What Is Your Greatest Fear About Marriage? | Tell My Story

[@Ravengal101]

Moon Py needs to read audiobooks. I could listen to that voice all day.

[@Lee935]

Ravengal101 agreed!

[@venusamy9033]

The black woman's voice is sooo deeply beautiful. And she seems interesting.

[@AckeeandSaltfish]

venus amy she gives me Eartha kitt vibes

[@briana2162]

Reminds me Maya Angelou

[@luneaurelie]

She's really pretty as well

[@AzureKite191]

+venus amy She's not black, she's Panamanian, and Latina

[@LostlikeNemo82]

@@AzureKite191 You clearly aren't very educated on the African diaspora. The woman is Black, OBVIOUSLY. Her hair, her features, her skin tone, everything: BLACK. Secondly, you can be both Latina and Black at the same time because Latina isn't a race and one does not cancel out the other. I highly suggest you do some research on Afro-Latinos (Latinos who are of African descent) because you seem to think that location indicates race and it doesn't. The only difference between myself and this woman and millions of other Black people who happen to be Latino are their ancestor's slaves ships ended up in areas that were colonized by the Spanish whereas mine ended up in the United States. She's not African American but she is definitely a Black woman. The next time you try to correct someone on something that you clearly have no knowledge of, do some research first.

[@bebopanda4622]

This lady has a big wide smile, her smile make me feel the world is still okay.

[@Participant]

Awww she does have an amazing smile

[@sonquatsch8585]

it is truly one of the most amazing smiles from this series. it just captivates you.

[@lucyservo6574]

I didnt sense any chemistry, but they clearly did

[@r__9_1____a34]

Lucy Servo I kinda did, I think that's just they're personalities that make them seem underwhelmed.

[@ablesige2773]

They gonna walk in the rain together.

[@coco_toertchen5023]

Her son is 24 and you set her up with someone whos 29. Seems strange to me

[@anushervon4861]

nothing strange there!

[@ManishSingh2k]

I guess you didn't watch it till the end.

[@aos1762]

I see them more as friends tbh

[@mayaramiquidade3439]

Bon Qui Qui was just about to comment this

[@AdorkableArtist92]

I'm curious to find out how they work out! Like, I didn't see them as working out at all when the video first started, but I definitely saw some chemistry. I do get more of a friendship-y vibe or a...it's hard to explain, but like sort of a teacher/mentor-student/mentee sort of situation? Like Mn Py seems really wise and like she could teach Han a lot, but maybe I'm underestimating Han. I hope they remain in each other's lives in some capacity. They're interesting together.

[@narauazimkhan724]

Bon Qui Qui i

[@silentangel56]

Han's face when Mn Py said her age 😂

[@spreadlaugh]

Stormie yeah I know

[@3rdeyeboi319]

ikr ahdgshhs

[@ashleyhartford6048]

Stormie she was like black don't crack..

[@ztarr]

Ashley Johnson 😂😂

[@NannyDiaries23]

I get that face a lot. People regularly think I'm 10-15 years younger than I am.

[@navarro8761]

My greatest fear about marriage is waking up to someone awfully different from the person I initially married and was in love with

[@Participant]

We definitely understand this fear. Seems like the positive of this might be if two people grow and change together in ways that complement each other.

[@zaneleradebe8954]

@@saved_by_the_blood4859 I am sorry to hear that, I hope you are in a better place right now.

[@saved_by_the_blood4859]

@@zaneleradebe8954 Thank you. I'm in a very good space now🙏.

[@tieiatalks]

I wonder what algorithm they use to pair people or do they just pull names out of a hat?

[@cookiekhoala]

Tieia Middleton I think they ask people their orientation and age range they'd date beforehand

[@ampmri2434]

I'm thinking the latter.

[@kyrlics6515]

The algorithm they use is the askem and sackem method. Pretty simple one

[@sibujafta]

Love this comment 😂😂

[@heaven43955]

Kyrlics What is the ‘askem and sackem’ method?

[@ChrisaMavraki]

I don't think they had chemistry. I think they said they would date each other because they were both being polite.

[@Sixundergr0und]

Chrisa Mavraki grown folks

[@rosariogonzalez6130]

I totally think mn py liked han, she looked at them like she was in love

[@1232-e7b]

Should people lie and say they would date someone just to be polite?

[@prunepoitou3532]

That black woman is mesmerizing in all aspects

[@joyskary]

Prune Poitou YESSS her voice and her vibe, her thoughts and views; i was completely under a trance. love love love her voice

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

*ooh "42 years old" hit me hard.* She does not look 42.....AT ALL!

