What It Takes To Make Polyamory Work

[@LisaDesigned]

Some of these comments are really upsetting. Talking about who Jacob loves more etc, it's not about loving one more than the other, it's loving both at the same time, but it's obviously a "different" feeling for each person, because they're not the same people, no one is. And that's the amazing part about being poly. Loved this video, Jacob is very insightful and you're all wonderfully amazing.

[@user-sj6ec1zt9l]

I can't even make a two person relationship work xd

[@romanschreiner9490]

Seriously.

[@willows6114]

E Lmao 😂

[@ViolentRainbow]

Bitch I can't make a one person relationship work! If I could break up with myself I would.

[@noahlindblom4004]

Then it could be easier if you had a third person helping you. I mean in a two person relationship you have to take care of the other person all by yourself. That is hard! Maybe you need a third person in your relationship. To make it work I mean;)

[@Denf0]

The sheer amount of emotional maturity in this video alone is blinding, I'm so happy that you three have found something as precious and rare as what you've got, much less the will and the language to give it a platform like you've done. I hope you can find the inspiration/motivation to start making videos again, this topic really gets a bad rep. Love you guys

[@leahthomson821]

Wow Jacob is on fire with the advice! He obviously knows what to do to make a poly relationship successful

[@JoasRadiomann]

It's because he already knew he was poly before even getting in one so he kinda figured it out a little in advance I guess

[@rnbsteenstar]

Yes and I'm new to the game.

[@belizeguy]

Again, communication can make almost anything work. These are very important videos. Not only because they are interesting for us to see, but later you guys can look back at these and know how well you all did in the formation of your union. Plus, there is the added bonus, that if you ever need to see the love you guys have for one another, simply re watch this video and see the love in each other's eyes! Remarkable footage. Glad you have it. Thank you for sharing again, deeply personal stuff about your lives.

[@marybells09]

Being able to be public about being in a poly relationship must be so wonderful! Sadly some of us are still having to live in the shadows with our poly lifestyle 😔. Thank you for making this video and offering some good advice on this topic. 💗

[@annakonijn1417]

I usually don't comment because I never know what to say. But I felt like there was a lot of (indirect) hate in the comment section this time and I decided to comment to make it a little brighter! Y'all are amazing, keep up the good work :)

[@annakonijn1417]

Kyle Simpson Don't read them? There are people who don't scroll through the comments while watching a video?! You sir, just opened my eyes. Secondly, at my attempt to spread some love you decided to spread more hate, thanks! How I would just love to remove toxic people like you from the comment section :). I get sad, not for me because I can handle your bullshit. I get sad for the boys en Kenny in particular that this has to happen in his comment section. So again, thanks!

[@alessandrogandolfo]

Hi. I'm from Chile. A very conservative Country. I want to thank you for sharing your relationship. I feel I am more accepting about polyamorous relationships thanks to your channel.

[@kl3312]

You guys are the only circle poly relationship that I know of and it makes me really happy to have some amount of representation on the internet. You give me hope.

[@tropicalsnowgeckos9599]

their hands are all over the place lol

[@GunnerStars99]

Please keep it up with these types of videos! Extremely enlightening, especially for someone who's never gone down this path but has always had it in the back of their minds.

[@kaylabrianne8106]

As someone who is figuring out my poly feelings, I think it is amazing that you're normalizing this! Extremely educational and absolutely adorable. I hope you keep this "series" going.

[@michikomanalang6733]

Honestly I love these, but I always make the mistake of going into the comments section. Most people here are pretty nice but there's always that One Person™

[@sawcsam1019]

I love how candid you all are and appreciate the realness!❤

[@basilboy]

I am in the start of a triad, it absolutely amazing. My husband and I have been together 38 years and we fell madly in love with CJ, who we have known for 40. Together we are planning to share the rest of our lives with one another. Best of luck. Follow your hearts; its path is exciting and loving. ❤️❤️❤️

[@norlack89]

Sending love and positive energy

[@TheGayGuyde]

Continues to be an awesome conversation guys, thanks for bringing this all to light.

