What is this Obsession with Proving you had Something First? 🙈

[@itsybitsyreborns]

On my break from work, I watched this video. As you were talking, I was pondering very deeply why a person would act like this. I truly believe it is about status. These individuals want the status of having the BEST dolls, the BEST accessories, the BEST clothing. If they view anyone as competition, jealousy and vindictiveness sets in. It is very sad, and childish. These individuals need to look deep within themselves and discover what is driving their behavior. Counseling maybe? Thank you for sharing. Junie is adorable, and I love her to pieces. xxoo

[@luanneparmer6708]

Hi Kellie, I totally agree with you. I guess stores are going to have to start selling, one of everything.🤣 That way, we can all be the first to purchase somethin. 🤣

[@julzluvzdollz]

June looks adorable! Love the outfit. I’m catching wind of this now just watched Michelle’s video and I was 😂. Don’t share at all on any social media for Gods sake if you don’t want anyone buying what you have! Totally Agree on them watching if they don’t like you? This reminds me of another big toxic person (that I heard is no longer on KZbin 👏) worrying about being constantly copied. I agree with everything you said. Not only if someone in the community has it, these are the items that are in season and currently being sold by these brands! It’s a very silly thing. Xoxo 😘

[@kelliegirl]

Yes, to everything you just wrote! Lol! So ridiculous to say the least! Sending hugs your way! xxxooo's

[@monami_lei]

Exactly that !! not one of us is setting trends 😂😂 and you can bet some else also has any item we have unless made personally ..but hey keep watching and getting the same things I don’t mind … adds to the views and makes my things look lovely because Mrs brown can’t showcase anything nicely 🙈 and is delusional if she thinks she setting trends as are her so called friends 😂😂 sending loves xoxo

[@merrilyhanan2184]

Oh my gosh. Personally I would take someone sharing something I posted as a compliment. This behavior seems like high school. Collecting is not a solitary hobby unless one doesn't make a channel. You are wonderful so keep up the videos for us to enjoy and learn from. xoxo Merrily

[@cathleensteele1008]

The sleeper is cute and as for all the nonsence WOW 😅😂 one outfit on one doll looks different on a another and no one cares who had it first life must be hard for them because we all whair the same clothes in teal life 😘❤❤love the video as always😁

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

Must be an 'Adrenaline rush' for them

[@LightHeartedLifeCollectibles]

My goodness! Junie looks so sweet! I love things for baby girls with ruffles right now. Can't get enough of it! 💜💜💜 As far as people having the same thing, it's going to happen. Not just in a hobby but in every day life. If someone has something I have, I may mention it in a friendly way but not in an accusatory way. Unless something is specifically handmade for you, other people will always end up with it as well. Like you said, enjoy your dolls and have fun! Otherwise, why be in the hobby of you don't enjoy it? It's silly. Big hugs to you and Junie-June! 💜💜💜💕💕💕💜💜💜

[@loraancona7835]

JUNE LOOKS SO SWEET

[@user-ye2ge4zo5lhennypenny]

Hi from Australia 🇦🇺 Am 67 I have no idea why Doll Collectors do this...I do know a couple one especially she keeps on buying FBS dolls! These are not the cheapest variety either believe me! She constantly posts photos up too pretty regularly too! She doesn't seem to get many likes either! I have no idea where she gets the finances from!! Just saying 😌 ❤

[@jonesie5607]

I think it’s completely ridiculous that supposedly GROWN women act like they are in jr high……no elementary it’s so sad, I’ve never been a part of a more toxic community for a hobby it’s gotten me to the point I’ve left most groups and slowly leaving more, I’ll still have my dolls and buy whatever I want and live my life away from all this childish BS. I don’t need social media or approval from anyone let alone irrelevant STRANGERS on the internet to enjoy my babies. I’ll enjoy it w people I actually know in real life that I’m actually friends w and see all the time who are not judgmental snobs to everyone. I graduated highschool 29yrs ago and tbh I see worse bullying and just complete stupidity and ignorance more in my adult yrs and that’s sad. Grown adults going back n forth making petty posts and videos back n forth at each other, I actually have secondhand embarrassment for those people. All I can think is their life must be absolute 💩 if that’s what u are doing in your adult life. I’m so glad i’m not one of those people who need to be validated and “approval by others to be happy.. And that’s literally what everyone should be doing

[@1957Bevy]

junie June looks really cute in that sleeper.

[@phalarisbajandsmithart534]

i will ask the vendors to open every diaper pack first, to ensure noone else has a diaper like that😂

[@phalarisbajandsmithart534]

newsflash,even June is something that anyone can claim being the first to have. but in reality only the parents of the real baby was the first to have June😂

[@Cindybin46]

Great video--I agree with you!

[@patriciasdollydreamz6569]

Hi Junie… cuddles please ❤❤❤ good chat❤❤❤❤

[@beccaboard]

oh, HECK! I wanted to answer first.....

[@kelliegirl]

Hahahahaha!

[@Shell-x-Bea]

Well you can bet they’ve read the comments here and then refreshed to see every comment come in as well! It’s like having our very own personal hate club following our every move , video and purchase . Carry on no one gives a shit Truly !

[@kelliegirl]

Hahaha! They're always watching! I honestly do not care what they buy, nor does anyone else.....but those three! Lol! So ridiculous!

[@rebornmami_tatjana]

Hello Kellie, so Cuuuuute so sweet your Baby Girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@angelameyer8555]

Junie 🥰 always looking adorable ❤ . I love your channel Kellie, it saddens me you get picked on. I have a lot of things other people have, and I did not know they had it when I got mine. I also buy things that I see other people have if I like it too. I honestly see it as a compliment if someone likes something I have, and they purchase it as well. Companies mass produce stuff because they hope lots of different people will like it and purchase it, that’s how they make money. I love to see how your stuff of the same thing verses their stuff of the same thing fits on different sculpts. No two reborns are identical, even if it’s another June. Therefore it is helpful to see same things on different channels with different reborns before I buy one. Like I said sometime I already have it. I am not throwing shade here but, either way it doesn’t matter to me if someone has the same thing I have. What does matter to me is watching and enjoying reborn videos that are not drama, and that are stress free. Who cares who has what, we are here to enjoy the reborn hobby. Ladies and gentlemen please share love not hate or judgement. I mean all this in a loving way, no hate towards anyone at all.

[@kelliegirl]

I couldn't agree with you more! I share for others to find things if they want them! It's what I love so much about the hobby. xxxooo's

[@angelameyer8555]

@@kelliegirl🥰

[@heatherghimire7744]

They mad caz I called her out 😂

[@kelliegirl]

Oh for sure they are! lol! I thought it was great!!

[@heatherghimire7744]

@@kelliegirl 🥰

[@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919]

FACTS 💯 Cutie pie 😍😍😍

[@belovedbundles9462]

It’s all getting so silly. I’ve been collecting for years and making YT videos has crossed my mind before but I honestly don’t think I understand the “etiquette” here because someone having “something first” would never enter my head. I think I’d end up accidentally winding someone up by inadvertently having the same thing as them. I was sent a screenshot a while back of someone reposting a video from 3 YEARS ago and implying someone has copied them. I would absolutely NOT remember what someone showed 3 years ago, no matter how much I enjoyed their content 😂! I love watching reborn videos, clothing hauls etc and I always thought the whole point was to show lovely things so other people can also get lovely things. It’s a community, not a competition. I’ve never been good at the whole popularity contest thing though so that’s probably why I don’t understand 😅 It’s an absolutely lovely sleepsuit, I can see why everyone likes it!

[@kelliegirl]

Very well said! I couldn't agree with you more!

[@heatherghimire7744]

Totally agree❤

[@kelliegirl]

I appreciate that you called it out when you saw this nonsense, so thank you for that!

[@heatherghimire7744]

@@kelliegirl your so welcome 🙏

[@mydollworld55]

Do you have brands in mind that don’t have the zipper that bunches up. You know makes like a hump type look?? Not sure I’m describing it right. I have a cuddle baby and just love her sooooo much but I am not happy with the zipper making the sleeper look weird

[@Angelicdollsandbears]

I COPY! Even when it looks like I have something ABSOLUTELY UNIQUE… you can bet… I have been inspired to LOOK by someone else in the hobby…thats what creates guess what? “Influencers” 🤣🤣🤣 can you please STOP being so GOOD at influencing me 🤣🤣🤣

[@kelliegirl]

Hahahaha......you are too funny! I love that we all influence each other or as I like to say, we enable each other in this hobby to buy all the amazing cute things for our dolls! That's the whole point of being on social media, isn't it?! xxxooo's