What He's Thinking Before You Sleep Together

[@coolbreeze5683]

Audrey is right. Love is more about feelings and emotions a person evokes rather than their looks. There comes a point in good, loving relationships where you just feel eachother's vibes and you don't really notice how the other person looks. The other person becomes perpetually beautiful to you if you love them.

[@amorepsyche808]

Not true, you just get content with what you have. I assure you if a model passes by the man will drool instantly

[@caty2ful]

@@amorepsyche808 Exactly. Women are not so much about the looks but men...

[@amorepsyche808]

@@caty2ful well yes, but nobody will deny that a fit body and not bold male has more chances to have s*x than a overweight bold man..I mean would be more enjoyable in bed, the eyes want their part too! But women forget about s*x and they are ok with a man who is financially well off and can contribute to the family (all very valuable attributes)but attractiveness is not there anymore we all know that

[@caty2ful]

@@amorepsyche808 Exactly!

[@coolbreeze5683]

​​@@amorepsyche808 I'm talking about actual love not lust. There are men who are capable of that. Everyone is different.

[@SimoneJY]

Let’s be honest and admit that external beauty is important to everyone. BUT it can be a short-lived phase which can easily turn unattractive by someone’s behaviour. I, for one, believe that a person’s beauty radiates from within. No matter how gorgeous he or she might be, their actions will make them more beautiful or turn them “ugly”. Whoever you choose to be your life partner for all the right reasons will always be the most beautiful human being to you.

[@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow]

It’s not important to me, just be a vaguely square shaped dude and be nice, lmao I still don’t fathom how humans are so shallow while claiming to not be 🤭

[@isabellavansmoorenburg6232]

Yes external beauty is just initial attraction, when you are truly attracted to someone its because of who they are.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

And if he doesn't make you wet right away make him work for it.

[@Dionysus_Athena]

Every good looking western woman I’ve met seems to be trash. They all have been used and abused the. You have to deal with their bs mistakes and trauma caused by all the guys they smashed.

[@Laflaqua-hg5yx]

I’m loving the new female element in your content and how Audrey is bringing the female perpective and questions into this ❤

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Yes,she is hot and tells the truth.

[@valerielove9837]

Who is this lady?? Is she Matt's fiancé???

[@Paula-fd6lj]

Let's be real, if you are sleeping too soon with someone, the love they can start developing n the compassion lens they'd use to judge you, is not there. You are just a physical body standing there with all of its flaws. The caveat to that as Jameson mentioned is, everyone is ready to be fooled by your uniqueness but only if you believe in it, yourself. No one can tear you down unless you let them. So even if your body is not perfect, you have to find the self love in you to remember you are not just a physical body to be reduced to, you are an entire package to be discovered 📦 😉💛

[@heyjenknee]

There ya go!!

[@78beckyboo]

As a curvy girl I've worked on my self for years: worth, development, loving my skin...I can tell you that confidence is everything! Own that shit, be grateful for your body 🙏🏼 and sexiness will ooze out of you. And just because someone is good looking doesn't automatically make them good in bed anyway 😅 It's LOA...what you believe about yourself and put out to others is what you'll receive

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

If it doesn't ooze out let it drip from your lips while looking at him. Moaning also works, while looking at him screwing you,

[@arushasmusic8523]

For me, what makes a person beautiful physically is precisely everything that makes them unique. Their own particular shape, skintone, the scars they have, the myriads of ways their sensuality shines through in the way they move or do something, the tone of their voice etc etc...

[@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow]

Right??? The things that make them, them.

[@amorepsyche808]

Sure and a big belly🤦‍♀️

[@Ljounieh]

​@@amorepsyche808 you just don't get it do you

[@lawoman608]

I agree with Audrey. When we are in that moment of being completely vulnerable in front of each other, we do not judge each other.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

You bet cha

[@carriepadgett2743]

I just started seeing someone a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. It's been 5 years since "the first time" with someone and I swear, it gets harder every time because I'm getting older (I've been in several long term relationships). I'm 42 and he's 51, both of us are in great athletic shape and look 10 years younger than we actually are, yet I am STILL a nervous wreck because this weekend is going to be THE weekend. It's like you guys said in the video and in chat, you have to own it and have self pride. There's beauty and power in that. And try not to be nervous because your partner is probably just as nervous as you. So just have fun, laugh, give each other confidence and radiate what you want to receive.

