What Really Is Friendship Ft Taymesan

On this episode Toke is joined by the stunning Taymesan , they discuss what it takes to truly be a friend and maintain friendship.
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[@Waa_nne]

I can never watch any episode of TM and not learn anything, the demeanor, her love for God, she has the big sis vibe I wished for, please bring TAY back. Happy birthday TM I love you 💕❤️

[@teenahwilliams1527]

I’ll even have to rewatch some to remember the lessons .😩

[@Waa_nne]

@@teenahwilliams1527 I know right TM podcast is a manual

[@estheraddo5437]

This is what podcasts are supposed to be, not every day advising and all that ! LITERALLY THE BEST PODCAST IVE SEEN SO FAR THIS YEAR !

[@chisomo8088]

But they were giving advice tho lol

[@sylvestersommy9617]

Please tell Taymesan to bring back TeawithTay 😩😩

[@faithakpan7568]

season 2 coming soon

[@jeremiahoiko7777]

I think he's back.

[@sose9601]

Season 2 is coming. He just won a Grant from Spotify.

[@allifatimah2034]

Likeeeeee, miss him sm.

[@chidifrancisca8075]

Seriously 😢

[@tinnuola]

Toke is talking about herself and it's as if she's narrating my story about friendship. In my case though, I'm an introvert so I'm okay being alone.

[@annieotistv]

The constant factor in the conversation is God and it is so amazing.. It just shows that God is our first friend and God will always be constant with us

[@nwosisimagdalene884]

I feel same way It’s heartbreaking when I break up with my friends but when it comes with my partner, I can get over it..

[@favoured1606]

The two of you need a show together. Your conversations are always awesome.

[@ajalafavour]

I wish this episode was longer. Please bring Taymesan back for us. Too much to learn from Toke moments ❤

[@praiseadio3833]

Something about Taymesan, he will mention Jesus 😂

[@_adenike]

The best words I find that describe what both of them said is "forgiving people what hurt you but set boundaries" because the scar might still be there and getting too close can reopen the wounds afresh

[@joyjames6753]

Dear Toke makinwa, I recently read your book, and honestly I must say I was greatly inspired by the struggles of self worth, family, your past relationships and your relationship with God. As I read, I could feel and visualize the connection between a writer and a reader, through your eyes I could see what you went through and how far you've grown in your career, family and spiritual Life. Thank you so much for sharing you've created an impact in my Life path and it would always be part of my Life and through My journey. God bless you and keep winning and don't hesitate to be who you're are "on Becoming". Love JOY.

[@peacewilliams1444]

The hardest part is when a friend betray and hurt you and then start playing the F victim...they are so pathetic..great conversation T.

[@christieunakalamba7232]

TM is an evolving being. Her type doesn't get stuck in none thriving spaces. There's nothing selfish about that! I don't know why she would want otherwise. Everyone is unique. I think that's her uniqueness.

[@estherudoh5963]

definitely loved this episode, please bring taymesan back and make the episode longer

[@Ayobamidele_olufowose]

I’m beginning to get obsessed with these moments. Wow i love the spiritual side of Toke🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️

[@WhatMummyLoves]

My dear if you have 3 good friends in your life you are blessed. People can be fickle o! It’s better not to have friend than to have a bad friend or a pretender. They will make your life miserable. Also follow your intuition. If someone has positive thoughts towards you, you will know from their vibe and if it is negative you will know. If negative run o!!!! Don’t look back cuz if you follow them you will regret it.

[@levelupwithada]

I can relate to Taymesan saying his gran didn't like friendships. I always wondered why my mum and older aunties were always warning me about friendships but now I'm older, I see why. Taymesan made a lot of good points in this episode 👏 .I also understand Toke being more hurt by female friends than male friends/relationships. And yeah, friendship breakups are harder than relationship breakups. I really enjoyed this episode. ❤

[@hangoutwithfidel6624]

The bond between Toke and Tay is too glaring. It’s giving me gist buddy, amebo partner, a friend I can tell everything that happens in my life and my spiritual buddy. I love it and it’s something I share with some of my close knit friends.

