WHAT NOT TO DO IN THE USA I 8 DON'TS When Visiting the United States of America

Hey! When I first visited visited France, I made all kinds of terrible "faux pas." The list of things I shouldn't have done in France are endlessssss. So I knew I wanted to save some of my viewers from the same misery when visiting the USA. So, I filmed today's video all about what not to do in the US when you are visiting!
I'm hoping this video will give any of you world travelers out there some advice and tips for what not to do when visiting the US and save you from some cringeworthy moments. So buckle up and enjoy 8 things you absolutely should not do in America :)
#tipsforvisitingtheusa #whatnotodointheUSA
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VIDEO GUIDE:
1. Personal Space "1:04"
2. Criticising the US "2:02"
3. PDA "2:51"
4. Cutting the line "3:55"
5. Identity Card "4:37"
6. Public Transportation "5:17"
7. Insulting Drivers " 6:05"
8. Restaurant Timing "6:55"
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[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Hey guys! I've done more embarrassing things in France than I can count on my fingers and toes...😝It's hard to know what to do and what not to do in new cultures. So I filmed a video dedicated to what not to do when visiting the US! 🇺🇸 It's always fun to see what other people might find weird about your own culture! So even if you're American, this might be an eye opener for you! What may seem "normal" to us, might not be normal for everyone! 👍I also cut the video a bit different this time, so let me know what you think! Enjoy!

[@ybreton6593]

Madam, I see that my comment written in French has been deleted. I would like to know if the comment was unpleasant and too virulent in my remarks concerning the patriotism of the French and that of the Americans? or, quite simply, that it was in French! during the 47 years of activity of which 3/4 to travel in on 5 continents (except on the sixth continent Antarctica) it allowed me to see the psychological behavior of Americans in the United States and outside their countries, whether in Africa, South America, the Middle East, South East Asia, Japan, Oceania and of course in Europe. as much they are on them in the USA, that it was panic in countries not very stable or according to some, under developing. and their amazement when outside the big hotel chains and capitals the locals did not speak English.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Hello! I'm the only person that has access to delete a comment and I don't delete comments based on language or point of view. As long as you're not spreading hate speech or using abusive language, your comment gets to stay! So not sure what happened to it, but wasn't on my end and youtube didn't censor it so feel free to try again! Always happy to discuss :)

[@commutinginatlanta9163]

Most of us in the States are really chill and would love to meet you

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

There are definitely some chill ones out there too!!

[@abhayroy97]

Mr. Robbins , As she says , Americans are aggressive in Every Damn subject ! So, its a big No to the visiters ?

[@immasongoku2011]

Yes we love that

[@erikakenley9322]

Just an extra note about bringing your ID everywhere. Employees can be fined or in some cases have to serve jail time if they sell/provide alcohol to a minor (under 21). By checking your ID, it essentially releases the employee of potential liability.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

So true. I find how serious we take ID's in the US really ridiculous. BUT if you told me i'd serve jail time if I didn't check, i'd be asking everyone too!

[@eighties73]

This is so true, the liquor laws in the U.S. are absolutely draconian.

[@carlgharis7948]

​@@UnintentionallyFrenchifiedsomething else is stores have new employees. I've said to people ( oh ya you're the guy born in February of 1994 I remember you) I'd seen his ID a few times before. As we see many many people so we might take a little time to be familiar. That being said I reminded him be sure to always bring your ID because we do have new employees who aren't familiar with you. So even if the people who are working say Wednesday and Thursday know you they've seen your ID before you come back on say Saturday a new employee who resantly started is libal to ask you for it

[@ayooochill8889]

When going in stores and someone is close behind you, hold the door for them. Or if someone holds the door open for you say thank you, and don't take it offensive or anything it's kinda a instinct for us 😅

[@socialcat4748]

Unless its my brother ofc U can go ahead and close it

[@TraceyMush]

Oh, l thought that was just a Canadian thing. Do you live close to the boarder? lf no, would you say the door holding thing is all over the US?

[@sologrey1288]

@@TraceyMush it is actually, very common place to go into a place and have someone open the door for you or you for them.

[@phillipsindel2291]

From Australia: Hi Kate - Fascinating info presented with fun & class. Thank you.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Ah! All the way from Australia! Glad you enjoyed it :)

[@JennyT101]

Omg. Not cutting in line is so important. It is super rude, and will make people very, very angry. You might as well slap someone in the face. Do not cut in line!

[@vince7179]

In the 90’s, I used to fly a lot back and forth in the US and in France (I am French). In US airports, when passengers where called by row numbers to get on the plane, you could recognize the French, not respecting the line or cutting the line. I was so embarassed by the French.

[@JaxomMric]

and btw, I just love your videos ! thanks for sharing all this !

[@juliewhittier2376]

Yep, here in "'Merica" we love our big food portion sizes and and we're called "The Land of Cheeseburgers". I just hate that that's what America's known for, honestly.

[@lexijade300]

Yea

[@lilcookievulpe5026]

I know right! ( me saying that when I literally had a cheeseburger earlier)

[@emmarussell4311]

It’s Not even completely true

[@willhaney96]

were know for our Nukes too, and our military... and our healthcare...

[@abhayroy97]

We know other reasons as well America is greedy , Can initiate war for Fuel , But can't Initiate it for Farmers in India. American may not be selfish but America is . Sorry , It is hard but it is the truth

[@BadassCareers]

Love this reverse perspective 💪 you’re such a hoot!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Also fun to see how your perspective of your home country changes when living somewhere else! :)

[@loridelia8806]

Haha! Really great video. You did a great job and I especially appreciated your humor!❤️

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it :)

[@JaxomMric]

Hey ! You've done some new things on this video ! Congrats for the editing. The pictos where great and all, I really enjoyed it. Continue like that = cela dynamise la vidéo !

[@habsheim0]

I like very much the new set of your video. Good advices as well.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thank you! I've really been working on editing better for everyone!