[@sandra4equifino52]

I get your being nervous and all, but what a lovely place to be in - where all the excitement and promise and adventure is part of your days and nights. Enjoy and have a great time! X

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Of course he wants you to screw him the make him some food. Pancakes if your poor. Treat him like a king. Make him be in charge stay safe and be a human.

[@northofyou33]

I am considerably older than you and still playing this game, since I am divorced. Carrie, enjoy your youth. You are STILL young, and you're 10 years younger than him. Own that!

[@SSpitz16]

How did it go? 😅

[@carriepadgett2743]

@@SSpitz16 lol it went AWESOME. We were both nervous at first, but that was ok. The rest of the weekend was smooth sailing and we are so excited to see each other again in a few days ♡

[@SophieLovesSunsets]

I 100% agree with Audrey. If you sleep with someone solely based on their looks ... the relationship or sex will never actually be that good. Maybe it will be great in the early stages of the relationship, when dopamine and hormones are running high, but in the long term you need a real connection and chemistry with someone.

[@Jo-Dublin]

There it is. The key word. "Chemistry" ...and it doesn't necessarily primarily means sexual attraction. To me "chemistry" is a constant hunger and interest in learning more about the other person, wanting more of the communication and this personal contact and presence Even in silence. In fact silence in presence of the other person tells me volumes about the connection between us.

[@lucindalaree9265]

“Ah God Damn it!” That totally cracked me up! Audrey your female perspective is the best!

[@annamanna3]

Thank you for your voice Audrey. Your point about our looks not defining whether we are worthy of a relationship really resonated. Glad you are part of these videos.

[@bayareaballbreakdown]

This is exactly why confidence is so key! 👏

[@YAWEHPrincess_]

True 🙌🏻

[@coolbreeze5683]

My body is far from what the media would consider perfect but I've always been confident about it. I don't know where the confidence comes from but I found that I've always been more body confident than some of the guys I've been with. When I started getting intimate with my current partner, he'd joke about his "dad bod". I think he's handsome. He says he thinks I'm beautiful. I think when you're in love with someone, your bodies can look any type of way and you'll still be attracted to one another.

[@bayareaballbreakdown]

@@coolbreeze5683 I can relate with my current partner also joking about his "dad bod". One time he forcibly pushed out his stomach, so I pushed out my already bloated stomach and said "I still think we look great". A quote from Euphoria that stuck with me, is 90% of life is about confidence, and the thing about confidence, is that no one can tell when you're faking it!

[@coolbreeze5683]

​@@bayareaballbreakdown that goes along with what Matthew says in the video. Confidence contributes to a lot. If you believe what you're offering is high quality then others believe it to.

[@valerielove9837]

How true!!

[@yorkshirelassdiaries4841]

If I’m attracted to someone’s soul, it affects how I see them ❤

[@terrylasin3709]

Why does it affect the way you see them ?

[@yorkshirelassdiaries4841]

@@terrylasin3709 if they have a beautiful heart and soul, it makes them more beautiful to me. If they have an ugly heart and soul and they’re not a nice person, I no longer see them as attractive

[@terrylasin3709]

@@yorkshirelassdiaries4841 we all still in the same game and am really looking for a good soul with a good heart .

[@Taraquin83]

The 'Shallow Hal' effect 😉

[@raffaellaricciardi8517]

When I'm in love, I'm in love also with the little things that are not perfect about my man's body. I even see them as a plus. I cannot split a person into "areas": body, mind, voice... it's a whole lovable person.

[@terrylasin3709]

Great !

[@katieb8511]

Yes !! ❤

[@amorepsyche808]

Let’s face it attractiveness is Very important but character will make people stay

[@valerielove9837]

Amen!!

[@charlottepeukert9095]

Attractiveness is not just within someone. Let's face it, it matters, how you look. As Oscar Wilde said:" It would be really superficial, not to judge a book by it's cover." But that applies to general standards of health, weight and size. Nobody needs to be exceptionally attractive to find love. However, having intersting qualities, abilities, humor and being of good character helps. Being smart and educated makes someone attractive as well.

