What next after a bad relationship drowned your 20 years

Can you recover after being 'wasted' for many years?

[@carolkami.671]

1. Change the direction..# re-route. 2. Leave the situation 3. Reschedule your life 4. Recreate your existence... rebirth and develop new purpose for living.. Thank you Zulu!!!🙏🙏 I'm already doing all the above after 15 years " wasted" in marriage... Thankfully, we are mutually co-parenting our 3 kids... Learning, seeking and applying knowledge is indeed a life saver.

[@videos72BU]

It's not how I started, the script has now changed to how I finish. Having been taught by life itself, I came to a conclusion that stress is a choice, I choose happiness and contentment irrespective... This generation is truly blessed to have these nuggets of wisdom!

[@MisuZama]

Soooo true. 9ys later, I moved to a new part of the town. Started afresh, made new friends, was planted into a new church. Distanced myself from pleasures & focused on rebuilding. 6yrs later, I have a successful business, a thriving career, happy & confident children & about to buy my 1st home 🏡. God is Good. But in the words of Benjamin Zulu - DECIDE !

[@anyangumatukho3580]

Same here. This is now my 2nd year out of the country to set up my mind and heal before i start my new journey. It hasn't been easy but i thank God He's been faithful so far.

[@tabithairungu3146]

Me 18 year lack of information that there is a character called NARCISSIST.... I ran one year now enjoying my own peace of mind ... Zulu you were born to save Many of us... Be blessed ever Amen

[@selestineshiro3918]

This conversation makes me feel sane. I had to start all over again and God has been faithful

[@margaretwanjiku9196]

am very great for l was in this situation but since l first started listening to this topic l managed to live am now doing life with my 4 children and am happy

[@rehemanju]

Congratulations!

[@ruthiminza15]

Thank you Sir. I'll use the same advice to apply it my life; my health, mind and building a new identity just because I overstayed in a family setup where I was talked down. It's true certain relationships even family members can siphon the life out of you.

[@lyn254]

It's never too late girl.

[@anyangumatukho3580]

Wow Zulu.....your wisdom is an eye opener. Much love

[@julipaul7113]

Wisdom is the best thing somebody can have,very educative conversation about real life

[@lucywanjiku8525]

Kinyash ,,, this guy is wonderful too.

[@Mr.Lambisticshie]

You are talking about me with betting, I've lost over 120k with the hopes of winning and it keeps calling me 😭😭😭😭 I see the dangers but I'm unable to turn around, I'm unable to stop . You are giving my example Sir 😭😭😭😭😭

[@lucynluyali573]

I wasted my 20 yrs but I thank God I chose myself and now am very contended with life,in short am happy 😁

[@lisawambui1060]

Zulu... always speaking to me n many other. Blesso

[@peterkiprono5957]

I needed this

[@kennedychege7814]

this is mine

[@eagleswings7834]

Timely message indeed thank u

[@beverlynemwangale74]

This is so informative

[@marymutinda8807]

An eye opener. Thank you sir

[@nkandumwelwa5454]

You're talking to me🤔

[@jacintamutisya4609]

Oh My God... My exact story Be blessed.. I was genuine ...... Though

[@annkithinji6755]

20 are few. Talk of 28😅

[@Girlygirl24]

😳💔💔

[@annkithinji6755]

Familiar geography but Lost! Far in the wrong direction without consious I am on the right route❤ only that there are a few problems😢...genuine but mistaken😮😣 .sincere people but not informed on how to make proper decision 😢 there is a difference between a healthy marriage and a false marriage 🙄 took the wrong turn and are not aware.the fear of facing the repurcusion leads to.deeep denial...build an alternative Truth...they say marriage is about perseverance....no marriage is easy...now that I can't walk out what can I do?..they don't accept the truth .self imposed blindness ( refusal to earn)they don't study or learn anything.they Don't hunger to know or learn.avoid gradual learning and increase in knowledge.solution.dont sit and brood, acknowledge and switch quickly.change direction immediately.reshedule your life. Great message

[@nishashabr5466]

Why wasted? You made money together,build,had kids..and alot of beautiful experiences with someone you dearly loved. I wouldnt say it’s time wasted.

[@TheRedTablewithMokgadi1]

May we please have Part 2 of this topic

[@doreenonunda9992]

Wisdom wisdom

[@annkithinji6755]

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