[@xxvii4xx]

Hi it’s 7:21 n I woke up extremely anxious n lack so I went ahead thinking of my ex who I had the extreme pain letting go but since I can’t reach him I was desperate but the guy I’m talking to now(luckily) he messaged me a gm text n I asked him for a “hug me I miss you..” so I realized I’m doing something wrong by filing the lack by someone else when I should wake up grateful that I have this new man who constantly wants the best for me as to my ex who already moved on. I found this channel now n click on the video n I’m shocked how universe brought me to the video I exactly needed to hear.

[@PALTV-hn9jt]

Aaron it is amazing how you put out the exact video that I needed right now. Thank you so much for always being so consistent. Your videos have been life changing for me. 💯

[@nathalialuz1758]

Thank you 🙏

[@99_problems_band]

🙏

[@sobia411kA]

I was looking video like this, because don't know I miss him since couple of days, so today I wad watching this video so suddenly his name come up on your comment😊

[@dariussheard5242]

I’m in the process of fully letting go of my ex not sending my energy their way. Having that emotional attachment to someone who no longer wanted you is tough but the more I watch the videos the more my mind comes to ease

[@summersunriseyoga]

That high school story really resonated with me. I wish I could get to the reframes sooner. I like to practice yoga to help myself ground and be fully embodied. I hope that can help me magnetize what truly belongs to me!