[@elizabethmccaul2223]

I'm 79 and men of all ages tell me I'm attractive. I thank them

[@genevievemaurano6155]

Audrey is awesome! She really adds to the video and Matthew seems so happy! He is really lucky to have found her. She is beautiful and authentic.

[@riantiboz007]

My mom always told me, pretty is…”is” pretty does! You can be pretty but what you do is what matters. That could be showing kindness, empathy or being honest.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Don't forget the oral while it's dripping 💦 from your lips 👄. Kitty 🐈 is good for getting food and drink.

[@ladonawyatt]

After coming out of a 30 year marriage, my self-esteem was so low that I never thought I could ever be found to be attractive. I have really found since then, that self confidence is apparently very attractive. 😅 All those years I wasted feeling bad about how I looked!

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

As men we see you at the top of your game. Be a freak in the sheets and be desired by all men. You are desired by all and you screw us we are blessed.

[@ladonawyatt]

@@MCarrick-ss7xc yes sir! The sexy hot acrewing will continue 🤣

[@TheKrispyfort]

If he's making unhelpful comments about your naked body, why are you naked with this bloke? If you're making unhelpful comments about your naked body, why are you naked with this bloke? I'm pretty certain they've already figured out what my body looks like under the clothes by the time we've gotten to the bedroom naked

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Kitty 🐈 is the same anywhere. As long as it's hot and wet you are at the top of your game. Yes his hands aren't down your pants because you vote similar to him.

[@Gez-C]

Think they are all right, that you go with the person that you have that chemistry with, makes you laugh, etc and you dont want to point out the bad things in you and just be yourself!

[@haleyscomet8356]

Reject ourselves even before others do...😢 Let’s not do it!!

[@hortensejones4050]

Also agree with Audrey PLUS There’s a world of us who are overweight, who can’t/don’t work out, who are ill, handicapped, have had mastectomies etc& hey/we are just as lovable, sexual as the models Real love transcends the superficial. I know cause I was fortunate enough to be loved really loved by my husband for 45 years (and a couple of others too.!) Thank G-d ➡️Sexuality is an inside job and most of the time people don’t feel confident or great about the way we look Part of love IS embracing body mind soul, warts and all!❤

[@Constaur]

I appreciated Audrey's comments about who we end up with and how it goes beyond physical beauty. I was a little disappointed in the men here for talking so much about selling yourself as sexually attractive, rather than talking about, for example, how a man should be able to move beyond that a bit to appreciate all the wonderful (potentially) qualities of his partner. Their response felt shallow - unlike so many of your other conversations! I enjoy this wonderful podcast!!

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

If I find you sexy I'll be there for you. It's not physical. Boobs are great. And your kitty 🐈 is awesome. No worries get wet and be hot.

[@coolbreeze5683]

I agree, some of what the men said does push the narrative that all men care so much about conventional physical attractiveness. Many men do but there are also many who are capable of looking past the physical or falling in love with however their partner looks over time. I'm married to one of those guys and yes they do exist.

[@jucxox]

I think the selling analogy was missed. Please watch it again.

[@jessicaroma9631]

I love that we have Audrey’s perspective too really makes it balanced♥️

[@Berr3631]

Yes i believe in not drawing attention to the parts of your body you would love to change..So just love yourself own your body tell yourself, you are fabulous.Then it flows like a river and just enjoy the moment..If your date or partner compliments you actually accept it acknowledge it with confidence..Thank you again Mr Hussey for a great video. .

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Offer all that bothers you, he doesn't mind being a man we don't care. we love you. Your body are the ecrutiment you are sexy.

[@dianneciresi7208]

What if they don't accept ur body flaws & get turned off by them?

[@Berr3631]

@dianneciresi7208 Discernment is a beautiful gift so let us use it women will know and feel when the right person is there with them mentally and emotionally even before the intimacy begins.