[@leana6870]

Dynamic Duo, please give us more. This was everything, I didn't want this to end.

[@Princess_O]

Life is about perception. I also felt like God abandoned me at a certain point in my life which made me make some terrible mistakes, but God is faithful and even in that season He taught me a lot. It was like a journey and I felt like I prolonged that teaching journey with my perceptions. So at the point I felt like God abandoned me, He actually was trying to redirect me, but because of stubbornness and how I felt things should have gone, I was so hesitant.

[@nwosisimagdalene884]

That’s it Is the rating, when it comes with guys it’s like is expected but from the girls you deserve the most loyalty from them

[@GeeTeeUkah]

This combo is always 🔥

[@elizabethpurpose1312]

It’s the authenticity for me...!👏🏾👏🏾🗣🗣🔥

[@MrGiddyon]

When she say the things we've been through I start to wonder wetin Taymisan don been through. Love Tay. He's super fun but too emotional. He needs to thicken his skin. Bad Belle too much to dey too emotional. Tay is my favorite. He's intelligent and obviously super talented 👌👏👍

[@sylvestersommy9617]

I’m enjoying this podcast so far 😂❤❤❤

[@switxtpearlohaeri2414]

😂😂the combo is mad,I’m learning new things and I agree with the sisterhood stuff 😢I’m just like that🙊 Happy birthday TM 🎉

[@jemimajameson578]

When you sleep with someone you definitely carry their energy. Don’t ever sleep with someone if their daily energy do not match yours or if you feel something is off.

[@toyinkezia5181]

My Dad was like Taymesan grandma… he was so skeptical about friendship and I really didn’t see him with friends. Same for my mum. My mom was my dad major friend. When he died, I was scared of how she would be like because 😢… and thanks to my dad, I just have very very few friends and when I left Nigeria I was able to select my friends and know that when I smile with you doesn’t mean ya my friend, you can be an acquaintance

[@ronaldthe7th]

Toke!!!!! Just love you, And love your friendship with Tay ❤️

[@april7style]

I knew this episode with be so bomb, love the God factor. I also have a good relationship with God but cus of my Fashion side people think differently but I do not care as long as ABBA knows me I am good

[@ayodeletope3984]

I never belive TM and taymesan see this close, wow TM is funny and humble..

[@Princess_O]

I love this episode ❤ una dey make me think wella. On the matter of friendships and seasons, I feel like it’s great to have forever friendships and I have always wanted that but I can’t say I have experienced it. Now the truth of the matter is that everyone is different and God knows us in our unique ways. Some of us are too dynamic that we just need seasonal friendships really. Then there are others that need to learn how to function in a forever friendship because it teaches us a whole lot (how to tolerate, patience, approach etc). As a believer, God also teaches us to rely solely on Him, maybe that’s why He doesn’t allow some of us to experience that level of commitment.

[@toyinkezia5181]

I and my friend have been friends since WAEC siting period.. it’s been 13 years and we are now in separate continents but we still friends. In fact the picture you seeing was taken in her house 13 years ago ☺️

[@oyindamolaige5433]

Every episode i watch of this Podcast simply confirms why I have always loved TM , The way you speak your truth is so inspiring and a constant reminder that we are all humans regardless...❤❤❤

[@euniceomoolowodun344]

Bring him back ooo. Sweet, candid. Love and learned.

[@heartsandpearls239]

The first major heartache I had was from my first bestfriend in SHS. It took my first boyfriend to break my heart before I could realise that I felt this intense pain before and that was with my first bestfriend. . Friendships are deeper than m must relationships.

[@elizabethomerah6399]

Very very true,I can totally relate

[@isiomaononye]

What Toke said about energy levels is huge. It’s a big deal and sometimes, it doesn’t feel worth it when it’s not the right energy and you can always tell.

[@sandramicheal4287]

I love watching and hearing Taymesan speak. So wise, comforting, and loving in his approach. Thanks for this episode Toke.