[@beckemmen9702]

Thank you so much for being honest and open, it's really sweet, encouraging and great to see x

[@TheCleverQueer]

Thank you for making this-- I love that you're demystifying and normalizing this subject. I also love the love you clearly have for each other

[@lugnut4848]

Kenny the beard is looking good!!! You three are so beautiful together its so natural XOXO!!!

[@tyliadearmond2255]

Jacob's such a sweetheart! 💖

[@Christolphi]

What would happen if two of you had a falling out and but both loved the third still like how would you deal with that divide? Love you guys also, really opened my eyes about the realities and normalcies of polyamory.

[@mitchellbarnow1709]

Following the three of you on Instagram! Nice not having to deal with jealousy.

[@Schrodinger155]

this video is one of if not the most for anyone who if feeling stressed in a polyamorous relationship

[@JoshRimer]

Are any of them still together now?

[@samandros3451]

WOW! This is great. These guys could teach a lot of Americans about what a healthy responsible romantic/sexual relationship is.

[@tenten1656]

idk if its too late to ask, but is it going to be involved another person in your relationship? (like 4some, 5some, or one of you hook up with different people)? I am very curious regarding to this because I am...somewhat...in this situation...

[@jzwalz51robin45]

It all "works" until it doesn't. They are no longer in this relationship....

[@ipodgirl95]

Glad that you guys are proud polys! It needs to be more understood. I'm so curious about being sexually attracted to someone and how that feels and about the absence of romantic attraction but having sexual attraction. I'm on the asexual scale lol

[@briannadaley4299]

Thank you so much for sharing. Love the videos!

[@tigress_witchlingdagger5851]

Thank you guys for making this video

[@hendibeltz9393]

will it confused your child if you want to have one? Is the state allow to adopt Foster kids? Can you get married? family reaction?

[@Ilikefrogs..]

Kids generally accept whatever they grow up with as normal. They'll probably go over to other kids' houses and ask where their third parent is, or why they only have one daddy.

[@Adalinesmith20]

Loved this ❤️

[@adelineadamson3421]

i got lost on here, totally though you broke up. actually cried for five minutes. found this. felt exponentially better.

[@veradavis7852]

Love these videos. You guys are awesome.

[@flutemage2007]

You three are so adorable together!

[@stevenpeacock9270]

First Comment! Love you Kenny

[@rlewismays]

I liked this portion more than the first video. :)

[@Shaquan20]

Thank you all for showcasing your relationship and normalizing polyamorous relationships!! 💙❤️

[@furandice]

And yet just a couple years later…

[@kevinh811]

I wish a past boyfriend could have been this open with me instead of cheating without my knowing for 3 months. Even if I refused to do a threesome or consider a poly relationship, I definitely would have preferred talking about it up front.

[@beckemmen9702]

I was scrolling and reading the comments and began to like them and realised I'd have to stop because I agreed with so many

[@dorothy1329]

great video guys, it was great to see all 3 of you sit down together and do a video again, maybe you guys could try and do this more often, when work etc allows time for it. love you guys. how is it working out having your bedroom swapped around with the other room ? have you all gotten used to it now ?

[@grimmygrumm]

I LOVE THIS!

[@asyaaktas7792]

I love you guys! You are goals

[@katherinaclark2669]

We need to normalise polyamory so badly! Being poly can be so demonised and that needs to change

[@Harpring04]

idiots.

[@terilynn7074]

not in this life time or the next

[@atlasssss6471]

Like I'm very open to polyamory but am.nervous about possibly being in one in the future

[@livingingratitude7377]

Jacob clearly said him and Kyle are forever and Kenny is just a third wheel for the fun aspect. Wonder how Kenny feels about that?

[@stevenmehn62]

wow I agree so much with you guys I have been in 2 poly relationships and if my partner had only insured me that it was him and me to the end I would of been ok with it but he never did so I always felt like he was working on pushing me out and it being just him and the other guy , but come to find out that wasn't it at all communication is the big thing and being honest ! good luck guys you guys make a cute throuple

[@butterkeksgangster6685]

I love you, guys

[@earthworm4255]

Moments of making safety. Yes.

[@seanogle9901]

The video is fascinating and I would like the idea of having a three-way(or more-way) closed relationship. But the comments are so discouraging. People are now putting so much pressure on you guys to make it work. I hope you don't let it bother you.

