8. Independence 9. Shared values and goals 10. Good communication skills 11. Flexibility and Compromise
@aprilsookra683411 ай бұрын
"I'm not here to heal you; I'm here to date you!"
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
That part!
@PerfectlyPayla10 ай бұрын
That part.
@l.butler911011 ай бұрын
All of the character traits you discussed in this video were demonstrated by my late husband; therfore, I know what to expect for my second life time as a help mate.
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
Yes you do! You had an amazing partner which matched your talents too. You will love again too, just in a different way.
@dtpbach11 ай бұрын
35:51 no not true for all, but for some. There’s another unique problem to high value beautiful women is that men get intimidated soooo bad, they run scared. Where are those KZbin Podcasts?? Can you do a video for us ladies that have that problem please? One that explains why Men get freaked out scared because they fear rejection or competition from a ton of men throwing everything at you when in fact, we are at home, in our yoga pants, eating popcorn, drinking green tea watching Netflix ALONE, ABSTINENT and CONTENT! Please send heeeeeellp! 😅
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
Let’s discuss it! I’m with it. Want to go live and talk about it or offline?
@dtpbach11 ай бұрын
@@DRTARTT1wow for real! Heck yes let’s chat!
@deborahsmall164411 ай бұрын
Secure and can afford to hold it down financially and physically, high character, emotionally available, etc
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
Well, there it is.
@rochelleclunie572611 ай бұрын
Awesome job. Thanks for helping me grow. Nuff love and blessings 🇯🇲
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
That brings so much joy into my heart. ❤️
@InTheirClosetPodcast11 ай бұрын
I was at my guy friend's party last night, he is an attorney. I went with my sister to his Christmas party. That place was FULL of great men, LOL! Judges, Doctors, Politicians, etc. I already picked mine out but last night reminded me that there are so many well-qualified men who could date me! But, I have always had the mindset that there are still a lot of great men out there and I do not believe in a scarcity mindset. (Was married for 17 years and starting over could be depressing but I have enjoyed this new chapter and all the new ways of dating in my late forties and as opposed to dating in my twenties.) By the way, great notes!
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
You are amazing! Let that King see you and then make YOU his Queen.
@CW-fh2ql9 ай бұрын
A man's job title isn't what makes him a great man.
@Msfabwealthy111 ай бұрын
You definitely putting us on game, thank you. I really never understand game. Why the games though sir. Why not just straight up be kind & love one another?
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
It’s like sales. We want to be excited about what is next. It is just part of the process. Embrace it and win at it.
@CherieChrist2 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥 Great Lessons!
@AleciaDistin9 ай бұрын
Dr. Tartt I’m just so inspired after watching this! I’ve been watching you since discovering you on Hardly Initiated and I love all your content but this one hit different. I’m seriously thinking about signing up for that “Ring Formula” because I’m amazing yet single. I just need some coaching. 🙏🏽
@mhenderson340710 ай бұрын
WOW…This was an EXCELLENT session! Thank you so much! You are truly anointed to do what you do… Blessings & overflow to you and your family!
@DRTARTT110 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@brendabell861510 ай бұрын
You keep it 100 and I'm loving it ❤
@PerfectlyPayla10 ай бұрын
“Santa Claus ain’t never came to rescue me”🤦🏽♀️😂, not the Santa Claus 🎅 😂😂😂😂
@fidelispenelopy25411 ай бұрын
Super Great Content 👌... Much Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@shayla862311 ай бұрын
lol Dr Tartt!! Not the Mike Jones reference!! lol this was excellent; as always!
@holyorhell20138 ай бұрын
Thanks, needed this.
@teachermade76611 ай бұрын
The one I'm working on the most out of this entire list is............ #5 OMG!!!
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
Light work for you! You’ll get it done. We are all works in process.
@teenspirit983710 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾❤️
@angelasparks107710 ай бұрын
Brilliant advice thank you 🙏🏾
@helens.881610 ай бұрын
This is great info...Thank you😊
@AudaciousErin82Baby11 ай бұрын
Dr. Tartt-THANK YOU!!! This is excellent content my brotha'! I'm tryna be thee best woman/wife that I can be and because of this info-I'm well on my way. Thank You once more.
@Nocreditnoproblem9 ай бұрын
Truth
@queenofthesouth420511 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏thank you Dr. Tartt
@DRTARTT111 ай бұрын
You are very welcome!
@deborahsmall164411 ай бұрын
Good information Dr. T
@darlenesimmons606511 ай бұрын
its true for me
@allthtjass10 ай бұрын
Falcons fan 🤝🏽
@mariaware827210 ай бұрын
If Tupac walk in the room I'm gone be"SCURRED"❣️🙏😂😅🤣🌹
@DRTARTT110 ай бұрын
😂
@sharinaross186511 ай бұрын
Sure there are a lot of good single men. 🙄
@kwmonters110 ай бұрын
These men are not in Philly😂😂 No, honestly. Where are they. 👀
@Melinamiu00711 ай бұрын
I’m not confident so single for me it is. I am confident that I lack confidence, I’ve had it rough and it’s tough to build. So that expectation from men is disheartening. “Best woman in the room” pft. Women don’t go around requiring the “best men” we’re attracted to him but we’re also realistic about people. We ask for “good men.” Many women who have that “confidence” have either had a silver spoon or have a lot now.
@justagirl1234511 ай бұрын
Yea I thought this was weird when he said men are really attracted to this. From what I notice about the men in my husband and my friend group is that the men all have pretty easy going women. They just want someone to be pleasant to be around. Be chill and dont cause drama.
@lynnlance35110 ай бұрын
The Lord Jesus is coming back soon Please. Think more off eternal life Not too focused on your physical needs and pleasure . We are now in the last days of Earth's History Look at Daniel chapter 2, And Revelation chapter 13,17,18.
@DRTARTT110 ай бұрын
Love never ends. Choose love.
@T-Salt11 ай бұрын
Most black women want to marry black men but the rate of marriage is a very low 28%. Come up with something new please.