[@honeystorlie1778]

Absolutely brilliant articulation of identity and personhood showing up strong inside of vulnerability Matt! You bring so much covering of vulnerability within the thought as well. Awesome! I love it when you support each other’s thoughts and sharing… This was a very wonderful description of exuding confidence through what we believe about ourselves. 💫💫💫

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Making girls wet since 1968

[@ari_jean]

It's true that you should be careful about talking too much about your insecurities. My bf and I are the same height, and while I'm a bit tall for a woman, my bf feels like he's "too short" for a man lol. I used to see him as perfection of a man's body, because he's athletic plus he has beautiful facial features. But listening to comments about how he's not "tall enough" for more than 2 years now penetrated my brain and I indeed sometimes "accidentally" compare him to other men and I do realize that probably he *is* shorter than the "beauty standart" and for a minute I see him less attractive for that. But then I hate myself for those thoughts, because it is not my real perception nor *my* real taste in men.

[@onnol917]

Yeah thats selfsabotage. He is projecting his own percieved shortcoming and now its drilled a way into your perception. If this keeps going you are going to start losing attraction

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

When seeding dought. You need reclaimed sex. This shows you who is in command, even if you fantasize Capt Jack is short. But his lust over you is commanding. Make him pancakes if your poor. Treat him like the king he is. Let his love drip from your lips. Either end.

[@ari_jean]

@@MCarrick-ss7xc wtf

[@fuzakali9083]

Stupid of him to focus on not being taller than you. Instead of seeing it as an advantage. He is the perfect size for you: against the wall with a taller guy is more complicated!

[@morwenaaudic5416]

I'm tall for a woman (1,76m) and have always had partners same height as me or smaller than me. One of them felt insecure because he was 1,65 m. I always tried to "sell "him it was easier for kissing my breast and some other positions 😂. I understand it's not easy for you. But the fact that I didn't really care helped him to be less sensitive even if he didn't change his mind on the fact he should be taller as a man. We are still full of stereotypes and have to work on ourselves to get rid of them. Best wishes for both of you!

[@yorkshirelassdiaries4841]

Omg all women should watch this. I needed to hear this more than any other video that you’ve ever made ❤

[@terrylasin3709]

Yeah, his just hitting the real points.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

This is enlightening enough for you to be sexy and hot. This is where men live at your sexyness. at the peak of your game.

[@theprousteffect9717]

Matthew Hussey is one of the most brilliant modern thinkers and speakers on relationships that I've heard.

[@Clovergirl7934]

Sorry, but it’s my experience with men that they don’t care a whole lot about a woman’s body as long as they can get some! 😊. Their focus is on the act itself and not so much what’s under them. One track mind. And, it’s the way you make them feel about themselves that makes YOU sexy!

[@caty2ful]

When its just about having sex I think you are right, but for having a relationship not at all.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Men see you at the top of your game. If you are desired by all you are hot and trappable

[@meganthebritishcatmom]

For hookups yes, but not in a relationship.

[@cassmusic39]

Think about this truth: We already are beautiful! We don't have to live up to these expectations of beauty. We already were and are beautiful just the way we are 😍

[@terrylasin3709]

Still don't understand were your statement hitting ?

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Duh, get down tonight.

[@TheKrispyfort]

I own my body. We're a testimony to our resilience Last kiddo resulted in physical abdominal wall injury that still affects my physical health and body shape. Yeah, the flesh apron is annoying BUT this is a body that has worked, and lived, and loved before he showed up. And, if he doesn't like it, he needs to be shown the door Abdominoplasty, AKA the tummy tuck, is reconstructive surgery and NOT cosmetic surgery. Never was, never will be!

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Love the Kitty 🐈 and through workouts it will show you the love.

[@yourtransformationgenie]

The other day I looked back over the people I was with before I met my husband. Despite the fact that I was only rarely slim and do not have a hard body type - I always had a belly and an inch or more to pinch - there was not a single one among them who looked at me as if they were judging me. They all loved being with me. This was a healing thought for me.... There is more to the human act of love-making than the human body.

[@jasminegutierrez7251]

This was a nice podcast session. From what I took away in this conversation is that no matter what your looks are (body type, size, and shape) is that having a deep connection and chemistry with the S/O is what makes you love them. As far as sex goes, I believe with what Adurey pointed out to that as long as you have the chemistry and connection, then men aren't judging you on your looks. They are just happy to have sex with you in that moment.

[@sarahmiller901]

The old saying goes "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

[@terrylasin3709]

Just like you Just tell me if he mess up just give me a call 🤗

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Wetness is in-between the thighs

[@hortensejones4050]

My husband loved the parts of me I’m most uncomfortable with! Not just to make me feel good either!