[@martinbalagat]

You also can't crack open a bottle of wine in public whereas in France you can. I once saw a French tourist who tried to do this in a park in San Francisco and saw someone warned him about it. I don't think he listened.

[@bobbieandfrankdezayas8450]

martinbalagat That and walking around drinking beer in public is a big no no.

[@martinbalagat]

@@bobbieandfrankdezayas8450 Which i can do almost anywhere in SE Asia without getting busted.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Such a good point! And a huge difference!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

So true, so true!

[@eighties73]

Thats why we pour it into sport bottles or red solo cups, LOL!

[@jcben]

Very interesting. I hope we'll be able to go back travelling soon.

[@thomasreiser]

Loved it as a fellow American

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thank you!!

[@giadixon8934]

As a dual citizen--one nationality being US American--I find the dichotomy complex as with any nation. For instance, Americans typically have their heart on their sleeve openly telling personal problems to people they just met. Even to the point of being indecent (i.e., graphic intestinal issues, divorce, etc.). Yet when someone sees a nip slip, making out or asks one's age all of a sudden it's so conservative haha. British Puritans really messed us up!

[@italianfatman]

Since when were people open? In WV, people tend to hide their feelings and most of American population is VERY depressed because of that.

[@laeliawatt8593]

@@italianfatman I think it depends on the region. East coasters hardly do that, or a place like AZ, but in the midwest, it is pretty common, some states more than others. My cousin was away in Europe for a while then moved to Kentucky. When someone found out they newly moved to the area, she had to keep from laughing, because people would say welcome, and then launch into these detailed narrations about their life. She's FROM the midwest (Missouri), but it surprised her all over again after being away for a while.

[@eighties73]

I love your videos, I'm using them as a reference so that if/when I ever get the chance to visit France I'll be better prepared. There is a certain haunted chateau in Calvados that I've wanted to see since I first read about it as a boy. Thanks for the great content!!!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Hi Chris, thanks so much for the feedback! I really enjoy making the videos! However, since it's not my full time job, it ends up being a lot of extra side work at night or on the weekends. So hearing feedback that they are helpful and you enjoy them is a good motivator when it's midnight and i'm cutting videos :)

[@eighties73]

@@UnintentionallyFrenchified Well I definitely appreciate your efforts and will take any advice you have to offer. Merci beaucoup!!!

[@veroniquewolff751]

@@eighties73 what haunted castle ? I have a vacation home in Calvados and never heard about this. I am curious to visit it. You know more things than me about my own country !

[@eighties73]

@@veroniquewolff751 Bonjour!! The castle I'm referring to is Le Chateau des Noyers du Tourneur. I read of it in a book about haunted houses as a boy and have been fascinated with it ever since. Apparently it burned in 1984 but they still have an annual son et lumière at the ruins. Here is an article about the chateau: actu.fr/normandie/tourneur_14704/legendes-urbaines-normandie-decouvrez-chateau-noyers-lun-plus-hantes-france_20256016.html Hopefully I'll get a chance to visit the chateau and see more of Calvados someday. I hear the apple brandy is quite good.

[@kimthai4639]

LOVED the vid! So funny, my boyfriends from America and I love hearing about the cultural differences. PS I know you're not a beauty guru, but dying to know your minimal french beauty /skin routine!

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

ME TOO!! I would LOVE to know her French beauty/skincare routine or just the products she loves!

[@markg117]

I am pretty sure that EVERYONE knows the BIG THREE issues to avoid talking about In the United States are definitely: GUNS, POLITICS and RELIGION!!!!

[@MrRyanSandberg]

Always such fun videos :-) I would definitely mention clearing tables! It is amazing how many other cultures wouldn't think to clear the table after eating at the McDonald's for example. In NZ they have staff whose entire job it is to just clean up the trash after people leave. But when I lived in America, we always took our trays to the rubbish area.

[@severinepele9864]

Very interesting! US culture seems so familiar and close to us as we watch so many US movies and series and follow political events that we feel we already know it all. But we at the end know very little about the daily normal life and American way of thinking. Very enlightening. It will for sure improve the quality of a trip to the US. Great video! :-)

[@ydoweclowndoyoung4863]

As an American, I am proud to say that is entirely correct!! This video was also very well edited and made me laugh!

[@denisafasola9395]

Interesting. I didn’t realize I need to know these things. Thanks for the video!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Glad it was helpful!

[@shbhchwh]

Retired US college prof here. I enjoy your channel and hope to get back to France in the coming year! One thing that is different is that yes, Americans do have large portions in restaurants, in general. Splitting entree with other person is common in US, taking home a "doggy" bag is assumed (leaving a lot of food on plate is considered wasteful and an affront to the chef), or just ordering a small plate/appetizer as your entree is also fine. Asking them how large the portions are is common. Oh, and be a good tipper. US wait staff live on the tips. At minimum, 20% these days and often more.This is true even in areas other than big cities, where servers are not making much $. Be generous. Also, if you ask politely at most restaurants to customize your food, that usually is not a problem. The server knows that if you receive what you want, the way you want it, you will be happier and the tip will be larger. Also, be very polite when you ask for your food fixed a certain way. However, it is not unusual to do this (such as asking for no added salt, no butter, extra this and that, etc.) Say something such as, "Would it be possible to do such and such? I would appreciate it, if possible...Thank you so much."

[@juliaschetinskaya20]

Wow, this is really interesting. I’d probably made all these faux pas if I hadn’t watched this.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Glad you liked it!!

[@kathleenthornton6854]

One of my favorite videos! Can't wait for part two!

[@TreenaBeena]

I totally agree with the PDA. I’m an American and I was pretty surprised to see the PDA in Europe! In the US, you only see PDA like that in a movie. The public transport, driving, & ID comments are so true too.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

The PDA is a huge shocker right? I'm so used to it now, but i used to see all these "kids" in parks coupled up and i was like, don't they want privacy! ahahha

[@georgiancrossroads]

Yeah I try to explain to my Georgian friends here in Tbilisi what would happen if they took their sneaky driving habits to the US. Here they cut you off without thinking about it. And extremely close! But try cutting off a Ford F-150 pickup truck on say Highway 101 in Southern California without a moments warning or a turn signal. Better hope they don't have sidearms as the driver stomps on the gas to menacingly tailgate your tiny Hyundai. I don't think many Europeans really understand the sense of American space. Cutting in line, cutting people off on the road, assumed physical familiarity etc. are all fairly thorny issues in America. Meanwhile whether in France or in Georgia I am always watching my America expectations of what is polite behavior just walking down the street. Thanks Kate. More please!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thanks for the feedback! I didn't even think of how the road rage can also be linked to personal space but it's so true! :)

[@MarianneExJohnson]

In my experience, which is New Jersey and NYC, it's fine to take more than an hour for dinner in a restaurant. When I'm with company and I get an appetizer, entrée (that's American for "main course"), and coffee or dessert after, it can easily go two hours, and no one has ever given me stink-eye for that. I do agree that once you've had your coffee you should go. Eating out is not expensive in America, but they do want to serve as many people as they can. When it's not busy, they'll often tell you specifically that it's OK to take your time when they bring you the check (which they will do without being asked, another big culture difference there!), so just play it by ear.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

I completely agree if you keep ordering food there is no issue! But i looked up national statistics and on average more than an hour in restaurant for americans is "long." I think another difference is i've had my bill handed to me without asking for it in the states. That has never happened to me in France unless the waitress was done with her shift. Not sure if you've expereinced that before but it really made me feel like, ummm can you pay and leave?

[@RaeJ8]

@@UnintentionallyFrenchified I'd say it also depends largely on the tip. If you stay longer and tip well, the server won't be missing out on another table/paycheck, so they don't care. That's something I'd mention more of in video2. The idea of tipping and how it actually makes up the server's paycheck.

[@jakeryan4545]

I will say that as a server, tables that stayed longer ususally left a good tip, so it didn't bother me too much. It is when I am a customer and there is an hour wait and you see a table that is just sitting there with all of their plates cleared that my "spoiled" American self is like - stop being selfish, you had your turn! Go to a bar or cafe or someone's house to just relax, I'm hungry!

[@marcuslebeau]

This is absolutely true and I agree 100%

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it :)

[@brooko1414]

I loved this video. I’m an American living in London so I don’t need any of these tips but it really had me laughing!! 😂

[@thedavidguy01]

I agree with your comments about personal space, but it does vary a lot. The expected personal space is a lot different for a New Yorker than for someone from Nebraska.

[@victors4333]

I liked it! The yield to the right exists, but not well known and applied.

[@perthfanny3017]

I love how you see personal space in the US. This is so pleasant. People at the supermarket will even say sorry when walking before you in an aisle. I hate it when people invade my personal space. Here in Spain I can't stand how people will bump into your purse walking past you (even when there is a lot of space for them not to touch you). It makes me feel like hitting them 😤 When I moved here a few years ago, people used to stand in line so close to you.

[@virginiav.1172]

LOL! so so true.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

I think growing up in the states means my personal space is larger so I really appreciate it too! I haven't quite gotten used to the smaller bubbles in Europe!

[@Rachel-rs7jn]

Oh my gosh, so true. We will say "Excuse me" to someone when we enter their personal space, even with no contact. In France you pretty much have to bump into them to say that!

[@LivieCaroline]

Now you understand why French people hate so much foreign tourists...

[@virginiav.1172]

@@LivieCaroline They hate tourists because of personal space??

[@eighties73]

In my experience (and I live in a busy tourist area) restaurants don't mind if you are there for a while after finishing diner as long as there aren't people waiting to be seated. As long as it isn't busy, you should be fine. If it is busy moving to the bar or lounge area so others can be seated is just viewed as polite.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Good point. If there is no one to take over the table, you can definitely hang around!

[@nadiavanessak]

I visited family in Chicago when I was 19 and we went to a bar that had a sign saying "we card hard", and I somehow got away with not getting asked for my ID once. In fact my two cousins got asked for their ID and they only checked the older brothers ID (who was 21) and then assumed that the younger brother was over 21 because he looked older.

[@chauvinflorent8245]

Super video thanks

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@TraceyMush]

The personal space bubble is also true in Canada as are the things about line ups and driving.

[@bevzombified9548]

I will say that if you want to chat in a place for a while, coffee and tea houses are great for that. I have a habit of going to the tea house in my town when I can to meet people myself! I also love that they refill my teapot for free. I’m not saying every small shop does that, but you can find it. Seriously though, the tea culture in America is great, there are so many awesome small shops!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thanks for the insights! I am a major tea drinker now, but I started that when I moved to Europe so I don't know much about the tea culture in the US. But I would agree that coffee shops tend to let you hang out a lot longer than restaurants!

[@Jewelssv]

PSA: Yes we are very reserved when it comes to PDA and personal space as well as the other topics, however, it is not common that people cross these boundaries so don't worry about it too much. If you do cross them, givea quick apology and we will understand. We are very forgiving of these things and we don't think about it too much.

[@christianbryant5617]

The line thing is so huge for America.. anytime I’ve seen someone, foreigner or not, try to cut, it’s been a huge issue and often doesn’t end well

[@joseph8697]

May I ask you question ? if I would visitin someone friend in the weekend like that haven’t seen him / her for awhile how long I could stay there ?

[@bobbieandfrankdezayas8450]

You mentioned the portion sizes, but to me that requires more discussion. I would suggest that they avoid buffets and when ordering, that they order one plate for two in most restaurants as the serving size in US is 2-3 times bigger than in France/Europe in general. Another item is that food in the US is often salty and the sweets are very sweet when compared to Europe.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

The food has a totally different taste in the two countries. You know what always shocks me. Is drinking a coke in France and a coke in the US. It's SO MUCH sweeter in the US.

[@aeolia80]

Yeah!!! They should really do that, order one plate for 2 people. You know here in Korea the portion sizes can be really big too, but Koreans never finish it, their appetites are similar to French people, but putting a lot of food on the plate is a sign of wealth and abundance (even though they went through an occupation, a war, and several dictatorships, they never had the mentality of people that grew up with family that lived through the depression of not wasting food, for them if food is available it should be flaunted and shared, anyways) so there's always a lot of food waste left over, I mean they have a system in Korea of how to use leftover food, but still, there shouldn't be leftover food in the first place. Some Koreans are smart and share a plate, but most don't. Whereas in the States, sharing food off of one plate can be seen as weird and many people don't like to share, then you throw in the mentality of not wasting food, and you end up with people eating their whole plate when they probably shouldn't for their health.

[@clairebreuleux2928]

I don't think it's nice criticizing the country you're visiting no mater the country. 😉

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Of course, but I'd say to criticize it with your travel companion rather than other americans you might run in to that you don't know!

[@loridelia8806]

Claire Breuleux I agree, it’s not cool at all.

[@bobbieandfrankdezayas8450]

I don’t think I’ve ever done that but after all my time spent abroad and now living in the US, I am very critical of it because it has hit me that it isn’t everything I thought it ws

[@clairebreuleux2928]

@@bobbieandfrankdezayas8450 I'm french and lived abroad all my childhood until I was 18 years old and after over 30 years living in France, I still see it from the outside. And of course I see things that people who lived all their lives in France don't see the same way as I do. As a french girl , I criticise my country but on the same time , I'm aware of the chance it's to live in such a country for many things. From what I've learned living abroad , I think every country has a positive and a negative thing .

[@TheCMLion]

I was in a bar in Paris in 2003 and a couple of guys from Britain and France were going off on the US. I totally agreed with them, but felt as a "representative of my country" I had to defend it. Ugh. It was so painful. I will grumble privately to my husband when we're in France, but otherwise, I just smile and say it's amazing (even on those rare occasions it is not.) :-D

[@ravenwolfblazing]

Feel i should point out that road rage is also illegal. You can be arrested and fined for it. Best to just roll your eyes and ignore the other driver than get into heated exchanges or drive recklessly. Also coffee shops are generally ok with people only buying one or two things and sitting for hours, its kind of expected but yes other places don't like it. Great list, looking forward to the next part.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Good point. I might have made it sound like road rage was totally acceptable which is not the case legally! And coffee shops are a great option for hanging out longer. Glad you enjoyed it and thanks for the comment!

[@floridastitcher1]

Americans are friendly because we enjoy meeting people and learning about their lives.

[@jomama3804]

I think the civil war actually was started over someone cutting line

[@katiecourreges]

Don't forget that you can't drink alcohol in public (like picnic style) or walking in the street! My husband thought this was wild (he's French)!

[@sophiegoarin2903]

aïe ! j'ai bien peur que certains conducteurs aient eu des problèmes 🤭👍

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

hahah oui je pense! :)

[@jean-claudevoillemin4618]

Je confirme ! quelques soucis avec la highway patrol pour speeding, par contre; je me suis perdu une fois à cause de travaux, et le sheriff du coin m'a guidé pour retrouver mon chemin non sans avoir verbalisé le type que je suivais qui devais être aussi perdu que moi ^^, mais je pense qu'il l'aurait fait pour n'importe quel étranger.

[@toddvoss52]

I think someone else mentioned it, but on your next one warn them about not overreacting to the American over-friendliness (although if they are visiting NYC this won't be a problem).

[@aeolia80]

hmm, trying to think of some more for the sequel. -Each State has its own pride and culture basically, even within the State there are differences, maybe they can brush up on the culture of where they are going and not reference or lump that area with another area they may not like. -Maybe stay away from political tensions and race related issues as much as possible in conversations, even for people in the US those are very complicated issues. -Don't be annoyed with the overly friendliness of people in certain situations, it may be cultural reasons they are like that, it may be that they are trained to behave that way at work, even if you think it's fake, it may or may not be, try not to be annoyed by it and claim it's all fake niceness (my French husband experienced this for the first time in Florida, without me and on a business trip, for his first time in the US, and he complained sooooooo much when he got back, me personally, I sometimes miss it, hahaha) -Also, depending on where you are in the US and the culture there, the people you come in contact with may be overly chatty, just go with it, those people may over share, try not to overshare yourself, but try to be polite about it and if you have to go or just want to leave, just politely say "it was nice talking to you, have a good day, bye" and leave it like that. -oh!! Here's a big one that I experienced once while visiting Guam. Don't assume the phrase "the customer is always right" is actually respected in the US, it's actually seen as a bit rude if you take it to heart. Sure, customer service workers will tend to be really nice, whether it's genuine or not, whether they are getting tips or not, but don't start asking for ridiculous things and then say "well, the customer is always right". I live in Asia so it's really easy to visit Guam or Saipan from there, and since it's technically the US, I could rent a car easily and use all my US cards to pay for things. But anyways, even though the culture in Guam and Saipan are closer to that of Polynesia and/or the Philippines, on the surface it does really still feel like the US, especially Guam, so foreign tourists to those islands tend to behave in such a way that they think is US mentality, but is actually really rude, especially on the islands. I was craving Panda Express, haha, I know, we don't have it where I live and it had been a good 2 years since I had it, hahaha, and they had one at a mall in Guam once when I was there, and this foreign tourist ahead of me was yelling at the women helping him with his order and the tourist kept saying things like "this is the America ( the US, of course, Guam is definitely not America, hhahaha), the customer is always right" and after he left, even though it wasn't my fault, I apologized to the women for the way she was treated

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thank you so much for all the ideas! Love them. And also really interesting to hear how things are Guam! Sounds like it's such a mix that all "mainland" ways of thinking don't always work. Also, HUGE HUGE fan of Panda expresses Orange Chicken... hahahaha :)

[@jakeryan4545]

I really like the friendliness one, can't agree more. At first being in Eastern Europe, I thought everyone on the street didn't like me and were purposely not smiling or waving at me because they somehow knew I was American. Then when the culture was explained I thought everyone had fake "James Dean" too cool for school exteriors. Then I realized what I thought was "fake cool" was just the inverse of our "fake friendliness". Just ways that we are taught to behave, both are genuine, just different! A saying that I was always taught as kid that I try to use to explain the huge separation of the idea of friendliness vs. friends in the Midwest US, is that "Just because they aren't your friend, doesn't mean you can't be friendly towards them". Not better or worse than other places, just different!

[@toddvoss52]

@@UnintentionallyFrenchified Panda Express orange chicken is a keeper!

[@mlu007]

If you're buying alcohol for a group, send the person with ID in the store and wait in your car at the next block. It worked for me.

[@tzazella751]

working in NYC bars, I've always had some great experiences with tourists. NYC is just so huge and crazy and fun that i love seeing tourists acting like excited kids. it reminded me what a cool place i lived in. that said, dont pull the "ignorance" card when it comes to tipping restaurant/bar servers. you know youre supposed to do it, so just do it. its a system that works for us so your critique of it will never be welcome. sorry. just tip.

[@Emmanuelle-rq7fo]

Phew. Haven’t done any of that. Lolol. I used to drive in Miami never realised the road rage was this bad Lolol. I would also add Tips is a must, many European culture are not use to it. And that can frustrate some people. Taxi, waiters, beautician.......Tip tip tip. 😀

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Tips is a really good one for part 2! And i found a study on where road ragers are the worst in the US and it's apparently Miama lol. I was surprised since it's so beautiful there, you'd think people would be happier on the roads haha

[@Emmanuelle-rq7fo]

Unintentionally Frenchified yeah that is surprising. I would have thought NYC to be the worst offenders. Goes to show🤪

[@tankscrittersandurbanhomes5579]

Hi everyone. I live here in the US. Born and raised. Lol. I live in colorado. Road rage tends to be less where public transit is actually available. Yes Miami is awful. But near Denver it's not so bad. Denver has a pretty good PT system now. I've found, in my travels throughout my own country, if you're in a larger more confusing place, not knowing your way around is what makes others upset. People here are always in such a stupid hurry. Lol

[@yvescommon3543]

Hello, Quick question about the ID check when buying alcool or cigarettes: Do foreign IDs or passports do the trick, or would it be considered suspicious?

[@auroreamiami]

foreign ID not sure, but passports should really work, that's an international thing

[@yvescommon3543]

@@auroreamiami Thanks. I get it about alcool and cigarettes. On a related note, are there substances which are controlled in the U.S, but not in France? I'm thinking meds, but maybe there are other things I couldn't think of.

[@auroreamiami]

​@@yvescommon3543 You're welcome. I did not see too much difference between France and the US for medicine, but then I could be wrong. It kinda work the same, you can get the "not too strong" drugs by going straight to the "pharmacie", and for the rest, you need a doctor prescription.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

I would agree that the medecine seems to be really similar... except the price of course!

[@tankscrittersandurbanhomes5579]

We check ID for some over the counter cold medicines. Because they are used to cut cocaine and other elicit street drugs. The amount you can purchase in a time frame is limited. Otherwise any valid photo ID showing birth date should be fine.

[@amberrios5587]

I guess that I’ve lived in America my whole life that I find the rules pretty normal, but to foreigners it must look different in they’re POV.

[@billygraham9267]

So you think it's right not being allowed to take your time at the restaurant or in a coffee ? Do you think it's right to punch someone in the face just because he's closed to you in the street ? You should have seen me following strangers in the street a year ago lmao.

[@amberrios5587]

@@billygraham9267 what the fuck lol 😂

[@talkingtomgaming1384]

"Don't piss off the Americans" is probably the best advice you can recieve while traveling to the U.S.

[@frederiktappe1734]

Omg, how shall i enjoy my dinner in an US Restaurant when i always have to look at the watch or hurry ordering new food and drinks.... 😅😅😉this is uncomfortable ...I want to be relaxed there and having no stress/ tension...i am not an eating machine 😉😉

[@emmarussell4311]

“The land of cheeseburgers” Vegans: *seizure*

[@seanpule266]

Very, very accurate takes. As an American, I can relate to all of it (even if I don't do all of it/all of it anymore). 1. Personal Space clearly bothers so many people (especially women) in the United States. I must take the extra precaution of not standing too close to a woman in a checkout line in the grocery store! LOL. 2. While we can handle the self-criticism that citizens impose on the nation, something obviously rubs off the wrong way with a foreigners decide it's an invitation to do so as well. As a foreigner, keep foreign opinions on the opposite side of the ocean where you came from :) 3. PDA is fricking disgusting, I am sorry. Plenty of Americans actually do this and it creeps me the hell out. 4. Cutting the line is a thing in other countries? Yikes lol. Thought it would be a universal unspoken non-asshole rule. 5. That ID thing is so true. I found it hilarious every time I'm in a grocery store line and someone in front of me who is clearly over 30-40 has to show their ID to legitimize their age. 6. The U.S. is just massive, so rail systems are inefficient, and since cities are built for cars, even transits are uncommon since most Americans prefer to get around by car. 7. Insulting drivers is just not it in America lol. It's mainly white Americans OR soldiers. Never do it. Not worth it. Drivers act like they don't have 2 kids and a wife at home who are NOT thrilled about going to pick them up from the county jail for a fist fight over road rage.

[@serge_siskin]

Am I only one hearing "eXpecially"?

[@Jenny-tm3cm]

That’s how I say it

[@lijohnyoutube101]

How I say it, am also from midwest US. Sounds completely normal to me.

[@serge_siskin]

​@@lijohnyoutube101 Well, that's a misspelling (according to the dictionary). brians.wsu.edu/2016/05/25/expecially/

[@ninilovenana]

Honestly that portion size here in America drives me nuts. I’m a small person and they give me a 4 person meal for 3x the price. I try to order from the kids menu and sometimes they don’t let you. It’s really annoying.

[@jakeryan4545]

I will add, I have heard from international students back in college that the personal space thing can be confusing. Americans love to hug, at concerts and football games can seemingly enjoy being right on top of each other but we also like our personal space. I remember a person using the subway car example as something as really American when everyone was somehow "magically" spaced equally apart, which amused them but was 2nd nature to me. Where I live now there is a large expat population (engineers from Germany, Japan, etc. for auto industry) and at the gym it is funny because you can always tell who the expats are because the Americans space themselves perfectly on the treadmills and stretching mats, and the expats don't think anything of taking the machine next to you when there are tons of open ones if it has the best view of the tv they want to watch. If I hadn't known better from previous experience I would have thought they were into me or at least wanted to be try and start a conversation! But yeah I would say Americans are very aware and intentional about personal space, not that they can't invade your personal space, but it is intentional (good or bad), I admit it can be confusing if you not from here!

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Hahhaah I love the gym example. When i'm in the subway in Paris i'm always surprised when there are empty seats in the entire car, but someone still chooses the seat in front of me. I'm like wtf? hahaha, but it's just that personal space difference. And i agree it can be confusing with our love to hug!

[@gwillis01]

The owner of the nightclub or bar or tavern could lose their official permission to sell liquor license and AND pay a big $$$$ fine if they are caught serving someone younger than the official legal drinking age. That is why everyone is so strict about making you prove that you are of legal age to be buying or drinking alcohol. It is also very, very illegal for a person of legal drinking age to buy alcohol and then donate the product to someone who is younger than the legal drinking age a minute later. That is why the cashier is eager to check the age on the ID of the person who seems to be following you closely.

[@didierguillaumin4539]

Personal espace, it is time to think about it, isn't it ?

[@suzannelaforce6988]

From West Virginia down to Georgia and Alabama is the Bible Belt, many people being very religious Fundamental Christians, and many will talk openly about their beliefs, invite you to their church services, perhaps. I'm not from the Bible Belt and I think it's quite rude for strangers to ask me about my religious beliefs, even in a friendly way. But, it's done in the Bible Belt.

[@patchworkmermaid]

Spot On! When my kids were little, other parents would criticize us for prohibiting violent movies, video games, etc but then didn't understand why were perfectly fine having our kids see PDA, romantic movies and even a topless beach. I think the over-reliance on religion makes us ridiculous prudes.

[@wvv3758]

When I was young I didn't realised that I live in one of the most privileged countries of the world. I once had a conversation with an American girl and she just couldn't compute that I was critical towards my country. So I learned that with Americans it does not make sense to criticize their country, but also not criticize your own country. I think they assume that also foreigners are patriotic and only talk about the positive aspects of their country.

[@SCP_Bandit]

Guys just think of every state as it's own country

[@Viennafly1]

This is all super state/person dependent btw. I would definitely look at the culture of a city/state you're looking to visit. Bigger cities that are more diverse don't really abide by these. For example, I'm from a university town where certain discussions are more appropriate. You can talk all you want with me about how crap America is compared to France: I'll agree with you! But yeah in the South be careful about everything.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Yea of course, it does depend a lot on where you go and who is front of you!

[@billbrown1335]

REAL tips for visity the US: 1. If the MacDonald's has BARS ON the windows, you're in a bad bad bullet dripping part of town. 2. Bad Roads=Dangerous city. 3. NEVER EVER... Use your BLINKER on a Cali highway---all Five lanes of traffic will SPEED UP to try & make SURE you ain't going anywhere but the ditch. 4. When you HEAR the sound of Gunfire don't stop, don't drop--JUST ROLL on out to the next town. You're welcome, world 🇺🇸

[@donnahanna10565]

I just saw this video reacted to by a Brit who reacts to videos about the United States . And I was extremely upset. I'm talking about personal space I grew up in La Hollywood in Hollywood Boulevard is very busy so people expect people to be close to them they're not going to turn around and punch anyone that gets close to them. Yes if you're in a area where there is only one other person and you stand real close to them it's going to make them nervous but that's not just for Americans. You mentioned the buses I took the bus everyday and I had a schedule anytime I had to wait it was because there was a trouble on the line. You didn't mention that they could get a schedule and that there's apps that will plan their whole trip. The only thing I agreed with is yes Americans can be aggressive drivers and yes we love our flag. I like that you said it's my kid but you can't. But what really upset me was a straight-out comment you made that Americans love guns and violence. That was an irresponsible and straight out crazy thing to say. I live in Arizona which is a open carry state and I don't see people walking around with guns people who legally buy their guns know the responsibilities of gun ownership. And we love violence really! Do you think we love the riots when the anti-trump people were burning down our neighborhoods. It was irresponsible and you should either take this video down or publicly apologized for that. So people watching this I was so shocked and hurtful. So I looked over your page add I saw videos where you said eight things that America does better then France maybe I need to give you a chance. But you do owe an apology re-edit that statement out of the video can you imagine people think when they hear that statement and they don't know anything about America. We have to fight our own press because they are not real journalists anymore and that's sad. The channel I'm referring to that reviewed your video or reacted to it is L3WG Reacts and the title is Brit reacts to 8 don'ts when visiting the United States of America what they love violence!

[@suzannelaforce6988]

I've never been to Europe, so I don't know if hitch hiking around Europe is still done... But, please don't try to hitch hike in the US, --- very, very dangerous! Rent a car, take the subway or the bus in big cities, or walk. America is a very big country. From Boston to California is 4,000 miles. From Buffalo, New York to Florida is 3,000 miles. I've never heard the U.S. called 'Merica, but I find it insulting. So, don't use that term, please.

[@larryjill1894]

What I hate when I am in the US is when someone that I barely met, tells me that he/she saved my ass during WWII (none of us were even born !). I used to react and to confront them but I learnt to give up. Other stereotypes : the French surrender easily, they do not bath or shower, French women are easy, French kids drink wine for breakfast (uh ?), etc.... Wish you would make a video to debunk some of these stupid, baseless beliefs.

[@seanmathews1826]

The British, The Americans and the Canadians lost a lot of lives to drive the Germans out of France. So yeah. America played a major part in saving France in the 2nd World war. Doesn't matter if you weren't born yet. I wasn't alive during that time either but I still honor those that lost their lives that war.

[@smshh33]

Hey, People visiting the States: To offer another perspective, we're in a particularly charged time in the USA, both politically and racially. I would bet that most Black people a tourist may run into here do not feel *particularly* patriotic about America. There is a sense of dissatisfaction with many of our societal and political systems. Probably similar sentiment among many non-Black people too. The idea of "patriotism" itself has quickly evolved into a weird nationalist movement the last few years, so we (Black people, specifically) don't generally trot around with USA flags, though you'll see a lot of that in the Southern states among other groups. All that to say, if you were to speak critically of America, you may not get immediately shut down, unless you're basing your assessments on an incomplete understanding of how things work here (which is fairly likely for your average tourist of any place). As with any country, there are diverse perspectives of life depending on who you talk to, so take any advice or generalizations about Americans you hear, including mine, with a tiny grain of salt.

[@emjizone]

1:53 Oh, that's why US citizen talk loud. Distance make them shout. Quite coherent indeed.

[@lilcookievulpe5026]

I know America’s states are different from each other, but you saying Americans don’t talk about sex and like to follow the rules....... have you ever been to Florida 😂😂 ( btw I live in Florida so I’m not saying this out of nowhere 🤣 )

[@champagnethebest7532]

🤣

[@unusualattempt]

Lines make the world go round

[@edbass1424]

That’s number one!! Do not disrespect the U.S.A 🤣 hahahaha

[@suzannelaforce6988]

The United States is a cheerful country and Americans are positive. They don't complain much, especially to strangers. However, debating religion and politics, and other hot, touchy subjects for hours while drinking cup after cup of coffee is NOT a pastime in the U.S., and would be considered very rude and more than a little strange. And, many Americans are often patriotic. Some are very patriotic, which I think is pretty weird too, actually, and I was born here, --- as well as were my ancestors, hundreds of years ago. Americans are not too comfortable about public displays of affection, that's true... We still suffer from the morals of our Puritan forefathers, I'm afraid... You won't see young couples making out much on lawns of public parks in the summer. The U.S. is basically a non-smoking country. Smoking is socially inacceptable, even outside, believe it or not. I know plenty of people who won't even date a smoker. Restaurants, public buildings; many workplaces don't even allow smoking on the property apartment buildings too. Don't litter, big fines for that. In cities if your dog poops you are expected to remove the poop or you'll get a ticket. Pee on the street, even in the dark of night, will get you arrested. Practically all restaurants in the U.S. have reasonably clean restrooms, the cleanest being fast food restaurants. Speaking of food, tipping id DONE inthe U.S., where servers make way below the minimum hourly wage. Tip you beautician, maid and the man who carries your bags too. Tip your bartender and the folks at the fast food restaurant who have a tip jar on the counter. Restaurant workers are terribly underpaid in the U.S., even managers. Best food places to eat in the U.S. for reasonable great food: Perkins restaurants (turkey dinners, meatloaf, roast beef with fresh-made mashed potatoes), Cracker Barrel, especially in the South (fabulous breakfasts, - hash brown potato casserole & cheese, --- enjoy roaring fireplace in the winter) , Five Guys Burgers & Fries (fresh made burgers made quickly, toppings free, all fresh ingredients. Five Guys doesn't even have freezers) You'll notice American portions in restaurants are huge, free refills on soft drink in fast food restaurants and on coffee everywhere. Your soft drink cup will be filled with a lot of ice, unless you ask otherwise. Breakfasts in even the cheapest diners in the U.S. are usually good and hardy. I've never had a bad breakfast, --- eggs, bacon, pancakes, waffles, sausage & biscuits, Texas toast, which is extra thick slices of toast. (Perkins will bring a whole pot of coffee to your table and leave it there & a little wire thing full of assorted jams) Sales tax is charged on all purchases in stores. If you look like you're under 40 you will be asked for your I.D. when buying alcohol. In some places young adults who are with you but not buying will be asked for their I.D. too. And, if they dont have IDs you wont be able to buy your bottle. You will be asked for your ID if you buy certain types of glue at Walmart. Most Americans are delighted to meet foreigners and will be helpful and friendly, especially Midwesterners and Westerners, but not very many speak foreign languages. Try not to get sick in the U.S. Medical care in the US is expensive. Super stores like Walmart have everything, from clothes to food, etc.

[@carlgharis7948]

Something else to add about needing ID. As I've been a cashier. Yes ID anyone you are unfamiliar with who you believe to be under 40 years old. For example I said ( oh that's right you're the guy who was born in February of 1994 correct?) His response yep that's right man you remember me. So i begin to recognize people that I've seen before who I got acostom to seeing on regular basis. That being said I said be sure not to forget your ID. I know you and Linda ( my coworker) knows you however we do have new people working here also who don't know you. So it's important to have your ID if you look young and want alcohol because just because the people who were at work on say Wednesday might of seen it and recognize you a new employee who just started last week might be working on Thursday and they aren't familiar with you so they'll ask you

[@gwillis01]

U S restaurant owners are more greedy than those in Europe. They want a different butt in the seat every hour. This is called [ turning the tables quickly ] The American restaurant owner wants a party that orders $59 of food at 6 pm and a new party of different people that orders $89 of food at 7 pm and a new party of customers that orders $110 of food at 8 pm and a new party of people that orders $75 of food at 9 pm. Having four different groups of customers at the same restaurant table during the four hours that the evening meal is served is what the restaurant owner wants to make the desired amount of cash flow every night . If you want to linger for three or four hours gossiping and debating politics do it at a coffee shop after you buy a coffee and a pastry. Coffee shops like Dunkin Donuts and Starbucks are not so worried about getting a big cash flow every day.

[@Folsom92]

You are so wrong on the little comment about public transportation being not as good as Europe because of rich old white guys. It's because of how large the country is. In the large cities, public transportation isn't that bad. In rural areas, which is what most of the country really is, it would be cost prohibitive to have public transportation. Plus, we, as a culture, love our cars. Day trips are no big deal here.

[@ms4911]

Also, I would avoid talking politics in the USA; it can turn into a very heated discussion quickly. For instance, Kate mentioned "rich old white men" and Hasan Minhaj I could tell Kate was a bit of a leftist.

[@Jenny-tm3cm]

Also you will literally get thrown out of a theme park for skipping the line. Even if you paid for the day pass they will not let you in, not give you your money back 😂 just for cutting even once

[@Nezumis]

Don't use the term "'Murica". You're likely to find life will become very difficult for you. It's slowly becoming a derogatory term and used only by people who are either uneducated or looking for a fight. I've seen people tossed out of stores for using such a term.

[@wir6228]

A propos des voitures de location, comment cela se passe-t-il en cas de problème (peinture éraflée, pare choc bosselé ...) ? Les sociétés de location sont plutôt souples ou sévères ? PS : savais tu que le hamburger est d'origine ......... allemande ? ^_^

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Hello! Je savais pas du tout pour les hamburgers!! Trop marrant :) Et pour les locations de voitures, assez sévère comme toutes les locations de voiture je pense. Il faut prendre l’assurance qui couvre tout ou payer avec une carte qui couvre tout !

[@wir6228]

Merci :-) Je m'étais imaginé que cela aurait pu être un peu plus tolérant aux US. Mais bon, ce n'est pas le cas, donc US ou EU, pas de différences ^_^@@UnintentionallyFrenchified

[@vince7179]

Dans les années 90, j’avais cassé un feu arrière d’une voiture de location en reculant. Et l’agence de location a repris la voiture sans rien me dire.

[@kevinfoster6642]

Something not mentioned here .. don't show up uninvited especially someone's home or a get together you not be welcomed

[@thedavidguy01]

Are you going to talk about how Americans form orderly lines for everything in part 2?

[@ninilovenana]

It comes with compulsory schooling.

[@gwillis01]

Americans love cars and hate public transportation. Riding the bus makes people feel quite sad for you that you are too lacking in money to buy a car and the gasoline it needs to get yourself to work or the shopping center or the grocery store or anywhere else. Americans love extreme freedom of movement. They do not want be held back or restricted or constrained by bus or subway or train schedules. The train service for passengers is the most pathetic form of public transport of all. The train tables are complete works of fiction. The main question is "How late will the train be? Is it going to be thirty minutes late or three hours late?" The only trains that run on time are freight trains that haul big piles of stuff for large companies. All personal passenger trains must always yield to freight trains at all times if they happen to want to use the same stretch of track at the same time.

[@vshekar]

It’s “especially” not eckspecially.

[@ghostpiss1374]

5:44 way to instill the foreigners with stupid ideas

[@andyinpa1]

Good video. I would add that Americans general don’t talk about their sex life or how much they earn. These are both extremely private topics in the US.

[@katerinajoan257]

That outfit👌🏼

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Thanks! I picked up a new pair of baggy high wasted jeans right before confinement and have been living in them for two months! haha

[@Rachel-rs7jn]

Yeah why the hell do you look so good so soon after having a baby?? 😆

[@emjizone]

3:34 In France, butt grab in public places is considered less acceptable than hugging for hours. Depending on how it's done, it's more likely to suggest pornography, prostitution, or even sexual assault than love.

[@alinawood8338]

I'd say it would be weird if you go to a restaurant and order JUST coffee or tea and then sit for hours. They have waiters that are assigned to each table, so naturally they'd want to turn tables quickly. But if you go to a Starbucks or another coffee/tea house and hang out for hours, no one would bat an eye because they are built with that concept and atmosphere in mind (and they don't have waiters for each table counting on tips for their livelihood). Not speaking ill of a country you're going to is just plain POLITE. Just because it's different doesn't mean it's bad or good. And yes, we have something to learn from each other, and you don't have to be extatically happy to be in the US, but don't go criticizing the house you're welcomed to. That's just rude. I'd also add to the list to not assume all Americans across the country are and behave the same, just like France or Germany have their regional differences. No, most of America is not skyscrapers, nor does BBQ taste the same in Tampa and Kansas City.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

So true about coffee houses and tea houses. Those are a great option for sitting for long time! My mom used to say "don't bite the hand that feeds you." I feel like it's a similar reference to just being polite to the people that are hosting you. And thanks for the idea for part 2!

[@michelbeauloye4269]

This is pretty the same in Europe and even more because many restaurants are just closed before 11:30, between 14:00 and 18:00 (not all though). Have a good day and ... take care and stay healthy!

[@greeneyes1313]

Wow, as an American, this makes us sound very angry, uptight, and aggressive... and that is pretty spot on. Americans are very protective of their ideas, personal space, cars, rights, etc. No way would I recommend instigating an argument of any kind - especially while driving. All that said, most Americans think Europeans are "fancy" and will generally enjoy chatting with you.

[@gengis737]

When a police car ask you to stop, don't put your hand in wallet or pocket to pick your driving licence like in Europe. You may be trying to get a gun, and the policeman will grab his gun. Also if you are French don't try to discuss the law with government workers (including police and custom). They are here to apply the rule, not for reasoning on it.

[@UnintentionallyFrenchified]

Good tips! Especially the customs offers. hahahah. They can be tough!

[@twocandles1108]

More Americans should familiarize themselves with the etiquette in restaurants.