[@kaasunsmakeup434]

I’ve always loved Toke from day one and I feel this is the most unique podcast show like …. Everyone is doing interviews this is more relaxing and entertaining big ups Toks. ♥️♥️♥️

[@courtneyokk]

This is an amazing episode. I've been struggling in my walk with God, now I know that it's my lack of effort. Can you do an episode going more in depth with Christianity..?

[@theyellownerd_]

Yes my favs 😂😂😂 Taymesan is forever a vibe ❤

[@taiwoshittabey5762]

i can remember someone said it to me in chruch that i have two life…because i try to do what make me happy by going to parties when i feel like???The way we African see religion is what i don’t understand

[@chidiogopedro5596]

This episode na amebo pro max😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ifysapphire]

This session was really loaded . Didn't know Toke had this spiritual side of her. ... Tay has always been a vibe. I don't even know where to start from. I gained a lot But my most important take home, is the fact that, Toke doesn't interview these other celebrities for what they do, but who they really are as normal people

[@thegloriaoboh]

I can relate to TM forgiving men faster than girls that are your friends 😂😂because I think the hurts cuts deeper with the girls because you don’t expect it.

[@millyibekwe4917]

I think this was the friendship talk I needed. Ayyy to bringing him back. Loved this.

[@ahmedibrahim8642]

Pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase bring #Taymesan back! Another real and animated young man whom I love to watch anytime anyday. I loved this one too OmoTOKE MAKINWA,

[@chidychyk5741]

I honestly didn't want this to stop ❤❤❤ (A) for bringing him back.

[@soniaogene5925]

I can relate with the the holy spirit intuition thing. Everyone needs to connect with God and the spirit of God. It's so sweet. My relationship with the Holy spirit exposed a friend that was betraying me at my work place. I was having issues at work not knowing my friend that I took as y sister was behind it. And the Holy spirit led me to a document that proved it cos I kept ignoring what my intuition was saying concerning her. God is good oh

[@abasilimamarachigrace1258]

I always love TM,The energy is fire. I guess your next guest is Tiwa Savage ❤

[@pweetty_Eniola...]

Aunty Toke is like me, every slight thing I'm like God i know we've not talked in a while but please don't treat me this way and He comes through for sure💜

[@franca_pabor]

Toke, this show is a blessing to me, God sent you for me, you are a blessing to me. God will scatter you with BLESSINGS, Amen. Be Happy🎉

[@sharonisah451]

HHahahha see the way una just Dey code 😅😂😅chaiii this friendship between you guys is 🔥irrespective of the age difference, this is so cool, thank you aunty T for being the absolute best at this 💕

[@oseyiese2705]

I absolutely love and needed this . I was actually out here thinking I was a weird person and had an issue with friendship and how I pick my friends .

[@LearnYorubawithIfeoluwa]

I love this….Weldone sis

[@henriettaodum299]

I can relate to a lot of what has been said. I just figured (by the power of the Holy Spirit, Amen?) that the reason most of us are more forgiving towards guys than ladies is simply because our guards are more easily let down with ladies than with guys thereby making us more susceptible to trauma from bad gossips, betrayals and toxic energy. With a guy, your intuition is always alert but with ladies, hmmm....

[@Prettycherrydazzle]

See if you love TM you be witch, I just love how she’s so conscious about her relationship and it’s just that for me 😘

[@pearle44]

I really enjoyed this episode. It wasn't what I expected, I left feeling that I need to be closer to God. Love it.

[@TheRoomWithTiwa]

I love your journey, your authenticity, your life, your story, you speaking your truth, I could totally relate 🥺 in this friendship matter. Even @25 I had always felt so unlucky with female friends cus of pass trauma at this point I think I decided to accept the life like that.. love you Toks thanks for always inspiring us , wishing you a happy 38 birthday mama love you fr

[@cynthiaokonji3196]

Love this episode and the bond between TM and Taymesan love itt♥️

[@hajabah7396]

Please bring him back for another episode I love you Toke🇸🇱🇬🇧

[@Everythingreactionswithkemi]

Toke makinwa is such a bae knowing u this deep is a pure gift u are such a sweet soul such a vibe I would love to be around TM also such a seeet soul he flows so real always ❤

[@abigailaduwe]

Happy Birthday iconic T!!! 38 yet you ate those pictures on Instagram and left no crumbs❤❤❤

[@omoboladeosinowo6889]

Absolutely enjoyed this episode! The conversation was soo natural, vulnerable, transparent and relatable

[@latonyaclemence3021]

I have 2 closes friends that we have blossom to sisterhood, God gave me the gift of friendship. never had any bad friend but i grow out of some friendship

[@jemimajameson578]

This thing was not here before. Oshe 🙌 I love that perspective and it’s very true.