[@karenlewkowitz5858]

Our culture seems so focused on appearance - and missing out on touch, scent, connection, the list goes on...

[@amiramahgoub]

I'm always nervous when it comes to the point that we going to the bed together fear of the same feeling I had before with my ex. I have been struggling and stressed out every time I meet a guy. Even I knew they look sexy and lovely but I don't think I had that wow moment. Simply bec I believe that I met the wrong one!!

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

No over thinking, were talking about guys response. There's no secret it's about reclaimed sex after your partner flirts with another. Be lewd while having sex, think of Capt Jack and be his giving Amber.

[@brookebenton8192]

I'll tell you one thing... He already knows if he wants to be with you or not!! Sleeping with him won't change anything!!

[@gl9764]

I'm 50 in 12 days im.taking care of myself very well if you like someone lot you wouldn't think about how he or she looks about clothing. You love the heart of the person and the personality body is secondary. Getting along helps with things too

[@enelrahcreivaj]

Huhu Matt and Audrey! Love these two!

[@karenhardie1132]

Everyone's looks will be gone one day.

[@MissLisaBowes]

I am 51 years old. Had 3 kids and etc.. No man should expect me to be a super model. I have some good parts still. I know this. And if a man doesn’t like what I have…they are welcome to take a walk.

[@danamckenzie7872]

What i would like to know is why men are exempt from bringing to the table? It appears to there is so much emphasis on what a man wants from a woman but no looking at themselves as if sex is for them only. Why is that?

[@seniorita3287]

Right. I agree.

[@onnol917]

Plenty of men take their responsibility in this. However if they are single without any ltr odds are they are selfish

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

AI robots should not be the only way for him to be a king. But pushed to that, ok end of civilization. No more babies. This is why men are.

[@Ljounieh]

I used to think like that but I've been noticing a lot of guys are self conscious about their own physical appearance. Just yesterday I went on a date and huged him and he said I should mind his "fat rolls" or something like that. He's tall and strong and I'm crazy attracted to him. It was shocking to hear he was concerned about that.

[@rebclout]

Such an amazing episode!!

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

And you have a amazing little 👄.

[@cindyjean3208]

Love your channel… Real… Thought provoking … Inspiring … Thank you for all you do😊😍

[@genevievemaurano6155]

Audrey is lovely and brings so much to the show!

[@MissHollieDiana]

I recently asked this on a previous message and thought I’d ask it again here and would really appreciate your feedback. If you’re someone who truly suffers severely with Body Dysmorphic Disorder, do you think it is a good idea to actually try and date? I understand all of your points made and logically they make perfect sense, but when you’re someone who’s mental health can be triggered to the point where you are scared of yourself, is it wise to put yourself in situations that could exacerbate it and as a result potentially do more harm then good? Ideally you want to make those emotional and physical connections, in fact you crave that feeling of belonging with someone, that you hope can allow you to feel safe enough to share all sides of yourself. The struggle is that in order to do that you have to face some really dark demons and ultimately, is it worth it? As more than likely, many people may not be able to deal with what you experience and therefore the rejection could make you worse! Very aware that you have to work on yourself and seek profession help with such a condition, but is it wise to date whilst doing this? Your opinions on this would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks 🥰

[@onnol917]

The only person who can reject you is you. When it comes to anxiety and facing inner demons. Do not run from them, life is short. What do you think about dating without the physical aspect? Might be a great place to start and build from there

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Go get the love from the dirty pirates, the worst thing is that they desire you , we all like desired sexy girls, old women.

[@hortensejones4050]

And trust yourself When you’re with someone who’s shown you they love you-the whole package, it’ll cease to be an issue

[@khadijaaithmid5536]

Hey Matthew , hello friends with Matthew I don't know your names (sorry for that ) greetings from Morocco , u can't imagine how your efforts guys are SO USEFUL AND PRECISE TO THE POINT , I think that it's all about mastering our bodies _ as females _ because the main fundamental point of the feminine energy is taking care of her children , looking after her bro , calling her dad , wondering whether her friend is okay or not cs he or she was absent during the class session , so BASICALLY, our taking care approach is centric to many many many actions , thoughts , beliefs and so life choices, this is why I BADLY know that if she is capable enough to just be calm , easygoing , soft and positive with her bully , feet , hands , tongue or whatever , THIS WILL EXTREMELY ADD SOME SORT OF spiritual bond with her significant other ! this is my intuition, as a non-analytic person ( u can say a non-judgemental person ) I always respect my intuitions and sensations of life in general THAAAAAAAAAAAANKS AGAIN , LOVE YOU ALL TO THE MOON AND BACK 😘

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Slap him moan his name, or daddy give him the nymph you are. He is the king, and he chooses you.

[@samanthab9297]

This will be interesting, always is! Love your work ♥️

[@abenafrimpong4271]

Feel comfortable in your own skin

[@How.Dare.You.]

Audrey made a great point!! 12.50 so totally true!!!

[@PtolemyXVII]

Very interesting talk, I quite enjoyed this discussion 😊

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

You look like a mummy. Well as long as you have some moisture you will do.

[@lydiawhitting5406]

The hardest medicine later in life is finding an old wrinkly person in the mirror, and no one to love or care about in old age. It arrives too fast. When what you've really got left is wisdom to impart to youth, but who dont value us .. because older people just appear expiry dated and dispensable somehow ?

[@krissyk354]

this is exactly what i needed to hear. thanks guys ❤

[@DT-wh4qr]

The title of this talk is misleading and didn't quite take a deeper dive. Much of it was about building self esteem and confidence. The men didn't make much sense to me. Audrey kept it simple.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

It's not a rabbit hole it's a little,wet,hot tunnel of love. Lewd and vulgar girls work, desired by all men they become cute

[@Ljounieh]

But that is the answer - confidence is what makes you sexy

[@spiderman-ej5hr]

Hello Audrey, sweet girl. I do think men can see the woman the way you asked in your question when it is a true real love they have for the woman. I do believe it is possible, that the person and the moment you are in then are all that counts and the past isn't important anymore.

[@graceanneocallaghan1638]

This made me think about the little mouse in The Gruffalo creating a ferocious myth about himself and saving his skin! ☺️

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Oh my God you went to college. Be vulgar and lewd and show me your kitty 🐈.

[@RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light]

Hi Matt, sorry off topic, I have a question....I've been in a long term relationship, it's kind of had a rough trot past 2 yrs......just wandering...... ' what questions should I ask myself wether I should stay or go from the marriage?' 🧚‍♀️thankyou

[@brownell.landrum]

Here's some irony: Supermodels are the most insecure people of all.

[@SnackAttack6]

I recently met a guy who complimented me on my body & shape, this took me aback because I’m 62, I’ve had 3 children and my weight has gone up and down between a size 8-18 over the years, so it’s no way toned and everything has gone south. At 1st I thought he was just saying that to get sex lol, but then I thought hang on a moment, if he wants sex with me then my body must have turned him on regardless, but what he really liked most was my laughter, my smile and my kindness & all that takes more precedence than my flabby mid drift or that my breasts have gone south 😊

[@sindhuchinniah4363]

Thanks Mathew! Love from India

[@RG-hf4et]

As a woman, I have been disappointed with a man's package more than once. Sorry, but the sex is not as good & it's disappointing when the man cannot do certain positions when he is really small. At least a guy has some idea of what the female may be like with her clothes off. We ladies don't know anything till the guys clothes are off all the way.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

I've been too small. And I go elbows deep going down should be first and second requirement. Then a smaller size doesn't come up as much.

[@Ljounieh]

Size doesnt really matter to me. No point in having a huge package that will hurt if he doesn't know what he's doing

[@valerielove9837]

I have been with people that are big and small. It matters how they use it. For me the guy that was small was more enjoyable. The guys that were big were horrible.

[@valerielove9837]

​@@Ljounieh well said!!

[@Cgggg6876]

JLo is 3 years older than she says she is. She had two 50th bdays in the Hamptons 3 years apart.

[@barbaramorrow6725]

I'm lusting after Cole in 'The Affair' !!

[@Mike_Daddy]

My wife was 200 lbs on our blind date. Five years and two kids later, she lost 55 lbs and has been hit on by guys for years. Don't place so much emphasis on characteristics that will only fade over time.

[@kathrynmcnerney6490]

beautifully said.

[@analucianakoscina9870]

What a great answer ✨️

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Just like you

[@Isaiahch35vs8]

That confidence thing- as I’m overweight there can’t be confidence. I’m fat. That’s it. The rolls are unsightly.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

We don't care if you do you don't know men

[@Ljounieh]

There absolutely can be confidence, but I do understand how crushingly hard it is to build it in this society

[@yoharyscalixto1528]

Im fat too but losing. Girl you are WORTHY of love. Own your self! you are beautiful! the right person will gravitate towards YOUR beauty (in and out)

[@fuzakali9083]

M Carrick is right. From what I´ve heard from a lot of men: being overweight is highly preferred. There are plenty of men who do not find thin women sexually attractive. Who cares about the rolls if you have the booty!

[@kristenfromOZ]

U do need sexual attraction to get someone and keep them but being perfect is a no. True love sees no wrinkles saggy boobs etc

[@valerielove9837]

Well said!!

[@siansroadtonirvana]

Great pod!

[@sonyatbeasley]

15:00 Spot on!!! 💪🏻

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

That longer than I last, we will have to work repeatedly on that response time. Try, try again until you succeed. Try roleplay or get fantasy 😇😈 going.

[@yesreneau]

I go in with my objective truth about the jackets 😅

[@lynnolsen1498]

Great Talk!!

[@jucxox]

Good chat cheers team

[@josephludwig1126]

This girl completely hated it when he said men judge a woman when he See's her naked.

[@prettyhandsasmr_]

Thank you for this because many women are walking around trying to look sluttier than the other and copying Mikey cyrus. And I'm over here trying to survive and feeling insecure about my body. I have confidence in my youthful face but I'm at a stage in my life where I can't take care of everything so it's hard and I get angry because it there's nothing for us women why are there not men showing off more? Such a unfair world

[@sammyandboots]

Why is it always him???

[@lonewolfheart1697]

Leaving another comment as I'm revisiting this video. I would love and appreciate feedback/opinions please? I have skin picking scars over the top half of my body (chest/arms) from self harm. I've had loads of therapy but that doesn't erase the scars and the spots plus I'm a large lady... I'm very worried my body is a huge turn off... I feel monstrous... my body is so ugly... are there really guys out there who aren't to be horrified or concerned...?? 😢😢😢

[@amyp9010]

I had a great loud laughter when Matt says 1st watch why he's gone,video and then enjoy your baby bear videos in Florida other shows of huge crocodiles beans or not women at the fast-food stand drive-thru... Oh my gosh handsome smart and funny

[@JamesBrantleyStyle]

Audrey like “God damnit” 😆

[@annabanzon313]

Don't forget some people love mom bods or dad bods.

[@carriepadgett2743]

omg the timing of this is perfect lol

[@Ljounieh]

Right??

[@ashleymartz6066]

He actually said, hes willing to work with a women who doesnt have the best personality and thinks he can help change her. Hes just focused on being with a beautiful women. And yet craves real love as well. Im confused...

[@onnol917]

Living in denial. If helping somebody to change is a motivator your setting yourself for failure every time and its also unhealthy for both parties. Having to 'help' somebody implies they are damaged/unfinished and not good as they are now and it creates an imagine of how he thinks she should be instead of wondering who she wants to be.

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

All women are hot and sexy. A little bit of lewdness and some vulgararity, stirred in it becomes a keeper

[@valerielove9837]

Mathew already has a fiance. He went to an old friend's wedding and meet her there.

[@MariaAshworth]

great advice

[@amyp9010]

So what's he not thinking when before he seethes with or what he is thinking before he seethes with me what is he thinking I didn't catch that

[@brownell.landrum]

You might find this research interesting. Basically what it's saying is that the LESS attractive people have more meaningful relationships BECAUSE appearance isn't as important in choosing a mate - so they choose on more important reasons. kzbin.info/www/bejne/eKuqYZKXisR5pJI

[@AntarikshPasricha]

I have been in a long distance relationship since 6 months now and we have only seen each other 2 times when i went to meet her. We chilled, took scooty rides etc but haven't been intimate. I want to but she disregards it with some reason or the other. I am pretty confused right now. I get really annoyed at this. What to do? Please help me.