[@lifechoices6643]

Very attractive and interesting video.

[@dami9461]

Ok so like... I just got in a relationship with my bsfs... two other girls and like we don’t know what we’re doing and like hehe I kinda like it

[@fotogramamiguel7092]

this is lovely :)

[@jtorres514]

Your body language, towards the ginger as you mentioned seems off, as if his a third wheel and not so much in a good way. I find it odd that the guy in the middle of you too had so much to say. When his tone towards each of this partners was not equal. This video shows me the opposite of what I was attending to learn. Open and honest love equality and it clear here that it’s not equal. More live will always be more favorable towards the first two initial partners and the equilibrium doesn’t feel right for me. Since the last one lover to join your group will always be fucked

[@museguitar100]

Finally someone keeping it REAL in here...... My thoughts exactly!

[@geralynll]

Kenny your so awesome

[@otaviooliveira9454]

Nice. I kind of felt that the one on the right is still a bit insecure and the one in the middle knows that and is being very attentive.

[@Lupin788]

Hey guy, thanks for making such informative videos. Have you seen these two films that have polyamory themes? "More Than Friendship" (2013, Germany) www.imdb.com/title/tt2465536/ and "Angels of Sex" (2012, Spain) www.imdb.com/title/tt1840911/ I think both films are well-acted and thought-provoking.

[@NeilSonOfNorbert]

at this point in my life the mechanics of a two person relationship seem strange and alien and so difficult to grasp, the dynamics of your relationship to me are as fascinating and visualizable as a fourth dimensional object.

[@katiekat1302]

I'm not sure why I always feel like Kyle is just going along with this to keep Jacob. Jacob obviously loves Kyle but wants to be able to have Kenny too. Kenny just looks like he is 3rd wheeling a lot and seems to know it too (his face gives him away). Kenny any Kyle don't seem to get on particularly well. I think if at any moment Jacob was to decide he wanted monogamy that whichever of the 2 he picked, would be totally down with that. I wish them the best and hope that I am wrong and that they are all on the exact same page. Good luck to you guys

[@fgorlando]

Katie kat That's exactly what I feel like I witness while watching their vids!! The body language from each of them reflects what you just mentioned! I wish them all the very best as well but it's a tough uphill battle...speaking from experience

[@a.blackwater3076]

Katie kat I think he's just uncomfortable in front of the camera but idk

[@annakonijn1417]

Katie kat You need to remember that we only get to see 8-minute videos each week, that is such a small part of their lives (and their relationship). You cannot judge a relationship based on that amount of information, so please don't :) (This is no hate, this is an advice in order to keep the comment section happy and not judgemental)

[@stardust8181]

Kenny goes live every friday on younow and jacob and/or kyle often join, and you get to see them interact a lot more, and they are equally affectionate. I can see why just watching the vlogs you don't that as much.

[@katiekat1302]

Anna Konijn No offence taken. This is just my opinion based upon what they CHOOSE to put out as a representation of their relationship. I completely agree it's only 8 minutes, but it seems to be the same in the majority of the videos - e.g. The underwear video: Jacob 'I've never seen Kyle in sexy underwear' (in an excited manner), Kenny goes red, his face falls and he says 'neither have I'. It came across as very much REMEMBER ME TOO! Remember that this is 8 minutes of EDITED footage, so only the best moments would be included. I really hope it is just a form of being camera shy and not because anyone feels pressured to accept the situation or lose the person they love. The thought of being trapped in that manner must be horrible. As I said before, I REALLY hope that my perception is wrong and that it is a discomfort thing because they all seem like really decent guys. They all deserve to be happy and I just hate the thought of anyone feeling left out (Kenny) or jealous (Kyle). The only winner in all this seems to be Jacob. He's as happy as can be. Mind you, with two hot boyfriends I suppose that's understandable. I guarantee rarely Jacob spends a night alone.

[@jtskeen1]

They are all cute, especially the one in the middle, damnnnn, but they are young right now, and making love just for fun, although nothing lasts forever, you can't love two people the same no matter how much they try to convince each other. Good luck fellas

[@sojun8501]

Feelings for two people at the same time isn't feelings

[@dothedeed]

liking the beard

[@charlienonya7016]

I feel like the original 2 loved each other but were unhappy sexually. This shit just doesn't work for long periods of time though either. And I think the end is neigh by how they're talking.