[@KingViviiii]

This was a good oneeeeee. Great conversation around true friendships. ❤

[@queengreat5922]

That statement ‘we shared so much together, how could you do that to me’ lols😂 I found myself saying this over and over, friendship heartbreak will humble you, my dad gave me hint but I didn’t read the lines quickly, I love this episode☺️

[@Msolay30]

Omg! I enjoyed this so much Toke! Happy birthday Diva 🎉

[@pweetty_Eniola...]

Even people around tells me often that I don't have head for friendship 😂😂, omo being alone is a gift from God sha. Friendship is a lot honestly 😒🤌

[@Msolay30]

Aye! Pls bring him back. And yes I was doing two plus two on the Unilag friend 🤣

[@talkwithdharmie9070]

Missed this episode but here to catch up ❤️

[@queeninnocent5997]

I love this❤, bring Taymesan back again ma’am. It’s the energy from both sides for me

[@shesaprincess8851]

My favourite podcasters ❤

[@tojuirone1997]

Happy birthday toke.. more wins 🥂

[@binzo0379]

Toke is just an interesting person.she articulates herself well and its not because i agree with all she says but even in her ignorance she articulates it well.i truly didnt enjoy Taymesan contribution but i enjoyed hers.she's so aware.

[@obisesanlateefah6153]

Happy birthday TM 🎉🎉 may God continue to bless you 💕💕 love you sis

[@tovkeljames9430]

Both of you are a vibe

[@joanokan-paul8539]

I learn everytime,love you TM

[@dominicaozioma7385]

It's just Toke's demeanor for me tho 😍 ooh..i love love love it...

[@adesanyagrace8567]

I'm never missing any session, I truly love Toke Makinwa

[@theMaameamaPriscilla]

My favorite!!! I always learn something!

[@elizabethjohnson8394]

You can’t go wrong with Toke moment 😂😂😂

[@Eliel2203]

Toke please stop speaking pidgin😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you both for teaching me more because friends dun show me shege and pepper together infact I think they should be called friepper ( friends and pepper).

[@rachel8177]

😂😂 Friepper?

[@janetluxury2382]

Happy birthday Toke baby I love this episode please bring Tay back 😌😌😌😌😌😌

[@tolulopeashiru7992]

Taymesan is deep honestly ❤❤

[@Duloiam]

Happy birthday Tokstar thank u for inspiring n being u always love u, I are an inspiration ❤

[@UF.Diamond17]

This was dynamic and dimensional ❤🙌🙌📌💛

[@Obianuju-Nwankwo]

I like Taymesan alot. I'm such a huge fan

[@franca_pabor]

Ayyyyyyyyyy, bring him back o, was so sweet ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@d.s_alan]

This was a wholesome video to watch. Thank you TM and Tay for this 😍😍😍

[@Leey750]

Taymesan is always a vibe🔥🔥🔥

[@pweetty_Eniola...]

I actually felt like I'm the one with the problem in every friendship I make😹, but now I am beginning to believe that 20 children can stay together for 20 yrs

[@dawno.7390]

Happy birthday T.M 🥳 Nice moment 👍🏽

[@1Mercyyon]

I loved this so much 🥺😂😂

[@olusunmadeaanuoluwapo6615]

Happy birthday toke♥️

[@flawlesscae]

Toke is like a big sis I wish to have. Happy birthday Tokstarr

[@blessingokorafor939]

Taymesan's laughter is contagious

[@sarahisaac8299]

I really love this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@oladipoabisolabyzola6687]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOKSTAR