What is SEX to a Narcissist?

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[@danettedarling4545]

Omg, this is perfect timing!! I was gone 2.5 months, he hasn’t touched me in so long I forgot what it was like and didn’t even want it because I knew it wasn’t real love. He just kept on and then acted like he did me a favor!! Immediately went right back to the same rejection and ignoring

[@flightmama3191]

I pray U got back out.... mine has upped his abuse and keeps future promising me things in exchange for something I do 4 HIM 😂😂😂😂😂He continues 2 let me down, I have turned ON my OFF SWITCH.. NOW HE IS REALLY ON HIS OWN AND ALONE🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤ MAGNIFICENT GRATITUDE BEAUTIFUL SOUL FOR THE STRENGTH U TRULY HAVE WITHIN ❤❤❤

[@loisstumpf5876]

My ex of 41 years slept naked next to me the last 14 mo we were together and never touched me. He has no idea the magnitude and far-reaching effects of his narcissism. Damaged wide, damaged children. So glad to be OUT.

[@michellebolyard1388]

My ex used sex as a way to control and demean me. It's been 7 years since our divorce and 12 years since I escaped him. I haven't wanted to be touched since ...

[@flightmama3191]

Ohhhhh how very sad, I keep telling myself I deserve BETTER ❤🎉❤🎉❤ I WILL PRAY 4 U, I was married 42.5 years and I've only been gone 9 weeks, but i am healing DEEPLY. I also make and use Liquid Crystals for HEALING, they definitely help. Magnificent gratitude and LOVE 4 U PUTTING U FIRST ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤DONT LET THE NARCISSISTIC WIN.....No revenge is the best revenge, U WIN BY LETTING GO AND LEARNING 2 LOVE URSELF ❤

[@hobohistorian4732]

Richard Gannon explains this well.

[@Tarsarian]

My ex covert narc wife would only have sex with me when she wanted a baby. At one point it was almost a year with no sex or intimacy. Later I found out she was cheating on me and having sex with multiple men.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@lisanavarromosley9875]

Every single thing you said has happened to me. I felt like an object for years. No real soulful connection. Like I was only for procreation and his pleasure. Then it became rejection once he became impotent and had to use drugs to get aroused. He also cheated on me for years including setting up secret ads on Craiglist or affairs with co workers. I am very familiar with all your saying.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@whitneysawyer483]

They definitely create that trauma bond and codependency. "They suck" "So wrong" "Not okay" "I deserve better" "Amen" "I'm ready"

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@danettedarling4545]

Ghosting… yep he started that right after we married! And started accusing me of being jealous of his daughter

[@Glamourpurple84]

You are truly an inspiration and help to me!! You helped me through my divorce. But now he’s love bombing me dragging me in because intimacy was the thing that we were the very best at!!! I’ve spent a year and five months trying to teach myself to Unlove this man and I can’t!!!! I don’t know what to do anymore..😔

[@Durhamcricket543]

During my critical illness, he/they started an affair. This has continued for years even though I survived!!! We are now getting a divorce and he has a Criminal Domestic Violence Charge against him. He messed up big time!

[@Doodlefisher]

Cheating is something you shouldn’t do period!

[@jackerman1829]

Towards the end of a 20 year marriage - with four children - i was sitting on the toilet in the morning, he had the nerve to expect a quick blow job prior to getting up 😮 i learned to put the tounge on the roof of my mouth and say No. He was shocked and never asked again 😊 Sex had become a chore like washing the dishes. There was no love - when he walked out on us, he said I just need to be happy. He dragged out the divorce for a decade. Used our children as pawns, slept with random women while they were having time with dad.

[@Doodlefisher]

Narcissistic 3:38 people need blow up dolls instead of people!

[@denyse450]

@@Doodlefisher 😂😂 nailed it!!

[@HLTrds]

Yes!!

[@jonathanblack1416]

Set volume levels to match the commercials on KZbin and then you have your levels set perfectly. Many don’t think to use the commercials to match their volume levels that are perfect industry standard.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@collinr811]

Lol at the "kid growing up by the creek messing with the earthworm"🤣 so true.😂😂😂

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Glamourpurple84]

I’m finally divorced, he is love bombing me, dragging me back in using intimacy saying things that he’s never said before breaking into 1 million pieces in my arms begging for us to never be a part again I don’t understand why this has to be so hard. I’ve spent a year and five months trying to Unlove this man, I can’t. My soul is tied to his!!!!! we have done so much healing on our own in the last year and a half things are so much different now.

[@Cheryliiina]

@@Glamourpurple84 say, our souls will always be connected, even if we're apart. I can love you at a distance. I have a similar connection and it seems impossible to cut. Even when we've spent years apart, we are still connected.

[@margaritaramos7643]

My two cents. You own your destiny. Don’t go in blind. If you choose to be with him. Look for him to do the changes first. Then decide weather to be with him. Meaning the words should match the actions. We should never have to beg a man/woman to love you. To respect you. Lack of those two things, everything will go bad

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[@GiantSlayer-rr1vu]

I was with what I know now as a covert religious narcissist, I had sex 31 times in 5 years. First-year they were no problem/ Manipulationship with that individual is confusing. That demon rejected me every time I asked. they had multiple supply. they need to sleep in the room. they tried to play this mental game, it's all a control mechanism. it's all for their benefit. They don't have empathy. no amount of what I do, everything you say is what I experienced. They are trolling to control. if you pay my bills. This is the worst thing manipulationship I have ever experienced. Gaslight master. devaluing

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@ImreadyforJesus]

He doesnt demand sex..He withhold sex along with affectio, love, empath, physical touch, hugs, communication, anything thats good. The only thing he demands is that i keep my mouth shut. I am alone

[@irenehamilton2981]

Thank God I got away from that abuse I hope you get out soon peace and blessings

[@markpasieka]

"no spam, no hate, let's slay together" is what we have to agree to when getting permission to comment.... To not hate yet ask for someone to slay... Indicative of how sick all this and those involved monetizing the overuse of the same vocabulary words blaming others and deflecting any intention of people from working on themselves

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@markpasieka]

@@RebeccaZungEsq I foresee you breaking free more than a few times in your future....

[@amywilliams6637]

It’s so wrong of them and THEY SUCK!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@danettedarling4545]

Thank you so much for all your wisdom!!! I wish I had the money right now to support!

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[@lisanavarromosley9875]

They suck!

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[@Ophelia-qm2os]

After i had a baby and gained weight everything went downhill from there...he made me feel like I catfished him or something l walked away then when he seen I was losing weight he came running back smh never again.

[@kathykondrath6717]

I agree. They SUCK!!! It is so hurtful

[@margaritaramos7643]

"They suck" "So wrong" "Not okay" “I deserve better" “Amen" "I'm ready"

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@lainaentzminger9903]

So difficult. You’re in your right place. Help yourself if you are able. Unfortunately I’m too late now that I’m ready. This stuff is your life. I’m too late learning. Decades of experience and my fault for ignoring and denial my own self for him. 38th anniversary in a couple weeks and my 57birthday same week. I still can’t leave but I’m ready. Too disabled now in too many ways. Run and you will find a life that serves you ❤

[@lainaentzminger9903]

So wrong

[@PingDrv00]

Thank you so much.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@SilentFigure1]

Excellent content

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@jesusacruz8165]

He used that kind of method to control me .when we have a fight and im arguing what he did to the house we bought .He keep quiet and no answer .I want an answer it's like a he used a silent treatment .no talking and avoid me .at night he use sex to pacify me it's like a whichcraft after that I keep quiet and it seems nothing happen but the problem still there but there's a something like hocus focus me to keep quiet and move on .but I know our arguments was not resolved but deep in my heart it's still there but I have to move on and work and continue my role as a mother and a wife to keep peace on my family especially my kids but there is a time that I have to investigate but I skip first and pretend I'm ok but it's not .

[@jesusacruz8165]

Until I fed up and I found that take over tge house with his own family and live his illegal child there on tge house we bought

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@daisymay9236]

This is your Best🎉😂❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@wps_yt]

I think there's going to be an inherent belief this topic only applies towards males. Eventually when my story comes out, all the warnings and signs and actions and behaviors, including sex as discussed here, apply to the female in my case. Great coverage and exposure on this sensitive topic.

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[@alexixela88]

There is no sound to this video

[@Doodlefisher]

I deserve better!

[@garybennett5645]

They suck perfect analysis Rebecca ❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@tabithamuthoni9722]

Can't hear

[@DawsonDave-YZF-R6]

Amen !

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@taimcquitty4609]

Not Ok

[@Doodlefisher]

They sex shame like: no sex cause you did this or that.

[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

18. Years of no see in a 25 yr marriage

[@user-ts8zl1ro3h]

Not ok!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Glamourpurple84]

What do I do???😢

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@gabimosbrucker]

mine has not touched me for 5 years when i ask he says iam a sex attic

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

I was married 24 yrs. And my narcissist with held sex 18 yrs

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

Amen

[@marioserrano6333]

My ex loved attention. She loved to be desired. On social media, she would dress conservative, but in life, she would show everything at inappropriate times, and inappropriate places. She would openly flirt with men, in front of me. The guys would actually apologize to me when they realized I was with her. Then she'd get mad at me. 😮

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@bellaellena2989]

ENERGY VAMPIRE

[@Honeybeemcnugget]

I needed this. My narcissist would always try coaxing me to come to his apartment and then when I kept refusing, he said he was just going to use me and discard me afterward anyway. Sex with me was his obsession, and once he realized I was “playing hard to get,” he got more frustrated and started devaluing me.

[@Cheryliiina]

@@Honeybeemcnugget at least you didn't marry him!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-wu9oy1tp8p]

💯

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Cheryliiina]

That's strange. I have the opposite experience with initiating.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@bellaellena2989]

Not okay

[@waynelee4382]

That suck

[@lampi5115]

Oh you know her too?

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@jesussaves4262]

Its NOT okay... it's SIN! And they WILL be face to face with God someday. And WILL reap ALL ETERNITY in outer darkness, pain beyond words, if don't repent.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Tate-nj5jo]

Rebecca Thank You, I am the biggest nieve man on earth. I am a regular viewer. This episode is the answer for the missing wife in my life. Her constant message to me was a woman has needs. 45+ Years with her, she was so secretive. She must have felt like a female 007 secret agent. I sat waiting at home for her to come home.When she did return she would walk past me and not say a word. She would inter her bathroom and take a shower. I am such a devoted sucker. She never came home after a date with me and have to clean up. Must have been a LOVE on the way home. I am absolutely Sick thinking that this is an answer to her tardiness and late arrivals, she was so bold. I am ready to drive off a cliff. She was given everything she asked for. WOW

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[@1966bb1]

I deserve better

[@katogojira7223]

She finally admitted to being addicted to porn . N it was weird cuz she told me she was at work when her day's are Tuesday and Wednesday off n nights only But later that day she had to be at work later that night . So bad at covering there lies

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@katogojira7223]

@@RebeccaZungEsq she came back or I let her come back but thanks to you I have it or her figured out. Thank you for your concern it means a lot . I'm okay so far.

[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

Not ok

[@christineplaton3048]

Not all narcissists will exhibit these characteristics. The covert or religious does NOT. You are adequately describing areas of concern in a relationship. So doesn't this all point to GET Out of this TOXIC situation? .

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-ts8zl1ro3h]

They s u ck !!!!I.im going through to now with my wife thanks for . making this clea for me.

[@user-lc9wx9pe1c]

I was with a narcitict who diecided when and how to have sex Well she just had to be the best at sex ! She would time herself on how long she could go, but there was really any emotion in it for her, but it was really being about being the best at it, There was no actual emotion in it for her, She NEVER had an orgasam but she would go 5-6 hr and more ! even afterwards she would time herself. Well I think that was looking to prove she was the best at anything she did ! But really I got tired at haveing her trying to be the best at sex. Rather just enjoying it ! Mike.

[@user-lc9wx9pe1c]

😢

[@danettedarling4545]

So wrong

[@Durhamcricket543]

They suck!!!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Doodlefisher]

19:54 they can tell others about your sex life? So wrong

[@lainaentzminger9903]

Yes THEY SUCK

[@latishabattle8582]

They Suck!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@aaronferrie7124]

They suck

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[@fernandomartin3517]

They sucked!!! Listen 👂🏾 , PAY ATTENTION!!!

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[@johnmoirano5221]

Im gonna have to face it im addicted to love. Hoky Poky 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

[@marciavinyard-ov3pu]

Amen

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[@Doodlefisher]

They suck!

[@taimcquitty4609]

So wrong

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

They suck

[@danettedarling4545]

They suck!!!

[@bellaellena2989]

So wrong

[@user-tf9vr9lv9p]

They suck

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@antuancooper6716]

They suck

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@bellaellena2989]

They suck

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