[@NsB-is1sh]

Yeah! She looks 49! And the one on the right looks 34!!

[@yana6225]

Mn py has such a cute smile ❤️

[@mcook6005]

And a great speaking voice!

[@sonquatsch8585]

yeah moonies smile is devastating. like what is THAT! most people have smiles, but her smile is like a burst of sunlight in the deepest of night.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

Son Quatsch Wow! That was poetic. ❤️

[@aminaatime4319]

Moon Pie is the female Morgan Freeman

[@spreadlaugh]

Nah no chemistry..no biology... no physics between them

[@MsLegalRegal]

nothingggggg

[@rachelmkandawire9353]

Nada

[@mennawalid1418]

Lol😂😂

[@spreadlaugh]

Shesaid it26 IKR... Also generation gap is so apparent... they kinda act as elder sister and younger sister...

[@AR-dr1sb]

but your not a chemist! nor a biologist! nor a physicist!(i assume)

[@sogancucuguchannel]

She has 2 children aged 18 and 24, she is 42.That means one of them was born when she was 24 and the other child was born when she was 18. THATS CRAZY!1

[@MariaThomas1999]

Soğan Cücüğü not really. I know a lot of people who've had kids at 18

[@sogancucuguchannel]

Maria Thomas well actually that wasnt my point :). My point was that her children are at the age when their mother gave birth to them.

[@antonela5979]

Wow your brain see math first...cool and impresive

[@tieiatalks]

Soğan Cücüğü I had my kids when I was 24, 26 & 27. I’m 45 now. I’m grateful to have had them young because they’re all in college now and my husband and I are still young enough to enjoy this next phase of our lives. If I were the ages of my children today, I might feel differently. Things change a lot from generation to generation.

[@ztarr]

Tieia Middleton dang now that makes me think my idea of not having children until 30 isn't the greatest lol

[@globetrotting2628]

My greatest fear about marriage is that the person will one day surprise me and want to be called "They"

[@CatrionaThePoet]

They’re both gorgeous

[@starndanu7599]

Black don’t Crack!

[@thehoneyeffect]

Star Ndanu harleloo

[@LotharOfTheHillPeople]

She looks every day of 42.

[@NsB-is1sh]

She looks 49! And the one on the right looks 34

[@luneaurelie]

Nope, I definitely thought Mn Py was 30 something, she looks better than my parents who are both 40 something.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

Black chick looks 55 to most of us so called blacks. What a weird ass couple damn!

[@BuyBBStonk]

For medical purposes it's imperative to distinguish the sex of an individual, whether male, female or intersex. Abstaining from masculine / femininity is completing different.

[@miahleissa9599]

Oh, what a lovely couple. It's so nice to see two gentle spirits meeting. Thank you for sharing this video.

[@empressveiw8283]

I see friendship here!!

[@mikeyygriffin]

The black lady has a very calm personality

[@amelies4149]

I WANT to know what happens. I find this "date" very interesting. I would date both of them and I feel like they have very close minds. So yeah. Really enjoying your content it is really fun and I love it very much.

[@jenniferb.216]

i agree with most of the comments about the lacking sense of chemistry but they also seemed so at peace together

[@BouncyAnimation]

"ethnic background is... not american." that has to be the biggest cop out answer

[@AlfredoO333]

Literally clutching my pearls at the end, so glad they’d actually date each other, i like them!

[@ism711]

I loved! I was surprised by how well suited they seemed for each other. Good Job Soul Pancake!

[@lovemecom3832]

My greatest fear about marriage is having an unsuccessful marriage and the worst is getting a divorce. I don’t want that happen in my life.

[@izzatys7037]

My friends and cousins are all getting married, having babies etc. My mum ask me just yesterday, when are you planning to get married? I don’t want to tell her but I’m worried if my relationship would be like her’s. My biggest fear is when my partner/myself no longer support each other

[@shahilagh]

The black woman is extremely captivating, her way of speaking and reacting

[@hummingbird1016]

moon pie needs to be on a radio. her voice is so ...well it's everything!

[@jesclle]

them together makes me so happy!! i actually think they have good chemistry, han is so pretty and mn py has a gorgeous smile! 💖

[@jar8425]

I recently got married (in my mid-50's) to the man of my dreams. I would have married him a lot sooner (because when you understand yourself decisions like this aren't as difficult as they were when you're younger) but the law wasn't in place. It IS good for tax purposes. But it has many, many other benefits to us. I really hope they work out, they really seem like a matched set.

[@annamakova6929]

jar8425 a

[@asliyase]

Mn Py has the best smile

[@kittenkong3135]

Yasemin BAHAR sorry didn’t know you saw every smile on the whole planet but ok

[@leashallow3500]

@@kittenkong3135 lmaoooo r u jealous or something?

[@kittenkong3135]

Lea M. Thanks I love when people reply to my comments from years ago so I can see how funny I was and still am ;)

[@mcNoa]

That was so cute, the chemistry was so apparent😍

[@DeverusSlays]

This may be my favorite episode thus far! Full of things I didn’t expect. Incredible

[@hollowkid97]

That Jughead hat :/

[@AZ-is7wn]

yes finally someone noticed

[@rockwitharms7455]

Mgmfmdöaksbfndmsmsnsndn thats definetly not a riverdale thing

[@tieiatalks]

Goddess Miranda.Cosgrove it reminds me more of The Fairly Odd Parents.

[@retromingency]

It's adorable and I want one.

[@rockwitharms7455]

Cat's Meow don’t. It looks idiotic

[@thelifeofro5946]

I LOVE these "Tell my story" clips. Anyone else?

[@sanjunipero5332]

8:27 their anxiety gave me anxiety lol

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

Age might be an issue for a romantic relationship....but good for a friendship. I like this episode.

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

Nonbinary person. Makes sense. The type of world that maybe more people will envision and strive for in the future. I was always confused about and couldn't stand to write "he" or "she" in sentences throughout my childhood education. I used to prefer to write "they" and my grammar was always corrected. To this day, I think it's ridiculous to write "he" or "she." I also feel that when you label someone as he or she there are all kinds of assumptions, privileges or lack of privileges, limitations, assumed abilities or lack of abilities, assumed strengths and intelligence, assumed weaknesses, default discrimination, stereotypes, and baggage that comes with these labels. Probably one of my issues is that I love saying the word "sister." Seems like such a beautiful word to me.

[@emilydraper8971]

They didn't seem to have chemistry at first but after they had their conversation I see the chemistry! They seem like a really great couple. 💞

[@KR-vk2wx]

It surprises me that so many people don’t know the difference between nationality and ethnicity.

[@DennisWewes]

I don't understand why everyone says "black don't crack" in this case because to me she definitely looked over 40, not in a bad way, just a neutral statement

[@superiorts7232]

Lmao she is just one isolated case

[@DennisWewes]

SuperiorT S That's why I said "in that case"

[@leoraphadonikey]

Why the hell did you feel the need to say that

[@DesireeAnnette]

I am black and I agree with your statement.

[@DennisWewes]

liakla cole why not?

[@121097kierstenmoore]

Yes we're becoming so open and diverse I would love to see more about their relationship if they were comfortable with that. This is wonderful.

[@cjo4210]

This was awkward episode but I'm glad stuff like this exists because I would not have even considered them being interested in each other otherwise.

[@GerBear5000]

I love this episode so much!!!!!!

[@bax2603]

8:27 lolol the face of fear for some reason

[@ShanteRoxxane]

They're both so full of life and positive vibes. I love it. ❤️

[@ravensucks2020]

“Masculinity or beauty” I don’t think that beauty needs to be feminine, anyone of any identity can be beautiful 🤗🤗

[@SNShah02]

I noticed how alike they are inside. Moonpy can give comfort and han needs it.

[@madisonfitzpatrick7652]

I got so scared when I thought she was saying no

[@bitesize8884]

This is what happens when 2 people have the same energy and are on the same frequency diffrent ages diffrent walks of life and diffrent races but the energy is there I love it

[@athenab.3395]

It's interesting, a lot of people in the comments say they're not compatible, but I think just because two people are being very quiet with each other doesn't mean there's no spark. It seemed like they're very calm people who maybe wouldn't normally think to date, but honestly might be very compatible

[@leetre5345]

MN PY reminds me of Eartha Kitt.

[@019chase]

I’m in full support of expanding knowledge of sexuality and gender, but I do feel slightly irritated when a person continuously brings up their orientation and gender identity in conversation in utilization of defining them.

[@pleaseclap3335]

I understand the whole idea of cisgender and transgender people. I support folks who were born female but identify as a man, or vice versa. What I don't fully understand is the nonbinary thing. It feels really weird to use they/them as a singular pronoun, but I'm sure if I met someone who was nonbinary I would use their preferred pronoun... it just might take a while for me to get used to it.

[@veggiesarefruits]

That's because it is not REAL. Trust your brain. Don't let the culture strong-arm you into believing someone's delusions. You cannot find logic and reason where there is none. It's OK to use biological fact and objective reality. I hope you don't get sucked into the trans cult. Stay woke, dude.

[@hmmmmm1988]

It's impossible to understand it. They can't even explain it themselves. Don't worry about it.

[@Theairam_]

My greatest fear about marriage is marrying the wrong person (Marrying someone who isn't who they were before marriage).

[@Participant]

Do you think change in a person is inevitable as the years go by?

[@KatrinaJoy225]

That's why people shouldn't get married too young. You learn soooooo much about yourself as you get a little bit older. People are in too much of a rush.

[@arimonL]

My greatest fear about marriage is feeling like you married a monster. And that everything you knew about that person is a lie.

[@maritspaans]

This just puts a smile on my face. They are both so nice

[@mayaramiquidade3439]

What happens in passports, ID's or birth certificates do is there an option to put non-binary or a chance to change it when you come out as one?

[@strawberrycassette]

In some places there's an option; in California an X is out next to gender on drivers licenses if you change your legal gender to non binary

[@mayaramiquidade3439]

Jack Jupiter That's pretty awesome, because it's such a new concept to many people I always wondered in term of documents if you have that option. I know in job applications, surveys that kind of thong you do but documents are a bit more complicated.

[@ssagere4958]

Yeah no it's stupid.

[@mela4082]

yes there is an option in some places

[@shahilagh]

The black woman is extremely captivating, her way of speaking and reacting. I would have loved to be friend with her

[@suzyhits]

Maya Angelou and Boy George on a date? 😲

[@luisab7901]

"your cultural/ethnic background is not american" wtf lol

[@thehoneyeffect]

Luisa B I thought that she was Persian and from Germany or something

[@BillY-gj5hq]

Luisa B 😂😂😂😂

[@MeadowMannor]

Amen

[@luneaurelie]

thehoneyeffect if you are talking about Han, they left their pronoun clear

[@veggiesarefruits]

@@luneaurelie oh my God, shuuuut uuuup. We have eyes and brains for a REASON. That is a WOMAN. We can't just attempt to change the entire objective reality of biology and culture because someone wants to feel special. No one is 100% masculine or feminine all the time. That doesn't make you some made-up term like "non-binary". It means you're either a male or female human being who doesn't fit into every single sexual stereotype (so...everyone on the planet). Han is a woman. Stop feeding into this forceable fact denial.

[@AeipathyOfAprill]

Mn Py seems like such a sweet and soft person aw

[@beware_xoxo]

I'm sure they ask about preferences but sometimes I'm like 🤔

[@KatrinaJoy225]

@C. Aguilar of course they do!!! Lmao!!!! It's for the VIEWS!!

[@-adela-6994]

They actually seem to have a lot in common, but I don't see it as a relationship

[@natura5778]

Omg I love Mn Py's shoes. I need to know where to get them lol

[@maimohamed3590]

This is lovely 😊👏🌟💚

[@WWIIKittyhawk]

2:44 so why are you telling us if it has nothing to do with us?

[@joeyjo-jojuniorshabadoo5412]

Have I mentioned my Non Binaryness in the last 5 seconds?

[@ok-os6ee]

tHEYRE SO CUTE

[@sammyisqueer8628]

HELL YES

[@sonquatsch8585]

they are INSANELY cute, and both had their game faces on. moon pie is really really a very attractive woman. floored. and han equally gorgeous, both of them from inside out. VERY cute couple.

[@quirkyquips9915]

SO great that neither is into ageism!

[@sharron2512]

They do have chemistry..It wasnt evident like most couples because they were somewhat subtle at showing feelings.see they didnt even hug

[@eyoulr3700]

Her crown is so cute.

[@victorialiebsch4120]

"Your nickname is Han solo" xD! hahaha It was the first thing i thought about when Han said "My name is Han". In swedish there is an own pronoun for non binary people or people that don´t want to give the information of their gender and it is "Hen" :). "Hen" can also be used when a woman is pregnant and she doesn´t know the gender of the baby yet for example... I get a bit frustrated thou when i have met people with androgynous face/body and with name Alex for example (that can be used for female or male) and then i have asked "what do you identify as?" and then they say "non binary" >-< I totally respect it and don´t ask everybody only the ones that i have had a more deeper connection with or a deeper conversation.... But for some reason my brain can´t come past that haha so frustrating (i have OCD thou) but i respect them, we are all humans ^^ .

[@justinsmith3882]

The black lady's voice is so soothing

[@user-yr3uj6go8i]

My greatest fear about marriage is the selective bias from the incredibly flawed divorce court system against me. I'm ready for the commenters to be easily triggered at me just for acknowledging it.