[@supermario12342003]

Who is top?

[@adisbern]

Adrian Choong the middle guy most likely.

[@supermario12342003]

adisbern tv I would say versatile top bottom

[@aslscott78]

Not u for sure lol 😂

[@josephlenehan4461]

Joseph and Today 😀🇮🇪

[@json8288]

I could listen to Jacob talk all day. Hint, hint. More videos. Own channel. Give us something. ;-)

[@valentine93]

hmmm that would be hard, I don't like to share.

[@shiyuyang1183]

Ahhhh you’re so cute together 💕💕💕🥰

[@williamm8240]

But it is no longer a fluid situation, it is a solid situation. No one is leaving, correct.

[@aaronlee6361]

See, I feel like it's less likely to work for a heterosexual relationship, because they're aren't mutual feelings unless at least one of them is pan or bi.

[@aaronlee6361]

In a poly relationship, who proposes? Does one person propose to two? That must be an expensive wedding, who walks up the aisle? I'm not judging youre relationship, I'm sincerely confused.

[@brocklod3673]

Not judging but this is so weird, I could never have this kind of relationship, I'm way too jealous for that shit.

[@FaCsaba]

I just don't like polyamorous relationship, you have to remember two birthdays that is two more than I can handle.

[@clchawaii09]

Csaba Fazekas lol

[@ViolentRainbow]

There's no way this wont end badly, someone is gonna get their heart broken when the other two announce that they love each other more than they love you.

[@Ilikefrogs..]

Of course, we all know monogamous relationships go on forever!

[@TheAbright123]

Want a quad

[@bristoluk3836]

I want 2 boyfriends 😎💙

[@eligioserrano7112]

Polyamor is terriffic! You can be in love with several men.

[@paulwilliammonks1]

I wonder how they are these days?

[@Ricardo-fv2qi]

Paul Monks they broke up 😢

[@paulwilliammonks1]

Ricardo Andrade Camacho that's a shame . Although saying that, it means the one I like might be single lol

[@GinaRiportella]

Awww 😍😘😘😊😋

[@RoseBlackwells]

Are you poly or?

[@mattheus5433]

LIKE for adding Chris to the Poly (at some point maybs)

[@PantsStatusZero]

Wait. You guys had pre-marital sex? Sinners!

[@Molego2011]

Weren’t you bi ?

[@jzwalz51robin45]

So many changes. It would not be surprising if this throuple changed by now

[@rorik.3842]

I always wonder how this is so acceptable in the western society yet they fight the Muslims for having a second wife xD ... the Hypocrisy.

[@readerl.3461]

Not sure what you mean..? Because polyamary is definitely not seen as acceptable in Western society. It's still very much taboo. One of the arguments against gay marriage by many opponents was people were afraid gay marriage would lead to polyamory marriages becoming legal.

[@Adalinesmith20]

Rori K. Not everyone is as close minded, don't put everyone in the same box.

[@readerl.3461]

Also, I think some see the inequality in Muslim men having multiple wives but women not being allowed to have multiple husbands. That I would consider more "hypocritical", if anything.

[@amitthehuman]

tinyurl.com/m8zkv3e

[@rorik.3842]

relax guys, I was just giving that mere idea to think about that if we could respect his " choice " of doing this and his partners are happy with it. we should be able to respect others with different views as in that if his partners are up with it and happy with it. who are we to decide that we have the ultimate right way of living ? each has it's own. I'm just mentioning that maybe we shouldn't use that against others if this was the case :P.

[@kennyjames5335]

give it some time and Jacob will bring in a forth guy. It will be ten guys dating each other

[@keithm.3456]

yep! people like that love sex with people. he will bring in someone else sooner or later

[@BooksandBuns]

I'm poly and i wouldn't mind having 20 partners if i love all of them and they love me

[@chigasaki06]

Nasty as hell. Don't confuse love with lust.

[@BooksandBuns]

chigasaki06 there is no lust in polyamory. Its a relationship made up of love. Same with any other relationship between two people. And a relationship between two people can be made up of lust too.

[@GayArmo]

Disgusting, should not be accepted in society.