[@alexganz8473]

that’s not a relationship

[@ishadhanda1790]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@kristinapeciuliene2068]

So true,agree 💯%

[@alexandermatthewsmusic]

Filter? F$#@ I've just been posting regular old pics and here I am wondering why I'm forever single!

[@alexandermatthewsmusic]

Ps Maisie Peters should watch this after listening to her new hit "body better"

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Use the filter on your lewdness and they think you were hacked. Remember that everyone loves a little sloopie.

[@pariahasanpour6160]

Thank you

[@amyp9010]

So is Matthew saying that guys do fantasize and think about other girls they've been with when there was somebody else even if they have good chemistry or they have or they're like oh I had better chemistry the last person are they completely comparing other women to the person they're actually currently sleeping with I can tell her guys do all the time at least my ex doesn't he was thinking about me sometimes when I was dating him

[@vintagebodymindsoulradley9151]

what happens while intimate with your partner can make all the difference in a relationship. Not everyone one can set the drapes on fire while intimate. Not everyone is in touch with their sexual responses physically, emotionally. If a man is just looking to have something happen that may be sort of sexual….you’re not experiencing sex that’ll set the drapes on fire. You have NO CLUE what sex is really meant to be. If you’re with someone who looks for body type first, I can tell ur not not completely connecting with the other person on every level humanly possible. Real sex with a partner is f’en amazing, a deep connection changes all of oh I have to have a person who is a model to get an erection. Lol. That’s truly sad. I won’t even put myself in that space. Cuz you wont be able to be on my same playing field. I’m not a model but I most likely I experience things differently. A person who is in touch with themselves physically, emotionally, sexually. I’ve had one fella after me for a few years. For many reasons I said no bye bye….I expect full attention in the bedroom, and I have to have that for u also. Recently we’ve spent time talking and we both agreed let’s spend more time together …..we’ll see….the rest to be continued . . . But I don’t give of myself fully unless you do, one primary reason I say bye bye….take care

[@lunamoonmoth1135]

100%True

[@susanhampton9671]

The reality in the USA is we have "Thin" and "Pretty Privilege" to contend with....The more handsome or pretty a person is, they will have far more dating opportunities.

[@PrayingAttentionWithDea]

The talk is always interesting you guys… but slight criticism here. Hope it’s ok to be frank. Why the heck the heavy studio layout? Lovely Audrey sitting low, low compared to the elevated men. Strange innuendo. The galactic equipment… really? Is all that really necessary to record some chit chat? Or wait. You’re really a band 😉cutting a little relational discussion before you get to the music. Is that it? 😅Thanks for your content.. interesting perspectives regardless!

[@ashleymartz6066]

What can you do when you are amazing and great chemistry. He feels it too but he wants to be with someone who is very good gooding. Highly attractive women. Im not the best looking women but I cover all the other areas for him. There is an issue of guys who only look for good looking women over someone they can be happy with... what is a girl supposed to do in this case? There are other more beautiful who are better than you And you can never measure up cuz your not a 10/10 stunning women. (Plz help)

[@annacsetverikov]

Self love and self respect is the answer. Good chemistry doesn't mean true love. If the guy wants a supermodel that means that he is looking for a woman to own, and build his ego up with. He doesn't care about who you truly are and he doesn't care about true love. Women are like cars for him. Don't try to be a good car for someone. Realise that you are beauty itself, the way you are and someone will see it and will feel blessed to be with you. Don't sell your beautiful self cheap to anyone. Rooting for you 💕🙏💕

[@MCarrick-ss7xc]

Confedence and a trained wet kitty 🐈 are the only thing that matters. Lewd and vulgar girls are the bestest, remember to beat it like it owes you money.

[@Ljounieh]

​@@annacsetverikov this was perfect

[@abundancelucy7501]

You definitely need to leave this guy, he will ruin you, stop wasting your time, you can find another man who will value and love you, stop contact now! You are better than his immature and de-valuing shit ideas.

[@fuzakali9083]

How about there being a much better guy than this one waiting for you! Stop wanting to be what HE wants you to be. Think about what YOU want: a guy who loves and respects you just like you are!

[@thetheraine]

if you just want sex... then all you want is a good body... if you want love and a relationship... you love the person and the looks are less important...