[@itskendall3854]

i just don’t feel any connection or chemistry but ... they did so. whatever floats your boat

[@mela4082]

OMG SO ADORABLE AHHH I LOVE IT

[@chelseagirl663]

How is someone meant to know what you are if you don't know what you are yourself? She is obs a women so unless you are a lesbian or a male you won't find her attractive.

[@Andrea-vr8zt]

The hat they are wearing reminds me of the film Where the Wild Things Are!

[@kittenkong3135]

Andrea 1994 if you’re gonna hate you can leave

[@Andrea-vr8zt]

Kitten Kong No hate in any shape or form if you IMDB the film Where the Wild things are he main character wears a similar hat however it happens to be gold or perhaps a yellow color. I don’t spread hate in any form just a simple observation perhaps do some research before making drastic assumptions.

[@KatrinaJoy225]

@@kittenkong3135 first of all, you're apparently triggered. Second of all, not everyone who watches this is going to love it or agree with it. Don't tell people they can only comment positive things. WTF

[@kittenkong3135]

Katrina hm how bout you mind your own business, you say I’m triggered? HA thank u, next. Try again trick

[@queensigal]

i cant see the attractiom but maybe they both hit rock bottom

[@aleeshyayee8084]

Damn. Is that all that's there to you? The fact you're non-binary

[@veggiesarefruits]

Nonbinary is NOT a thing. Just spreading the message that we all already know, but are too afraid to say out loud. No single human being on the planet fits 100% into every single sexual stereotype, but we can't just make up bullshit terms based on that just to feel unique. Han is not unique. SHE is a woman who recognized somewhere along the line, that she didn't fall into every female stereotype (duh!), but instead of saying, "I'm obviously still a woman, but sexual stereotypes are impossible for anyone to live up to", SHE decided to create a fake gender. There is male, and there is female, with a half of a tenth of a percent of medical outliers.

[@hollow.skull.95]

The new York ones are pretty interesting so far.

[@rachaelpowell1025]

I love Han! They are so adorable and sweet

[@itskendall3854]

i just love Mn Py’s name. it’s so unique 😍

[@karasays01]

I didnt really feel the vibes until the heavy weight round where I could feel the tension of the other person wanting to know the other's response.

[@Atomicqueen9]

ahh love this one they look like they would make a great couple together

[@aidandoyle3570]

Very interesting outcome I loved that they were actively interested i one another and what they’re all about and asked in depth questions They definitely bonded and vibed with one another and had a good conversation But truthfully i really view them with a friendship But honestly who am i to sit here and say sucha thing. You cant always see when people are vibin w one another!

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

I'm still trying to grasp the concept of a non-binary person. Cause biologically, a human is defined as male, female, or hermaphrodite. So by being neutral, it's kinda confusing me.

[@oliviaojpg]

Cahidi Joyo Raharjo it’s meant to confuse you

[@mama456100]

Gender doesn't always align with your biology. That's why there are cisgender people, transgender people, and non-binary people. Sometimes you don't identify with your biology or you don't identify with the use of male or female as a whole. At the end of the day, people are just who they are regardless of these things.

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

Yeah.... I'm still confused.

[@beverlyn21]

Cahidi Joyo Raharjo sexually, there is male,female and inter-sex as you said. Now gender is your feeling. A feeling of maleness, femaleness, both or none. So as a male, you need to feel what defines you as a male, is it only a penis or is it much more? As a female whaf defines you as a female. Masculinity and femininity is behavior and nobody gets to define what constitues male behavior or female behavior. Just like the colors blue and pink shouldn't relate to a gender. Google it, i'm sure it:ll make more sense when you read up :)

[@mela4082]

you answered your own questions. there are many different sexes other than male and female. and also gender is socially constructed NOT biological. which is why back in the day pink was a boy's color

[@okyeah4sure]

I love this!

[@Whimswirl]

Mn'Py looks so young and she seems like a sweet and genuine person. On the contrary, Han comes off as a bit arrogant.

[@KatherineGreenstein150]

han is like... holy asdfalkjas they're gorgeous

[@amara560]

I want to be friends with Han. She seems so socially aware and just a cool person in general :)

[@lilgoku461]

okay but everytime I hear "Soulpancake" all I hear is "SuperGay" which is great lol

[@nevesvitoria]

I think it's great that Han would rather adopt a child!

[@itsnotamousse]

I returned just to say I love Mn Py voice.

[@chillinwviolet]

I want to know how there date went.!!! Though it none of my buisness.